Author: Mandy Tan

Book Review – Skin In The Game: Unleashing Your Inner Entrepreneur to Find Love by Neely Steinberg
What comes to your head when you hear of the term “entrepreneur”? Perhaps words such as self-starter, independence, risk-taker, business-owner springs to mind. A common definition of an entrepreneur is someone who organises, manages, and assumes the risk of a business or enterprise. Neely Steinberg, dating coach and founder of TheLoveTREP, has published Skin in the Game: Unleashing Your Inner Entrepreneur to Find Love for women who want to take control of their dating life the entrepreneurial way. An entrepreneur does not necessarily have to be someone who starts a business. We are all entrepreneurs by the decisions and choices we make in life. Skin in The Game aims to help one find love, thus becoming a Love Entrepreneur or Love Trep as Steinberg puts it.

An original dating approach, Skin in The Game is divided into three parts, comprehensively covering the preparation, execution and facilitation of one’s entrepreneurial love journey. In each part, Steinberg introduces action steps and various exercises using the framework and concepts of entrepreneurship. Business tools such as the Affinity and Fishbone diagrams might be considered farfetched and irrelevant in the world of dating and relationships. However, Steinberg seamlessly ties them together with guided exercises and workshops to form a logical dating process flow.

An entrepreneurial journey isn’t without its challenges. From the very beginning, Steinberg states that Skin in The Game is “written for women who are ready for love and willing to work for it”. Everyone women has an entrepreneur spirit in her and this spirit is what Steinberg believes is able to help her enjoy and appreciate the journey towards finding love. Do not expect the path to be smooth or to get instant results such as finding a man within a few weeks of this journey. There will be failures and doubts along the way, but as Steinberg puts it:

“As long as you’re committed and have the desire to keep trying and learning so that you can make better decisions, you will be able to see your failures as purposeful steps along your journey. Often the most fulfilling things in life are ones that we have suffered for or failed at the first few times around.”

Some of the things I enjoyed while reading Skin in The Game
- The helpful side bars throughout the book which provide a guide to explain certain terms or as a form of motivation.
- Unique exercises, checklists and action steps to aid the journey
- Anecdotes and stories shared by Neely from her personal and professional experiences.
- Picking up various entrepreneur tips which can be used in all any aspect of life!
Skin in The Game is a wonderful and interesting read even at over 400 pages long, given how Neely uses the entrepreneur framework angle for a dating model. Like starting a business, the dating journey requires a lot of determination and dedication. Even after finding the person you love, the hard work doesn’t end there. Maintaining the relationship like you would do a business to keep it running is essential as well. Skin in The Game is recommended for all women. You might have already found love, or might not be ready to embark on your entrepreneur love journey just yet, but the framework presented inside will open and give you the impetus to try these new ideas and possibilities to shape your love life.

Skin in The Game: Unleashing Your Inner Entrepreneur to Find Love by Neely Steinberg is available on Amazon at $15.29 here.
January 26, 2014
Interview with erotic romance novelist Julie Shelton

Julie Shelton’s Dark Warrior

With two highly successful erotic romances novels, Loving Sarah and Owing Sarah, under her belt, Julie Shelton returns with her hotly anticipated third book, Dark Warrior. Based in Atlanta, Georgia, Julie received the Top Pick Award at Risque Reviews for Loving Sarah and is also a recipient of the EDPRESS Award for Excellence in Educational Journalism.

Due for release this January 15th 2014, I had the unique opportunity of getting to know Julie’s inspiration behind Dark Warrior and her passion for writing.

Mandy Tan: Congratulations Julie on the upcoming release of your new book Dark Warrior, as well as taking the time out to answer a few questions on SimplySxy. Please share with us about Dark Warrior and what readers can expect from it.

Julie Shelton: Thank you so much, Mandy for having me on SimplySxy. Dark Warrior is my third book to be published, but it was actually the very first book I sat down and wrote from start to finish—and that was over forty years ago! Readers can expect a thrilling story about three people who find a love so powerful, so forbidden, it places them in extreme danger and forces them to make devastating choices.

Mandy: What led you to writing Dark Warrior?

Julie: I was in college and buried in research on the Middle Ages because I wanted to graduate “With Honors” and in order to meet the requirements I had to write a paper of at least 100 pages on any subject, although the paper had to be in French, since French was my major. I had always loved the middle ages, so I decided to write my paper on life in a French castle during the 13^th century. While I was researching, taking notes on 3 x 5 index cards, one fact per card, the entire plot of Dark Warrior literally sprang into mind. I couldn’t write it down fast enough—also on 3 x 5 index cards, one sentence per card. The finished book filled two shoe boxes, which I lugged around with me for the next thirty years as I moved from place to place. When I got my first computer in 2003, Dark Warrior was the first thing I transcribed onto my word processor.

Mandy: Where did the inspiration come to begin writing erotic romance novels and what is the story behind getting your first novel Loving Sarah published?

Julie: Well, over the next thirty years, while Dark Warrior languished in its shoe boxes, I started keeping a writer’s notebook, which I carried with me everywhere, jotting down descriptions, thoughts, plot ideas, bits of conversations. You know. Everything. In the meantime, I was a children’s librarian, then a professional storyteller and puppeteer, writing children’s stories, songs, finger plays, etc. I also wrote what used to be referred to as a Gothic novel, as well as a teacher’s resource book on storytelling and making puppets.

I didn’t get the inspiration to write EROTIC romance novels until I discovered Lora Leigh, and from the first word, I. Was. Hooked. Couldn’t get enough. Started reading everything I could get my hands on, and back then, it didn’t seem like there was enough. Then I discovered BDSM. Couldn’t get enough of it! When the idea for Loving Sarah came to mind, I just sat down at the computer and started writing. I worked on it for four years, writing, polishing, editing, re-editing, etc.

