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  • Why You Should Enjoy Frankfurt With An Escort

    Why You Should Enjoy Frankfurt With An Escort

    In my opinion, it is not so much about the city (of Frankfurt) but rather about what you want to do and what you want to experience. It is a special pleasure to have a date set up and created by an escort. In Frankfurt, there are many museums, the opera, theater and different exhibitions, great restaurants and of course a lot of nice hotels. It is much nicer to enjoy your time with a good companion than spending it alone.

    For example, there is one restaurant which offers a so called Geisha room where which there is just one table inside. You can enjoy your dinner there and the waiter will ring a bell before coming in…During the dinner you are all alone and nobody can watch what you doing between the courses… 

    Why I’m A Perfect Companion To Be With!

    I like nature as well as culture because I see both as essential parts of a beautiful whole. Therefore, in my life, I want to admire the cultural achievements of humanity as well as explore the great nature of this earth. I enjoy to live in the city but I have around 40 plants to bring some wildlife into my apartment. Since I am a high energy person, I am very much into sports, especially pole dance and yoga. I do always feel my appetite so I try every vegan dish I come across.

    I’m interested in many different kinds of art so I enjoy a lot when I go to art exhibitions. I’ve got a little fetish for wellness, especially for sauna or hot baths to detox the body, calm down the mind and take some me-time to read a lot of books. Dates with me are based on the honest and caring relationship I want to build up. Being a companion means to me, creating a secure framework in which people are allowed to experience themselves in a new way – in conversations as well as in intimate relationships.

    Best Duration To Enjoy Frankfurt Together

    I love overnight dates the most because you have enough time to get to know each other while having dinner so you can create a chemistry and explore the intimate bonding afterwards. You can cuddle and fall asleep together and I just love to wake up and have erotic and intimate activities in the morning. Morning sex is the best way to wake up…. Moreover, the breakfast tastes much better after a little work out.

    What You Have To Prepare Before Our Meetup

    First of all, read my profile because there are already a lot of information about myself. Contact me and tell me your expectations and provide me some information about yourself.

    Time is precious and that’s why it’s important to spend time with people whose lives I can enrich and mine as well. It is important to me to meet each person with an open mind and treat everyone with the respect he deserves. A man is attractive to me when he is aware of himself and acts reflected about himself and towards his environment. What I do not like is when people feel superior just because of their status, fortune, or career and see other people as less worthy or degrading.

    One Must Rule To Follow

    Respect me and I’ll respect you!

    Irina Le Fey – I am a cute, high energy, open minded girl from Germany. I love hiking in the wild nature and dating to explore human culture. Meet me as your little island to escape the ocean of daily life.

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  • Virtual Dating with Faye Fleure

    Virtual Dating with Faye Fleure

    I began my career in this industry as an attendant at an erotic massage parlour in Toronto. The “job qualifications” were not ones I had ever considered myself having. But I had just gone through a breakup, graduated undergrad and was looking for some kind of sexual liberation. Suddenly I wound up working as Emma Petals, an erotic masseuse.

    The crazy thing was, I was super excited to go into work. I was learning all kinds of new things about myself and other people while being completely nude and vulnerable. I just thought there was something very beautiful about the whole ordeal. Not to mention the insanely empowering women I form bonds and continue to grow with in this industry.

    I transitioned from Emma Petals, erotic attendant, to Faye Fleure, enchanting intimate companion; so I could explore my sexuality in other settings. Companionship has taught me the values of intimacy, and the ability to express it in a plethora of ways. It’s improved my confidence, trust and connections with myself and others.

    Personally, I am thankful for all the knowledge it has given me and I’m super excited for all my future endeavours!

    Popular Reasons Men Engage A Companion To Spend Time With

    Well, it isn’t only men who might seek out a companion. Yes, men are the majority of my clientele. But people of any sexual identity might feel the desire to seek (and also provide) companionship. I think people often view escort encounters as purely sexual, yes they have their physical benefits, but the best part of the interaction is building an intimate connection with your partner in ways that are not only physical.

    That’s what people are really looking for. Trust and the freedom to express themselves. Sometimes, that might be through exploring new kinks and fetishes. Other times, they might just want to watch the news or have someone by their side to cut loose with on the weekend, that is outside of their day to day life.

    Why I Recommend Virtual Dating Through Skype

    Well, I just moved from Toronto to Montreal this past fall. I had planned on making a trip home at the beginning of April. But then the Covid-19 situation happened. It’s been rather difficult being away from all my friends and family, but I video chat with them often which always brings me a good dose of comfort.

    On a regular basis, companions provide that special dose of comfort during their in person meetings. So why not fill up during a skype session.

