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Why Every Men Should Try The Girlfriend Experience

Life should be all about exploring and making the most of the sensual pleasures world has to offer. What can be better than that? Sharing it with someone you can connect with.

What The Girlfriend Experience Means To Me

I see the Girlfriend Experience as, perhaps, the more specialized sex work service. Our job is to make our clients feel so relaxed, so comfortable, that they forget they’re in a paid service.

Why I’m The Perfect Companion

Just as the GFE can be the perfect service for the client, it can be the perfect job for the companion. Through my website and social media, I share a part of who I am. When someone sees it and feels somehow attracted, we can probably share good moments together. However, that’s why finding the perfect Girlfriend Experience for you could take time too. Every GFE companion has her own personality which is intrinsically linked to the way she understands and offers her services. Do your research, it will be well worth it 😉

Personally, I love to work as a GFE companion simply because it’s so rewarding to make people happy.

Why Is The GFE Popular?

The common reasons I hear from men and women who experience the GFE is intimacy, to be able to trust someone and express themselves freely in a safe space in which there’s no judgement and no pressures of any kind.

Misconceptions About The GFE

Although it is popular in the media, people often get confused with the meaning of the acronym of Girlfriend Experience, specially when they’re not English speakers.

Lena Cristina – I am the cutie redhead you saw that day. I am your charming, beautiful, girlfriend experience waiting for you in the sunny Barcelona.

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These days I’m working on finishing my first book, a poetry book, which will be available first for my Patreon followers.

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July 28, 2020
Rouge Boulevard — The Go-To Place for Escort Services of Any Kind
If you are looking to book independent escorts, you’ve come to the right place! Rouge Boulevard will offer you a shortcut to a wide selection of steamy services.

We are an ad directory website for independent escorts in the UK whose catalogue currently features thousands of alluring girls. What’s more, we are constantly adding new faces to it to increase your chances of finding the escort of your dreams.

Find a Companion for a Special Event or Occasion

If you need a plus one for a social event, check out our independent escorts. Our girls know how to keep the conversation going. Better still, they can put anyone in a good mood!

When you feel like partying, opt for one of our party escorts. They will dance the night away and make the evening fun and sexy for you. However, keep in mind that you don’t need a special occasion to enjoy some nice company. In fact, you can book an escort even for a laidback experience, such as a quiet dinner at a local restaurant.

Book a Fetish Escort and Make Your Fantasies Come True

What’s your guilty pleasure? Russian girls with long braids? Mature women with impressive massage skills? Whatever fantasies you have, we’ll help you find fetish escorts that can make your hottest dreams come true.

Our versatile catalogue features women of different nationalities, including dark-eyed Spanish chicas and petite French babes. You’ll also have no trouble finding the type of escort you desire because we have blondes, brunettes, and even redheads.

Incall and Outcall London Escorts

Do you prefer to play on a familiar territory, or are you looking to change the scenery? With us, you can have either one of those things! We have ads for both incall and outcall London escorts. But, whichever option you pick, your privacy is guaranteed. After all, we like to keep things as discreet as possible!

Furthermore, we have girls in every part of the English capital who will happily keep you company. Some of the London areas they cover include:
- Greenwich
- Catford
- Harrow
- Redbridge
- Westminster
- Enfield
Other Cities Our Escorts Cover

Of course, aside from London escorts, you can use Rouge Boulevard to find an irresistible companion in other parts of the country. In fact, we have girls in many UK cities, including:
- Glasgow
- Liverpool
- Manchester
- Wolverhampton
- Birmingham
- Belfast
If you don’t see your city on this list, go to our homepage and type in your location. You’ll get a list of sexy belles that are available near you. All you have to do then is pick the one you think would best cater to your taste and personal needs. Get in touch with her and arrange where and when to have your steamy rendezvous.

Rouge Boulevard — Independent Escorts’ Favourite Spot

Are you considering a career as an escort? Or maybe you are already working in this field? In either case, feel free to post your ad on our website. Since Rouge Boulevard is a leading directory platform for escorts, we can help you build or expand your client base.

You can publish as many ads as you want without having to part with a penny. Best of all, you’ll get to control your rates and your work schedule. You are welcome to our website no matter if you are a part-time or a full-time escort.

Furthermore, all independent escorts on our platform can pick the list of services and extras they offer. You have the freedom to take calls only as a travel companion or a party girl, for instance. On the other hand, you can also provide your clients with a steamier service pack. It’s all up to you!

Try Rouge Boulevard Today

So go ahead and check out Rouge Boulevard! We’ll help you find independent escorts that will spoil you with their love and affection. Our gorgeous girls will take care of all your needs and make you feel special in every way possible. Don’t ignore such an opportunity for a good time — browse through our sexy ads today!

