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  • The Importance Of Reliable Escort Directories

    The Importance Of Reliable Escort Directories

    If you are looking for hiring an escort, there are two ways to do so: via an agency or directly call one of the independent ladies. There is a difference, but in the end, you will have an amazing night if you follow a couple of important tips.

    The agency commonly organises a meeting between a client and an escort – at the client’s hotel room or home (outcall), or the lady’s residence (incall). Many agencies provide girls for longer time periods – travel with the customer on a business trip or a holiday. The agency requests a small fee for the dispatch service and the booking, but you will be able to discuss any additional arrangements directly with a girl (such as sexual services), as the agency often has nothing to do with that.

    On the other hand, there are independent escorts, who deliver companionship and sexual services for money. They use the Internet as means for communicating with clients while organising the work in a highly self-sustaining way. They offer the same services as the agency escorts do, but it is way much riskier – unless you know what to do!

    As there are a lot of scams regarding the escort industry (both fake agencies and independent escorts), it is very important that you know how to check the validity of the deal you are about to get yourself into. There are a couple of things that you can do, but it all comes down to this: check the reviews!

    Just imagine now, you find yourself somewhere in need of an escort, let’s say in Plymouth, for example. You know no one in the city, browsing around the web to figure out what to do while there and you stumble upon a web page of an escort or an agency. You book your appointment and wait. Here comes the girl, not what she looked like on the internet, she tells you she doesn’t offer half of those services you had seen, and even maybe leaves with your money without you even touching her. Those kinds of things happen, more often than not – that’s why you must know whether the girl’s info is real, at least.

    What you should have done is check Plymouth escort reviews and find out everything beforehand. There are websites such as escortrankings.uk that offer genuine reviews about both agencies and independent escorts throughout the UK. On online directories such as this one, you will find all the valuable information about the escorts – everything from the way she dresses to the services she offers. The clients are those writing the reviews, so all the information is true and can be trusted.

    Moreover, for every girl there is, you are going to find contact information so you can always get in touch and discuss all the things you are worried about before you meet the girl in person.

    To be fair, you won’t get scammed in most cases, but at the end of the day, you shouldn’t let things get out of hand. It is way easier for both you and the escort if you do a little research before booking a meeting – it will cost you a little time, but can save you a lot of money, energy and stress. With a proper directory and review, you know you are safe and can have the most amazing night of your life without any trouble. But remember to be a gentleman and treat the escort like the lady she is – do not forget this is her job after all!

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  • When To Hire An Escort

    When To Hire An Escort

    Are you gearing up for a party? Alternatively, you might be preparing for an upcoming business meeting. Regardless, you’ll want to go above and beyond to ensure that the event is going to be worthwhile and fun. To ensure that everything is perfect, you should go with a friend or colleague. What if you don’t have anyone? Ultimately, you can solve this problem by inviting an escort. Doing so will prove to be well worth it in the long run. Below, you’ll learn more about the times you should consider hiring an escort.

    High School Reunion

    When you attend a high school reunion, you’re going to learn more about your old friends. Some of these individuals want to show off. They want to prove they have a perfect life. There is a good chance that you want to do the same. If so, you should try to prove to everyone that you’re living a good life. One of the best ways to impress your old buddies is by bringing a beautiful woman with you. If you don’t have a beautiful woman, you can bring an escort.

    Besides showing off, you’re going to have a great time with the escort. She’ll know how to keep you entertained.

    A Friend’s Wedding

    It is never a good idea to attend a wedding alone. Doing so will make the event boring. Plus, people might look at you awkwardly because you’re alone. It is pertinent to avoid these problems so you can have a great time. Why not bring an escort? Doing so will prove to be well worth it. When you bring an escort, you won’t be alone. Everyone will believe that you’re in a relationship so you’re not going to be bothered. Plus, your beautiful escort will get attention.

    If you want to have a good time at your friend’s wedding, bring an escort. You’ll be glad that you did.

    Business Meeting

    During a business meeting, you’ll need to impress your potential business partners. You need to let them know that you’ve got the best plan. Having a beautiful escort by your side could make a big difference in the long run. If you team up with one of the hottest New Jersey escorts, you can set a good impression from the beginning. Your potential business partners will realize that you’re the man for the job. Your potential business partners will be impressed. In addition to this, the escort will make the evening more exciting for everyone. Bring an escort and you’ll have a better chance of getting the job.

    Birthday Party

    Remember that you’ll want your friend’s birthday party to be fantastic. You need to go above and beyond to plan to ensure that everything will go smoothly. Doing so won’t be easy since there are so many things to consider. When planning a birthday party for your friend, you’ll want to make sure that you’re going to have plenty of girls around. If your friend is single, he’ll want to chat with beautiful women all night. Therefore, you should hire an escort. They’ll give your friend the best birthday party ever.