Then I lost it! The entire 385-page manuscript. Wiped it clean out of my computer. I was devastated. Moped around for months, despairing of ever being able to rewrite an entire novel. And then one day I had to print something and the first page to come out of the printer was the 370^th page of Loving Sarah! The entire novel, except the last 15 pages was still in the print queue! Needless to say, I decided to finish it and send it off to a publisher ASAP.

I picked Siren because they published many of my newly-discovered favourite authors. You can imagine how thrilled I was when they said they wanted to publish it!

Mandy: What do you love most about writing erotic romance novels?

Julie: I love the deep emotional commitment and almost spiritual connection BDSM brings to a relationship. Then, of course, there’s all that wild, kinky sex, heh heh heh.

Mandy: I am sure your books have been an inspiration to many readers out there. Do you have any advice to aspiring erotic romance novelists?

Julie: Just put your butt in the chair and write. And when you’re not writing, read. Do your research.

Mandy: What are your plans after Dark Warrior and is there a fourth book in the pipeline?

Julie: There IS a fourth book in the pipeline. I am currently working on a third book about Sarah, Jesse and Adam which will explore the growing attraction between Jesse and Adam. It will be shorter than the first two. Then I’m planning books about some of Jesse and Adam’s former SEAL buddies.

Mandy: I am eagerly looking forward to reading Dark Warrior when it is out. Are you able to share an excerpt from Dark Warrior to give our readers a taste of what is to come?

Julie: I would love to share an excerpt from Dark Warrior. Just be sure to have a fan and a pitcher of ice water handy before you read it, lol.

ADULT EXCERPT

They stared at her, their hot eyes raking over her breasts, her belly, and the golden triangle of hair between her thighs. A hot flush stained her skin a delightful shade of pink, evidence of her acute state of arousal. And the fact that she was naked, while they were both still fully dressed gave her a feeling of deep disorientation. She was filled with such hunger, such love, such all-consuming need, she could barely stand.

Shivering, dry-mouthed, she watched Rolf’s expression as he reached out and touched her breasts with reverent fingers, his deeply tanned skin such a contrast to the soft creaminess of hers. His thumb rubbed across her hard little nipple and her face twisted, contorting with a mixture of love and lust so powerful, it presented more as pain than pleasure.

Spellbound, he watched his thumb dragging across her dusky nipple, his heated stare like fire brushing her skin. “By all the gods, yndling! Thou art bewitching, enchanting. Thou art perfection itself. And thy scent…” He leaned forward and inhaled deeply. “Thy scent is ravishing. Like the sweetest flower garden.” He covered her breast with his palm while his other hand stroked down her belly and cupped her mound, sliding his long fingers through the slippery furrow of her slit.

She gasped. It was almost a sob. Her body jerked and would have collapsed if Nicholas’s hands hadn’t come beneath her arms from behind and held her up.

“I can’t wait to taste thee here.” Rolf’s low voice was rough as sand, abrading her nerve endings, leaving her senses in chaos. Two wicked fingers found her weeping entrance and thrust up inside her hot, welcoming sheath.

Her throat closed on a yelp.

“That’s right, kaereste. Suck my fingers into that sweet dripping cunny of thine. Bloody Hel, thou’rt so tight! So hot. Thou art burning my fingers. I cannot wait to fuck thee with my tongue.”

She moaned, shutting her eyes helplessly.

Still fully dressed, both men walked her slowly backwards toward the bed, keeping her naked body sandwiched between them, Rolf’s hand still hard on her mound, fingers stroking in and out of her dripping cunt. “Odin’s beard, Nick, she is so wet! So hot!”

Another moan, a mangled sound, ripped from the depths of her soul. She was never going to survive this. These men were going to give her pleasure beyond anything she had ever known. Anything she had ever dreamed. Anything she had ever dared to hope—or even imagine. They were going to introduce her to a world of darkly erotic pleasure that would ultimately destroy the person she was and change her forever in ways she could not yet begin to understand. A pleasure that would awaken her body to wicked new cravings and desires that would could ultimately consume her.

And, God help her, she wanted it. She wanted it more than she had ever wanted aught in her entire life.

Still holding her under the arms, Nicholas sat on the edge of the bed, pulling her up after him, scooting backwards until he was sitting on the pillows at the head of the bed, with her sitting in the V of his thighs. His erection was a hard ridge against her spine. He leaned back against the ornately carved headboard. Rolf’s hand left her sex and she let out a whimper of disappointment.

Nicholas’s hands moved to her knees, which he lifted and spread wide, draping her legs over his powerful forearms. The scent of her arousal filled the air around them. “Christ, beloved! You smell wonderful! So sweet.”

She sighed, looking down her body at Rolf.

Having removed his baldric, with its two lethal swords, he swiftly removed the rest of his clothing and leaned on his hands at the foot of the bed, wild and barbaric, the gold earring gleaming dully in the firelight. He was the epitome of a Viking raider preparing to ravish his helpless captive.

Kathryn’s lungs seized, her eyes riveted to the primitive symbols marking his bronzed skin. The scything blades on one bicep, the Celtic knot on the other…Blessed Virgin! She’d never seen aught like them before. They made him seem completely pagan. Barbaric. He grinned and her heart stopped beating. She was suspended in time, unable to move, unable to breathe. Unable to think. She was in the grip of an arousal so intense, every part of her body was throbbing with uncontrollable lust.

Licking his lips, a gesture that had her hot juices flowing out onto the sheets, Rolf started to crawl up the mattress toward her, toward that swollen, dripping sweetness between her legs, pink and juicy and throbbing with need. He was grinning, a diabolically wicked grin that stole her breath away.

She tried to swallow but her mouth was as dry as dust. “Nicholas!” It was a squeak. A frantic cry for help. “This is going to kill me!” Rolf was still crawling up the bed, inexorably closing the distance between her old life and the ramifications of this terrifying new journey they were all embarking upon.

