1. Don’t do it, if you don’t want to.
He will be able to tell that you are into it. I understand that special occasions call for special treatment, but don’t force yourself to do something you don’t want to do. If you’re not in the mood during his birthday, anniversary, holiday, etc., just have sex or cook a romantic dinner. The more you want to do it, the more he will enjoy it. After all, the goal is to BLOW his mind!
2. Talk to Him.
Tell him all the naughty things you are about to inflict on him. Same way we like for him to whisper sweet nothings in our ear, so does he. Tell him how you can’t wait to take every inch of his big, tasty, friend into your mouth. Tell him how you have been thinking about it all day and that you’re getting so wet, just thinking/talking about it. Sexy, naughty talk is a BIG turn on. If possible, send him naughty texts or emails describing all the oral naughtiness that will take place later.
3. Tease Him.
Don’t go right into the act, make him wait, possibly even beg. While you’re talking to him (see #2) make sure you are touching and caressing him everywhere, saving his friend for last. Kiss him in all the spots that get him hot and bothered. Trace your name with your tongue on his inner thigh, touching the tip of his penis ever so slightly and not often. Continue to talk to him and tell him how you can’t wait to taste every inch of him. You can make him watch you practice on a banana without him touching you or his self.
4. Bring in Others.
Do not be afraid to experiment with props. Use edible lubrications to massage his penis. This will make everything tastier and allow for more range of motion for you. It will also be very pleasurable for him. Try using a flat lollipop pressed against your inner cheek while going up & down on his shaft. Create your own version of a banana split, lots of whip cream, strawberries, and cherries. Utilize your hands and mouth. Make sure your hands are playing with his testicles and slightly caressing the perineum (the area between the anus and the testicles), while he is inside of your mouth.
5. Turn Up the Heat.
Make sure your mouth is very wet and warm. Play with temperatures. Take him into your mouth with your regular body temperature. Try drinking warm to hot tea, or even gargle with it. Then immediately draw as much of him into your mouth as possible, nice and slowly. The change in temperatures will drive him crazy. For a nice cool down, try something with mint or menthol in it. Suck on a cough drop or peppermint for a few seconds and try again. This time, take him in faster and suck faster in a fast paced rhythmic motion.
6. Change it up.
Make sure you do not repeat the same technique over and over, it gets boring quickly. If you already know that he likes it a certain way, then by all means, do it! Change the speed of your movements. Go faster for a few seconds, then slow it down a bit, keep him guessing. Try new, different positions. Instead of being on your knees, turn around and straddle him on the bed. Allow him full view of your behind, while giving him great mind blowing pleasure. You can lay flat and have him straddle you (this position allows him to be in control). Try licking and sucking at the same time. As you are sucking, move your tongue from left to right, and then up and down. If you’re the courageous type, try blowing his mind in different locations, this will give added excitement for both of you.
7. Make noise.
Don’t be quiet, let him know you are enjoying it as much as he is (you should be, he shouldn’t get all the pleasure). Moan as you massage his massive member and the testicles (don’t forget those guys). Make loud slurping noises as you suck. This will also aid you in keeping your mouth wet & moist. Vary the volume of your moans, slurping, and sucking sounds. Slurp loudly, then moan slowly, then suck slightly hard and loud, followed by gentle, quitter sucks. Kiss the length of his shaft while exaggerating the kissing sound. As you make noise, so will he.
Cashanda F. Eleby, M.Ed. is a sexuality educator and consultant. She received her M.Ed. in human sexuality from Widener University. Cashanda’s dedication and passion to sexuality lead her to create SexyShan, LLC to empower and educate people of all ages to embrace their sexuality. She has created & administered sexual health workshops and curricula for adolescents and parents. She is a certified HIV test counselor and enjoys giving lectures on anatomy & reproduction and STI’s at colleges and universities. Cashanda is also a toy consultant, who enjoys coordinating adult parties and teaching adults how to experience sexual pleasure.
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