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  • A Foodplay Session

    A Foodplay Session

    A Foodplay Session In Hong Kong

    I had exchanged some messages with R., whom I thought was an expatriate, given his name. I was in no hurry to meet him because, after a correspondence of several days, I noticed that he was in high demand, and someone acting with too much haste doesn’t get the same result from me. Also, someone listening to his own impulses at the expense of exchange doesn’t attract me. Nevertheless, I went there out of curiosity, willing to amuse myself. I didn’t show any desire to participate in the outdoor play fantasy he mentioned, a right I reserve to the submissives I already know.

    We had an appointment on a Wednesday of March at teatime in a hotel in Central. On the menu of the session, some practices for which we shared the craze: golden shower, foodplay and possibly shaving. I did not shave him for a good reason: the rest of the session was entertaining enough.

    Mistress Euryale

    At the door, the young Chinese man might have read the surprise on my face. His face looked much more youthful than 39 years old, half of it spent in Canada, the other half in Hong Kong. During a preliminary discussion, he mentioned his outdoor play fantasy again, and being sensitive to his positive energy, thinking that it could be funny, I accepted to play outside the next time we will meet, after my next trip to Shanghai. It seemed to excite him to the highest degree; however being watched by some potential witnesses also seemed quite scary for him: the conservatism of some Hong-Kong people might be a problem for the two perverse children that we are, and we could get into serious trouble. He seemed to enjoy playing attack and defense in a friendly match between being passionate and reasonable. His rhetoric didn’t convince me to make any decision regarding these activities. Therefore I concluded that we will leave room for improvisation next time, and not try to achieve any goal, any ideal session; this attitude might actually hinder the pleasure of these “forbidden games”. As expected for this foodplay session, R. had brought some small cupcakes for me to eat, or to be exact, to chew and spit on him. A banana, two cakes, and an ice cream were waiting for their conviction.

    Grabbing my leather handcuffs, I tied his hands in his back, threw him on the bed and straddle him. I began to tear his T-shirt apart brutally and to stuff his mouth with the pieces of tissue crushed in my hand. Surprise and fright suddenly appeared on his ephebe face, and I felt the desire to capture the moment. He accepted my request. I still remember this lovely face, even if my phone would disappear in a plane from Shanghai to Hong Kong a few days later, and with it, some photos from different BDSM sessions in Hong Kong.

    Time for some ice cream. Dipping a spoon into the cup, I started melting the cream into my mouth and spat it on his face, conscientiously. Soon, his eyes, nose, and mouth were covered of a thin layer of cream – I had spared his jet-black hair. Then I dropped his pants on his knees with authority, a gesture that I usually perform during a session of discipline, before a corporal punishment. This time I had the feeling that I was on the verge of sexually assaulting a very innocent young ephebe face… BDSM practices enable us to satisfy fantasies in a caring environment or to become aware of some hidden inclinations naturally… Standing on the bed, my feet on either side of his chest, I spat again and spread other ice cream chunks on his plexus. The bed quickly resembled a turbulent child’s room, littered with torn clothes, crushed ice and soon yellow stains. I threw some pieces of lemon cake on the floor, as I would have fed a wild dog, except that this dog had his hands tied behind his back and shreds of clothes miserably hanging on his body. The dog did not seem happy to crawl on the floor, pants down on his ankles.

    I told him to crawl to the shower and lie on his back. I spread my legs above his face. “Open your mouth and swallow!” He told me afterward that it was the first time he had drunk this way. It surprised me because of the ease with which he executed my order. The bathroom became the backdrop of some photography I took from him and parts of his body: his hair, his eyes that stared at me, and his incredible hands, as thin and graceful as most women’s hands.

    The shower tray was full of different mixtures made of cakes, liquid ice cream, and body liquids, to which I added a banana that I started crushing under my feet. Picking up the pieces, my toes dipped in and disappeared into his lips, then his tongue licked and swallowed my foot meticulously – I did not know if I was dealing with a young slave captive of my perverted games, or with a loyal and obedient dog.