Nicholas was chuckling. “Only if ’tis possible to die of pleasure.” He paused. “Let him pleasure you, beloved,” Nicholas whispered in her ear. “Just lie in my arms and enjoy his mouth on you, while I watch.”

“I cannot wait to taste that beautiful little cunt,” Rolf said in a rumbling growl, his glittering eyes still holding her captive. “I have been dreaming of this since the moment I first laid eyes on thee, min skat. It has taken every ounce of discipline I’ve had not to put my hands on thee. And now I get to put my mouth on thee.” He grinned. “Life does not get any better.”

Mandy: Thank you very much for your time Julie, I wish you all the best for Dark Warrior and am sure it will be a great success.

Dark Warrior will be released on January 15th 2014. You can purchase it at www.bookstrand.com/dark-warrior. If you buy it by January 22, you get a 15% discount! For more information on Julie and her books, you can visit her website at http://www.juliesheltonauthor.com

January 13, 2014
Ask Us – Toilet Breaks

Hi Mandy

After reading about your experience on the toilet break, I wanted to try it out on several occasions but whenever that happens there’s always something that stops me. Mostly it’s the other ladies in the toilet and I start to feel self conscious. Also, how do you deal with dirty public toilets?

Jess

Hi Jess

Well, there are times when I do get the urge to pleasure myself while I am out but upon entering the toilet, the mood disappears at once due to unpleasant smells, wet floors, only available cubicle are squatting ones etc. When this happens, I just have to accept that it isn’t my day. What I have done over the years is to make a mental note on which toilets are conducive for self pleasure. With so many malls, office buildings, and hotels in town, whenever I use one and I come out of it with a good vibe, I make a mental note in case I am ever nearby and there is an urge down under. So the next time you enter a toilet, take a more detailed note of it, you never know when this might come in handy one day!

Personally, I do have a personal criteria for the toilets I go for self-pleasure as this makes me feel at ease and puts me in the mood to begin.

Firstly, they have to be well ventilated. Fans are fine, air conditioned toilets are even better. However, fans that operate according to motion sensors are a big no no. There has been an instance where the fans stopped while I was halfway through and it became rather stuffy which made me sweat even more. Not to mention the growing smell of sex in my cubicle. Hence, it is wise to always look to choose the air conditioned ones.

Secondly, paper towels at the sink. It is a surprise that even some office building toilets or malls do not provide paper towels after one washes their hands at the sink. I prefer using these towels as they do not absorb water and break as readily as toilet paper. This makes it easier to clean up after I am done.

Thirdly, this for me isn’t that important a criteria but a bonus to have. There are some toilets which have strong doors, thick walls, yellow lightings, solid toilet seats which basically give a comfortable mood setting. All these factors help in the ambience and makes it easier to climax faster.

Some turn offs or things to take note about toilets other than the ones I mentioned earlier:

Automatic flushing of urinals every few minutes. This creates an unnecessary distraction and does not help in any way even though it might sound like an explosive orgasm.

Toilets with 3 cubicles or less. Usually one will be a squatting urinal so that leaves 2. Sooner rather than later, there will be a queue from my door and endless chatter which kills my mood anyway.

Keep a small vibrator. I currently keep the Lelo Mia 2 in my handbag which is inconspicuous and comes in rather handy in times of need. I try not to use my fingers as much as I can especially when I have just gotten my nails done or when I am not going home immediately. Not really keen on having my fingers smell of sex and spending my time scrubbing away at the sink once I have finished.

When I am going at it and someone enters the one next to me and takes a dump. No matter how high I am, if the smell of crap wafts over to me or the constant farting and plopping sounds going off, I will start to think of sex. Anal sex gone wrong to be precise. Once again, the mood is lost. This also applies to an over chatty cubicle mate who is on the phone with a friend or even worse, chatting with a friend who is in the cubicle next to hers. As much as my mind can filter out stuff, I don’t like distractions when I am in the zone.

Cubicles with no door hooks or ledge to place my possessions. This makes it real tough especially if I need to put my bag or panty somewhere.

So there you go Jess, a little insight to my thoughts on having personal sexy times in public toilets. If you or any readers are interested in knowing my mental list of places on where to self pleasure, do drop me an email, I will be most glad to share them with you. Keep it to yourself though, or else the cubicles will always be occupied from now. For those who haven’t read my experience, you can read it here.

That’s all for now. Cheers!

Mandy

January 11, 2014
Breakfast in Bed

In this musing, I recall a school day that began with an unexpected breakfast.

Classes in the mornings were always tough to get up for, and it wasn’t uncommon to skip them to get more shut eye. Thankfully my classes on Thursdays were scheduled in the afternoon so I always took the opportunity to sleep in.

My ex, H, had slept over the night before which he usually did a few times each week. Him with his arm wrapped around cuddling me while we slept on our sides on the single bed. There usually wasn’t much space to manoeuvre but that was as comfortable as it got for us.  Raising my head, I stole a glance at my clock, it was half past ten. Still early, I thought to myself, and I was in no rush to leave my bed.

Turning to face H, he was soundly sleeping away in his singlet and shorts, his breathing slow and quiet. His face was close to mine, our lips barely a few centimetres away. A wild thought entered my head as I decided to surprise him with a wake up call, gently slipping my right hand onto his groin area. He never wore anything beneath his shorts to sleep so it wasn’t difficult to locate his dick under that thin material.  The warm un-erect dick was nice and easy for my hand to wrap around as I gave a slow massaged using my fingers.

