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  • Uncuffed: An Intro to Kinky Exploration

    Uncuffed: An Intro to Kinky Exploration

    If you are a curious beginner looking to explore the multiple facets of kink with your partner, whether that means buying your first set of handcuffs or acting out an intense fantasy, there are three guidelines to start you off…to get you off.

    Communication with your partner is crucial to having a good kinky time.  If this is your first time expanding your sexuality and testing your comfort zone then there is a lot to talk about with your partner.  It can be a little awkward at first to address these sometimes new and edgy topics, and that’s okay.  You’re allowed to feel a little uncomfortable.  Start out slow when addressing kink with your partner; maybe mention you read an article or an erotic story online about some light bondage and a blindfold and were wondering if your partner would be open to tying you up (or vice versa) with a tie or fuzzy handcuffs and blindfolding you with a scarf.  Sometimes it is easier to begin with small changes to your sexual routine to get more comfortable, before experimenting with more intense changes, like replacing that scarf or fuzzy handcuffs with rope or leather bonds.

    It also can be helpful to give each other a verbal outline of what will happen (at least the first few times) so there are no surprises that your partner may not be expecting or enjoy.  For example, if you are tying your partner up and then blindfolding them, explain to them how and what you will tie them up with, and explain that you can stop at any time if you or your partner becomes uncomfortable.  Talking it out is a great way to reduce any stress or nervousness you or your partner may experience during this new adventure you are embarking on together.

    Consent is also a critical piece of kinky exploration that ties (pun intended) in well with communicating with your partner.  Consent is so important for you and your partner’s sexual experience.  After talking to your partner about wanting to trying that light bondage, or wanting to be blindfolded for a little sensory deprivation if your partner does not want to try those things you need to respect that.  Consensual sex is the best kind of sex, and if your partner feels obligated or bullied into trying these kinds of things, it likely will not be enjoyable for either one of you and will not make for promising sexual exploration in the future.  If at first your partner does not seem too keen on the idea of incorporating these new kinky ideas into your sexual repertoire, that’s okay.  You might try showing your partner that article or erotic story you read that gave you the idea in the first place, or looking into some literature for kinky beginners.

    If after reading up on kink through articles, books, or erotica and your partner is still hesitant, you should respect that and just give it some time.  Let the conversation rest for a while, maybe your partner is stressed at work currently or is having difficulty within their family.  Showing you respect their decision and/or can wait for other areas of their life to settle down will show your partner you respect them and honour their consent, and may keep your partner’s mind open to consenting to some kinky fun in the future.

    Lastly, after you have discussed what you are going to try with your partner, how you are going to try it, and have received verbal and (maybe a little nervous) enthusiastic consent, you need to keep safety and sanitation in mind as well.  This basically means using safe products for you and your partner, and to have a basic understanding of the kinky toys you might try using before actually using them on your partner.  For example, if you are going to use handcuffs, make sure you know how to easily get in and out of them.  Or, if you are going to use any sex toys like vibrators or dildos, make sure you know what they are made out of and know if those materials are healthy for you and your partner (be aware of latex and other kinds of allergies).  After you are done using toys, make sure to wash and store them properly too for next time.

    A final word on safety; depending on what you are choosing to explore sexually with your partner, having a safe word may be beneficial.  Having a safe word, like “red” for stop or “yellow” for slow down, or something silly like “watermelon”, can give you and your partner confidence and security in your kinky exploration.  If what you are experimenting with gets too intense for one of you, you can stop whenever you want by using your word.

    Keeping these three simple rules in mind: open communication, consent and safety for you and your partner while you begin to experiment and broaden your sexy horizons, will hopefully lead you both to a healthy, confident, (kinkily) blossoming sexuality.

    Images courtesy of Shutterstock

  • Is Cock and Ball Torture for You?

    Is Cock and Ball Torture for You?

    Don’t ask me why some men like having their naughty bits punished with cock and ball torture (CBT), but they do.  And my favourite bottoms are the ones that really, really do.

    So picture the scene: I’m at my favourite dungeon on a Saturday night.

    In walks a 4B – Beautiful, Buff, Bald, and Black, I call this the 4B’s of Destiny, because he is, destined to play with Me.  Then picture him naked.  His brains, name or height don’t matter, just enjoy him oiled up and blindfolded.

