Tag: Orgasm

Push Your Sexual Boundaries

(Note: Play the video below whilst reading this post, it’s relevant;)

We all live in the physical realm where we believe in what we can see with our eyes and touch with our hands. But as soon as we scratch beneath the surface our other senses allow us to glimpse the beauty of the intangible. Even in today’s world where we have evolved to rely less and less on our senses, we still have an innate ability to be captivated by the sound of music or the intoxicatingly indulgent realm of scent.

As I journey through life I become increasingly aware of the realms that co exist along side the physical but are often muted by our reliance on what we see with our eyes. “Seeing is believing” is a mindset that it based on pragmatism and logic but what was true today can be false tomorrow so I embrace the discomfort of uncertainty in pursuit of conscious evolution.

In my line of work as a male escort I meet people from all walks of life and the one thing that I have learnt is that as special as we think we are, and as complex as our minds may be, that invisible person passing me in the street is just as wrapped up in their head as I am in mine.

When I meet a female client for the first time, our worlds collide with an over flow of mixed emotions and desires, excitement and fear. My aim is to understand her emotions and provide peace of mind in an environment where she is free to embrace the realms that co-exist beyond the physical.

A lustful exploration of senses that once lay dormant are now alive and racing. When open minds embrace masculine and feminine counterpoints, uncontrollable attraction and desire enables us to tune in to the intangible.

We all posses the ability to travel to places yet to be explored in a world that attempts to stigmatise those who chose to live beyond the expectations of an Orwellian state of mind.

They once believed the world was flat, and as ridiculous as this may seem, in years to come they will be laughing at us too for the perceived logic we currently hold dear. A wise person knows that they know nothing.

Video link: https://youtu.be/UA5Y3xNCoHo

Madison James is a degree educated 37 year old international male escort from London with a keen interest in BDSM, Tantra and massage. He has an aptitude for intellectual conversation, an inquisitive mind and a genuine desire to help women embrace their sexuality one orgasm at a time!

This article was originally published at https://www.madisonjamesescort.com/single-post/2017/03/15/Worlds-beyond

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April 12, 2017
3 Cords Of Orgasm To Satisfy Any Woman

Being the inquisitive soul that I am, I’m genuinely fascinated by the way a woman reaches her orgasm. I’m not talking about the standard early morning romp when she climaxes, rolls out of bed and hops in the shower to get ready for work. I’m talking about the teeth grinding, face slapping, pussy clenching, body quivering orgasm that causes her to wail like a banshee.

Sex for me is like a really good fragrance, so if a quickie is the Eau De Toilette then an intense and passionate encounter is more like the Eau de parfum, a Tom Ford Tabaco Vanille perhaps. And like any good fragrance a quality orgasm has 3 ‘cords’ – The ‘Head cord’ which gives you the initial hit, the ‘Heart cord’ which comes through after half an hour or so and the ‘Base cord’ which subtly captivates you days after when you catch a whiff as you open the closet door. These fragrances are skillfully mixed together by a keen nose and layered on top of each other to create that harmonious scented orgasm with the richness that will ring out for days.

Let’s unpack this a little further…the ‘Head cord’ for me is foreplay, this is when I start to push her buttons and tune in to her frequency. This is a sensory exploration from head to toe – sniffing, licking, biting, scratching, slapping and teasing the life out of every curve and every bump until she’s flush with sexual frustration. Her thigh twitches as she feels the sudden coldness of my tongue flick, the stomach tenses as I breath deeply around her mid section, the eyes squint as I come in growling like a dog hovering around the side of her neck about to sink my teeth in – hard. Any moment she could find my hands wrapped around her neck like a hangman’s noose or my tongue between her legs swirling around her clit while she juices up in anticipation of the cords yet to come.

