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  • How To Have Amazing Sex

    How To Have Amazing Sex

    Sex is a great part of life… Sex is different for everyone; their personal view on how, when and who they may or may not have sex with. Sex has changed throughout my life. When I was young, I was taught that sex is also linked to religious beliefs, and someones’ morals. I feel a personal sexuality does not make the person! Not having sex does not make you a good person nor does having sex make you a bad person. As long as both parties are consenting adults, it does not makes the person. The number of people you may or may not sleep with doesn’t make you a good or bad person, to me it just means you may be a sexual person!

    I have found that I am pretty open with sex.. I believe in talking, finding out what each other likes and doesn’t like is very important. I am pretty selfish and choose to only do what I enjoy!!

    A Great Sexual Experience To Me

    Great sexual experiences begin with the first connection and hopefully doesn’t stop there. To have a good sexual experience, one must have an open mind to have fun, relax and orgasm a lot. Exploring your partners’ body and enjoying as much as they are makes for a great experience.

    A Memorable Sexual Experience

    I have many good memories of great sexual experiences, one of the good memories was the first time I squirted during sex. The passion was awesome…He knew not to stop to get me to the biggest orgasm. I was wearing a black lace teddy to start the night out, candles were light, music was playing. Having my neck kissed, my body savaged. He didn’t stop when I started to cum, my legs up on his shoulders, and I soaked us both!!

    What Do Men Not Get?

    Why do they stop when a woman starts an orgasm?? I prefer the sex to continue so that I may cum even harder…Every woman is different… I hear a lot of woman complain of men not going down on them….well that is not something I complain about as I don’t require that to have great sex. I prefer giving oral over receiving. So to each their own. Everyone can learn what their partner likes if they want to!!!

    Ingredients To Make Sex Great

    Ingredients to make sex great is a connection of any kind… after that, an open mind to pick up on your partners’ sounds and movements. Finding those pleasure spots that drive the person crazy. Don’t be scared to add toys!!

    Kink Up Sex Further

    I like to experiment a lot. I have a whole cabinet of toys and accessories for my sexual pleasure! I am a heterosexual person, so I only experiment with the opposite sex. I tried more open relationships in my younger years and found that I am not attracted to woman.

    Betty Boobs – Hi, just a little about me…a Pornstar and adult magazine model for the late 90’s and 2017/2018. 40somethingmag, Mompov, Milfpov. Don’t let me forget super chill hehe. I do also enjoy 420! Gluten-free highly allergic to gluten. So alcohol is limited wine champagne or vodka, very much a light-weight. Love making new friends..

    College educated… nursing(13 yrs) getting more into the fitness side of health….

    Fun times, drama free, judgement free zone!! Fetish friendly….open minded …

    Catch me in Las Vegas til Mid-November relocating to Cincinnati…. or catch me in the Midwest!

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  • How To Please A Woman

    How To Please A Woman

    Well my personal outlook on sex is that it’s a beautiful art form created by two people. Intertwining emotion and feelings. It showcases the animal we have inside us. It’s a cosmic journey in between two bodies and two minds. It’s a elevation of the spirit. It’s the bonding of two souls. Sex is the closest that two people can get to each other. Sex is an act. You do it. It doesn’t magically happen. You set forth and make it happen.

    Some people get sex and love mixed up. Love is an emotion, sex is an action. It’s a wonderful thing when used for positive purposes. It keeps you attractive and feeling young. Sex is a very healthy part of the human experience. Without sex, none of us would exist today. Now people are opening up sexually and starting to feel good about themselves. They are starting to learn their kinks and likes and learning how to please their partner.

    Are Men Clueless About What Women Want?

    That’s a misconception to those who are aware of what a woman wants and how to fulfill those needs. Those who haven’t educated themselves on the things that drives women crazy. Those who don’t understand the woman’s body, yet alone their own.

