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Satisfy Her And Kink Up Your Sex Life!

I think sex is great – surprise! I’ve always been interested in sex, and most of what I know about sex I taught myself. I was raised in a Christian home, so kinks and sex were mostly undiscussed other than me being told to stay away from both. My parents are also doctors, so sex has always been approached as very medical and sterile, as opposed to messy and exploratory. Once I became confident with who I am, generally and sexually, I’ve been able to explore and find out what I like. Sex is normal to me now, be it kinky or vanilla. It’s part of life, full of experiences to be had.

My First Sex Experience

It was about two months before my fifteenth birthday: I snuck my boyfriend of a year or so into my room for the third time or something. We were naked and I was curious as hell, so I suggested having sex, because why not? We fumbled through multiple positions for a little while and he pulled out since we didn’t have a condom. The only thing I regret was not using a condom. That was a dumb young thing to do, even though nothing bad happened.

How My Sex Life Has Changed

I’ve become a lot more confident because I’ve learned so much. With enough lube, determination, and confidence, you can handle basically anything you encounter in your sex life. I’ve made a fair share of mistakes, and I’m young so I know I have a lot more to make. The most important thing I found out is that you learn from experience and communication with sex. Every partner is different, and hands-on is going to be a lot different than reading sex tips or watching porn.

What I Love A Guy To Do During Sex

Take his time. A sensation’s usefulness is doubled if you build up anticipation. That way, my brain can get all dizzy and excited for a spanking, and the spanking is amplified because it was built up so much mentally. I’m bi, so this goes for women as well! I also love when my partner takes his time to touch across my whole body, not just where you’d expect. Involving your whole body in sex is super satisfying. A nice balance of touch, rough and soft, across my body is my favorite (sex) indulgence.

Kinky Sex?

Hell yeah! I recently met @sugarhixcup and they introduced me to a few things I wanted to try, specifically gags. When they left, I bought myself a gag! I like rough sex, choking, spitting, bondage, slapping, force-play, dirty talking, drooling, spanking, some rare DD/lg, and I just bought myself a collar that I love. And then of course there are things I still want to try like waterboarding, an MMF threesome, a gangbang. There’s always something new!

Tips To Kink It Up!

I think the best advice is to try as much as you can, slowly and safely. Always be sure you have enthusiastic consent from all participants! A safe word is a great way to make sure everyone’s comfortable with the situation (mine is “red”). Personally, I think buttplugs, handcuffs, and blindfolds are great places to start. They all provide a new sensation without overwhelming the senses. Start small, and when you find something you like, dive into it. I can’t stress the importance of research here enough.

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January 10, 2016
Are You A Pay Pig Looking For A Findom Mistress?

Many Findommes are cut and dry “Fuck you pay me” type Dommes, and there is nothing wrong with that since many paypigs get off on the degradation and humiliation. I’m more of a “chameleon” Domme, if you will. I change my style based on my sub or paypig. When I first come in contact with a potential pig, I get to know them a bit before putting on my Domme hat; ask them about their likes/dislikes as a sub, any hard limits they may have, etc, because every sub is different so I don’t feel like I can be an effective Domme if I treat them all the same.

That being said, I always let my dominant core shine through and demand respect even in my first conversation with someone looking to serve me. Regardless of the individual, I always demand some sort of tribute after our second conversation – the first talk allows me to feel the person out and judge if I want to continue with them further or if they are just wasting my time. I also inform them that if I am to be their Mistress, I require regular payments or tributes in the form of gifts or giftcards.

How My Findom Journey Began

I was actually introduced to the Findom world after a self proclaimed paypig contacted me after he saw old videos of me back from when I used to be a sub, and he asked if I was a switch. (Since those videos were made, I have stopped being a sub due to the fact that I was a Domme at heart, but the experience allowed me to gain the insight of what subs like and need from their Domme/Dom. ) I told him I was in fact a Domme and he expressed a desire to be my paypig. I did a lot of research on Findom and decided that it sounded like something I would be very interested in, so I agreed to be his mistress. Our relationship was cut short due to his behavior, but it gave me enough of a taste to realize that I wanted more!

Why I Enjoy Being A Findom

I have had subs in the past that gave me their bodies to use how I pleased, but for someone to submit not only their body, but their mind, and wallet, to me was such an intoxicating thrill. They gave me the power to make or break them. With the click of a mouse or a single phone call, I could ruin their life, career, everything. The feeling of having that ultimate power and control arouses and excites me. In addition to the worship I receive from my pigs that makes me feel like a goddess.

Am I Qualified To Be Your Paypig?

I don’t have a specific type of guy that I look for to be my paypig. As long as they make their regular tributes, and listen to my every order, they’re my type of pig! Some Dommes only look for richer paypigs, but for me it’s not the amount of money they tribute, but the consistency of it. I had one pig that was a college student and only made $100 a week, so I made him pay at least $20 a week, leaving him with sufficient funds for food and his other expenses. I told a new pig of mine that “No tribute is to big or small, your new Mistress loves them all” haha.

