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  • How To Enjoy Solo Anal Play With Toys

    How To Enjoy Solo Anal Play With Toys

    Masturbation is one of the most important aspects of life for both our health and sanity. I do not know about other people, but sometimes I cannot focus on things until I masturbate. If I don’t cum, I will get nothing done! Not only does it provide us with great self pleasure, but it relieves stress and helps us sleep as well.

    I also think masturbation is wicked important because you need to discover what works for you sexually. If you don’t masturbate, you will not know what turns you on or makes you orgasm. I began masturbating probably when I was about nine years old, so I have always been aware of what my body enjoys. This awareness allows us to guide our partners during sex. I also think masturbation makes us more sexually confident as well. Masturbation should never be shamed.

    Why I Love Solo Anal Play

    Solo anal play is extremely enjoyable because of all the nerve endings that are in your asshole…it creates enormous amounts of sensations. The sliding in, and the full feeling of my asshole being stuffed with a toy brings me to another level – a Heavenly level.

    Also, I think the “taboo” nature of anal play makes it extra hot. It is like the “forbidden” zone. My pussy gets wet just thinking about anal play or anal sex. Another thing I love is the challenge. I get off on the challenge of fitting different toys and different size objects in my ass.

    Best Toys For Anal Play

    I have a couple toy boxes and they contain lots of anal toys! I mostly use plugs, so I can start smaller, stretch it out, and move onto bigger plugs and toys. I love the base at the end of plugs. They stay in your butthole so you can be hands free! Being handsfree is awesome for when I DP myself. I love to have both holes filled at once. That feeling of being double-stuffed is so off the charts that I don’t even have words to describe it! Sometimes I even wear a plug when I am just going about my day – cleaning, doing errands, etc. It’s like a naughty secret that makes my pussy wet all day long.

    I also love my weighted Ben Wa balls. My favorite ones are attached to each other with a string, so there is no risk of losing them inside you. The weight puts pressure in my hole that feels so erotic to me. I also like that I can see them move around when I tug on the string. Plugs and balls are my favorite because when I push them out, I squirt fountains!

    Anal beads are great too. They add extra pleasure when you pull them out as you are cumming.

    Tips For Beginners

    I would highly suggest starting small and working your way up to bigger toys. There are starter anal kits that come with three different sized plugs so you can work your way up.

    Get yourself super horny first. I like to watch porn before I play with my ass and run a vibrator on my clit.

    Lots of lube is important. I suggest water based so you do not end up with any infections (it always seems to make its way to your pussy). If it is difficult or painful, add more lube!

    Starting out with just your fingers is a nice way to begin stretching out as well. You can keep adding in fingers and work your way up to a toy.

    Ways To Kink Up Anal Play

    Sexy lingerie and slutty outfits definitely make anal play hotter for me. I love dressing up, and the sexier I feel, the hornier I am! I also like to challenge myself to take on different size toys, and even food and objects. I’m really into pushing toys, objects, and food out of my asshole.

    I mentioned before that it makes me squirt, plus I love the way it looks and feels. Watching myself or other girls push things out of their ass makes me go gaga. I’ve always found anal play with food to be super-hot! Strawberries, gummy bears, whip cream; you name it and I will shove it in my hole and push it out! Random objects are fun too. I put an entire remote control in my asshole and pushed it out once!

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  • How To Make Anal Masturbation Pleasurable

    How To Make Anal Masturbation Pleasurable

    I’ve found that even in the adult camming community, there are plenty of models who blatantly refuse to attempt anal play in any form, and consider it taboo and ill-advised. My personal views on anal play are the exact opposite, and I encourage all, to at least give anal play a go just once. Even if your experience only goes as far as fingers or a small butt plug, I’ve so rarely heard of any regrets once achieved.

    Why I Love Anal Play

    Anal is not only intensely pleasurable, but some individuals, including myself, can actually orgasm from anal play alone. Women who enjoy being stretched or can orgasm vaginally, will most likely enjoy anal penetration as well, as it adds just that much more to the sexual experience.