    Time out of time, out of everything, as only BDSM plays can set out: we then started sharing about our personal experiences, following the thread of our fantasies, while I was still standing above him, alternating the proximity of my toes in front of his face, which he kept on worshipping with dedication.

    His first experience was in Toronto when a friend of his had scheduled a meeting with him in a BDSM bar. He did not know this last detail. It was, in fact, an ambush: three to four women, probably dominatrixes, had tied him up and tore off his clothes until he was naked in front of them. To my question, he replied that he did not know at that moment if he appreciated the experience of embarrassment. It was once the action was accomplished and processed that he had wished to feel the thrill of disgrace again – and had to acknowledge that he was one of “them,” these BDSM players.

    At the end of the session, I set up one of my favorite little game, which I enjoy declining in diverse variations. In front of a square of toilet paper, in front of his knees, he had to cum while respecting the stopwatch. The dice that I always keep in my bag turned into a stopwatch: he rolled it and found three. Three exact minutes and not a drop out of the square of paper. I tied his frail, slender thumbs together to make this task a little more difficult. After a minute, I could not restrain myself from bursting out laughing: his enjoyment had rudely snubbed the square of paper and lied on the floor, at least thirty centimeters away. He seemed astonished and disappointed that he could not respect my constraints: he really believed that he had reached the right timing.

    We decided to meet again for our outdoor session once I would be back from Shanghai. In the meantime, I will lose my phone on the Shanghai plane, and with it all my data and the photographs of my sessions. However, all my BDSM sessions of these first few months in Hong Kong have been written in my diary, including this one.


    Mistress Euryale – International Dominatrix from Paris, based in Hong Kong

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    Article republished from https://www.dominatrixdiary.com/articles/foodplaysession


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  • Bolivian Cosplayer, Designer & Makeup Artist Honey Tsubasa

    Bolivian Cosplayer, Designer & Makeup Artist Honey Tsubasa

    Hi, I’m Honey, I’m from Bolivia, I’m a cosplayer, cosmaker, makeup enthusiast, Harajuku girl, fashion lover, Shironuri Leader.

    What can I say about myself, I like to draw, I like to sing too, something I love is making makeup, and designing clothes. I work with my face which is a canvas. When I have makeup, some girls they have always been very happy, and that’s good. Sometimes I upload some tutorials to Youtube, because it’s something I like to do.

    About the design of clothes and accessories, it’s something I’ve been doing since I was a child, since I’ve always been designing clothes first for my dolls, then for me.

    A year ago they did an interview where they named me a human doll, I was very happy since they saw my work in makeup and they liked it. It means that I’m doing my job well, and I combine my makeup with the clothes I design.

    What else can I say, I’am a dreamer, but I also want to do everything to fulfill my dreams.

    Do you have any hobbies or interests?

    Yes I have some hobbies and interests, cosplay, cosmaking, I’m a makeup enthusiast, aspiring to be a makeup artist, and I love Japanese fashion.

    What kind of fashion are you into?

    Well, I like Japanese fashion, Harajuku fashion, Lolita; here in my city, I founded the first Shironuri Fashion Community.

    Which is your favorite food or drink?

    My favorite food is “arroz a la valenciana”

    My favorite drink, I don’t know, maybe water, and sometimes soda.

    Do you believe in any superstition?

    Any superstition, yes, when someone predicts something bad about me or my family, I knock on wood three times, so that nothing bad happens.

    Which cosplay experience is most memorable for you so far?

    Well, so far it is the love that people who know my work that gives me. When they ask me to take a picture with me, or they ask me for advice.

    I realized that with the passage of time, I was improving little by little and learning a lot.

    If you can have a superpower, what will it be?

    If I had a superpower I would like to be able to teleport.

    What turns you off on a date?

    I don’t know, I have not had many appointments, I generally hope that my appointment is someone with whom I can have a good conversation. We can laugh, or just walk.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Honey. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    It has to do with personality, with the soul because the physical part is not perfect and always changes every day as it is transformed.

    On the other hand, the soul has no wrinkle, it does not age, it is infinite, inmutable and radiant.