Tasks Paypigs Perform

This is where getting to know my pigs comes in handy because I play off their own fetishes. One pig, I made him wear ladies underwear for me while he keeps his penis in a cock cage until I told him he to take it out. He gets off on being treated like a sissy, and pays tribute by getting me toys. Another pig I made him do lines and stress positions. He’s currently working on writing 1000 lines of “I happily write ____ lines for my lovely Mistress Phoenix” and in return he tributes me by sending me money. Past pigs I would demand to do something like send tributes or take embarrassing pics or I’d expose them to their wife/work/school, because they loved the aspect of blackmail.

Why Do Paypigs Love It?

I think that each pig likes Findom for their own reasons, but it all boils down to a few things.

1.) They feel that women are far superior and should be spoiled and worshiped, and they feel it is their duty to do so.

2.) They love the power switch. Many paypigs are dominant in their everyday lives whether that be in their workplace or home, so having a woman order him around and walk all over them is a major turn on.

3.) They just get a thrill out of a beautiful woman having the power to ruin them.

Spoil Me Now!

My paypigs spoil me by sending me tributes in the form of cash, or Amazon and Victoria’s Secret Giftcards, or by buying things off of my wish list, or any other specific items I ask for (for example, if I say I need new boots, I’ll have them buy them). I have a wish list on delivery code that I tell pigs to shop from, and I add things regularly to it. https://www.deliverycode.com/wishlist/4187

I don’t use Amazon because there is a chance a paypig could find out what my address is if they purchase something for me from an Amazon wish list, which is why I switched to Amazon Giftcards.

If you would like to play with me, you must know that I am a strict Mistress. I will control your mind, body, and wallet. Enter the world of findom with me as your Mistress. Follow Mistress Phoenix on Twitter @phoenixroseshow

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January 5, 2016
BDSM Lifestyle – Why I Love It

I’ve read some opinions on the internet lately that claim that BDSM and such kinks are “abusive” or “fuel a hatred towards women,” which I honestly don’t understand. Because, for one, that assumes that every BDSM dynamic consists of a male dom and a female sub, which is not true. Secondly, I don’t see how someone’s preferred sexual experience has anything to do with abuse – as long as everything is consensual and both parties are enjoying themselves, as should be the case for all types of sex, there is no problem.

Most of this harmful rhetoric seems to come from “feminists” – more specifically, SWERFs (sex worker exclusive radical feminists) – who think that the entire porn industry is bad, all sex work is exploitative, etc. Those are such terrible generalizations to make, and I personally don’t like when people put down others for their kinks. BDSM, of course, is not for everyone, and that’s fine, but to write it off as “abusive” is offensive to all those who do practice it. BDSM can be abusive, yes, like all other sexual relationships, but it is not inherently so.

I, personally, love sex of the kinkier variety. I love the intensity, the passion, the role play, everything about it. I haven’t had the chance to experiment with it much, seeing as I’ve only had one sexual partner, but it is definitely something I hope to be an aspect in all of my sexual relationships. I’m a complete sub, though according to a BDSM test I’ve taken before I’m 55% switch, and I like my partners to be dominant.

How My Interest In BDSM Developed

I’m honestly not really sure. I think I just…knew. Ever since I was a child, I would play games involving role play (not of the sexual nature – I guess you could say it was more like live action role play), I liked being in the more submissive roles. I liked having things done to me, I liked the sense of not having control. And then around the time when I was discovering my body through masturbation, some time around middle school, that’s just what I leaned towards.

I think, for me, because I’m such a dominant person in my general life – I’m extremely opinionated, stubborn, prefer to be in control, etc. – when someone can dominate me, sexually, it is very appealing. It’s, in a way, sort of a relief to let go and let someone else take control. The psychological aspect of it – especially the communication part – totally gets to and subdues me and it’s an incredible feeling. Not to mention that rough sex tends to feel better and more exciting.

Where I Enjoy Pain

To be honest, I’m not super into the sadism/masochism part of BDSM as I have low pain tolerance. However, I do enjoy simple things like spanking, light choking, hair pulling, biting, and nipple clamping. So I guess my ass, because pain there usually isn’t too bad, and any other part of my body as long as the pain isn’t too intense.

There Is A Lot More To BDSM

Like I mentioned earlier, it’s not for everyone, but you can’t know if you like it or not unless you try it. There are so many aspects to BDSM and so many things for each party involved to enjoy. If you don’t like pain, try some bondage. If you can’t stand being tied up, follow a simple sub/Dom dynamic of obeying or issuing orders. You don’t have to go all out to enjoy BDSM; it can be as simple as saying “yes sir” when your Dom asks you to bend over or receiving a few disciplinary spanks from time to time. It can also be as complex as you want – handcuffs, blindfolds, ball gags, spreader bars, whips, paddles, etc. You can even have your Dom pick out what outfits they want you to wear each day or set rules for you (especially if you’re into the dd/lg dynamic); it can be full role play all the time if you want.

