Tag: Orgasm

What She Thinks About Your Penis

My thoughts on sex, have always been one of interest and open mindness. I don’t just love sex, but I NEED sex just like any human being or animal on earth. Sex is a bond you can create with someone where it is pure bliss, comfortable atmosphere, and an instinct to reproduce. This is not something that is supposed to be evil, or should ever be frowned upon a society like we have in america. I consider sex necessary for human emotional development when you are ready and learning how to care for someone. Sex is a beautiful thing and I want to spread it around!

What Attracts Me

That he respects my time, and can hold his own in a conversation. I love a witty person, more than looks. Honestly, I will always choose personality over good looks. Why? Someone with a heart warming personality will have me thinking about them forever and will always look better in my eyes than physical attributes. Besides, I don’t agree with societies’ attraction schemes. I go off my own instincts and want to feel safe around the man I am with, and emotional safety factors into that as well.

Does Size Matter?

For my tastes, no, it has no say in my head when it comes to that. Personality is everything and when you have that, you have the best dick in the world.

Ideal Size?

For my preference, if I HAD to pick, I like an average size because I do not want to feel like I have something in my stomach, and I like a little width.

Tips To Enjoy A Dick

You can always make sex enjoyable and fun when the dick is not ideal! I love sensual touches, a man with a good mouth or someone that can take direction, and I always have my lovely mouth as well when something isn’t working out.

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September 21, 2016
Why I Love Being A Camgirl

I worked in the Thailand prostitution industry for two months, when I was 18 years old. My first sex in life was with a customer from America that I had known only for 10 minutes… I got to do things to old guys that I wish I had not done. However, I like sex… I then met a 22 year old French man who was more than a customer. He found me Chaturbate.com, learnt everything about it for me, and then explained to me how everything was working.

At first, I couldn’t believe that I would get more money from just staying on my bed ALONE. While I was having real sex for ridiculous small amounts of money. I was young. That was a mistake. Maybe. However, I love sex. And this alternative of camming is perfect for me. I get a good pay. And my boyfriend isn’t jealous and doesn’t leave me 😉

What I Love Doing On Cam

I can do almost anything. I’m very open-minded.

Personally, I love to cum. I cum a lot. I can have six or more orgasms in the same session. I’m almost always excited, everyday. Very wet. A lot of “white cream”… Guys love to see it. Many guys love different parts of me. They have different preferences. So I adapt myself with the person who is watching and what they want.

I can do almost any sexual thing, but NO dirty things. I mean, I’ll never poop on myself… so I just block those guys…

Preparing For A Cam Session

I make up for about 20 to 30 minutes before a session. I choose a sexy outfit according to my mood of the moment. Sometimes, I makeup while I’m live on cam so people start talking with me and asking questions while I’m preparing for the show.

I also set up some basic lights… a single LED bulb on my level and the ceiling lights…

That’s pretty simple 🙂

What I don’t Do

As I said, I’m very open-minded. But I don’t accept doing anything with urine or pooping on myself… Forget about eating it!!!

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September 12, 2016
How To Have Amazing Sex

Some people enjoy watching football on television, other people like reading books, I enjoy sex. I enjoy other forms of entertainment of course, but sex is fun and is there to be enjoyed and explored.

I’ve heard people take sex very seriously, and it is a very personal experience that everyone has different views about, but when you’ve met someone who you connect with and you start laughing at each other’s jokes, the sex can be amazing.

Sex is fun, and it’s there to be enjoyed. Don’t feel pressured into doing it, but don’t be scared to embrace it either. Don’t feel guilty about getting home at 7am after a night out with someone who has pushed all of your buttons in the right way, be proud that you had an amazing experience (and don’t be scared to tell your Uber driver all about it, haha).

Meeting people, whether they are strangers over an app, friends at a bar, or even if you’ve organised a meeting with a professional, it’s all about making connections. Smile, laugh, tell stories, and get to know each other. If you know each other, you’re more in sync with who they are, what they are about, and that definitely transfers into the bedroom.

