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  • How To Explore & Enjoy Taboo Role Play Fantasies With An Escort

    How To Explore & Enjoy Taboo Role Play Fantasies With An Escort

    SimplySxy has the pleasure of featuring Pure Lily from London, a premier escort who specialises in taboo role play. Read on as we find out what taboo role play is all about, how to make them realistic and why Pure Lily is the perfect companion for you to explore with!

    What Are Your Views Towards Kink?

    Well, I’m really in awe of kink because I think it looks to be very welcoming to everyone, well at least in a perfect world it would be. I think in kink, you could be having such different kinks and kink events are so open minded! 

    What Is Taboo Roleplay Fantasy All About?

    Taboo is whatever is seen forbidden/prohibited in each culture, country, religion, by customs. Taboo in sexual life as we know it from the Bible, ethnology could be adultery, incest, etc. So, here we would have ‘cheating wife fetish’ and other fantasies. 

    When have I started exploring it? I wouldn’t even know it? Whenever I started exploring my sexuality and I will tell you I was a late bloomer, haha. 

    Why I Love Taboo Roleplay

    I think when asking people why they have particular tendencies, it is good to ask for them to explain it but I also find it sometimes frustrating, because usually it just clicks for you from some long time ago and it just does for you – makes you hard or makes you wet and that’s it. Why do I love it? Because it’s hot, haha. 

    I could tell you what is popular in my expertise, what people choose to explore with me and as well, it’s because I do advertise it. Such scenarios like (step) brother-sister action, as well as uncle/step-daughter, also some other forbidden acts such as r*pe play and sleep assault play and I can tell you, in such role play it’s never too rough, or rough at all.

    Of course, role play comes with action, but mostly it is about words, about interaction. In sleep assault, I would say it’s mostly about ignoring, letting clients to explore their fantasies, but obviously everything is done very safely, I rarely let clients bound me, never use an eyemask and for things such as sleep assault, I always check if protection is in tact.

    Another taboo roleplay could be about power positions such as the headmaster forces to do something after school or perhaps your boss wants to take advantage, it can be just because or because your grades are low/you stole from work, etc. Maybe even daddy/daughter where daddy wants you to explore sexuality, maybe he brings some of his friends in his office and tells you what to do. Or a teen coming for a gynaecologist visit… 

    Misconceptions About Taboo Roleplays

    I would say probably one of them is that taboo roleplay fantasies equals ageplay, but in role play scenarios, there can be so many different scenarios and variations about it. 

    Making Taboo Roleplays Realistic

    As I mentioned before, yes outfits do help, and I myself have more clothing fetish and have at least three drawers of a variety of outfits. One thing I haven’t mentioned before, I do cater for adult babies/diaper lovers, for bottoming and topping and switching. I have a few diapers, baby bottles, etc.

    For schoolgirl, daddy dom/little girl role play I have coloring books, gingham dresses, I also have such things as crop tops and frilly socks, which could be more of a babysitter teen vibe of outfit for such taboo role play. I have a genuine schoolgirl outfit, all my outfits are just genuine pieces, it’s not a sexy schoolgirl/nurse outfit from sex shop.

    But really, it’s all about words, scripts, actions, interactions. It’s weird because I have never been in any drama class but now I think I’m such a good actress. 

    Tips For Beginners Into Taboo Roleplay

    I would say do and don’t make elaborate plots in your mind because reality can be very different. For me, I would just ask what’s my character in the role play – is it slutty schoolgirl, or perhaps naive and shy girl next door.

    And then we would get to roleplay which in the beginning could be more scripted but later it should just go by two or more people’s flow. 
    Anyways, if any taboo role play is making you hard/wet when you are reading about it, it means it’s your thing and go try it at least once in your life 🙂 

    Pure Lily – London’s premier Submissive Escort, Kinky Taboo Role Play companion. Independent London (UK) based Fetish Escort offering ageplay, dd/lg & kinky GF experiences. Redhead darling & cute as button companion for Dinner Dates & Travel Companionship. Some Asia, Middle East, Europe tours from 2022.

    Follow Lily on

    Website: https://www.purelilylondon.com/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/PureLilyLondon

    Email for bookings: daterequestpurelily@gmail.com

    Paid private members page with role play video clip store: https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/179465/pure-lily-taboo

    Tour info: Singapore & Hong Kong short tour 2022 end of September.
    Then based in London, UK, available for FMTY

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  • A Good Way To Get To Know Paris At Night Is To Contact An Escort Girl

    A Good Way To Get To Know Paris At Night Is To Contact An Escort Girl

    There’s no better way to get to know a city like Paris than by visiting it with someone who lives there. That’s why anyone’s best bet is always going to be hiring a Parisian escort to show them around. These women have been in every club and walked down every street. They’ve tasted the finest cuisine that the city has to offer and visited every attraction. In fact, any escort that you can find on a site like Panamescorte.com will know the ins and out better than any travel agency ever could.