    I used to work at a adult bookstore in my 20’s and all my friends who knew I worked there thought I was a freak, just looking at all the naked women in the naughty magazines, when in my down time I was actually reading all the books. The Karma Sutra, The Ultimate Love Making Book, Everything You Wanted To Know About Sex But Were Afraid To Ask, a lot of books that taught me something about bettering my sex life. I used to bring home Nina Hartley’s instructional videos and I would watch and study them. I know it may sound crazy that I do so much research on sex, but I wanted to learn the right things I needed to know to make a sexual experience with me everlasting.

    When we leave each other’s presence, her body will be still lingering for yours. Guys need to watch for the signals that a woman is telling you that she’s ready for you. The subconscious signals that she doesn’t even know she’s doing. But if a guy is aware then he will know what she wants. She will let you know when she wants to be touched. Guys need to study on the hotspots of a woman. They need to study on the G-spot, the S-pot and other areas. Guys need to learn about the woman’s body so he can please her in the best way possible.

    You got to know how to arouse all her sexual senses. Sound, touch, taste, smell, and connect with her mentally. Men need to learn their bodies too. Build stamina and make it lasting for the girl. It’s our job to satisfy her to the fullest and she will open and do all the freaky stuff you want her to do. A real man is going to know what a woman wants and delivers it every time

    How Important Is Foreplay?

    Foreplay is very important role in the sexual escapades we do. Sex is supposed to be like a good book or movie. It starts off slow, but then it picks up. When it gains momentum, that’s when it gets exciting. There’s love, action, fun, excitement, danger, the climax and then comes to an end.

    Well, foreplay is the intro to the story of sex. Foreplay isn’t just oral sex, it’s the exploration of each other’s bodies. This is one of the best times a man will enjoy during this sexual conquest. He gets to feel the warmth of the skin which is good for bonding. He gets to find the hot spots that makes her laugh, tingle, and gasps for air. Her voice tones and moans are being hardwire to the man’s brain, sending electric shocks to his penis, getting him erect. This is time to be close and intimate. A man gets to taste the flavors of his woman giving him a animalistic vibe. Making him more and more hungry for her.

    Foreplay is what gets a woman to open up to submit to a man and being willing to receive him inside her. Yes indeed, foreplay is my thing. Now when I do foreplay, I have no set way of going about it. I usually just go with the flow, but I like to let my tongue explore across a woman’s body. The wetness from the saliva makes it easy for the tongue to slide across. I do that until I find her hotspots and work the area around it. I like to massage a woman get her comfortable and relaxed for sex  Bite her neck, kiss her ears. Kiss her belly and around her lower region till she squirms in ecstasy.

    Now since I love giving oral, I go to town pleasing a girl, making sure she a good amount of orgasms before we have sex. Those are just some of my tactics…Lol. Can’t give away them all but I hope they can help out a guy who’s having a hard time in the foreplay department. Use those methods and she’s gonna love you, trust and believe.

    Ways To Have A Good Sensual Experience

    Sex is a mood, an emotion, and an art. To have a good sensual sexual experience, you got to tap to all of those senses. I used to do a video blog called HOW TO BE A ROMANTIC into which I always said that romance is a lifestyle. So you have to build that lifestyle. Same with sensuality. It comes from within and flows like water freely. Set the mood with the proper music to get the mind intrigued. Have her in sexy attire that will draw more attraction to you of her.

    A man loves to see curves, so ladies, wear something revealing but also leave a little to the imagination. Men, explore her body, heighten her senses. Listen for the sounds that lets you know that she’s enjoying what you’re doing. Communicate, ask her what does she like, or if what you are doing is making her feel good. Take your time and don’t rush. Give her the enjoyment that she wants to feel. Whisper in her ear how much you like connecting with her, which will get her closer to climax.

    After all that is said and done and the both of you have climaxed, take time to hold each other and afterglow. Hold your hand over your partners heart so you can feel there heartbeat. You can bond real close and feel the life flowing through each other. Calm down and relax. That will make for a good sensual sexual connection.