    With everyone respecting the social distancing rules, human physical interaction is at an all time low. But remaining connected with each other emotionally, doesn’t have to be.

    What You Should Prepare Before Our Virtual Date

    Usually I would ask clients to be well showered and freshened up but considering the current situation; I just ask that they be comfortable and discreet during our virtual date.

    Let’s have a laugh and (maybe) an orgasm together.

    Faye Fleure – I am a first year PhD student, and an intimate companion residing in Montreal, Canada. I am a petite, earthy woman in her mid 20’s. They say the human touch may have some healing properties, maybe we should find out!

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    Website: www.fayefleure.com

    Twitter: www.twitter.com/fayefleure

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    Patreon: fayefleure

    Upcoming works/promotions: Currently working on a “Woodlands Creature” cosplay photo/video series for the summer. They will be available on Patreon on each new moon of summer. Follow me on twitter to find out more!

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  • Why You Should Enjoy Toronto With A Companion

    Why You Should Enjoy Toronto With A Companion

    Toronto is definitely one of the most fun cities in North America. The city is known for having unique neighbourhoods. There’s really something for everyone. There’s a beach neighbourhood (Queen st East), a party district (King and Spadina), a hippie district (Kensington Market), a luxury neighbourhood (Yorkville), a scruffy neighbourhood (Parkdale), and more.

    Some people call Toronto NYC lite. I can see why. Toronto is sprawling, expensive, and filled with people in a hurry. We’re a little elitist compared to the rest of Canada. But, that’s why people love Toronto. It’s an exciting city where you can live your potential. Once you’re here, you won’t want to leave.

    As far as the sex industry goes in Toronto, you’ll rarely be more spoiled anywhere else. You can have a massage in the morning, see a girl in your hotel in the afternoon and take her to dinner, then hit the strip club at night. The industry is basically live and let live in this city. You can have a lot of fun out in the open and no one really cares.

    Another thing is: there are a lot of companions in Toronto. So many, you’ll find it impossible to choose just one to see on your visit. There are really so many incredibly sexy, beautiful, intelligent, and provocative companions in Toronto. Lots of clients will travel here simply to see a provider, or two, or three, that intrigues them.

    Advantages of Engaging Companion In Toronto

    I mean, let’s start with the companions. They’re smokeshows. You get to spend private time with amazingly sexy folks, with all the “advantages” that brings.

    Beyond the obvious upsides of simply booking a provider, your date can give you useful tips about the city. If you’re travelling here for work and are staying near Union station, you might be tempted just to stay in that neighbourhood. After all, there are decent restaurants and attractions out that way. But if you really want to see the cool spots in Toronto, you’ll need to venture out to other districts. A companion can help you with that.

    If you want to book a companion to accompany you throughout your visit, you’ll have an amazing time. It’s really the dream girlfriend experience. There’s something about waking up together and spending the perfect day together that bonds the both of you. When clients take me out to dinner or on trips I feel like we get to know each other so deeply.

    If you’re visiting Toronto you’ll want to catch a theatre show, a sports game, or a concert. Why go alone, when you could go with an amazingly hot sidekick? Now you’re not just checking items of your “to-see list” in Toronto, you’re creating memories that will last a lifetime.

    Why I’m An Ideal Companion

    My ideal archetype is “girl you meet in the bookstore who gives you fuck-me eyes and is wearing burgundy velvet and black lace somewhere on her body.”

    My personality is pretty chill. I’m naturally a quiet person, but I have a very dry, dirty wit once you get to know me.

    Best Duration To Enjoy Toronto Together

    Hmm, that’s a tough one. I do love me a dinner date, so I’d say 4-6 hours is best for that. Whatever duration gives us enough time for a couple glasses of wine, I’m all for.

    Can We Extend Our Date Beyond Toronto?

    Yes! Canada is worth seeing from coast to coast. Make sure you check out Montreal, and some of the more natural areas of Quebec with beautiful lakes and wildlife. Go to the east coast and take a chill weekend with salty ocean air. Go to Calgary and ski (if that’s your thing) or just marvel at how beautiful the mountains are. Go to British Columbia and check out the west coast vibe.

    I’d also suggest the northern part of Canada, like Yellowknife. Yellowknife was probably my favourite trip in Canada. Canada is so massive and impressive, and it was so cool (no pun intended) to be so far north.

    Ways To Be My Favorite Client

    By booking a multi-hour date, providing all the booking info in a concise, organized way, and by being charming and respectful during the date. Respect is the big one. I can basically enjoy being with anyone. Everybody has interesting characteristics and viewpoints.

    A client who isn’t respectful, however, is one I have to watch out for. I’m constantly on my guard because I know they’re going to try and breach a boundary, or treat me like I’m not actually a human being. A client who’s respectful, on the other hand, is someone I can let myself go with. And isn’t that what it’s all about?