    How I Prefer To Engage In Anal Play

    I prefer sex toys during anal play, mainly because certain angles are unachievable with fingers or fisting, and you can always size up or down in length or girth, whichever you fancy. My preferred anal toys are my 13-18 inch double ender dildos, and my wide 10 inch riding dildo.

    Preparation For Anal Play

    An ample amount of lube is required for anal play, not only to maximize pleasure, but to avoid unnecessary injury. Anyone just beginning their anal play adventures, should start with smaller toys (with a flared end preferably) or just fingers to ‘warm up’, and then gradually build to something more substantial. For experts, like myself, it’s a little easier to gauge what one can take right off the bat, so to speak.

    Ideal Positions For Anal Play

    Quite a few positions are ideal for anal play, it just depends upon individual flexibility and stamina. Cowgirl, Reverse Cowgirl, and Doggie Style I’d say are ideal for beginners. However, there’s an advanced position that I enjoy quite often, and can be described a bit like scissoring, only with one leg in the air, with all weight resting on the other leg, which allows for more reach around with either hand or inserted toy.

    Ways To Make Anal Play Hotter

    I’ve found that sex outdoors in any form, is the most exciting experience for me. I once had a house with roof access, and so on one particular occasion, I climbed up and masturbated there, bringing a glass anal toy with me. The hottest thing one can do with anal solo play is to keep experimenting, make it a kinky addition to your normal play, so that your next orgasm might be that much more unbelievably addicting.

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  • Mistress Sindy Skin’s Anal play tips

    Mistress Sindy Skin’s Anal play tips

    Ass play can be so awesome! Yay for butts! I’m very passionate about ass play so just a few thoughts.

    I’d suggest… Try it when you’re in a nice relaxed head space, not a space of obligation. Enjoy lots of delicious foreplay, with all parts of your body. Lots of kissing, skin stroking, feeling safe and sexy etc.

    Finding a position where you control how far and fast you are penetrated helps both mentally and physically.

    Use lots of lube (and then use some more). Slippery sexy fingers are a nice way to get your ass gently stretched. Start slower than you think and maybe want. Small rubbery plugs can help but I find a partners fingers are best as they bend with your body and partner can feel how your ass is responding. A sudden clench down on their finger will usually make them go slower. Did I mention more lube?

    If their finger/s is in you and it feels uncomfortable, stop and either dribble more lube over the area or slowly pull out. When you get to a point where it feels yummy (can take a few play sessions of just using one of two fingers – that can be really intimate and hot as well so enjoy that too), have him gently introduce more fingers, all at a beautiful slow tempo. If you notice you’re tensing up, take a moment to concentrate on relaxing all your body and breathing slower. Relaxed body means relaxed ass.

    When the head of a cock, dildo etc goes past the entrance of your ass it can go a little fast as the head is usually widest so once the head is in, its good to take a moment to stay still with just the head in you and let your body get used to that feeling. Breathing, relaxing, kissing, playing with your clit, lots of lube…yumm.

    I don’t use numbing cream because it can mask issues – if it hurts it means you could be tearing the anal lining and fissures are really horrible! Plus when it feels good we want to feel all the goodness!

    And finally, I’m a highly experienced sex professional, but not a medical professional, so definitely consult a doctor and sexual health organisation for the most up-to-date information about safe and sexy anal play. And have fun!

    I spend most of my time filming and performing in fetish videos and 5 minute clips, on a huge range of kinky topics. In some I am embracing my love for leather, like the one where I play with a butt plug I’ve been wearing under my leather pants. In others I dominate my slave and I make him pleasure me. Would you like to see me in a particular fetish film scene? Custom clip requests are very welcome. Read more of my profile below with my links or visit my website at http://www.sindyskin.com

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  • Precautions for safe Anal play

    Precautions for safe Anal play

    It’s important to ensure both/all people are wanting the same thing in anal play sessions, and open discussions before the play commences is vital.