    Escorts get preferential treatment

    On top of knowing the best places to visit, these women are almost certainly regulars of the best places in the city. That means they know the people who work there and have relationships with them. Having an escort who knows the doorman at an exclusive club is almost always the best way to make sure you get into it. She’s been there many times before and get you through the security on her personality alone. She’s practically a pass to all of the excitement you’ve always wanted to experience.

    They know which places are overrated

    There’s nothing worse than visiting a place that you’ve heard great things about only to find out that it doesn’t meet your expectations. You’ve been looking forward to a place for a very long time and, once you get there, you’re simply let down. That’s where your escort comes into play. She’s already been to these places. That means that she’s going to know which ones are actually good and which ones are a waste of your time. If you ask her for advice on where to visit, you can be certain to get an educated recommendation from her.

    She’s happy to have real fun in public

    Of course, what you have to realize is that you’re enjoying the city with a paid sex worker. That opens up a whole new realm of opportunities to you. You don’t have to limit yourself to what the location has to offer you. You can sneak away at any time that you want for an adult experience in the middle of the fun. Just imagine being at the finest club the city has to offer, only to duck away into a private room for an oral sex session that leaves you smiling for the rest of the night.

    She’ll always look great on your arm

    Aside from being able to show you the most fun that you can have in Paris, your escort is always going to look beautiful on your arm. You’ll be able to hold your head high knowing that you’re with the most gorgeous woman in the area and everyone wants to be in your shoes at that moment. You’ll want to spend as much time as you possibly can out in public with her just so everyone can see how amazing she looks with you.

    Find an escort now

    You can find an escort any time that you want to. Whenever you want to head out for a night in Paris, you can find an escort to guide you through it and make sure that you find the very best places to visit with her. She’ll know all of the hottest locations and let you experience the city in the very best way possible. Find an escort today and you’ll be able enjoy more of Paris than you ever thought possible. One night is all it takes to fall in love with it.

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  • Women Who Use ‘Gentlemen For Hire’

    Women Who Use ‘Gentlemen For Hire’

    Consciously or subconsciously, everyone seeks a little comfort in another person.

    Sometimes, these ‘other people’ aren’t readily available when we need them the most, and that’s where gentlemen for hire or escorts, as they’re more popularly known, come in for women. Having the ability to fit into whatever role you desire them to play, they’re a lot more important than most people think.

    Who Exactly Are Gentlemen For Hire?

    Also known as escorts, gentlemen for hire are often mistaken as sex workers due to the stigma around the job. But they aren’t.

    Who are they then?

    Gentlemen for hire are good-looking, physically fit, and intellectually sound men who have jobs as professional companions. Dinner dates? Company for social events? Mind-blowing conversations? Non-sexual intimacy? Casual company?  They’ve got it all, and that’s why women who know what they want and aren’t afraid to get it employ their services.

    Why Do Women Hire Male Escorts?

    There is usually a lot of controversy surrounding women employing escorts and people keep wondering what the catch is. Why do they do it?

    While it’s necessarily not in anyone’s place to critique the actions of grown women, there are several reasons why women book gentlemen for hire.

    Control

    When we say control, we don’t mean the less than appealing kind or even BDSM, that’s a personal choice. We meant having control over who you invite into your space or life.

    Some women have control reasons for wanting sexy strangers to be their ‘shoulder to lean on’ when they need one instead of the men around them.

    With Gentlemen For Hire, you decide who you want, what you want them for, why you want them and even where you want them.

    It’s all in your hands. It doesn’t come with the uncomfortable feeling of having strings attached or bothering someone who doesn’t want to be bothered.

    It’s all on a contract basis.

    Whether you want them for purely casual hangout reasons or even more intimate ones like romantic dates, it’s your decision to hire and their choice to get hired.

    Nothing is sexier than a woman who knows what she wants!

    Companionship

    Yes, women can get lonely. Even in a room full of people, loneliness can still creep in. In situations like this, women can get a gentleman for hire to fill the void, provide great company and conversation.

    Women who love to experience the joys of companionship and beautiful platonic friendships love to use the escort service because it’s easier and a sure guarantee. When you call them, they’ll definitely be available for you. No disappointments and definitely no delays!

    Safety

    A quick trip to the bar would probably help a woman pick up company for Friday night, and while that seems cool, there are always safety concerns.

    What if he’s a serial killer? Or a rapist? Or even a trafficker? You can never tell, and that’s what makes bar pick-ups and take-homes pretty much less enticing to some women.