H stirred ever so slightly. I knew he was responding to my touches as his dick started to grow in my hand. I was having fun, closing my eyes as if I was asleep but working my magic below. I wasn’t too aroused myself, just enjoying the moment and getting a kick out of waking him up with an erection I created. His dick was now almost fully erect, forming a tentpole like shape in his shorts, and I knew he was awake. I continued squeezing the head of his dick with my thumb and middle finger while my index finger rubbed its tip. Perhaps I should suddenly stop and leave him in this state, that will be fun.

As if he had read my mind, H pulled me close to him and removed his shorts. I was now leaning into his chest, his heart beating faster than it was as my hand had a good grasp of his erection. The tip of his dick was wet with his pre-cum which I used my fingers to lubricate and spread it down the entire shaft. Wrapping my hand around it, I made slow purposeful tugs, keeping a continuous pressure of my palm on his shaft. This was good enough to keep his erection hard but not lead to an ejaculation anytime soon.

Wearing my usual shirt and panty to bed, H’s hand had no difficulty finding its way to my breasts. As I was lying on my side with my right hand stretched south, my breasts were squeezed close together giving him a handful while he fondled both of them. Cupping one after another, his grip on each breast was firm, giving each a good squeeze followed by a pinch on the nipple. This continued for a while before he put his hand between them, stretching his hand so that the tip of his thumb and little finger touched both nipples, giving them a good finger rub. My forehead now became an object for his kisses. Soft and tender, showering small pecks as his lips found their way around, slowly moving to my nose before our lips met.  His tongue pushing its way down my mouth as I resisted its advances using mine. Our tongues danced inside our mouths furiously as if to the tune of a salsa song. Both my nipples were now as hard as his dick.

Not a single word had been uttered by either one of us the entire time but our bodies were responding to each other’s touches and we knew what the other wanted.  I felt his left leg brush up mine, using his toe to pull my panty down in one swift move exposing my bare bottom. H broke off our kiss and got onto the end of the bed for a 69, his face now feeling the heat from my pussy as he used his fingers to part my lips. My heart started beating faster, the sense of anticipation swelling between my legs for what was to come. Lying on each other’s leg with our heads in-between, I moaned as he went to work with his tongue, repeatedly giving me a long stroking licks from my swollen clit down to my pussy. That was his way of teasing me, enjoying my sweet honey juices as he lapped up every bit of it. I felt his lips gently suckling my clit, while simultaneously swirling his tongue in circles. A finger delved in me, well lubricated from my sweet juice, as it navigated its way through my inner walls, rubbing against my g-spot.

I would have moaned loud in delight with the attention I was getting but my mouth had his dick inside which muffled the moans.  His hips controlled the movement, stretching my mouth apart each time his dick went towards the back of my throat creating a gag reflex. Saliva was dripping out of my mouth as I relaxed my throat as much as possible while keeping a rhythmic breathing going with my nose. The feeling of taking it deep was different lying down sideways than in the frontal position and occasionally I would choke when the tip of his dick came into contact with the back of my throat. He pulled out for me to catch my breath a couple of times before diving in again, the shaft of his dick brushing past the base of my tongue. There was no need for any sucking to do on my part with the increasing thrusts as I gave him free rein to screw my mouth with lost abandon. My middle finger, wet from wiping my saliva, was now rimming his ass and probing furtively inside. The angle and speed at which H was thrusting made it difficult for my finger to go deep, but I was getting him there nonetheless. The pumping of his dick in my mouth was getting purposeful with intent, with the growing sound of his dick hitting against the walls of my throat with saliva in-between.

My hips were now grinding vigorously against his face knowing the final release was near. The constant clitorial and g-spot stimulation led to the inevitable as I tensed before a wave of orgasm hit me, my hips violently rocking away.  I felt my body go numb for a second or two as the energy drained from me. H was close too, with his familiar drawn out groans and relentless thrusts a strong indication. Anytime now I thought to myself, before the first bursts of warm semen shot out and hit the back of my throat, threatening to go through it. I gulped down whatever I could as more continued to spurt, mixing with my saliva and oozing from the corner of my mouth. H turned onto his back, his dick semi-erect completely wet with a mixture of saliva and the last drops of semen trickling down. I swallowed what was left in my mouth, wiping the remains from my chin and cheeks with my hand. We both lay there breathless, totally spent and exhausted after what our bodies had gone through. Thirty minutes passed before we felt our strength return.

“That was a great breakfast,” H whispered. Our first words that morning. It was indeed a great breakfast and special way to start the day.

December 13, 2013
Bucket sex list: The school staircase

My university days were probably the best of my life so far. Staying in school, having the freedom to control what I did and exploring about sex on every level imaginable. I dated guys in college but it was nothing serious, merely kissing and the occasional heavy petting. On the other hand, university was like a coming of age, most of my first time experience in any sex related act was done during those four exciting years. Losing my virginity? Check. Anal sex? Check. Sex in school toilets? Check. The list goes on.

Personally, I believe that everyone should come out with their own bucket list of sex acts to do before we are no longer capable of carrying out the deed. It was a pity that I only sat down to make this list after I graduated, hence it only contains acts which I am unable to carry out in school. Nonetheless, I had my share of escapades on the university campus and there aren’t too many regrets. Thankfully, they were all done rather discreetly and I wasn’t caught with my panties down.

My first sexual experience in public was back in Year 2 with my ex. We had been together for half a year and sexually active on a regular basis. This wasn’t really difficult as we both stayed in dorms. We both were opened with one another and often discussed our sexual fantasies which included having sex outdoors. Nonetheless, we didn’t have the guts or the opportunity never presented itself so the condom he kept in his wallet was never used. On one of the nights in term 1, the two of us were having a group discussion with three other students on a project which was due in a week. Sitting on the wooden benches at our faculty building, we spent the entire night over two laptops completing the report. My ex and I shared a laptop while the other three sat opposite us with another.