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July 23, 2020
Why You Should Enjoy Montreal With A Companion

I would like to mention that I have never worked for an agency so I can only speak of my experience as an independent companion, that being said, I think escorting is a largely misunderstood industry full of unwarranted, negative misconceptions. Escorting may not be for everyone, and I definitely suggest doing research before booking your first client, but for those who want to try it, I highly recommend it.

I started my research simply by Googling how to be an escort and just went from there. Since becoming a companion, my quality of life has improved significantly in many ways, and my only regret is that I didn’t start sooner. I have gained so much confidence and self esteem. It is a huge rush of empowerment to be paid for my time. Yes there are risks, but since I have a screening process that all potential clients must complete before I meet them, I honestly don’t think escorting is any more or less dangerous than traditional dating.

Strangers are strangers, no matter how or where you meet them. The incredible people I have met, the fantastic experiences I have had, and the spectacular opportunities that have presented themselves that I otherwise would have missed out on, are life changing rewards that far outweigh the risks.

What Makes Me An Ideal Companion

I am your typical fiery red head. Full of passion and lust for life and adventure. As independent and free spirited as I am, I’m also very intuitive and affectionate. I believe it’s this balance of affectionate independence that makes me an ideal companion. It means I am especially attentive to my date’s needs while also knowing when to back off and never seem needy. I have a more submissive personality in general but I love expanding my boundaries so I never pass up the chance to play a more dominant role when requested.

I have a particularly unique blend of shy yet playful sensuality, mixed with confident desire that is very attractive to my dates. I also have a quick and witty sense of humour and I love to laugh. Having fun is always my goal no matter what I’m doing, however I do understand how to remain tasteful and appropriate to the specific situation. My sense of fun and adventure and positivity are all attitudes that my dates find very attractive.

My easy going nature means I adapt seamlessly to any situation and feel comfortable just about anywhere, allowing my dates to be reassured I will always be enhancing their experience no matter where we go or what we do. I’m as comfortable at the ballet or theatre as I am in a strip club and I love balancing the formal fancy evenings with the more casual and kinky events. I love dressing up and being glamorous as much as I love getting dirty.

How To Enjoy Montreal With Me!

To have the best, most well rounded experience of both me and Montreal, I like to spend at least 2-3 days with my clients. I am happy to spend just an hour or two with my date, and can still create an intimate and passionate atmosphere, but having 2 to 3 days together allows for even more passion and intimacy to build and develop. The extra time provides a much more exciting and attractive experience. Plus, there is so much to do in a city like Montreal and something for every taste.

I love to customize dates according to my clients interests. Just a few examples include spa themed weekends, sporting events, live music, theatre and ballet themed weekends, even kinky sex dungeon, and swingers club themed weekends. In a city like Montreal, the possibilities are truly endless. From the casino for fun and gambling, to old Montreal and the old port for some culture and history, to the downtown core for all the best shopping, to La Ronde, the amusement park with the evening fireworks display that is always exciting and romantic. Not to mention the wonderful museum exhibits to visit, gourmet restaurants to try and festivals to experience.

If it’s not possible to spend 2 or 3 days with me, I can easily rearrange any portion of the themed dates to fit whatever time we do have together and still create a sensual world just for us. I have no doubt social distancing will continue to limit the events available throughout the next few months, but that doesn’t mean we can’t still have fun, we just have to be a bit more creative.

What A Gentlemen Needs To Prepare Prior To Our Engagement

The first thing the potential client should do is visit my web site to verify my rates and services to make sure I am offering what they are looking for at a budget they can afford. The next thing a potential client should do is plan which days and what times they would like to schedule with me. They should then contact me at least 24 hours before they would like to see me to make sure I am available. This gives me the time I need to check my schedule and get ready without having to rush. The last thing a potential client should prepare is the screening info I ask for, which is either a picture of their face, a copy of their ID or active social media info, or a reference of another provider they have seen in recent months.

My preference is a picture of their face but depending on the situation, the other forms of screening info can also be accepted. It may shock some people to know I ask for pictures of clients faces, but a lot of clients actually take the initiative and send me selfies even before I ask for them. I understand if this can be uncomfortable for some clients which is why I offer other methods. If a client is uncomfortable with every method and does not want to give any screening info then I don’t schedule the date.

Rules To Follow During Our Time Together

Impeccable personal hygiene is a top priority. Showering everyday and certainly before we meet, making sure everything is fresh and clean is the most important. Also, proper manners are a must. Please and thank you are very sexy to me. I like doors being opened for me, and my chair being pulled out for me, and any chivalrous opportunity is well appreciated.

Respecting boundaries, and asking permission before doing anything are also very good habits for a client to have. Usually, as long as a client is courteous and treats me with respect, most everything else tends to fall into place on it’s own.

