Author: Mandy Tan

  • Best places I’ve enjoyed a quickie in Singapore

    Best places I’ve enjoyed a quickie in Singapore

    Some of the best sex I have experienced did not occur on a bed.  I love the passion and fire when I am horny and can dive into sex without having to wait.  Perhaps it is the risk of getting caught, or not needing to engage in foreplay or not wasting time removing each others clothes that makes quickies so exhilarating.  Ever since my maiden voyage of doing it at a dark basement staircase corner of my University faculty late at night on my way back to hall, I am always on the look out for potential quickie spots.

    Below are the best places I’ve enjoyed having a quickie most in Singapore and it is based on my experience and personal preference.   If the thought of having sex in some of these places has never crossed your mind, it is time you did so as no one can resist the thrill of doing it outside the bedroom.  Quickies are spontaneous, exciting adventures which will spice up any sex life.  Try it out and I am sure you will feel liberated and proud.  Just be sure not to get caught!

    1 – Disabled toilets

    My favourite.  It’s spacious, under-used and often very clean.  I like it that most places have them and there is an added bonus of having a sink to wash-up and mirror to straighten up at the end of it.

    2 – Cars
    Being able to drive to secluded areas, away from prying eyes and having privacy to ourselves.  Having sex in the car feels exactly like watching it in the movies.  Fast paced, primal and lots of sweat.

    3 – Cinemas

    Pick a movie that has been screening for sometime and watch the earliest show on a weekday for privacy.  Get the couple seats for the space and enjoy making out for the entire duration.  Boy do I miss the days in Uni when I had time on weekdays and tickets were much cheaper.

  • Emergency Contraceptive Pill

    I am and have always been a strong advocate for safe sex.  But I have had my fair share of breaking condoms, raw sex with internal ejaculation in the heat of passion and even the drama of locating a dislodged condom after sex.  If you happen to go through such an experience, do not panic.  Rushing to the shower and flushing your vagina with water or using your fingers to scoop the semen out is not going to help reduce the risk of pregnancy.  I have used the Emergency Pill before and it is a method we ladies can turn to in the event of such unforeseen circumstances.

    What is the Emergency Contraceptive Pill? 

    Also known as the Morning After Pill, it is a birth control pill containing high doses of the hormones Progestin.  These hormones stops or delays the release of a woman’s eggs.  When this happens, there is no egg to join with the sperm and pregnancy will not occur.  In addition, Progestin also thickens the woman’s cervical mucus which blocks the sperm and prevents it from joining the egg.  The risk of pregnancy is estimated to be reduced by 75-90%.

    When must I take the Pill? 

    As soon as possible after unprotected sex.  Usually the pills can be taken within 5 days but its effectiveness decreases as time passes.  The pills are taken in 2 doses, one immediately and the second after 12 hours.

    How do I know if it is effective? 

    The next menses cycle after taking the pill is usually earlier or later, and the flow lighter or heavier.  It is recommended to take a pregnancy test 3 weeks after taking the Emergency Pill.   See a doctor if you experience symptoms of pregnancy.

    Are there any side effects?

    Nausea is the most common side effect experienced, and in some cases, vomiting.  Other side effects include bleeding between periods, breast tenderness, dizziness, tiredness and headaches.  The side effects usually lasts for 1-2 days and anti-nausea medication is normally given to women.

    How and where can I buy them? 

    The Emergency Pill is widely available in clinics and hospitals.  In Singapore, GP clinics and gynecologists carry it.  Do note that the woman herself must consult the doctor to get a prescription for the pill.  It is not available to be bought over the counter and the man cannot buy on behalf for the lady.

    A reminder….

    This is an Emergency Pill, not an abortion pill.  As its name implies, it prevents pregnancy and does not cause an abortion.  Emergency contraception is for one time use and should not be substituted for regular birth control.

    The Emergency Pill does not protect against Sexually Transmitted Infections.  Take an STI test if there is a chance you might have gotten a sexually transmitted infection.

    Note: If you have been sexually assaulted or forced to have unprotected sex, notify the police immediately.

  • Nails

    Nails

    Meeting a guy for the first time, one of the things I will look out for are his fingernails.  Long or short, bitten or not-bitten, clean or dirty, fingernails condition are one of my top priority list of items in a guy that has the potential to be an absolute deal breaker.  How a guy looks after his personal hygiene and cleanliness determines how he can treat a girl.  And if those fingers are going places, there are certain standards which I require to be met before they are allowed any entry.