    If you are receiving anal play, think about your limits and desires. Are you wanting a finger to tickle the outside of your butt, and no penetration? You are allowed to say so. Are you wanting to work up to fisting and having an entire hand inside your butt? If it’s your first time being penetrated, this is extremely unlikely to happen, so know your limits and be realistic. Ten minute fising porn videos often have hours of preparation and the actor is likely to have years of butt play to have stretched their ass to accept anything bigger than a cock. Slow and steady is sexy!

    Thin surgical style latex or nitrile gloves (for those with a latex allergy) are great to wear on your hands for a few reasons. It can keep things cleaner, but also helps prevent fingers and sharp fingernails from scratching and tearing the butt and anal lining. Add lube and the gloves can be super slippery making penetration even easier.

    A thin sheet of latex known as a dental dam placed over the asshole when licking and rimming can help prevent disease transmission, and if you put a bit of lube between the dam and the anus it can feel lovely.

    I use condoms on all my toys used during anal play, like dildos, butt plugs, and anal beads. This makes them easier to clean and if sharing toys during a play session, you can slip the condom off after one person has used it and put a new condom on for the next person.

    Try to be aware of what you have put where – you definitely don’t want to put a toy that has been in someone’s ass into their pussy without changing condoms.

    After using sex toys, make sure you clean them in disinfectant and other cleaning products made for toys. Then dry them ready to store in your favourite sexy drawer or toy box for your next anal play session.

    Germ-killing mouthwash is good to have on hand after rimming someone to help kill off any bacteria.

    A dental dam (thin sheet of latex made for sexual purposes) is available from pharmacies and sexual health services. This can help prevent the spread of Sexually Transmitted Infections and bacteria between the ass and mouth.

    Cumming in someones ass is considered a risky activity, and condoms will assist in preventing passing diseases between play partners.

    I spend most of my time filming and performing in fetish videos and 5 minute clips, on a huge range of kinky topics. In some I am embracing my love for leather, like the one where I play with a butt plug I’ve been wearing under my leather pants. In others I dominate my slave and I make him pleasure me. Would you like to see me in a particular fetish film scene? Custom clip requests are very welcome. Read more of my profile below with my links or visit my website at http://www.sindyskin.com

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  • How can anal play be incorporated into a D/S relationship?

    How can anal play be incorporated into a D/S relationship?

    Dominating someone, and being dominated anally can be a really intense and exciting experience. You can add an element of role-play, with one of you being the customs officer and the other the “smuggler” who needs to be internally searched etc… there is no end to scenarios like this so have some fun and change it up.

    Some masochists (people who like receiving pain) enjoy rough and painful anal play, or the thought of it. Sometimes the threat of “I’m going to fuck you so hard!” and “I’m gonna stretch your asshole so wide” will be enough. Other times they may want a thumb roughly pushed into their butt with your other hand over their mouth etc. This kind of rough play should always have a discussion beforehand, so you both know what each other are wants and not wants, even in the middle of a role-play scenario.

    It’s important to have a safe word so if one person is saying “ouch ouch!” you will know if this means stop or if it means they are enjoying the feelings. Common sense should also be used, so if your play partner suddenly tenses up or looks distressed you should check in with them.

    The submissive can also beg for anal attention, saying “Please Mistress I want to feel your beautiful cock in my ass” or “Please Sir I will do anything to have you put your finger in my butt” etc etc.

    I spend most of my time filming and performing in fetish videos and 5 minute clips, on a huge range of kinky topics. In some I am embracing my love for leather, like the one where I play with a butt plug I’ve been wearing under my leather pants. In others I dominate my slave and I make him pleasure me. Would you like to see me in a particular fetish film scene? Custom clip requests are very welcome. Read more of my profile below with my links or visit my website at http://www.sindyskin.com

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  • What toys should you use for orgasmic Anal play?

    What toys should you use for orgasmic Anal play?