Krissy Phoenix – Fiery red head who is the perfect combination of sweet and sultry. Born in Canada from Scottish/Hungarian heritage. At 5’8″, 130lbs and size 8 feet, I have a slim build with long slender legs, perky, natural breasts, luscious ruby lips, sparkling green eyes, a gorgeous thick mane of curly red hair and smooth silky skin. Along with my physical attributes, my positivity, warm smile and playful giggle are just some of my most attractive features.

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July 22, 2020
Meet The Male Escort Women Pay To Sensually Dominate Them
My personal views about sex work is that all humans crave and deserve to feel connected, satiated and whole with another. Sex itself is more powerful, vast and deeper than most realize. Different cultures have developed sciences (systems) of cultivating sexual energy. On one end of the spectrum sex may be employed to feel the warmth of a lover. On the opposite end of the spectrum it may be used to become clairvoyant or communicate with other beings, spirits, etc, by delaying orgasm long enough to send a partner(s) into an ecstatic trance. Of course, a sexual embrace can be used for anything along the spectrum.

Providing companionship to women is a compassionate, honorable and a very much needed profession. Many women go unfulfilled inside and outside of the bedroom. When a woman pushes past society’s biases and misconception about engaging me, she usually says that she wished she had engaged me much sooner.

Are More Women Engaging Male Escorts Today?

Certainly. In certain socioeconomic circles, straight male escorts for women are widely known, utilized and encouraged by women; sometimes even by their husbands or boyfriends. Many women prefer engaging a male escort to dating. They feel that most men lack even the basic dating, sensual or social skills. And that most, at least in the USA, are overly obsessed with their own sexual gratification, sports, violence and protecting their fragile egos.

For the longest time it was a luxury available to only the super rich. But that’s not so now since many women are climbing the economic ladder.

Reasons Women Engage Male Escorts

Women engage male escorts for many different reasons, more than I can enumerate but here are the top six reasons they engage me:
- A partner for sensual adventures
- A partner to dance or engage in a hobby or activity with her
- Feel attended to and have her needs, wants and desires cared for
- A couple engages me for a threesome or foursome
- Accompaniment to an event
- To know what it feels like to be with a black man
What To Know Before Engaging A Male Escort

First a word of caution: Most guys who are in this business shouldn’t be anywhere near this business. They don’t know the first thing about being a companion to women. Also, they either do not invest any or enough money and time to learn how to become a male escort, study the business of providing companionship to women or even develop themselves as human beings. Some may become dangerous, and violent. Others may be predators posing as escorts. Thus, a woman should exercise due diligence for her comfort and safety.

Here are a few tips:
- Educate yourself about engaging straight male companions for women. I recommend looking at http://www.conciergedumonde.com. It’s older and doesn’t have much activity. But it does contain good information for ladies who engage male companions or are considering doing so. The forum and its content was created by ladies who are/were clients of straight male escorts. A newer and upcoming forum is http://womenscompanionforum.eu/. Although it doesn’t contain as much information as the older one it’s nevertheless a valuable resource. It was jointly created by a client of male companion and a male companion.
- Thoroughly investigate your potential companion’s website, social media presence, references, referrals, etc., in order to get a feel for him and what he provides.
- Adhere to your companion’s contact, booking and etiquette instructions.
- Study some form of combative martial arts. I highly recommend Krav Maga.
Top 3 Misconceptions People Have About Providing Companionship To Women
1. That a woman hires a male escort only for sex. It isn’t always about sex and it is not only about sex. It’s more about a woman who wants to connect with a man who fulfills her on multiple levels.
2. Women who engage male escorts are desperate, unattractive, can’t get a man, etc. – First, standards of beauty are culturally defined, secondly, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Finally, many knock out gorgeous women engage me.
3. That anyone with a penis can do this work. – Many guys try to become a straight male escort for women but they don’t have what it takes. It’s really a discipline that requires certain skills and characteristics. In North America there’s only three guys who I respect as quality companions. It takes much more than a cell phone, website and a penis to do this.
Types Of Women Who Engage Me

In addition to what was mentioned above about feeling connected, satiated and whole, my clients want to feel their own feminine energy and power through my masculine energy and power.

They span the gamut of nationalities, cultures, races and religions. Some are heterosexual woman, while some are bisexual. Many have bachelors degrees and most have Masters and PHDs. In terms of professions, some are doctors, lawyers, CPA’s, college professors, business executives, entrepreneurs, athletes, artists, teachers, entertainers and even sex workers. Some are single, married, divorced, etc.

The Stigma Associated With Sex Work

I think that it’s hypocritical puritanical bullsh*t. Everyone craves to feel a connection, whole and satiated with another human being. Why should anyone else have a say in or even care about what consenting adults do in private to receive what we all deeply desire.

Why Is Sensual Domination Popular Among Women?

