Tag: Orgasm

Spice Up Masturbation With Toys

If I could summarize my personal belief on sex and masturbation in one word, it would be – healthy. It’s healthy to practice self love and spoiling your own body with pleasure. It’s a way of connecting to ones’ self, and it feels damn good! Sex is a bit trickier. As humans, we ruin a lot of things with irrelevant emotions (not all emotion), and/or ego. Sex is a beautiful celebration of two bodies connecting. Whether it be for eternity, or just for the night. Enjoy sex, but BE SAFE!!

My First Masturbation

The first time I really remember the sensation of an orgasm or “edging”, I was 7 years old. I have earlier recollections of touching myself, but cannot recall the feeling vividly. It felt sweet. That’s how I describe it to this day. It was the sweetest tasting sensation.

What Makes Me Horny

I get turned on by different things, some of which aren’t even sexual. Take food play in sex for instance: licking whipped cream off of your partners body, trailing chocolate sauce over them just so your tongue can slowly follow the contours. You’re involving other senses. So anything that stimulates me in a way that feels more intense, I can become sexually aroused. I hope this made sense.

First Sex Toy Experience

I was 20 years old when I bought my first sexy toy. I went to Spencer’s Gifts with my boyfriend [at the time] and purchased a neon pink bullet vibrator to make our play time more intense. I couldn’t wait to get home to try it out, so once we were in the car, I slid my panties off and teased myself in the passenger seat the entire way home. Suffice it to say, my boyfriend was fighting the urge to ravage me right then and there. This changed my sex life forever. I don’t always use toys during sex or masturbation, but it’s always a nice option to really enhance the sexual experience.

Toys Are Amazing

Fingers are nice, but sometimes you want more. That’s why toys are such an amazing addition. Sometimes I want to be mildly stimulated just to tease myself, so I’ll go with my fingers and a bullet vibrator. Other times, I crave penetration and I’ll reach for a dildo. My favorite is the Icicles No.2 Hand Blown Glass Massager.

How To Get That Orgasm!

There are times I find it difficult to achieve orgasm during masturbation and sex. Honestly as women, a lot of our ability to orgasm is mental. We have to be clear minded and really in the moment. I masturbate when I feel most comfortable and calm. I take my time to explore and tease myself. It’s also important to share a bit of foreplay with your partner before diving into bed.

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January 19, 2016
3 Ways To Sex Things Up!

My personal thoughts about sex is that sex is and should always be a pleasurable experience and should always be an open-minded experience.

Sex On And Off Camera

Sex on camera is very excitable, there is a rush of energy knowing others are watching through pure pleasure. Off camera sex is more private, like a slow passionate romance.

Tips For Deeper Penetration

Reverse cowgirl: The reason why this is so enjoyable is because I love when a woman can switch up a slow grind while I hold her from behind and she moans with passion.

Make Standing Sex Kinky

Role play. Improve a scenario and just go into it. Kiss her slowly, undress her and take her imagination to a place she never expected. Let it be an unexpected experience.

Make Missionary wilder

Reverse flipping and roleplay. Be open minded and try new pleasures to keep it exciting. Experience each others fetishes and let every experience be a memory.

Love Her On Top

One takes charge with an optimistic mind. Grinding, moaning, squirting all over till I’m covered in her love. I can feel her passion and desire.

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January 15, 2016
Kinky Ways To Masturbate

I’ve always been a free love type personality. I feel it’s healthy and natural to want to be with many people even at the same time. I also feel masturbation is necessary to know what you like. I don’t think other people can make you orgasm if you don’t know how to make yourself orgasm.

My First Time Masturbating

I started masturbating stupid young. I was in middle school. I think it was the 8th grade. At first I wasn’t sure what I was doing. I remember laying down in bed and having a tightening sensation and feeling tingly. I remember putting my hand in my panties and exploring. At first just out of boredom, not knowing I was masturbating. When I first touched my clit with my finger I was shocked at the vibration it made my pussy feel. My body jumped, I felt my toes go numb instantly.

