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Male Masturbation: 7 Tips to Spice Up Your Solo Play
It’s not breaking news that masturbation offers quite a few health benefits. It helps you relieve stress, improves the quality of your sleep, and boosts your mood, not to mention reducing excess sexual tension. From this perspective, masturbation is an excellent and very pleasurable alternative to other activities, such as working out in a gym.

However, solo plays can also get in a rut, leaving you less and less satisfied over time. Fortunately, there are several intriguing ways to diversify male masturbation. Below, you will find a list of steamy tips to spice up your solo play, ranging from introducing sex toys as well as switching positions and hands to exploring your erogenous zones and paying due attention to your prostate, among other things. Continue reading to get more ideas for your next solo session.

Invest in Sex Toys

One of the main reasons why masturbation gets in a rut is because you’re not challenging your body or mind in any way. It’s all too easy to get stuck using the same technique and position every time you masturbate. Because of this, it’s crucial to involve sex toys in your solo plays.

Sex toys aren’t only fun to use, but they are also versatile, ranging from dildos and vibes to cock rings and prostate massagers. Among the most common sex toys that you can use for masturbation are:
- Vibrators: They come in all shapes and sizes and can be used to stimulate the penis, testicles, scrotum, and perineum. Vibrators can also be used for anal stimulation.
- Dildos: Dildos are phallic-shaped toys that can add some extra length or girth while providing additional pleasure to your masturbation sessions while helping you train yourself to last longer.
- Cock Rings: These toys are designed to help prolong your ejaculation, making them ideal for men with premature ejaculation issues.
- Prostate Massagers: A prostate massager is a curved toy specifically designed to target your prostate gland via the anus, causing muscular contractions that enhance the orgasm.
- Anal Plugs: Anal plugs are designed for anal penetration, offering a different feeling that a dildo can’t provide. Plus, they come in varying sizes so that you can enjoy a range of sensations and intensities.
- Fake Pussies: A fake pussy is a perfect sex toy if you wish to learn how to last longer. It will make you feel like you are inside a real woman, making your orgasms that much better. Besides, fake pussies come in all shapes and sizes, so you should have no problems finding the best one for you.
Switch Your Hands

In addition to using sex toys, you can also switch your hands for extra stimulation. For example, you can switch from masturbating with your right hand to your left hand, or vice versa, using a different grip. And if you’re feeling adventurous, you can try stroking your penis with both hands at the same time.

Switch Your Position

Another fun way of switching things up is to change the position in which you masturbate. For example, you can switch from lying on your back to sitting upright against a wall or standing up while leaning against a wall. Doing this will help you give yourself a great handjob.

Try Different Strokes

Adding some variety to your masturbation stroke is another surefire way to add some spice to your solo play. You can try using different grips while stroking up and down the shaft. You can also vary the speed of your stroke while adding some extra lube into the mix for a slicker sensation.

Pay Attention to Your Erogenous Zones

Another way to add some variety to your masturbation is to focus on your erogenous zones. For example, rubbing the perineum (the area between the scrotum and anus) during masturbation can boost sensitivity, giving you an even more intense orgasm. Furthermore, you can stimulate your nipples to enhance the pleasure of your solo play further.

Explore Your Prostate Gland via Your Anus

Men can enjoy prostate stimulation through the anus, usually referred to as “P-spot Massage.” This type of stimulation causes strong contractions in the prostate gland, leading to more intense orgasms when combined with the proper masturbation techniques.

Use Your Imagination

Yet another way to add some variety to your solo play is to use your imagination, which could mean fantasizing about sex with your partner or someone else, for example. Additionally, you can try visualizing yourself performing sexual acts in different positions with different people to enhance sensation and arousal.

In Conclusion

Everyone needs to take some time off to relieve themselves once in a while, and men aren’t an exception. Masturbation is a fast and easy activity that can help solve this problem. Nevertheless, it’s not surprising why masturbation often gets in a rut since most people get stuck using the same technique and position every time they masturbate.