    I check the time, this scene could last two hours and since I didn’t get a nap before starting to play at 11:30 pm, two hours of intense poking, slapping, hitting, pumping, and twisting can wear me out.  Then we must be in a space conducive to fluid spillage, arm and leg room to swing and kick, and seating and/or laying options.  I like my bottoms to be as comfortable as possible for the pain I inflict.

    Nerve endings are beautiful things.  The more sensitive the skin area is, the more nerve bundles there are to play with.  They register pain and pleasure faster, and when syncopation occurs, the nerves can no longer distinguish pain from pleasure.  Just watching the body writhing in reaction to the stimulus of slaps, strokes, or bites can bring the utmost delight.

    Since I’m in the mood for stingy vs. thuddy pain tonight, I choose my instruments carefully.  Knives are the first course to start my encounter with his skin.  I trail the cool flat stainless steel blade slowly, watch the skin and fine hairs prickle in response.  Then I dip the tip, creating pools of just enough pressure but not enough to pierce through the skin.  Whether I use one blade or two, I create a symmetrical dance undulating across the smooth surface.  I put on a pair of my Love Bites Vampire Gloves and lightly touch flesh.  His skin is all goose bumps now, and I head to his throbbing cock.  He’s uncut, and the extra sensitivity is what will drive him crazy with craving and mad with the intense pleasure.  I slowly wrap my hand around the head, pulling the foreskin.  He jumps and then leans into the gloves’ grip.  He tosses his head back and forth, shaking it violently to clear the flood of chemicals in which he is now drowning.  His body has signalled that I have him where I want him.  Skin shudders as the nerve endings are sending both pleasure and pain messages to the brain.

    A study from Radboud University Nijmegen in the Netherlands shows that men’s cognitive performances were impaired when they were around women.  I was shooting for maximum cognitive failure, and the limpness of his arms, the surrendering of his cock to my use, made it clear he was mine to do with as I pleased.

    It felt like I raced through the next hour and a half, teasing his flesh, making his body arch and moan.  His pool of pre-cum made a sticky mess everywhere.  I knew he was aching to cum and each time the tip of a blade crossed the tip of his cock or my gloves gripped his cock hard and stroked, he would spurt a little more pre-cum.

    Now he was ready to be mounted.  I instructed him to stand, his eyes barely coherent to my instructions, gave him water to drink, and then forced him to his knees facing my “bro” cock.  He dined hungrily on it, moaning in pleasure and stroking his own cock.

  • Female Domination and Female Led Relationships

    Female Domination and Female Led Relationships

    I was recently amused to see the following statement on Wikipedia which claimed that “71% of heterosexual males preferred a dominant-initiator role”.  Wikipedia referred to a study done by Kurt Emulf in 1995 as to the source for their statement.  I am here to tell you that in the last fifteen years of my experiences as a Dominatrix, and as the Dominant Partner in all of my relationships with men, the men whom I have come in contact with have proven to me that it is exactly the opposite of that published study.  In fairness to that study by Emulf, I have to wonder which demographic group of men he studied.  I have found that typically, male “Blue Collar” workers might fit the mold he presented.  They usually have to put on the macho front and try to act like they control “their little woman”.  Whereas, in almost all cases, the “White Collar” males who I have come in contact with almost all showed an attraction to Dominant Females.  These men, in most cases, jumped at the opportunity of serving a Dominant Female and catering to her needs in private.

    Female Domination is a relatively new term, and has primarily gained popularity over the last twenty years as more and more women have moved away from the stereotype of an “at home Mom and home maker”, and have moved into the business world with positions of increasing responsibility.  While the emergence of the woman in the business place has been taking place, at the same time, another event has been transpiring.  More and more of the men who are in high pressure positions within the business world have been looking for an outlet to relieve the pressure and demands which were put on them in the business world.  These men have found that pressure relief valve, in many cases to be submission to a Dominatrix or allowing their wife or partner to institute a Female Led Relationship at home.