    With gentlemen for hire, you can be sure of who you’re bringing into your home or going out with since they are usually checked, trained, and registered. With a service like gentlemen4hire, you can be sure of your safety, privacy, and the confidentiality of your information since their escorts are usually well-vetted and trained in the art of pleasing clients and making sure they have a great time.

    If you were worried this might not be legal, it’s time to stop worrying because escort services are fully legal.

    Meeting New People

    Some women just want to have fun and meet new people. It can be an exciting adventure for most women.

    Getting to know someone new and just chilling without the added pressure of sustaining the relationship beyond that point can be awesome. It helps you to be less guarded and more open to interesting conversations you normally wouldn’t have with those you know deeply.

    Having no expectations can actually do wonders and help you relieve stress or emotional troubles. You get to unpack without any pressure to be perfect or hide since you probably wouldn’t see them again after that time.

    Some women want this emotional security and wouldn’t mind paying for it nicely!

    Official Purposes

    While most of the reasons we’ve explored bother on personal wants, some women hire escorts purely for official work-related reasons.

    Some of these could be needing a last-minute date to an office party or event, a meeting where a plus-one is compulsory, or even as dates to a school reunion party. Nobody wants to be the single and sad classmate or co-worker who doesn’t bring anyone to the party.

    If there’s no one in a woman’s life who can fit these roles, then escorts are the perfect choice to make a fantastic impression.

    Women and their escorts or ‘Gentlemen For Hire’ usually have mutual contracts or agreements they work by that keeps the whole arrangement in check.

    Anyone can have a good time, be confident and go get what you want!

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  • What It’s Like To Be A Fetish Producer

    What It’s Like To Be A Fetish Producer

    I’ve always had a complicated relationship with sex, but I don’t think I am abnormal in that respect. I know that I find it difficult to climax and yet I am almost always aroused. It’s quite frustrating sometimes. But looking back, I think this has made me a better escort and a better fetish model. I feel quite relaxed with other peoples (mostly guys) kinks. Even the strangest requests do not really freak me out. I don’t think I’m jaded. I am still very young. But I am tolerant of deviancy. To me, being a pervert is normal and most importantly honest.

    So I guess you could say that my sexual desire and appetite and fulfilment is achieved through another person. I’m like an orgasm cuckoo haha. But, that’s not to say that I am selfish in the bed at all. Now that I think about it, it’s quite odd. I don’t have personal relationships with boyfriends etc, I am in a relationship with my kink. That kink is deviancy. Mm…not sure if you can understand that? I am a work in progress 🙂

    How I Started Producing Fetish Content

    I met my favourite producers Benson Media who I think are unique in the adult industry. The founder Simon Benson has been in the industry for 20 years and is a famous BDSM illustrator. I saw some of his drawings when I was much younger and they stirred something inside. Many years later when we met, I was so in awe. And yet, he and his company are very down to earth. I guess they took me under their wing and I was allowed to discover and understand more about my kinky side.

    I was shown that my kinky side is the real me and nothing to be ashamed of. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t spend 24/7 in a mist of latex and leather. But I certainly feel relaxed about my perverse thoughts. We co-produce my Onlyfans and launched my own porn website cherrythedoll.com which I consider ‘my place’ where all my inner fantasies can be played out for others to enjoy 🙂

    We launched Cherrythedoll during lockdown so it was quite intense being locked in with a director, shooting every day but I loved every minute of it. I would love to live in a fetish bubble, like a walled compound of sorts haha!

    Favorite Content Produced So Far

    My website has 5 themes –  Cute, Fetish, Toys, The Doll and POV. These are the four main fetishes I am interested in. The fifth, ‘Fetish’ is a catch all. My favourite of all these themes is ‘The Doll’. It’s dark, creepy and I guess it has all my fantasies intertwined. It has a loose linear storyline, so it’s exciting to see in what direction it will go.

    The scripts are written by Simon Benson so they are quite twisted and creepy – in a sexy cool way. The Doll has DDlg / ageplay themes. So it’s taboo and controversial. But I think viewers should understand that this content truly represents my thoughts and fantasies. It’s definitely not victim driven or anything that seeks to promote anything unlawful.

    What’s The Process Of Creating A Video Like?

    Firstly, we discuss the script. The script is important as I have to give some kind of performance. Then we look at props. Props are important as they set the tone for the scene. For example, we filmed a scene with a creepy dolls head with a rubber dildo attached. It was quite a weird looking object in itself. Obviously the entire scene was dominated by this prop, it created energy and kind of drove the action within the scene. Simon made the ‘dildo doll’ himself haha!

    We shoot on a main camera and a b-camera. We shoot ProRes on a Blackmagic using 16mm cine primes which gives a nice filmic look and usually the b-camera is a GH4 or a GoPro. Sound is captured off camera. Benson Media handle all the post production – thank god!! It’s a lot of editing time 🙂 I much prefer to play with my doggy and PS4 instead haha!