    There are so many toys and insertibles used in anal play and it’s best to start small. You can get “anal training” sets of three butt plugs, where you start with the smallest one and when your ass feels stretched and not as tight, you can use the medium sized one and so-on. Sometimes it can take weeks to go up a size, and sometimes you will just find your own size, and don’t be in any hurry. The main aim is to enjoy anal play.

    Anal beads and vibrating “bullets” with chords attached to separate battery compartments can also be fun to play with and are usually smaller than fingers. Sliding a condom over the bullet, adding lube to it and pushing it gently into the ass, you can then wait for a moment before turning on the vibrating mechanism, so all of a sudden it starts buzzing gently in their (or your) ass. This feels really delicious and when adding clit rubbing or cock stroking at the same time, be ready for your playfriend to reach orgasm quickly!

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    Wherever possible, aim to use toys that have a definite flange (the wider part at the bottom of a toy). Don’t panic if something you’ve inserted into your butt slips in. Just try to stay calm and relax. Then in a controlled way, slowly push out as if having a bowel movement.

    Lubricant specifically created for anal play is available in sex shops, and sexual health services as well as all over the internet. Whenever buying new lubes, I love to read reviews and hear from others which ones they have enjoyed. I personally steer clear of any with flavours and scents, as it can irritate the delicate lining of your butt.

    Food grade vegetable shortening (like Crisco) has been used for decades by some people as a lube. Just like any food, it does have an expiry date, and is best refrigerated. Half an hour or so before play I cover my hand in a clean disposable rubber glove or cling film and scoop a handful out of the tin. The tin goes back in the fridge and the scooped out shortening is put somewhere to reach room temperature.

    I spend most of my time filming and performing in fetish videos and 5 minute clips, on a huge range of kinky topics. In some I am embracing my love for leather, like the one where I play with a butt plug I’ve been wearing under my leather pants. In others I dominate my slave and I make him pleasure me. Would you like to see me in a particular fetish film scene? Custom clip requests are very welcome. Read more of my profile below with my links or visit my website at http://www.sindyskin.com

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  • Mistress Sindy Skin is an expert on Anal Play

    Mistress Sindy Skin is an expert on Anal Play

    What is anal play?

    Anal play is generally speaking a sexual activity which involves the anus (ass, bottom, rectum, butt etc). It can be anything from using a finger very lightly to circle the outside of your anus, through to fisting (inserting a whole fist into the ass). My definition would also include anal sex (penetrating the anus with either a cock or strap-on dildo etc.) and rimming where you use your tongue to lick the outside and poke it into the anus. There are many other activities but since this is an introduction to anal play, I’ll stick with the most common ones.

    How popular are anal play sessions and how often do you get the requests?

    I’m constantly approached to do all kinds of play involving anal fun. Perhaps this is due to the fact I am very, very happy to do it, so I mention it on my blog a lot.

    Many of my clients fantasize about Me forcing them to “worship Me” which involves them “rimming” and licking my anus.

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    What is it about anal play that you enjoy most?

    I adore the intimacy and level of arousal anal play brings with it. I get very turned on when penetrating my play partners and often love to watch their face as they respond to all the different sensations. As a Dominatrix, the power and control I have when dominating someone anally is invigorating. Having my ass licked and kisses sends tingles through my body. I think of the ass as yet another wonderful treasure trove of nerves and sensations.

    Why is anal play viewed as a form of dominance/punishment?

    Anal play can be one of the many tools used in Power Play, and BDSM. A big reason is because anything to do with the butt is considered in most cultures as being dirty, and anal play and ass licking is still considered to be taboo and quite “naughty”. When I command a submissive or slave to lick My ass I will often say things like “your disgusting mouth doesn’t deserve to be near My asshole but get down there and lick!” It’s a good psychological form of humiliation and way to degrade the slave, which many of my clients enjoy. If I start to grind my ass down on their face while they’re licking, it can turn from a scene where they are disgusting and humiliated, to one where I use their mouth for my pleasure, as I love being rimmed. If I say they’re not doing a good job I will often then threaten to fuck them with my strap-on cock, which turns them (and me) on even more.

