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  • What One Should Know About Financial Domination

    What One Should Know About Financial Domination

    Alternative lifestyles sound exhilarating and exciting to me. My personal experience of kink lifestyles is classy and romantic. I have the fantasies of dominance and submission. This desire is a source of joy and strength to me. Many vanilla people seek out an alternative lifestyle because their partner does not share their sexual preference. Many people want to find ways of making their sex life more colourful and hot.

    I help my slaves and submissives to explore the meaning of sexual fantasies in their life. I was quite dominating from the childhood and my fetish lifestyle started at 13 years old. I don’t like routine and vanilla lifestyle, it is not suitable for me. I have a degree of marketing and finance. I was working in the financial industry (stock brokerage firm) before my career as a financial dominatrix.

    I found being a professional findomme is much more interesting than my previous job. It gives me the satisfaction and lifestyle I’m looking for a long time in my deep heart. As a classy lifestyle findomme,  I offer opportunities for slaves to get a sexual release from giving me money and getting humiliated by me.

    Why Do You Enjoy Financial Domination?

    Financial domination is like any other fetish and it is giving money and tributes to the Dominatrix. It comes from a desire for loss of control and surrender of power. It is so hot and sexy when I take control of a my slaves’ finances and lives.

    Paypigs lavish the beautiful Dominatrix with expensive gifts and money for almost nothing in return. They give women money and tributes because they know Goddesses deserve it. Paypigs feel the need to spoil a beautiful Dominant woman like me and send them money. A lot of paypigs are wealthy professionals earning good money but who feel enslaved by their job. Domination helps slaves to release themselves from the pressures of daily life. I command my slaves to treat me, spoil me, and send me money and tributes. It’s a submissive dominate relationship.

    A findomme seldom takes off her clothes or engages in sex. This fetish doesn’t involve sex because a Domme would not dream of having sex with an unworthy slave. I take training sessions with my slaves via email, text, Skype or phone. I also do live sessions in London and international worship sessions all over the world. I get turned on and wet when paypigs send me money. I enjoy being spoiled and worshipped. I love financial domination and issuing order to pathetic paypigs. I am so happy and satisfied when I get great reviews from my audiences about my Findom clips.

    Why Is Financial Domination Popular?

    Financial Domination is getting very popular and common in Britain and all over the world because many people are just looking to escape their boring vanilla lives. A lot of slaves are high powered executives who don’t have time to spend their hard-earned money and they want to see a beautiful Goddess enjoy it. Paypigs like to be degraded and humiliated through their fat wallet.

    Slaves get turned on by being taken advantage of by a strong beautiful woman. It’s a total difference from their vanilla lives. Paypigs like to impress and serve their Goddess with money and tributes. They like beautiful women who make them feel weak and pathetic. Slaves get turned on when they pay for humiliation like verbal degradation, small penis humiliation, virgin humiliation, chastity and key holding, ball busting, cuckold slave, sissy humiliation, and dog training.

    Misconceptions About Financial Domination

    Findom are hot topics in social media, some girls have misconceptions that you just order a man to fuck off and get paid from them. Financial Domination is a lot more than just demanding men give out money.  It doesn’t mean you will get paid by yelling insults at a man. It is about natural dominance and manipulation skills of a Financial Dominatrix. There is beautiful chemistry between dommes and subs. It is a psychological addiction which combines pleasure and pain. It is an extension of BDSM, I think it is a romantic and sexy art.

    Incorporating Financial Domination Into Fetish Clips

    As a MV top 50 Findom earners on manyvids, I love to produce sexy Findom and Femdom clips combining the art of domination and the power of finance. I like to put financial elements in my fetish clips eg: insider information of my perfect pussy, cum at the money, financial domination for jerkahoic.

    I love to instruct beta boys jerking off to my big natural tits. I will instruct slaves when to stroke, how to stroke, when to stop and when to speed it up under my domination. They need a perfect orgasm under my command and pay the cum tax for me. I love to made them watch me and cum for me every night before they go to bed.

    Favorite Findom Ideas

    My favorite Findom ideas are my slaves begging me to accept their money. Slaves beg me logging onto their online banking account, I will be able to transfer as much money as I want. They transfer money when I text to demand it at anytime. Handing over their hard earned money weekly or regularly in a financial slave contract.

    I will control 100% of the finances and slaves will have no say about it. They become a live-in financial slave of mine. They are owned by me and are my property. They need to pay me for  anorgasm. Slaves impress me with expensive gifts like properties and diamonds.