    I’m Serena Paxton, a tall, auburn companion with a dancer’s body and a sinner’s mind. With undeniable assets and a sparkling wit, I’ll rev you up and then help you unwind. Let’s have a great time and leave the memories in our bed sheets.

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    Website: www.serenapaxton.com

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/SerenaPaxton

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  • Ways The Escorting Industry Can Improve

    Ways The Escorting Industry Can Improve

    I feel quite passionately towards sex work. It is something I look upon as a great privilege for both him and I or her and her/him and him. To be able to provide such an intimate service for another person, to me, it is something to be greatly respected. As a natural historian, I have sort to explore the origins of stigma around sex work and can certainly see why it is such a struggle to accept sex work these days as something beautiful rather than ugly.

    The problem is, these old and ingrained rumors of sex work have made my profession almost completely void from the truth of its true purpose. To provide love. Or if that is too much to swallow, to provide a Quality Human Connection.

    Challenges Facing Sex Workers Today

    Fear! Hands down, fear of speaking up, fear of speaking up amongst the community of other businesses. We can’t have normal business conversations from a business operations perspective because we still aren’t allowed to talk openly and frankly about our business. This means we face greater challenges of being able to evolve or develop healthier business attitudes and leadership toward and in our industry.

    We cannot openly participate in business development forums, workshops, proper advertising and general development of healthy business structures. That means we remain an incredibly vulnerable market, a market mostly full of woman. It allows stigma to be further etched into our collective thoughts and feelings, causing us to remain fearful of doing something as simple as asserting a basic human right like safety in fear of the repercussions (can’t spell that one).

    A great example of this is Covid-19 business restrictions. Though we live in a fantastic country where we are decriminalised, our industry has had ZERO LEADERSHIP from any formal body including its own sex working collective on how we are to operate safely in our different alert levels. This is simply tragic and unnecessary. This could cause a serious health risk to a massive task that all of NZ undertook to remain COVID free.

    What It Takes For The Industry To Improve

    This industry must take itself seriously and stop waiting for others to take us seriously if we are to improve. We can improve greatly by simply raising our own standards first, role model the high standard in which we would like to be seen in by others and take it from there. It will take a shift in attitude and perspective, and is going to take courage but we can do it.

    From this, other forms of development in our industry will evolve organically such as workshops, being able to be part of proper business training and management. These are all things that I can offer as a trained and qualified mentor, social worker and life coach. Also regular meetings, changes in legislation and policy, stronger and more transparent relationship building between us, our stakeholders and our communities will start to happen if we put ourselves forward.

    I understand it is scary to step up and be seen in an industry where we feel we have to hide, but it is having the opposite impact, it is keeping us vulnerable, not safe. WE have to step forward and be heard and seen.

    Misconceptions About Physical Appearances Of Sex Workers

    I personally believe there is. My belief was that I needed to be young, good looking, slim and prepared to have sex with anyone. That was my belief when I entered, I have heard this has been a similar belief for others and not like this at all for other people. Overall, I experience there being a lot of misconceptions about who we are and what we actually do

    What Can Be Done For Sex Workers To Feel Confident?

    A lot, that could be a documentary in itself, it’s a deep and complex matter. I always say start with yourself, “be the change you want to see happening” I genuinely live by that. Sex workers themselves need to take themselves seriously and stop waiting for a miracle out there to happen, it’s not going to happen, we have to pave the way and be strong about that.

    We call the shots, not them, not ever. Our bodies, our work, our thoughts our lives our expertise, we are the source of knowledge and expertise.

    How I See The Industry Evolving In The Coming Years

    At this rate, painfully slowly and much at all but at the same time I do see attitudes slowly changing and governments being more open in some places to the idea of legitimizing sex work. I would like to see more leadership coming together with other leadership in a way that is seen, transparent and effective for us as a whole.

    I do also see the industry gaining momentum with individual independent workers which I feel is giving birth to a new and more modern wave of sex workers who are more vocal about their right to work as a sex worker.

    Bella Petite – I’m a deep thinker and often find myself-looking at the big picture. I enthusiastically believe in raising the bar. My desire is for you, the client, to confidently know without hesitation you are employing my services with the same level of trust, quality and professional etiquette and accountability you would expect from any other highly successful business.