I was so confused, I didn’t think i was doing anything wrong cause it made me feel so good. I was so fascinated with one tap to my clip… that I tapped again. Then I started tapping faster, and faster. I don’t think I made myself cum, because I was so young and inexperienced. After that I couldn’t keep my hands out of my panties and I found many interesting ways to touch myself, or use something I could find in the house.

With Or Without Sex Toys?

I like this question, very much. I feel like toys or hands call for different occasions. Touching yourself is intimate within yourself. Toys are more of a busting feeling. Kinda like when someone else touches you. The hands are soft and sensitive. There has to be a want… a need. When you use your hands, you’re using the only tools you have. Take your time and have a yearning for your fantasy, want it so badly that you’re fingers take over control.

Sex toys are for busting. When you’re just feeling dirty and want something foreign to do all the work. I’ve masturbated with many household items and with store bought sex toys. When you use a vibrator or dildo you want to fuck yourself and you want to cum hard and cum now. If I have to choose I would say sex toys , though the mind is powerful.

Places At Home To Masturbate

This one is easy, the shower! I love masturbating in the shower. There’s always two things I do in the shower. One, that’s Snapchat, or two is to use the water to help myself cum. I like using shower heads, I put it on low. Sometimes I lay down, I sit, or stand. The sounds of the water helps me block out any other sounds. The water makes me clean and dirty at the same time.

Recommended Outdoor Locations

The first place that comes to mind is the jacuzzi. If those water pumps are in the right position it makes your pussy feel amazing. You can pull back to give yourself more of a massage feeling and push in harder when you want to come. When you want to push forward to hit your clit harder you can feel the water pumps push you away, so you have to work. At the same time it’s so calming and relaxing because you’re in the jacuzzi. Definitely a masturbation act that would put you to sleep.

Why Every Lady Should Masturbate!

Loving yourself can be very therapeutic and beneficial. Learning to let go inside can improve your physical life. If there is a day when you don’t feel loved, you feel lonely, or you’re having a problem and can’t self indulge I would stop for a second. You could try and grab a fantasy novel, read an erotic short story on the internet, or lay on the couch and just fantasize about something you want or someone you need. Let yourself dream. If you can, try and take yourself to a different world and indulge in a fantasy. After you try that, then rest will come naturally.

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January 13, 2016
Tips For Bondage Sex Play

My favorite kind of restraint is rope bondage. It is just so much more versatile than other forms. It can be comfortable or excruciating, depending on what you’re going for. I also feel that it creates a deeper connection in the scene. Rope is an art form and someone turning you into their art is an incredible experience.

I adore inverted suspensions. Sensations are so much harder to process when I’m upside down. It get’s me to that adrenaline high so much faster.

Suspensions are unique because you are limited in how you can shift around. If it is painful you can only relax into that pain, fighting it makes it worse. It is almost like a form of meditation.

But I can’t discount how awesome other forms of bondage can be. I have had some amazing experiences with machine bondage. This amazing shoot with House of Gord was unique and incredibly hot. Being fucked upside-down gives me the most amazing head rush, and I couldn’t stop cumming!

How Powerful Are Bondage Sex Orgasms?

Before I start talking about my amazing orgasms I’d like to get up on my soapbox for a minute. I prefer the term ‘vanilla sex’ to ‘normal sex.’ Saying some people have “normal” sex is implying some people have “abnormal” sex. I don’t like negative connotations towards any sort of sex that is consensual.

Furthermore, what is normal sex? I personally define sex as any activity between two or more people that results in at least one person getting closer to an orgasm. So what would be normal in that spectrum?