    Bachelor Party

    Finally, you should consider hiring an escort for your upcoming bachelor party. Remember that you’re going to be a married man in a few days. You don’t want to miss out on the opportunity to have fun one more time. Whether you’re having a party or you’re hosting one for a friend, you should hire an escort or two. When you do, you can guarantee that everyone is going to have a much better time. The bachelor party will be unforgettable thanks to the beautiful escorts you’ve hired.

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  • What It’s Like To Be A Student & Escort In Germany

    What It’s Like To Be A Student & Escort In Germany

    I really enjoy being an escort for all occasions. A classy business dinner, travel companion or FMTY: there are so many possibilities to meet each other. Perhaps I can fulfil an unspoken fantasy or make a long-held dream come true. 

    I like that the gentleman doesn’t have to pretend with me. In “real life” there is so much pressure on the shoulders of many men. They have to conform to a certain image or meet high standards. With me, they can let themselves go.

    As an escort I can also live my passion: I love to travel and appreciate the great restaurants and hotels I get to visit. But I am even more fascinated by the unforgettable moments with special gentlemen who plan extraordinary dates.

    I enjoy the anticipation and the tingling before every date and hope that I will find that I leave gentlemen with a positive gut feeling after the date.

    My Initial Impression of Sex Work & Escorting

    I have been fascinated by this world for a long time. Every tv show and every book I found about it I soaked up like a sponge. I’m a very curious person and have always asked myself: “What if I were to live this life?”

    Accordingly, I had a rather soft-washed and romantic idea of it. Often you only got a glimpse of the extremes. 

    What appealed to me was the “empowerment” that the women had. They had completely different opportunities, especially as students. And I notice that now, too: While my fellow students have to turn over every euro twice, I spend my time in luxury hotels and don’t have to worry about my bank balance.   

    What Made Me Decide To Go Into Escorting

    I thought about taking the plunge for years and then decided not to. But then when I started my dream studies, I had to leave the job I loved. It was the perfect chance to start escorting. Because by studying, I could suddenly be much more flexible with my time and was no longer bound to my working hours. 

    It sounds cheesy, but it’s exactly how I imagined it – and more. I experience exciting things, get to know exciting people and always enjoy the tingling sensation of a first date again. It’s special, it’s wicked and the most important thing: it makes me happy.

    Common Misconceptions About Sex Work

    I am bothered by the assumption that sex work is not real work. Yet as an escort, I am a marketing and social media specialist, stylist and make-up artist, web designer, planner for travel escorts and photo shoots, content creator and SEO agency all rolled into one! And of course I also pay my taxes – just like everyone else. 

    Is It Tough To Be A Student & Escort At The Same Time?

    I have the comparison with my previous professional life, which would not have been compatible with escorting. As a student, I find it easier to schedule dates. But I am not infinitely flexible. A longer travel escort, for example, is only possible during my lecture-free time. I need a bit of advance notice.

    But apart from that, the two worlds can be combined perfectly. Sometimes I go straight from the hotel to the lecture. No one has to know that I wear my Agent Provocateur lingerie under my outfit. And I always have my index cards in my handbag. That way I can study a bit on the way to the date. 

    It is sometimes a challenge to be an escort and a student. But I wouldn’t have it any other way! I enjoy every moment of my life and these two worlds are a big part of me.

    Tips For Students Who Wish To Escort

    If you are attracted to this world, give it a try! But take the time to find out the right timing. Research books and blogs and try to imagine yourself having the experience. 

    Maybe you’ll find a colleague you like and who inspires you. You could write her a friendly email and ask her if she would like to become your mentor.

    It is a lot of work, especially as an independent escort. Find out what you really need at the beginning (good photos and an appealing Advertising presence, for example Twitter or your own website – depending on what appeals to you more) and what can wait a little longer. Expensive underwear and shoes are not the biggest priority. The most important thing is: Be yourself and have fun, then success will come on its own!

    Maya Belfort is an independent escort in Germany and worldwide. A charming companion, kinky playmate and sensitive lover, she loves to explore the most beautiful sides of Germany with a gentleman. GFE and travel companionship on exciting weekend trips are her favourite disciplines. Besides the sensual escort service, she is studying in a big German city and gathers new experiences on her numerous trips.

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    Twitter: https://twitter.com/mayabelfort

    Website: https://en.mayabelfort.com/

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  • Why You Should Enjoy Germany With An Escort

    Why You Should Enjoy Germany With An Escort

    Technically, I “only” work part-time as an escort. I study at a German university on the side. But my heart belongs to sensual escorting. It is important to me that a gentleman feels comfortable with me and can address his wishes quite openly. After all, it is about fulfilling the most personal fantasies.

    As a private escort, I want to create a space where the gentlemen can live out their lust openly and without prejudice. There is no service list that I work off. Every date is absolutely unique – how we meet, what we do together, where our evening ends. As an independent escort, I create my own rules. This makes the encounter personal and simply genuine. I have heart beatings and butterflies in my stomach before every date. And I hope that the gentlemen will feel the same way!

    How Is The Escorting Industry Like In Germany?