    Anal play is quite common in “vanilla” or non-BDSM sex too. The use of toys and even self-stimulation, like sticking a finger in your own butt is done more often than you’d think. Many heterosexual men I see in sessions who are interested in anal play have started out exploring their own ass with their finger. Perhaps when they’re pulling their cock the other hand has gone for a wander just to see what it would feel like.

    I spend most of my time filming and performing in fetish videos and 5 minute clips, on a huge range of kinky topics. In some I am embracing my love for leather, like the one where I play with a butt plug I’ve been wearing under my leather pants. In others I dominate my slave and I make him pleasure me. Would you like to see me in a particular fetish film scene? Custom clip requests are very welcome. Read more of my profile below with my links or visit my website at http://www.sindyskin.com

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  • MisKnickers’ Sex Toy Tips – Buying Sex Toys

    MisKnickers’ Sex Toy Tips – Buying Sex Toys

    ‘But I’ve Never Been To A Sex Shop…’

    Since the advent of online shopping, sex toy sales have drastically increased, particularly from female buyers. In terms of anonymity, it’s great; there’s no bumping into another school mum when you buy online. It can also be really useful for replacing toys you already know and love.

    However, visiting a sex shop will give you a new perspective on the toys, and your reaction to them. Never been before? Here’s some tips for starting out:

    • Start with one of the larger chain stores that specialise in female visitors. These stores are generally stylish, open­ plan and well­ lit for browsing, with mostly female staff.
    • Be curious. Ask questions. Be ‘wow­ed’. I’ve been working with sex toys for two years now, and just when you think you’ve seen it all there is something new to be amazed by. It’s ok to be dazzled by just how big some of these things are. It’s ok to wonder ‘how the hell does that even work?’ And it’s more than fine to see something you never knew existed and think ‘I must have it’.
    • Touch things. This is something online shopping can never give you. The biggest benefit the sex shop gives is tactility. There are no written measurements that will make as much sense as the summation of your own hands; they know what feels good in them. With weight and ergonomics being such a major part of toy design for females, having a 3­D sensory idea of what may work for you can be invaluable.
    • Take a friend and just go to browse. Don’t put any pressure on buying. If something impresses you, be open to it.

    ‘I Wanna Buy A Vibe, But There’s Just Too Many!’

    The range of vibrators these days is (figuratively) out of hand. Sex shop walls are lined with displays of all kinds of cock in a range of colours, textures, shapes, sizes and magic tricks for your clit. So let me refine this for you a bit…

    One word: ‘rechargeable’. Yes, rechargeable toys are revolutionising the industry. There are several product lines who specialise in this technology, and although it costs a bit more, it’s a small price to pay to know your toy will last the journey without a battery changeover mid­way, or any loss of power. The motor isn’t limited by how many batteries the toy can carry so not only can these things GO, they do so in a quiet, efficient manner. Generally, a fully charged toy will run from anywhere between three to fours hours, and can take about the same to recharge. For mine, these are the most aesthetically pleasing vibes;­ sleek curves, smooth contours, zero veins. Don’t even bother looking at battery-operated vibes anymore.

    ‘What About the “Anal Stuff”?’

    The best advice that can ever be given to someone wanting to explore anal play, is start small, go slow, and use lots of lube. On the most basic level, this ensures a greater degree of relaxation which is key to enjoying anal play. The growing numbers of people buying these toys seems to suggest people are finally feeling free of old taboos.

    Enthusiasm for something new is fantastic, but leads to the most common mistake first time buyers make; choosing too arduous a toy. It could be size, shape or rigidity, but generally due to a wonderful want of sexual exploration, they try and take on too much. A great place to start is with silicone or jelly anal beads with progressive sizes. Anal beads are relatively inexpensive, and will give you a good idea of the sort of penetration you may like. Remember to partner them with a good quality lubricant that won’t degrade the toy material. Once you’ve got a sense of the size you’re comfortable with, experiments with buttplugs and vibrators can commence.

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