Amidst the aroma of extreme sexual tension the ‘Heart cord’ starts to ring out. The strength of which dominates all her senses as she inhales deeply when I enter her universe. She needs time to recalibrate, the ‘Heart cord’ is deep and strong, full bodied and intense so she prepares her mind to embrace. Every stroke is timed and considered as I watch closely for the involuntary reactions that guide me towards her orgasm. A certain angle that strokes her clit, or the position of my hands around her waist sinking in deep above her hipbones. Her pussy starts to clench up and I know she won’t be able to control it for much longer; this is when I bring her back. She let’s me know how close she is to climax on a scale of 1 to 10 so my aim is to keep her in a perpetual state of ‘imminent orgasm’. I bring her back and forth whilst relishing the beautiful sound that signifies she’s about to erupt uncontrollably. At this point it’s like fanning the flames and enjoying the warmth, as it grows in to something wild and untamed. Finally I give her permission to cum and without hesitation the flames erupt as if doused with gasoline. She’s kicking and slapping and thrashing around as I calm her by stroking her body. I channel the energy of her orgasm by massaging her body outwards from her center and she regains her composure. Have you every seen anything else like it? Who made this creature?

Now the beauty of the ‘Base cord’ is that it lives on long after the other cords have faded. But unlike the fleeting realm of sent the mind holds on to memories and feelings for much longer. The mind has a way of unapologetically interrupting the mundane routine of everyday life and whisking you away with memories of past encounters. These memories are intense and vivid, full of colour and raw emotion masked by the need to compose oneself for fear of judgment. Imagine if we could all embrace what’s buried deep inside openly and freely like our ancestors did many moons ago, what a fucking trip that would be.

Madison James is a degree educated 37 year old international male escort from London with a keen interest in BDSM, Tantra and massage. He has an aptitude for intellectual conversation, an inquisitive mind and a genuine desire to help women embrace their sexuality one orgasm at a time!

This article was originally published at https://www.madisonjamesescort.com/single-post/2017/03/15/3-Cords-of-Orgasm-To-Satisfy-Every-Woman

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April 5, 2017
How To Stimulate Her Clitoris & Give Her Screaming Orgasms

My personal views on sex really stem from how taboo speaking about it was in my culture. I’m 100% Jamaican. When people think of that, a lot of times it’s about the “sexual dancing” with the whining or any dancehall videos anyone has seen. Dancing isn’t sexual to us. Talking about sex when growing up wasn’t common so that sparked my curiousity. Sex is NORMAL, it’s NATURAL and it’s human nature. It shouldn’t be taboo, or weird or make you a slut. My personal view is that as long as we are adults with free will, we should be able to do what we like and we are comfortable with, with no embarrassment or shame!

What Turns Me On

I’m easily aroused depending on who and what it is… But pretty easily if it’s the right spot or the right person! I like the neck and shoulder blade, kisses on the gentler side but I’m personally a little rougher. Some spanks on the ass or being grinded on against a wall usually starts things off well!

Importance Of Clit Stimulation

Clitoral stimulation is very important but for me it can’t be too much. My clit is a very sensitive area so constant direct stimulation is too much but playing between around it and on it directly is how to keep it pleasurable for me.

Mouthwork For Men

When it comes to the mouth, I prefer a mouth being wrapped around my clit and then the rest being different speeds and types of tongue play. Swirls and loops, suck on it, lick it fast, lick it slow, if you’re a pro you can nibble slightly lol.

Do’s & Don’ts For Fingering

WETNESS.

Do NOT just rub on a dry clit. There has to be a flow of wetness going to bring up and lubricate the clit while you rub on it.

Use A Sex Toy!

I am a advocate for the HITACHI. You can NEVER go wrong with a vibrator on your clit and especially not the HITACHI.

Faith Love is a former adult film actress and is currently a traveling exotic dancer dancer and private companion. 5’9” with 34DDD’s (never seen on film) 100% Jamaican, raised in Minnesota. Follow her on Twitter @MissFaithLove and Instagram @Jamaican_Bunny_ and Snapchat @XXXFaithLove

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January 30, 2017
Girl On Top Sex – What Guys Should Do

Sex is what makes the world go around. There are those that know this and embrace it; and there are those that don’t.

What I Love About Being On Top

I think that my answer to this question is probably what almost every woman would say: being on top let’s me be in control. And the thing that I like to be in control of is the pace. However, it also means that I’ll be doing most of the work.

Comfortable Positions I Love

I would say that the very best location for this position is probably on the couch. With the man sitting slightly slouched on the couch, so the woman on top can use the back of the couch for something to hold on to. I always find myself wishing I had something to grab onto when I’m in that position on a bed.