It’s been my experience that when a woman is very attracted to man, she really wants him to dominate and devastate her in the bedroom. Sensual domination involves taking control and leading her into an amazing sensual experience(s).

A Typical Sensual Domination Session

The ambiance of the room is set with candlelight, aromatherapy and music. Concerned with your pleasure and safety, I inquire about your comfort level with sensuality, and kink.

Lightly restrained, feathery light strokes tease, sliding over the bottom of the feet to the calves, thighs, buttocks, back up to the neck. Hands follow tenderly caressing the soft tissues of the body; kneading the harder ones.

Perfectly relaxed with my touch, you melt with eager anticipation of what’s to come next. A variety of tools and techniques are employed.

Firm caresses slowly increase the intensity of your pleasure. You begin to tense up as the touch becomes more intimate. I take you right up to the edge of an ecstatic release. With an ever engulfing desire to be satiated, your breathing becomes shallow. The back arches, spontaneously moaning with passion.

Sensing that the tension in your body has become both titillating and unbearable, you receive permission to release. The sexual energy pulsating throughout the entire body you burst with excitement, quivering. You bask in the afterglow, exhilarated with both the journey and finish line.

Deep feelings of joy and connection are engendered as you lay gasping, exhilarated and breathtakingly pleased with my touch and the sensual healing secrets that you tasted. Wrapped in a blanket, I’m there with you as you calm down. You beam in the afterglow savoring the adventure that we shared together.

Anthony Asanti – Straight Male Escort providing warm, sensual and professional companionship to women only. A Sensual Warrior who’s the world’s first and only Straight Male Escort catering exclusively to women certified in Bondassage and providing it exclusively to women. He is a formally trained CHEF in the U.S. Military who delights in preparing a succulent tasting vegan-vegetarian dining experience for the special friend. He’s appeared in many print and online media outlets, podcast articles in addition to his own articles on providing High-end Male Companionship to women which have been re-blogged and re-distributed worldwide. He has a fervent love for the arts, studying ancient and indigenous civilizations, human rights & justice, and martial arts.

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My in-person sessions, tours, and travels were halted during this Covid-19 pandemic but have since resumed. I was scheduled to be in Huston, TX July 10th – Jul 13th. But since NY recently imposed a mandatory quarantine from those traveling from TX and a few other states more, the trip was postponed. Subscribe to my newsletter via the footer of my website for my upcoming news, tours, and travels.

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July 20, 2020
More Than Just Sex – By Bella Petite

If you really want to know Bella, experience Bella, then you really need to read her new book; More Than Just Sex, it’s a window into her heart and soul.

In an industry where we are encouraged to hide who we are; to pretend to be someone we’re not when we are with you, Bella’s new book More Than Just Sex gives you a rare glimpse into her journey as a personable companion.

Come experience her uninterrupted mind and ride along with her as she leads you through the journey of becoming the professional and beautiful Bella Petite that you know and love.

Excerpt

I straighten my 45kg petite frame, adjust my large F cup breasts,

check my black silk and lace thigh-high stockings, run the zipper up along the side of my size 6 crushed red velvet mini dress, and buckle the straps of my matte black stilettos.

Now standing in front of the full-size dress mirror and am hit with my jaw dropping distraction upon looking. “Good god, I look beautiful.” I confidently walk through the dented wooden door frame and into a room of warmth, luxury, sophistication, and men! Lots of men.

It wasn’t just kiwi dollar bills and stiff white sheets unfolding that day, it was the beginning of layers and layers of deep psychological penetration being unraveled like a neatly tied bow.

As my mind was gently being pulled over and over and over again, eventually the truth about what prostitutes really do came hard and fast to the surface of my thoughts and exploded all over my socially blackened mind.

I’ve got to tell you, that was one hell of a relief when it did.

Purchase and read the rest of More Than Just Sex here – https://www.bellapetiteescort.com/buy-bellas-books

Bella Petite – I’m a deep thinker and often find myself-looking at the big picture. I enthusiastically believe in raising the bar. My desire is for you, the client, to confidently know without hesitation you are employing my services with the same level of trust, quality and professional etiquette and accountability you would expect from any other highly successful business.

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July 8, 2020
Why You Should Enjoy Frankfurt With An Escort

In my opinion, it is not so much about the city (of Frankfurt) but rather about what you want to do and what you want to experience. It is a special pleasure to have a date set up and created by an escort. In Frankfurt, there are many museums, the opera, theater and different exhibitions, great restaurants and of course a lot of nice hotels. It is much nicer to enjoy your time with a good companion than spending it alone.

For example, there is one restaurant which offers a so called Geisha room where which there is just one table inside. You can enjoy your dinner there and the waiter will ring a bell before coming in…During the dinner you are all alone and nobody can watch what you doing between the courses…

Why I’m A Perfect Companion To Be With!