Don’t get me wrong, I’ve been no stranger to a crazy night out screaming over loud music at some sexy guy before giving up and just kissing him. There are many ways you can make a connection, with the way you both dance, that look you swap from across the room; every little thing lets you know what a person is like.

Trust your feelings when you meet someone, don’t feel pressured to do anything you don’t want to do, and enjoy yourself. Many women I know don’t take the time to feel liberated with their sexuality, that they will be branded as cheap, or slutty, if they want sex. Sex is natural and nothing to be ashamed about.

Be honest with yourself, be honest with other people. Don’t be afraid of your fantasies and fetishes (if they don’t hurt anyone), and if you’re curious to try something out, there are so many people you can talk to about them these days. God bless the internet!

Most Memorable Sexual Experience

I wasn’t always this open about sex, and for many years I was terrified to try anything different or adventurous. One day I met someone who made me feel safe, and encouraged me to explore what I wanted, rather than pushing his own “sexual agenda”. It felt liberating to talk about sex and not having anyone looking at me like I was some kind of pervert. To this day I remember how scared I was doing things that now just seem so, natural?

I never saw myself as being an object of sexual attention growing up; in fact I had very few boyfriends at school. But now I found myself brave enough to attend a swingers party with my new friend, and I remember being so terrified and thinking that I was fat, ugly, the usual things that go through your head.

But for the first time, I was in a space where people were honest, open and willing to explore. I felt like a kid in a candy shop with so many people approaching me, though to this day I don’t remember the sex, but I do remember how amazing it felt to be wanted.

Since then I’ve had a lot of sexual experiences, many of them have been amazing, but the one thing that sticks in my head is that first party. The way I felt welcome, how we connected, and how everyone got along. Each memorable sexual experience since then, whether it was with a man or a woman (or several at the same time) was special because we took the time to know each other and didn’t rush into anything.

Aside from that, there was this threesome in Vegas I had with two men….wow. Sometimes you just get lucky!

Things Men Don’t Get!

Guys love sex, we get it. Sometimes I think that guys are expecting us girls to lay them on the bed, take off their pants, do a sexy little tease, and then tell them that we’re not interested anymore. Men can treat sex like a race, they rush into it because they think that their partner will suddenly cut off their “sex privileges” and leave them high-and-dry.

Either that or the guy is amazed he’s even there, and decides he’s going to make the most of the situation as fast as possible. There’s a difference between passion and urgency, so just relax guys! If your partner is standing at the end of the bed shaking a little booty at you from beneath a tiny skirt, enjoy the moment. The tease is a part of it, and it makes us feel sexy too.

One typical question I get from guys is: “Did you orgasm?” Men can think that they’ve not pleased me, or done their job, if I’ve not had an orgasm. Perhaps they feel that they’re not very good in bed? But in truth, sometimes we girls just don’t orgasm during sex. Maybe it’s performance anxiety or perhaps we only orgasm in particular ways, but that doesn’t mean we don’t like sex.

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September 7, 2016
Ways To Last Longer During Sex

To me sex is a language where the body expresses what the mind feels. Which means that the “conversation” can only be as good as the connection between the sex partners. And it’s also the only universal language anybody and everybody can understand regardless of your age and where you’re from.

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Ways To Maintain An Erection Longer

First it takes some serious stamina, the best way I found to build some is by keeping up with a serious workout routine and also prolonged fuck sessions in my personal life. The reason for that is simple, you need the muscles and core from working out but then there’s a kind of endurance that you can only build with long and sweaty sex seshs.

Eating right and taking vitamins are also big part of it since “you are what you eat”. So I would definitely recommend to have a good meal a few hours before attempting a marathon fuck session cause no one would start a road trip with only a gallon or two left in the tank and your body is no different. The choice of food and amount is different from one person to another so the best way to learn about your body is trial and error so you can figure out what works best for you.

And last but not least, the girl or girls you’re shooting the scene with can change the vibe a great deal between having an “easy day” or a long one cause ultimately it takes (at least two) to tango and there’s only so much one of the partner can do without the help of the other one(s).