Do’s & Don’ts Every Guy Should Follow

Of course any man who cares about pleasing his partner will know that it is important to listen to what she tells you, especially about what she likes. Also, to pay attention to her body language in order to learn what pleases her.

In addition to that, there is something that is a bit more up to you: it is helpful if you have a good erection. One of the most important factors, at least for me to enjoy sex, is hardness. It’s not necessarily the size, but how hard it is, that matters. Sometimes, for me, if it’s even a little soft, it may end up not happening for me.

But men shouldn’t always take it too personally if a woman they are with doesn’t have an orgasm; some women are more difficult to get off than others. But it should also be noted that the same woman can be harder to get off on certain days than she is on others; depending on where she is at in regards to her menstrual cycle. So don’t get discouraged if you are doing everything you can think of and she doesn’t get there. It may just be a matter of trying again another day.

By the way, don’t forget that a little extra clitoral stimulation using a vibrator during sex can make all the difference.

Don’t Spoil The Momentum When Switching Positions

I would say, before switching positions, slow down first and come to a smooth stop while continuing to kiss. If you need to, stop kissing briefly to do the position switch. Perhaps try to keep in eye contact. Then, once switched, continue kissing to pick up right where you left off. Then just go from there and you can get right back to where you were. Hopefully, without anything getting spoiled .

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October 27, 2016
How To Prolong Sex & Orgasms

Sex to me is so many things but since it’s so much a part of who I am, I naturally fell into the adult world. I love how it can be so intense and physical and other times so gentle and soft. Something so simple yet complicated at times, I am fascinated by how vast and large the sex world is and proud to be part of it.

My First Sexual Experience

I remember and wow was I nervous. I had never done anything other than hand holding so to go right to kissing and sex was a step. I made sure we had a place to go which was a tent set up in a local pine forest. I had been a reader and had read lots about not skipping foreplay so made sure to do lots of that. I think at one point I was so nervous I was putting off the final act but it came off as I am just one hell of a giver.

My first time was after weeks of talking online so the night we spent together I made sure we made the most of it and stayed up all night. It was a full night and a good night, it set me on a path with new experiences and a thirst for adventure.

Control & Prolong An Orgasm

Yes now I am more in control but at first, it was like 20% of the time I was, and 80% no chance in stopping. But these days it’s the reverse. I find with more foreplay the longer I last. The longest duration I think is an hour and a half but if it’s a kinky kind of day, you’re taking breaks so those all day play dates aren’t the same game.

Are Resulting Orgasms More Powerful?

Yes my orgasms are way more intense and longer after prolonging it. The longer I play and build up, the more powerful the contractions when I cum. My cock shoots more and farther when it’s been teased and edged.

Practice Prolonging Your Orgasms

I like to play a game where when fucking, you do 10 thrusts but you start with 10 shallow and 0 deep, then 9 shallow and 1 deep and work your way to all deep then backward to all shallow again. This takes my mind off cumming yet keeps my head still in the moment. Other than that, just take your time and don’t rush it.

Peter Pounder – I am a young bisexual male who has always had an open mind. I don’t believe in knowing without trying and I have no regrets to this day. I am fun, outgoing and charismatic which is a turn around from the shy guy I grew out of. Follow me on Twitter @peter_pounder, Instagram @peter_pounder, and Snapchat @peter_pounder

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October 24, 2016
Fingering Tips To Make Her Orgasm

Foreplay is everything in the bedroom and can be easily overlooked. Fingering done right can not only be used as foreplay but also to bring on the big O, leaving your lady in a sexed out haze. Below I’ll outline some handy hot tips and my own best bits of fingering fun!

How I Like To Be Fingered

When it comes to my personal preference of being fingered, it can change daily! When I’m feeling particularly naughty, rough and hard is my favorite straight out the gate. However, on most days I love starting out slower and building the suspense to boiling point, increasing with speed as I reach pure ecstasy.