    Red Flag 1 – Long nails

    I don’t think this applies to most of the guys I know and have met.  But nonetheless, long nails are a no no.  I’ve never had a guy with long nails enter me and never will.  I can imagine the finger inside my pussy, but instead of feeling the tip of the finger rubbing against my g-spot, it will be the nail scrapping against it and my inner walls.  Not a good feeling for any lady out there.  So guys, no long nails please, you aren’t digging for gold or collecting DNA samples down below.   For girls like me with long nails, we use vibrators.

    Red Flag 2 – Dirty nails

    Need I elaborate?  I am looking for an orgasm, not a yeast infection.  Do ensure that your nails are clean and free from dirt trapped underneath the nail.

    Red Flag 3 – Bitten nails

    I had the unfortunate experience of being fingered by a guy who bit his nails regularly.  All was going smooth when we were kissing and his fingers were rubbing around my clit and the entrance of my pussy.  But when he slid his finger in me, I felt a small sharp pain as the nail poked against my skin.  Once the finger was inside, I thought it was done as I no longer felt his nail.  However, he started thrusting his finger in and out of my pussy thinking it will bring me to an orgasm.  Instead of enjoying being finger fucked, I felt as if I was having sex with a satay stick.  I was pissed off with the experience and he didn’t lucky that night.

    Short and Simple

    So guys, we girls are not looking for you to go out and do a manicure.  Keep your nails clean, short and clipped with no sharp edges, and we can assure you, the whole experience will be so much more fun.  Imagine me sucking your dick and using my teeth to scrap on the skin.  Now that’s something you won’t want to happen right?

  • My first experience giving head

    My first experience giving head

    Everyone remembers their first time of anything.  The first kiss, first fuck, first job, first embarrassment etc.  It has been more than ten years since I gave my first blow job, but the whole experience is still crystal clear in my head.  Maybe that’s because it was the first sexual activity of any kind I had done with someone else.

    I wasn’t sexually active until I started Uni.  Before that, I had gone on dates, nothing too serious, mostly involving kissing but never moving beyond first base.  At that time, the internet wasn’t filled with as much porn as it is today.  My only access to sex and porn was through VCDs which classmates and friends shared around. Most of it was hardcore American and European porn which got me wet and curious from my early teens.  I would masturbate almost every night, fantasizing of being licked and fucked, before drifting off to sleep happily.

    In Uni, everything exploded to life.  Probably it was the freedom of staying in a dorm, or all the years of self-exploration, but my sexual life awoke from its slumber and has been active ever since.  HC was a friend of Liz whom I got to know for awhile before we went clubbing as a group at China Black.  After a few drinks and shots, we began flirting with each other, dancing close, rubbing our bodies together and the sexual tension was intense throughout.

    When it was time to leave, we took a cab back to our dorms together.  During the journey back, we were french kissing and groping each other.  HC was really good with his hands and they found their way up my dress into my panty, one of them rubbing the area where my clit was and the other stroking my thighs gently.  I was so horny from the touches that my juices were flowing freely, soaking my panties and even leaking onto the seat.  I am sure the cabby was enjoying the live show we were putting on for him.  HC started to finger me, putting his middle finger inside my pussy and rubbing gently, licking my ear at the same time.  Not wanting to be heard moaning, I put my face against his shirt and forced myself to breathe heavily into it all the way back to the dorm.

    We went back to my room, didn’t bother switching on the lights and started to strip each others clothes off.   As he lay on the bed, I started to use my hands to rub his balls and gave his dick small kisses all over.  I tried to recall what went on with all the porn I had watched and started to run my tongue up and down his dick.  HC was already moaning and I decided to ramp it up further by sucking hard on the tip of his dick while my right hand moved it up and down.  My saliva was already dripping all over and I could taste some of his pre-cum.  I slowly lowered my mouth down his dick, not knowing how far I could go until I started to gag before rising again.  Even though it was my first time, I knew I was doing something right as HC’s hands were already holding my head and pulling my mouth deeper onto his dick while thrusting his butt up.  I started getting into the rhythm of the deep thrusts into my mouth as I sucked eagerly, my hands massaging his balls gently simultaneously.

    Without any warning, HC told me he was going to cum and shot his load into my mouth at the very same time.  I certainly wasn’t expecting that or the feeling of cum hitting the back of my throat and started to gag and cough.  Some of his cum that went down my throat tasted salty while the rest of it shot against my lips and chest when I had withdrew my mouth to cough.