Foot fetishes are common, so are forced-sex fantasies. Do handcuffs fall into normal? They are used quite a lot in mainstream media’s portrayal of being “naughty.” Is normal, missionary style, ‘lets both come once and cuddle’? Have about blowjobs? That wasn’t accepted as “normal” in the bedroom until Deep Throat brought it into the public eye. Now that 50 Shades of Gray is nearly a household book; is light, non-consensual, bad BDSM, “normal”? (You can tell I have strong negative feelings towards that book)

So, with that out of the way; my orgasms are very different. I would say during vanilla sex my climax is more of a single powerful rush. During rough sex I get this feeling of continuously cumming. I start speaking in gibberish and lose control of my body. I will sometimes even faint. It is fucking amazing! If you would like to witness this nearly-religious experience, check out my Live Sexually Broken shoot, here! That is my favorite shoot to date!

My third, and favorite kind of orgasm is cumming from pain. I can orgasm without any genital stimulation as long as I have the right kind of pain. Piercing does this to me. Especially when I get needles in my nipples or do hooks. It is just this rush of pleasure that completely shuts down my brain.

Tips To Try Bondage Sex Play

Communication! Lots and lots of it. Once you think you’ve talked the subject to death, talk one more time to be sure. Talk about your desires, how you’d like to feel during the play, how you want your partner to feel. Talk about what you find sexy, and why you find it sexy. Don’t be nervous! I promise that your fantasy isn’t “weird” or “abnormal.” Instead tell your partner why you may be anxious about your fantasy.

Discuss safety between yourselves and with people who know more than you. Look up safe ways to restrain someone. (I do not recommend handcuffs until you are experienced in other forms of bondage) Talk about emotional safety. Does no mean no, do you have a safe word, or maybe both? I personally use “Red” when the play needs to stop immediately. Talk about any potential emotional landmines you have around a subject. If you think you will experience emotional stress from an activity, talk about that. Decide if it is a risk you are both willing to take.

Most importantly make sure you have consent. Clearly communicate what you want to do and what you don’t want to do. If you are undecided explain why to the best of your ability. You can decide if you’re willing to try it, or if you want to save it for later. Make sure the other person has communicated all of these things as well. Consent is the sexiest thing out there. Make sure you always have it.

After you have played, talk about how it went. Did you have fun? If so, why? What didn’t you like? What would you like to do more of? What was the hottest part? The only way your fantasy can become reality is if you talk to someone willing to help you achieve it. It is completely worth it, trust me!

