I love sex. I’ve always been fascinated by it, and I got into porn not just to have sex, but to make art about it. I’ve always used it as a way to connect with other women. I like to say that sex is like a conversation – a human interaction that can have a lot of different meanings. I’ve never been monogamous and I’ve never been with a man. I have no interest in either.
What Turns Me On
I like getting girls off, and doing it right. I like strap-ons, fisting, group sex, public sex, and pushing extremes. I like submissive girls, butches who can give me a run for my money, and high energy experiences. I love being a porn star.
Do Ladies Satisfy Other Ladies Better?
Women are objectively more likely to get off in a lesbian encounter than a straight one. Lesbian sex has female pleasure as it’s sole focus, and much less weird cultural bullshit wrapped up in it. Plus, it’s a safer activity on many levels so it’s easier to relax.
When I fuck a girl, my whole focus is on her. I also do have a sense of what the things I do feel like – a sort of physical empathy – but mostly I pay attention to her reactions rather than what I would want myself.
Common Mistakes Men Make During Sex
Most of the complaints that I hear about men stem from men being inattentive lovers and not knowing how to touch their bodies.
Your dick matters way less to women than it does to you. Women are much, much less likely to fuck you for your dick than to fuck your dick for you. Don’t send her dick pics unless she asks, and if you do send them, make sure the energy in the pictures is “I am so turned on by you, personally” and not “I have this thing I want you to touch.” Don’t make the sex all about your dick. Make it about the connection, and use all the parts of your body as a tool to foster it.
Speaking of dicks, size isn’t the end all be all. Sure, there are size queens out there, but even for a size queen, just being hung doesn’t make you good. On the other end of the spectrum, just because you have a small dick, it doesn’t mean you can’t satisfy your partner.
If you want to have good sex with women, focus on them during sex. Pay attention to their pleasure instead of just yours. Rather than touching her boobs in a way than turns you on, touch them in a way that turns her on (which will still turn you on.) Sex is best when you’re open to learning.
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Honestly, I’ve always had a turn on for being rough before I really understood what it was I liked about it. I always wanted boyfriends to pull my hair, smack my ass, and hold me down giving head. When I would get intimate with guys, they seemed surprised by how into it I was.
What Turns Me On
Hands down, the power play. I always used to be a control freak and it leads to so much extra stress. By being able to relax, let go, and let my dominant partner take control, I found I was able to get a release by no longer having to have power and control over everything.
I am a pain slut – being hit, slapped, or bitten can lead to an intense orgasm for me, even without any genital stimulation whatsoever. I also like bondage and psychological play, as well as orgasm control and denial.
Have A Safe Word
Always make sure you go over what you want to try and what your limits are with your partner beforehand, and that you only practice with someone you trust. It’s important to pace yourself rather than jump in both feet first. Discussing a safe word or safe action (if you have a ball gag on, you can’t say it) so that your partner knows when you need to stop. A safe word can be anything, a safe action can be a repetitive head shaking to show that it’s time to stop.
The safe word or safe action means that all activity needs to stop, immediately, no questions asked. Exploring with rough sex can bring up a lot of emotions, even if you don’t expect it. Aftercare is extremely important, if not as important as the exploration itself so make sure that you feel comfortable telling your partner to hold you after or discuss things if you need it.
Always Be Comfortable Before Trying
You should never do something you aren’t comfortable with, however, taboo around certain subjects can lead to a lot of discomfort. Educate yourself on different rough sex acts from legitimate fetish sources (NOT Fifty Shades of Grey) and do some research. Knowledge is power, and by simply educating yourself on the logistics of rough sex, you may feel comfortable enough to explore it.
As I said, having a trusting partner to explore with is also extremely important. It isn’t something to try out with a stranger or someone you aren’t comfortable with because it requires open communication and trust.
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He will be able to tell that you are into it. I understand that special occasions call for special treatment, but don’t force yourself to do something you don’t want to do. If you’re not in the mood during his birthday, anniversary, holiday, etc., just have sex or cook a romantic dinner. The more you want to do it, the more he will enjoy it. After all, the goal is to BLOW his mind!