    Of course, I cannot speak for every escort in Germany. My colleagues are simply too different and diverse for that. For myself, working as an escort in Germany is a wonderful way to pursue my passion. I feel comfortable with my work and get to know many interesting people.

    For me, working as an escort is a very natural thing. Sex work is legal in Germany and regulated by certain laws. For example, I have to register and of course pay taxes. 

    What Makes Me An Ideal Companion

    I am very balanced and bring that emotional stability to our date. I manage the dance between social butterfly and sensitive companion. I manage this so well because on the one hand I am quite introverted and like to listen, but on the other hand I also have extroverted sides to me. Thanks to my empathy and social competence, I know exactly what is “required” and when – this enables me to adapt very well to my counterpart.

    I am also a very organised person. I love planning things – for example, a nice trip or a special outing. And if something goes wrong, it’s not the end of the world. Then we laugh about it and find another solution. 

    Enjoying The GFE With Me

    Experience shows that time passes very quickly with me. We need a little more time to have good conversations. And private time is also exciting and should be duly celebrated. That’s why I’m often booked for longer encounters. Even my dinner date is relatively long at five hours.

    GFE in Germany is a very popular concept and often designed for a longer relationship. I often hear that people can quickly relax in my presence and take a break from everyday life. It is important to me to build a relationship even before the date. Therefore, we stay in contact after the booking (if you want that) and a phone conversation before our date is also possible. I patiently answer all your questions and take away some of the tension before our first meeting. 

    Best Duration To Enjoy Germany With Me

    My favourite encounters are weekend dates and travel companions. Every major city in Germany can be reached within a few hours. That leaves plenty of time on a weekend for sightseeing together, for adventures and quiet moments. Are you more drawn to the countryside? Germany has many castles that are now home to romantic hotels. In a wellness hotel we can relax together and feel like lord and mistress of a castle. Or we can rent a vintage car and explore the area.

    The area around Frankfurt am Main is ideal for this: Around the metropolis there are numerous casinos, thermal spas and enchanted forests that we can explore together. By the way: Germany has some of the world’s best and most exclusive swingers clubs, for example Schloss Milkersdorf near Berlin.

    What Does A Gentleman Need To Know Before Engaging You?

     I like to keep things plain and simple in my everyday life. That’s also how I like to handle a booking. Of course, I’m very happy if you read my website carefully and maybe even take a look at my FAQ. But you don’t have to read every single word. It’s enough if you look at my picture gallery (and honestly – we all look at the pictures first, that’s perfectly okay) and fill out my contact form carefully.

    There you will find all the information you need to get an answer from me. If you do take the time to browse the website a bit more, I would be very happy. I am honoured that you are taking the time to get to know me better.

    Etiquette & Rules To Follow

    I believe that we all become the lovable person we are through our experiences, interests, hobbies, happy moments and mistakes. And I firmly believe that everyone is lovable. My experiences have shaped me into the person (and escort) I am today. Every journey that has broadened my horizons and every skill I have learnt on a course has changed and influenced me.

    So I enjoy the company of men who have experienced something, who have something to tell and from whom I can learn something. And who can take something away from me from the encounter – even if it’s just a nice memory. I’m interested in the rough edges, the vanilla sides and the kinky fantasies.

    In short: I want the gentleman to be able to be himself and to understand and respect my limits as a person and escort. 

    Maya Belfort is an independent escort in Germany and worldwide. A charming companion, kinky playmate and sensitive lover, she loves to explore the most beautiful sides of Germany with a gentleman. GFE and travel companionship on exciting weekend trips are her favourite disciplines. Besides the sensual escort service, she is studying in a big German city and gathers new experiences on her numerous trips.

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    Twitter: https://twitter.com/mayabelfort

    Website: https://en.mayabelfort.com/

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  • What Can Women Expect From Engaging A Male Escort?

    What Can Women Expect From Engaging A Male Escort?

    I see escorting as providing companionship to women, on their terms, and giving women the time and attention that they deserve. Every woman deserves to feel special, and I love that I can help women in this way. I’ve always had the view that I want to make the world a better place – one smile at a time.

    I have found this to be a very important service, as unfortunately there are many women who aren’t completely satisfied with relationships or intimate experiences, that they have had in the past.

    How I Got Started Into Escorting

    I have always liked to think ‘outside the box’ and do things a bit differently. And when I was in high school, I thought about being a male escort, and being able to provide intimacy, companionship, and so much more to women. This was more than twelve years ago, when there weren’t many male escorts for women in Australia at all, so I was venturing into a brand new field.

    I completed a diploma of remedial massage, and then through trial and error, learnt as I went.

    Also, that was back in the day when they still had DVD stores, ( do you remember DVD stores?) – I rented “Deuce Bigalow, Male Gigolo”, and “American Gigolo” – such a cliche, but it was a starting point! Not sure if the guy in the store had any idea that I was about to start embarking on the career of a lifetime!