There are so many different directions you can take with BDSM and so many scenarios you can play out. You’re bound (no pun intended) to find something you like. There are also endless amounts of outfits and toys you can find specifically for BDSM and power play. Whether it’s dd/lg, teacher/student, master/slave, cop/criminal, boss/employee, it’ll at least be interesting to try something new, and you might be surprised by what you like.

My Favorite BDSM Play

Unfortunately I haven’t had a chance to delve too deep into BDSM practices, but I’ve gotten a taste of a few different things. My favorite thing is perhaps the most simple – the sub/Dom dynamic. Even without restraints or other fun toys, just having someone control me, be rough with me, call me things like a “slut” or “whore” – words I would otherwise not appreciate – really gets me going. Commands, dirty talk, explaining exactly what they’re doing to me. I also really love to be bound and at the mercy of someone else; it’s amazing to just forfeit control and have increasing suspense as they do whatever they want to you.

Are Orgasms Stronger During BDSM Play?

Hmm, I actually never really paid attention to this. I would assume so, because every other sensation is more intense and I’m often more into it when BDSM is involved.

Safety Precautions During BDSM Play

That was the one mistake of my only sexual relationship – we didn’t have proper precautions and safety measures in place. But I have learned a lot from that experience about what I need to do in the future. The use of a safe word I think is definitely the most important thing, especially when you’re someone, like me, who has a habit of saying “no” during sex when you don’t actually want to stop. Something really silly or weird so that it wouldn’t normally pop up during sex conversation.

Communication is definitely key. You should always have an understanding of your partner’s limits, what they like, what they don’t like, what arouses them, what gets them off, etc. Asking for permission does NOT interrupt the flow of sex; it’s actually really sexy to ask your partner “Do you like this?” as you try new things or push limits. Also I think aftercare is really important in making sure your partner is okay and helping them relax, especially after really intense sessions.

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December 21, 2015
How To Give An Amazing Footjob
My name is Molly Squirts and my whole lifestyle revolves around the “Kink Lifestyle”. My job and my relationship all have kink involved almost every day. I get to live and play and involve different fetishes in our day to day life. Foot fetish is one of the best fetishes that I have in my lifestyle. I am very supportive of anyone who wants to explore with these fun kinks. and I made these fun role playing kinks into a career.

A foot fetish is –

The pure admiration or sexual attraction of barefeet. Usually pertaining to men who can become sexually aroused from the sight of any part of women’s feet including, toes, arches and soles. There are 100 plus fetishes related to foot fetish… such as foot domination, toe wiggling, footjobs and more. I practice every form of foot fetish weekly.

Every person likes something different… some people like big feet…some like them petite. Other people only like when your feet are dirty and sweaty while others like clean painted and oiled up toes. I change the look of my toes once a week and perform different stories and fetish scripts to change the look and theme of my clips to try and reach to every form of foot fetish. So yes, the type of foot matters. But no matter what type of feet you have… someone out there has a fetish for them.

Ideal Position For A Footjob

The best position for me is sitting towards the penis you are trying to give the “job” to, and to put my legs out forward and to use my abs to pull my legs and feet up and down to stroke and grip the penis evenly. I have had to practice with different positions to find the one most comfortable for me as well as my partner, who needs the foot job to feel good (of course) and if you don’t have the right position, it can make for a bad clip and an unsatisfied man.

Techniques For Footjobs

It is all about your leg and ab muscles. If you are in good shape, lifting and using your abs and legs to grip and stroke the cock with your feet will be much easier. To keep the guy and his penis horny and hard. If you get the stroking motion down, the next thing to focus on are your toes. Playing and using your toes to tease and wiggle on different parts of the penis will make for a great experience for the man as well as a great clip. Finally the two most important things in foot job technique is – baby oil and having fun

Make The Footjob Kinkier

So let me first say I have never given a foot job without lube (you can try) but dry cock and dry feet = no fun. Making a foot job even kinkier is so much fun. You can wear tube socks (nylon foot jobs are a personal favorite) with different color toes and different themes.

*Taboo footjobs are a favorite for me.

*An aggressive footjob.

*A ball teasing foot job.

*Having fake tattoos and jewelry.

Tips To Try Out!

Some tips you can try for your first time are:
- Make sure your partner has a foot fetish.
- Start with the basic (just feet, lube and cock).
- Slow motions until you get the rhythm down.
- Try different positions.
- Stretch and get your body ready.
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December 16, 2015
Being in a 24/7 BDSM Relationship: A Submissive’s Insight

I think the kink lifestyle is a great way to deepen your relationship with your partner(s) or to spice up an already existing relationship. As long as everyone is being safe, sane and consensual it’s completely up to those involved. I personally think they’re great – life is way too short to be vanilla.