2. Talk to Him.
Tell him all the naughty things you are about to inflict on him. Same way we like for him to whisper sweet nothings in our ear, so does he. Tell him how you can’t wait to take every inch of his big, tasty, friend into your mouth. Tell him how you have been thinking about it all day and that you’re getting so wet, just thinking/talking about it. Sexy, naughty talk is a BIG turn on. If possible, send him naughty texts or emails describing all the oral naughtiness that will take place later.
3. Tease Him.
Don’t go right into the act, make him wait, possibly even beg. While you’re talking to him (see #2) make sure you are touching and caressing him everywhere, saving his friend for last. Kiss him in all the spots that get him hot and bothered. Trace your name with your tongue on his inner thigh, touching the tip of his penis ever so slightly and not often. Continue to talk to him and tell him how you can’t wait to taste every inch of him. You can make him watch you practice on a banana without him touching you or his self.
4. Bring in Others.
Do not be afraid to experiment with props. Use edible lubrications to massage his penis. This will make everything tastier and allow for more range of motion for you. It will also be very pleasurable for him. Try using a flat lollipop pressed against your inner cheek while going up & down on his shaft. Create your own version of a banana split, lots of whip cream, strawberries, and cherries. Utilize your hands and mouth. Make sure your hands are playing with his testicles and slightly caressing the perineum (the area between the anus and the testicles), while he is inside of your mouth.
5. Turn Up the Heat.
Make sure your mouth is very wet and warm. Play with temperatures. Take him into your mouth with your regular body temperature. Try drinking warm to hot tea, or even gargle with it. Then immediately draw as much of him into your mouth as possible, nice and slowly. The change in temperatures will drive him crazy. For a nice cool down, try something with mint or menthol in it. Suck on a cough drop or peppermint for a few seconds and try again. This time, take him in faster and suck faster in a fast paced rhythmic motion.
6. Change it up.
Make sure you do not repeat the same technique over and over, it gets boring quickly. If you already know that he likes it a certain way, then by all means, do it! Change the speed of your movements. Go faster for a few seconds, then slow it down a bit, keep him guessing. Try new, different positions. Instead of being on your knees, turn around and straddle him on the bed. Allow him full view of your behind, while giving him great mind blowing pleasure. You can lay flat and have him straddle you (this position allows him to be in control). Try licking and sucking at the same time. As you are sucking, move your tongue from left to right, and then up and down. If you’re the courageous type, try blowing his mind in different locations, this will give added excitement for both of you.
7. Make noise.
Don’t be quiet, let him know you are enjoying it as much as he is (you should be, he shouldn’t get all the pleasure). Moan as you massage his massive member and the testicles (don’t forget those guys). Make loud slurping noises as you suck. This will also aid you in keeping your mouth wet & moist. Vary the volume of your moans, slurping, and sucking sounds. Slurp loudly, then moan slowly, then suck slightly hard and loud, followed by gentle, quitter sucks. Kiss the length of his shaft while exaggerating the kissing sound. As you make noise, so will he.
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Is there a way to convince my partner to swallow instead of spitting out my cum after ejaculation from a blowjob?
I do not recommend that you try to “convince” your partner to do anything they do not enjoy doing. The point of sex with another person is that BOTH of you enjoy it fully. If your partner does not enjoy what you enjoy, pressuring them to do it will only erode the sexual connection as well as the relationship.
The fact that you want her to swallow even though she does not want to swallow your cum suggests a possible power struggle in your relationship. Are there other areas of the relationship where the two of you try to control the other?
Whether she swallows your cum or not will not effect your orgasm but it can effect how you feel about the sexual connection. I invite you to explore how you feel about the fact that she does not swallow. For instance, does it make you feel less loved or accepted? Or do you feel rejected by her?
If you discover any negative emotions associated with the fact that she does not swallow your cum, I recommend you share those emotions with her. Then encourage her to share her feelings about oral sex and swallowing. By exploring your feelings and her feelings, the two of you will create more emotional intimacy and more ease talking about the sex you share with each other. That could lead to more sexual experimentation which could be very enjoyable for both of you.
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Sex is the foundation of our existence. Without it none of us would be here. As I grew up, it became natural. A certain habit that I needed to feed, explore and expend. In my opinion the experimentation and search for your ultimate pleasure in this big range of possibilities is a sort of journey trough life. A lot of people don’t get this message.