    Being Open To Exploring My Kink

    I have no boundaries. There are some things I don’t do on camera for legal reasons. But I spend a lot of time in Japan where most things I am interested in are acceptable as long as you exercise discretion. It’s a bit of a cliche, but your sex life is a journey. It twists and turns throughout your life. So why not go with your feelings?

    Cherry English – Fetish Model, International Companion and Maiko

    Follow Cherry on

    Website: https://www.cherrythedoll.com

    https://www.petgirls.com (Official Mascot)

    Social Media:

    onlyfans.com/cherryenglish18

    https://fetlife.com/users/2723616 (usr: cherryenglish18)

    Twitter: Twitter.com/cherryenglish18

    Tours:

    New York January 2021

    Tokyo March 2021

    London March 2021

    Images from Cherry English

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  • How To Satisfy A Lady Through Oral Sex

    How To Satisfy A Lady Through Oral Sex

    Being a male sex worker for women – I love sex.  It is – and should be – a fun way to explore and experience your body and your partner’s.  It shouldn’t be a source of shame.  It should be a way to grow as a person

    Why I Love Giving Oral Sex

    I love giving oral sex just for the experience itself, but also to be able to do something that a woman enjoys and is just about her.  I like feeling her respond and finding what works for her best and hopefully helping her to reach orgasm.

    Are There Men Who Don’t Enjoy Going Down?

    Most women tell me that the men they have been with, short and long term, simply aren’t interested in giving oral sex, or actively don’t like to do it – or in some cases are just really bad at it.  Despite a lot of progress in the last several decades, there are a lot of men who still feel no pressure (by example, education, or even porn) to give their partner oral. 

    Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky (to some degree) made men receiving blowjobs from women more acceptable.  Perhaps we need an equivalent political scandal to let everyone know that it’s ok (actually good) to give women oral too…

    John Oh

    What Do Women Want?

    Every woman is different in what she wants.  Some women are *really* sensitive.  Some women aren’t.  Some women like intense oral.  Some don’t.  Some women like deep G-spot stimulation with fingers, or a toy.  Some don’t. 

    You need to ask her what she likes and wants and listen when she tells you – even (especially?) if she says “I don’t know“.  Biggest mistakes that men make: not asking/listening, being in a rush (to do other things), putting too much pressure on their partner to have an orgasm (plenty of women love oral even if they don’t orgasm from it).

    Ways To Kink Up Oral Sex

    There are plenty – but before you do anything that pushes boundaries, you need to ask for and get consent from your partner and make sure you continue to do so during play.  It could include: anal play, which most women enjoy *if* they are introduced to it responsibly and consensual (and with plenty of lube). 

    You can also just add any other kinky play you can think of, like restraint, spreader bars, voyeurism – whatever works for you and your partner.

    I am John Oh, a straight male sex worker for women.  I live and work in Sydney, Australia and have been a male sex worker for women since 2010.  I offer everything from virtual online experiences (text and email chat and video), to in person bookings (from an hour or two, to overnight, to multi day bookings), to interstate and overseas travel (pandemics permitting).  I am in my late forties, tall and medium of build.  I’m Australian born and university educated.

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    Website: https://john-oh-escort.com

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  • What Can Ladies Expect A Date With A Male Escort To Be?

    What Can Ladies Expect A Date With A Male Escort To Be?

    I love being an escort! I’ve been lucky enough to have met some amazing clients and enjoyed some incredible experiences in this job. Hiring an escort is a great way to engage in physical intimacy in a safe manner without the hassle of picking up a complete stranger or having an unwanted emotional situation develop with a sex partner.

    What Makes Me An Ideal Male Companion

    I have a positive, outgoing personality. I really enjoy meeting new people, getting to know them and seeing life from their perspective. I’m an active listener, chatty and cheeky. I have a wide breadth of knowledge on most subjects so I can relate very easily to almost anyone. I’m also confident in any situation which makes me a great companion at events or in the bedroom.

    Reasons Ladies Seek Male Companionship

    Generally, the clients I see are recently divorced or separated and need help rediscovering their confidence and sexuality. Women in high pressure jobs who are time poor and don’t care for a relationship. They know exactly what they want and are happy to pay for it.

    Some clients are couples who wish to flesh out a specific fantasy of theirs with an unrelated third party that won’t interfere in their relationship. Occasionally, I’ll be just a platonic companion or plus one at an event. One client that was a virgin and thought an escort would be a great way to lose her virginity.

    Common Misconceptions Of Male Companions

    That we’ll do anything for money. I have boundaries that are non negotiable, regardless of any amount.