For this reason, it’s essential to spice up your solo play with the help of sex toys, varying your strokes, switching hands, changing positions, focusing on erogenous zones, exploring your prostate gland via your anus, using your imagination, and more. While these options are likely to increase the pleasure of masturbation, they can also help you learn more about your body and what you enjoy so you can share this information with your partner.

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September 26, 2021
4 Expert Tips to Have Multiple Orgasms

While reaching one orgasm during intercourse or even when masturbating is already a challenge for some women, having multiple orgasms might seem like an intriguing sci-fi storyline, not a real-life scenario. However, the situation is not that hopeless. Multiple orgasms are indeed possible, and learning some new techniques will allow you to take your pleasure to the next level (or even levels).

In this article, you will find several expert tips that will help you achieve multiple orgasms. They range from practicing Kegel exercises and using different stimulation techniques to developing orgasm triggers and breathing properly. Continue reading to learn how to reach your first multiple orgasms.

It’s All About Your Pelvic Muscles

The first thing you need to master is to tone your pelvic muscles. You can do this by doing Kegel exercises. These exercises will strengthen the muscles of the pelvis, and they will help you learn how to control them. The training is pretty easy, and if you practice it regularly, you will soon feel the effects on your body.

Some of the benefits of Kegel exercises include developing stronger and better orgasms, more intense and longer orgasms, and more control over the flow of urine. Toning your pelvic muscles can also help you satisfy your partner in a way not even the best realistic adult sex dolls can. Overall, when you learn to control your pelvic muscles, you can create more pleasurable moments in bed for yourself and your loved one.

A great way to learn how to do Kegel exercises is by referring to videos on YouTube. There are plenty of tutorials out there that will walk you through the process. Just remember that as with any exercise, you must do them regularly, every day if possible, to really notice the results.

Use Different Stimulation Techniques

Once you have mastered Kegel exercises, you can move on to using different stimulation techniques to help you have multiple orgasms. One of those techniques includes breathing correctly during sex. Some women find that deep breathing helps them experience multiple orgasms. It seems counterintuitive, but experienced sex workers and tantric practitioners have used this technique for a long time.

You can do this breathing technique in different positions, but it’s ideal to do it when you can control most of the movements, such as sitting positions. Inhale slowly through your nose for about 4 seconds and then exhale through your mouth for a count of 8 seconds. Continue doing this until you start feeling a little dizzy. When you reach this point, stop breathing for a few seconds and repeat the cycle. Doing this exercise while having sex or masturbating can result in having a more intense orgasm than regularly or help you achieve multiple orgasms.

One other technique you can use is called peaking. This technique involves bringing yourself close to orgasm and then backing off just enough so that you don’t actually climax. After doing this several times, you will be able to increase your sensitivity and intensity quickly and easily. For instance, when masturbating, just before you feel like you’re about to climax, stop what you’re doing and wait for a few seconds before starting again. Doing this several times in a row will build up tension and increase your sexual desire, resulting in a more intense orgasm.

Practice Developing New Orgasm Triggers

There is no escape from the fact that you need to practice if you want to achieve multiple orgasms. After all, as the saying goes, practice makes perfect. One thing you can do to start having multiple orgasms is trying to develop more orgasm triggers.

During sex or masturbation, stimulate one part of your body after another until you reach a certain level of arousal. Once you get to that level, keep doing the same thing and start stimulating another part of your body (or parts) until eventually, all your senses are activated, and you reach the point of orgasm. This process is known as “ developing orgasm triggers.” It can help you achieve multiple orgasms if done correctly.

Breathing Is Important for Multiple Orgasms

Breathing is also essential for achieving multiple orgasms. In fact, many experienced men and women say that breathing is vital in the process of pleasuring themselves during intimate moments. Practicing deep breathing will allow more oxygen to enter your body, which will make it easier for you to reach climax faster. In addition, your muscles will be more relaxed and ready for further stimulation.

Another benefit of proper breathing is that it helps you hold back from climaxing too early — a problem many people face every now and then. If you do not forget about your breathing during sexual intercourse, you can enjoy deep penetration without worrying about reaching climax too quickly. Additionally, if you take your time to breathe properly while having sex or masturbating, it might be easier for you to have multiple orgasms.