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  • How To Have An All Girl Orgy

    How To Have An All Girl Orgy

    To me sex is meant to be fun and can be enjoyed in different ways and settings. The way I have sex with my partner is different from the way I have sex with other models. Both are extremely fun! But there is so much stigma around sex that is clouded with double standards. America specifically has sex all over our media and pop culture but at a personal level, sex becomes weirdly forbidden. Artists can rap about all the sex they have but for some reason people don’t like to talk about their own sex lives. I like being a webcam model because I get to open people’s minds and teach them a little bit about sexuality.

    When Kaedia Lang, Evie Rain, and Nicole Eden came to visit me, so we could hang out and make content together, it was a totally new thing for me. I’ve made content with other models but usually one on one. The idea honestly terrified me because I view myself as very awkward when it comes to sex with women. So I was afraid that I would be absolutely terrible at it.

    Why I Love Orgies

    There is just so much going on. Everyone has their own style of doing things and it’s really great to get a little bit of it all. Someone could be a little shy and then someone else can be a little rough – both are fun.

    How Are Girl Orgies Different?

    I’m not sure about that since I’ve never had an orgy that involved a man. I’ve had a threesome, but I think that it just wasn’t for me. I only had my first “orgy” this year, so I don’t have too much experience. But I can say that I did enjoy being with a bunch of gorgeous women without feeling insecure.

    Orgy Preparation & Essentials

    I think it might have been a little different for us since we weren’t just doing it for fun. Our main goal was to make awesome content for our members while having fun at the same time. Before we did anything, we all of course had to get tested. Then we discussed what everyone was comfortable with doing. I wanted to make sure everyone felt safe and comfortable since I was pretty nervous myself. I remember letting everyone know that if they felt uncomfortable at any point to just let us know and we could stop. It’s extremely important to lay down boundaries but also to keep an open mind. For example, some of us were not comfortable with performing certain acts. But as we got to know each other we decided to give some things a try.

    Other things we had to prepare were rough scripts, outfits, toys, and the filming space. For the most part, we didn’t write a script for the content we made together. There was a lot of time spent getting ready – picking costumes, doing make-up, and grooming ourselves. I think it’s very important when working with other models to make sure you are physically clean. While Kaedia, Evie, and Nicole were here my house was absolutely covered in sex toys, underwear, and random bottles of lube. It was a sight.

    How Does Everyone Get A Piece Of The Action?

    I’m not sure if I’m experienced enough to answer that question well. Everything was so crazy that there were times where I felt like I was in a maze of arms, legs, boobs, butts, and lips. It gets hectic really fast. What we did for our maids video is we paired up for the most intense parts. There was a lot of cross touching and kissing but since we were all fairly inexperienced with orgies, I think we ended up doing whatever felt right.

    Overcoming Nerves For First Timers

    Just hang out together first. You don’t have to jump into anything right away. It also helps to have a genuine connection and attraction to the people you will be sleeping with. Before you do anything, go out together, watch a movie, hang out – and just have fun.


    Momoka Koizumi – Hi! I’m a webcam model and content creator. I am currently going for my MFA in creative writing. I like anime, movies, books, cosplay, and sex.

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    Also follow and check out their sites!

    Kaedia Lang: twitter.com/KaediaLang

    Evie Rain: twitter.com/xcorpsekittenx

    Nicole Eden: twitter.com/noobs_and_boobs


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  • Canadian Model Brielle Van De Laar From Winnipeg

    Canadian Model Brielle Van De Laar From Winnipeg

    I actually grew up in Winnipeg Manitoba and have spent most of my life here in Canada. I have two younger brothers and an older sister. I grew up in a fairly low income home with an extremely family orientated mentality. I have three wonderful mixed breed dogs that mean the world to me. I’ve spent most of my working career as a waitress and love being given the opportunity to wake up each day knowing that I’m guaranteed to meet new and exciting people.

    I’ve been modeling for almost a year and a half now. I started out in the industry because I wanted to gain self-confidence and prove to myself that this was something I am capable of doing. I’ve since worked with numerous photographers, makeup artists and hairstylists that have significantly helped me pull off the looks I’m going for and put the overall shoot together. I’m usually the one to reach out to everyone and schedule everything but I’m hoping to get to a level within my modeling where people start reaching out to me instead. I’m honestly so thankful to have been able to come as far as I’ve gotten and to have worked with so many amazing people.