    When you think of Female Domination, the first thought that jumps to your mind is that of Leather-Clad Women in black stockings and high heel pumps with stiletto heels, and rightfully so.  This is the image that most men who are looking for a Dominant woman have in their minds.  That is exactly why I and most Dominant women dress in Leather, Black Stockings, and High Heel Pumps or Boots most of the time.  It serves two very important purposes.  First, it fulfils the desires of the men who come to us looking for Domination Sessions.  Secondly, when attired as mentioned above, it allows us to see the men who are attracted to us on a daily basis, and gives us an idea as to whether or not they might be a good candidate to serve us as a slave.  When men can’t take their eyes off of you when you are dressed in a dominant manner, it’s usually a clear tip off of what they are attracted to.

    I can tell you from personal experience, and you can also read the actual account of what happened in my book “At Her Beck and Call”, which illustrates my point.  I met my husband/slave on the Internet about thirteen years ago, and determined on the first date, that he was a good candidate to become the subservient party in a Female Led Relationship.  How?  Very simple!  I noticed right away that he could not take his eyes off my nylon clad legs or high heel pumps.  When I let my dress slide up and expose the garter belt holding up my sheer nylons, he was transfixed on the image.  My hunch was right as soon as I questioned him as to whether he preferred a woman in garter belts and stockings or a woman who wore pantyhose.  He was embarrassed, but he admitted to me that he found my attire to be a lot sexier than a woman wearing pantyhose.  Later, back at my house I confirmed that he was a good candidate for a Female Led Relationship when I pushed his face down to my high heels and he immediately began to worship them.  It didn’t take me long to move our relationship along to the point where he surrendered all control over to me and became my adoring slave.  I am happy to report that we’ve now been married for over ten years, and Troy is still always there at My Beck and Call.

    I get this question from women all the time.  There has to be more than just the dress and attire, doesn’t there?  Absolutely, there has to be the correct mindset on the part of the woman, first and foremost.  The woman has to want a man who will get down on his knees, worship her body, be compliant with all of her wishes, and cater to all of her needs.  The woman in the relationship has to take charge and make Female Domination a reality in her relationship.  It is not hard to do at all.  Most women are held back by that old stereotyped image which I mentioned previously.  Those days are gone, and the faster every women realizes it, the better off all females will be.  Men will let you have control and will do your bidding, if you will just take the initiative and make that Female Led Relationship happen.

    I am a strict believer in male chastity, and I have kept my husband locked in a Chastity Tube for many years.  He has learnt that he will never get a release and orgasm unless I am totally satisfied with the number and quality of orgasms he has given to me, and totally pleased with his behaviour in our marriage.  I will devote another article strictly to the how to’s on male chastity, but I need to mention one important fact here.  Once a woman locks up her partner’s cock in a Chastity Tube, magic happens.  The male will become more adoring, more attentive to the women’s needs, and becomes more obedient to every wish that the female should utter.  Men are not controlled by their mind.  They are controlled by what is between their legs, and when women realize that, take control, and institute forced male chastity into the relationship, the woman finds quickly that she becomes the Queen of the household.  I’ve found that to be true ever since I locked my husband into a Chastity Tube, and I’ve also received the same feedback from every woman who I have talked with who did the same thing.  The move pretty much guarantees a successful Female Led Relationship.

    You do not have to be a professional Dominatrix like me to have your man kneeling at your feet, worshipping your body, giving you all the orgasms you could ever desire, and loving every minute of serving you.  You just have to take control today of your relationship and make it happen.  When he comes home tonight, put on that short leather skirt, garter belt, sheer stockings, and killer high heels.  See what happens.  I’ll bet that you can have your mate down on his knees in minutes kissing your heels, worshipping your legs, and waiting for your next command!

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  • Interview with Mistress Anna

    Interview with Mistress Anna

    The recent HongKong Kink Con was held from 14-16 February and SimplySxy had the opportunity to ask one of the presenters, Mistress Anna, a few questions on her involvement in HKKC as well as her interests.

    SimplySxy: How did you get involved in HKKC?

    Mistress Anna: I was very lucky to be put forward by Decima of whom I had became acquainted with at Sydney Rope Dojo several years ago. I had also invited Decima along to my Sydney Dommes & subs Munch on several occasions and she made quite a lasting impact with the group. Such an experienced international Domina!

    SimplySxy: What can people look forward to in your Humiliation and CBT workshops and why are they so popular?

    Mistress Anna: I hope I can bring my own style and flavour to the table- I tend to be sadistic… in the nicest or NOT SO nicest possible way {evil grin}. I’m sure there are some of the old favourites and I hope to show {and hopefully learn} a new trick or two.