Final Note

If you’re still having trouble achieving multiple orgasms, then you might want to consider visiting a sex therapist or a doctor. There might be an underlying medical condition preventing you from achieving more than one orgasm during sexual intercourse or masturbation.

Besides, it’s always good to get advice from someone who has more experience than you. Sex therapists and doctors have years of experience in the field of sex, and they will certainly be able to give you great advice on how to achieve multiple orgasms successfully. Remember to make your health a priority, and everything else will fall into place on its own. Good luck!

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September 26, 2021
Tips To Achieve Orgasms Through Masturbation

My personal thoughts on masturbation is self live is self care! It is important for YOU to know your body before anyone else does! I’ve found it helps me to reduce stress and improve my mood for an overall productive day!

Variety Of Sex Toys I Own

I have a variety of sex toys! Where do I begin? LOL I just recently got a fuck machine for Christmas from one of my OnlyFans clients. What a joy that has been! I also enjoy using anal beads or vibrators in the shower! Those are the best! LOL.

Fingers Or Toys?

Using your fingers is for a quick get off before you start your day. Toys is more of a take a bath, candles and wine type of night. If you are relaxing and enjoying your evening, in my opinion, that’s the best time to take the time to pleasure yourself the right way.

Advantages Of Using A Dildo

I like that I don’t have to do so much work with my fingers! Sometimes, it takes a lot of work to make myself cum and I get tired over time. I enjoy using a dildo because of the different vibrations it offers, as well as the multiple ways to pleasure yourself longer.

Favorite Position For Dildo Play

I love to lay on my back with a dildo. I’ve found it more effective and the best way to achieve a full orgasm longer.

Using Other Toys With The Dildo

Occasionally I’ll use a butt plug for a different sensation or a vibratory on my clit if I’m feeling adventurous and extra freaky!

Tips For First Time Dildo Users

I like to stick to the basics as to not get distract from my overall goal…which is to CUM! Lol

For first time dildo users, I would recommend getting one that is snakeskin and free of anything that might harm or irritate the inside of your vagina. I would also suggest to start small, until you know your body and know what you’d like.

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March 5, 2021
How To Give A Lady An Amazing Sexual Experience

I believe sex is a beautiful experience, however it is just a biological function at the end of the day. I look at sex like eating, sleeping etc. It’s a necessary function where you are allowed to get creative and show another person how much you appreciate them even if it’s just for their appearance.

What An Amazing Sexual Experience Is To Me

An amazing experience is when all parties can live in the moment. You don’t want it to end. You are matching her rhythm and vocal cords and all parties become one. Everyone feels satisfied afterwards.

What Turns Women On

I find that each individual woman has their own hot spots. You have to take your time with each one and find them. My go to move is going for neck kisses, then down to the breast.

3 Favorite Sex Positions

I love when a woman is riding because she is expressing her desires on you. I also love missionary because of the passion involved. Face to face during sex is one of my favorite positions. I also love that from-the-side early morning position.

Tips To Bring Her To Orgasm

Exercise and take your herbs (Maca root, horny goat weed) so you can last longer. Women love longevity and living in the moment. Listen to the way she screams when you hit certain spots and follow suite.

How I Love To Finish

I love to ask her if she is ready for me to nut then I will ask her where. I always let her decide but my favorite way to finish is creampies.

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February 23, 2021
How To Have Amazing Blowjob & Shower Sex

Sex is still one of the basic instincts. People are created to struggle for food, life and reproduction. In this context, sex is the most pleasant task given to the human by nature. People invented a lot of ways and techniques to make sex as diverse as possible. We are changing partners, places, positions and making many other crazy things to get new impressions.

But even ordinary sex in missionary position can be incredible if you have this special chemistry with your partner. So, I suppose the main and most important idea of the sex is just to make it!

Why Are Blowjobs & Shower Sex So Hot?