    Goddess Findora – I am a strict, classy and divine Asian Goddess and findomme. Goddess Findora is good at training and controlling men. Slaves always please me with their fat wallet. I am good at using my beauty and power to command my submissive slaves.

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  • Mexican Model & Biologist Carolina Alvarez

    Mexican Model & Biologist Carolina Alvarez

    My proudest achievement so far is being a biologist.

    Do you have any favorite quotes you like to use in life?

    Life is finite, live it well.

    How will you describe a typical day like for yourself?

    Breakfast, GYM, work, business, fun at night.

    Where do you usually shop from?

    Local stores, malls, and Amazon.

    What have you always wanted to do but have yet to find the time for it?

    Participate in a fitness contest.

    If you could time travel, where will you go and like to experience or witness?

    Meet personally Jesus.

    What turns you off on a date?

    When the guy speaks a lot about himself.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Carolina. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy is the ability of showing your charming in the right moment.


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  • How To Enjoy Anal Sex

    How To Enjoy Anal Sex

    Anal sex is something that you can’t just jump into. It takes patience and planning towards getting into it. It is something that not everybody can do. And you can’t just get into it like regular sex. YOU HAVE TO RELAX AND LET YOUR MIND BE FREE. It has to be approached with care. I’d have to be talked into doing it slowly; psyching myself out that this is really happening and I might even enjoy it.

    Why Is Anal Play Enjoyable

    I have only experienced anal play with my toys, my plugs and anal beads. So I gained an idea of pleasure from doing anal sex and wonder what it would be like with a man; would he enjoy it more than me. Well I would get such a sense of pleasure from my toys that makes my pussy water. So I know that with a man, the orgasms would be explosively intense.

    👉ANAL SEX👈 IS ANOTHER LEVEL OF PLEASURE.  A pleasure that I’m willing to make apart of my lifestyle.

    Preparation Required For Anal Sex

    Firstly, you have to massage your ass while you’re lubricating.  You have to do anal exercises (KEGEL) to loosen your anal walls. The walls should be nice and relaxed before penetration. Everything has to be done gradually and slow until you are comfortable enough and ready.

    Ways To Make It Enjoyable For Both Parties

    Well firstly, my partner and I got to have the right chemistry. Nice foreplay and nice music goes a long way.  Simply, some nice anal play and licking does escalate it to go down. Also, have him whispering how good it is makes it wetter and better. Then, have him sucking, licking and tongue kissing my nipples while stroking, turning me over to begin kissing my booty cheeks makes me weak. The booty massage is the best way to start anal play. Baby oil, nice music, him rubbing me; gets the pussy dripping ready and waiting.

    3 Best Positions For Anal

    Spooning would be one of my first choice.

    The second would be doggy-style.

    Then my third choice would be planking.

    8 Anal Sex Tips For Beginners

    1. The woman should not eat anything 5 to 6 hours prior to having anal sex to avoid truffle butter.

    2. After making the walls nice and relaxed, douche it out with warm water a couple of times.

    3. Use plenty of lubricant.

    4. For the men, listen to your woman. When she says slow down, she might be in pain. Don’t mistake it for moans.

    5. After anal, wait and rest. Let the walls contract back.

    6. Hit the shower and wash thoroughly.

    7. Wash it all out, the lubricant and cum.

    8. Last but not least, let the music set the mood. Let your mind, body and soul take control.


    Staxxx – Findom pay me bitch or do not talk to me wanted.

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  • Model & Fashion Design Student Lily Amancay Huaman

    Model & Fashion Design Student Lily Amancay Huaman

    Hi 🙂 I’m Lily and I’m a 19 year old student and model. My name Amancay translates to Lily, so it has sort of become my unofficial name. I’m originally from Connecticut but I moved to NYC once I turned 18 to pursue my dreams of working in the fashion industry. I currently attend Parsons School of Design for a major in Fashion Design.

    Photo by Tomo Morisawa @tomomorisawa and Makeup by Emily Yu @emilyyu.mu

    What inspires your fashion style?

    I think I dress pretty casual and stick to the things that make me feel comfortable and cool. I wear lots of denim; in fact, I wear a jean jacket almost everyday with my sneakers or combat boots. I don’t really know if there’s an inspiration for my style, probably just the model off-duty look.

    Photo by John Kelsey @johnkelseyphoto

    Are there any accessories you can’t live without?