As I was the one typing away at the laptop, my ex’s hands were free and he occasionally placed them on my inner thigh, gently stroking them with the tips of his fingers as he looked at his notes and engaged the rest in their conversation. I enjoyed his touch but wasn’t too turned on by it as I was concentrating on my work. There were times when he placed his hands behind my lower back and slipped them down the back of my shorts, using his middle finger to rub along my butt crack.

It was already past midnight and the five of us were wrapping up on our work, going through the finer details to make sure all was in place. I was more or less done with my part and so began to take notice of his touches even more. Running his fingers up my inner left thigh, he slipped his middle finger through the opening of my shorts and rubbed against the outline of my pussy over the panty. Feeling a bit bolder and slightly hornier, I spread my legs wider apart. This was a cue for him to move over to my clit and I felt the tip of his finger gently going round in circles. I was starting to feel the wetness form between my legs. Looking at our other three friends, they seemed to be engrossed in their work and oblivious to what was going on under the table. What I love about this sort of teasing is the anticipation of what might follow afterwards in our dorm. His finger had not yet touched my skin and I could feel myself heating up in the cool night. Squeezing my muscles, I could feel the dampness of my panty pressing against my pussy. The fact that I was getting panty fingered in front of three oblivious friends made it all the more thrilling for me. I was fighting the urge to keep a poker face and control the rising wave of emotions building up inside me.

When I was done with my work, I turned the laptop towards their direction for them to compile our parts. With my hands now free, my left hand reached over to the boardshorts he was wearing. Because of the nature of its microfiber fabric, my fingers could easily trace the outline of his dick and boy was it hard! Holding it with my left hand, I used the tips of my index and middle finger to locate the tip of his dick and gently rubbed it up and down. It felt as if it was about to burst out of its fabric anytime. We tried to be as inconspicuous as possible, keeping our movements to a minimal and avoiding eye contact. We sat closer together, with his right and my left hand under the table while our other hands holding a piece of paper or pen and chatting with the rest.

This went on for another half an hour when we all finally wrapped up our work and called it a day. It was already 1am by then. Packing up, the two of us headed back to our dorms while the other three went in the opposite direction to theirs. We were both already horny from all the fondling that we couldn’t wait to get back. Talking dirty and hugging each other as we walked, he took the opportunity to squeeze my breasts through my spaghetti top along the journey. The school campus was deathly quiet at this time and there wasn’t a soul to be seen. Reaching the end of the building, we took the stairs down two flights to reach the main floor. The lighting on the staircase landing was dim but I could still make out the outline of the steps and walls around me. As I was in front and about to open the door towards the main road, he held me back tightly and began kissing the back of my neck. Closing my eyes, I let out a moan as I felt his lips against my neck, showering me with soft pecks as he moved my hair to one side. The kisses soon turned into licks as his tongue flicked around, like a paintbrush across a blank canvass.

Putting his arms around me, his left hand went under my top and cupped my left boob. Fondling my left nipple with his finger till it became hard, he moved from boob to boob gently caressing them and keeping my nipples constantly erect. His right hand pushed its way down my shorts and into my panty, fingering my clit and pussy hole, making me wetter. He continued kissing my neck and the top of my back, before putting his tongue in my right ear and licking it, nibbling at my ear lobe at the same time. Feeling his warm tongue and breath in my ear turned me on so much as my breathing started to get heavier. I stretched my hand behind me and began to fondle him. Tearing the velcro off his boardshorts, I took his dick out and stroked it vigorously. I could feel his precum as I played with the tip of his dick, using it to lubricate the shaft. Even though we were alone and it was quiet, there was a possibility that a fellow student or security guard might come in through the door. However, we had reached the point that getting caught was secondary to our personal needs.

We both were already horny and primed for sex. I unzipped my shorts and lowered them along with my panty while he reached into his wallet to retrieve his condom. I could feel my anticipation rising as he wore it and I lowered myself to welcome him as by arching my ass up. He reached over and grabbed my waist, in one swift move thrusting his dick into my well lubricated pussy. With both my arms against the wall, I rested my head on them and enjoyed the repeated thrusting of his dick inside me. In and out he went, with a constant rhythm. My moans and his grunts, low for fear of being too loud, were in perfect tandem with his thrusts creating a soft little echo up the stairs. I could tell that he was getting close. His breathing was heavier, quicker and he was holding me tighter against him. The same could be said for me. My eyes were closed all this while, imagining how we looked like fucking in the dark which made it look all the more sexier in my head. I started to tremble, muscles tightening as I knew that my orgasm was near.

This thrill of having sex at the bottom of the school staircase made me cum within minutes. He came not long after with one last thrust and groan, leaning into my back as I felt his dick slowly turning soft inside me. We stood like this for a couple of minutes, him resting his head on my shoulder while hugging me tightly from behind.

I felt weak in the knees as I bent to pick up my panty and shorts. My neck and ear was wet from his saliva and putting on a damp panty felt a tad uncomfortable. The staircase was stuffy and the smell of sex hung over us. It was as if we had just marked our territory, like animals in the wild. Picking up our stuff, we left the building and walked onto the main road, feeling the cool night breeze against our faces while we basked in the afterglow. This was only to be the first of many escapades I have gone on to enjoy outdoors, some not as fun, but the majority unforgettable.

November 28, 2013
An extended toilet break at work

I have been rather busy at work recently. With all the marketing consulting work to be done for various clients, coupled with many deadlines coming up due to the holiday season just round the corner, life couldn’t get any more stressful. I am sure a lot of us thinks about sex at least once during our day at work. It could be due to seeing a hot co-worker or stranger, reading something to do with sex or seeing attractive photos of people. Heck, I know of friends who think of sex the moment they are have nothing to do.

Just the other day, I was engaged in a full day meeting with a client in town. All the discussions and reviewing of strategies can be really draining, especially after lunch when my mind starts to wander and my eyelids close ever more frequently. A break was welcomed by everyone involved. Some went downstairs for a smoke, others to the pantry for drinks. I headed out for the ladies, and as a few of them were ahead of me, I went to the level below to avoid the queue.