My pussy can be a little particular! I am very vocal though and will always direct my guy to exactly where I love it. The sure fire motion to really hit that pleasure zone of the G-spot is the “come hither” motion. The g-spot is located only 3 inches give or take on the bladder side of the vaginal wall. It requires firm strokes to make that love button swell. Generally, 1-2 fingers are plenty, but I have been known to want to really stretch and feel filled by suggesting more than a few fingers! To get to this extreme point however, I need to be fully charged and feeling kinky as hell. Have I ever been fisted? No. Have I tried? Oh yes!

As a side note, I have witnessed fisting and been the “fister”. It is actually amazing and you can see the pleasure from it is overwhelming, thus my curiosity. Those out there who are kinky enough to try, start small, work your way up and use copious amounts of lubricant and don’t over-do it.

Favorite Position To Be Fingered

My all-time favorite fingering position is from behind. Wow. Ladies if you haven’t done it, please try! Standing or bending over is equally exciting. As an added bonus, you can easily stimulate your clit also with no obstacles. Win, win! I can come from this position in about half or less of the time taken than in a front facing position due to more pressure directly to my G-spot. I think it’s a mental thing for me too as I love doggy-style.

Signs I Am Reaching Orgasm

A guy will actually feel my squirt (yes, I’m a squiter!) building inside me. Also, my vagina will tighten to his fingers like a glove. If that isn’t a certain indicator, being the vocal lady I am, I am sure he will hear me multiple times repeating “Don’t stop, I’m going to cum”. Haha, I make it very easy to understand!

Other ladies will have different responses obviously as sexually we are all individuals. Our automatic pleasure responses however will help to indicate when she is getting close. Watch signs for heavier breathing, arching her back, toes curling and stretching, flushing of the chest and involuntary movements (twitching) would signal she is one happy chick! Keep doing what you’re doing and for the love of god, don’t stop at that point. She may just kick you.

A Memorable Kinky Fingering Experience

I really don’t have enough space for this question so I will add my most recent memorable fingering that I consider quite kinky.

I was travelling home on a long trip with a vibrator on my clit my client had just purchased for me the day before. We had separate cars and I called him through traffic panting and squirming trying to explain how much I adored my new gift and suggested he help me to climax with some dirty talk. He had a better idea. We pull over on a quiet street and he casually walks over to my window (I was so hot by this point) and taps on my window. I wind down and he reaches in with two fingers sliding into my very wet and willing pussy. Within moments I climax. It was a very memorable fingering. Although the drive home was a little soggy on the seat!

Things A Guy Should Never Do When Fingering

My personal pet hates when it comes to fingering that almost always ruin the moment are long fingernails and trying to fit more digits in too early without enough lube or warning (ouch!). Everyone has their own pet peeves, so just watch her bodies cues for what’s working and what isn’t.

Finally, anal fingering can be kinky and pleasurable, but be sure guys to lube up, go slow to begin with and definitely do not use the “come hither” motion anally. Wiggly fingers are only a pain in the ass, pun intended.

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October 14, 2016
How To Give Strap-On Blowjobs

I love everything to do with blowjobs. Giving them, receiving them, and watching them makes me super happy. I enjoy the feeling of a cock in my mouth, especially when my partner lets me know he appreciates my effort. There is nothing hotter than blowing a guy and hearing him moan. Unless I am strapped and I am the one moaning! Typing this out I realized I have never given a blowjob to another woman who is strapped. Thanks, SimplySxy for giving me a new mission!

What I Love Strap-On Blowjobs

Receiving a strap-on blowjob is an incredibly erotic physical and mental turn on for me. I have always been a bit of a tomboy, which means I have always been very curious about penises. I’ve always wanted to know what it feels like to have one, to stroke my own, to have sex with one, and to have a blowjob with one. With that interest, I have also been intrigued by taking the role of penetrator instead of the one who is being penetrated. Strapping on allows me to access the more male aspects of my mentality and truly cater to them.

For me, the physicality of being turned on follows when I am stimulated mentally. Being able to look down and see a man or a woman with “my cock” in their mouth is one of the most heady experiences I have ever had. Feeling the harness tug and slide against me as my partner pleasures me drives me over the edge. And, yes, I have had an orgasm (without any touching!) while receiving a strap-on blowjob!