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January 1, 2016
10 Signs of Great Sex
Every sexual encounter is different. There’s the guy you slept with that you wish you could delete from your memory bank. Everything about it was just wrong or just straight out icky for reasons that we don’t need to rehash. There’s also the one dude who was so boring in bed all you did was go through a list of chores you still needed to do after this chore was completed. Then there’s the one man you just rocked your world and made you feel like a sexual vixen, a sex aficionado, a pseudo-porn star. Here are 10 signs that show you’re having awesome sex just in case you were wondering:
1. You’re completely uninhibited and free from any reservations. You are confident with yourself, in your own skin, and you own that body like Beyonce with a pure lack of any insecurity. You’re working that booty, happily bouncing your tits and having fun with it. You feel like the sexiest woman on earth while you’re in the throes of passion, having sex with the lights on with all your imperfections (stretch marks, cellulite, pouches be damned) in sight.
2. You are open and willing to try new sexual positions. Reverse cowgirl? No problem! Saddle me up! Doggie style? Give me that bone! 69? Well, that’s my favorite number! Great sex means getting out of your comfort zone and losing up your inhibitions, not to mention how limber and bendy you get trying it all out.
3. You’re vocal about what you want or don’t want in bed. “Eat me now!” is not an unheard of phrase from you while you’re in the sack and neither is, “You want to put what where!?”, but because you’re having mind-blowing sex you may be willing to let him. Just make sure you grab the lube.
4. After sex, you text your friends with, “I’ve just had some bomb ass sex.” with a multitude of emoticons to fully convey just how good it was. You only wish you were ballsy enough to post it on social media (if only your parents weren’t your friends on Facebook), so the world would know you just got yours.
5. When you’re having great sex, let’s fact it, you walk around with a smug, shit eating grin all day long because you’re night of passion keeps replaying in your mind in a loop. So when you see someone walking around with a shit eating grin that matches yours, feel free to give ‘em a high five and a wink.
6. You’re lying in bed feeling horny, but instead of waiting for your horniness to subside you casually slip your hand down to your already moist nether region and masturbate using a vivid memory from your last ohh la la romp in the sack to pleasure yourself. It’s too hard to wait until the next time sexual encounter, so let’s daydream about the last time. It was that good.
7. You’re sweating like you just took a spin class or ran a 5K. Instead, you skipped the gym that morning and took a good 40-minute spin around his penis. A sweaty aftermath means a good enthusiastic partnership in bed.
8. You have a bird’s nest on your head. A hot passionate bout of sex normally means you’re left with a tangled mass of hair on your head from all the twisting, turning, shifting, and Cirque du Soleil acrobatics.
9. Your tongue gets serious action, too, and not during fellatio. Instead when the sexual chemistry is high, then there’s a lot of passionate kissing involved because you can’t get enough of his taste and want to devour him whole.
10. The orgasm no longer becomes the primary goal of every sexual encounter. Gasp! Stop the presses! Some may find this difficult to believe, but the bonding and intimacy with your partner is enough to make you feel complete afterwards even sans an earth shattering orgasm. Your aura will emit the I-just-had-awesome-sex illuminating glow that every woman wishes to achieve.
If you can relate to any, or all, the signs highlighted above, then this simply means the chemistry is high, the compatibility is unparalleled, and Wednesday isn’t the only hump day in your week. Enjoy this rare find because not everyone is out there having the kind of sex you are. Chances are you had to go through some major duds to finally find the firecracker you needed to ignite the sexual goddess within you. Keep it up ladies (and gents) and happy sexing!

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November 9, 2015
How a female Orgasm feels like

I grew up in a household that did not talk about sex. My Birds and Bees discussion with my mom went something like “When mommies and daddies love each other, they do things in their bedroom that kids don’t need to see.” and the rest was left up to sex education at school. I don’t know about where you all grew up, but they definitely didn’t discuss orgasms in our sex-education.

That being said, I am sure I had my first orgasm at a pretty young age, probably in elementary school. I did not know I was having orgasms at the time, but I knew that touching myself felt good and it helped me relax. In high school, I started reading magazines that talked about masturbation, finding your g-spot and orgasms. I started exploring myself more and discovering different ways that I could reach climax both alone and with a partner.

I did not realize until my mid-twenties that there are women in the world that have never had an orgasm. I cannot imagine. The more orgasms I have, the more orgasms I want to have.

How it feels during a build up to an orgasm and the eventual climax

I do not know if there is anything I can equate an orgasm to or a great way to specifically describe it. I even have different types or levels of orgasm depending on what type of stimulation I am getting. (I can reach climax enough ways to write a whole article on.) But, I guess the best place to start my description is in getting turned on. So many things turn me on! Sometimes a commercial on TV does it, a memory of a past sexual experience, or even the feel of a certain fabric against my skin.

When I start to get turned on I feel myself becoming wet, sometimes to the point of dripping. I feel a sort of tingle or tickle in my clitoris, like it is just begging for attention. Externally my clitoris goes from being indiscernible to becoming engorged, making it really easy to find. Typically my nipples harden and go from being ticklish to feeling pleasurable when touched.

As I am stimulated, I can feel my heart rate rising. I have a hard time keeping my eyes open and I cannot concentrate on anything but how good I am feeling. All of my muscles begin to tense up. When I get really close to orgasm I can feel my pelvic muscles start to twitch; usually slowly at first, small and random. The twitches become more frequent and increase in strength. If I am reaching orgasm by clitoral stimulation, the feeling of the rubbing on my clit can feel overwhelming; I almost want it to stop but I want so bad to reach climax.