The washroom was empty and I went for the one at the extreme corner. Sitting down, I relieved myself and looked at my watch. It was only 3:23pm and there was still another hour or two to go before we called it a day. I leaned back and closed my eyes, having a little shuteye and going back late won’t kill anyone. There was no one else in the washroom and I could hear the slow whirl of the aircon in the background keeping me company.

I was starting to get comfortable and relaxed in my position, as my right hand wandered down south. This was unlike me. Yes, I have masturbated in toilets before but that was because I was horny and there wasn’t any other place I could go. This time, I wasn’t even horny to begin with. Besides, my Lelo Mia was in my bag and I had not brought it along with me. Before I knew it, index and middle finger was already stroking my pussy. My thighs widened automatically to allow more space for my hand while my other hand stretched to lower my thong and remove it. Now my legs had more room and I was able to lower my body further and open my legs wider. Pulling my tight dress above my waist to prevent any stains, I was now ready for some self indulgence.

Putting my fingers together, I gently rubbed the area above my clit, feeling the small prickly pubic hairs that were just sprouting after I had shaved them two days ago. I let my finger glide below outside my pussy hole and spread the juices over to my clit. I was already very wet and the familiar tingling sensation was building inside me. As much as I wanted to prolong my enjoyment, I knew it was impossible or the colleagues will start looking for me. Sliding my right finger inside my pussy, I could feel my juices flowing out to my anus. My left thumb and index finger gently squeezed my clit while I continued to slide my finger as deep as I could into me. Hooking my finger, I found the spot at the top of my inner walls, and quicken my thrusts, fantasising that a dick was inside me. In my head, I had wild thoughts that I was being roughly taken from behind, with each thrust reflecting the pounding my pussy was taking. This felt like a quickie. Straight to the sex with a release as fast as possible.

Within seconds, I felt myself preparing to come. Jerking my hips, my entire body tensed up as my pussy tightened around my finger and I let out a slow moan as I let my orgasm take over. Pleasure overwhelmed me as I removed my finger slowly. Reaching for the toilet paper, I gently dabbed over my swollen clit and aching pussy which felt sensitive at every touch. Looking into the mirror to ensure that every piece of clothing was in place, my hands were soaped clean and my make up and hair was intact, I felt rejuvenated with my recent workout. I was glowing radiantly as I made my way up, glancing at my watch, only 30 minutes had passed since I left for my break. Not a bad way indeed to re-energise for the rest of the day!

November 17, 2013
My First Threesome – Part II
I held on tightly to Emma’s hand while she guided us out of the club, making our way along the deck and down the stairs back to our cabin. It was quieter now away from the club, and as we walked, I could feel a sense of excitement building. None of us spoke a word throughout. Maybe it was the anticipation but my heart was racing as we approached our cabin. Chris opened the door leading Emma and I in.

For those who have been on a cruise and stayed in the normal cabins before, you will know that it is not exactly very spacious and comfortable. Two single beds with space enough to walk in between with another hanging bed above one of them. The setting presented wasn’t unlike the threesomes I had watched or read about where there was usually a large king size bed with plenty of room for all the manoeuvring. If there is one thing I have learnt from experience, human beings are extremely adaptable to their surroundings when life presents itself with a golden opportunity for a sexual encounter.
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Chris and Emma wasted no time getting locked in a hot kiss, his hands having removed her top and bra while he played with boobs. Emma beckoned me over with her hand and I slid behind Chris, unzipping his berms as they fell onto the floor and began caressing his dick with from the outside of his boxers. Emma was moaning with delight as Chris sucked and licked her nipples. She was holding his head and pressing his face down against her boobs, her head tilted back as she soaked up the pleasure. Not wanting to miss out on the action, I took Chris’ dick out and started to play with it, stroking it faster while I rubbed by boobs against his back.

We were standing and going at this, the three of us, and our legs were starting to feel the strain. Even though Emma had since always claimed that it was her first threesome experience, she seemed like a season pro as she led the two of us through it. Moving to the bed, she laid on her back and told Chris to go down on her which he duly obliged. With that hard on he had, Chris knew that anymore of my handjob will cause him to explode soon and he needed to keep busy with something else to prolong the session for himself.

“Come over here dear,” Emma whispered to me as she took my hand and pulled me over. I moved closer to her and we started kissing. She was indeed a good kisser. It felt weird at first, kissing another girl and a good friend at that, but as I felt her tongue in her mouth, flicking and touching my tongue, the weirdness started to dissipate and I kissed her back aggressively. I was kneeling on the floor while kissing her as she lay on the bed, her right hand finding its way inside my shorts, circling the area near my clit on the panty. Emma suddenly stopped kissing and commanded me to get on top of her. I stripped off my clothes and got above her on all fours. Resting my thighs with her head in-between, I lowered my pussy and leaned forward with my hands resting on both sides. I could see Chris holding her legs apart, eating her out with his eyes closed, while moving his tongue up and down. I felt Emma’s breath against my pussy and her tongue began exploring slowly, tasting the juices and going inside occasionally. I started to grind myself against her face, trying to push my clit to where her tongue was to meet it and hint to her what I wanted. She moved her tongue around my labia, continually teasing me knowing that my clit ached for more action. When her tongue finally met my clit, I let out a long moan of satisfaction. Circling my clit, she inserted a finger (it could have been two, I wasn’t in a state to count) and thrusted slowly at the same time. I was lost in the ecstasy, enjoying the masterpiece Emma was using her tongue to draw on me while her fingers worked their magic. Her thrusts and licks started to quicken while I noticed her body was jerking to and fro. I didn’t know when it started but I looked up and saw that Chris was already inside Emma, her legs raised against his shoulders while he got up to speed. It was quite a sight I am sure, the three of us on one small bed with the room smelling of sex and sweat.