    He said it was the best blow he had ever had but I never did tell him it was my first time.  Secretly I was surprised I enjoyed the whole experience first time round.  Sometimes, the first time tends to suck (no pun intended) before there is improvement, but as HC repeatedly told me that night, I had given one helluva blowjob.

  • Rianne S – Matryoshka

    Rianne S – Matryoshka

    “Luxury in your hands”

    The Rianne S Matryoshka vibrator simply oozes pure class and luxury. From its packaging right down to the vibe’s curvy design, the Matryoshka is one stylish sophisticated toy that raises the bar for all others to follow.  Inspired by the Russian Matryoshka dolls, I had been wanting to try it and was thrilled to be finally getting the chance to do so.

    My first impression of the Matryoshka box was that of something coming out from a jewellery store.  Removing the lid from it’s sleek purple exterior, one will find a user manual, charger, beautiful cream satin pouch, charging stand and the vibe itself.

    The Matryoshka is made of soft matte silicone, no bigger than the size of my hand, with a small top and rounded bottom.  I love simple to use vibes and the Matryoshka comes with two buttons, one to control the intensity and the other to control the vibrating patterns.

    The shape and smoothness felt fantastic when I used it on my nipples, and there is an extra tangy sensation when pressed against my clit.  Lube use is optional but it makes the silicone even smoother when applied, giving it an extra silky touch.

    Pros

    Ergonomically designed to fit comfortably in my palm, and I love the feel of its super smooth silicone rubbing against my skin.

    Being someone who loves masturbating in the shower, the Matryoshka is waterproof and can be enjoyed without any worries.  I just made sure I dried it completely before charging thereafter.

    With five different patterns and vibration modes, the Matryoshka is powerful but surprisingly quiet.  And the lid that covers it during charging makes it extremely discreet, allowing me to leave it on by bedside table without showing any hint of its real purpose.

    There is an additional travel setting to prevent any unwanted attention and with its compact size, fits nicely inside any hand carry bags.

    Cons

    Being a clitoral vibe and massager, the Matryoshka does not provide the length and pointedness for thrusting.  This will be a factor for ladies who enjoy penetration as the vibe only allows for shallow insertion.

    Before using, the Matryoshka needs to be charged for 8 hours for the first charge and thereafter can only be charged for 24 hours maximum.  Be sure to remove it from the charging station once it is complete.

    Verdict

    I highly recommend the Matryoshka for all those looking for a luxury sex toy.  For flying solo or with a partner, the Matryoshka is specially to be used for clitoral and anal stimulation as well as massaging a man’s testicles while giving oral sex.  The price is towards the high end of the sex toy market but it is definitely money worth spending.

    4.5/5

  • It’s been too long

    It’s been too long

    The weekend couldn’t come fast enough.  With the amount of articles to go through and the marketing proposals to write, sex was the last thing on my mind when the guys placed The Cone on my laptop.  “Take your time to enjoy this over the weekend, you’ll be pleasantly surprised,” they chuckled.

    It has been a while since I actually really came hard and felt truly satisfied.  All the late nights researching and working on the new project meant the alone time I had with my pussy was in the shower.  Putting the showerhead and feeling the water gush in and around while I closed my eyes for ten minutes kept me sane for the entire day.

    Perhaps tonight, when Ed finally has the time to come over and pass me the Oenotheque Rose he got from France.     The last time we had sex was two months back and that is way too long for me.  In fact, us six have not met up for a weekend rendezvous in more than a year.  With different schedules, even finding four was difficult.  Ed was always the best with his tongue compared to Jake and Chris, though Liz and Emma might beg to differ.  If ever I wanted to just lay in bed and come, I could count on Ed to give me multiple orgasms with his tongue twisters.  That’s how we called him The Tongue.  He wasn’t this good that Ed.  I remember giving him his first blow job in his dorm back when we were both freshies and he came in less than five minutes.  The first time he gave me a blow job?  Wasn’t an experience for me to remember.  Lying there, staring at the ceiling, feeling a damp piece of skin moving up and down my pussy.  Needless to say, I told him it was enough when thoughts of my school assignment filled my head and I wasn’t interested in replacing them with sex.