When I do reach climax, all of my pelvic muscles contract in quick waves, my legs tremble, my eyes literally roll back in my head, and I experience an intense sense of euphoria. This can last just a couple of seconds or considerably longer depending on the amount of build-up and the continuation of stimulation as I reach climax.

After I reach climax I feel very relaxed. Almost like the feeling after a great massage or even a good meditation session. My brain is clear, my muscles relaxed and I just want to snuggle and go to sleep. Or, I just want to have another orgasm.

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September 18, 2015
10 Steps to give him the handjob of his life

I think people tend to forget how important foreplay is and rush or skip it altogether to go straight for intercourse. Handjobs fall under that category. Personally, I love handjobs because I love feeling how hard my guy is in my hands. And I think one of the reasons why men love handjobs so much is because of the simple reason that they aren’t stroking themselves for once and of course, it feels good.

And aside from your lips, your hands and fingers carry some of the most sensitive touch receptors in your whole body. Now, sensitivity is subjective because everyone is different but if you really take the time to feel the handjob you’re giving (rather than just worry about getting your guy off), then it’ll be something you can enjoy better too!

Places to give a handjob

Well, there’s always the most popular: under-the-table handjob which can definitely spice up dinner… And if he’s driving and you’re only going a short distance, handjobs can start some intense foreplay.

If you like taking risks and want to try more public places, take your partner to the movie theaters! The darkness will help conceal your dirty deeds and the act will make you feel like you’re in high school again. The excitement is in trying to keep it on the down low.

10 handjob steps to blow his mind

1. Use lube or at least a lot of saliva before you begin stroking your guy. The wetter, the better! Nobody likes a dry handjob.

2. Start out slow by lightly stroking up and down his shaft to get him going.

3. Use your fingers! As I mentioned before, your fingers have such sensitive touch receptors. Tap up, down and around the underside of his shaft like you’re playing a piano. Explore. You’ll feel more and the sensation will really pick up for him.

4. Use both hands! Use your support hand to gently squeeze around the base of his penis and while doing this, use your dominant hand to continue stroking his shaft.

5. You’ll be able to tell when he’s really enjoying himself and when that time comes, increase the pressure! Keep using both hands and try a hand-over-hand technique where as soon as one of your hands reaches the head of his penis, your other hand is already making its way up his shaft.

6. Try wrapping one whole hand around his shaft and stroking up and down. Then, reverse your hand so that your thumb is towards the base of his penis (rather than the tip) and repeat.

7. Every time you reach the head of his penis, swipe your thumb to one side of the head and then the other.

8. While you’re stroking his shaft, up and down – add in a twist for extra sensations.

9. Don’t forget about his balls – while one hand takes care of his shaft, use the other to cradle his balls in your hand like you’re holding a pair of eggs.

10. Switching up the angle of your body will affect his sensations, so sit to one side, on top of him or stand behind him and reach your hand around to change things up and try something new.

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September 7, 2015
Are vibrators killing your pleasure?

If you’ve seen my talks at Sexpo, you’ll know I warn ladies in particular, about the dangers of overusing vibrators.

So I wanted to use this week’s blog to explain why!

But before I tell you how vibrators kill you pleasure, let’s looks at how the vibrator came about shall we?

Would you believe the vibrator was actually a household appliance – the fifth in fact, to be electrified.

In the 1800’s, women were being diagnoses with ‘hysteria’, which showed up in the form of erratic behaviour.

Today we have different names for ‘hysteria’ such as PMS, road-rage, downright bitchiness!

And in order to treat this very serious ailment, women would line up at the doctors for a clitoral massage to help ease them of their woes.

Now as you can imagine – women grew quite fond of this treatment!

Fast-forward to 1899 and one smart chap invented a device that women could take home and service themselves.

Thus, the vibrator was born.