Sex should be illuminating and extraordinary. It should be the highlight of your day!
Having An Orgasm At The Same Time
If sex would be a story, your orgasm would be the climax. To share this moment with a partner at the exact same moment makes it epic.
The moment I come is the moment the world stops turning. Every muscle in my body goes in an extension followed by little shakes that hit my body like earthquakes, right from my feet till the top of my head. And afterwards I fall away in this relaxed state of mind…for there is only love and peace in my mind at that moment.
When I am able to have this moment with a partner and I feel his body entering this state….It’s insane. It is this very moment of connection that you will not experience with someone else or at any another moment. Since it’s this little unique moment in time together.
Is It Achievable?
I would say that it is more complicated. During a certain moment in sex one of you needs to balance on the edge of coming, creating the time and pleasure of bringing your partner to that same moment. This is the moment you want to explode although you can’t. Since this act demands a high level of control, it is not the easy role to play.
While in masturbation you only need to control your own body. It’s all about informing each other on how far you are. So in my opinion masturbation is way easier.
How Important Is It To Come Together?
For me it makes the difference between casual and exceptional. Important it is!
Tips To Come Together!
Everybody has sex of course on his own way. But If I would have to give any advice it would be this one:
Go slow in the beginning and build it from there; from slow to fast and from soft to a bit harder. Find the rhythm that makes the two of you become one.
Search the right position, definitely when your coming to the moment of coming. To be in the right position is extremely important. You want to explode and then fall into a coma. However, this would not be possible in a position like the suspended scissors.
For this reason I would advise you to go for a position in where there is a connection, preferable a face to face position. You don’t want to miss the moment.
Depending on how well you know your partner, this will make the difference. If you know your partner quite well, you’ll probably know when he arrives at the moment of coming and in this case you may even know what buttons to push to get him/her there.
If you’re having a one-night stand, it’s like searching for something invisible in the dark. Luckily there is one golden rule to help you through; mind the breathing. When his/hers breaths become shorter and faster, you know you’re doing good and you’re probably going for to that elevating moment.
Have a nice fuck!
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I am worried of premature ejaculation and was wondering if masturbating in private before sex will help me last longer and avoid this embarrassment?
Many men do masturbate before sex in order to last longer when they are with a partner. If that works for you, then by all means please do what works. But I would also like to encourage you to stop worrying. If you have a more relaxed attitude toward sex and don’t approach it like something you need to “perform,” you are more likely to last longer and enjoy sex more.
If premature ejaculation continues to be a problem I recommend you consult with a professional sexologist who can help you explore the many possible causes and solutions. There are in fact many reasons premature ejaculation can occur. Likewise, there are many possible solutions. Even one session with a certified sexologist could provide you with the insights you need to vastly improve your sex life!
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I used to be so repressed when it came to sex. I really craved it all the time, but thought that it was shameful and hid it. Women weren’t supposed to be sex-crazed. Well, I decided that was bullshit. There is nothing wrong with being comfortable with your sexuality. Sex doesn’t have to be romantic (though romantic can be fun!), nor does it have to be serious, nor does it even need to be meaningful. It’s just something most of us enjoy, and there is no shame in that.
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Unsatisfying Sex
I feel like when someone makes it only about themselves, it’s going to be unsatisfying. And yeah, I’ve had that happen. I’ve also had sex where my partner came way too fast–or instantly, in one case. But those experiences weren’t always unsatisfying. There are other ways to satisfy me than simple PIV sex, so even if that ended early, there’s always fingering and oral!
Common Mistakes Guys Make?
Not enough foreplay! Getting hard and just wanting to pop it in without any warm up is just… unpleasant. I mean, it doesn’t always feel bad, but it’s going to be a lot hotter if you grab her, rub her clit, and slide some fingers in beforehand (and maybe some choking, slapping, and dirty talking in her ear).