    I cannot live without my unicorn jewelry. I wear the same unicorn earrings and necklace everyday. I also always have a baby figurine in either my bag or jacket. I have a good collection of small baby figures, I just buy them when I come across them. They’re good luck!

    Which is your most memorable photoshoot or modeling experience?

    The one that stands out to me happened in 2017 during the winter. I was contacted by this amazing photographer (@johnkelseyphoto). He travels around and at the time he was living in a small sailboat. He invited me to shoot at a studio but I couldn’t make the time for that. Instead, I agreed to shoot outside on his boat with the Manhattan skyline in the background… wearing only lingerie! It was so cold (there was snow on the ground to put it into perspective) that afterwards I had cramps from my body tensing up due to the cold, but it was so worth it!

    Photo by Mike Matos @mikematosnyc

    Is there something you’ve always wanted to do or experience but have yet to find the time for it?

    I definitely want to travel more.

    Photo by Fernando Paz @fernandopazphoto

    Have you been in an embarrassing situation that is funny now when looking back?

    I embarrass myself a lot! And every time I look back on things I still cringe.

    If you could collaborate or meet anyone past or present, who will it be?

    Honestly, I would meet Kanye West. Like, have him over for dinner. He just seems like he has an opinion on everything and would be very entertaining to be around.

    Photo by Sergio Avellaneda @_fugazy_ and Makeup by Christina Lammardo @mardeau_beauty

    What do you not get about guys?

    I don’t understand why most men don’t experiment with fashion more. It seems like a lot of them are afraid of coming off too “feminine”, but I personally think it’s attractive when a man doesn’t care and can be different.

    Photo by Andrew Foster @atfphotographynyc Hair by Sayuri @hair_by_sayuri Makeup by Yukali @yukali.1214 Styling by Carie and Roseann Evans @salvageclothstudio @badtemperance

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Lily. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy is when you put on some makeup, do your hair, wear nice lingerie and heels, and make people realize that women are the most beautiful creatures in the world.


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  • How To Serve A Financial Dominatrix

    How To Serve A Financial Dominatrix

    It’s definitely not an easy money type of thing that most people will think is. It takes a lot of patience. I love money so financial domination is something that I am glad exists. I definitely do think that this is not something you should be doing if you NEED money. It’s very inconsistent at times.

    Appeal Of Financial Domination To Subs

    These subs specifically like paying young, hot, dominant girls. Something about being dominating and paying literally turns them on.

    Do You Have Any Criteria For Choosing Subs?

    No. Never.

    Do’s & Don’ts A Sub Must Follow

    It varies. Whatever rule I decide is what happens. I ask what they’re into/what their limit is and I go from there. I make sure they’re in a safe place with me, so it really varies.

    Punishments For Subs

    ALWAYS pay for your punishment. I’ll add a little task, BUT they will need to pay for misbehaving.


    Emiii – I started findom August 2018, but in reality.. I’ve been financially dominating men since I was younger. *gold digger* my Twitter is @prettyinmoney

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  • Fitness Enthusiast & Bikini Competitor Quinn O’Connell

    Fitness Enthusiast & Bikini Competitor Quinn O’Connell

    It is an honor to be featured on SimplySxy! My name is Quinn O’Connell. I am a 22 year old recent grad from Massachusetts who has a bachelor’s degree in Communications and Fashion Merchandising.

    How did you get started into fitness and being a bikini competitor?

    I have always been pretty athletic. Name a sport and I probably played it once in my day. I ended up continuing my basketball career at the collegiate level, but once I graduated I knew I had to find something else that would keep me motivated, in a set routine, and physically and mentally in check.

    I have been watching a family friend, who is now my recent coach, compete for years and I was always so intrigued by the sport but never thought I would have enough confidence or self-discipline to compete but I mustered up the courage to give it a shot and I never looked back!

    What is your workout regime like?

    My coach implements my workout regiment every four weeks. So every new month I am sent a new workout protocol. As of right now, since I am in off-season, I am looking to build a ton of muscle. Which means my workouts are currently consisting of heavy weight lifts and less cardio.

    Do you follow a strict diet and avoid any particular food?

    When on prep I follow a very strict diet and only eat certain foods and switch them up in a number of ways. During off-season I am still very aware of what I am consuming, but more than following a “strict diet”, I try to count my macros and hit them as accurately as I can.

    What other hobbies or interests are you into?

