In the intimate world, an FM spanking fetish empowers the female over the male but pleases both parties. But what is a fetish, and why does it pleasure a soul?
The Definition of a Fetish
A fetish is more than a person’s preference for something. A fetish is an obsession with a particular object or activity that someone has that greatly intrigues and sexually gratifies them. This fixation erotically arouses someone, though the thing or action does not necessarily pertain to an erogenous body part. For example, shoes or feet may arouse an individual and cause them to fantasize about a sexual scenario involving those objects.
Features of a Fetish
A fetish has a psychological background. Fetishes can have roots in early childhood and conditioning before people become conscious of their sexuality. A fetish can surface during a person’s sexual development stage.
If a person develops a fetish during early childhood, it is likely the result of an experience that later becomes a coping mechanism. If a person develops a fixation through conditioning, the person has paired a neutral stimulus with something that causes arousal. For instance, a neutral stimulus can be an article of clothing, such as a hat, and the activity could be kissing. Suppose a man sees a particular cap on a woman and kisses her. This incident can result in him getting aroused every time the woman wears that hat.
The Spanking Fetish
Spanking is a form of foreplay that has arched into the fetish category as it can arouse excitement in all parties involved. As a fetish, spanking can bring mutual pleasure for the spanker or the spankee. Dominance and submission are two characteristics of the spanking fetish, and they create a framework of strength, trust, and vulnerability.
FM spanking is a subset of spanking wherein a female creates a new dynamic by exercising dominion and authority over a male. Either the female or the male can possess the fetish. If the female exhibits the obsession, she finds pleasure in spanking a male, gratifying her emotional and sexual feelings. The action gives her power over the man, but they should lovingly conduct the spanking session and keep their spirits uplifted with kisses and sweet remarks. Spanking is a sensory action that can result in injury if the FM duo does not heed how much force the female uses in spanking the male.
When a male has an FM spanking fetish, he gives his authority over to the female and lets her take charge of his body. Although the female is conducting the spanking, the male has a say as to what degree he wants her to spank him. The male can dictate when he wants the spanking to stop or the intensity to increase. However, the male does have pain tolerance, and the female needs to be mindful of signs she needs to ease her strikes, such as broken skin and bruising.
Male and female partners can perform FM spanking to spark an intimate session as foreplay. The activity is for the satisfaction of the one with the fetish. Consent is necessary regardless of who has the obsession, and the female must be aware of the area she is hitting. If she hits too far up, she could risk injuring the male’s kidneys.
After an FM spanking fetish is satisfied, upkeeping is vital to strengthening the connection between consorts while rejuvenating their physical and emotional states. Upkeeping can involve massages, quality time, and snuggling so that partners reconnect with each other on a deep level.
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