How my BDSM journey began

I’ve been in a BDSM relationship since August 2014, so a little bit over a year. My earliest fantasies that I can remember having included things like gangbangs and bondage so I guess I’ve always been a little kinky. I was first introduced to the world of BDSM when a friend of mine went into professional fetish modeling and my exploration of what fetish meant lead me into it, but it wasn’t until I was around my later teens that I wanted to include the Dominant/submissive dynamic into my romantic relationships.

Initial Challenges

Just learning how to stick to the rules and to be honest when I did break the rules. There were a few times I did duck out of being punished by refusing to tell my partner that I’d broken them. I also found that, although I wanted to give up control, it was actually super difficult to do.

What I Enjoy As A Submissive

Me and my partner have an enormous amount of trust in each other and I think a lot of that comes from the fact that we’re a D/s couple. When we play we really have to trust each other and communicate, so it’s helped bring us closer as a couple outside of play as well.

Rules in a BDSM Relationship

I’m the submissive in our relationship. Our rules are pretty varied and focused on both of our needs and well-being rather than the Dominant just listing things the submissive should or shouldn’t do. We have rules where I have to exercise a certain amount of times each week which is a rule I requested to add, and then we have rules where we have to be honest and open with each other so we can tend to any issue that occurs.

Of course we have some ‘traditional’ rules like the fact that I can’t orgasm without permission (unless it’s to do with work!) and that I should always refer to my partner as either Master or Daddy.

A Typical Day In My Life

I’ll usually get up, shower, eat breakfast, get myself all pretty and ready for class, go to class, go on cam for a couple of hours of film/edit videos or photos, and by the time that’s done my partner is around. I’ll usually ask him if there’s anything I can do for him or he’ll already have thought of tasks for me to do. After dinner we’ll usually talk on Skype and play something together or just have a good old chat. If I’m really good then we’ll have some play time and I’ll get to orgasm if I’m really, really good!

Tips for Couples looking to start D/s Relationships

Do some research. Don’t just dive right in. Don’t use a certain movie about a certain number of shades of grey as a reference. Start with something small if you don’t know what kind of dynamic you’re interested in or what role you enjoy most. If you’re both new to BDSM then swapping who is the Dom and who is the sub can be a good idea. Introduce some handcuffs into your normal sex or even some light hand spanking, then once you’re comfortable you can move on to paddle or crop spanking or rope bondage.

Before you know it you’ll have a huge collection of kinky toys! It’s also important to remember that you don’t have to be into giving or receiving pain and I think BDSM is misrepresented in that the pain aspect is a big part of it. Not true – you can tie someone up and tickle them, you can run ice over their body, you can dress up like a puppy and have someone walk you around – it’s not all about pain.

Just remember to be safe, sane and consensual and to communicate with each other. Always have a safe word during play, too. Most importantly… Have fun!

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December 7, 2015
Sexy Reads – The Whip Master

The time of the annual Festival had arrived and Graye Manor bustled with a frenzy of activity. Its rolling, manicured grounds echoed with the sharp sounds of a whip striking human flesh and shrill cries filled with both pain and pleasure followed, bringing excited smiles and eager anticipation to the faces and hearts of the listeners. The time of the Cirque de Sade Festival had finally arrived and, with it, the final magnificent display of skills, beauty, and selfless service that would end at the auction block. Guests would be arriving from all over the globe to be served, and entertained, by the staff of this unique establishment. The outside world knew nothing about its purpose, or the real history behind the cold stone walls, and Dorian Graye intended it to remain that way. Things happened in the Manor – things that the real world would never embrace…

Pride, Integrity, Loyalty and Love, the acronym of PILL, is a hard one for many to swallow in the eyes in today’s society. In honor of his mentor’s vision for a rich alternative to the old world ideas of domestic service, Graye Manor was founded. Select applicants, known as Graye’s Maids, are trained in the classic skills of a domestic – with one major difference. Each is drawn to the darker side of service and flourishes under the command of a hard palm upon a bare backside- or even, in more hardcore cases, the slash of a whip.

Dorian Graye is a master of the Florentine long- tail whip, and has made an art form of throwing the braided snakes to paint a human canvas. Like his namesake, he plays hard, but he loves even harder- especially when it comes to Annie, a young woman who was tossed onto the streets by a selfish and neglectful family. He and his beloved wife, known as One, help Annie discover an unknown part of her heart- a heart to serve- but her dreams do not include the type of life that they can offer her. Their love for her demands sacrifice- but will it be enough to mend her brokenness, chase away her fears, and make her dreams come true?

