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Have A Sexciting Vday


Have A Sexciting Vday

Have a Sexciting Vday!!

Life has been monotonous enough, and you are telling me that you just want to go through the motion this Valentine’s day with your wife? Come on!!

Do something out of the norm for you wife. How about a naughty evening for a change? Many times, women complain that their men do not spend enough time gearing thing up, or enough effort spicing things up. Guys, it’s time to take the lead this Valentines day!

Instead of paying a premium in restaurants and on roses, DIY everything YOUR sexy way at home!

  1. Get home early to cook – in only an apron over your body to get yourself in the mood. Feel the air brushing through your skin and you will feel sexy instantly. Wait for her to return home.
  2. Play some sexy jazzy music on the hi-fi. Humans are visual and audio creatures. Music gets yourself in the mood while waiting for her return.
  3. When she gets ‎home, welcome her in that apron suit. Have a good kiss at the door before welcoming her to sit at the dining table. She should be very shocked by now.
  4. Also get her to put on an apron, just like you. Instead of a usual gift, give her a sexy gift for this Valentine’s day. How about some sexy Babydolls? A naughty vibrator? Something that she will feel sexy in/on?
  5. Instead of a ‎bouquet of flowers, how about a jar of condoms or edible undies?? Something that is really unexpected. By now, ladies already know what they are in for. The rest is up to your creativity to spice it up and create the fireworks that you want.
  6. Have a good conversation over dinner. Please, gentleman, meet her needs FIRST!! No getting into action yet, let the sexual excitement build up through your attention towards her. Many women complain that they lose attractiveness in the eyes of their husband as they age. Proof this wrong to her through your undivided attention to her. Make sure you esteem her and edify her like you have never done it before. Even though you think she already knows, that’s not the point. She loves to hear it from you, again and again. So do it if you want what you want at the end of the night. Women love it!
  7. Have some dessert wine (Ladies love them). Some alcohol makes the night a little more colorful. A little tipsy in a safe environment such as your own house is perfectly fine. In fact, it is so wonderful because there is nothing to worry about. Let yourself loose and let your heart take you home.
  8. Have a small strip poker game or adult board game. You both have only 1 piece to strip anyway. It shall take you into action very soon.
  9. End off the night whichever way u like it. It is time for your needs to be met, gentlemen. Make sure you make it memorable with a tight cuddle at the end. Let the tingling sensation linger after the fireworks to rekindle the love and affirmation.

So there you have it! Something different this Valentine’s day. You are free to add in any segment that fits your taste or fantasy. Remember, so something different, challenge your creativity in the realm of sexuality. I am sure you can rekindle the love between you and your spouse through a small act of creativity.

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Cindy Leong

A Dating and Relationship Coach who has helped many youths and professionals in their journey through relationship searching and building. Cindy is a direct and energetic individual, who aims to bring out the best in everyone she meets. Her extensive coaching and dating experience has helped her coach men to find their social standing in the society.

Cindy holds a Bachelor Degree in Psychology, majoring in Communications and has done many research studies in the area of Gender Communications, Cultural Communications, Jealousy and Mating Choices.

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