I like nature as well as culture because I see both as essential parts of a beautiful whole. Therefore, in my life, I want to admire the cultural achievements of humanity as well as explore the great nature of this earth. I enjoy to live in the city but I have around 40 plants to bring some wildlife into my apartment. Since I am a high energy person, I am very much into sports, especially pole dance and yoga. I do always feel my appetite so I try every vegan dish I come across.

I’m interested in many different kinds of art so I enjoy a lot when I go to art exhibitions. I’ve got a little fetish for wellness, especially for sauna or hot baths to detox the body, calm down the mind and take some me-time to read a lot of books. Dates with me are based on the honest and caring relationship I want to build up. Being a companion means to me, creating a secure framework in which people are allowed to experience themselves in a new way – in conversations as well as in intimate relationships.

Best Duration To Enjoy Frankfurt Together

I love overnight dates the most because you have enough time to get to know each other while having dinner so you can create a chemistry and explore the intimate bonding afterwards. You can cuddle and fall asleep together and I just love to wake up and have erotic and intimate activities in the morning. Morning sex is the best way to wake up…. Moreover, the breakfast tastes much better after a little work out.

What You Have To Prepare Before Our Meetup

First of all, read my profile because there are already a lot of information about myself. Contact me and tell me your expectations and provide me some information about yourself.

Time is precious and that’s why it’s important to spend time with people whose lives I can enrich and mine as well. It is important to me to meet each person with an open mind and treat everyone with the respect he deserves. A man is attractive to me when he is aware of himself and acts reflected about himself and towards his environment. What I do not like is when people feel superior just because of their status, fortune, or career and see other people as less worthy or degrading.

One Must Rule To Follow

Respect me and I’ll respect you!

Irina Le Fey – I am a cute, high energy, open minded girl from Germany. I love hiking in the wild nature and dating to explore human culture. Meet me as your little island to escape the ocean of daily life.

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July 2, 2020
Why You Should Enjoy Toronto With A Companion

Toronto is definitely one of the most fun cities in North America. The city is known for having unique neighbourhoods. There’s really something for everyone. There’s a beach neighbourhood (Queen st East), a party district (King and Spadina), a hippie district (Kensington Market), a luxury neighbourhood (Yorkville), a scruffy neighbourhood (Parkdale), and more.

Some people call Toronto NYC lite. I can see why. Toronto is sprawling, expensive, and filled with people in a hurry. We’re a little elitist compared to the rest of Canada. But, that’s why people love Toronto. It’s an exciting city where you can live your potential. Once you’re here, you won’t want to leave.

As far as the sex industry goes in Toronto, you’ll rarely be more spoiled anywhere else. You can have a massage in the morning, see a girl in your hotel in the afternoon and take her to dinner, then hit the strip club at night. The industry is basically live and let live in this city. You can have a lot of fun out in the open and no one really cares.

Another thing is: there are a lot of companions in Toronto. So many, you’ll find it impossible to choose just one to see on your visit. There are really so many incredibly sexy, beautiful, intelligent, and provocative companions in Toronto. Lots of clients will travel here simply to see a provider, or two, or three, that intrigues them.

Advantages of Engaging Companion In Toronto

I mean, let’s start with the companions. They’re smokeshows. You get to spend private time with amazingly sexy folks, with all the “advantages” that brings.

Beyond the obvious upsides of simply booking a provider, your date can give you useful tips about the city. If you’re travelling here for work and are staying near Union station, you might be tempted just to stay in that neighbourhood. After all, there are decent restaurants and attractions out that way. But if you really want to see the cool spots in Toronto, you’ll need to venture out to other districts. A companion can help you with that.

If you want to book a companion to accompany you throughout your visit, you’ll have an amazing time. It’s really the dream girlfriend experience. There’s something about waking up together and spending the perfect day together that bonds the both of you. When clients take me out to dinner or on trips I feel like we get to know each other so deeply.

If you’re visiting Toronto you’ll want to catch a theatre show, a sports game, or a concert. Why go alone, when you could go with an amazingly hot sidekick? Now you’re not just checking items of your “to-see list” in Toronto, you’re creating memories that will last a lifetime.

Why I’m An Ideal Companion

My ideal archetype is “girl you meet in the bookstore who gives you fuck-me eyes and is wearing burgundy velvet and black lace somewhere on her body.”

My personality is pretty chill. I’m naturally a quiet person, but I have a very dry, dirty wit once you get to know me.

Best Duration To Enjoy Toronto Together

Hmm, that’s a tough one. I do love me a dinner date, so I’d say 4-6 hours is best for that. Whatever duration gives us enough time for a couple glasses of wine, I’m all for.

Can We Extend Our Date Beyond Toronto?