Advertisements started popping up in women’s publications, with such taglines as “Vibrate your body and make it well,” “Take the edge off things,” “Nature’s own cure-all” and “Magic power… will make you feel like a new person.”

These ads made no mention of sex, orgasms, or even ‘hysteria’ – the so-called ‘disease’ for which vibrators were said to cure.

Now there is no arguing that sex toys – such as vibrators – can be fun and bring a lot of spice to the bedroom.

But before you arm yourself with a cache of vibrators please consider what I am about to say, extremely carefully…

Overuse of vibrators can actually desensitise your special bits.

If you consider a tongue, a finger or a penis; they cannot go near as hard and fast as a vibrator!

This is why women who use them a lot, often have trouble orgasming with their partner.

You see, the more stimulation you get to reach orgasm, the more you need.

So over time you sensitivity – the very same sensitivity that will open you up to deep orgasmic pleasure – is lost.

This is why vibrators can be such a pleasure killer!

What you also need to consider is that most vibrators only focus on your clitoris, and sometimes other regions of your genitals like your G-spot.

Yet the whole body can be a pleasure zone, if you take the time to wake it up.

And when you do invest time in increasing your sensitivity as opposed to decreasing your sensitivity (which you do when you use a vibrator) that’s when you’re going to start to experience those full body orgasms; orgasms you feel throughout your entire body as opposed to just being confined to your genitals.

But I’ve already lost sensation, what now?

No sweat!

Get yourself a Jade Egg.

The Jade Egg is designed to awaken the tissue in your vaginal canal so you start to feel more pleasure inside the vagina.

Even if you don’t use a vibrator much, most women’s vaginal canal’s are quite numb, hence why they don’t experience G-spot and cervical orgasms.

Less really is more when it comes to pleasure.

You want to be so sensitive that someone blowing on your skin is enough to arouse you into ecstasy!

Personally I do NOT use vibrators for this very reason.

I want my entire body to be as sensitive as possible, because that’s where we open ourselves up to experiencing the most pleasure.

All of that said, if you’re not yet willing to trade in your vibrators for a Jade Egg, then make sure your toy box does NOT contain anything with phthalates in them.

Phthalates are carcinogens.

You find them in those squishy, jellylike dildos – the really cheap ones.

They’re toxic!

They leech chemicals into one of the most absorptive place in our body.

If you have any toys like that, please throw them out.

NOW!!!!!!

Studies have even linked them to cancer.

What you want are toys that are non porous, and made of materials such as silicon, glass or stainless steel.

Or just get yourself a Jade Egg and enjoy the deliciousness of deep vaginal orgasmic bliss!

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September 7, 2015
How do I achieve squirting orgasms?

My original view on squirting a little over a year ago was, “What is this sorcery?!” Then I read some how-to-squirt guides and after many failed attempts was left saying, “Is that even real?!” Frustrated, I gave up and chalked squirting up to being some mythical porn magic.

That is until I met Jace! When we first got together, we played a 21 questions game and he told me that his biggest turn on and fetish was squirting! Naturally, I panicked since I had tried and failed to do it, and all I want to do is please my partners. But Jace was up to the challenge to make me squirt for the first time.

He instructed me before we started to tell him when I felt the pressure like I had to go to the bathroom. He performed oral and started fingering me until he discovered the spot, and once he found it he just keep prodding it, which I didn’t mind at all. Once I let him know he pulled his fingers out but it was so fast I shot it all right in his face, it was a fairly impressive stream for my first experience. It shocked me and I was embarrassed, but Jace was far too proud and turned on to be worried about it.

Now I find it hard NOT to squirt when I masturbate or have sex, it turns me on so much and it is just the next step in orgasms!

Stimulation I require

At first I was only able to achieve a squirting orgasm after a lot of clitoral and G-spot stimulation together, which still is one of my favorite ways. I honestly didn’t think there was another way to do it, but I was wrong! One of my new favorite hobbies is finding out all the ways I can squirt and trying to beat my personal best of 15 times in a row. I’m thinking I should start to record some of the distances I squirt because I currently don’t even know what my record is.

