How To Cum Together At The Same Time During Sex

Sex is the foundation of our existence. Without it none of us would be here. As I grew up, it became natural. A certain habit that I needed to feed, explore and expend. In my opinion the experimentation and search for your ultimate pleasure in this big range of possibilities is a sort of journey trough life. A lot of people don’t get this message.

Sex should be illuminating and extraordinary. It should be the highlight of your day!

Having An Orgasm At The Same Time

If sex would be a story, your orgasm would be the climax. To share this moment with a partner at the exact same moment makes it epic.

The moment I come is the moment the world stops turning. Every muscle in my body goes in an extension followed by little shakes that hit my body like earthquakes, right from my feet till the top of my head. And afterwards I fall away in this relaxed state of mind…for there is only love and peace in my mind at that moment.

When I am able to have this moment with a partner and I feel his body entering this state….It’s insane. It is this very moment of connection that you will not experience with someone else or at any another moment. Since it’s this little unique moment in time together.

Is It Achievable?

I would say that it is more complicated. During a certain moment in sex one of you needs to balance on the edge of coming, creating the time and pleasure of bringing your partner to that same moment. This is the moment you want to explode although you can’t. Since this act demands a high level of control, it is not the easy role to play.

While in masturbation you only need to control your own body. It’s all about informing each other on how far you are. So in my opinion masturbation is way easier.

How Important Is It To Come Together?

For me it makes the difference between casual and exceptional. Important it is!

Tips To Come Together!

Everybody has sex of course on his own way. But If I would have to give any advice it would be this one:

Go slow in the beginning and build it from there; from slow to fast and from soft to a bit harder. Find the rhythm that makes the two of you become one.

Search the right position, definitely when your coming to the moment of coming. To be in the right position is extremely important. You want to explode and then fall into a coma. However, this would not be possible in a position like the suspended scissors.

For this reason I would advise you to go for a position in where there is a connection, preferable a face to face position. You don’t want to miss the moment.

Depending on how well you know your partner, this will make the difference. If you know your partner quite well, you’ll probably know when he arrives at the moment of coming and in this case you may even know what buttons to push to get him/her there.

If you’re having a one-night stand, it’s like searching for something invisible in the dark. Luckily there is one golden rule to help you through; mind the breathing. When his/hers breaths become shorter and faster, you know you’re doing good and you’re probably going for to that elevating moment.

Have a nice fuck!

Damon Heart has been interested in the gay porn industry ever since he was a teenager, but it’s taken a few years for him to decide to make the leap from admirer to participant. Damon manages a night club, so his move into gay porn is a smooth one. He’s versatile in bed, too: with big guys he likes getting fucked, but if he’s with guys his size or smaller he’s up for throwing them around. When we asked him his dream fuck he said: “I don’t do fantasy. I do real.”

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