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    Twitter: https://twitter.com/BellaPetite4

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    https://escortify.co.nz/wellington-escorts/bella-petite-6094

    https://availableangels.com.au/escort/bella-petite/

    https://www.nzpleasures.co.nz/escort/bellapetite/

    https://wellington.locanto.co.nz/ID_3830213569/Bella-Petite.html

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  • What It’s Like To Be An Escort In Germany

    What It’s Like To Be An Escort In Germany

    Becoming an escort was not a decision based on just one reason. Of course it gives me more financial freedom and I have enough time to study sociology and gender studies, to take care of my three dogs and enjoy my private life. But if money would be the only reason, I would not do it very long with so much passion. I love that, with every date I have a new opportunity being the perfect companion and I can create a connection with this person. I always liked about sex that it makes men honest in a special way. In my experience men mostly show their pure self completely being in the moment through erotic intimate moments. Probably it is hard to play a role when most of your blood is centered between your legs. Therefore, already before being an escort I loved to have sex with different men to get to know them in all facets.

    I like to find a unique way to create a connection with every single customer. Humans generally want to feel safe and loved. To be able to give someone this feeling that he can open up himself in my company is something I really enjoy. As an escort, I have a safe space where I can enjoy erotic and intimate connections for the time I am booked. Nobody gets hurt because of potential expectations for the time afterwards and one top I get paid for a shared amazing date experience.

    When I started as an escort, I didn’t tell my friends and family about it or asked for their advice. I knew they would love me no matter what as long as I am happy. So I knew they would also worry about me and based on prejudice probably try to change my decision. After around one year as an escort, I had already told my best friends about it and I figured out that I didn’t want to hide a big part of my life for the next years from my friends and family. Now I have a much deeper and more honest relationship to my family and they support me to be happy and accept my choices. I tell them everything and support them. I enjoy support and love from all my friends and family and it has been the best decision to be honest and stand behind my choices.

    What Made Me Decide To Escort

    I started escorting in the end of 2016. Even if it is legal in Germany, there are still a lot of negative prejudice about this industry. Nevertheless, to be an escort somehow has always been attractive in my imagination. I tended to be less attracted by the ideal of a monogamous relationship leading into marriage, a house and two kids. On the contrary, I have been attracted by the experience of creating a connection with another person. I wanted to explore the unique and special chemistry each relationship is built on.

    Therefore, I enjoyed to date a lot of different people over different time periods. Every time I thought about working as an escort. I was fascinated by the idea but scared about the negative consequences for my social life. So it took me some time and I needed to live one my own for a while till I was brave enough to face my responsibility of doing what feels right for myself. When I then thought about which work could suit my passion, escorting felt like the right answer and it still does!

    What It Is Like Being An Escort In Germany

    The biggest difference to many other countries like the US is probably that in Germany, escorting is a legal profession. When you work as an escort, you have to get the required papers at the city office and you have to pay taxes as in every other legal business. Even if in Germany, the content of the prostitution law takes place in many critical discussions, there is at least a law that provides the rights of legal work. Anyway, sex work in general has to deal with many negative prejudice. Therefore, to avoid social exclusion, many sex workers keep their job a secret.

    In Germany, it is more common for an escort to work with an agency than independently. Respectively, many agency websites can be found on the internet. Still, as in every other industry, you have to figure out which one fits best for your priorities. The good ones provide many detailed information on their websites.

    Being An Independent Escort vs Working For An Agency

    I started with an agency and now I work more and more as an independent escort as well. In general, I think it is a matter of lifestyle for everyone, whether working with an agency or alone is the better way. It is a matter of priority and time. For some, escorting is just a side job, for others it is a full time work with the character of even a life choice. As an independent, you have to do all the work and organization around your online representation and your dates on your own. You make every decision so you are the one who is responsible.

    An agency offers you to work with someone who knows the industry and can give you advice and support. The agency organizes everything for you like screening your clients, the communication and your marketing. Therefore, the agency charges a provision for every organized date. As an independent escort, you keep your full fee from every date but you have to invest as well in your website, in your advertising and what else is needed to support your business. If you want to decide everything yourself and above that you have enough time to do all the work yourself, you might not need an agency.

    To work with an agency basically means to outsource some work and pay them for their service. In this case still, you should compare the different agencies to see if find you one that suits you before you make a choice. A good agency works together with you and the work is based on respect and trust from both sides.

    Things That The Escorting Industry Can Improve On

    The escort industry in Germany is just one part of the sex work industry. In general, I wish as a first step, that all countries would decriminalize the whole industry. The law should define sex work as legal work in a way which respects and protects all sex workers as a part of the society. A law just issued control will not change the social acceptance. That’s why in Germany, there are still social stigmata and many negative prejudice.

    For me, this was the reason I didn’t tell anyone in the beginning about my profession. When you do it just for a while it might work but I think that hiding a part of your life from everybody costs as much energy and can hurt yourself a lot. The worst experience I made as an escort has been the feeling of a growing distance towards my friends, family and my private life. I loved escorting as a part of my life but I lived a life pretending escorting wouldn’t be a part of it.