Fingering is also where guys mess up! If she’s not wet yet when you’re trying to rub her, spit on your fingers (or get her spit on them). Pay attention to how her body reacts. If she’s not feeling it, change what you’re doing, and be gentle with the clit at first! What I think is super hot is not going for her pussy right away. Move your hands lower and lower while you kiss on her. Let your fingers trace her inner thighs. Build up the anticipation! Rub the outside of the panties first (if she has them on). It’s a bit gentler on the skin honestly, and it makes her crave more. See if you can soak her panties this way! Finally, when you’re ready, start exploring under the panties and slip inside her.
Make Me Orgasm Through Oral Sex!
If a guy is going to go down on me, I want to be excited. If there’s been no build up, it just feels uncomfortable (especially when it’s dry). There are a few things that can get me excited (it varies depending on the person, so keep that in mind). Be forceful with me! Grab me from behind, slap my face, choke me, grope me, rub my pussy. Pick me up and throw me on the bed, the couch, or set me atop a counter (my favorite). Push my legs apart, kiss and nibble on the insides of my thighs, and then you can go for it. Build up is everything!
When it comes to the actual oral itself, you want to start off slowly and gently. Don’t go full blast from the beginning. Slow licks encircling the clit, some gentle flicks. A few sucks here and there. You can go heavier when excitement starts to build up. And then insert a finger or two (more later) and make a pulling motion with it, a “come hither” if you will. Alternate between licking/sucking the clit and rubbing it with your thumb. See the reactions, keep doing what feels good but change it up a bit, too. Switch between a few things with good reactions. It might take awhile, so don’t put on pressure to cum.
It’s not gonna happen if you seem to be bored/annoyed at how long it’s taking. If you expect your dick sucked for however long, you can eat pussy that long, too. Also keep in mind, orgasming isn’t always the goal. It can be a great time without an orgasm. Obviously orgasms are great, but if it doesn’t happen, don’t take it as a blow to your ego.
There’s Always Orgasms From Sex…
Orgasms aren’t going to happen if you’re lying there like a limp fish grunting, sorry. How to do cowgirl right: the work isn’t all on her. Grip her hips, bounce her on you. Smack her ass, tell her how hot she looks riding you. When you’re ready, pick her up, put her in whatever position you’re craving.
One I really love is when the guy stands carrying the woman with her legs wrapped around him, his hands on her butt bouncing her on his dick. Honestly it feels amazing, but I know it takes a lot of strength and stamina so don’t feel bad if you can’t manage it! It might be easier if you pin her against the wall while you do this (which is hot in of itself).
Obviously doggy is great if she’s into it, and I think it’s pretty hard to screw up. I think it’s generally a safe bet, but ONLY doing it can be pretty boring, and sometimes it’s hard to look back and I think eye contact makes things a little more intense.
Want to know what I think is hot? Fucking her against the counter in the bathroom where the both of you can see your reflections. I’ve only done this once, actually, but it was an experience I will NEVER forget. Seriously, go for it! Just don’t feel like you have to limit yourself to pre-set positions. Try new things out!
Changing up the scenery is really fun, I think. If all you’re ever doing with your girl is fucking her on the bed, sorry, it’s going to get old. Counters, tables, bouncing her on your lap while you sit on the couch, even the floor! Shower sex can be hot if you’re VERY careful. Get one of those shower handles (or two) so you can both grip on and reduce the possibility of falls. If you can find a secluded spot, fuck outside.
Ask her what her fantasies are, tell her what yours are. What one person might be into can be so different from someone else. Talk about it beforehand. Discuss limits, ESPECIALLY if you’re doing anything kinky. Talk about it during sex itself, let her know you love hearing how she likes it and what she wants to do next. Always pay attention to facial reactions. If she doesn’t like something, chances are her face will show it. Whisper filthy things in her ear. Some women won’t like it. Again, pay attention to her facial reactions! Other women will tremble with desire from it. Really, the number one sex tip is communication! And if you cum before her, that’s fine! Ask her if she’d like it if you fingered her or went down on her. I dated a guy who didn’t last all that long, honestly, but he could still get me off and I really appreciated it. If she doesn’t want it, that’s fine, too. If she really can’t cum from penetration, rub her pussy while you fuck her or let her use a vibe. Even if she can cum from penetration, these things still feel nice.
In summary, change it up! Put effort in! And always, ALWAYS, remember that communication is key.
