I am worried of premature ejaculation and was wondering if masturbating in private before sex will help me last longer and avoid this embarrassment?
Many men do masturbate before sex in order to last longer when they are with a partner. If that works for you, then by all means please do what works. But I would also like to encourage you to stop worrying. If you have a more relaxed attitude toward sex and don’t approach it like something you need to “perform,” you are more likely to last longer and enjoy sex more.
If premature ejaculation continues to be a problem I recommend you consult with a professional sexologist who can help you explore the many possible causes and solutions. There are in fact many reasons premature ejaculation can occur. Likewise, there are many possible solutions. Even one session with a certified sexologist could provide you with the insights you need to vastly improve your sex life!
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Veronica Monet, ACS, CAM is a Relationship Coach, Certified Sexologist and Anger Management Specialist. You can schedule your session via Skype or telephone by emailing her at Veronica@TheShameFreeZone.com. Follow her website on www.TheShameFreeZone.com
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