Our rhythm was metronomic, Chris pumping deep inside Emma while she licked and finger fucked me. I knew she was going to reach climax soon as her body started to convulse a little but never once did she slow down or drop her rhythm while satisfying me. What a pro, gal. She was the first to climax and letting out a shriek, pulling her hands out of my pussy and her mouth opened gasping for air in the process. Knowing Chris had not come and I was on the verge of it, I wasted no time in crawling towards him. No way was I not getting off in my first time. While Emma rolled aside, I assumed the same position she did and let him enter me. Emma and I were looked at each other while Chris upped his rhythm to a frantic pace, going as deep as he could with each thrust. Emma reached her hand over to my pussy and played with my clit at the same time, causing me to come in seconds. Chris came soon after, the exertions of the entire night taking a toll on him and he simply collapsed on the floor between the beds and just laid there staring blankly at the ceiling. He was probably extremely worn out as the condom was still on his already flaccid dick as he drifted off to sleep.

Emma and I remained on the small bed, our naked bodies touching and out faces close to each other, hair in an entire mess. The bedsheets were soaked with sweat and our juices. I could smell her, or most likely it was me I was smelling on her. Her eyes were already closed while mine were starting do so. I had just done it. My first threesome. It wasn’t like how and where I imagined my first experience would be but it definitely exceeded my expectations.
November 10, 2013
My First Threesome – Part I
Prior to my first threesome experience, the serious thought of having sex with two other people at the same time had never crossed my mind, even when I was in a relationship. I had read about it in magazines and from online material, picking up tips the experts gave on what to do to have one. However, my first threesome was unexpected and I hadn’t even planned for the moment.

Having grown close and formed strong friendships with five of the best friends one can have, three of us decided to go on a weekend cruise to nowhere during the summer break after our second year in University. As Emma and Ed were on the summer internship program, and Jake overseas for a holiday, it was just Chris, Liz and I for the two night trip.

Nothing much happened during the first night. We hit the casinos, had a few drinks and only got back to the room in the wee hours of Saturday morning after our luck had ran out at the roulette tables. By the time we awoke it was already late afternoon. We took to the main decks, soaking up the sun and enjoyed some of the facilities offered on board. It was only after dinner when we were having drinks at the dance lounge when we begun talking about sex. Sex was a subject our group freely discussed in our conversations so it was only a matter of time we talked about it during this trip.
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The conversation began light, sharing some gossips about the sexual lifestyles of some mutual friends we knew but after a few more drinks, we started sharing some fantasies we have always wanted to try but had not yet done so. I still remember Emma’s sexual fantasy of having bdsm and being gangbanged at the same time. That confession took me by surprise as I never imagined that coming from her. Chris’ was to have sex with a complete stranger while mine was to have sex in a public area.

Starting to feel a bit high from the alcohol, the three of us agreed it was a good time to start dancing. As the place wasn’t very big, we danced at the corner near where our table was located. Emma and I faced each other, moving our bodies and gripping one another’s hips with our hands. The lighting was dim and I could feel Chris behind me, rubbing his body into my back and sliding his arms around down my waists. This was starting to turn me on so much. I enjoyed the feeling of Emma in front and Chris behind me, feeling their body heat as they sandwiched me, not giving myself any room to move. Closing my eyes, I could feel hands roaming my body, couldn’t tell whose they were and it didn’t really matter as well. I felt Chris’ growing hard-on each time he pulled me back towards him while pressing his crotch against my ass. Flirting back, I grinded him slowly, wriggling my ass from side to side to tease him further. Emma on the other hand, was a serious dancer and her arms were now around my neck as she swayed her body. I spread my legs apart to allow one of hers to slide in-between mine until they touched as we danced to the music. As we were both wearing shorts, I could feel the smooth skin of her thighs brushing against mine, making me quiver with delight. Perhaps unknowingly, we were rubbing our pussies against each other which started to make me feel horny below. The thought of making out with another female never crossed my mind before but my hands somehow naturally slid behind her, caressing her tight ass as we danced.
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This went on for sometime, the three of us, oblivious to what was going around, entwined in our own world getting hornier as we danced away. Being aware that there were other customers around us, we kept some sense of control and did not go overboard with our actions. Taking things a little further, I put one of my hands behind and fondled Chris. The bulge in his berms was already huge and I could feel the outline of his dick as I grabbed it gently. Chris leaned forward to cover my actions, resting his head on my shoulder, breathing heavily into my left ear. His left hand went underneath my shirt, circling my tummy and the area just below my bra. Occasionally, I felt his hand brush against my breasts giving me a tingling sensation. Emma was so close to me that her breasts were pressing against mine. It wasn’t exactly a tit rub but I could feel my nipples harden from underneath. At this stage to be honest, I didn’t really care if I was being more aroused from Emma or Chris and my panty was already wet from all the excitement. My hands were still on Emma’s ass and from the look on her face, I could tell she was enjoying the feeling of my hands around them. Deciding to be a bit bolder, I slid my right hand down the back of her shorts, having a good feel of the lace thong she was wearing and the smooth ass cheeks of hers. I felt her tense up as I squeezed her ass and expected her to pull away but she continued as if nothing had happened. I continued playing with her ass, running my finger down her thong over her butt crack. Her hands were now playing with my hair and circling my ears, smiling at me knowing it was turning me on further.

Being in this sensual dance ritual was building the sexual tension to unbearable levels for me. There comes a point when the line is crossed and the only thing left on your mind is to release all that sexual tension. That time was now for me and I knew I had to bring the two of them back to our room. Feeling Chris’ hard dick while looking at the twinkle in Emma’s eyes as she lustily stared into mine, I knew we were in for our first threesome experience and it was going to be explosive.