Recommended Strap-Ons To Use

Finding the right harness is important. You want a harness that is comfortable when you tighten it up. It’s got to be something you can wear for a decent amount of time. Proper fit is huge. A harness that is too large will create too much play in your dong (think partially erect cock versus completely erect cock – it’s much easier to suck a completely erect cock). If your harness is too small or has other fit problems, you will have issues with discomfort.

Picking a dong is more a personal preference. There are many different sizes, colors, and shapes to chose from. Think about exactly what you may do with your dong – will you just be receiving blow jobs or will you use the dong for sex as well? If you plan to use your dong for sex, will you use it strictly vaginally or will you throw in some anal? I have quite a few different dongs as I use mine for all of the above. The one thing I would recommend strongly is to check the material the dong is made from. My personal preference is silicone as it is easy to keep clean and safe for all types of play.

Techniques For Blowing A Strap-On

Be invested in that blowjob. Someone who does not want to be giving a blowjob is a huge turn off for the person receiving. Get in there. Get sloppy. Go to town. Go nuts! With a strap-on, you don’t have to worry about hurting someone’s dick so you don’t have to worry about teeth, etc. The key is to enjoy what you are sharing with the other person, because that is what makes a blowjob truly erotic.

Involve Some Hand Play

For me, I rest my hands on my partner’s head or shoulders (I prefer my blowjobs standing up). I have never been one to push my partner’s head onto my cock, unless they happen to love deep throating. Then, you better believe I make them deepthroat like there is no tomorrow.

Do what feels right for you with your hands. The whole purpose of a blowjob is to get everyone turned on and ready for sex. If you want to touch your partner, touch your partner. If consent has been given to finger the woman wearing the cock, finger her. Talk about these things before you get down to business so you are fully prepared to enjoy yourself and your partner.

Kink It Up A Notch

Use a toy on the giving party – remote control egg for a woman, prostate massager for a man. If your guy doesn’t like anal play, give that boy a masturbator sleeve so he can have fun with himself! Those are very basic suggestions. Get creative. Sex is all about finding new ways to enjoy yourself and your partner. Explore different things that get both of you so turned on that post-blowjob you will have the most amazing, mind blowing, animalistic sex imaginable!

Vhex – I’ve been in the adult industry in some form or fashion for the past 18 years, but have been a kinky person all my life. I’m that fun enabler who will push you to broaden your sexual horizons and take great delight when you enjoy something new. Follow me on my website www.vhex666.com and Twitter @vhex666

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October 12, 2016
How To Give Amazing FootJobs

My personal views on FootJobs are 100% open and positive of course. FootJobs, like blowjobs, and handjobs are a fun for me and well pleasurable for the man. FootJobs are my favorite sexual activity, second only to sex! And over the years I’ve had a lot of practice both on and off camera, especially at “FootJob-Friday!” parties. See more of it at http://FootJobFridays.com

How My Interest In Footjobs Began

One day I was just playing around with a XXX movie director during a production break on a porn set and next thing you know I’m on the bed (still wearing my polo shirt and jeans as I was just working as a photographer for this specific project), he takes off my sneakers and pulls of my socks and begins kissing, licking my feet and sucking on my toes!

He turns on a few cameras that were already positioned for the other porn scene that was already planned; one thing led to another and my feet and toes ended up on his lap and I began touching and playing around with his cock. Soon after I realize that I’m using my feet to stroke his cock and he cums all over my size 6 feet. I then get into porno-mode and lick his cum right off my own feet and toes while the cameras are recording everything.

Afterwards we cleaned up, and started working on the production we had both been there to work; but we managed to have dinner afterwards at a restaurant in coastal Orange County, CA and we talked and I told him that he took my “Footjob-Virginity!” and with that his eye’s lit up and he said, “FootJob Virgins, I like that! …How would you like to be my business partner?”