    What Makes Me An Ideal Escort For Women

    Being a male escort for women definitely isn’t something that any man could do. It takes a lot of determination, courage, confidence, and personality. Many women enjoy the social aspects of engaging a male escort, so this is essential, as I’ve had experiences as varied as overseas trips, hang gliding, opera, theatre and dinner dates.

    I am a really friendly person, with a great sense of humour, and I’m very honest, down to earth, and kind. Also, I spend time with women from their early 20’s right through to their 80’s, so being intimate with and enjoying women from a range of age groups is part of the work.

    I think these are some of the qualities that make women enjoy spending time with me.

    Why Women Engage Male Escorts

    I love learning about women, and any man that thinks he knows every single thing about women is kidding himself. There is always more to learn – and I love every step along the journey!

    Women engage my services for so many different reasons – too many to list, but here are a few.

    A lot of women have unfortunately found that guys can be jerks. They only want one thing – and when they do have sex, most guys just care about themselves, and leave the woman wondering ‘Well, what about me?’ Many men don’t know (or want to learn) how to pleasure a woman and believe that their orgasm is the reason for having sex.

    A lot of my clients just don’t want to date and search for the right man, only to be constantly disappointed. They want to know that they can have a great time, be fully looked after, and have all of their needs met. To be listened to, laugh, have fun, and have a massage and/or mind-blowing sex, or whatever they are looking for, and know that they are going to get it. They go to a professional.

    Whether they’ve had a relationship end, or been single for years – women want someone who is going to listen to them, fulfill their desires, and to make them feel special.

    I also have a lot of clients who find me because they have unfortunately been hurt by men in the past, and feel that they can never trust any man again. Whatever their past may entail, I love to help women be able to heal – both during our time together, and for a long time afterwards.

    Some women may feel that they don’t have the confidence to date, and I help them to boost their confidence, so that they can go after what they want.

    Some women contact me to organise having sex for the first time. Because why not make your first time memorable and enjoyable?

    I have some clients who feel they can’t find a man they’d like to be with because they have a disability, and they’d like to hire a professional to have their needs and desires met.

    And a lot of women engage my services simply because they can. We all have the freedom to choose what we’d like to do, and why not decide to treat yourself to enjoyable company, good conversation and mind-blowing sex?

    My Regular Clientele

    I often get requests from new clients, and I also have many regular clients. I only take one booking per day, so that each of my clients can have all of me and my energy. I am always busy, but make sure to schedule time in my calendar in advance for myself.

    My regular clients are lovely, and I have a different professional relationship with each of them. I see women of all ages, backgrounds, and life circumstances.

    What You Can Expect When Engaging Me

    When engaging me, women can know that they are safe, in experienced hands, can explore and enjoy new experiences, and have a really great time that they will never forget.

    Just relax, and be yourself, and let me share something truly memorable with you!

    Male Escort Melbourne, Leo for women – available across all of Melbourne, Victoria, Australia, and International.

    For the woman who wants more than an average man can give.

    Follow Leo on

    Website: https://male-escort-melbourne.com/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leo.dale.98/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/YourMrLeo

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  • What Is The High End Girlfriend Experience?

    What Is The High End Girlfriend Experience?

    I think that the search for companionship is the universal human experience. After our basic needs like food and shelter are taken care of, we all hunger to find the person/people who understand us and want our company in return. I am happiest when I have meaningful relationships with others. 

    What Makes The GFE Very Popular

    In the modern era, we are increasingly disconnected from other people. How often have you been on a date where the other person spents the whole night on their phone? Tried to catch up with friends only to have them be too busy with family and work? Had someone reach out to you, only to be too busy yourself? We have so many demands it’s rare to find time to be totally available for someone and have them reciprocate 100% in return. 

    GFE is all about that connection. It’s a beautiful thing to put the world away for an hour or two and have a companion devote all their attention on you. GFE means different things to different people (after all, no two girlfriends are the same), but I think a common thread that separates it from a more basic full service, is a more personable approach where talking, kissing and making a genuine connection are encouraged. 

    Misconceptions About The GFE

     “We get on so well, we should date in real life.” 

    Seeing an escort for GFE and dating one are two very different experiences. High end escorts are busy, messy, frustrating humans just like everyone else. We put all that aside during our time with you, because you because you pay us to. I enjoy the experience a great deal, but it’s not representative of what I’d be like to date. 

    “GFE is the best, all other services are seedy or cheap.” 

    Everyone has a different approach to sex work and different things work for different people. There can be a tendency to try and put providers and clients into a hierarchy, but what’s the point in that?What works for you is what’s best. 

    “$550 an hour, that’s $4400 a day! You make over a million a year.” 