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Tips To Delay Orgasms

For me there are positions where I can come pretty easily and some where it probably only happened once or twice so I would say if you feel you’re getting close trying switching position to something where it’s usually hard for you to come and go back to the easy one when you feel that it’s the right to pop.

Also it’s always nice to switch to some pussy eating / ass licking anytime during sex, either because you’re getting close to come or because you need to take a little break and the best part about that is that your partner is gonna appreciate that much more having sex with you if she can sit on your face in the middle of a pounding marathon.

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Exercise To Have More Stamina

Yeah totally, sex is a full body workout so be sure to remember that while at the gym and not skip leg day cause you need your legs just as much as anything else. So yeah, a full body workout is the best, doesn’t need to be all in one gym sesh, it can be split up during the week, it all depends of how much time you have to work out.

A good way to find a routine and track it down is to use a free app anyone can download called Bodyspace, there’s a lot of really good routines on there. One muscle group probably more important than any other one when it comes down to having sex is your core, so make sure to incorporate 10/15 minutes of core / abs at the end of every workout, it doesn’t have to be the same exercises all the time, switch it up, make it fun!

And for that, planking is probably the best core / abs exercise you can do. Alternate front plank with side plank on each side, use a timer, you can start with only 15 seconds segments and build up from there, try to not take any break and do a few sets of front, left, right back to back so you can feel the burn!

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Sex Positions To Last Longer

I think for guys in general, it’s always good to alternate positions where the guy is doing most of the work with positions where the girl is doing more, so you can have a little bit of that push / pull dynamic. So for example, doing doggy then cow girl then missionary then reverse cow girl… Spoon is also a good one to start slowly or to take it a little easy in the middle if both partners need a little breather, but for that as I mentioned earlier, you can also do a little pussy eating or 69. Once again, all that really depends on both partners preferences and I think the key to any fun fuck session is the level of communication and understanding between the sex partners cause ultimately everybody is in the same team and the goal is for everybody to come!

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August 23, 2016
How To Satisfy A Woman In Bed

What are my personal views on sex? I think it’s really fun! This lighthearted sort of view stems from the idea that if any one of us lives long enough, it will/does stop being fun at some point. This is probably true for women sooner than it is for men, very generally speaking. So that’s why I think: Have the fun while you can!

While it’s immensely pleasurable, sex is also a very primal thing. Maybe that’s why it’s a topic that evokes a lot of curiosity, while also being somewhat uncomfortable to talk about. The curiosity can be a bit one-sided, meaning, while it may be natural for others to be very curious about other people’s sexual affairs, many value privacy with regard to their own sexual escapades.

I think that in one’s sexual adventures as fun, one should consider a few important elements. Respect, empathy and common-sense are the few that I can think of at the moment. Respect – meaning respecting your sex partner via investment of time, effort and/or so on and also, being sensitive to your partner’s boundaries. Empathy is important because sex is one of the states in which one is most vulnerable.

A sexual dynamic, whether one is the recipient or provider of sex, invites for the opportunity to dehumanize and abuse the other party. Empathy is important to counter that risk. Common-sense refers to staying/playing safe, and going to the doctor to ensure one’s health for one’s sake, as well as his/her past, present, future partners.

My Turn Ons

I’m not someone who requires physical perfection to be attracted to someone. Rather, I am someone who sees beauty in imperfection because I feel as though imperfection is the very thing that makes us all human. As a general rule, I like older men, and always have. As far as more specifics as to what I find attractive, I think it’s difficult to know what really turns me on until I see it and experience it. It’s almost as though I have to try it to know if I like it!

Sometimes, the attraction is purely physical and immediate. I see someone across the room and go “wow”. Maybe it’s something about his lips, hair, or as he walks closer, the way that he smells. Then ensues the slight discomfort of anticipation of what may unfold. As he gets closer, the space between us feels like pressure inside a champagne bottle waiting for it’s cork to be popped. Sometimes the attraction is more elusive. Maybe it’s something about the sound of his voice; or, the deliberate yet gentle way he glides across the room; or, the way his hands slide down my back in an embrace. Other times, the attraction begins as cerebral-like, for instance, after a thoughtful conversation. In that case, it is the intellect which serves as a sexual catalyst.

