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So … have you been Naughty or Nice this year?


So … have you been Naughty or Nice this year?

So this time of year everyone is talking about Santa and his all knowing list with promises of bringing toys to the good little girls and boys. Now how about the adults? Does he have a separate list with different criteria for them? I don’t know about you but I sure do hope so. I have actually been counting on it. In my world, naughty is usually rewarded, not punished with coal in your stocking. Unless you are into getting “punished” that is.

Christmas is also the time for get togethers, Christmas parties at work, with friends, with family, in the neighbourhood. Well Swinger’s clubs are no different in that they also have Christmas themed parties, the only thing is that you are encouraged to dress a lot differently for these parties. It is customary to see some of the ladies dressed as a naughty Mrs. Claus, Sexy Santas, I have even seen a few evil elves. (You can find some new outfits at great prices by going to The sexier the better. One cool thing that you may not realize is that a lot of the swing clubs also do some good deeds of their own, especially this time of year, many collect donations for the food bank at their Christmas dance.

Gift giving among swingers is also a bit different than you may be used to. Toys for the kids become sex toys (like vibrators) for the adults. Pajamas turn into sexy lingerie as a good choice for the lady (or ladies) in your life. Hopefully she will model it and maybe let you take it off of her later.

Even sending Christmas cards gets “sexier” among swingers. I can’t count how many cards I have received over the years that I was just not able to display in the living room with the regular ones and I have reserved these special cards for the bedroom. Cards with naughty pictures, sexy sayings, New year promises of sex the next time we saw that couple again. I’m sure you get the picture.

There is pretty much nothing that does not get swingerized this time of year. And that is definitely NOT a complaint.

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Sandi Andersen

Sandi Andersen has been personally helping Swingers meet since 1993, with the help of her magazines Tryst (est. 1981) and Tab (est. 1956), which are no longer available in print form, and her website (est. 1995). She has a straight forward approach to topics of swinging and sex which comes through in her writing. Promoting healthy, safe sexual relationships with two or more people being involved, as in the Swinging Lifestyle, she has attended and presented many seminars on the subject at Lifestyle conventions and trade shows in Canada and across the United States. Her theory is that sometimes being able to talk with someone (or read about others' experiences and concerns) can make all the difference in allowing yourself the freedom to enjoy your sexuality to the fullest. Sandi also runs an online travel agency specializing in Adults Only Erotic Vacations under the main URL of, where she will help you pick the erotic vacation best suited for the two of you or for you to join in with a group of travelers.

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