    I often see logic defying math applied my my earnings. Generally this is an attempt to shame me into a discounted rate, but sometimes it’s genuine confusion based on a few assumptions:

    1. That we see back to back clients all day, every day. I generally see 1-2 clients a week – less work ensures I’m excited to see everyone I meet – you’re paying for exclusivity.
    2. That we don’t have expenses or pay tax. I put aside half of my earnings to cover insurance premiums, tax and compulsory contributions to the government retirement scheme. After that I still have to pay rent for my incall, advertising, transport to and from appointments and for all the hair products, make up, lingerie and clothes I use for work. 
    3. That we earn a salary. My hourly rate is only paid when I’m face to face with a client. All the prep work and administration is unpaid, as are sick leave and holidays. 

    What Makes Me The Perfect Companion

    I love connecting with people: finding things in common, new things to love, listening and learning. I’m confident, but quietly so. I put my clients at ease while letting there be space for their ideas and desires. 

    But I think the most important part of my success in the industry is that I am comfortable with who I am and am good at communicating that. I can’t possibly please everyone, but my advertising and screening ensures that those people are looking elsewhere, while I’m with those I can show the time of their lives. 

    Tips For Clients To Truly Enjoy The GFE

    1. Research your escort. I put a lot of effort into my advertising copy and Twitter to ensure that you can get a good idea of my personality and physical presence before we meet. Doing your research means you have the best chance of meeting someone you click with first try. This is also a good time to check if they are reputable- presence on established advertising sites, social media presence, reviews and length of time in the industry are all good signs. Most high end escorts will require screening information and/or deposits. Make sure you are comfortable with this before you reach out. 
    2. Make the booking process smooth. When you contact your chosen escort make sure you follow any guidelines she gives. Be prepared to provide a deposit and/or screening information. Do not haggle about these requirements or about price. Most escorts will simply stop replying, but some may be pressured into seeing you – they will then be on edge and stressed after your interaction. A smooth and polite booking process puts us at ease and in the best mood to show you a wonderful time. 
    3. Just book! After you’ve done your reading and got the funds together, it’s time to reach out and make a time to meet. Waiting too long can build anxiety that will make it hard to enjoy your time together. It can also lead to disappointment if you build up too many expectations in your head (there’s only so much you can do in one session!). Or, worst of all, while you delay the escort of your choice may leave the industry. So take a deep breath and reach out before it’s too late! 

    Amelia Appleby – Amelia is a high end, independent escort in Wellington, New Zealand. Her approach to sex work is based on the idea of genuine human connection being an essential part of a healthy life. With over 10 years in the industry, Amelia prides herself on bringing passion and calm confidence to every meeting. 

    Follow Amelia Appleby on

    Twitter: @AmeliaWLG

    Advertising on: 

    https://nzpleasures.co.nz/advertisers/amelia-appleby/

    https://tryst.link/escort/amelia-celeste

    Amelia is available in Wellington city and the rest of NZ by appointment!

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  • How To Explore My Fetishes With A Companion

    How To Explore My Fetishes With A Companion

    I love companionship. For me, it’s one of the most self-indulgent things you can treat yourself to. It’s always a thrill to look forward to a new meet, as there are so many possibilities. When I’m with a client, I truly feel as if they’re treating themselves – between the whisky, cheeseboards, and hum of excitement in the air, it feels like we’re both getting the worlds best present. I love being able to share myself and my passions with another, and feel them reciprocated with the same fervor. I’ve always lived in the moment, and there’s a certain kind of exhilaration in giving yourself entirely to a stranger.

    Similarly, I feel my clients shrug off the stresses of the world with me while they step into a fantasy where nothing matters except the next moment together. It really does feel like we’re outside of time, often in a world all of our own – it’s hypnotic, in a way. I’m grateful every day to be able to explore this side of myself with those who place their trust so deeply in me.

    How I Got Interested In Fetishes

    My interests in fetishes actually started with fandom and fan fiction! I remember huddling under my blankets at night, reading novels about my favourite characters – except all of a sudden, they would be tying each other up, and I was reacting in ways I never thought possible.

    I only started exploring the BDSM community when I was 20 when one of my work friends invited me to a night out, and my interest spiralled from there. My first encounter felt like I had stepped into the fantasy world of my dreams! I’m actually still in contact with the first man who ever spanked me, and to this day, he’s constantly teaching me new things.

    I ended up offering pro submission work, given that I enjoyed it so much, and as I attended skillshares, my hard skills increased to the level that I began offering pro domme work alongside it. These days, I tend to switch (someone who both submits and dominates people) fairly evenly, with a particular love of spanking, Shibari, needle play, wax play, and fisting. I’ve previously co-presented educational workshops about Shibari at Sexpo in 2019, and was lucky enough to tutor under one of Australia’s best needle play mentors a few years ago.

    What Makes Me An Ideal Companion To Explore Your Fetishes With

    I think the most important thing for any companion, kink or vanilla, is to keep an open mind about everything! I’ve always approached life with a “try everything once” philosophy, and I carry over that same line of thinking to my kink exploration. There have been plenty of times clients have approached me with fetishes I know nothing about, and I’ve had a ball exploring it with them!

    It’s important to have open and honest communication between you both, including disclosing any triggers, past injuries, and level of experience, as well as what you’re hoping to get out of the play; there’s a huge difference between a rhythmic meditative flogging, and a flogging that’s designed to break skin and bruise!