    My mom has actually been my biggest supporter to date. When I first started out, she would do my hair and makeup for me and help put together outfits. She’s a truly inspirational woman who has survived so much in life and overcome so many obstacles that to have someone like that telling you that you can achieve anything you put your mind to makes such a huge difference and impact.

    What is your proudest achievement so far?

    Surprisingly, my proudest achievement so far actually has nothing to do with modeling. I passed the physical fitness test for the Canadian Armed Forces Reserves despite everyone saying that I wouldn’t be able to. It really showed me what I’m capable of doing if I put my mind to it and work hard enough for it. I feel like it played a part in my development as a person and helped me to genuinely believe in myself.

    Do you have any hobbies or interests?

    Yes! I absolutely love reading. Books with hidden worlds and supernatural themes are my all time favorite. I also write my own poetry and enjoy drawing from time to time. I also enjoy puzzles and playing games that are mentally engaging such as hidden objects, or memorization games.

    How would you describe a typical day for yourself?

    I’d love to say I have such thing as a “typical day” but I honestly don’t. I wake up and go to bed at different times every day, my work schedule changes faster then the seasons themselves and balancing my modeling schedule makes for a fairly hectic and unpredictable situation.

    On the days I work I usually get up with enough time to shower and get ready, head to work and spend a few hours serving tables before going home and helping tidy up the house. Then making dinner and usually spend the rest of my night either on Instagram or going out to visit with friends. On my days off. I usually try to schedule a makeup artist earlier in the morning and one or more photoshoots within the afternoon. The first part of my day is spent showering and getting outfits together while the rest of it is spent driving to photoshoots and working with the photographers. I also try to fit in time with my dogs and time for myself somewhere along the road but it doesn’t always pan out as planned.

    Is there a city or country you’d love to visit if given the chance?

    Tokyo. I’ve heard that the scenery is breathtaking and the culture is just so incredible I’d love to be able to experience it first hand. Plus I think I’d look cute in a kimono!

    What flavour best describes you?

    Vanilla with a caramel swirl. I can be pretty basic at time but I also like to spice things up and step outside my comfort zone. I’ve been told I’m not what people expected after getting to know me.

    On a scale of 1-10, How much of a foodie are you?

    Probably a 5.

    I can be a fairly picky eater but I’m not one to turn my nose up to a meal that someones’ offered me. I like trying recipes I find on Instagram or Facebook but I’m certainly not interested in taking pictures of the results and sharing them with the world.

    What do you not get about the opposite sex?

    Men are a strange and exotic enigma in my world. They’re unpredictably predictable. I think what confuses me most about them is how they can literally be thinking of nothing. Like they just zone out of existence whenever they want and that’s totally normal for them. It’s like their brain comes with an on and off switch that woman just dont have.

    How do you define “sexy”?

    Beauty is found in the eyes of the beholder.

    To some, beauty is the form of a slender woman with an exceptional curvature and a distinguished hour glass figure. A mature woman with long silky hair and skin as soft as the clouds.

    To others, beauty comes in the form of a welcoming smile and a tender heart. It’s embodied by the grace and elegance of watching the one they love dance in the moonlight or sway in the kitchen to their favourite song. It’s the light that shines in someone’s eyes while they excitedly explain something they are passionate about or an infectious laugh that could spread through the entire room without warning.

    To me, true beauty comes in many shapes and forms. It’s the feeling of confidence one feels when they look in the mirror. It’s the love they see in the eyes of those that are dear to them. It’s seen in the tender embrace of a mother and her child. It’s so many wonderful things.

    This world is a truly beautiful place if you open your mind and allow yourself to see it. To me the definition of “sexy” is a person capable of showcasing their inner beauty in its truest form. It is a feeling of confidence that radiates through the skin and is projected into everything they do.


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    I am always working on new and exciting projects with various people. I never stop looking for people that want to collaborate with me and am happy to say I’ve just started venturing into artistic nude photography and more highly suggestive boudoir shoots. I’m always looking to push creative ideas forward and try to styles or themes that catch my attention. I usually post sneak previews of upcoming shoots on my Instagram story to keep a higher level of engagement amongst my followers.