    I think these classes are so popular because they can bring out the most down right evil and sadistic play. Humiliation play can delve deep into the psyche and can touch our most inner emotions.

    SimplySxy: At HKKC you’re conducting two Boot Camp Mistress sessions. How do they differ from more conventional Bootcamps offered in various cities around the world?

    Mistress Anna: Getting fit and BDSM is the best possible kind of match! Who doesn’t want to be “FORCED to get fit”?

    SimplySxy: How important is it to attend workshops as a presenter or an attendee?

    Mistress Anna: People should never stop learning, expanding and experiencing. There are always new techniques, revision, networking, community good will and more to be shared from a presenter or attendees point.

    SimplySxy: Brian Robertson mentioned in his interview that he chose you because you are so integrated into your own community as an organiser. How do you contribute to your community in Sydney?

    Mistress Anna: My contributions in the Kink Community are integrated into all aspects of my Lifestyle. I run The Sydney Dommes and subs group, we meet monthly for a Munch and I usually have a topic or theme.

    During the Munches we have raised money for ACON (as part of The Boot Camp CITY2SURF group), against Human Trafficking in Thailand, WIRES for the Wildlife from the Australian bushfire disasters, and in February we are supporting one of our Domina who is doing FEBFAST (raising money for alcohol and drug rehabilitation).
    Last year we had a Domme and sub “Morning Tea” when VIP guest Milla Reika was here for Sydney Rope Festival and in March we support one of our Ladies who is “Ms Sydney Leather 2013” to fly to the U.S to vie for the International role.

    I have extended invitations to other groups such as Sydney Leather Pride, Ms Dee from UBER, SWOP and HELLFIRE to our Munches to widen the knowledge in our community and in kind I have been asked to present workshops during Sydney Leather Pride week and at UBER.  My Boot Camp sessions have branched off into 1 to 1 Boot Camp sessions and I often “manscape” subs with hair removal by wax.  My dear friend Ms Silk takes Kinky Yoga at my premises together we motivate kinksters through better health and flexibility to achieve their own personal kinky goals. A health and nutrition catering company called “Love Kitchen” operates out of my premises from my commercial kitchen~kinksters can order daily and weekly bespoke meals.

    My vision is for healthy mind, body and spirit for our Kink Community under one roof~a holistic integrated centre.  Next to join me will be a Life Coach, a Nutritionist, a Chiropractor, Naturopath and Massuse.  The plan seems to be coming together!!

    For more information on Mistress Anna, visit her website here.  HongKong Kink Con might be over for this year, but do follow them at their website here to keep yourself updated for any new information or events that might be coming up!

  • HongKong Kink Con 2014 – Presenter Bios

    HongKong Kink Con 2014 – Presenter Bios

    With just slightly under 2 weeks to go before HK Kink Con 2014, SimplySxy is delighted to share with you all the 11 bios of the presenters who will be there from 14-16 February.  Read on to find out more about them!

    Morpheus – lordmorpheus.com

    Morpheous (Hons B.A., B.Ed) is a sex educator/author and magazine/kinkyTV/radio consultant based in Toronto, Canada. His Education Series presents a variety of lectures to both graduate and undergraduate studies including: The U of T Sexual Diversity Studies inaugural lecture series in 2008, York University Alternative Sexuality Student Union, Washington University, Missouri, Wayne State and the University of Western Ontario and many others. He travels and presents across the Americas, Europe, and Asia, doing outreach to both academic and positive safer sex organizations. This is his second year presenting at HKKC.

    He is the author of two books “How to be Kinky: A Beginner’s Guide to BDSM” (August 2008 Green Candy Press, San Francisco) and the followup, “How to be Kinkier: Your Guide to Safer BDSM“ (Green Candy Press, San Francisco – release date: spring 2012.)  His work is archived at the Sexual Representation Collection at the Bonham Centre for Sexual Diversity Studies at the University of Toronto, the Leather Archives of Chicago and the National Archives of Canada.

    Every year he hosts the world’s largest single night public erotic Japanese rope bondage event during Nuit Blanche in Toronto, Canada since 2006.

    Mistress Anna – mistressanna.info

    Mistress Anna has been a part of the Adult Industry for approximately 10 years and the last 3.5 years has seen her evolve in to Domination. She is self employed as a Pro Domme as well as being a qualified Personal Trainer and Beauty Therapist, which she has incorporated nicely into the mix via her Bootcamp Mistress/Forced Fitness and Body Maintenance for slaves courses.

