What is anal play?
Anal play is generally speaking a sexual activity which involves the anus (ass, bottom, rectum, butt etc). It can be anything from using a finger very lightly to circle the outside of your anus, through to fisting (inserting a whole fist into the ass). My definition would also include anal sex (penetrating the anus with either a cock or strap-on dildo etc.) and rimming where you use your tongue to lick the outside and poke it into the anus. There are many other activities but since this is an introduction to anal play, I’ll stick with the most common ones.
How popular are anal play sessions and how often do you get the requests?
I’m constantly approached to do all kinds of play involving anal fun. Perhaps this is due to the fact I am very, very happy to do it, so I mention it on my blog a lot.
Many of my clients fantasize about Me forcing them to “worship Me” which involves them “rimming” and licking my anus.
What is it about anal play that you enjoy most?
I adore the intimacy and level of arousal anal play brings with it. I get very turned on when penetrating my play partners and often love to watch their face as they respond to all the different sensations. As a Dominatrix, the power and control I have when dominating someone anally is invigorating. Having my ass licked and kisses sends tingles through my body. I think of the ass as yet another wonderful treasure trove of nerves and sensations.
Why is anal play viewed as a form of dominance/punishment?
Anal play can be one of the many tools used in Power Play, and BDSM. A big reason is because anything to do with the butt is considered in most cultures as being dirty, and anal play and ass licking is still considered to be taboo and quite “naughty”. When I command a submissive or slave to lick My ass I will often say things like “your disgusting mouth doesn’t deserve to be near My asshole but get down there and lick!” It’s a good psychological form of humiliation and way to degrade the slave, which many of my clients enjoy. If I start to grind my ass down on their face while they’re licking, it can turn from a scene where they are disgusting and humiliated, to one where I use their mouth for my pleasure, as I love being rimmed. If I say they’re not doing a good job I will often then threaten to fuck them with my strap-on cock, which turns them (and me) on even more.
Anal play is quite common in “vanilla” or non-BDSM sex too. The use of toys and even self-stimulation, like sticking a finger in your own butt is done more often than you’d think. Many heterosexual men I see in sessions who are interested in anal play have started out exploring their own ass with their finger. Perhaps when they’re pulling their cock the other hand has gone for a wander just to see what it would feel like.
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