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  • Ways To Give A Blowjob

    Ways To Give A Blowjob

    For me, blowjobs are like a warm up before sex. I take it very seriously and is a bit of a ritual also, where I show what I can do with my tongue which can turn you crazy and you better match up my “oral skills” when you come down on me!

    Favorite Blowjob Positions

    I do not have a favorite, but I prefer the common sitting and I on my knees, or when I lay down and the guy literally fucks my face, let’s say.

    Favorite Techniques

    I like to do long and slow suctions, while I twist my tongue along.

    Important Blowjob Giving Tips

    Always watch out on your teeth position, especially if you have a gap like me.

    Try to make your mouth very wet, drink plenty of water before and make some noise.

    I hate to see those dead people blowjobs, like the giver is sleeping or something.

    Best Place A Guy Can Ejaculate

    For sure in my mouth is the best, but can be on the face too. Those are my favorite spots.


    Luna Corazon – Hello, there! I am Luna Corazon from Brazil. I normally say that I have a gypsy life, since I am based in nowhere for the past few years and I besides being an adult performer, I am a daughter, aunt of 4 kids and the youngest out of a trio of girls.

    If you can not handle the truth, better do not come near me. I stop long ago to please people with lies or a “good behavior”.

    Follow Luna Corazon on http://onelink.cam/LunaCorazonA

    Just keep tuned on my Twitter to see my new movies previews and @mydirtyhobby blog I update my tour dates.


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  • Philippines Actress, Vlogger & Plus Size Model Teena Arches

    Philippines Actress, Vlogger & Plus Size Model Teena Arches

    To be honest, I never thought I’d even be modeling or acting growing up because I always thought it wasn’t possible for a plus size girl like me. But luckily, Eat Bulaga (a famous noon time show here in the Philippines) had a plus size beauty pageant in which I joined in. From reaching the Top 8, a few of us from the competition were pulled in to be regular talents in the show and that started the opportunities for me. I had a lot of exposure from the show and a few agencies asked for me to audition for some commercials and it started from there.

    For modeling, my college professor started a plus size clothing line and saw me in Eat Bulaga, as well, so she hired me to model for her company and then other brands saw those photos, and it just kind of snowballed from there.

    Do you have any favorite quote or mottos you like to use in life?

    I really like the saying, “Those who matter won’t mind and those who mind don’t matter”. It just says a lot because it’s very true in a lot of ways. In the way I wear my makeup, clothing, or how my personality is, if those people really loved and cared for me, they wouldn’t really mind the shallow things like appearance.

    And of course, I have an advocacy called #MagandaAkoPeriod, which means, “I’m beautiful, period.” I live by that now, because growing up I was always told that I’d be beautiful if I was like this, or looked like this, etc. So today, I just say, I’m beautiful, period.

    How do you like to spend your weekends and free time?

    I spend it with my loved ones. Whether it’s with my family, relatives or friends. I love spending time with people I care about, and vice versa, because it’s always time well spent.

    You can, literally, do nothing and still have fun as long as you’re with good company.

    Is there any food or drink you can’t live without?

    I can’t live without salmon sushi. It, honestly, makes me so happy when I eat good Japanese food. It’s one of the things I’m worried about for when I get pregnant someday. I can’t eat raw food for nine months. Ahaha, it’s a legit concern of mine, as funny as it sounds haha.

    If you could learn anything in this world, what will it be?

    It’s that having an open mind/heart and respect for others is key to peace.

    On a scale of 1-10, how much of a party animal are you?

    I think I’m down to a 6/7 now that I’m older. I used to always want to go out, drink and have fun. I spent so much money on expensive clubs and alcohol, but now I prefer to chill, and have sit-down night outs with friends. It’s what we call “Tita-Mode” here. Haha

    What do you not get about the opposite sex?

    Well, I don’t know, because I think I’ve come to understand men more now that I’ve grown up. And quite frankly, I don’t bother to depict men with questionable actions anymore. Haha I just focus or move on to things that isn’t complicated now. Less stress, less wrinkles. haha

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Teena. One question before we end, how do you define sexy?