    My Favorite Sex Positions

    Now as far as positions go, I love them all. With missionary it makes me feel strong and masculine over the woman. I feel a lot bigger as a person. I like being able to look down at the girl to see if she is being receptive to my strokes. I’m able to play within her vagina deep and shallow. I definitely love doggy style because I’m an ass man. The bigger the better. I like to see the voluptuous cheeks shake and make waves with each stroke. I’m able to massage her back while delivering my strokes. That gets them all mushy.

    Now, one of my favorite positions is being rode. I love a rider. That position is for the women. They are able to take control and put the penis in a spot that makes her feel the best. Also, I’m able to grab her ass and feel all the softness of it. I like making good transitions going from one position to another. Sex is an art, a synchronized dance between man and woman. Be the best artist you can. Try all kinds of positions and paint pretty pictures in the bedroom.

    Mistakes During Sex That Turn Her Off

    There’s many things that can happen in the bedroom that can turn her off.  Having a bad attitude. Having terrible hygiene. Being too aggressive, not being able to get erect. Men having an orgasm before they do. If the man is not making her orgasm, then that is a for sure way of stopping yourself from getting another chance with a girl.

    Women build up all this anticipation and willingness to give themselves to you, and you end up shooting holes in the boat and start to drown because of these key mistakes. If one thing I can stress to men, that it is to learn your own body. Learn how it works. Listen to what it tells you. Learn how to gain stamina and learn how to control your penis. It’s yours, connected to you and your brain, learn how to control it. If you have sexual anxiety and can’t get it up, learn how to relax and accept the fact that yes, this lady wants to have sex with you and yes, that it’s alright for you to do it. Relax and enjoy.

    One thing that can throw a woman off also is non communication. Not responding to her or not telling her what feels good. That can get a girl frustrated. They’re not mind readers but we men expect for them to know what we want. Without communication, it could make for a dead session. So if a guy takes in some of this information, I say it will definitely help him on his sexual quest of pleasing a woman

    Myster Mysterious – ADULT CONTENT CREATOR/ PRODUCER/ MALE TALENT. I SPECIALIZE IN ALL BLACK, INTERRACIAL, BUSTY, AND BBW FILMING AND PHOTOGRAPHY. MY MOTTO: SEXY, CLASSY, NAUGHTY, AND NASTY

    Some people call me the P.T Barnum of the industry because I bring all the freaks together like a circus show to give you unique sexual shows. I look to shoot people with unique sexual talents.

    I have a lot of projects lined up for the future. I’m continuing on with my new blowjob series… THE ART OF SUCKING DICK. Also I’ll be working on a MILF interracial DVD release, Welcome To The Freakshow, Big Beautiful Babies, Black Love, Pussy Stories, and MYSTER MYSTERIOUS PRESENTS THE CASE OF THE MISSING VIBRATOR. I got a gang of ideas and in the near future they will come to light.

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  • The Hottest Kamasutra Poses For A Pleasant Evening

    The Hottest Kamasutra Poses For A Pleasant Evening

    Not everyone has an idea of what Kamasutra positions or Kamasutra sex look like. However, it would interest you to know that one of the best ways to have a pleasant evening with your partner, is to integrate some fun like erotic Kamasutra and the likes.

    When you check either scam or legit real reviews for com dating site, there is one constant feature, and that is safe sex or gay safe sex. People visit local dating sites for this purpose, and once the sex feature can be accessed, it keeps them coming for more.

    Below are some of the hottest Kamasutra poses which would give you an enjoyable evening:

    1. Butterfly position: If you have a moderate weight, and your partner has a full figure, you will take your leg to her chest region, while you allow her to stand on either side while ensuring she is very flexible. Move gently towards her, and penetrate while holding her leg.

    You can also stand in front of her, while her legs have exceeded the edge of the bed, then lift her legs upwards, making them rest towards you. This pose perfectly illustrates the butterfly position, and it can also be performed as a kneeling position.