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Masturbation is amazing. Not only is it fun, but it’s therapeutic and healthy for you. It lifts your mood and calms anxiety, not to mention it just feels fucking amazing. I think everyone should masturbate as much as possible (and in front of hundreds of online strangers, if you’re me)
My First Masturbation Experience
I do, actually – like it was yesterday. I was 11 years old. We had this ugly as sin love seat and I used to straddle the arm of the love seat. One day I was swaying back and forth and noticed that something felt really good about it … I kept going and that was the first time I came.
After that, I used my fingers to explore every inch of my lady bits. I holed myself up in my room one day and got off 99 times in about 2 hours. I would jill off before soccer games, big tests (yes, at school). I was addicted.
What Makes Me Horny
Making out. Especially with women, but just making out in general – preferably with little to no tongue. I also love interracial porn and if you run your nails along the inside of my thighs, it’s over.
Embarrassing Masturbation Experiences
I mean, I have had people walk in on me or hear me scream really loud when I orgasm, but I wouldn’t say that I’ve had a bad or embarrassing experience. The closest thing I can think of to a “bad” experience would be a toy that I was SUPER hyped for that ended up being really shitty.
First Time Masturbation Mistakes
I know a couple of mistakes I made at first was masturbating too much, not exactly knowing where I was going down there, how to finger myself, etc. and chafing because of so much friction if you end up dry from fapping too much.
SO! My advice is: you have your clit, your pee hole and your vagina. Stick things in your vagina, not your pee hole (until you’re more experienced because yes, that is a thing).
You can never have too much spit. Keep things nice and wet down there if you’re going to town a lot.
Know when to stop fapping! If you rub your clit too much or use a Hitachi too much or really use anything too often on your clit, it will become desensitized. This leads to orgasms taking longer than the second coming of Christ to achieve, if you achieve it at all.
Go To Masturbation Toy
My Hitachi, dear heavens. I always had Hitachi like toys as I was getting into my career, but I never got the ACTUAL brand name Hitachi until about 2 years ago and it changed my everything. I can cum in just a few minutes and the orgasms are way stronger than when I use my hand.
Multiple Orgasms Through Masturbation
Yes, I can. However, I’m a little odd in the fact that I cannot orgasm by penetration alone. My clit has to be stimulated. If I’m extremely horny and have already cum at least once, I can get pretty close with penetration only, but still need an extra push.
There’s not much to my multiple orgasms. I can have between 1 and 3 from a Hitachi orgasm or I can have 1, wait a couple minutes, then begin again and have more. Remember my 99 orgasm marathon?
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Hi Steven, it’s a great pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy. Where did the inspiration come from to create the eJaculator?
Thanks for having me. The inspiration started after I turned down a $50k offer to buy my domain eJaculator dot com. I started researching what on earth could these people be wanting to do. I just knew deep in my heart that it was a hardware project. After some simple research, I saw a major gap in technological advances for male pleasure toys. With my experience in designing and manufacturing consumer electronics, I knew I had the abilities to make something amazing.
What were some of the challenges you faced during the design stage?
Sizing. To consider how everything fits from silicone, movement, motors, batteries and more. That literally took 6 months of continuous designs, redesigns, proto-types and more.
Was it tough to get the first prototype done to your expectations?
Absolutely. So our very first proto-type was in a rectangle box like shape. Our goals were simple. Test the customized motors to determine which motor was strong enough. Test the batteries and see which sizing would be best suitable and ultimately testing the silicone.
How did you find guys to test out your product during the beta phase?
So first we went to strip clubs and got immediately kicked out for facilitating customers to try out a sex toy that’s not even out yet. Then we posted a few ads online and had a handful of responses. We had a 5th tester we didn’t put in the video because at the end his mom came home, kicked us out and didn’t give him permission. The guy was like 22 or something.
How do you see the eJaculator being a game changer in the sex toy industry?
The Simplest way to put it, you wanna be with a porn star in such a hyper realistic way, then the eJaculator has you covered. Our prototypes have fulfilled that fantasy in such a manner that it’s, better than the real deal. According to some beta users it’s as if you’re there.
But to go deeper on a more fundamental level, VR as a technology when paired with our ‘what you see is what you feel’ technology is really a whole new world–even, and this is no hyperbole, a whole new possibility for humanity.