The Whip Master is a story about total power exchange, surrender, difficult choices and sacrifices of love. Under the slightly sadistic exterior is a man whose greatest desire is for each of his beloved maids to find happiness. He allows nothing to stand in their way, not even themselves, and is willing to sacrifice anything to grant them their heart’s desire… even if the journey to that desire means suffering as the door to previously unspoken taboos are opened and explored during the decadent Cirque de Sade Festival where anything is possible, and everything is probable.

Excerpt

“Remind me to give you a raise, my dear. You are tiny, but worth well over a hundred times your weight in gold. Actually, you are worth my weight in gold. What are you? Eighty pounds?”

Marilyn hugged him warmly. “I’m not that small. It’s me who owes you. You saved me by giving me a chance to live my dream, and the perfect environment to work in and explore my imagination. Thank you.”

“Oh, come on. Surely there is something you would like as a reward?”

Marilyn blushed and shrugged. “It’s embarrassing, but, well…”

“Out with it. Tell me your desire. I make wishes come true, you know.”

“I would like to try playing one day. Maybe experience a mild version of some of these things I design for. I also want to try… I’ve never had, you know…”

“Marilyn? Are you a virgin?” Dorian asked gently. Her blush and aversion of eye contact answered his question. He hugged her tightly. “Your wish is my command. Do you have anyone in mind with whom you would like to play?”

“I only trust two people for this, but it’s not appropriate, and—”

“Me and One?”

The woman looked at the ground, visibly shrinking. Dorian snatched her hands and kissed her palms. “Your wish is my command. I would be honored to introduce you to this lifestyle. Do you have any particular fantasy?”

“Sort of. I’ve never really thought it out. This is embarrassing.”

“No need for embarrassment, my dear girl. This is what I live for, and you know it. Are you going to tell me your deepest desires, or are you going to have me to surprise you?”

“You would do that? I don’t want to cause any problems with One. I love her.”

“One is very understanding and very giving. I’m certain she would be thrilled to be part of making your fantasy become a reality. How far do you want to go?”

“I don’t know. I guess as far as you can take me.”

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December 2, 2015
Sexy Reads – Inbound for Pleasure

Kierra Foster lives in constant fear. Anxiety has consumed her for the last four years. She cannot stand to be touched, not even by her loving father. She checks the locks on every door and window at least twice a day. She works, eats and sleeps, with no social life, and she’s tired of living that way.

All that changes on the day that Chandler Thorne steps into the restaurant where she works, and sits at her table. He sees more in her than she sees in herself. He knows just how to peel back the layers of her outer shell, to help her discover who she is, and who she wants to be. He promises her everything, except forever. He’s not cut out to do marriage and family. She will never be more to him than his current project, a new submissive in a long string of submissives. He will dominate her, but he cannot love her.

She wonders if she can accept his terms without breaking her heart. Will she learn enough that when the time comes, she can let him go?

Excerpt

My alarm rings. I open my eyes and rub them a minute as I adjust to the morning light. I throw my legs over the side of the bed and sit there staring at the bathroom door across the hall. I dangle for a few more minutes. God, I really hate mornings. Just as I’m almost confident enough to get up, I hear the unfamiliar sound of a phone ringing. What the hell? I don’t have a phone. I follow the sound to my sweater pocket lying on the counter.

“Hello?” I answer with confusion.

“Miss Foster, I trust you had a goodnight’s sleep,” a husky voice on the other end replies.

I hang up quickly. This is worse than a dream. This is a downright nightmare. The foreign object rings again.

“Is this some sort of sick joke? Who is this?” I snap, trying to find some courage.

“Miss Foster, Chandler Thorne here. I want to see you.” The confidence in his voice is almost petrifying.

“How the…” I can’t think. “Did someone put you up to this?”

“I had assistance, yes.”

“Why? I don’t know you.”

“I like your spark. I will pick you up in an hour.” He hangs up. I struggle with the touch screen trying to find out how to call him back. Finally, I figure it out.

“I’ll be at work in an hour. Have a good day, Mr. Thorne.” I bravely hang up. I hold down the button on the top until it asks me if I want to power down. Yes, I answer the device.

Who the hell does this guy think he is? If most days my fear level is a five, right now it is a ten.

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November 25, 2015
Sexy Reads – Taking Eve

A willing slave to possession, punishment, pleasure… Eve’s paranormal journey takes her to a time of debauchery, including many voyeuristic and BDSM encounters.

Excerpt

Eve was still bathing when he came for her. A man whose presence she’d frequently felt. A stranger she’d often seen riding past this cottage, his steed magnificent, a sorrel with a startling white mane and tail.

At those times, she’d noted the man’s well-defined features, noble bearing, the way his attention had focused on her alone. How his gaze had lingered and possessed, warming her skin, calling to everything female within her, demanding her submission. She’d given it, not moving, scarcely drawing a breath, her work forgotten.