    That we’re unclean. Hygiene is very important to me and as such, I practice safe sex at all times and get tested regularly.

    Also, that we’re all party boys. I don’t drink, smoke or take drugs and really enjoy keeping myself fit, healthy and focused on my goals.

    Tips For An Enjoyable Time Together

    Expect to be the focus of all my attention. We can chat and get to know each other first. Then, share a kiss and move things to the bedroom. Apart from that, just shower, groom and dress in your cutest outfit! I’ll take care of the rest and make our experience one you won’t forget.

    Hope to see you soon.

    My name is Andrew. I’m an athletic 35 year old male that enjoys meeting new people. I am a naturally curious person which makes me a great listener, enthusiastic companion and confident conversationalist at social events. I believe in balance in all things and train in weights, mid distance running and yoga. I also enjoy playing guitar and riding motorcycles. I have strong hands, possess a great sense of humour, a humble nature and a warm smile. My goal is to make you feel amazing, sexy and wanted.

    Follow Andrew on

    Twitter: @EscortAndrewH

    Websites:

    https://www.brisbane-male-escorts.com/male-escort/premium-male-escort-andrew/

    https://https://scarletblue.com.au/male-escort/andrew-h?city=Brisbane

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  • The Stigma Of Sex Work Part II – How It Compromises Sex Workers

    The Stigma Of Sex Work Part II – How It Compromises Sex Workers

    The vast number of people I see and speak to are very respectful and they appreciate the time I give them. There are people that feel they have a right to waste our time, maybe because they don’t feel sex workers should be respected; they will ask for you to send free pictures or videos, as if it is our job to encourage their business by giving them free services. I usually ask them, “would you go to work if your boss wasn’t going to pay you? So why should I?” There can also be complete disrespect for your work/life balance as they feel you must work 24/7.

    I have a very strict boundary around my work and my personal life and my work does not happen at my home. If I had £1 for every time someone asked if I could do a video call in the bathroom whilst I’m at home with my family, I’d be a millionaire!!

    There is also the nastier side to the stigma around sex workers, that make some people feel like they have paid for us so our body are theirs to use as they wish, regardless of our own personal boundaries and limits. I am very fortunate that I have never seen anyone like this and I truly feel that organisations like Client Eye and National Ugly Mugs help identify these individuals and ensure escorts have a better understanding of the people they will potentially meet, but I am aware that not all sex workers have been as lucky as me.

    It is not just clients we have to be cautious of. The police are also a cause for concern. These are the people who are supposed to protect every citizen, the people I pay my taxes to ensure they are defending our streets. There should not be bias or prejudice and yet some of them are.

    In 2013, 25 premises in Soho, London were raided by the Police. The police invited members of the media to take pictures and document the raids. It was stated that the raids were to look for stolen goods, drug dealing and to tackle trafficking but sex workers were removed from their flats, some dragged out half naked into the street and arrested. Their money and possessions were confiscated by the police. This was all done to ‘save’ the sex workers from this life but the way they were treated was disgusting. Any migrant sex worker was turned over to the UK Border Agency under the assumption that they were victims of trafficking.

    Many of the sex workers stated that they were not being forced to work, but were handed over regardless. The officers during this raid did not care about the safety of these women or the effect it would have on their personal lives. The media and the general public who posted pictures of these women online didn’t care for their safety or the effect it would have on their personal lives. Sex work is legal in the UK. There are elements that aren’t, such as no more than one sex worker in the same property. There was no evidence that any of the women from the raids were in that situation yet they were all treated as criminals.

    When the people that are in the position of holding up the law, treats sex workers like vermin and allow the press to be part of it, how can we possibly break down the walls of stigma and prejudice.

    Is This Situation Due To A Lack Of Education Or Ignorance?

    I think it’s both. Generations have looked down on sex workers. Families have educated and continued to embed these same false stereotypes to their children but thankfully, the current young generation are questioning all they are being taught and as a result have become more open, liberal and accepting, to the groups of people that for generations, have been tarnished with these stigmas and stereotypes. The young are starting to make change possible.

    Mainstream media does not help at all. Just a few months ago, there was a show broadcast in the UK that had me screaming at my TV because they portrayed the sex workers in the show in a very negative light. I believe they wanted the nation to think all sex workers are ‘broken’ but that isn’t the case. Sex work empowers both men and women to take control of their sexuality. This work has empowered me and so many others; so many sex workers choose this profession over regular jobs. I have never been as enthusiastic and passionate about any other job than I am about my work right now.

    How Can These Stigma Be Removed Or Reduced?