Yes! Canada is worth seeing from coast to coast. Make sure you check out Montreal, and some of the more natural areas of Quebec with beautiful lakes and wildlife. Go to the east coast and take a chill weekend with salty ocean air. Go to Calgary and ski (if that’s your thing) or just marvel at how beautiful the mountains are. Go to British Columbia and check out the west coast vibe.

I’d also suggest the northern part of Canada, like Yellowknife. Yellowknife was probably my favourite trip in Canada. Canada is so massive and impressive, and it was so cool (no pun intended) to be so far north.

Ways To Be My Favorite Client

By booking a multi-hour date, providing all the booking info in a concise, organized way, and by being charming and respectful during the date. Respect is the big one. I can basically enjoy being with anyone. Everybody has interesting characteristics and viewpoints.

A client who isn’t respectful, however, is one I have to watch out for. I’m constantly on my guard because I know they’re going to try and breach a boundary, or treat me like I’m not actually a human being. A client who’s respectful, on the other hand, is someone I can let myself go with. And isn’t that what it’s all about?

I’m Serena Paxton, a tall, auburn companion with a dancer’s body and a sinner’s mind. With undeniable assets and a sparkling wit, I’ll rev you up and then help you unwind. Let’s have a great time and leave the memories in our bed sheets.

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June 18, 2020
Ways The Escorting Industry Can Improve

I feel quite passionately towards sex work. It is something I look upon as a great privilege for both him and I or her and her/him and him. To be able to provide such an intimate service for another person, to me, it is something to be greatly respected. As a natural historian, I have sort to explore the origins of stigma around sex work and can certainly see why it is such a struggle to accept sex work these days as something beautiful rather than ugly.

The problem is, these old and ingrained rumors of sex work have made my profession almost completely void from the truth of its true purpose. To provide love. Or if that is too much to swallow, to provide a Quality Human Connection.

Challenges Facing Sex Workers Today

Fear! Hands down, fear of speaking up, fear of speaking up amongst the community of other businesses. We can’t have normal business conversations from a business operations perspective because we still aren’t allowed to talk openly and frankly about our business. This means we face greater challenges of being able to evolve or develop healthier business attitudes and leadership toward and in our industry.

We cannot openly participate in business development forums, workshops, proper advertising and general development of healthy business structures. That means we remain an incredibly vulnerable market, a market mostly full of woman. It allows stigma to be further etched into our collective thoughts and feelings, causing us to remain fearful of doing something as simple as asserting a basic human right like safety in fear of the repercussions (can’t spell that one).

A great example of this is Covid-19 business restrictions. Though we live in a fantastic country where we are decriminalised, our industry has had ZERO LEADERSHIP from any formal body including its own sex working collective on how we are to operate safely in our different alert levels. This is simply tragic and unnecessary. This could cause a serious health risk to a massive task that all of NZ undertook to remain COVID free.

What It Takes For The Industry To Improve

This industry must take itself seriously and stop waiting for others to take us seriously if we are to improve. We can improve greatly by simply raising our own standards first, role model the high standard in which we would like to be seen in by others and take it from there. It will take a shift in attitude and perspective, and is going to take courage but we can do it.

From this, other forms of development in our industry will evolve organically such as workshops, being able to be part of proper business training and management. These are all things that I can offer as a trained and qualified mentor, social worker and life coach. Also regular meetings, changes in legislation and policy, stronger and more transparent relationship building between us, our stakeholders and our communities will start to happen if we put ourselves forward.

I understand it is scary to step up and be seen in an industry where we feel we have to hide, but it is having the opposite impact, it is keeping us vulnerable, not safe. WE have to step forward and be heard and seen.

Misconceptions About Physical Appearances Of Sex Workers

I personally believe there is. My belief was that I needed to be young, good looking, slim and prepared to have sex with anyone. That was my belief when I entered, I have heard this has been a similar belief for others and not like this at all for other people. Overall, I experience there being a lot of misconceptions about who we are and what we actually do

What Can Be Done For Sex Workers To Feel Confident?

A lot, that could be a documentary in itself, it’s a deep and complex matter. I always say start with yourself, “be the change you want to see happening” I genuinely live by that. Sex workers themselves need to take themselves seriously and stop waiting for a miracle out there to happen, it’s not going to happen, we have to pave the way and be strong about that.

We call the shots, not them, not ever. Our bodies, our work, our thoughts our lives our expertise, we are the source of knowledge and expertise.

How I See The Industry Evolving In The Coming Years

At this rate, painfully slowly and much at all but at the same time I do see attitudes slowly changing and governments being more open in some places to the idea of legitimizing sex work. I would like to see more leadership coming together with other leadership in a way that is seen, transparent and effective for us as a whole.

I do also see the industry gaining momentum with individual independent workers which I feel is giving birth to a new and more modern wave of sex workers who are more vocal about their right to work as a sex worker.