To be continued…
November 3, 2013
My top 5 favourite sex positions

I love sex. And each time I have it, my aim is have an orgasm better than the previous. However, this is easier said than done. For most people, yours truly included, our first sex position was the missionary. Nothing fanciful, just good old fashioned sex and an overall enjoyable experience. The missionary is still a position I enjoy till this day but along the way, I have tried and am still trying, new sex positions to reach an orgasm. Most have been successful, while some simply never satisfied either one of us or both. For now, I share with you 5 favourite sex positions of mine. Who knows, if we do hook up one day, you will remember which one I like and get down to it.

1) Doggie Style

My all time favourite. My partner is able to go deep into me and at the same time use his hand to stimulate my clitoris. It’s the best of both worlds. Even the use of sex toys such as a bullet vibrator in this case while he does me anally allows me to enjoy double penetration at the same time. A favourite among guys as well.

2) Me on Top (Cowgirl)

All girls will love this as we are on top and in the dominant position. I control the speed and movement which actually helps to delay his orgasm. Guys will love this as they will have full view of the lady’s breasts and fondle them during intercourse. There are ways to spice this further by bending my back as far back as possible or widening my legs to feel the stretch in my pussy, giving me added sensations to the experience.

3) Wheelbarrow

When I first tried the wheelbarrow, the physical exertions of using my arms to support my body gave me aches for an entire week. Like the doggy style, the wheelbarrow allows the guy to penetrate me deeper. As my thighs are wrapped around him and he is supporting my hips, there isn’t a risk of me slipping off halfway through. And if ever I need a rest, we will adjourn to the bed or chair, and assume the same position till we both climax.

4) Standing Up

The only reason why I am fond of this position is because I can enjoy sex in the shower or when there’s a chance of a quickie outdoors. Being propped against the wall with my legs wrapped around his waist. Doing it in the air without any support is physically demanding. But if the guy is strong and able to support the lady, I can guarantee you the sex will be mind-blowing.

5) Face Off (On a chair)

I love this position as it feels very intimate when we are having sex. I sit on his lap while he is resting on the chair or bed. This allows me to get into the rhythm of the thrusts and as the tempo can be varied, we can go on for hours slowly if we intend to carry out a marathon sex session. Longest I have gone was almost two hours though. Not much of a marathon. Face-Off is also a great way to distract him from his work and have sex on the spot. Something no men can resist and only wish it happened to them more often. This happened to me more often than I wanted when I stayed in the dorm in Uni and ended up having sex halfway while studying. Some way to relief the stress eh? Oh, there’s also an added bonus of having my breasts sucked and licked while we are at it.

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November 1, 2013
5 Sex Games I Enjoy

Sex is never boring. There is a never ending variety of positions, places and fantasies to try to keep the sex exciting and enjoyable. I have always loved exploring new ways to sex things up in the bedroom (sometimes outside of it). However, there are always tried and tested games in my list of favourites which I will never tire of. As someone who appreciates sex as an art, here are 5 of my favourite sex games which I enjoy in the bedroom. Perhaps you might like to try it out one day too.

1. Tie him up

This is a nice game for girls to tease their guy in bed. It works best if there is a four post bed whereby the guy’s limbs are tied to each post. As such an opportunity is rare, tying his hands above his head and spreading his legs apart is sufficient. While he lies naked, tease him with a strip tease followed by a sensual body massage. The trick is to kiss and lick every part of his body except his penis. Enjoy watching him squirm and fidget until he is about to explode. Make him beg you for it. When you have finally given in to his repeated pleadings, control the pace by going on top of him while he is tied up. He will be straining at the leash to grab and touch you. Alternatively, remove his bonds and be prepared for wild primal sex as he unleashes all his sexed-up energy on you! Lie back, let him take over and enjoy!

2. Schools In

Men love girls in uniforms. I first got into the school uniform fantasy when I was clearing my wardrobe and found my old college uniforms. Keeping a set, I brought it back to my dorm to surprise my ex by wearing it in the room. As I had outgrown them, the shirt and skirt combi was rather tight, with the skirt high above my knees. He had this incredible look on his face when he came into my room, seeing me sitting on the chair with my legs exposed and the tight shirt pressing against my boobs. Needless to say, he went wild with delight and we made out on the spot, with my uniform on the entire time. There are also times when I enjoy playing the role of the innocent student, not knowing what to do while he gives me a lesson in sexual education 101.

3. Helloooo Nurse

This requires more a detailed uniform such as a coat and surgical gloves but nothing is impossible without a little imagination. Let your guy be the patient and settle him down onto the bed naked while he waits to be “examined”. Give him an in-depth examination of his penis and testicles while asking him if he feels anything. If he shows any signs of arousal or touches you, do not allow that and tell him to behave. You are in control so take however long you want to examine his private parts and tease him.

4. Being the boss

Take total control of him during sex. Tell him what you want and insist that he has to be 100% obedient or he will be in for a hard spanking. Do not go soft from his attempts to get out of the punishment. In fact, give it to him harder as he will secretly enjoy it. I love stimulating my guy and then stopping suddenly to spank him . This game is specially fun if there are props such as a hitting paddle, ticklers, whips blind folds and handcuffs thrown into it. Be careful not to overdo it though, I was once too excited with the whole thing that I left a mark on a guy and it took weeks to disappear.

5. Foodplay

This is a particular favourite of mine because it is so convenient and enjoyable. Placing food such as strawberries, whip cream, ice cream, chocolate syrup etc on each other’s bodies and then slowing eating them off. I especially love it when my body is covered in chocolate syrup and I get licked off clean. The sweet aroma from the food is a turn on even for those who are not into blowjobs. As this can get a little messy, do be prepared to change the bedsheets once both of you have had your fill.

October 31, 2013