Nothing except him had mattered.

Not once had he spoken or made a demand. During his increasingly prolonged observations of her he’d been content—or obliged—to do no more than look.

Now she saw the rope he held in one gloved hand.

Eve’s belly fluttered.

The ends of the rope jumped as he moved past the doorway, his height requiring him to stoop to avoid striking his head. He wore no top hat. Snow dusted his dark hair and shoulders. His ankle-length cloak was of fine black wool, lined with fur, his eveningwear consisted of a dark coat cinched at the waist and trousers of the same color. Fresh milk couldn’t compete with the flawless white of his vest and cravat, tied perfectly about his throat.

He closed the door, bolting it against interruption of what he was about to do.

The thought of it—and the metal’s sharp clack—caused Eve to start. Her pulse pounded fiercely. The candles Mrs. Trumble had lit stopped flickering at the wind’s departure. A few stray snowflakes floated in the air.

Eve felt none of the chill he’d brought inside, only intense heat spreading from her chest to her belly and cunt, then to her neck. Her throat tightened, not allowing her to make any sound as he stopped just short of the tub. Close enough for her to see his lushly lashed eyes, of the purest blue, more glorious than any sky.

He regarded her naked breasts to the exclusion of every other part of her and spoke for the first time. “Pull back your arms and arch your back. Present yourself to me.”

His voice was quiet yet commanding, smooth yet rough with arousal.

Unsteady with desire Eve did as he wanted. She had no other choice. She wanted none. With her back arched and her arms drawn back she lifted her breasts in offering.

He studied the ripe globes and her tightened nipples at a leisurely pace, moving from one side of the tub to the other to get his fill.

Eve remained a silent, obedient witness to his brazen perusal. Craving and enjoying it, desire pulsing through her.

A small smile touched his lips as her breasts quivered with her quick breaths. At length his attention moved lower, to the part of her the bath continued to hide. Its violet-scented water reflected the candles’ flames, which tinted it gold and orange. Warm colors that hardly matched the heat blazing within Eve.

“You know what to expect?” he asked.

She nodded.

“All of it?”

Eve thought not, so she shook her head.

He seemed pleased by that and began, “From this moment forward you’re never to cover yourself in any of your Masters’ presences. Your breasts, nipples, mouth, cunt, ass and anus are ours to use as we please. Whatever we require of you, no matter how demanding or indecent, you’re to obey with the greatest haste. You belong to us now. We have your agreement. Did you make it willingly?”

Eve had. Just a few days ago she’d signed the document. Years before, Mrs. Trumble had taught her to read and write, educating and training Eve for her future Masters.

She murmured, “Yes, my lord.”

He regarded her solemnly, then glanced over his shoulder at a noise that came from behind him.

“What’s past that wall?” he asked.

“The Trumbles’ bedchamber.”

Another luxury in a cottage filled with such items. There were numerous wax candles that continued to burn, the iron stove and a large cheval glass that stood just to the side of the tub, showing Eve’s reflection within it.

He removed his gloves, then his cloak, hanging it on a wall peg where nothing had ever been during Mrs. Trumble’s baths. It would have blocked the small hole her husband used to watch her.

“Being observed during one’s private moments is quite exciting,” Mrs. Trumble had said, then tittered and blushed. “Brings me back to my time in the House of Lords.”

Tonight Mrs. Trumble had wanted to keep the hole open so she could watch what happened between Eve and her Master. A nobleman who was surely no more than five-and-twenty had made certain he was now alone with her.

He moved in front of the mirror and slung the rope over one of the ceiling’s beams. As the ends dangled loose, presenting a picture that was both inviting and menacing, he said, “Leave the tub. Stand in front of me.”

Murmurs came from the Trumbles’ chamber. Whether from Mrs. Trumble or her husband, Eve couldn’t be certain. Eager and anxious she pushed to her feet too quickly. Water flowed over the lip of the tub, the drops making faint plunking sounds as they hit the floor.

Being nude, defenseless and watched so closely heightened Eve’s senses. She was all too aware of the wind whistling past the cottage, rattling the door. The iron stove pinging with heat. The slap of her bare feet as she went to her Master, just as he’d demanded.

He towered over her, the top of Eve’s head barely reaching his shoulder. They were so close she caught his fragrance. The scent of snow, sandalwood, tobacco and leather. Male and intoxicating.

Her heart beat out of time.

He studied her with a right he’d been born with, one she’d given him by signing away her freedom. Willingly. Wantonly. As he regarded her nudity water dripped from Eve’s hair to her breasts, the beads rolling to her nipples where they lingered for a moment before falling away. Some of the moisture streamed down her belly, becoming trapped in the dark curls between her legs. There his attention remained for so long a small puddle formed at Eve’s feet. Her body continued to soften at his gaze raking over and owning her. A pulse beat deep within her sheath.