    2. Janakurpara position: This is one of the best erotic Kamasutra positions which would grant you a pleasant time with your partner. This is perfectly suited for partners who are equally fit. Both parties need to have strong and firm abs because lots of calories would be burnt.

    Basically, you set the janakurpara position by carrying her up and fixing your elbows below her knees for a firmer grip. Then use your hands to hold her butt, and allow her to hold your neck.

    With this position, you will be able to penetrate deeply, and it comes with lots of pleasure. In addition, there would be eye contact which is beneficial to this experience. It can be said that this position is the best reward for the tough exercise you had in the gym for your body to be fully fit.

    3. Tripadam position: This is another erotic Kamasutra sex position which gives you an awesome sex experience. The Tripadam position is perfect for partners who have the same height, and it is amazing when you need a quickie done. This position can be done as fast as possible without wasting your time. As a matter of fact, you do not need a bed to get this done.

    According to reviews of free dating sex sites like fuckbook, you will see some models giving this particular pose. People who ask “what is fuckbook?”, need to understand great sex poses before asking any model out. What you do in this position is, both of you stand and face each other, then you raise one of her knees and fix your hand under.

    You should however know that, you cannot deep penetrate with this position.

    4. Piditaka position: This is one of the best Kamasutra positions which comes with an unforgettable sexual encounter. The Piditaka position can be performed by anyone, at any period of the day. To start with, she bends her knees and rests them on your chest. Then you relax your knees on any side of your buttocks, raise her thighs then penetrate her.

    With this sex position, pleasure is guaranteed, because the vagina becomes narrower when the legs are raised up. In addition, you can also communicate affection and tenderness to her when you allow her legs to touch your feet and mouth.

    Before you use the Piditaka position, ensure that you have ample time for sex with your partner, because you would not want to let go easily. Also ensure you integrate foreplay before the penetration, to set your emotions racing.

    5. Blossoming position: This is another Kamasutra sex position which is common. Basically, it can be achieved by taking the head of the woman lower and raising her vagina. This position is the link between Pilates bridge and the missionary style. With the Blossoming position, you can take your partner into a long sex journey, which gives room for both parties to explore the bodies of each other.

    You would be surprised to find out that you can use several rounds with this position without getting wearied. You can also take turns with your partner to lead each round, and you will be thrilled by the pleasant experience which this position gives every time.

    When it comes to having a pleasant evening, one fact which you and your partner should bear in mind is, there are no fixed rules in bed. All you need do is ensure that you wholly submit to your partner, and ensure they receive the needed affection which is a strong sign of your true love for them.

    All the aforementioned Kamasutra poses are awesome, and understanding how each of the works, will guarantee how your sex life would be. Hence, for you not to mess it up, it is important that you understand how they work, so that you will keep thrilling your partner.

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  • Ways to Kink Sex Up

    Ways to Kink Sex Up

    Sex is something that can be very enjoyable and pleasurable for all parties involved. I personally do not believe that it needs to be accompanied by romantic love, but I do think it is important for my own enjoyment that there is a mutual respect, and that at least on some level I genuinely like the person whom I am sharing this intimate experience with. Basically, I think sex is what you make of it. If it is an expression of love for you, then that is what it is. If it is a novel adventure, that is fine too. As long as we are all having fun =)

    Does Introducing Kink Spice Sex Up?

    I think anything we do often can lose some of the excitement that it once had, and that is for even the most fun things. Like sex. So trying new things can bring some of the excitement back, and make you feel things in ways you never did. I think it can be liberating when you know that you can be anyone in sex, you can be the boss at work but enjoy being dominated in the bedroom, for example.