    The decision to change that has affected my life in many positive ways. I wish everybody in this industry that they don’t have to struggle because of hiding their job.

    Considerations Before You Become An Escort

    As pointed out, I do have many positive feelings about being escort and I collect many positive experiences. However, there are not only nice people out there. Some want to take advantage of you, some might not accept your boundaries. You should be certain of what you want and what your boundaries are as well as how you can assure they’re kept. You should know how to screen your clients before dates and make sure you know what kind of a person your client is.

    Moreover, a safe meeting place is crucial. You need to decide whether you want to start as an independent or with an agency. Find a way to get support and the knowledge you need. Find an agency to work with or other sex workers to support you and give you advice. You should consider as well how you can manage to integrate the job into your life and combine it with your private life, and last but not not least, how you can keep the two of them separated from each other.

    Irina Le Fey – I am a cute, high energy, open minded girl from Germany. I love hiking in the wild nature and dating to explore human culture. Meet me as your little island to escape the ocean of daily life.

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  • Does Intimacy Often Lead to Love? Why Dating a Companion Might Be Your Answer…

    Does Intimacy Often Lead to Love? Why Dating a Companion Might Be Your Answer…

    Insecurity. Hurt. Confusion – you might find these emotions splat in the middle of a toxic relationship. Usually, you cannot predict whether or not you and a significant other will end up this way, at least with not 100% accuracy. However, seeking a woman whose interests, perspectives, and opinions are ones that might not likely turn toxic in a relationship can be your best bet.

    I see men that have this abundant lifestyle in their work and career, filled with many opportunities for them to grow financially. In contrast, those same men find it difficult to fall in love. The reason being might not be so simple, still, before any relationship should strike, a friendship must be established. I’m not talking about the kind of “friendship” most people perceive. Instead, I will be talking about a special form of it – namely, companionship.

    What Is Companionship Anyway?

    Companionship is a vital connection that provokes a sense of closeness. It can occur in different ways – platonic, sexual, exclusive. In my experience as a companion, I have travelled, attended events and even just hung out with my male friends – the last one being my most preferred. When you are actively and constantly associating yourself with someone, especially on a sexual level, you see a different side than most would.

    It may come in the form of a personalized preference or maybe a fantasy. Through the process of opening up to what might seem like a stranger at first, can lead to a form of intimacy that one might not get through the traditional way of dating.

    When you are actively and constantly associating yourself with someone, especially on a sexual level, you see a different side than most would.

    A friend of mine (we will call her Stacy for the sake of anonymity) who first started dating a boy at her work, soon began finding herself unusually dissatisfied in her long-term relationship. After their breakup, she began in the world of companionship, mainly going on a dating website called Seeking Arrangements. While on a first date with a guy, they eventually ended up in the bedroom. What came up next was an odd surprise that the man was quite shy to speak about. Apparently, in his previous marriage, his wife would laugh at him because he wanted her to take up a dominant role and put a ball gag in his mouth. Stacy, being open to new experiences took up this fantasy. To this day, she still sees this man. In fact, they are happier than ever. I long for this kind of transparency, understanding and familiarity in a dating partner.

    No two people have exactly the same ideas on sex. However, sex builds intimacy and intimacy builds sex. Now, we can say that companionship boasts the traits of intimacy – on an emotional, intellectual, and sexual level – as displayed with Stacy. Women already with this adjusted mentality of providing companionship to men also come with attributes such as openness to new experiences, non-traditional ways of thinking, and overall more tolerant to crazy thoughts or ideas.

    I mean, wouldn’t you want to be aware of your partner’s dirty little secrets, or know how they like to be touched? Well…

    Here’s a reminder that love is always out there, in the air, and maybe closer than you think. So, next time you look to experience a new kind of dating – try to reach out to a companion. You might just get surprised by this special kind of Woman.

    Your Lovely Companion, 

    Miss Kate xo

    Miss Kate – Hi, and welcome to the exciting and passionate world of my extravagant thoughts. To give you a sense of who I am, imagine a graceful ballet dancer who wisps away hatred & negativity through finding beauty in all things. My hobbies include literature, dance and fashion. Also, I look for the best in people, which sometimes leads me to interesting experiences. And yes, I do believe in fairy tales.

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  • Can Steroids Affect Your Sexual Performance?

    Can Steroids Affect Your Sexual Performance?

    While men might choose to lift weights and get chiseled for all kinds of reasons, many people pursue this goal to attract a mate (or impress their escort, for those who prefer using escort services). Rippling muscles are normally considered attractive, so it’s reasonable to expect that a regular workout routine could help improve a man’s sexual performance.

    If you enhance your workouts with steroids, however, you might experience some awful effects that would undermine your sexual performance.