    As for other interests besides fitness, I would say my number one interest is traveling. Nothing makes me happier than getting away (specifically by myself), and meeting new people while exploring and experiencing new cultures/areas. I have been to over ten other countries so far and would love to expand my list far beyond this number.

    If you could learn anything in this world, what will it be?

    There are a ton of things I would like to learn, some of which I am in the process of being certified in. I think on top of those things, I would love to be fluent in another language.

    Have you been in an embarrassing situation that is funny now when you look back?

    Oh gosh, there are way too many stories for this question I couldn’t even fit it on the page. Embarrassing myself is a daily occurrence!

    What turns you off on a date and have you had a bad date experience?

    I think what turns me off the most on a date in cockiness. I am all for someone carrying themselves with confidence, but arrogance is a completely different story. To be honest, I haven’t been on many “dates.” So I haven’t had a terrible experience…YET.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Quinn. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    My definition of sexy would be, simply put, confidence. There is nothing more attractive than someone who can completely be themselves in any atmosphere and embrace their inner selves without trying to conform to something they’re not. Loving yourself and not being embarrassed by others opinions has certainly changed my life and I love to see it in others!


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  • What It’s Like To Be A Fetish Wrestler

    What It’s Like To Be A Fetish Wrestler

    I knew I was going to be a part of the alternative and kinky fetish lifestyle for quite sometime. I went to college in the Greater New York area and was dabbling into various BDSM through modeling, art, and clubs since I was 21 so finding those with the same mindset was essential in my life as I love to feel this bliss and spread that feeling to others also.

    What Does Fetish Wrestling Involve?

    Fetish wrestling is having a kink for fighting and typically mixed with whatever fetish you are interested in (tickling, messy, bondage, etc). It is mixed between using actual martial arts (BJJ, Judo, Karate, etc.) techniques and strength (i.e. headscissors, pins, submissions, etc.). It can include ropes, oil, jello, mud, etc. and usually ends with some form of punishment (spanking, feet worshipping, camel clutching, hogtying, etc.)

    Why People Love Fetish Wrestling

    They love exploring the fetish and fighting for the win. The dominant one obviously aiming to punish as the submissive one is usually aiming to get punished. The dynamics for this is different as it depends on what rules and regulations pertains and is agreed upon prior to the match.

    How Did You Become A Fetish Wrestler?

    I got into it via Doom Maidens which are known for their bondage wrestling. I realized how much I was into it and they held (and still do) different classes to train for safety and techniques. They hold monthly meetings to talk about what we can do to improve with our skills as well as kept up to date with current (fetish) wrestling events.

    Misconceptions About Fetish Wrestling

    The most common misconception when people know I am a fetish wrestler is “Ultimate Surrender” type match which is also in the realm of fetish wrestling but usually ends with someone being vaginally/anally penetrated at the end. That is not what I do nor offer as many have limits. My hard limits are no penetration, masturbation, or any exchange in bodily fluids/urine/faeces so please DO NOT reach out to me for this type of session/production.

    Tips To Try Fetish Wrestling For The First Time

    Do your research and make sure you take the time out to find out who your ideal sessiongirl would be. Pay for your clips and your sessions accordingly as we work our asses off to make sure you get to fulfill your fantasy on camera or in person with the proper techniques and training.

    After you pick your ideal sessiongirl and if correspondence goes well and communication is clear, be honest to her so you can get your money’s worth on the dream session you are looking for which hopefully gets you to want to explore it some more.


    Kim Chi – Funsize and feisty little Asian firecracker originating out of the Greater New York Area and relocated to the Nation’s Capital. I am a professional switch (dom/sub) that travels for hire. I am a jill of most trades so if you need front end, back end, or inbetween end work — I am here.

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  • Fashion and Celebrity Stylist Joanna Garcia

    Fashion and Celebrity Stylist Joanna Garcia

    Hi, I’m Joanna Garcia, 28 year old celebrity fashion stylist from sunny Manila, Philippines. I’ve been styling for more that eight years and I would really say that I love and enjoy what I’ve chosen to do. Aside from fashion, I love yoga, painting and cooking during my spare time!

    Where do you get your fashion inspiration from?

    I get my fashion inspiration from everywhere. People I meet, my travels, social media, different artists I’ve come to work with, the list goes on and on. I’m always finding ways to be inspired everyday — this is how I keep the creativity flowing.

    Are there any items in your wardrobe you can’t live without?