We usually have different schedules for all our vital activities – job, sports, trips and sex is not an exception. It makes our life more comfortable but at the same time not so exciting. Sex in the shower is unexpected and can be treated as a kind of adventure – just wanted to take shower and in a minute forgot about it cause ooops … and your mouth is full of dick. And the way that water is dripping from the naked breast, hips or ass makes everybody so horny!

Reasons I Love Them!

No matter where you are making sex but shower gives you more pleasure, especially with the right water temperature. You can feel both hot water on your skin and hot dick inside you.

Use the moment and enjoy both!

Blowjob & Shower Sex Challenges To Overcome

Water in the shower is your friend but at the same time makes it a little difficult to suck a dick cause sometimes you can swallow some hot water instead of cum. So be careful and don’t mix them up! I usually try to take a position when water is directed to my back or ass, then I can relax and give all my thoughts to the best blowjob ever.

Also, the surface in the shower cabin is usually slippery when wet, so be sure to follow the safety rules – don’t use very risky positions and try to hold on to something.

Favorite Shower Sex Techniques

There is a limited set of sex positions in the shower. The most popular is standing doggy but if you are flexible enough, you can try standing missionary or even cowgirl if your shower cabin has enough space.

Also, I love to stand with my back to the wall and one leg up pushing the opposite wall. It allows deep penetration and tight contact.

Blowjob in the shower is not much different from the blowjob anywhere, just open your mouth, use your tongue and follow your desires!!

Tips To Kink Up Shower Sex

There are a lot of ways… One of my favorite is to use the shower to masturbate and blowing dick at the same time. It gives some new impressions and incredible pleasure.

Also, you can stick the vibrator to the wall and insert it inside you and give a blowjob to your partner – the kind of threesome!

Or you can use some shower accessories to please yourself or your partner…just use your fantasy!

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June 2, 2020
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Avoid These 8 Things Before And After Sex

Well, most of the sex gurus or other sex education blogs would tell you about a few things that you need to do before sex. For instance, shaving, using precaution, taking a shower, not consuming alcohol, and others are some of the things and we all know about that but, there some very significant things that you should not be doing before and even post-sex. So here we are going to tell you some important things you must avoid pre and post-sex.

Never Rush To The Washroom

Everyone suggests to pee after having sex in order to avoid a urinary tract infection. So going to pee immediately after sex is not advisable as a little urine is not going to cause any infection. So, stay in the bed with your partner, clean up, cuddle, unless if your bladder is going to blast. Some also suggest avoiding pee before sex as it may help you to last longer.

Never Consume Alcohol

This is a cliché thing but a very important one. Alcohol can have very adverse effects on the sexual life of a person. Overconsumption of alcohol before sex may make your experience unsatisfying. According to a study, 4 out of 10 men reportedly can have the problem of getting orgasm after having too many drinks. Men can face problems in ejaculation under the influence of alcohol while women take more time and stimulation to get orgasm. It can also affect the hormones of the body that are necessary for arousal and climax. In man, sperm count may also get affected.

Avoid Using Phone Or TV

Don’t use the phone before or after having good sex. Once you are finished, get yourself cleaned, and then spend some time with your partner to cuddle and have chat. Men prefer to sleep, smoke, or use the phone but avoiding these things will make your sexual life even better. Even if you are a game addict, it would be better to use the no deposit bonus that you have earned in an online casino site some other time and spend that special time with the partner.

Don’t Elevate Your Pelvis, Women

If you just had sex without any precaution then you should be avoiding elevate your pelvis if you don’t want to get pregnant. It is being said in several WebMD posts that elevating your pelvis may increase the chances of conceiving as it helps the sperms to travel smoothly into the cervix. So it depends on your choice. If your back hurts even after good sex and you don’t want to conceive, avoid elevate your pelvis.

Never Avoid The Pre-And Post-Sex Shower

You should ask your partner to take a shower before sex as well as after. In men, behind the foreskin, it can have bacteria that may cause UTI. They may pass to the partner if not properly cleaned. And, after sex shower is also important. Women can use oral sex that will clean the area before sex.