    I think sexy is an attitude. You can not be what society defines as “sexy”, but still be because of your aura, personality or your wit, etc. It could, also, be how you bring yourself. It’s not always, necessarily, just about the physical appearance.


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  • Exploring One’s Fetishes & Kinks

    Exploring One’s Fetishes & Kinks

    My personal thoughts on kinks and fetishes is, don’t ever be afraid or ashamed of what turns you on. We all have at least one thing that is not socially acceptable. As long as you are being safe and have a willing partner, the sky is the limit.

    My Interest In Kink

    My interest in kink started very early on and if I had to pinpoint one thing, I would have to say I have always had a thing for older men.

    Top Fetishes Of Mine

    I don’t really have any one fetish I like above anything else. I have been in the lifestyle for many years so have had the pleasure of exploring anything that caught my attention. I love being a dominatrix though. The exhilaration of being in charge of someone else’s pleasure while exerting my natural dominance in whatever I do.

    One Important Tip Before Exploring A Fetish

    When starting to explore a new fetish or kink, knowledge is key. I cannot express enough that you must gather enough info to be able to explore safely. There is no stupid question, just stupid people, in my opinion. I very much believe in learning from someone who has more knowledge on something before I explore on my own.

    Misconceptions About Fetishes

    Ignorance on a kink/fetish is the number one reason that people get talked down upon for liking certain things or wanting certain things done to them. The number one thing you hear is that people must be sick in the head for wanting certain things. What people don’t understand is we didn’t know what happened to that person to mould them like that.

    Introducing A Fetish To Your Partner

    The hardest part about introducing a partner to a new fetish is worrying about what they will think of you. I have learned that you have to introduce it slowly and to make any relationship last, you must be open minded yourself. You must be willing to alter or include things your partner wants. You cannot be selfish and just expect to get what you want all the time.


    Serra La Roux – Modeling and acting everything from fetish to xxx. DM/email for customs or shoot requests. kobracommander51@gmail.com

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  • Alternative Model & Influencer Jane Surin

    Alternative Model & Influencer Jane Surin

    Hey all! I’m Jane, an alternative model from Singapore and recently after giving birth to my daughter who’s now almost 8 months old, I’ve somehow jumped on to the influencer bandwagon as well. What can I say, it’s a big market out there for mothers.

    What is your proudest achievement so far?

    Becoming a mom and still able to balance my life. I’m glad that I worked around it and continued doing what I usually do, which is to model and perform at events. I did all that throughout pregnancy, shortly after and still up till now with a baby in tow.

    Do you have any favorite quotes you like to use in life?

    Live and let live”.

    I just believe that everyone should allow others to live life the way they wish to as long as they’re not committing a crime or hurting others. The world is too opinionated on tons of matters that don’t concern them. So that brings me to my other favorite quote, “If you have nothing nice to say, then don’t say anything at all.”

    How did your interest in fitness come start?

    From a very young age actually. My mom started me off with ballet and gymnastics. In school I took up various sports from netball to table-tennis, but the one thing I really wanted to do was to lift weights. My dad was a gym rat and even had weights at home so funnily, I wanted to be like him so lifting weights has always been a constant for me since I was 15. In my recent years, I’ve tried yoga and pole-dancing which I hope to resume soon.

    What is your workout regime like?

    Believe me when I say that taking care of my baby is a workout. She’s about 9kg and I place her in a carrier and walk around with her 3-5 hours a day, everyday. Aside from that, I try to hit the gym at least 3 times a week.

    What have you always wanted to do but have yet to find the time for it?

    Travel I guess? I’ve wasted so many of my early years working 12-15 hour shifts in nightlife and barely got out of the country. So now it would seem near impossible with a baby but I’m sure I can work around it and perhaps travel with her as well!

    Is there a story behind one of your tattoos?

    I have quite a large number of ink so I’ll just elaborate on my most recent one.

    My full leg tattoo, it covers my leg of scars from a motorbike accident so what better way to cover them up than with portraits of strong women from DC comics. Mainly, all of my ink are of women and all of them are covering up bad tattoos or scars.