We have no doubt that the eJaculator is going to be an awesome masturbator. Is there a concern that it might replace the intimacy of sex since guys will be virtually having it and can even skip all forms of foreplay?
In all truth, this technology is not a toy but the most powerful personal development tool ever know to man, a Matrix Esque red pill that starts a race where those who aren’t “jacked in” don’t have a chance in the realm of knowledge, experience skills or survival.
In many ways, for the popular forms of what we think we are as human beings this is scary on the flip side. I have never encountered something with so much promise for so many people, my attitude for the future is nothing but 150% optimistic–the sex toy is the hook, the future of humanity and what it means to be an individual is the real game we are entering.
That is what we believe but my team and myself have been known to be overly enthusiastic at times…
Are there plans to make a model for ladies?
Most definitely. We have plans to make one for the ladies, one for the gay men community also one for the Lesbian community.
When can we order the eJaculator and expect delivery?
You can order it now on IndieGoGo through the In Demand at the 40% discount rate. We’re expecting shipment in February 2016.
Thank you for taking your time to answer our questions on SimplySxy, Steven. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
Geared up and on my motorcycle riding around town and coming to a stop at an intersection. The hot mom in the caravan looks over, you make eye contact and she smiles first. As she starts to roll down the window attempting to talk or exchange numbers you notice the light is green and no time to waste. You know she’s married and has kids but you’re not a homewrecker. The road ahead suddenly becomes more appealing. As you gear into fifth going 130+ MPH on your 1200cc of a beast. Wind hitting you in the face, passing cars as if they’re only going 20 MPH and the scenery you pass is as sexy it will ever be until, shit…was that a cop I just passed?
I’ve always been curious sexually since I was young, first started playing with myself at 8 and had sex for the first time when I was 14. I have always been surrounded by sex early on watching movies, TV, books and porn. Sex has always come natural to me but I’m always learning new and exciting things about sex and what turns me on. I’ve always been comfortable with my own body, and when you’re comfortable with yourself naked, it creates for better sex.
A Memorable Sexual Experience
Well where do I start? There are so many, where do I start! I would have to say the most memorable sexual experience would have to be when I squirted for the time all over my boyfriend. I was 19 years old and dating a more experience guy who was 25-year-old. It was the first time, that I have choked and pushed and gagged. I never knew that those would be pleasurable for me. He was fingering me while choking me, and all of sudden I squirted all over place. I was so embarrassed, all over the face that I didn’t know if I peed or not haha.
My Fingering Preferences
It’s really difficult to find a guy that can properly figure me, better than I can. My preferences are 2 to 4 fingers deep, hard and fast. His fingers are slightly hooked to hit my g-spot. The harder the better for me, with a little bit of slapping of my pussy. It never fails if a guy does it properly, and I will squirt everywhere.
Favorite Positions To Be Fingered
I’m old fashioned and like to lay down or sit down with my legs spread apart. For me fingering should be pleasurable and relaxing, no need to do anything special so close your eyes and enjoy it. In my experience being fingered in different positions, you tend to be more tense and less in the moment.
When Will He Know You Are Close?
Oh he will know haha. I’m a screamer but when I’m close to or achieving an orgasm, I moan ever so lightly and my whole body feels like I’m on vibrate mode.
Kinky Places I’ve Been Fingered
I’ve been fingered in some crazy places, I don’t know if anyone else thinks they are kinky but they are pretty wild. My number one would have to be Central Park, followed by the thanksgiving table with my family, out to dinner with my ex-boyfriends parents, bars, and in the movie theatre.
Common Mistakes Guys Make
I would have say the number 1 mistake guys make a lot is using not enough fingers. I just don’t get pleasured by 1 finger going slow inside me. They should never stop after 30 secs of fingering you, especially if you are in a public place where having sex is out of the question.
I’m a 22 year old, recently started cam modeling a few months ago on myfreecams. Outside of camming, I’m finishing my masters in media studies, part time professional ballerina, and drawing. Love to try new exciting things sexually, life, food, and talking/meeting new people. Follow me on Twitter@farfromrest1 and MyFreeCamswww.mfc.im/Farfromrest.
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