    I cannot leave without a white button-down shirt, good fitting pair of jeans and my very comfy and trusty Chanel ballerina flats. I’m a basics kinda gal, as long as it’s chic and it fits very well, I’m good to go.

    How will you describe a typical day like for yourself?

    I wake up around 8am, do a short meditation, diffuse my energizing essential oils (this was truly life changing for me, haha) then start my day with breakfast while checking my e-mails. Most days I would attend shoots, meetings, events or style campaigns, other days you would often see me in the mall sourcing looks for my celebrity clients.

    Is there a food or drink you never take?

    I’m not really a picky eater but I don’t like Bitter Melon and I’m not very fond of tomatoes!

    What have you always wanted to do or learn but have yet to find the time for it?

    I’ve been meaning to go back to London and take short courses in Central Saint Martins in cool hunting and advanced fashion styling but schedules always get in the way, I would love to do probably this year or next, as they say, Education is the best investment you can give yourself. I believe this will also allow me to hone my skills better to become a better stylist.

    If you could time travel, where will you go and like to experience or witness?

    Wish I’d live in the 70s! The music, the parties, and the fashion.

    What turns you off on a date?

    A guy that is too arrogant or full of himself.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Joanna. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?

    Sexy is being comfortable in your own skin, not being afraid to show who you really are 🙂


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  • What It’s Like Being Non Monogamous

    What It’s Like Being Non Monogamous

    I think that sex is a great way to connect with others, and relieve tension. Sex is healthy, sex is fun, as long as you are responsible consenting adults! I believe in being free to express yourself in the bedroom. Communication and consent are key, then the fun can begin!

    Why Being Non-Monogamous Appeals To Me

    Personally, polyamory is not for me. For many, they like having more than one partner. Polyamory (many loves)  is multiple full on relationships. For me, I prefer non-monogamy that includes only being sexually open. I like having a primary emotionally committed partner, with sexual openness.

    We are loyal to one another, but play sexually with others. I am a very sexual person and traditional relationships do not meet my sexual needs. I also enjoy watching my partner pleasing and being pleased by others.

    Misconceptions About Non-Monogamy

    Typically people don’t understand the difference between cheating and non-monogamy. I prefer to specify that I practice “ethical” non monogamy. I like to emphasize that I do not condone cheating of any kind. I only practice and condone honest and open non-monogamy where all partners involved are aware.

    What Constitutes Hotwifing & Cuckoldry?

    I am one who gets off on watching my partner with others. Both of these are a type of voyeurism and that is a common fantasy. Cuckolding typically involves humiliation of the person’s partner while they have sex with another. Hotwifing is more the man wants to watch or simply know his partner is being pleased by another man.

    Both of these involve a man with an unfaithful woman though he is turned on by this. I have yet to see much about a woman who likes to do this with her man. There is a term cuckqueening, though it does not seem to be popular in porn or talked about much.

    Tip To Explore Non-Monogamous Relationships

    Do your research. You can learn about other couples experiences online, or read books on non monoamy. There are meet up groups for polyamory or other non-monogamy types. I got my journey started in a polyamory meet up group. The most important thing is to do this for you. Both partners should enjoy it and there should be constant communication. You never know when jealousy can rear it’s ugly head.


    Alana Cruise – I have been a webcam model since 2011. I began porn in 2016 and I love every minute of it. I am a very horny woman who loves seducing younger men, having sex with women, and all kinds of kinkery.

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  • International Artistic Nude Model Starla Lost

    International Artistic Nude Model Starla Lost

    My name is Starla, and I’m a Toronto based model. I am a full time international artistic nude model, currently boasting 13 countries that I have worked in! I am in my 7th year modeling, but only my second doing this full time.

    Photo: Darryl Pascoe Photography (@darrylpascoephotography on insta)

    What inspired you to go into modeling?

    Like many models, I did not expect to get into modeling. I had a respect for it and always taped magazine photos to my bedroom wall. I was not inspired to become a model because I thought that was an unrealistic goal. I fell into it by chance. A rapper named Watzky said in one of his songs: “Dumb Luck and Smart Choices”, and despite not being much of a fan of rap, that line resonated with me.

    There were four distinct points that created my modeling career. First, I was a selfie scene queen when that was a big internet thing. I had bright blue hair and posted hundreds of selfies to claim the little internet fame I had. The internet following would become important, but yes – Starla was my emo name and things moved so quickly I never had a chance to rebrand!