Don’t Eat Too Much

This is the most important thing to remember. Don’t have too much food, not even healthy ones before one or two hours of sex as some may cause gas during sex. Also, don’t rush to the food after having sex. Have some rest and clean up properly. If you need to eat something then you can have chocolate as it will get you in the mood.

Don’t keep Sex Toys Without Cleaning Them Up

If you had used sex toys in your intimate experience then it is safe to clean them thoroughly as if not, some infectious bacteria can grow. Clean them with cleaning wipes.

Don’t Sleep In Your Lingerie

Avoid sleeping in lingerie after sex as it may cause irritation. Sex makes vagina sensitive so going commando would be a good idea. Wear anything cotton top cover yourself and avoid nylon, polyester, or rayon garments.

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April 11, 2020
For Men! 9 Steps To Give Your Woman A Mind Blowing Full Body Orgasm

You may have heard about the full body Tantric orgasm in the past and you may have even experienced something like it with your woman, but truly learning to master this skill will put you in a league of your own among men.

Tantra is a sexual Buddhist and Hindu practice that focuses on connecting the mind, body and spirit through sex so we can experience much deeper levels of enjoyment.

There are many benefits that Tantra brings to the table but here I will give you a detailed step-by-step guide for you to give your woman the best orgasm of her life.

1. ENCOURAGE HER BREATHE DEEPLY

The practice of breathing deeply from the pit of your stomach is absolutely essential in Tantra as it stimulates the release of endorphins and nutrients within the body. With your woman laying flat on her back, place your hand on her stomach and ask her to close her eyes and slowly breathe through her mouth into that area of her body. Get her to repeat this process until she is deeply relaxed.

2. INHALE HER SCENT

Now move alongside her body and slowly tune in to her rhythm of breathing. She will be able to sense you and feel the warmth as you exhale but avoid her erogenous zones at this stage as we want to build her arousal in layers. Ask her to send her mental focus to where ever she is able to sense you breathing on her body. She is likely to be turned on and distracted so remind her to concentrate and continue breathing through her mouth and into her stomach. Stay close and continue until she yearns for you to touch her.

3. KISS HER ENTIRE BODY

Now it’s time to gently kiss her entire body from head to toe with a feather-light touch. Whilst still avoiding the erogenous zones watch how she responds to different types of kisses. Alternate between kissing and taking in her scent, all the while making sure she continues to breathe with her eyes closed.

4. CARESS HER BODY

With warm hands, gently begin stroking her body with one finger at a time and pay particular attention to the texture of her skin. Watch her every move and see what areas are the most sensitive. You can combine all three elements of breathing, kissing and stroking her entire body. Ask her to focus her mind on wherever you touch, get her to relax and tune in to the sensation. By now your woman will be super turned on and she’ll be aching for you to touch her erogenous zones so now is the time to turn things up.

5. TEASE HER

This type of exploration can easily go on for 20, 30, 40+ minutes without you even touching her most sensitive regions. She’ll be so turned on that she will be dripping wet and begging you to come inside her but it’s important for you to stay focused.

This is when you position yourself between her legs and move in close enough to her erogenous zones for her to pause with bated breath in anticipation of your touch – but you stop just short of them. Work your way up her inner thighs and across her pelvic bone and long her side, back into the centre of her chest up to her neck. At this point, you may even let out a growl as you hover around her throat like a wild animal about to devour her.

Lick, bite, kiss, stroke and scratch her entire body, come in super close to her areola (the dark area that surrounds her nipples) back down to her belly button and on to the area just above her clit. She will definitely need reminding to continue with her deep breathing and make sure she is still focusing her mind on whichever part of her body that you touch.

6. TASTE HER

Whilst resting between her legs, slowly and gently start to lick around her labia majora (the outside of the vagina lips). Come in close but stay on the outside of her vagina working your way down the thighs and all the way back up to her neck. By this point, she’ll be extremely turned on and pleasantly frustrated, and will really want you inside her but stay focused and keep her on track. The reason why you move back and forth, close and then pull out is to build arousal and anticipation in her mind.

The full body orgasm is a result of learning how to build intense arousal through a deep sexual connection. Imagine her as a dial that you can turn up and down based on how much you stimulate her.