In my scientific research, I have found that I can squirt from anal and clitoral stimulation, or clitorial stimulation alone. My most recent venture was with panty stuffing, which I found to be even more of a turn on. I can’t wait to find even more fun ways!

The bed does get messy though after I squirt…

My goodness does it ever! Squirting is just something I like to look at as a beautiful mess. I have started to lay down a towel to catch most of it when I know I am going to be squirting, but honestly sometimes it just happens and it’s a big oopsie. I try to be careful where I aim (when I can) as I have had a few accidents…

One time I killed a wireless keyboard and I’m still knocking on wood for my webcams’ safety. The worst one still to date, was when I was in my walk-in closet room, and hadn’t realized my roommates cat was under my bed. I still feel bad about that one.

My best suggestion for anyone who squirts is to lay down a towel or blanket if you don’t mind getting soaked. That and also moving all electronics and pets out of the ‘splash zone’.

Tips to achieve that elusive squirting orgasm

I myself was taught by my partner and I’m not really sure if I would have discovered the amazing feeling from squirting without him. One of the best techniques I’ve found is to stay super hydrated, so I drink glasses of water all day everyday. You’ll also find after a good squirt session that you’ll need/want even more water.

The next advice I can give is to explore your body and research the basic road map to the G-spot; every body is different but you’ll know you found that special spot. Then just keep stimulating it with your fingers, partner, or toy until you feel the pressure like you need to go, then remove your stimulant and push, and you should be squirting like a squirtle in no time!

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September 5, 2015
Oral sex mistakes men make

I love everything about receiving oral sex! It’s just something so raw, animalistic, and taboo about oral sex. The fact that some consider it “dirty” is a huge turn on. But, in detail, I love to cum in my man’s mouth and all over his face. There’s definitely nothing hotter than looking down and watching a guy please you with his lips, fingers, and tongue.

What I love…

I love a man that just dives in it and makes it fun. I like it when he sticks his tongue inside my pussy, sucks on my clit, and alternates his tongue and fingers. Fast or slow just depends on the mood at the time. I like them both.

I also like to play/experiment so I love a man that’s open to that. Use ice, fruits, etc. Play with different pressures, and speeds. Give me multiple orgasms; I mean I like to cum at least twice before I have sex. It gets my pussy hungry, wet, and very sensitive.

Mistakes men make…

First, let me start by saying that you really have to understand that each woman is different, and have different preferences. You cannot, I repeat, cannot do the exact same thing every time thinking that’s going to get the job done. That’s the first mistake guys make.

Another is not listening to her body/response as you’re doing it. You have to get comfortable and take your time. Follow her body; wherever she goes, you go there with her.

Another mistake is not taking their time and just rushing it or half-ass doing it. Don’t give her four licks, then come up ready to shove your cock inside her like you did something. Wrong!! Don’t stab, poke, bite, or give too much pressure. We’re just as sensitive as you are and biting or putting a lot of pressure can hurt or feel uncomfortable. And that fucks the mood completely up.

Also, don’t be afraid to experiment. Don’t be afraid of toys/vibrators. These guys could end up being your new best friends! But make sure you’re both comfortable with a type of toy. Tips for playing with toys: Try alternating with your tongue and vibrator on her clit changing the speeds. Rub her vaginal opening with your hand, tongue, vibrator. You could stick it slowly in while licking her clit, then pull it out and replace the toy with your mouth or tongue. Give a little, tease her, ask her to tell you what and how she wants something done. Then take your time either giving it to her right away or rationing it out.

Experiment and play!! Sex is supposed to be fulfilling and fun. So make sure that it is for your lady.

My name is Daphne Daniels. I’m a Pisces. I love to flirt, have fun, enjoy life. And oh yea, I’m a BBW Pornstar.Visit the links to my Twitter and Facebook to find out more about me!

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September 2, 2015