    What do you not get about guys?

    I think I might offend both genders with this but why do they act like such women at times? If I wanted to hang around girls I would’ve called my girlfriends for that. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Jane. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I think someone who doesn’t take his or herself too seriously is sexy. Oh and there’s nothing sexier than a man who isn’t afraid to show affection towards his partner or loved ones despite being made fun of, because who doesn’t love a tough guy who is actually a softie on the inside. 😉


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    Instagram: @jane_surin

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/janesurin.inked.model/

    Upcoming Works: Am a Ring girl for Singapore Fighting Championship and will be in action for their shows in 2019.


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  • Misconceptions of A Male Provider

    Misconceptions of A Male Provider

    My personal views towards escorting and sex work in general are that it’s like any other job. In one form or another, we trade in labor – which is our bodies. There are intimate aspects of what we do that distinguish it from other labor. But I ultimately view escorting and sex work as a job whereby consenting adults have agency over their persons to make money in the  manner that they see fit. Some people are carpenters. Some drive buses. Some are physicians. Some are escorts and sex workers.

    As a cisgendered male, I am in the unique position of not having the work that I do be stigmatized as much as my female counterparts. That’s largely based on how society views male sexuality versus female sexuality. Archaic norms suggest that men have more sexual agencies than women, which isn’t true. Mature, consenting adults can and do enjoy their bodies in the same ways regardless of gender. However, culture dictates that male sex work and escorting isn’t as stigmatized simply because society doesn’t make attempts at policing the male body the way that it does women’s.

    How I Got Started Into Sex Work

    I got started in sex work over 10 years ago. I did as it was a means to allow to initially make extra money, but also afforded me flexibility in my schedule to pursue some of my passions, hobbies and other interests.

    I wasn’t in any sort of financial rut or hole in my life. The idea presented to me and it was a fun and enjoyable way to earn extra income. It’s ultimately afforded me opportunities to travel and to pursue some of my outside interests so it’s worked out well to date.

    How Are Male Providers Viewed Differently From Females?

    Male providers are viewed differently than female providers in myriad ways. But two that standout to me the most are regarding agency over our bodies and choices to engage this work, and also how much we earn.

    When discussions surrounding decriminalizing sex work are ever brought up, there are always the voices that assert themselves regarding “saving” or “rescuing” women from sex work. There’s the notion of sex work somehow being “degrading” or more “dehumanizing” than any other form of labor. But this is a trope that is specific to women.

    Rarely are male sex workers branded with the need to be “rescued” from this type of work. And that is a reflection on societal hypocrisies related to women’s agency and sexuality. Male sexuality is championed from a young age. Our sexuality and “prowess” are often lauded, whereby ideas of female “chastity” are ingrained across cultures for centuries.

    The other way in which male providers are viewed differently is almost a continuation of the same cliches regarding libido. Whereas women are viewed to be more “chaste” and sex is some sort of  “task” or obligation – regardless of the type of relationship – men are viewed as insatiable and always on the prowl. This in turn has a direct impact on what is suggested that male providers can earn. The trope is a simple one: Why would I pay a guy for something that the majority are itching to give away? On average male providers earn significantly less. And where I once thought that as empowering for women, I now view it as an extension of the same attitudes that police women’s bodies and sexuality. It infantilizes women by suggesting that they don’t have the capacity to enjoy sex and intimacy in the ways that men do. So it’s a contradiction in a lot of ways that is readily embraced by never given any critical thought.

    My experience is that most of my female colleagues with a sense of self view themselves as sex positive are equal to me in regards to their own sexuality. They enjoy sex just as much as myself or any other male counterparts. But the myth that there should be no value in male provider services because there’s such an abundance of men willing to “give it away for free” is pretty common. It has a direct impact on how people view rates for male providers.

    Misconceptions Of Male Providers

    Perhaps a typical misconception that you hear regarding male providers might be aggression and attitudes towards female clients. I say it’s a misconception, as it doesn’t relate to me or any of my male colleagues that I’ve met over the years. Whether that I know personally or in passing.