    Why do newspapers, TV, media feel that showing sex workers in a negative light is the right way to portray us? I am sure they think that they will encourage a whole generation to become sex workers but that would not be the case. The same way that I could not be a carer in a nursing home wiping faeces from pensioners arseholes, is the same way not every person could be a sex worker. It takes a special kind of person and it’s not for everyone.

    I know there are many men and women in the sex industry that have had horrific experiences and I don’t wish to disregard what has happened to them and I don’t wish the media to overlook them either but until the media starts showing sex workers from every angle, the good, the bad and including male sex workers, who never seem to get a mention, then people won’t be able to see the full spectrum of sex workers, from street sex workers to high class escorts and everything in between. Every one of us has stories to tell about our experiences, whether positive or negative but we need a non-judgmental, non-biased format to do it. Not a TV company knowing how they want the end production to look like, but an open-minded production that allows the stories of everyone to naturally progress rather than twisting them.

    We live in a world that makes it very difficult to change people’s opinions. Even though society has progressed massively with regards to sex, sexual orientation, gender identity, race and religion, those changes have not been quick and are still nowhere near eradicated. The stigma and stereotyping around sex workers will not disappear over night.

    In all of the cases, to quote the late Whitney Houston, “I believe the children are our future”. They are the ones who will question the bigots and the uneducated. They are the ones who will demolish those walls, but there are many things we can do in the meantime.

    We all need to do our bit to start removing the bricks from those walls. Portray the image that we want for sex workers, demanding the respect we deserve, call-out the media when they are negatively portraying us. We can make a difference, even if it’s only small because if we aren’t willing to fight for the equality we deserve, who else will.

    “Be the change that you wish to see in the world.” – Mahatma Gandhi

    Sadie – I am a sexy, sensual British SSBBW, UK size 32. I’m an escort, a Webcam model and a Content Creator. I am very down to earth and my clients say I’m very easy to talk to and to open up to. My main escort service is GFE (Girlfriend Experience) as I love kissing, touching and caressing and my clients really enjoy that with me. I am also part of the Rose Talks Sex debate team, which you can follow on Twitter @rosetalkssex .

    Follow Sadie on

    Twitter: twitter.com/Sadie_SSBBW

    Fan Baits: fanbaits.com/u/sadiessbbw

    Only Fans: onlyfans.com/sadie-ssbbw

    Everything else can be found on All My Links: allmylinks.com/sadiessbbw

    With COVID, all escorting is on hold but I am working very hard to create more content for online and give my subscribers and buyers what they want. I’m looking into setting up my own website although that will take a while. I am also making contact with other sex workers so that we can collaborate on some work once it is safe to meet up after COVID. So watch this space!!

    Images courtesy of Sadie

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  • The Stigma Of Sex Work Part I

    The Stigma Of Sex Work Part I

    I am an Escort, a Webcam model and a Content Creator and I love my job. I’ve been escorting for nine years now (on and off) and web-camming for almost two years but it’s the last year that I have really been expanding my business and my ‘brand’.

    I love meeting new people, whether that is in person or via webcam and helping them explore their fantasies. I love interacting with people on webcam and the phone. But more than anything, I love helping those people that need the special interaction that only sex and a sex worker can give them. For those people, it isn’t just about sex; it’s about being intimate and close to someone, which is something they don’t get in their personal lives.

    During the COVID pandemic and lockdown, I have not been able to meet clients, so I have turned my focus to online services; webcam sites and uploading videos and pictures onto selling and subscription sites. I have been very aware that so many people need someone to talk to, especially if they are isolating at home alone and I always greet people who come into my chatrooms on the webcam sites as I want everyone to feel welcome, whether they have money to spend or not; it’s a difficult time for everyone at the moment. So many people have thanked me for talking to them. Those who cannot afford to pay for private shows today, might be able to another day.

    With any job, there are parts of it you don’t enjoy; time wasters are a nuisance and some people feel you are there just to talk to them any time of the day or night without any mention of paying for services. I get phone calls from private numbers a lot which can get very annoying; it’s very disrespectful but over time, you develop ways to handle them.

    There’s more admin than most people realise. We don’t have a team of administrators (I wish I did) so every phone call, text message and email can only be replied to by me, and every promotional poster and social media post is created and uploaded by me. I also have my accounts to produce for my tax returns. I wouldn’t want to do any other job though.

    Stigma That Surrounds Sex Work Today

    There are many people that are completely fine with sex work and find it all really interesting. There are other people that are fine with the online work but isn’t comfortable about the escorting. Unfortunately, the vast majority of people see it as a negative. They think it’s dirty and seedy and can’t understand why someone would sell themselves. They also believe, all people that seek services from sex workers are grubby, middle-aged men that have no regard for you as a person. In my experience, this has not been the case and these assumptions and stereotypes are incorrect.