    I would also consider myself a very curious person, so when I am approached with a new fetish request, I happily spend hours researching it – including any safety aspects I might need to consider.

    Ideal Duration To Explore Fetishes Together

    This is so highly dependent on the fetish, and what you’re hoping to achieve during the session. For newbies, I tend to recommend around three hours, to cover important negotiation time, slow introduction, allow plenty of time for feedback and questioning, and plenty of aftercare at the end! I’ve given light spankings in 30 minutes, and I’ve done a needle session for four hours.

    I find multi day sessions to be too strenuous when it comes to intense kink, although I know some providers who excel at them, but I simply find staying in the headspace for that long far too taxing on both of us! As a general rule, I suggest between 2-4 hours to explore fetish and kink with me. When we play, we release some really powerful chemicals – adrenaline and endorphins flood our body, so it’s important to factor in time at the end to come back to earth, reassure each other that everything was okay, and reflect on the session at the end.

    Some sessions also involve a lot of cleanup too – rope takes time to untie, sploshing means the floors need to be mopped, and needle play means that wounds need to be tended to. It’s certainly not something I would do in a 15 minute lunchtime quickie.

    How Do You Calm Someone Who Is Nervous?

    I’ve actually never had this problem! Is that bad of me? I think booking any session, there’s always going to be some nerves, but I’ve never found anyone to be overly shy upon meeting me. Usually, they’re full of enthusiasm to finally live out their fantasy!

    I tend to write a lot about BDSM on my blog, which probably helps – explaining the fetish beforehand through the lens of personal experience tends to quell any nervous butterflies. I’ve always had quite a big personality, and my genuine excitement to meet new people spills over into any meeting, so I think it’s quite hard for anyone not to be swept up in that and be equally as excited. Enthusiasm is infectious, after all.

    Follow These Rules During Our Time Together

    There would be no consent without boundaries – your power to say yes only lies in your ability to say no. I pre negotiate each individual session over text, and again at the start of the session, but I have a few ground rules: no hardsports, nothing that impacts on my safety, and nothing illegal.

    Additionally, if you don’t have any boundaries of your own, I’ll feel uneasy playing with you and will likely cancel. My favourite clients are those who listen to my boundaries, honor my space, and openly communicate their own. Nothing is worse than calling a client a name mid session, only to have them burst into tears and end the session.

    Kristen Jade – An Australian escort, pro kinkster, and content creator. She has been described as an “unrepentant brat” and refuses to take life too seriously. On her off days, you’ll find her cuddling up with her two cats and getting her ass kicked in video games. She has been a sex worker for six years and a BDSM educator for three, as well as touring the Shibari performance circuit across Australia and being invited to sexuality retreats. You’ll often find her travelling interstate, fuelled by passion and desire to explore the unknown.

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    Website: www.kristenjadeaus.com

    Twitter: @kristenjadeaus

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    ManyVids: kristenjadeaus.manyvids.com

    Kristen resides in Sydney, but will be in Melbourne 4-8 May, Canberra 22-27 May, and Hobart 8-12 of June. She has plans to visit Brisbane, Darwin, and Perth later in the year. In the meantime, she regularly releases porn on her ManyVids, as well as writing on her blog at www.kristenjadeaus.com/blog

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  • Why You Should Enjoy Tokyo With A Companion

    Why You Should Enjoy Tokyo With A Companion

    As you know, Tokyo is a large, lively city with many people. However, it’s not always easy to make connections, especially if you’re new to the city. Exploring Tokyo with a companion who knows the local language and culture is like having a perfect partner in crime. Instead of feeling alone in the crowd, you will feel electrified by the city’s energy with me by your side. Exploring together is always more exciting than exploring alone.  

    For me, companionship is really all about connection. We are often so busy that we forget to stop and appreciate what it is like to connect with each other. There’s something so special about being truly intimate and sharing yourself with another. If you feel like something is missing in your life, connecting with a companion can reignite your desire.

    The Japan Escorting Industry

    Japan has many escorting agencies, just like many other countries do. However, it seems that Japanese agencies often avoid foreign clients because of the language barrier. For that reason, if you visit Tokyo for the first time, I would recommend booking a private escort who also speaks your language. Tokyo is a large, lively city, so I’m sure you’ll be able to find just what you’re looking for!

    What Makes Me A Great Companion

    To be honest, I’m a little shy! But this certainly doesn’t stop me from being passionate. I genuinely enjoy getting to know the gentlemen I meet, and I can tell that they feel that. I love hearing their stories and learning what makes them tick.

    Ways We Can Enjoy Tokyo Together

    I grew in central Tokyo, so perhaps I’m biased, but I feel that there are endless things to enjoy about the city. If you are thinking of visiting, one of the best seasons in Japan is Spring – it’s the perfect time to walk through the park and enjoy the beautiful sakura (cherry blossoms).