    She enjoys role playing an Angry Wife, Sadistic Nurse or Head Mistress mixed in with Corporal Punishment, especially O.T.K Spankings, Ball Busting, Cross Dressing, Water Sports, Anal play, Urethral Sounds, Rope and Temporary Piercing.

    In the community, she leads the Sydney Dommes and subs Munch, and has presented at UBER and Sydney Leather Pride. She is “Rope Mistress” to CJ Blue and is being Served by Chastised Loser.

    Decima

    Decima trained and practiced as a teacher of Drama and Theatre Arts and has been involved in theatre and music most of her life. On retirement from teaching she opened HK’s first BDSM commercial dungeon which served as a meeting point for the community in Hong Kong for many years. Fetish Fashion welcomed many people from around the world who were on their own journey of discovery and provided a safe place to learn and share.

    Decima worked closely with Cross Dressers and provided counselling for many people in the community who wanted better understanding of their sexuality. Her arrest and subsequent trial served only to make her more determined to educate those who wished to understand the BDSM lifestyle.

    As a presenter her experience includes the World Sexology Conference in Singapore and in Hong Kong, and HKKC 1, where her workshop was rated the top workshop of the conference by conference goers. She also lectured for some years in Sexual and Gender Diversity at the University of Hong Kong. She is active in the BDSM community in Hong Kong, and Sydney, Australia on her frequent visits there.

    At the moment Decima is completing her formal training in counselling and psychotherapy and looks forward to using her decades of experience in the BDSM community to help those of minority sexuality who look for reassurance and understanding.

    Elle – MBE2013.com

    Elle has been involved in the BDSM community for about 14 years. In that time, she’s enjoyed bringing her expertise in human anatomy and physiology and her experience in rope, service and D/S to the community through teaching workshops and consulting for various print publications. For the past 3 years she has had the honour of lecturing on the subject of BDSM at the University level alongside her long-time friend and mentor, Morpheous. Elle has a personal passion for M/s, service, objectification, rope, power exchange, ceremony, protocol, ritual and boot worship. She is also the Producer and Director of the world’s largest single night Rope Bondage Exhibition, known as “MBE” which invites hundreds of rope enthusiasts from all over the world to perform in front of thousands of viewers in person and online each year.

    Allura

    Allura has been talking about sex since she learned to speak. After attending Carleton University for gender and sexuality studies, she went on the explore the sex industry firsthand for 3 years. She has worked in harm reduction and outreach for sex workers as well as other high risk groups. She is currently teaching and travelling the world.

    Brian

    Brian has been in the lifestyle for 17 years, and active in the community for 6 years. As one of the community leaders in HK, Brian is the founder and director of HKKC, and helps run the Sunday Munch. He is married to his sub, EmJ, and they have been in a 24/7 relationship for 4 years. He has a fetish for sensory deprivation, as well as the psychology behind D/s. In his professional life, he is an educator, event planner, and founder of HKKC.

    Brian made his debut as a presenter at HKKC 1 with 3 workshops, and he has assisted in 4 lectures at HKU in 2013.

    Milla Reika – milla-reika.tumblr.com

    Milla Reika first began her career as a Mistress/Kinbaku Rope Artist in 2010 in Osaka, Japan. From 2011, Milla moved her career to the stage where she now performs regularly at Kinbaku/SM Events throughout Osaka and Tokyo.

    In 2012, following the retirement of her Master, Takamine Ren, Milla took on management of Matrix SM bar on her own, as well as starting up [Nymphetamine] SM and Fetish Events.

    In addition to Kinbaku based performances, Milla also extends her arena into Body Suspension, Body Modification/Piercing and SM shows involving torture and interrogation.

    Nuit de Tokyo

    NdT as he is commonly known as, is returning for his second HKKC. HK’s resident rope expert started reading Sade at 13, borrowing from the paternal library, and never really got out of SM since, courtesy of a very submissive first girl friend. In 2003, he moved to Japan and formally studied Japanese rope in situ with Osada Steve (2005-2011), Yukimura Haruki (2008-…) and Nawashi Kanna (2010-…).
    He is a full member and licensed instructor of the Yukimura Haruki Ryuu under the name Haru Kakeru and was assistant to Yukimura Haruki during two workshops in Copenhagen and Los Angeles in 2012.