    They all exhibit professionalism and kindness as well as the being respectful of boundaries. That’s important for all parties involved, both clients and providers.

    Tips For Aspiring Male Providers

    My advice to anyone interested in pursuing this sort of work is to know yourself and your boundaries. It’s important to know what you are comfortable with and what you might enjoy prior to embarking on this sort of work. The money can appear enticing, but money isn’t everything. Having a strong sense of self will keep you grounded and help to avoid any pitfalls. That holds true in my of life, but where we mix intimacy and commerce I feel that it’s key to consider.

    Your interests can certainly change and grow as you become more comfortable or are exposed to more aspects of sex work. But always remain aware and certain regarding your boundaries. This type of work can be lots of fun and also a good way to explore and engage the human condition. But being grounded in oneself prior to embarking on this work has proven to be a key.


    David Williams – I am both a Male Dom as well as an escort/ companion. I see all genders and all body types. I also offer companionship for those seeking company in a more traditional capacity. You can find out more about me at my website links.

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  • Dating Expectations & Turn Offs

    Dating Expectations & Turn Offs

    My views towards dating vary, depending on what the people want as an outcome. Whether it is purely sex or if it is to develop a relationship, I do think dating should be easy going and fun. If it’s to develop a relationship, it’s always good to get to know each other, slowly, and try out things that each other likes, such as types of food and adventure!

    How Men & Women Differ In Dating

    I’m not sure that men and women differ in dating views, but more on a personal level. One person may have view a date possibly going further physically, while the other person has expectations of a date possibly turning into a relationship – if it goes well!

    Unrealistic Dating Expectation Encounters

    I have had dates with men who immediately began speaking of marriage, on the first date. I think that’s the most unrealistic expectation. I know that it has happened before, but usually it’s the best way of making sure there isn’t a second date.

    I’ve encountered men who have demanded fidelity from me, not even on a first date, but within moments of meeting them. That is beyond unrealistic, that is insanity!

    My Expectations Of A Date

    I don’t believe in having expectations, other than being treated well. I expect to be treated with respect. If those expectations are not met, I have no interest!

    Does Physical Attraction Matter?

    Physical attraction is very important, but I’m the kind of person where a physical attractive person can become unattractive if they have an ugly personality and vice versa. I have found some men very attractive after getting to know them who I wouldn’t have otherwise looked twice at.

    Generally, I do like certain physical aspects, I like dark hair, a smooth and hard, fit body, slightly taller than me, a sense of style, a sexy scent, intense eyes, but again, that is what physical attracts me, but it has to belong to an interesting guy with a great personality.

    What Turns Me Off

    I’ve had many bad dating experiences. Any sign of a guy turning into a stalker is a HUGE turn off for me. I’ve never experienced a guy not bringing his wallet on a date, but I’ve heard of it. That would be a huge turn off. Speaking of ex’s on the first few dates would be unacceptable. Poor hygiene or lack of effort would end the night short.

    Coming on too strong would turn me off. I once went on a date with a guy to have a drink and shoot some pool. He wouldn’t take his eyes off of me and was sort of treating me like he was star struck. Later that evening he told me he loved me. I find that to be one of the creepiest experiences ever.


    Kelli – I’ve been modeling most of my life and I love all genres, but I lean towards edgy glamour. I’m located in the Toronto area. I’m a huge animal lover and  live with my dog and guinea pigs. I work as a sex advice columnist for Dark Side Magazine.

    I have my own on-line store where I sell autographed glossy pics as well as clothing I’ve used in photo shoots. https://kellionlinestore.mysimplestore.com/

    Feel free to join me at http://www.diverxity.com/Kelli?r=44679 for full access to non-stop sexy photo sets. I post on average daily, sometimes more than once a day!

    My Facebook fan page is – https://www.facebook.com/groups/2391438566/

    My Twitter is – https://twitter.com/KelliOnLine

    My Instagram is – https://www.instagram.com/kellionline/

    My Ebay store is – https://www.ebay.ca/usr/kellionlinestoremysimplestore

    I have posters, trading cards and a featured sexy comic here – http://www.redskyeworld.com/models/2018/kelli-baker.htm


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