    Ed arrived at my place punctual as usual.  Chatted about stuff, what he and the other four have been up to recently.  Jake was the last I had sex with two weeks back and I hadn’t had a threesome in months.  Even sex craze Liz was busy with her schedule to even come over to join us.  That was when he noticed The Cone, sitting on my table and wandered over to pick it up.

    “Interesting product for you to review…” he began, as he read the description and showed me the different serving suggestions The Cone had to offer.   One that intrigued him the most was the Conelingus.

    Watching him remove the packaging and examine The Cone with great interest, I started to feel horny.  All the oppressed sexual thoughts I had put aside during my late nights came to a boil.  I needed a good fuck and I wanted it now.  There was no time for foreplay, my pussy was starting to get wet and I didn’t want to indulge in any kissing for tonight.

    Moving towards him with my pussy throbbing in excitement, Ed got the hint and placed The Cone on the floor.  “You know we both want to, and I am really thirsty right now” I whispered as my hand slid into this jeans and stroked his dick.  Unbuckling his belt and dropping his jeans, I moved faster and grabbed his dick as it sprung out from his boxers.  Holding onto his now hard dick, I began rubbing my right hand along his thick shaft while my left hand caressed and squeezed at his balls.  I removed my already soaked panty and reached towards The Cone.

  • Cascade Flow Vibrator

    Cascade Flow Vibrator

    Cascade
    Only S$199.90 at SimplySxyLife

    Cascade has definitely outdone themselves this time with the worlds FIRST ever self-lubricating vibrator.

    I have to admit that i was skeptical of its promise when the guys gave me to do review.  Does it really live up to its name?  There have been previous instances where I had to lube up my vibrator only to end up with a mess of leaky lube all over my sheets.  Or wasting precious time searching for the lube in my toy drawer.  With the Cascade Flow Vibrator, kiss your lube nightmares goodbye.

    Each Cascade Flow set comes with one lube capsule, a USB charger and hub.

    Pros

    The self-lubing vibrator of course!

    With a touch of the button, lube flows out at the end and can be smoothed down its shaft immediately for solo or partner play time.  Enough lube flows through easily and the whole experience is fuss-free, leaving me to enjoy the Flow.

    The design is a sleek and beautiful smooth silicone body that comes in nine vibration settings (three different speeds and vibrations) controlled by the click-function handle.  Going through all the settings, I liked the most intense vibration which gave me full satisfaction.

    The quality of the lube is commendable, which serves its job and is non-irritable. to my skin.

    Instructions on how to load the lube and operate the Flow were easy to follow.

    Cons

    As the novelty of this toy is the self-lubing mechanism, taking it away makes it a very ordinary vibrator.

    The various speeds and vibrations seemed to be quite similar and I wasn’t sure which I was using at times.

    The lube capsule that comes with the Flow only lasts for 30 uses of the button.  Get a spare lube in case you run out.

    Verdict

    The Flow is definitely created by a touch of genius.  With its classy design and novel function, it is perfect for all those who use lube with their toys.

    4/5

  • The Cone

    The Cone

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    “Something to add some extra variety. Plus, the orgasm mode hit the spot literally.”

    After using my trusty rabbit and magic wand for the last couple of years, I have been on the lookout for something new and unique.  The Cone is the new kid on the block which will never go out of fashion.  With its shade of pretty pink, it redefines pleasure and is pleasant on the eye.

    Pros:

    The simple design of the cone complements its user friendliness which is a joy to control.  There are 16 distinct in-built programs of vibration and 2 buttons to control its speed, power and pulsing.  To top it all off, there’s even an orgasm mode which lives up to it’s name.

    Trying it in The Clitmulator position (whereby I lie on my stomach while the tip of the cone is inside my vagina), the power and pulsing from the motor lives up to its hype.   Sitting upright with The Cone, I am able to get it in deeper and feel more intense vibrations as compared to when I lie down.

    A plus point is that it is also extremely quiet.  Something that every lady is looking for in her vibrator.

    Cons:

    It takes a little while to get used to and adjusting of The Cone up my vagina while I sit or lie down to get the ideal spot.  Users will need to find their favourite position to get the best out of The Cone.

    Bear in mind that The Cone is not waterproof and it should not never be submerged in water.

    Verdict:

    A definite game changer in the sex toy industry.  The instructions and different play positions for solo or partner use is a good guide for starters.

    Impressed with its excellent vibration modes, quietness and ease of use.  The Cone has already become a staple to my growing collection of toys.

    4.5/5 stars.