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Mistress Panzar is a young professional Domme based in Sydney, Australia and one of her favourite fetishes is Anal Enemas. Let Mistress Panzar share her expertise on the preparation that goes into anal enemas, a typical anal enema session with her and what you ought to know if you plan to try this at home.

What are anal enemas?

Enemas involve injecting a fluid into a body cavity, namely the lower bowels (mostly the rectum and sigmoid colon), and subsequently expelling it. The general medical use is to treat constipation or cleanse the bowels prior to a medical exam, such as a colonoscopy. They are also employed by many anal sex lovers as a method of ensuring their lower bowel is relatively free of fecal matter, which can be irritating and messy when present during anal play. A douche is a device used to perform enemas, and can be in the form of a syringe, bucket or bag, giving rise to the term ‘douchebag’.

How popular are anal enemas sessions and how often do you get the requests?

For any session that involves anal play, enemas form an integral part of such sessions. Not only for practical reasons of cleaning the rectum beforehand, but also for the humiliation aspect. It’s certainly non-negotiable with an anal session, so a good submissive would be compliant! I occasionally get requests for enemas intended for more than just the initial cleansing, and this can involve the client being filled and forced to expel in front of an audience.

What preparation do you do when there is enemas involved?

To perform an enema, several things must be in order. Firstly, it is recommended they be performed in a bathroom, or anywhere with a toilet/bathtub/shower to eliminate the waste.

Next, a device of your choosing:

• Disposable enemas can be purchased at the chemist. They comprise of a small bottle with a nozzle filled with an isotonic, body safe solution. They are of one time use only, and thus are the most hygienic of all the methods.
• Bulb syringes are very similar to disposable enemas, but can be reused, and are generally larger. The nozzle does not need to go too far inside as the liquid can get stuck further up and be hard to eliminate.
• An enema bag is commonly a hot water bottle attached to a tube connected to a nozzle at the end, and relies on gravity to induce water flow – hence the bag must be positioned up higher than your body.
• In a pinch, use your shower hose, minus the head. Be mindful of the water pressure – too high will inject too much water too deep into the bowels, and may be difficult to eliminate the entire amount.

Regarding the fluid used, it is recommended to either use sterile water that is either fresh or salt water. Arguably, salt water is isotonic and is not likely to draw electrolytes from the body, however, a moderate one-time enema is generally unlikely to cause electrolyte imbalance, in my experience. Warm temperature is recommended for comfort, and certainly not too hot. A good way to test the water temperature is to drink it first. Your bowels respond to temperature in the same way your mouth does – they are all part of the gastrointestinal tract, after all! Other fluids can be used such as wine and coffee, but as there is no general consensus on how safe it is to inject such fluids, I will refrain from discussing them.

*While not required, it is highly recommended to maintain a clean diet prior to any anal play including enemas. Clean refers to a diet free of processed and highly refined foods such as fast food and snacks, and high in healthy lean foods such as meat and vegetables. By doing so, the cleaning process will go much more smoothly.

While many people recommend dietary fiber to be regular, you must ensure that you eat both soluble (e.g. psylium husk) and insoluble (e.g. whole grains) fibre, supplemented by lots of water. The last part is especially important as without it fibre can have the opposite effect of constipation.

Describe a typical process of anal enema play one can expect from you?

For simplicity’s sake, I will refer to the ’shower hose’ method to describe a typical enema.

The ‘enem-ee’ (ha) will assume a position on the floor conducive to introducing fluid into the bowels. Typically, this is on all fours, with the buttocks raised. The hose is then turned on prior to inserting into the anus – very important to ensure that air doesn’t enter the rectum – and then inserted, usually with a bit of non-water based lubricant around the tip. The ideal flow is not too high and not too low. The enem-ee will stay in this position while I monitor them, and perhaps humiliate them while I’m at it. I check up on them frequently to see whether they are reaching the limit of what they can hold in, and once they reach that point I remove the hose and force them to hold it in for a period of time. Usually, it’s no longer than a minute. Then, they are given permission to expel it.

If I don’t feel they are clean enough, the process begins again.

How is anal enemas used as a punishment in the context of BDSM?

Having an enema can arouse many different emotions. To perform one in front of another, or have someone administer one to you and watch you subsequently defecate is humiliating – we’re normally accustomed to such activities behind a closed door. To have someone observing you in a compromising, oft-naked position can evoke feelings of vulnerability. The idea of relinquishing power under the control of the administrator, who determines the amount and duration of retention, can be a form of torture both physical and psychological if the submissive is not accustomed to a large or long retention.

What are some precautions to ensure safe anal enemas especially if trying at home?

Some advice regarding specific methods:

• The bulb syringe method – When pulling out the device out of the rectum once it is empty, make sure that you squeeze it very tightly to avoid a ‘suction’ effect from happening which can be very painful.
• The shower hose method – Make sure the water is running prior to insertion, to avoid air entering and being trapped, which can cause an embolism (serious emergency room stuff).

In general:

• Be mindful of your body’s limits, and don’t inject more fluid than what is necessary. If you cannot expel your enema fully or at all, the body will absorb at least some of the liquid. I have had a few unfortunate incidents involving large amounts of water coming out in the middle of a strap on session as a result of not being able to expel the enema fully. One method of getting fluid out is to insert a soapy finger into your rectum. This may induce flow (much like how the strap on fucking did) and get the last remaining bits out.
• Make sure the fluid is as sterile as possible. Remember, the rectum is like your second mouth – you wouldn’t want to drink anything dirty, would you?
• You may read on some websites that frequent use of enemas can result in dependence. While I do not discount those experiences, I know of those who have used enemas for decades who have no such issues. I thus cannot make a judgment on the overall safety of enemas in this respect, only that you make an informed decision based on the potential risks.
• I have had experiences of people who were unable to expel an enema. Sometimes it was a matter of using less fluid than usual, but other times alternatives were required. Suppositories such as glycerol can also be used to induce a bowel movement, but some can be very irritating to the bowel, and it is NOT recommended to engage in anal sex less than one hour after such cleansing. These generally have a higher likelihood of success in cleansing for those who find enemas difficult.

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