As you can see, there are more than one ways to become aroused. Generally, I’m not someone that finds it difficult to become excited about having fun! Most important thing is: Just be a nice guy.

Foreplay Mistakes Men Make

One of the most obvious mistakes is foregoing foreplay entirely. Of course, this only applies to guys who are overly eager and/or inexperienced. What I need the guy to do exactly, as part of foreplay, depends on where we are and how much time we’ve allotted to our fun. If the act is completely spontaneous, no foreplay may be required at all. In that case, we may be both already so thoroughly in the moment and excited by the prospect of the act to even remember foreplay as a requirement.

Otherwise, being the very tactile person that I am, touch is usually a good start. It can include the more obviously erotic areas such as what’s in between a lady’s legs, or the more erogenous zones like the back and neck. Caresses, fingering, or kissing are good options. Some women also like toys as part of foreplay. And then, there is also 69/mutual oral which some might find especially fun!

As for the breasts, as much as my partner is enthusiastically willing to provide is fine with me. I don’t have any specific breast play that I favor.

Ready For More!

Whether or not I require oral depends on how much time my partner and I allotted to the experience. Sometimes the circumstance is simply not conducive to making oral sex a priority before penetration. So with that said, from experience, I know that I can definitely go without. Penetration usually happens as a natural course of things. Sometimes, the partner asks outright. Other times, the partner intuitively knows when to put it in, as much as he knows as to where.

At this point in my sexual adventures, I think I’ve graduated to liking various styles of sexual positions. It all depends on the circumstance.

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August 22, 2016
How To Finger A Girl

My hands are my major sex organ. Human hands are capable of both finesse and power. I don’t approach “fingering” as some lower level sex act, but as fucking. My advice comes from a sample size of about 3500 women. No two women are the same, but they are similar. The actions that feel good fall within a range.

Be Attentive

Use your fingers to feel your partner’s body, eventually making your way to her pussy. Pay attention to the flow of blood into her lips, the pace of her heart, her breathing, her voice. Gauge her reactions, and proceed with what feels good. Most girls either want to be stroked vertically up and down the length of the clit, have her clit rubbed back and forth, or in circles.

I will sometimes ask a girl which of these things feel better. Don’t be afraid to ask questions in bed. One of the easiest ways I’ve found to get a woman off is to hold her from the back, kissing her or looking at her or kissing her neck, using one hand to rub her clit and the other to touch her breasts or another erogenous zone. From this position, you can touch her as she might touch herself.

How To Enter Her

If you want to use penetration, feel the entrance of the vagina. If she reacts well, put your fingers in. I tend to start with two, but with some partners one is more appropriate. If you’re inexperienced, start with one. Starting with more than two is an an advanced move and I don’t recommend using it without a lot of practice. Use firm pressure, but not necessarily hard. Direct your energy into your finger(s).

Many women like it when you curve your fingers toward her abdomen and feel for an area that feels sort of spongy (the“G Spot”) and then fuck that. Stroke in and out, but with that spot as the target, increasing your speed as her arousal increases. The vagina expands with arousal. When you start to feel a space inside, you can add more girth (fingers). The reason I’ve put my fist inside so many girls is that I know how to read this sequence.

Step It Up

Look at your partner. Pay attention to her. Fuck faster and harder when she’s ready, not when you are. Most women do like to get fucked – they just want to be fucked right. You have better control with your hands, so not only can you pleasure your partner you can learn skills that you can transfer to intercourse. Have fun and treat your partner with love.

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July 29, 2016
Try A Prostate Massage For Powerful Male Orgasms

My once conventional views on sex have definitely been altered since becoming a sex worker. Once an underutilized tool, it now stands central to my business. Sex is more than the process of intercourse. For me it encapsulates an entire myriad of stages, from the tiniest of details during preparation, the development of anticipation and the unfolding of foreplay. I’ve just made it sound all so mechanical, but I assure you I savor every element.