    Steroids are positive in that it increases muscle mass, muscle definition, and strength. It also enhances the effectiveness of training, besides improving the recovery rate.

    Unfortunately, the extensive side effects far outweigh the benefits, which makes it a poor choice in general. The side effects include erectile dysfunction, reduced sperm count, breast development (in men), baldness, and increased risk of heart disease.

    How Steroids Affect Your Sexual Performance

    Anabolic steroids are drugs used to build muscle mass and reduce body fat. It requires a doctor’s prescription, and doctors use these steroids to treat various medical conditions, such as muscle-wasting conditions associated with AIDs, delayed puberty, and loss of testicular function.

    There’s no evidence that using steroids as recommended by your doctor is harmful if you are healthy. Short-term steroid use has been known to boost sex drive in some instances, but ongoing abuse of steroids may have a negative effect not only on your sex life but on your overall health, as well.

    Pumping your body full of chemicals may cause the muscles to expand. It also increases your feelings of power or strength. The body might interpret these signals with alarm, though, working hard to correct what it sees as an imbalance in the system.

    The results are often the following:

    • Your body will start producing lower levels of male hormones
    • Hormone receptors that regulate male function will be turned off
    • Your body’s cells may release compensatory chemicals, including chemicals that promote feminine characteristics

    The above processes wreak havoc on your sex drive. It’s common for men who abuse steroids to experience periods in which sex drive takes a dive—some of these men struggle to attain a climax when having sex, too.

    Other men experience reduced sensitivity when using high doses of certain steroid medications. Also noteworthy is that the use of steroids can harm your fertility by interfering with hormone signals that stimulate sperm production.

    The level of damage to your fertility depends largely on the type of steroids, the dosage, as well as how long you take these substances. Research shows that most men restore healthy sperm production in three to twelve months after they stop using steroids.

    Should You Continue Using Steroids?

    Thanks to the strong detrimental effects of steroids on sexual performance, male fertility, and other health issues associated with these substances, it advisable to avoid using these types of medication.

    Otherwise, you might find that your penis is less sensitive, and your body is moving against your natural masculinity. Recovering from the condition might mean giving up the steroids and investing in better health going forward.

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  • The Benefits Of Seeing A Sex Worker

    The Benefits Of Seeing A Sex Worker

    I love sex the same way I love to dance or go horseback riding. It’s a fun (adult) activity that provides expression, connection and excitement! I don’t believe it’s natural for the human being to go long periods of time without touch, intimacy or the expression that sex provides.

    Historically and culturally, most of us are not built to do it. I enjoy providing that for people. Additionally, when I have sex with a partner or significant other, there’s an added level of intimacy and emotion.

    The Reasons Clients Engage Sex Workers

    Because touch, sex and intimacy are vital parts of our human existence, sex workers essentially provide that companionship for people.

    We’re a safe place to go. I’ve had clients ranging from the widow/ers who are coming to terms with their new life after losing a partner and are simply lonely and miss a warm body and kind touch; the retired police officer or military vet who still wants to be noticed but have lost their confidence to go out because of traumas or injuries they’ve endured; individuals who suffer from mental illness, who sometimes don’t have the ability to form long-lasting meaningful relationships with a partner because of mental illness but still long for and deserve that connection.

    Plus, it’s a lot of fun to let loose and express that side of ourselves!

    What Are The Benefits Of Engaging A Sex Worker?

    We’re a safe space for our clients to explore different fantasies and build confidence. Come as you are with your kinks, curiosities and insecurities. We create an environment in which there’s no pressure or judgement and they are free to express sides of themselves, explore their fetishes, discover or rediscover aspects of themselves they might have to suppress in their day to day life without fear of social pressures or retaliation.

    One Important Tip For Clients

    Get comfortable, respect yourself and the worker and have lots of communication! Our intention is for us both to have the best time that we can.

    Ways To Spice Things Up With A Client

    Spicy preferences will vary between sex workers and clients. If a client has a fantasy or fetish they’ve wanted to explore, I’d love to hear it! Toys, outfits, role play, etc.

    Hi! I’m V. Falls, my friends call me V. (Some may also know me as Tori Falls). I love traveling, the Oregon Coast and new adventures with all genders and sexualities. I’m a legal sex worker currently working between The Mustang Ranch in Sparks, Nevada and The Desert Rose in Elko, Nevada.