    In March 2013, he performed recently in Tokyo for the 10th anniversary of The Gate, a large fetish party, and at the Deluxe Kabukicho Theater in Shinjuku as part of the Oo Nawa Asobi series of shows in April 2013.

    Domaignes

    Domaignes is a life long kinkster with much knowledge and experience of BDSM. He lives his lifestyle 24/7 usually with a slave, and always with a dungeon. He is fascinated by the mental and aesthetic appeal of BDSM and has a large collection of toys, implements, furniture, art, sculpture, books, clothing, whips and machines much of which is purpose made.

    Domaignes is one of the community leaders in HK, and is teaching for his second time at HKKC.

    Transhuman

    Transhuman stepped into his first play party 10 years ago and has been dabbling in all things kinky since. Previously active in the NZ scene but now based in HK, he has been a local community leader for the last few years.

    At HKKC 1 Transhuman presented the Skin Deep Play Piercing workshop and has guest lectured at HKU on BDSM and sexuality. Besides SM, Transhuman also has long term ambitions in improving sex education in Hong Kong.

    EmJ – EmJ Photography

    EmJ has been involved in the Canadian and Hong Kong scenes for 12 years. In 2008, she co-created FetLife, the world’s largest adult social networking site. Geared towards the fetish and kink communities, the site is getting ready to celebrate it’s 3 millionth member. In her professional life, Emily is an educator and a professional photographer. She has worked for high-end studios doing portrait work, but her true love is erotic photography.

    EmJ is looking at pursuing a career is sexual heath and therapy, and in doing so she has Guest Lectured at HKU 3 times in 2013, and assisted with a 4th presentation, all of which were in bdsm.

  • Spank Me Again Please

    Spank Me Again Please

    My husband has the delightfully annoying habit of spanking one cheek and then walking away.  He knows I love symmetry and that I will chase ‘Him’ around the house positioning my fanny for him to spank the other cheek.  It’s annoying because my body is craving a little more sensual satisfaction and it’s fun that I have to go and ask for it after the first teaser swat.

    So what’s in the spank that keeps me coming back for more?  Well it’s really about position and intensity.  There is so much more pleasure to be gained from this disciplinary tact from childhood.   This is not the wailing, crying spanking from your childhood designed for pure pain and obedience, this is the grown up make it ‘hurt so good’ version.

    Butt Primer:

    Your glutemus maximus is a nice range of muscles covered with a light or heavy layer of fat.  You want to aim for the muscle as the tendons don’t offer much but a sting and an ouch.   Always aim for the muscles.

    1

    The really good news is that our butt cheeks have a ‘sweet spot’ or a shelf that thanks to our creator creates a sexual stimulus from intense impact.

    2

    Where is the sweet spot?  It is the reverse shelf.  The space between the depth of the buttocks and the depth of the thigh.  That’s the location of the most pleasure in a spanking.  Too high up on the buttocks it stings a LOT, to far around the sides your spanking the tendons and bones.  Hitting bone hurts you more than the spankee or bottom.

    I like symmetry, so if you spank the left cheek four times in a row, the right cheek will be waiting it’s turn.

    Developing a rhythm when you spank is easier with music, find an upbeat song with a rhythmic beat you like.   Anticipation is part of the excitement of a good spanking.  Once a cheek is stimulated the pleasure takes a minute to realize.  So spank and wait.  Let the spankee get a moment to absorb the impact and let the endorphins begin to come to the aid of the pain with yummy feel good chemicals.  You can notice this on the bottom by watching how the cheeks relax after spanking.  Watch carefully and alternate between spanking, kneading and stroking.  You want to knead the flesh you’ve just spanked so it distributes the endorphin chemicals deeper into the tissue.  That will allow you to spank longer and more enjoyably.  Stroking the surface will send chills of pleasure to the bottom and when you have a good combination of spank, knead and stroke you can be sure you’ll produce the wetness that makes this play a great starter for sex.   A well spanked bottom definitely improves the penetration stimulus from any position you choose.

    So happy spanking. Check out this music video for some inspired spanking music from Bulgarian hottie Emanuela. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lCa9_5l-EGA