I was a bit surprised and well wasn’t sure if he was serious, but nonetheless I answered “Yes.” Long story short, we edited and released the footage of the FootJob we did and it was officially our very first movie we produced as business partners and it was “FootJob Virgins!” featuring: Renée Adams (me) co-starring my business partner Russell Peter who also directed the scene. We have been in business together for 18+ years and we produce XXX porn / kink-fetish movies including the “FootJob Virgins” film series which has done very well over the years to the point that others have tried to copy it, right down to the name, but the entire community knows the “FootJob Virgins” movie series is my baby. See it at: http://FootJobVirgins.com

What Goes Through My Mind While Giving A Footjob

It depends on the guy, the situation, etc. Overall I enjoy using my feet to make a man cum so achieving the finalé is what I have to concentrate on by keeping the perfect grip with my feet / toes and maintaining a steady rhythm so that he is truly enjoying my pretty little feet. The goal is for him to climax and SPLASH his cum all over my feet and for me, that takes concentration and dedication (and strong leg and abdominal muscles).

It took me years to master my technique so I would advise ladies who are new to FootJobs to practice often and work out your muscles. If you don’t want to dedicate yourself to this cause, simply send your guy my way, I’ll take care of his FootJob needs!! – that is if he hasn’t already discovered my talents south of my ankles…haha.

Getting Turned On Myself

It depends on the guy I’m with, many times I use FootJobs as foreplay and then proceed to have sex or do other things. Sometimes (especially after I climax), I’ll let him relax and I’ll finish the man off with my feet. So yes, using my feet is a HUGE turn-on!

Preferred Penis Sizes

I have small size 6 feet, so the THE BIGGER the BETTER! A larger, girthier penis is easier to grip / control than a smaller, less girthy one. I do hate needle dicks and when I encounter one, I just get up and leave with disappointment.

Favorite Moves To Give Mind-blowing Footjobs

Find the best grip, maintain a steady rhythm, and use coconut oil, that’s the best all natural lube for FootJobs. Also, ever guy is different and likes his FootJobs a certain way. Figure out how he likes them and you’ll be pumping out lots of cum out of that cock.

Making Footjobs Kinkier

I prefer guys with big, girthy cocks and a lot of creativity! A couple of years ago, my long time business partner and I started organizing / hosting FootJob parties by booking XXX porn / kink-fetish stars to work our parties. As a result of this endeavour, we’ve realized that each person is different and enjoys their FootJobs in many different ways.

Some guys like it slow and sensual, others like their FootJobs hard and fast, some like coconut oil, some like lube, others like it dry. Everbody is different and I’m ok with that because for every new client, or movie co-star I do FootJobs with; I learn to modify my proven techniques to suit their needs for the best possible outcum!

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I also appear live and in person at FootNight International FootFetish parties. And before you ask the answer is NO! You can’t get FootJobs at FootNight events, it’s NOT that kind of party! – Footnights are 100% strictly foot-worship parties held in public venues throughout the world and in order for those events to be legally compliant, no sexual activities are allowed, including FootJobs. – I am last season’s Miss FootNight 2015 (my very good friend Snow Mercy is the current Miss FootNight-2016) and as a result of this and other past awards I can honestly say that I have “award winning feet!” –This makes my feet just as famous as Ellen Sirot’s feet (She is regarded as the world’s top foot model in mainstream advertising). Of course the “FootJobs” (gigs) I land are indeed a bit naughtier than those Ms. Sirot is used to working…lol

I’m also confirmed to work the next “FootJobFriday!” party in the OC at Klub Thirty3 on Friday September 30 from 9pm to 2am –get party-passes at: http://FootJobFridays.com or http://KlubThirty3.com/events.html

I will also be working FootNight-Ventura’s “OkToeberfest” themed foot-fetish party on Sat. OkToeber 15, 2016 from 8pm to 1am –get tickets at: http://FootNight.com/ventura.html

I also work all of the Ticklers Revenge kink-fetish parties with emphasis on tickling at: http://TicklersRevenge.com

I also regularly appear at Klub Thirty3 lifestyle events such as the CBT and Whack Off Wednesday parties. Check out all of the upcoming events at: http://KlubThirty3.com/events.html

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September 30, 2016
Girl-On-Girl Experiences & Pornography

I’ve always seen sex as a wonderful form of expression and way to connect to myself and others. Sex is the fundamental reason we are here and it plays an important role in religion, law and politics, shaping our society and values. Not to mention that the fight for equality is often parallel with sexual liberation. It is a topic that never runs dry for there are always new fascinating things to discover which is what sparked my interest in adult entertainment.