What Is A Prostate Massage

The male prostate gland is the like the female G-spot for men. It’s sometimes called the P-spot. Stimulating the prostate can give (some) men intense pleasure. It’s not for all men though, and sometimes it takes a little practice. I prefer using my index or middle finger when massaging, as I can feel for the correct spot and know how much pressure I’m giving. Alternatively I use anal toys, vibrators and strap-ons too.

Why Men Love It

It’s another level of sensation. Not having my own prostate, though I can only compare to anal play on myself, a pleasurable yet more intense feeling than vaginal play. Prostate massages are often an accompaniment to a hand-job or blowjob, and results in a heightened experience. For those men who haven’t tried a prostate massage yet, or who are apprehensive about it, I would suggest having your perineum massaged. This area between your package and your anus responds well to gentle and firm massages. Often while giving a blowjob, I will caress the perineum with my thumb, and the reactions are nearly always positive. In other cases the man has no idea what I’m doing, they just know it feels good!

One Thing To Do Before A Prostate Massage

It seems obvious, but use the toilet before you plan on receiving prostate massage. Then a good clean is appreciated. You can place a condom or glove on your finger and insert it into the anus, swirling it around to remove any ‘debris’. Have a hot, soapy shower and wipe down the area thoroughly.

Why I Love Giving Prostate Massages

I’ve never thought about the answer to this question in such detail. Usually, it’s because I enjoy watching the fierce pleasure the man receives. I guess it also has something to do with it not being mainstream for a lot of men, as it’s something a little different. I enjoy being the one to take a man’s ‘anal virginity’. It’s about having that power and watching them relish in the experience, they’re almost vulnerable in a way.

On To The Deed!

No matter if the gentlemen I’m offering a prostate massage to is experienced or not, I would start of slow, with lots of gentle touching and rubbing of the sphincter. Of course with plenty of lube! The more the anus is aroused the easier it is to insert a finger. I would never shove a whole finger into the anus at once, even on an experienced player. Slow and steady is the way to go, with regular reapplications of lube. To increase pleasure, I may use my thumb or alternate hand to massage the perineum simultaneously, or to caress the penis, either via a hand job or blowjob.

Enjoy The Moment

It can last anywhere from a few minutes to an entire session depending on the man receiving the massage. Sometimes the pleasure is just too intense and you need to slow down or stop completely. I alter between caressing the P-spot to just relaxing my finger inside their anus, this gives him time to take a breath and feel the difference in sensations. How do I know if he’s enjoying himself? Well I’ve known men who make zero sounds during a blowjob or sex, that you could hear a tumbleweed go by. It does make you question if they are enjoying themselves. It all comes down to communication, watching the changes in facial expression and the contractions of the anus.

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“She (Jordan) started off sensual and pampering, slowly turning the erotic dial up as she went, culminating in an amazing prostate massage. I enjoy prostate massage because I can experience several orgasms without actually coming, or losing arousal. I also find the prostate massage magnifies the intensity of sensation when coming for several days afterwards.

Jordan read me like a book. She coaxed half a dozen prostate orgasms out of me before taking me over the edge with her hands. Hands down (excuse the pun) the best experience of prostate play I have ever had.” – John* (Name changed for privacy)

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July 25, 2016
Know Her Clitoris And Give Her An Orgasm

I love sex, I think it brings two people as close as they possibly can be together.

Importance of Clitoral Stimulation

I think as with anything, it depends on the person. However, for me it’s very important.

How To Use Your Mouth

A guy should kiss softly and hard maybe some slight nibbling. Mix it up and not just do the same thing the whole time that he is down there. Thigh biting and kissing are a must.

I think for must nots, it depends on the woman. But for me I only like his mouth on my clit and not actually in me.

Toys For Clitoral Stimulation

My absolute favorite is the Hitachi. However during sex, I like a less powerful Hitachi ( I have a few lol).

One Tip To Satisfy Your Lady Better

My biggest tip is to talk to her and see exactly what she wants. Also don’t be afraid to try new things, you may find something you both unexpectedly enjoy.

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July 20, 2016
Ways To Tell If She Is Enjoying Sex

Sex is many things to me. I consider it to be a basic human need, like the need to breathe or consume food. Just as I prefer to eat delicious food and breathe crisp clean air, so too do I prefer sex to be more than just meeting a need (mine/my partners). Sex is the most intimate way to share yourself with another, and should always be enjoyed by both parties.

