In a marriage, shared experiences, love, and challenges all play a role in keeping your connection intimate and strong. But it gets increasingly hard to create sparkling moments with each other when you have kids, jobs, and everyday worries. Funnily enough, one thing that is easier to arrange than a date night, a romantic getaway, or a crazy sex marathon is some playtime with a favorite sex toy. It doesn’t have to be big, it can definitely be discreet, and thanks to the robust functions of some of those baddies, it doesn’t require much time from 0 to a shared orgasm.
First, We Break The Sex Toy Taboo
For years, sex toys were seen as a kind of taboo subject and were surrounded by a lot of misinformation. As people become more open about sexual health and wellness, these products are finally getting the recognition they deserve. It’s becoming more common for couples to use sex toys not just for their own pleasure but together, as a romantic or bonding experience or, dare we say, exercise.
Rekindling the Spark
Over time, relationships can become so predictable that there’s less sexual excitement, even though you’re comfortable with each other. Trying out new sex toys can help bring back that passion, that spark, that desire to explore one another..
The Low/High Libido Drama
There is no escaping the fact that, in most couples, one partner usually craves more physical intimacy than the other. This misalignment creates tension, stress, and problems with self-image – like “Does he want only for sex?” or “Am I not doing a good job in bed?” which aren’t true but are very toxic.
Sex toys solve that problem very effectively and can help when one partner has more of a sex drive than the other.
Exploring Together
The world of sex toys is huge and has something to suit everyone. There’s no shortage of options when it comes to sex toys, whether you want to begin with simple vibrators or more intricate, app controlled or smart devices designed for couples.
Turn It Into Foreplay!
Some couples like to go shopping together for sex toys, either online or in a store and that experience in itself is very sensual. It’s quality time that you spend looking into each other’s dirty minds, sharing ideas and looking forward to trying out different toys.
The More You Try, The Better
Pick on, two, ten toys with a different sets of functions, try them on each others, see what works, what shape or vibration types makes your body – or bodies – click.
- Wearable Toys for Couples
C-shaped vibrators and vibrating cock rings give her plenty of clit sitmualtion while helping him last longer.
- Panty Vibrators for Date Nights
App controlled or remote controlled little discreet buddies that hide in your underwear for very naughty public outings.
Strapless strapons distribute pleasure to both partners, but, in the hetero relationship scenario, puts the man in the receiving role – which is a interesting and intimate exploration.
- Pleasure-Enhancement Toys
Butt plugs are not only cute and prepare you for anal play, but also can play a role in creating a double penetration sensations – very intense. Penis extenders, too, make him bigger and uncover a whole new horizon of sensations you can give and receive.
Try evry little thing that makes you blush – remember, the best vibrators are those that work for your body.
Your Happily Ever After Sex Toys
Bringing sex toys into your marriage is not about fixing something that’s broken – it’s about enhancing, building up, evolving. Many couples admit that introducing sex toys into their relationship was a game-changer, adding not a spark – a whole explosion to their shared sexual experiences, helping them explore their fantasies together.
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