Naughty by nature, I followed my dreams and since 2012, I’ve worked on various projects within the industry from night time television channels in the UK to appearing in top-shelf magazines and filming content for adult, glamour and fetish websites before launching my own. Throughout this work, especially on my webcam shows and phone chat, I’ve gotten to explore many interesting aspects of sex that were foreign to me before and not only pleased others but also made discoveries about my own sexual desires. So far my work in adult entertainment has fallen under the categories solo and the ever so popular, girl-on-girl.

Pornography (laws of demand and supply)

Girl-on-girl erotica has been gaining popularity in recent years, not only in pornography but also in mainstream media with female celebrities appearing sexual and provocative towards each other and TV programs portraying lesbian acts to boost their viewings. But why does lesbian sex sell and why is girl-on-girl porn so popular amongst men? Well the question answers itself, that the media produces girl-on-girl action most often for male viewers. Most girl-on-girl pornography centers around male pleasure where he can imagine himself in the middle of the action without feeling threatened by the presence of a male who, more often than not, will surpass his size, stamina or overall appearance.

The “pornstar” stereotype of a young, handsome and well-endowed man is likely to cause the insecurities that make suburban housewives bulk buy diet solutions and skin care items after flicking through glossy magazines. Throughout history, men have competed amongst themselves for sexual attention from females and in girl-on-girl porn, the fantasy that the viewer is desired by both women is often portrayed which may give him a socially influenced sense of supremacy. Another factor that makes girl on girl porn so appealing to male sexual appetite is its appreciation for the female form and the female nude, after all, studies do suggest that men are greatly aroused by visual stimuli.

Sexual liberation allows us to experiment and discover, pornography may spark that desire

The social stigma surrounding pornography is profoundly associated with boy/girl scenes so when I first experimented with looking at porn, I chose to watch girl-on-girl and looked at female nudes in magazines. Nowadays there is no denying that women do watch porn and girl-on-girl seems to be popular amongst the ladies, even those who identify as heterosexual. After all, most heterosexual porn is made for male viewers so the male is hardly the focus of attention and the sexual acts performed are rarely relatable to women. The lines were therefore always a little blurred to me since there was so little stigma surrounding physical contact between women.

From kisses behind the high school it quickly escalated to making out, hair stroking, boob touching and over the pants rubbing at parties. I was still naïve and thought that sex only meant being penetrated by an erect penis so I don’t know when it went from playing around to full on sex, but it happened organically and felt good. I’ve never seen any reason to define my sexuality although I know, strictly speaking, that I don’t fit in on either end of the spectrum. Despite my past sexual encounters, till this day I’ve only had romantic relationships with men. But that’s also down to statistics, there are just simply more men into women than lesbians around.

Our individual desires are more important than basic biology, communication is the key to sexual satisfaction

Women, just like men, are as different as they are many and once you figure out what one likes you simply cannot apply it to everyone. Sex is represented, from religion to pornography, for male pleasure and I sympathize with men, female genitalia and sexual pleasure is a mystery our society rarely likes to discuss. Women can take much longer to get aroused and reach an orgasm, which is often ignored altogether in heterosexual sex and pornography. When women have sex with each other they are focusing on female pleasure, sexual encounter may take longer and, regardless of what girl-on-girl pornography may portray for men, not involve penetration. This innate knowledge to locate the clitoris does give women an unfair advantage when it comes to pleasing other women. Nevertheless, that may only be applicable when compared to sexual encounters between heterosexual individuals that lack sexual maturity because learning what your sexual partner likes as an individual is far more important than simply applying your knowledge of basic biology.

Contrary to popular belief, a woman is not going to be able to satisfy a heterosexual woman in the strictest definition of that term. I’ve learned that from both the industry and my personal life. Girl-on-girl action has become popular amongst women to attract males, even amongst those who will close their eyes, hold their breath and go to the happy place in their head during the experience. It certainly isn’t sexually satisfying for anyone involved and scrunching your face like someone just farted isn’t visually pleasing for the spectator either. Sex is about much more than biology, it is about connection, attraction and individual desires. Heterosexual sex is often illustrated in various media to be quick, convenient and straightforward with a clear male dominance but I know from my years in the adult entertainment industry that many readers will not identify with that representation and there is no way of fully defining heterosexual or homosexual sex. Learning what your sexual partner likes is the key to satisfying them and it is good to remember that a satisfied person is eager to come back for more!