I have always loved exploring the bodies and minds of others-and let’s face it, in the most mind blowing sex the two are closely intertwined. In a sense, sex is everything boiled down to the basics: flesh, guttural sounds, and unbridled passion. At the same time, what brings you to that point of surrender is part physical, part mental; the mind is the greatest erogenous zone. It is a delicate game that, when played correctly, everyone wins.

Arouse Her

Physical attraction is a funny thing, particularly to a sex worker. We are bound to come across people who may not initially spark a physical desire within us, and yet we aim to provide a genuine service. Let’s not underestimate the seductive power of willingness to exchange money for time; before any date starts, I am already slightly aroused by the fact that the client is paying for my time and fantasizing about what our time will be like. In my experience, there is always something that ‘attracts’ me initially, be it a smile, a shy blush, or (my weakness), broad shoulders.

Exceptional hygiene goes a long way as well. Booking a long enough date to allow for some banter and possibly a glass of wine is essential too as this builds upon the initial attraction. After some subtle flirting and a few shared laughs, I am usually noticeably flushed and aroused even before hitting the sheets, and things flow easily beyond that point. I would say I am quite easily aroused!

Turn Her On With Foreplay

Foreplay begins before we meet. The anticipation, the pampering before our date, the long bath, and selection of lingerie and what to wear are where it all begins for me. Once we’ve gotten to know each other a little bit, I can’t say it enough: gentle, sensual foreplay is where it’s at for me. Every lady is different, but I am very sensitive everywhere. Passionate kisses that build slowly in intensity, gentle kisses and nibbles on my neck, back and everywhere else, soft stroking and teasing will have me begging for more!

Who Takes Charge During Sex?

This depends on the situation, the person, and the mood…I am quite comfortable taking the lead (and can find it very arousing), but I can also be sensually submissive and enjoy letting my partner take the lead to start in general. This way I can get a sense of his (or her!) pace, and what they enjoy. Often I find the take-charge role is one that is given and taken throughout a session, which I find extremely hot!

Signs She’s Enjoying It

For me, there are many indicators of enjoyment; for one, I get VERY wet when I am really turned on, and my face and neck get flushed. During sex, I tend to moan and whisper things to arouse myself and my partner, and when I climax it is quite obvious!

I also tend to get a bit grabby (in a good way) when I am into it, and will find myself burying my hands in a gent’s hair or latching on to his back while I arch into him.

Don’t Ever Do This Guys

The number one mistake men make is sticking with something that is not working, usually because it worked for someone else. If you pay attention to body language you will have lots of indication as to enjoyment. For example, if I am not enjoying something you are doing I might pull away instead of pushing into you, or I may suggest we do something else or switch positions. If this is lost on you then I will have to ask you to stop outright, which may be a mood-killer for some. Every woman is different and what works for one may not work for another, so don’t be afraid to ask and to listen if you want the experience to be mutually enjoyable!

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July 12, 2016
How To Satisfy A Woman During Sex

All things sex related have kept me very curious since I was a teen. Sex is one of life’s many pleasures but it is definitely a pleasure than we should indulge in. The way I view sex is a not only as a normal biological need and drive but as an activity that everybody should enjoy without any attached shame nor should we shame others for things they enjoy. I understand why some may feel bashful about their deepest desires but we all have them and they need to be embraced. I think it would be a shame for a person to miss out on trying something they fantasize about due to lack of opportunity or embarrassment to express their needs. The only real boundaries I see are the law and consent.

Where we differ as individuals is in the activities, fantasies and people that really get us going. Personally, I am very open minded when it comes to all things sexual. I’ve explored many different sexual acts and feel like there’s nothing I could hear about that could really shock me, although I’m sure I’m wrong. I appreciate all types of relationships; monogamous, open, same sex, just do what feels right for you. Personally I view sex and love as two separate entities but obviously the two worlds collide.