    Follow V on

    Twitter: @VToriFallsxx / @ToriFalls_

    Instagram: @v.tori.falls

    OnlyFans: onlyfans.com/vtorifalls

    Websites:

    https://mustangranchbrothel.com/index.php/ladies/v-falls

    https://www.desertroseclub.com/ladies-page.php?lady=tori

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  • Why Every Business Man Should Engage A Luxury Companion (Part 2)

    Why Every Business Man Should Engage A Luxury Companion (Part 2)

    When I started my journey as Karina Valentina, I did a lot of research on how other ladies handle their business. I realized that having a professional website with all the necessary information is very important. I did put a lot of time and effort into it to make sure that gentleman has the answer to all his questions on there. I always make an emphasis on the importance of reading my website first to see if we are a good match. It takes only a few minutes to read the basics and then if it sparked your interest, then definitely it’s great to explore all the pages.

    At times, it does surprise me that regardless of my recommendation, men would still ask questions that are obviously mentioned on the website. Gentleman, please, please, if you contact any lady to make her acquaintance, make sure you read the information provided prior. It is such a simple thing, but makes every provider happy and obviously more willing to meet you. All ladies have different rates, minimal amount of hours, requirements in terms of screening, different styles, looks, and personalities. Once you do your research and find a companion you would like to meet – be a gentleman, respect her rules and restrictions for booking, pay the proper rate – and trust me, you will have the time of your life.

    Let me go through some basic etiquette that you probably know, but it never hurts to remind. Ladies have different preferred types of communication. For me the best is feeling in the contact form on the website, sending email /text containing all the information that is required in the contact form. It makes things so much easier for both parties. Also, hopefully there is no need say this, but “hi”, “hey” etc is definitely not a great way to start the conversation. It is a huge turn on to talk to a respectful and polite gentlemen! I am a woman who will make sure that you will be treated like in kind so please treat me like a lady back. Offensive language, explicit talks and lewd conduct is an absolute “no” when you are contacting and spending time with me as well as with any other companion.

    How To Ensure Our Time Together Is Wonderful

    I always thrive to provide the best experience possible. During initial communication, it is important for me to figure out what kind of gentleman I am meeting (to read between the lines of his email if I can say so). As there are many different personalities and different approaches may be needed. Moreover, regardless of the gentleman’s character, compatibility is paramount for me. Nothing can be better than meeting someone who is on the same wavelength and vibe with me as then, the pleasure of a rendezvous is multiplied by many times for both.

    When I started, I was really upset when a gentleman didn’t find me attractive physically or personality wise. Now, I don’t want to be everyone’s cup of tea, but rather, for selective ones to ensure the best experience possible.

    Besides that, as every lady, I desire to be treated with respect and proper manners. Little things like opening a door, helping with a coat, with a chair at the restaurant are indeed important to me and I always notice it all. It makes me smile and get happier by the minute.

    Being attentive is another important trait and behaviour that I value and cherish. I cannot describe how happy and grateful I am when a gentleman brings flowers, or any other type of gift that I mention on my website. Not even the fact of gift that matters, but the fact that he took his time to read it and get to know me before the actual meeting. I would say that a golden formula is to listen to each other, to speak to your souls, and to be able to experiment. I understand that it might be hard sometimes, as in many cases we are not fully aware of our sexuality, what can bring us the ultimate pleasure, what will make the moment unforgettable, but the more open we are, the better our rendezvous will be.

    Frankly speaking, I do need to follow my own advice way more often. As sometimes, I still find myself too shy to tell about things that I fantasize about. Mostly it’s because I think my date is shy too (I know it might sound weird, but my style of companionship is an actual girlfriend experience, which might sometimes include a little cute awkward moment). It’s always easily solved ones, that either of us steps up and shares some little secrets. As I mentioned before, the connection does play a vital role for me and I am sure for most gentlemen as well.

    So once I meet an open soul, once we share some things with each other (obviously doesn’t have to be anything that me or the gentleman don’t want to talk about, as privacy and mutual respect are at the most importance), like magic – our minds, bodies, and souls are fully combined and we can thoroughly indulge in each other. I can go on and on about it, but I hope my main idea was heard. We live once, and life is too short to live it boring, scared or closed-minded!

    Karina Valentina – I am  a young woman  who can be described as an “adventure seeker, soul healer, crazy laugher”. Also simply a lady who (it’s a Russian saying, might translate weird in English) will be a queen when meeting his friends, the most hospitable hostess around the house, and the dirtiest pornstar in bed:)

    My friends also call me a Happy Butterfly by the way;)

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    Website: https://www.karinavalentina.com/about-karina

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/Karina_Vlt

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  • Why Every Business Man Should Engage A Luxury Companion

    Why Every Business Man Should Engage A Luxury Companion

    To begin with, I would like to mention that I am coming from a really prejudice and judgmental background. I was born in Russia and raised in Ukraine. Not sure how aware you are of the culture there. In a nutshell: companions (they don’t use any of the alternative words, just “prostitute”or ‘whore”) are referred to as “girls with low social responsibility”, and escorting is called “ugly social phenomenon”.