    Introducing some domination and submission can be exciting for the right people, and sadomasochism (S&M) can incorporate new sensations that can heighten orgasm. Light S&M is all about pleasure. It doesn’t necessarily work that more pain equals more pleasure, and it’s one of those things you need to try to find out what you like or not. Some men like their nipple lightly bitten, and some like them pulled hard or clamped. It depends on the person receiving pain, and it is all about the pleasure so if it is not working for you, try less or a little bit more. Not everything is going to be everyone’s cup of tea, and trying something that doesn’t work for you is no reason to not try something else, especially if you are curious or the thought excites you. The other thing to be open to is that you don’t have to be completely dominant/sadistic or submissive/masochistic. I have one client who enjoys ball and cock torture, and at the end likes to dominate me.

    I encounter men who know that that is what they like, or what they want to try. I have some clients who like my feet in their face during sex, and I love watching a man enjoy sex and be overcome with pleasure. It’s like an addition to the intimate play we are doing, adding more parts of our bodies to it and varying the experience, but at the end of the day it’s still about feeling good and having fun.

    My Favorite Go To Items 

    Bed ties are great as it’s a nice way for men to be taken out of control and I enjoy teasing a man who is tied down. Sometimes, in vanilla sex, men can feel a lot of pressure to perform. I think it can be a nice treat for them, and I enjoy the power dynamic of being in charge, while vicariously enjoying them enjoying being tied up, as someone who also enjoys being at the other end of it.

    Kinking Things Up For Someone New

    I generally have men know what they want to try, and some of them are nervous about trying though, and I think through having rapport and being happy together even before the sex probably helps a lot. Many clients are quite attentive and concerned that I enjoy myself too, so I think that they feel less nervous when they see me enjoying it. Some men who don’t mention trying kinky things, if they are kind of dominant, I might ask him to spank me or move his hand to my head when giving a blow job, some men really enjoying taking it a notch up, but not all will and it’s something I do through my own judgement of how they are during the sex.

    Ensuring clear consent and safety is important. Otherwise, you should be nervous. Also you are your own boss of your comfort, and you do not need to prove anything to anyone, like that you can give it or that you can take it. I may be repeating myself, but it’s about enjoyment, and in my experience, doing it with someone who cares how you feel is integral to good sex.

    Do’s & Don’ts For Safe Play

    There needs to be consent at every stage, so just because one party is ok with spanking, don’t surprise them with a paddle. There is some common sense, like unless you know what you are doing, don’t even try breath play for example. Start small and light, and be attentive to your partner. People will often have a safe word, like red (traffic light) for example. But if you are only playing lightly, you can have this word but stop will still mean stop (unless you have discussed beforehand that you want to say no/stop and only use the safe word).

    If you are doing things with ball-gag or where one of you can’t talk, then a tap can mean stop (discuss this before the action). You need to be attentive during sex to how your partner is feeling. For toys, if you are spanking, bruising happens quite easily even with a hand if it’s hard, so be aware of it and decide whether you are ok with some temporary marks or not beforehand. Hand is safest, and I personally prefer if I do use toys with spanking (or have one used on me) that it has a relatively large flat surface, like a paddle.

    Other toys like cat-o-nine tails might feel good, but you need to be more careful with it as the smaller surface area means it is easier to break the skin (which is not what we want to do). Anal play can be a really enjoyable addition to vanilla sex, lube up and go slow, and make sure you are using objects made for sex, they will have a base on them so they don’t get lost =)

    Don’t be shy to try things on yourself (in fact I highly recommend it). It can be good to know how things feel before doing them to someone else, while being aware that we all have different pain thresholds.

    Ana Angel – I am an independent escort in New Zealand. I am a hedonist who really enjoys sex. As a sex worker I get to explore my own sexual fantasies, as well as those of my clients, in a safe and fun environment.

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  • How To Give A Mindblowing Blowjob

    How To Give A Mindblowing Blowjob

    Giving blowjobs is one of my absolute favorite things to do in the bedroom! I adore cock worship – being able to take it slow and sensual, or a nice rough face fucking! There’s just something extra special about making a man writhe around in ecstasy using only my mouth.