    Dehumanising sex workers happens too often. Sex workers are made to feel like they don’t matter or that their lives aren’t important due to narrow-mindedness and people’s morals. The media doesn’t help this by only reporting on the very tragic or the very glamourous sex workers. It feels very apparent that the media doesn’t want to normalise the sex industry.

    Simple things, like opening a business bank account has been very difficult for me. I am registered as self employed with HMRC (Her Majesty’s Revenue and Customs) as an Escort. Escorting in the UK is legal. I had four bank account applications turned down. My credit history is very good. I was not asking for an overdraft or a bank loan; just a bank account in my business name so my clients did not know my real name and keeps me and my family safe. Three bank accounts would not explain why my application was declined. The fourth one was honest enough to tell me that “we cannot support someone in your line of work”. In the end, I seeked advice to ensure I couldn’t get in trouble and applied for a bank account as a beautician. My application was accepted within a few days. Since then, I have moved bank accounts and it is stated on their terms and conditions that you cannot receive any money for sex related work. It is a worry but I need a business account.

    Adult content and web-camming sites have shocked me, as the vast majority of them are very anti-escorting. It is fine for you to sell pornographic material or sell private webcam shows but if they find out you are an escort they can delete your page without warning and in most cases, keep the money you have earned. I didn’t realise how split the adult industry was; some aspects of it is okay yet other aspects aren’t.

    Even in my personal life, stigma is everywhere. My parents don’t want anyone to know what I do because they are embarrassed. They support me the best they can but they would rather I had a “normal” job. My family lie to my grandparents, uncle’s and auntie’s, and in turn, so do I.

    It is the negative connotations and stigma surrounding the job I love, that stops me from shouting from the rooftops that “I’m a sex worker and proud of it”!! This is a career I have chosen but I know my children would have a difficult time through bullying or name calling if locals knew and I don’t want that for them.

    The media love to portray the extreme cases, either the tragedy or the glamorous but there are people like me that sit nicely in the middle that are just as important in this industry. It is only by showing the full spectrum, can people start to understand what our work is like, and hopefully walls can start to be broken down. I can’t help but feel like the media doesn’t want to ‘normalise’ sex work.

    Sadie – I am a sexy, sensual British SSBBW, UK size 32. I’m an escort, a Webcam model and a Content Creator. I am very down to earth and my clients say I’m very easy to talk to and to open up to. My main escort service is GFE (Girlfriend Experience) as I love kissing, touching and caressing and my clients really enjoy that with me. I am also part of the Rose Talks Sex debate team, which you can follow on Twitter @rosetalkssex .

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    With COVID, all escorting is on hold but I am working very hard to create more content for online and give my subscribers and buyers what they want. I’m looking into setting up my own website although that will take a while. I am also making contact with other sex workers so that we can collaborate on some work once it is safe to meet up after COVID. So watch this space!!

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  • Benefits Of Hiring Escort Services

    Benefits Of Hiring Escort Services

    If you’ve never hired an escort, you may be wondering if it’s worth it—it is! Escorts are just like any other working professional. You hire them to do a job, and they do it well.

    What does an escort do? What are the benefits of hiring escort services? At first blush, an escort is simply a professional companion. You can hire one to attend a social function with you or offer conversation, and virtually anything else you’d like in-between, but the benefits of those services far exceed this simple explanation.

    Read on to get a better idea of the benefits of hiring an escort service.

    Enjoy Companionship Without Commitments

    If you don’t want to be in a serious relationship, hiring an escort may be the best option. Unlike a serious relationship that can be complicated and long, connecting with an escort is simple and easy. You can get almost the same benefits of having a girlfriend or boyfriend in a short-term manner without negatively affecting your lifestyle.

    You will enjoy great companionship without the need for exclusivity and responsibility. Just like a relationship, you can also talk to them about anything, including your personal life, if you so choose. They won’t judge you and are excellent conversationalists. Show them the respect they deserve, and they’ll respond in kind.

    Get To Know A Variety Of Interesting Escorts

    Since you’re not committed to one person, you can always choose a new companion if you want to. This aspect can work to your advantage if you often travel to different parts of the country. Many agencies provide escort services in different locations. Simply log in to the website, and you will find a wide range of profiles for professional escorts and models.

    Escort profiles usually include a photo, nicknames, ages, locations, and interests. Browsing through these profiles can help you quickly find the right person to accompany you during your trips, gatherings, and other events.

    Help Maintain Appearances

    For some people, maintaining appearances is essential. This point holds true for many business people who don’t want to be seen alone. Having a beautiful companion by your side helps you make a good impression on your colleagues.

    If you’re looking to maintain appearances, hiring an escort to accompany you during formal and informal gatherings can be the best option. Most companions employed by escort agencies undergo intense screening before they are hired. These agencies have specific standards for professionalism, so you won’t be disappointed when hiring one.