But every time you do, turn up the volume a little bit more and then bring her back. Learn the rhythm of her body and practice taking her to the edge where she can feel the thrill of a man who knows exactly how to please her.

7. ORAL PLEASURE

With your woman turned on and swaying back and forth with delight and frustration in equal measure, now is the time to taste her erogenous zones but don’t just dive in. Start at her neck and slowly work your way down, and just when she thinks you’re about to move past her breast area, gently wrap your tongue around her nipple and massage it in your mouth for a short period of time.

Use your tongue and your teeth for different sensations but be gentle as this area is very very sensitive, especially as you would have just spent the last 30-40 minutes or so teasing the life out of her.

Now slowly work your way down towards her vagina but when you get there, pause for a moment, appreciate the gift of her beautiful body and watch as she waits in anticipation of your next move. When you’re ready, gently start to lick and kiss her labia minora (the inside of the vagina lips).

Focus on smooth rhythmic motion and pay attention to how she responds. Lick and kiss other areas of her vagina like her clit and her posterior fourchette (lowest part of the entrance to her vagina). Take time to discover what she responds to most and remember to dial it up and down. The aim is to build her arousal steadily over time so it can intensify.

8. STROKE HER

Your woman will be starting to approach the realm of orgasm but to bring her to this point, you’ll use your fingers. With a single finger, stroke the clitoris in a clockwise and counter-clockwise motion and you can also very gently squeeze it between your thumb and index fingers. The upper left side of the clit is particularly sensitive so pay close attention to how she responds and hold back a bit to build anticipation.

Now slowly insert the tip of your middle finger into her vagina and gently start to explore paying close attention to how she responds. Use a variation of depth, pressure and pace to increase her arousal.

With a finger (or two) facing upwards towards the area of her g-spot at the top of her vagina, slowly stroke your fingers back and forth in a beckoning motion. You can also gently use your tongue to stimulate her clit and place downward pressure with your hand on the top of her vaginal area outside in conjunction with your fingers on the inside stroking her g-spot. Imagine trying to place your fingers on the inside of your palm with her clit in the middle and you’ll get the idea. If she has managed to keep her breathing deep and consistent she’ll be feeling the effects of all the blood stimulating the nerve endings throughout her entire body.

Now is the time to make her orgasm so continue with exactly what you’re doing and encourage her to let go and release whilst she literally breathes orgasmic energy into every part of her body. Don’t speed up or start ramming your finger in like we see in porno movies unless she specifically asks you too. Stay consistent and she should start to feel intense waves of pleasure emanating from her vagina outwards all the way to the tips of her fingers and toes.

As she climaxes keep hitting the same area that gives her the most pleasure. Encourage her to breathe deeper, let go and truly feel the sensation. This is the part where she really shouldn’t give a fuck about the neighbours, tell her to go wild and embrace.

The full body orgasm is just as much about what’s going on in her head, as it is about what’s happening between her legs so remember to communicate with her and stay connected. By this stage, your woman is going to be in her own world and she may very well tell you to shut-the-fuck-up but that’s ok too. It’s her show so do whatever makes her happy.

Note: Many women may take 45 minutes or longer to orgasm so be patient, enjoy pleasuring her and don’t focus on the climax – just let it happen if it happens.

9. AFTERCARE

After a mind-bending orgasm like this, don’t just get up and use the bathroom or check your messages on your phone. Spend some time stroking her entire body with your hands in an outward motion from her vagina. Gently massage certain areas and let her feel the strength of your hands as you slowly start to ground her back into reality. This will feel amazing for her and she’ll probably be wondering what the hell just happened because 95% of men would probably have never done anything even close to this.

SUMMARY

Now here’s where it really gets interesting because once you learn how to nurture this type of arousal in a woman, you’ll be able to trigger it at will. There’ll come a point when all that’s required to make her wet with heart palpitations is the memory of you whispering in her ear and it won’t make a difference where you are or who’s watching.

Women are fantastically complex and finely tuned creatures of vivid imagination and keen perception. As men, if we take the time to learn how to unlock these secrets of arousal, we’ll be able to teach them how to embrace the sensations buried deep within, and both be able to enjoy the fruits of passion.