    Secondly, I had a face and body painting company when I was 13-15. My parents were both entrepreneurs, so it was easy to follow suit. I painted myself as a zombie to print on one of my booth banners for events. My brother took the photos – and he was actually pretty damn good at it. This was right around the time The Walking Dead was gaining popularity. Suddenly, there were hundreds of zombie blogs, but few images to associate it with. My zombie images went viral on zombie blogs and tumblr. Another model found it and asked me to paint her for a photo shoot – she didn’t have any money, but the photographer could take images of me as trade. He also was a very good photographer. All of a sudden, I had high end and professional images to post to my huge selfie following.

    Then, I went to an outdoor party where some drunk girl stole my hat. I didn’t think much of it, but the sweetheart found me on facebook the next day to return the hat. She mentioned her roomate was a photographer and that he had seen my stuff online and would love to shoot – so why not come over to get my hat and take some fun photos? I did, and this started a beautiful friendship with the photographer – Patrick. We shot nearly every day for that entire summer. I had a comprehensive and diverse portfolio just from happy coincidences.

    At 17, I moved to Montreal for University. I moved my portfolio with me – the photographers in the area noticed me and my large portfolio, and just assumed I was this high end full time model. I didn’t correct them. From 17, I have mostly been doing paid shoots. I am currently 23.

    Which genres of modeling do you love?

    My favourite is actually nude modeling! Once I was of age, and then once I had broken the sexual stereotype – nudity become so freeing! I found myself loving being a nudist. I was studying psychology and neuroscience in school, and fell in love with body language. I found that my body language was restricted by clothes – especially for modeling. I couldn’t cover the logo, or I had to make sure it was mostly straight instead of creased.

    Wearing lingerie – if you pose incorrectly – the underwire will buckle your skin and create rolls (no matter how tiny you are!!). Underwear could create muffin tops. Pants would restrict leg movement. And clothes carried a personality – bright clothes were happy and required smiles. Ball gowns required grace. The clothes told you what to do instead of the other way around. Being nude – there is no such thing as posing wrong, especially as an artistic nude model. It is interesting to see how the stomach curls. It is interesting to see the breasts hang. It is freeing to pose without restrictions. I let the clicks of the camera classical condition me. I close my eyes and move however my body tells me to for every click.

    It’s become a bit of a meditation for me – I try to be very aware of what my body is telling me in that exact moment – whether it is sore, or wants to be stretched, or wants to be big, or wants to close in on itself, or if it is cold, et cetera. I just love being nude, and I love nudity as a medium for art.

    Have you ever felt nervous before a photoshoot?

    Certainly! In fact, I think this is important. Most of my photoshoots now do not make me nervous. It is like I am going to an office job some days, where I can’t get out of bed or be bothered with makeup. Others, it is nerve-wracking like hosting a company meeting. Sometimes, it’s very exciting and it’s all you can think about!

    Photo: @Odinntheviking (insta) as photographer, and @s.johannsd (insta) as model)

    Do you have any other hobbies or interests?

    Modeling is my main jam, but I am also very interesting in traveling and camping – both that come hand in hand with modeling! 🙂

    What was the last movie or series you caught and was it any good?

    I just finished watching “This Strange Rock” with Will Smith. It was fantastic! I strongly recommend it to understand the Earth’s systems better. It is an environmental movie, but a lot of it is humbling as well instead of just being nag about how awful we are to the planet. It introduced me to a lot of interesting species we coexist with! It also introduced me to a lot of new information that I had not updated myself on since graduating school.

    If you could learn anything in this world, what will it be?

    Other languages. Especially with traveling, languages are so important and practical! I can speak a bit of French, but not as much as I’d like.

    What is a lame or awkward attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    The hundreds of people flooding my inboxes with “hi, I would like to get to know you“. How do you even respond to that?

    Ok” ?, then they just repeat what they’ve said again.

    Photo : Della Pham Photo (@dellamelindapham on insta)

    It is a pleasure to feature you Starla. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    It’s difficult to define sexy, since it’s so different for everyone! My personal definition would include traits like ambition, trustworthy, honest, genuine, communicative. As cliche as it is, personality traits take the lead of sexiness for me. Appearance is very secondary to personality. I’ve dated some really ugly, sexy people in my life and I wouldn’t trade them for the world!


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    Featured image courtesy of Della Pham Photo (@dellamelindapham on insta)

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