    In other seasons, there are plenty of good restaurants to enjoy – the food here is amazing! Some locations might not look fancy from the outside, but I guarantee they are worth a try. Whether you’re visiting Tokyo for a few hours or a few weeks, I’ll happily be your guide. 

    What Gentlemen Should Do Prior To Meeting

    As I said, the connection between the two of us is the most important thing to me. For this reason, I ask that you read a little bit about me, and also include a little bit of information about yourself when you send a date request. This helps me figure out if I am the right companion for you – I want to ensure that you have a great time. 

    It’s also important to know that I am rarely available for same-day dates as I have a busy life and want to ensure I can take the time to properly prepare to meet you. So, if possible, I ask that gentlemen enquire in advance where possible. I request a deposit to cover my transportation costs, but we can speak about this more if you choose to book a date with me.

    What’s Important To Me

    Overall, the most important things to me are simply manners and genuine care. I can’t deny that I love it when a gentleman meets me with a hug and a smile. 

    If gentlemen are especially curious, I have a page on my website that covers etiquette (https://www.belbell.com/terms). 

    Miss Bel – Your exclusive passionate girlfriend and travel guide. Located in beautiful Tokyo. Trilingual book lover and coffee addict.

    Follow Miss Bel on

    My website: https://www.belbell.com/

    Link Bio: https://www.belbell.com/linkbio

    Virtual Contents: https://www.belbell.com/experience

    AVN: https://stars.avn.com/belbell_tokyo/media#

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/missbeltokyo/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReadheadMissBel

    I occasionally tour Okinawa. If you are interested in me visiting your area, please send me a request.

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  • Why You Should Enjoy A Week in the UK With A Companion

    Why You Should Enjoy A Week in the UK With A Companion

    Luxury and discretion feel very natural to me. A person’s private indulgences should be private. It is only when we feel truly safe and secure in comfortable surroundings that we can really open up to another person, sexually or emotionally, and that’s where the fun and excitement really begin.

    How Popular Is Companionship In UK?

    Friendship with benefits is popular the world over, isn’t it?! Certainly here in the UK it’s very popular. Sex is great, but have you been on holiday with your girl, dining at the finest establishments, seeing her all dressed up for the theatre, meeting her fun, happy friends in cocktail bars and having threesomes with them later, been skydiving and wine-tasting and sunbathing and played golf with her? Sometimes even taking a nap with someone can be as intimate as sex.

    What Makes Me An Ideal Companion

    I am an elegant, affectionate, sensual hedonist and elite, discreet dating companion… a blonde, ultra-feminine and authentically kinky English rose. I have a big, adventurous heart, and look for the same in others. I particularly enjoy sharing ideas, jokes and friendly conversation over dinner and cocktails after we have got to know each other more intimately in private.

    I know that most people like to do dinner first, and then sex, but I’m the other way around! I feel so much more able to chat to someone over a plate of oysters when we have seen each other naked and worked up an appetite.

    Our Ideal Itinerary To Spend UK Together

    I’m the kind of girl who enjoys a lavish getaway in thoughtful company every once in a while. After a few days at a 5* hotel, it starts to feel like home and the staff start to feel like friends. In order to avoid this, you can stay at two different places over the course of a week, maybe in different areas so you have more to explore.

    I’m a real foodie. I like to take the opportunity to visit the best restaurants wherever I’m going; in London of course, the list is practically endless, although I do have a good list that I’ve put together on my website. I like to go to the ballet or opera or to see a really good play, go to any interesting exhibitions that are on – there’s always something at the V&A, and usually at the National Galleries too. The National Gallery also does interesting little arty events and tours that I’ve always enjoyed a lot. I like art but I don’t know much about it so I like to have a knowledgeable person show me round the pieces and explain them to me.

    Nightclubs and parties like Torture Garden can really spice things up and are a fun excuse to get really dolled up in the most scandalous outfits – the sort of thing I would normally only wear in the bedroom!

    The most unique thing I’ve ever done on holiday with a client was a sponsored skydive over Stonehenge for charity. To my own surprise, I actually loved it and would definitely do it again. We both had to go and have a lie-down afterwards, though! Sometimes it’s nice just to grab a coffee and go shopping or for a walk in the park.

    What You Can Expect From My GFE

    They can expect me to always make them jump out of planes. Kidding. I’m always warm and friendly because I love connecting with nice people. It’s romantic. I look for a genuine connection, not lukewarm, robotic hook-ups. A fling can be fun but the chemistry that builds up over a series of dates can’t be beaten. It’s powerful and exciting.

    If I’m hosting a first date or a tenth date in my hotel room, I like to light scented candles and have the champagne on ice ready for my date’s arrival. It’s a nice way to show you care and create a mysterious and seductive little world to enjoy for a couple of hours.

    We Can Kink Things Up Too!

    I have a “bad girl” side to me, as well as the “good girl” side you see in public. My favourite personal fantasy is the idea of a nice, normal, well-dressed man who seem respectable to the outside world but has a naughty secret or two he keeps private.