She waited for him to touch her.

He stepped back. “Hold out your hands. Press your wrists together.”

Eve’s throat went dry with anticipation. She forced down a swallow as he deftly tied her wrists with one end of the rope then pulled the other over the beam. Her arms were soon above her head. Her body fully vulnerable to his gaze and touch.

She suppressed a whimper of delight and spoke without thinking, “Will you take me now?” Would he whip her?

He regarded her with unexpected tenderness that he pushed aside with a quiet huff.

“You mustn’t speak,” he warned, low enough so only she could hear. “You won’t say another word until I allow it, nor make even one sound. Never will you reveal what takes place in the coming moments. Spread your legs.”

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September 23, 2015
Are you ready for the OzKinkFest?

In my experience, lots of people are interested in some kind of kink, to varying degrees—the giving or receiving of bondage, physical pain, role-play, dress-ups, dominance and/or submission; the list is pretty much endless. Socially we’ve shifted a bit in the last couple of years. Since we’ve had a best-selling book and a feature film portraying a version of BDSM, there has been much more conversation around the topic and some of the myths surrounding a kink lifestyle have been challenged by those who live it. People are starting to accept that BDSM is not abuse (and if it is, it’s not BDSM), and beginning to come to terms that there’s nothing ‘wrong’ with wanting to be tied up, or have their arse spanked; there’s nothing ‘ill’ about wanting to tie someone up or spank an arse. It’s also been several years since paraphilia—’unusual sexual fixations’ has been listed in the The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM). Psychiatrically, fetishes are only considered a problem if someone is hurt in the process. The taboos are dropping and people are feeling the freedom to explore. And so, where do you start? Below are a few avenues that the adventurous can explore the ‘kink’ social life.

Munches

Munches are social gatherings for kinksters in non-kink environments. Groups meet for lunches and dinners and offer an opportunity to meet like-minded people in a public, purely social situation. It’s always a good idea to get in touch with the event organiser prior to the event, to introduce yourself and to connect. This will ensure you ‘know’ at least one person when you attend the event and Munch organisers will generally be available to introduce newcomers around. To find munches near you, you can try a simple google search. If it’s proving hard to find, I’d recommend trying FetLife.

FetLife

This is the equivalent of the Facebook of the BDSM and kink community: a place to connect with others, and find out about events and goings on in the world of kink. To access FetLife you must create a profile (this is entirely free). Upon signing up, you have access to a bunch of information all on one site; there are discussion groups on pretty much every kink imaginable (and if you find a gap, start a group!). In addition, many of the smaller kink events, like Munches, are only promoted via FetLife. You can use the site as a great opportunity to begin some networking within the community, be it whether you are looking for individuals who share your location, fetish, or level of experience. While the site itself isn’t the easiest to navigate, you can cut back on a little frustration if you take some time to look around and get used to the way it works before delving into the activities.

Workshops and Skillshares

These are not only a great way to pick up some new skills, but also a brilliant way to connect with others. Once you start looking, you will find a bunch of people offering an array of classes, although it can be quite overwhelming when you’re unsure of your own level of commitment. As a starting place you can search for sessions like ‘Kink 101’, ‘Kink For Beginners’, or ‘Introduction to BDSM’. Generally, these types of classes are aimed at the curious or those who are unsure about their area of interest. As such, you should be able to get a good idea of whether this is something you’d like to continue after one of these sessions. As a newcomer to this scene, it’s always recommended to sign up for classes with an established educational group or trusted kink educator. Personally, I’ve worked in a couple of amazing establishments that not only offer an array of classes from experienced and vetted facilitators, but a wonderfully welcoming environment to newcomers.

In the US, there is the Foundation For Sex Positive Culture. Based in Seattle, the Foundation offers education via its library, skillshares/workshops and events. These are run by a bunch of individuals who are passionate about kink education, and would be a great point of contact for those based in the US wanting to find something local. Here in Melbourne, I’m currently connected to a fantastic facility called Splinter. Although the group itself has been running BDSM-based skillshares and workshops for many years, the focus on the educational aspect has increased exponentially after the facility moved to bigger premises early this year. It has also attracted some of Melbourne’s most respected kink-players as skill sharers and educators. They hold classes and set up support and discussion groups on a multitude of topics ranging from the theoretical—dealing with mental health in a kink world, working with polyamory in a dominance/submission (d/s) context, negotiation and informed consent; practical—rope play, fire play, sadism, predicament bondage, decorative bondage, foot pampering; and the philosophical. What these establishments have in common is the trust and respect of the community around them, and a real passion for wanting people to explore kink in a safe, sane and consensual way. It’s definitely worth investing the time in finding something similarly reputable.