With performers, crew and careful editing things are more likely to run smoothly on screen than in reality

Pornography is made for the audience, not the performer. Spending hours filming in uncomfortable positions, performing acts that look good for the camera doesn’t allow for much pleasure. Pornography is a fantasy that can be very hard to relate into the bedroom and vis versa. When girl-on-girl porn is made for a male audience this is more often than not the case, by sometimes ignoring the clitoris altogether and heavily focus on penetration instead. It is true that women can be stimulated by penetration, and yes sex toys for such acts are shaped like penises because that’s the shape that fits the vagina, but girl-on-girl pornography falsely portrays lesbians as hungry for cock, even having them give blowjobs to dildos.

But, with more female directors and more porn being tailored for lesbian audience there is nowadays a great selection of realistic girl-on-girl scenes with focus on female pleasure. To achieve this, it is important that the performers enjoy girl-on-girl sexual acts and they can even bring their own experience from the bedroom onto the screen. Personally I prefer these realistic scenes although performing the more cliché roles can also be a lot of fun. Pornography is for entertainment purposes and I wouldn’t recommend it as a learning platform, especially since with performers, crew and careful editing things are more likely to run smoothly on screen than in reality, but it certainly can arouse fantasies that may spice things up in the bedroom. Sharing fantasies, experimenting with them and role playing can be a lot of fun! Ultimately communication is the key to a happy and healthy sex life.

Tindra Frost has been involved in the adult entertainment industry since 2012. She has appeared on various adult TV channels in the UK, been published in top shelf magazines and shot for many adult, glamour and fetish websites. She has also starred in a 2014 internationally screen short film by Marc Blackie, “The wet nurse and her diabolical concerns.” Tindra recently launched her official website www.tindrafrost.com where you can access her naughty content, premium snapchat, social media, webcam shows and phone chat. Contact details on how to book her for a shoot can also be found via her website. Follow Tindra on:

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September 27, 2016
How To Finger Her & Give Her An Orgasm

I think people should have sex when they want to, as long as they want to do it and they aren’t pressured into doing it. They use protection if they don’t want to get pregnant or catch some sickness!!

A Memorable Sexual Experience

It was when I was 17, I had a boyfriend and after one month we thought that we were ready! He was gentle with me, we didn’t know what we were doing and I cant say that was perfect but I cant say it wasn’t bad either! After that, slowly I start to feel more pleasure and learnt how to have the perfect orgasm! Now I love it!!!

How I Like To Be Fingered

Of course this is one of the best way to get orgasms! I prefer him to start me slowly, and kissing me gently then going to my clit and getting some wetness of course on it. After a few minutes, I love to get faster and faster and this is what makes my vagina wet! Of course he must keep paying attention to me to see how I feel! When I get super wet I love to first put one finger inside me, pushing in and out slowly and keep rubbing my clit with the other hand! Then to put the second finger inside and getting faster, keep rubbing my clit and like that, I can cum very fast and very powerful!!!

Favorite Positions

I LOVE missionary cause like that I can control myself and move my back up and down when I feel that I have to!!

How Will A Guy Know I Am Reaching Orgasm?

First my breathing gets faster and deeper, and I start to move too much and of course I start to scream sometimes!!!

Kinky Places I Love To Have Sex

There are no kinky places when u enjoy it! But I like it in the cinema, on the beach, in the car, sometimes in the pool or in the sea!!!

What A Guy Must Never Do When Fingering

Push it too hard or have dirty fingers. I hate this!! And dont stop till I get the orgasm!

Inna Sirina – is an Adult Actress and 2016 DDF award nominee. She is a brunette Greek Goddess witch who likes to have fun and enjoy life. So be happy no matter what! Follow her on Twitter @inna_sirina, Facebook https://www.facebook.com/Inna.Sirina/ or Instagram @innasirina2

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September 22, 2016