Peace and Love,

Madison

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January 4, 2020
How To Have Mindblowing Sex

Sex is personally my favorite part of life, and the most intimate way to experience another person

What A Good Sexual Experience Is To Me

An intimate connection and romantic interest in each other, going at each others’ pace, and passion made for my best sexual encounters

My Favorite Sex Positions

Missionary, spoon, and legs behind my head for kissing and intimacy, and doggy/cowgirl/standing/leaning over because these are universally easy to preform in most locations.

What I Like My Partner To Do

I love kissing and caressing and most of all, when my partner cums inside of my vagina.

Tips To Enjoy Sex With Your Partner

Be honest with each other about likes and dislikes from the start. Be gentle/rough as both of you desire (don’t force anything), and strong desire from both is a must.

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December 17, 2019
7 Top Tips To Create The Perfect Evening For Your Man

Last week I received an email from a woman asking for some advice about how to create a special evening for her busy partner to help him escape the pressures of a stressful job and enjoy an intimate encounter. This request got me thinking, most of the content that I create is aimed at how men can please women which is great, but it’s also just as important for women to know how to please men.

So as I sit here on a train to London to do a photo shoot for a piece that actually relates to this topic, I thought I’d take the opportunity to share my thoughts in a blog piece as others may find it helpful too.

Here are my 7 top tips for creating an evening of escapism that your man will love.

1. Set The Scene

Setting the scene provides the context for the evening. This is about understanding your partner’s desires and thinking about what will really help them to escape with you for a night of sensual passion.

Are you planning a dinner and a movie night on the couch? Or perhaps you’d prefer to cuddle up in bed and take the rare opportunity to converse? Or maybe an evening of sensual massage, pampering and lovemaking?

It will be different for everyone but the key is to tailor it to the individual:

– What would he really enjoy?

– How will you keep his attention?

– How can you help him relax and tune out the world?

– What one thing would he really appreciate?

Knowing the answer to these questions will make it a lot easier for you to create the perfect evening of relaxation and sensual pleasure.

2. Tune Out The World

This can actually be extremely difficult for many couples as our lives are so polluted with the everyday hustle and bustle. This means that most of the time we are actually operating on completely different frequencies so trying to tune in to each other when you’re both still thinking about work deadlines and house chores can be tricky.

I think the best way to manage this is for you and your partner to identify the possible areas of distraction, make a decision about whether it’s something that is urgent, can be resolved quickly or can wait until the following day. Once these potential distractions have been addressed, you can make the decision to remove them from your mind and not stress about them for the rest of the evening.

Note: Make a conscious decision to turn off mobiles, laptops and any other time-stealing devices that may intrude on your evening of escapism.

3. Tune Into Your Man

A fantastic way to tune in to your man after a long day is to spend some time meditating together for 15 minutes seated on comfortable cushions while facing each other. Place your hands over each other’s heart and focus on deep rhythmic breathing until you are in sync. Doing this while you look deep into his eyes is a powerful way to let him know that you are fully present and he has a warm invitation to connect with you.

You can also take this opportunity to express to your man how much you appreciate him and why you wanted to make the effort on this special evening. In fact, giving gratitude and letting your partner know how much you appreciate them is a beautiful daily practice to adopt as it can really help to set the tone for the day ahead.

4. Give A Full Body Tantric Massage

The secret to giving an amazing Tantric massage is the slow everything down as much as possible and take the time to explore your man’s entire body. You can use oil but sometimes the friction of a dry massage can feel amazing too.

Set the scene with scented candles and oils, sensual music, towels and anything else that will help him to relax. Ask him to hop in the shower (maybe you can run him a nice warm bath) and then join you on the bed when he’s finished. Ask him to keep his towel on at first as this will give you something to remove later on which is a massive turn on.