    How To Turn Him On

    There are so many ways depending on the situation! But in general, lots of eye contact as I slowly move my mouth down his chest, to his waist, and then lower. I like to start over the underwear with my hands and mouth, getting him excited before the clothes are even off. It’s all about teasing!

    Does Size Matter?

    There’s no right or wrong size or type of penis, the most important thing is good hygiene and good communication! I say good communication because it’s important that both you and your partner are on the same page. Everyone has different preferences and gag reflexes, so don’t assume you can just start out deepthroating!

    But all types of dicks are perfect for sucking.

    How To Give An Amazing Blowjob

    There are so many tips and tricks out there, everything from using ice cubes to grapefruits! But some solid foundations to make sure your BJs are always amazing are; start slow and work up to a faster pace as he gets closer to orgasm, a little eye contact goes a long way, and don’t be afraid to slurp and get spitty! The more spit the better, there’s no such thing as too sloppy for a BJ!

    Common Blowjob Mistakes

    One mistake I know I made was keeping my grip too firm on his shaft, a little tension is good but don’t grip too hard! Unless he likes it that way 😉

    And of course, no teeth.

    How To Finish Off

    This is a super easy question, I love facials! I want that cum all over my tongue and dripping off my face!

    But remember to check with what your partner likes before hand because EVERYONE is different!

    Hi, I’m Cara! I’m a 21 year old model, adult film actress and content creator from CO. I love most all fetishes and roleplays, and am always looking to explore new sexual experiences. I especially love giving head, showing off, and forced orgasms!

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  • HYPNOSIS AUDIOBOOK: A Dark Orgasmic Experience

    HYPNOSIS AUDIOBOOK: A Dark Orgasmic Experience

    ‘Hypnosis: A Dark Orgasmic Experience’ encapsulates the very essence of what I love about exploring sexuality with women.

    This dark orgasmic experience was created specifically so you could embrace one of the most intense orgasms of your life, from the privacy of your own bed.

    During this 60 minute long audio, I take you by the hand and lead you all the way to an intense erotic wave of orgasms one step at a time. I’ll be with you for the entire journey as you drift deeper and deeper into a trance-like state completely owned and dominated by my voice.

    As I cast my dark spell you will experience sensations in your body that you’ve probably never felt before. It will be so intense and so raw that you’ll be reliving the moment for days.

    And as tempting as it is to delve into the juicy detail, it’s better for you to experience it yourself.

    You can listen and download for free via my podcast page and iTunes. (Or link below)

    https://www.podbean.com/ew/pb-w9mcp-ae5d2f

    (Headphones are recommended as you’ll definitely be needing both hands.)

    Ps. If you do visit iTunes, please leave a review, thanks.

    Peace and Love,

    Madison

    Madison James is a degree educated 38 year old international male escort from London with a keen interest in BDSM, Tantra and massage. He has an aptitude for intellectual conversation, an inquisitive mind and a genuine desire to help women embrace their sexuality one orgasm at a time!

    This article was originally published at https://www.themadisonjames.com/single-post/2019/04/17/HYPNOSIS-A-Dark-Orgasmic-Experience

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  • Intimacy For Older Gentlemen

    Intimacy For Older Gentlemen

    Sexuality and its expression is part of being a healthy person. The hormones released such as serotonin, oxytocin, dopamine, all have positive effect on our well being and bonding.

    People differ in how they express that sexuality as some enjoy the kink side of sexuality and some of us are more vanilla but a large part of it is mental and we all can indulge ourselves in the thought process.

    Sexy thoughts about the fun and the experience we can have arouses sexy expression and better experiences. Keeping that mental part alive is an important part of experiencing great sex as we age.

    Differences Between The Needs Of Older & Younger Gentlemen

    Older men enjoy the journey and often prefer a relaxed, non rushed atmosphere. Performance anxiety may be present if ED is an issue and thus patience is needed and plenty of teasing and working to build excitement. However, many men enjoy the journey and don’t worry if the destination takes a different path and doesn’t arrive at an “earth shattering orgasm” but enjoy pleasing a partner and the closeness and mental sexiness of being in the moment, kissing and cuddling.