    Maybe he likes to wear lingerie, or be tied up and spanked, I don’t know. Anything, really. I just love that it’s something that not everyone knows about. That really gets me going. So if someone wants to share their kinky secret with me over a bottle of Dom, I’m all ears.

    My name is Lilly Watson, and I am a lady of leisure and upscale companion for friendly meetings and adventures in London and beyond. Interests include vintage glamour, cinema, fine dining, the theatre, shopping, history, playing golf (very badly) and socialising with friends in opulent hotels and restaurants. I also have a particular passion for threesomes.

    Follow Lilly Watson on:

    Website: www.misslillywatson.com

    Twitter: @MissLillyWatson

    Blog/newsletter: misslillywatson.blogspot.com

    AdultWork (for DirectChat and DirectIM): https://refer.adultwork.com/?R=3969427&T=3969427

    I will be dating again just as soon as lockdown restrictions are sufficiently eased.

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  • How To Enjoy The GFE In Warsaw With A Companion

    How To Enjoy The GFE In Warsaw With A Companion

    There’s an undeniable pleasure in a female’s life – and that is being adored. Working as a high class escort, I wouldn’t call my job just a something I do for money.  I feel excited every time I come to meet my client and when from the very first moment, I can see this big “wow” in his eyes. It’s my biggest motivation to do my best to leave him dazzled.

    How Is The Escorting Industry In Warsaw & Poland?

     A huge majority of escorts ads you can find in Warsaw (in fact in the whole Poland) are posted by agencies and just pretend to be private. Obviously, the lower the price is, the smaller is the chance to meet a nice girl, at least similar to the one on photos. But even if you’ve decided to accept a higher price – it may not save you from the agencies tricks, when they simply send to you their first available girl.  So if you’ll hear, “I can be at your place in 30-40 minutes”, you better be  careful.

    Still, not many girls in Poland decide work for themselves and  it’s quite easy to verify – independent escorts should have their own website or Twitter/IG profile.  It also takes more time to make a booking, as a deposit is often required and rates might be higher than average. Anyway – it reflects in the quality, as every escort works for their own reputation and prefers to meet regular clients.

    Reasons Men Seek The Girlfriend Experience

    A typical escort service is all about relieving  a sexual tension. Simple, quick and fair transaction. However, not for those gentlemen who expects some other kind of intimacy – together with affection and sensitivity, and who want to have a meeting with woman, not only for the woman’s body . At the same time, they want to keep things away from making a relationship.

    Choosing a GFE service is a perfectly safe option, as a “controlled date”. In addition, comparing to dating apps,  you don’t need to worry if it’s gonna end in your bedroom.

    What Makes Me An Ideal GFE Companion

    What I find best in the GFE is that it lets you to build a short-time close and sexy relation with the other person in a very natural way. I like people and I love to listen – as a bonus, my clients are usually fascinating people with amazing stories to share!  Conversation also gives enough time to find out more about my partner needs, and to seduce in the way that let him believes, that it’s him who seduced me.

    I called the relations “short-time”, but in fact there’s no need to rush. Personally I think, that one hour GFE meeting wouldn’t make any sense, so I don’t provide it.  My regular clients propositions are usually longer stays, like overnight, weekends somewhere far away from the city, or invitations to be their travel companion during a short holiday. I’ve been told its because I’m that smiling and easy to be with type of women, who can easily adjust to her partner.

    Best Duration To Enjoy Warsaw Together

    Dinner dates and overnight stays – that’s what I enjoy the most. Both time (evening) and place (restaurant or cocktail bar – there’s a really big choice of good places to go in Warsaw) are much more natural scenery for chat and flirt than a hotel room.

    Etiquette Gentlemen Must Follow

    I’m pretty lucky to meet on my way, mostly a 100% gentlemen. I really select my clients from the first message they send. It’s simply because if one’s behaviour will ever start make me feel uncomfortable, I would decide to leave from the date – it’s just not worth wasting my nerves. What I definitely don’t accept is the lack of discretion, being rude, loud or aggressive. Also asking about discounts or possibility to pay after the meeting.

    How To Impress Me

    As much, I want my clients to enjoy our time together, as much I appreciate effort they put into preparing a perfect date. Even the smallest things matters – flowers or following my cuisine preferences while choosing  a restaurant surely, then surely a romantic weekend in SPA or small gift, like piece of jewelry, can make me wanna go extra mile. But here’s the simple truth – if  you want me to be a woman of your dreams, then make me feel like I’m one.

    Bettie Golden – Polish high class companion, independent GFE expert in Warsaw, open-minded lover of both – gents and ladies. Question, that I hate the most as a SW is “Do you have any job?”. In my retirement I’ll be travelling even more, than I do now.

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    Website: https://www.marvelousbettiegolden.com/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/GoldenBettie

    In 2021 I’m available for meetings only till August 8th.

    Images courtesy of Bettie Golden

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