    You can even specify the kinds of clothing you will want your escort to wear if there is a dress code for your event.

    Get A Discreet Plus One

    Speaking of maintaining appearances, with an escort, you don’t have to worry about your business becoming public. Professional escorts are carefully vetted and trained to understand confidentiality laws.

    They make perfect dates for business affairs where there may be sensitive information you don’t want just anyone every hearing, or to attend events you don’t necessarily want your friends and family knowing you attended.

    An escort is even a quick, easy way to appease relatives at those pesky family gatherings if you’re sick of hearing people ask when you’ll find someone nice to settle down with—from weddings to family reunions, your plus one isn’t a problem with an escort service. No matter where you’d like to go, or what you’d like to do, and escort ensures your privacy.

    Personal Travel Guides

    Hiring an escort can be especially helpful when traveling. By hiring a local escort, you’re getting someone with local knowledge of your destination. They know all the best restaurants, clubs, and hotels—and they know which ones to stay far away from. There’s no better way to stay safe on your trip and avoid the shady parts of town.

    If you’re visiting a non-English speaking city, your escort will also speak the language (many services have bilingual escorts just for this purpose) and can act as an interpreter. You get a travel guide, companionship, and a translator all for one fee! All in all, an escort is an excellent way to ensure you have a good time on your next trip and stay safe, whether for business or pleasure.

    Get Dating & Networking Advice

    If there’s one thing an escort knows—it’s relationships and networking. If you’re stumped on how to approach a first date, strike up a conversation, form new business connections, or get the attention of that special someone, an escort gives you an excellent opportunity to trial-run your skills and get pointers from a professional in the process.

    One of the biggest benefits of hiring an escort, no matter why you hire one, is that they’ll never judge you. You can feel free to ask questions, be yourself, and expand your comfort levels with dating and networking. An escort can serve as much more than simply companionship, depending on your needs.

    Take Away Your Stress

    You may be dealing with problems at work or with your family. Yes, there are plenty of stress-relieving activities to choose from, like playing sports and binge-watching movies online. However, there’s nothing more fun than going on a date, forgetting about life for a while, and engaging in deep conversations.

    Relaxation is perhaps the best reason to hire an escort. Escorts can help you let go of the stress of your day-to-day life as they can bring you to a different kind of reality. Most escorts are well educated, talented, and creative, and they tend to be good listeners and effective speakers.

    Unique To You

    This list is just a small sampling of the benefits of hiring escort services. The true advantages you’ll find in an escort’s company are going to be unique to you, and the best way to find out what those benefits are is to give it a try—hire an escort today! Even better, if you’re a local guru, excellent conversationalist, or socialite, consider becoming an escort yourself and get paid to keep good company.

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  • Why Every Couple Should Engage A Companion At Least Once

    Why Every Couple Should Engage A Companion At Least Once

    My personal views on companionship are that it can be an amazing experience. You get to meet different kinds of people with different interesting stories and if you’re lucky enough, do some traveling. It is also hard work if you want to stay relevant. You have to make sure you are doing your best with content and engagement with your clients to keep them entertained or you might have to start over.

    In a nutshell, I think it has its ups and downs like any profession.

    Reasons Couples Engage A Companion To Spend Time Together

    The most common or popular reason couples see companions are to add that spark back to their marriage or as a controlled way to test out their sexuality. The former is usually a nightmare unless not having kinky sex was the problem.

    In this, one of the partners is usually uncomfortable, while the other is too overly eager to engage with the outside party; not the way you want to kick off a “ménage a trois”, you know what I’m saying. The latter is usually fun, a quick way to try something new and exciting with most parties satisfied at the end.

    Why I’m Ideal For Couples!

    My personality is that of a firecracker I’ve been told. I’m an ideal companion for couples because I’m the event planner. I do my best to make sure everyone is having a good time and feels included; that is a very important aspect of what I do, as we want to feel appreciated when we are together.

    What Should First Timer Couples Do?

    The best way to enjoy the first time is to relax; some light banter or a playful game can be the ice breaker needed to keep that on track most of the time. Also trying not to rush, rushing leads to mishaps and incidents that are not necessary.

    Lastly, be present, be engaged in the fun happening and you’re going to have a good time.

    Rules To Follow

    Only a few rules to follow;

    One, check your attitude at the door, this is a funzone. Two, make sure to be polite and it will be returned to you in kind. And three, this is my world, I just let you play in it for a little while.

    Kit E. Vixen -Life is not about the destination it’s about the journey. It is a honor and privilege to be able to be a part of your journey, where for just a little while we forget that adulting is hard & get back to the joys of being able to relax and unwind. When we get together something special happens, it’s just like magic…

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