What Turns Her On

What really turns me on is watching a man really enjoy the things I’m doing to him. Watching his face, hearing the moaning and sounds that he makes – that turns me on incredibly. Many different things turn me on and it can vary from day to day. I enjoy a sensual experience, passionate kisses, feeling a man’s lips slowly caress my body and inner thighs before eventually making his way to my sweet spot. Occasionally I like to be submissive and be told what to do or have things done to me but often, I like to be in control and dominant and take the lead. Role plays can be a lot of fun as well. Right now at the top of my list would be the “Secretary & Boss” scenario, which turns me on just thinking about it. “Doctor & Patient” hits quite high on this list as well.

Neck kisses, ooohhhh I love neck kisses. I have a few spots and it gets me good, real good! I think the deciding factor on what type of interaction is the chemistry and dynamic between two people. The relationship I have with my sister and best friend are different dynamics even though both are females and of the same age, the dynamic and connection with myself and each man is unique.

One thing I really would like to try personally and am yet to fully explore is bondage and submission. I’ve watched some porn movie clips in the genre and it turns me on incredibly. BDSM seems to range from the quite mild to unbelievably extreme and as a first timer I would keep it fairly mild as a starting point and could only enjoy it fully with someone that I know very well and have a lot of trust in. I think it would help if the dominant had a little experience under their belt as well.

When I think about it, the role plays I mentioned are almost dominant/submissive roles. I think I’m a closet sub!

Know When To Be In Charge

I think an ideal scenario would start with me in control, playing with a guy and really turning him on and teasing him until he can’t handle it anymore and then he takes over and has crazy, hard sex with me because I’ve turned him on so much. There’s something about being at the sexual mercy of the right man that is making me flushed just as I write it.

I have been dominant to men before (Mistress, although I prefer princess) and I have gotten some deep satisfaction out of being in that role. It is a very powerful feeling to have a man on the floor completely at your mercy and willing to do whatever you ask, and it scares me how much I enjoy it! I guess I should consider myself lucky to have experienced so many things.

Mistakes Men Make During Sex

One mistake that anyone at any time can make is the lack of hygiene, and when you are intimate with someone this problem is amplified. I could never have the heart to hurt someone’s feelings so I just ride it out, albeit gritting my teeth.

It may sound strange after mentioning rough sex above but being rough in the wrong ways doesn’t equate to a good time. An example is biting the clitoris, just no, please no never. Ouch! I’m going to say most biting isn’t great for most girls most of the time. I try to ride through bad experiences, they happen and you learn.

Once I had a girl (yep a girl!) scratch deep inside of my vagina with her finger nail, it was incredibly painful, she was aiming for my G-spot and slipped. So basically I’d say if it may draw blood it’s a no. Females are like delicate flowers, we can like it rough but in ways that make us say mmm, not ouch!

Does Size Matter?

No, definitely not. It really is true, it’s the motion in the ocean. Personally most of my pleasure and orgasms come from my clitoris. Normally while I rub it and I’m being fingered so if a finger can do it.. point proven. Some lucky girls can climax from penetration alone, and I have perhaps on two occasions ever but the ratio isn’t very good, so just trust me on that one. All penises are beautiful and fantastic as long as they are clean and healthy.

3 Favourite Positions For Sex

I’ll start with doggy, it’s sexy, it’s deep it feels good it looks good and both parties can access the magical clitoris.

Reverse cowgirl is great. Again it gets nice and deep and the guy has a lovely view, or so I hear. Reverse cowgirl can be a lot of fun to watch if I’m facing a mirror.

Lastly, it may sound boring but I really like a man on top. I like to put my legs over his shoulders and if I rub my clit while he fucks me this is how I can orgasm during sex and I love it. Once I had a guy tell me to hold my legs open while he was on top, it was an incredible turn on, just recalling the fact is an incredible turn on.

My name is Jessie Lee Pierce and I’m an Australia wide personal companion with plans to travel globally. I am 28 and although born in Australia, I am of mixed European nationality. I am a qualified counselor and currently completing a Bachelor of Applied Science. I have also had various roles in the adult industry over the last 10 years.

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July 11, 2016