Lay him flat on his stomach then slowly and gently start to rub your hands over his entire body with a feather-light touch. Let him know that this massage is purely for his pleasure and that you are there to please him. Ask where and how he wants to be touched and then tease him a little by moving in close and then pulling back. Repeat this until he starts to moan and pull you in closer. Have fun with him and enjoy exploring his body but let him know that you’re doing it for his pleasure.

5. Three Hundred Kisses

Most of us enjoy a warm kiss but taking the time to really embrace your man can be an amazing experience, especially after a lovely massage.

The ‘Three Hundred Kisses‘ is something that my clients really enjoy and it’s a great way to learn exactly how and where your partner likes to be kissed (you can read more about this here). With your man laying on his back, you can gift him with 300 kisses all over his body, anywhere he chooses.

Pay particular attention to how he responds when you move in to kiss different parts of his body. Ask him how it feels and where he would like you to kiss next. Tease him as you move in closer and hold off as he anticipates your next kiss. Play around with different types of kisses from soft and sensual to firm, wet and passionate.

As you get to the last 50 kisses, he’ll probably be extremely aroused and dying to take things further but encourage him to relax and enjoy as there is plenty more pleasure coming his way.

6. The Gift Of Oral

Oral pleasure is, without a doubt, one of the most beautiful and sensual gifts that a man can receive. And taking your time to really learn how to give your man the best oral experience he’s ever had will be something that he won’t forget – trust me.

To start this wonderful gift, first, place your hands over his penis and gently and slowly massage this area until he is firmly aroused. Rub your hands up and down his inner thigh and then use your fingertips to stroke his penis, especially around the head. Now start to shower his penis with soft gentle kisses all over and be sure to make them wet and juicy – take your time and make sure he’s dying for you to put his penis in your mouth.

At this stage, slowly start flicking and licking the tip of his penis with your hands firmly holding the shaft. This is where you take complete ownership of his manhood as you will be able to control his entire body at this point. Circle your tongue around the head of his penis and pay attention to how he responds when you lick a certain part. Once you find the sweet spot, learn how to turn his arousal up and down by inserting his penis into your mouth and gently wrapping your tongue around the head and stroking the shaft still held firmly in your hands. From this point onwards it’s very much about exploring but just these few tips alone will leave most men completely at your mercy.

The secret to giving the best blow job is to make sure that your partner breathes deeply the entire time as you build his arousal. The aim is to bring his arousal to a certain point and keep it there for as long as possible until he literally can’t control himself any longer. When he finally does release, he’ll probably experience something he’s never felt before.

Don’t be afraid to explore and try not to focus on providing him with a climax. Instead, encourage him to lay back and allow you to do something special for him to show how much you care.

7. Learn How To Nurture His Arousal

Ladies, if you want your man to be putty in your hands here’s what you do. When he’s least expecting it, e.g. when he’s having breakfast and about to leave for work in the morning, put on some sexy lingerie, walk up to him without saying a word and drop to your knees. Then pull out his penis and perform oral pleasure for about 10 minutes just like how I described previously.

Give him exactly what he wants but do not let his arousal rise above a 7 out of 10. You can ask him how close he is to ejaculation if you’re unsure but DO NOT let him release. After 10 minutes, give his penis a warm dry kiss, lovingly place it back in his trousers AND WALK AWAY.

Repeat this process for a few days and then watch how he responds when he finally gets his hands on you. He’ll likely have been wet and hard many times throughout his day and the mere sight of you in bed wearing your sexy lingerie (or nothing at all) will literally cause him to lose his mind.

Learn to nurture his arousal (non-ejaculation) and teach him how to keep it with him throughout the day. Remind him to breathe deep, enjoy the feeling and think about you every time his dick gets hard. (I definitely advise men to do the same to their women also).

There are many ways to please your partner but what I have mentioned above will definitely help your man escape the stresses of the world and embrace the sensual connection that you both share.

This is an absolutely beautiful gift and he’s sure to remember every moment of it the following day. This is something that I encourage you to do often without a special occasion because it’s important to show our partners how much we care about them.

This is not so much about sex, it’s about connecting with your partner and tuning out the noise. So relax, have fun and focus on learning exactly how to please your man – I assure you, this will be something that he’s probably never experienced before.

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