Bella Petite – I’m a deep thinker and often find myself-looking at the big picture. I enthusiastically believe in raising the bar. My desire is for you, the client, to confidently know without hesitation you are employing my services with the same level of trust, quality and professional etiquette and accountability you would expect from any other highly successful business.

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June 16, 2020
What It’s Like To Be An Escort In Germany

Becoming an escort was not a decision based on just one reason. Of course it gives me more financial freedom and I have enough time to study sociology and gender studies, to take care of my three dogs and enjoy my private life. But if money would be the only reason, I would not do it very long with so much passion. I love that, with every date I have a new opportunity being the perfect companion and I can create a connection with this person. I always liked about sex that it makes men honest in a special way. In my experience men mostly show their pure self completely being in the moment through erotic intimate moments. Probably it is hard to play a role when most of your blood is centered between your legs. Therefore, already before being an escort I loved to have sex with different men to get to know them in all facets.

I like to find a unique way to create a connection with every single customer. Humans generally want to feel safe and loved. To be able to give someone this feeling that he can open up himself in my company is something I really enjoy. As an escort, I have a safe space where I can enjoy erotic and intimate connections for the time I am booked. Nobody gets hurt because of potential expectations for the time afterwards and one top I get paid for a shared amazing date experience.

When I started as an escort, I didn’t tell my friends and family about it or asked for their advice. I knew they would love me no matter what as long as I am happy. So I knew they would also worry about me and based on prejudice probably try to change my decision. After around one year as an escort, I had already told my best friends about it and I figured out that I didn’t want to hide a big part of my life for the next years from my friends and family. Now I have a much deeper and more honest relationship to my family and they support me to be happy and accept my choices. I tell them everything and support them. I enjoy support and love from all my friends and family and it has been the best decision to be honest and stand behind my choices.

What Made Me Decide To Escort

I started escorting in the end of 2016. Even if it is legal in Germany, there are still a lot of negative prejudice about this industry. Nevertheless, to be an escort somehow has always been attractive in my imagination. I tended to be less attracted by the ideal of a monogamous relationship leading into marriage, a house and two kids. On the contrary, I have been attracted by the experience of creating a connection with another person. I wanted to explore the unique and special chemistry each relationship is built on.

Therefore, I enjoyed to date a lot of different people over different time periods. Every time I thought about working as an escort. I was fascinated by the idea but scared about the negative consequences for my social life. So it took me some time and I needed to live one my own for a while till I was brave enough to face my responsibility of doing what feels right for myself. When I then thought about which work could suit my passion, escorting felt like the right answer and it still does!

What It Is Like Being An Escort In Germany

The biggest difference to many other countries like the US is probably that in Germany, escorting is a legal profession. When you work as an escort, you have to get the required papers at the city office and you have to pay taxes as in every other legal business. Even if in Germany, the content of the prostitution law takes place in many critical discussions, there is at least a law that provides the rights of legal work. Anyway, sex work in general has to deal with many negative prejudice. Therefore, to avoid social exclusion, many sex workers keep their job a secret.

In Germany, it is more common for an escort to work with an agency than independently. Respectively, many agency websites can be found on the internet. Still, as in every other industry, you have to figure out which one fits best for your priorities. The good ones provide many detailed information on their websites.

Being An Independent Escort vs Working For An Agency

I started with an agency and now I work more and more as an independent escort as well. In general, I think it is a matter of lifestyle for everyone, whether working with an agency or alone is the better way. It is a matter of priority and time. For some, escorting is just a side job, for others it is a full time work with the character of even a life choice. As an independent, you have to do all the work and organization around your online representation and your dates on your own. You make every decision so you are the one who is responsible.

An agency offers you to work with someone who knows the industry and can give you advice and support. The agency organizes everything for you like screening your clients, the communication and your marketing. Therefore, the agency charges a provision for every organized date. As an independent escort, you keep your full fee from every date but you have to invest as well in your website, in your advertising and what else is needed to support your business. If you want to decide everything yourself and above that you have enough time to do all the work yourself, you might not need an agency.

To work with an agency basically means to outsource some work and pay them for their service. In this case still, you should compare the different agencies to see if find you one that suits you before you make a choice. A good agency works together with you and the work is based on respect and trust from both sides.

Things That The Escorting Industry Can Improve On

The escort industry in Germany is just one part of the sex work industry. In general, I wish as a first step, that all countries would decriminalize the whole industry. The law should define sex work as legal work in a way which respects and protects all sex workers as a part of the society. A law just issued control will not change the social acceptance. That’s why in Germany, there are still social stigmata and many negative prejudice.