    I personally never saw sex work this way, but didn’t consider it as my line of work to begin with. Not that while ago, my life circumstances necessitated me to go on the “dark side” and I am so glad they did. Probably, so far it’s the best decision I have made. It started with a need and now it’s a huge part of my life and me as a person and I am not planning to give up on all this great experiences any time soon.

    At the moment I can’t even describe how blessed and thankful I am to be in the community, to have so many supportive ladies, clients, the people who sincerely want all the SW to succeed, with whom I can be my true self, live, love and laugh.

    The stigma and disrespect towards professional companions like myself here is clearly just a prejudice that society has based just on general knowledge. Only ignorant people can see companionship as inferior act. Is it bad when two (or more) people have a great time, can relax and unwind, experience new sensations, explore their bodies, range of emotions learn from each other, travel together, explore new places and adventures without any complication?

    All romantic relationships between men and women involve an exchange of value to improve the lives of both participants. There is no fundamental difference between a relationship with a professional companion like myself and a “normal” one, other than you already know prior to entering the engagement, how long I am your girlfriend for and “break-ups” or “separation”are not heart-breaking.

    Why I’m An Ideal Companion Date

    I would describe myself as a sweet, warm, passionate, sophisticated young lady, who enjoys adventures and loves to try new things. Also, my European blood adds a little spice, so I can be intense, stormy and in a good way a little crazy. As they say, “still waters run deep“. With that being said, it is never a dull moment with me. On Twitter, there are a few videos, where you can here my laughter. I personally think it’s not pretty at all, but everyone finds it super sincere, hilarious and uplifting. (In case you are having a bad day, I suggest you watch it or better hear it in person…)

    One of the greatest finesse this industry has taught me is how to deal with different types of people, handle various situations, adjust to any scenario, make people feel comfortable around me, see what one likes just by a brief chat.

    Despite my young age, I am a well-educated lady. I already hold a Bachelor’s degree in International Business.  Soon looking to start a Masters Program. In addition to my school education, I consider myself to be a street-smart woman. I frequently read books about self-growth, self-development and spirituality. For me, it’s easy to support any conversation. I love a genuine laughter, discussions, doing activities together. It entails that my favourite rendezvous are definitely multiple hour ones, or multi-day. I see this as such, a wonderful opportunity to spend time, to get to know each other, to build long-lasting connections. Needless to say, that sex is a million times better when we become comfortable with each other.

    I only share my time with men of grace and distinction, I don’t pretend to like them – I really do care for every one of them as individuals and I treat them like they deserve to be treated. One of my friends who was trapped in an abusive marriage claims that I literally saved his life by spending my time with him at his most vulnerable moment, so this makes me kind of a man’s emotional first responder – I even have the nurse uniform if we need it.

    Reasons Men Engage Companions

    I do meet a lot of gentleman who come to the city for business – conferences, meetings, projects, trainings, location scouting etc. From what I observed and been told, there are quite a few reasons why they are seeking companionship during such trips.

    Constant flying, tight schedules, not enough sleep are only a few difficulties out of many that those men face while traveling. Hiring a luxury companion is a great way to de-stress, unwind, relax, and get your thoughts together for the next day or before an important meeting. Plus, traveling along can get boring. A courtesan can be everything you seek in one – a friend, conversationalist, arm candy, city guide, and bedroom nymph. She will keep you entertained, energized, and distracted from the pressure.

    Also, a big part of it is definitely the opportunity to fulfil your fantasies. What’s most important is that having a rendezvous with a companion doesn’t require any commitment afterwards. You can have the time of your life, and after, return to your regular routine without any worry or obligations.

    A lot of business trips also require outings, dinners and events. As a successful businessman, you’ll want to be seen with a beautiful, well dressed and well groomed, smart and classy lady. It is important to keep up appearances at social events.

    I do have to mention, that many times gentlemen book me to spend time with their business partners, investors etc. As a sign of appreciation. Such gifts never fails (at least from my experience), but helps to close deals and maintain good business relationships.

    To sum everything up, there are various reasons why gentlemen engage in such type of encounters. With mutual respect, discretion, open-mindedness and always positive attitude such relationships are a win -win situation.

    To Be Continued…

    Karina Valentina – I am  a young woman  who can be described as an “adventure seeker, soul healer, crazy laugher”. Also simply a lady who (it’s a Russian saying, might translate weird in English) will be a queen when meeting his friends, the most hospitable hostess around the house, and the dirtiest pornstar in bed:)

    My friends also call me a Happy Butterfly by the way;)

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    Website: https://www.karinavalentina.com/about-karina

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/Karina_Vlt

    Images from Karina Valentina

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