    What Do Older Gentlemen Do Better In Bed?

    They tend to be more able to provide the sensual experience the majority of women appreciate, taking time to stimulate us and are tuned into our reactions and know the subtle signs of our heightened stimulation. They tend to know where erogenous areas of a woman’s body are and often realize that porn is not the manifestation of that ultimate experience and expression, but merely visually fun. I personally enjoy men in my age bracket over younger men as they stimulate both my mind and body through shared history and because older men have, for the most part; become attuned to women’s needs.

    Advantages Of A Longer Date 

    Again, the mind plays a huge role in the build up of sexual experience and expression, and for older men, the appreciation of time spent over dinner, for example; anticipating the intimacy to come and then the slow, deep kissing, undressing and caressing and non-rushed feeling allows for a more intense, juicer time with a woman. There’s less concern about performance and thus ED may be a non issue in the relaxed time together .

    There is also a certain romantic element that enters into play that goes with the longer engagement that appeals to mature men and women on a date, if it’s a dinner date or longer and a naturalness that has an appeal for many.

    Tips For An Unforgettable Date

    I am in a service role in a sense and recalling that with my own boundaries in mind is important to me. Listening to conversations actively, adding the romance by holding hands in public when appropriate, and being sure to keep my focus on my company in public and private sphere, add to the experience.

    Staying positive and relaxed and seeking to find any personal touches I  can address in the setting that are thoughtful and may not even have to do with sexual expression; the trip to the coffee bar in the morning , calling the Uber for dinner, thoughtful and simple gestures can mean so much to create a memory. The sex may be memorable but the sum package of fun  is in the small gestures, too.

    Bailey Rae – I am a mature Southern California courtesan who enjoys the company of her peers for longer engagements, though shorter engagements are available. Please see my information here.

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    Incall available in Palm Springs with at least a weeks notice, but I’m mainly outcall with a businessman’s needs in mind for a change of pace from dining alone and spending the night staring at the television.

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  • My Likes & Dislikes During Sex

    My Likes & Dislikes During Sex

    I love sex, and can’t get enough of it! At a recent party, a friend asked me to choose two interests that I would be unquestionably different without and my answer was, art and sex. Sex is completely sensory, it enhances everything. The intersection of sex and emotion, sex and drugs, sex and food… the egg yolk scene in the 1985 film Tampopo was an awakening for me.

    What Turns Me On

    This is a tricky question. There’s so many factors, so many ways to do it. My tastes and preferences change frequently so I guess it depends on what the flavor of the week is. In any circumstance, the best way to turn me on is to be outwardly, shamelessly passionate in whatever you do and whatever you want.

    What I Want During Sex

    I want to get lost in it with my partner, to just completely slip away from reality in a realm of pleasure.

    Again, passion is vital here, as is communication. Nothing is hotter to me than when someone asks how I want to be fucked.

    What I Hate During Sex

    I hate it when a new partner tells me to take the lead but doesn’t tell me what they want or what they like. It makes me feel a bit timid, I can’t provide a proper experience when I don’t know my partners’ boundaries or needs. I always ask a new partner what they like, what kind of porn they like, or any fantasies they would like to try to set the stage for our relationship.

    Ways To Bring Up One’s Likes & Dislikes

    Just ask! I cannot emphasize how important communication is in these instances. It’s so vital to express limits or desires with partners and providers if you want to live your best sexual experiences.

    Mina Yoon – A self proclaimed “whore of all trades,” as well as activist and artist in New York. When she’s not running up a room service bill or dreaming about a Sapphic sex cult, Mina can often be found painting in her studio or cozying up with a good book. She enjoys late nights, good head, and summers in the south of France.