For me, this was the reason I didn’t tell anyone in the beginning about my profession. When you do it just for a while it might work but I think that hiding a part of your life from everybody costs as much energy and can hurt yourself a lot. The worst experience I made as an escort has been the feeling of a growing distance towards my friends, family and my private life. I loved escorting as a part of my life but I lived a life pretending escorting wouldn’t be a part of it.

The decision to change that has affected my life in many positive ways. I wish everybody in this industry that they don’t have to struggle because of hiding their job.

Considerations Before You Become An Escort

As pointed out, I do have many positive feelings about being escort and I collect many positive experiences. However, there are not only nice people out there. Some want to take advantage of you, some might not accept your boundaries. You should be certain of what you want and what your boundaries are as well as how you can assure they’re kept. You should know how to screen your clients before dates and make sure you know what kind of a person your client is.

Moreover, a safe meeting place is crucial. You need to decide whether you want to start as an independent or with an agency. Find a way to get support and the knowledge you need. Find an agency to work with or other sex workers to support you and give you advice. You should consider as well how you can manage to integrate the job into your life and combine it with your private life, and last but not not least, how you can keep the two of them separated from each other.

Irina Le Fey – I am a cute, high energy, open minded girl from Germany. I love hiking in the wild nature and dating to explore human culture. Meet me as your little island to escape the ocean of daily life.

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May 25, 2020
Sharing My Sex Work Experiences

As far as I can remember, I’ve always been intrigued by sex work. It started when I found some erotic magazines of my dad, followed by seeing strippers or escorts in movies. After that, watching my first porno. But what really intrigued me was when I first met my first professional escort. I had to know more! I was raised with a really open mom, she explained sex to me a little earlier than most (was living with my single dad at the time so it seemed fit).

I feel that I always been curious about sexuality, so when I first met that girl I already had quite a lot of experience and it seemed like a good way to help me through schools, little that I know, I am still doing it even if I am done with school. Sex work is a place where I can be my real self sexually. Only thing I really hate about this job is all the stigma and normality of girls getting in bad situation as if they deserve it. We are all humans and most of the ladies I know in the industry are good person.

Remembering My First Client Experience

I remember like it was yesterday, I feel it’s something you never forget. At the time, I was lucky enough to work with an agency that cared about us. She made sure my first client was a good client, he ended up being a regular of mine afterwards until I moved out of Quebec City. For the purpose of this interview, let’s call him Mike.

I was so nervous to see him since I didn’t know what to expect at all. I met him in a motel around 9pm. When Mike opened the door I could see he was about 30-35 , and he looked a little bit nervous. With time I found out he was not really nervous but it’s just how he is. Talks extremely fast and seems anxious all the time. We talked a little bit at the beginning and then proceeded to the main action. I can still taste the mix of mouthwash and cigarette in his mouth. All I can say is he respected all my boundaries and didn’t push me around to do anything.

How My Experiences Have Generally Been

In general, most of my experiences were positive with the agency and since I started to be independent. I had a couple of bad ones here and there while I was learning the ropes of the industry but most of it was good. Only really bad experience would be that I got robbed on my first tour in Vancouver. At the time I didn’t know about references, screening process or asking for a deposit. I was lucky enough to not have too much money with me and that he didn’t hurt me too much.

What Constitutes A Good Experience To Me

I feel that what I would consider a good experience is when there is chemistry with both of you and the person understand and respect all your boundaries. As much as I do enjoy a dinner date or travel, this doesn’t mean it will be a good experience… some of my best times were seeing someone for about two hours since it leaves us time to get to know each other a little bit more and make the “stress” go away.

I won’t lie about the fact that I do enjoy being treated like the goddess that I am, so a good diner with good drinks never hurts… A little gift here and there as well.

Have You Had Any Unfortunate Experiences?

As mentioned earlier, I did get robbed once. Also I did encounter some drunk and hard drug users when I tried working late nights. I had a guy also when I first started with the agency I was with that tried to take the condom off while I wasn’t facing him, luckily I caught him in time. He was banned afterwards from the agency.

Now that I know more about all the screening process, I haven’t had any bad experience. It is not a 100% sure deal while screening but prevents a lot of bad encounter. Asking for a deposit as well helps weed out the robbers and time wasters.

Advice For New Sex Workers

Don’t stress yourself out, at the beginning we all make mistakes and probably don’t know exactly what we are doing. But I really believe screening really helps. Also, don’t be shy to ask others for tips when you begin. I know some other SW aren’t too keen about giving help on how to or give tips but a lot are really helpful when they know you are beginning.

I personally encourage you to contact me on Twitter if ever you have any questions. Last thing, don’t follow the exact same steps as someone else, we all have a different style and approach, find out what works for you the best.

Bonnie – 25 year old French courtesan based out Edmonton, Canada. Tour sometimes and open To FMTY. Started in the industry at 19 with some pauses in between until today.

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May 17, 2020