Public BDSM/Kink Events

Most people are generally nervous about their first public kink event, particularly if they’re turning up alone. Will it be confronting? Will I fit in? What happens if it’s all too much? Get as much information as you can prior to the event to know what you’re getting into: Is sex allowed, and how does the venue define ‘sex’? Does it have a nightclub vibe or is it more like a private party? How many people usually attend? Look into the dress code and do your due diligence. As with Munches, it’s a great idea to get in touch with the event organiser prior to the event, and let them know you are a first-timer. It is also important to questions and raise your concerns so that the organisers can give some sort of idea of what to expect. Some kink and BDSM nights actually have mandatory introductory sessions for newcomers to be well-acquainted with the expected etiquette and rules in particular, not only pertaining to kink, but to that individual club. Furthermore, some clubs will invite newcomers on an Introductory Tour. You may also look into some places that run alcohol-free events. While it may seem odd for a club not to serve alcohol, but in my experience these have been the friendliest and most welcoming places that function more like social clubs where there’s no blaring music and strobe lights, but tea, coffee, couches, an inviting space to chat, and a bunch of BDSM equipment waiting to be explored. I was introduced a particular social version of the kink club in Colorado at the Denver Sanctuary, which totally blew my mind away as it was absolutely warm and inviting. I am truly pleased to be able to continue indulging in this atmosphere back here in Melbourne, thanks again to Splinter which now runs PlaySpace—an newcomer-friendly event that takes in a homely dungeon twice a month (PlaySpace).

Expos/Festivals/Annual Events

Do keep a look out for these as you can probably gather a lot of information all in these events. Most major cities hold rendezvous that celebrates some sort of kink/BDSM and your best way of finding out the when and the where is to via the good old internet. As mentioned earlier, Fetlife and even Facebook groups are good for staying informed. Right now, among the top of the list on a Google search for ‘kink festivals’ is OzKinkFest. Known as Australia’s biggest kink festival, OzKinkFest is a 10-day extravaganza of munches, exhibitions, workshops, events and a one-day Fetish Expo comprising market stalls from over 40 vendors, a fashion parade, performances and demonstrations.

And for those in Melbourne, its time to turn the heat up! OzKinkFest begins this weekend, kicking off with the Fetish Expo at Fitzroy Town Hall, on the Saturday from 12pm to 7pm. Tickets are for sale at $15. As these annual events are community celebrations, first-timers need to be aware and prepared to see some people in their kinky best. There’ll be all manner of corsets, rubber and leather … probably some pasties, and more than likely a few pair of chaps. Add that to the bunch of smiling faces, exciting experiences and the chance for you to explore what the world has to offer!

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September 17, 2015
Sexy Reads – Punished by the House Guests

My husband Dan and I have one of those relationships where he rules the roost, and I obey him or suffer the consequences. I know, it wouldn’t work for everyone, but it works for us. When I make too many snide remarks about Alison, the bitch house guest from hell, Dan not only disciplines me for being a poor hostess, but, to my horror, he also allows our two guests to watch and join in my humiliating punishment. But it turns out, he knows me better than I know myself, because it seems, humiliation is exactly what I crave…

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I thought I was quite good at concealing my irritation so it did no more than bubble to the surface every now and again in a mild way, and then something bad just slipped out of my mouth.

I couldn’t help it.

We had an open-plan house, so I could see Alison on the couch from the kitchen where I was frantically getting a meal together by myself as usual, and she decided she was having trouble unscrewing the top off her nail polish bottle, so she asked Dan for help.

I couldn’t help repeating under my breath in that simpering way she had “Dan, could you help me with this please,” and I added to the effect by waggling my tits as she had on the sofa and adding “because I want to show you all I’ve got.”

Of course, they both chose that very moment to look my way, and Alison gave a little shriek of protest, while Dan just said “Bedroom, now!” and I didn’t think I could do anything else but go there and wait.

“That was unspeakably rude,” he said. “I can’t let that pass. You’ve been less than welcoming to Alison and Tom the past few days, but that was too much.”

He pulled me over his lap, lifted my skirt and pulled down my panties to my knees. And then he walloped me hard six times. I knew Alison would be able to hear those smacks, and presumably he knew it too, but he was so annoyed he didn’t care.

And it was all the more humiliating to know she would be aware of exactly what was happening to me. That spanking hurt just as much as it ever did, but the surprising thing was that, despite the shame of it, I felt excited by feeling Dan’s hand on my bottom more than ever before, knowing that bitch could hear everything.

“Now pull your panties down and take them off. You can stay like that all evening. Go out there and apologize to Alison.”

I humphed a bit about having to apologize, but I went out there anyway.

Alison was as ungracious as I expected her to be, when I said “I’m sorry, for being rude, Alison. Tough day at work, you know.”

She just smirked at me and looked pointedly at my behind, letting me know she knew I’d been disciplined like a child. I could feel a blush creeping over my face, and there was something else as well. I was getting wetter as she looked down her nose at me.

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August 19, 2015