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  • Finding Genuine Enjoyment: 6 Ways to Explore Your Sexuality

    Finding Genuine Enjoyment: 6 Ways to Explore Your Sexuality

    Most people don’t really find their way sexually speaking until they reach their 30s or 40s. Sex in our 20s is often unfulfilling, both physically and emotionally. It takes time for us to feel comfortable with our bodies and meet partners who are not selfish or inexperienced. The older we get, the better we know our bodies and what we like. With age comes self-confidence. If your sex life isn’t ticking as many boxes as you’d like, here are some ideas to help you explore your sexuality.

    Get to Know Your Body

    Around 10-15% of women don’t experience orgasm during sex. Of those that do, 75% don’t achieve orgasm through penetrative sex. 90% of men, on the other hand, reach orgasm when they have sex.

    Biological differences make it harder for women to have an orgasm. Most men discover their penis at a young age and soon learn that it is an endless source of pleasure, whereas women are less likely to masturbate and learn what stimulates them and gives them pleasure.

    It’s very hard to have positive sexual experiences if you have no idea what you like or how your body responds to sexual stimulation. Get to know your body intimately. Explore every bit of your body when you are feeling relaxed, such as in the bath or under the duvet late at night. If you have no idea what an orgasm feels like, start with a vibrator. Once you can orgasm with a vibrator, you can try manual stimulation.

    It is now really easy to buy sex toys like vibrators or g-spot stimulators online. Nobody needs to know what you’re buying; parcels are usually delivered in plain packaging, so no embarrassment!

    Be Open to New Experiences

    Don’t let the fear of being judged by others dissuade you from trying new sexual experiences. If you have a secret fantasy about kissing a woman, hook up with your best friend. You never know, your friendship might reach a whole new level of enjoyment. And if it ends there, at least you can both giggle about it later.

    Date Someone Much Older

    Everyone should have at least one experience of dating an older man or woman. Older partners have life experience and the self-confidence to take charge in bed. It’s a great way to learn a few new tricks, which you can use to wow future partners.

    Date Someone Much Younger

    By the same token, nothing beats taking a toy boy or sugar baby lover – at least for a while. You can be the lucky recipient of envious looks and have fun exploring a taut, sexy body in bed. What’s not to like about that? Younger lovers also have a lot more stamina, which has its perks!

    Try Out Your Wildest Fantasies at Least Once

    We all have a bucket list of secret sexual fantasies, from threesomes with George Clooney and Matt Damon to attending a sex party dressed in a rubber catsuit. OK, so perhaps some of your fantasies are best kept to yourself, but if you have a fantasy that’s legal and doable, why not make it happen?

    Whatever crazy fantasy you decide to tick off your bucket list, always do it with someone who respects you and your boundaries.

    Know that it’s OK to Have Sex Without Love

    Don’t get too hung up on the notion that sex must be a part of love. It doesn’t have to be. Once you get your head around the idea that you can have great sex without falling in love, it frees you up to experiment guilt-free.

    Sex gets better the more we do it. As long as you practice safe sex and don’t take stupid risks, you have nothing to be afraid of!

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  • How To Have Good Foreplay

    How To Have Good Foreplay

    I absolutely love sex. It’s a great way to connect with your lover or partner.

    The Importance Of Foreplay

    Foreplay is very important. It’s a great way to get the action started in the bedroom. There are different aspects to foreplay that prolongs the action and makes things more intense.

    Are Men Not Into Foreplay?

    I think it is a misconception…if a guy isn’t into foreplay, he will definitely learn about it very soon.

    What Constitutes Good Foreplay?

    Hmmmm, there are quite a few things that constitute good foreplay, such as lube, toys, roleplay, oral sex, intimate massage, striptease and more. Me personally, I love oral sex performed on me. I love toys and teasing my lover till they are extremely hard and ready. LOL.

    When Should Foreplay Progress To Sex?

    Take your time, don’t rush the feeling or experience. There really isn’t a process. Once the clothes are off and your body is ready…let the fun begin.

    Eva Godiva – Sexy ebony Goddess, camgirl, and sex worker. Experienced in intimacy and more…

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