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How To Satisfy A Woman In Bed

What are my personal views on sex? I think it’s really fun! This lighthearted sort of view stems from the idea that if any one of us lives long enough, it will/does stop being fun at some point. This is probably true for women sooner than it is for men, very generally speaking. So that’s why I think: Have the fun while you can!

While it’s immensely pleasurable, sex is also a very primal thing. Maybe that’s why it’s a topic that evokes a lot of curiosity, while also being somewhat uncomfortable to talk about. The curiosity can be a bit one-sided, meaning, while it may be natural for others to be very curious about other people’s sexual affairs, many value privacy with regard to their own sexual escapades.

I think that in one’s sexual adventures as fun, one should consider a few important elements. Respect, empathy and common-sense are the few that I can think of at the moment. Respect – meaning respecting your sex partner via investment of time, effort and/or so on and also, being sensitive to your partner’s boundaries. Empathy is important because sex is one of the states in which one is most vulnerable.

A sexual dynamic, whether one is the recipient or provider of sex, invites for the opportunity to dehumanize and abuse the other party. Empathy is important to counter that risk. Common-sense refers to staying/playing safe, and going to the doctor to ensure one’s health for one’s sake, as well as his/her past, present, future partners.

My Turn Ons

I’m not someone who requires physical perfection to be attracted to someone. Rather, I am someone who sees beauty in imperfection because I feel as though imperfection is the very thing that makes us all human. As a general rule, I like older men, and always have. As far as more specifics as to what I find attractive, I think it’s difficult to know what really turns me on until I see it and experience it. It’s almost as though I have to try it to know if I like it!

Sometimes, the attraction is purely physical and immediate. I see someone across the room and go “wow”. Maybe it’s something about his lips, hair, or as he walks closer, the way that he smells. Then ensues the slight discomfort of anticipation of what may unfold. As he gets closer, the space between us feels like pressure inside a champagne bottle waiting for it’s cork to be popped. Sometimes the attraction is more elusive. Maybe it’s something about the sound of his voice; or, the deliberate yet gentle way he glides across the room; or, the way his hands slide down my back in an embrace. Other times, the attraction begins as cerebral-like, for instance, after a thoughtful conversation. In that case, it is the intellect which serves as a sexual catalyst.

As you can see, there are more than one ways to become aroused. Generally, I’m not someone that finds it difficult to become excited about having fun! Most important thing is: Just be a nice guy.

Foreplay Mistakes Men Make

One of the most obvious mistakes is foregoing foreplay entirely. Of course, this only applies to guys who are overly eager and/or inexperienced. What I need the guy to do exactly, as part of foreplay, depends on where we are and how much time we’ve allotted to our fun. If the act is completely spontaneous, no foreplay may be required at all. In that case, we may be both already so thoroughly in the moment and excited by the prospect of the act to even remember foreplay as a requirement.

Otherwise, being the very tactile person that I am, touch is usually a good start. It can include the more obviously erotic areas such as what’s in between a lady’s legs, or the more erogenous zones like the back and neck. Caresses, fingering, or kissing are good options. Some women also like toys as part of foreplay. And then, there is also 69/mutual oral which some might find especially fun!

As for the breasts, as much as my partner is enthusiastically willing to provide is fine with me. I don’t have any specific breast play that I favor.

Ready For More!

Whether or not I require oral depends on how much time my partner and I allotted to the experience. Sometimes the circumstance is simply not conducive to making oral sex a priority before penetration. So with that said, from experience, I know that I can definitely go without. Penetration usually happens as a natural course of things. Sometimes, the partner asks outright. Other times, the partner intuitively knows when to put it in, as much as he knows as to where.

At this point in my sexual adventures, I think I’ve graduated to liking various styles of sexual positions. It all depends on the circumstance.

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August 22, 2016
What Every Guy Should Do On A Dinner Date

What I love about dinner dates is that it allows myself and a gentleman to connect on all levels over mouth-watering food and delectable wine. There is something very sensual and satisfying about connecting and exploring each others’ minds while we talk and laugh over dinner and drinks. A dinner date allows us to take our time and get to know each other better.

I recently had the honor of being invited to a 2 star Michelin restaurant in beautiful San Francisco. This is the first time I had visited a Michelin restaurant so you can imagine how excited I was! The food and wine pairing was out of this world and my date was the perfect gentleman! I am a foodie and I love to cook.

I have a very open minded personality and I adore trying new places and new foods. I would love the luxury of going on more amazing dinner dates where I can explore a wide variety of cultural foods. I would be interested in trying some Ethiopian food as I have heard it is very tasty. I would love to meet more cultured interesting men who will open up new doors for me to try new cuisine so we can explore more together.

In addition to being a courtesan I am also a personal trainer, so I am very interested in eating healthy cuisine. I love to shop at farmers markets and cook and experiment in the kitchen with all the fresh produce and make some yummy dishes.

Since I am a big food and wine enthusiast (don’t get me started talking about cooking shows), I also offer weekend excursions. I would love to go to the Napa Valley for the weekend with a gentleman that appreciates fine wine and amazing delicious cuisine. I have a very curious mind and I would love to learn more about food and wine. I am part Italian (also Irish, German and French) so I love good homemade Italian food and succulent wine paired with the food. I am now getting hungry for some spaghetti and meatballs or lasagna.

Preparation Every Guy Should Do

I believe a man should treat this as a very special night. I appreciate a man who is freshly showered, shaved, smells good (body and mouth) and wearing appropriate dinner attire. I love it when a man dresses up and wears a suit and tie, especially if you are going to a Michelin or expensive restaurant. It not only shows respect to the lady, but to the entire restaurant as well. I am old-fashioned and love a well dressed man for a date. For me it says you care when you take time to pay attention to the little details. Awhile back I was on a dinner date and the man wore jeans, a t-shirt and sneakers to the restaurant. Not only did we look mismatched, but I was very embarrassed to say the least. You never want the lady to feel embarrassed. You always want her to feel excited and proud to be on a date with you.

Some extra finishing touches I feel that would add to the date would be to send a limo or car to pick her up, beautiful flowers (I love roses) and perhaps her favorite bottle of chilled wine, champagne and hor d’oeuvres available upon her arrival. I love starting out a dinner date with some champagne and various hor d’oeuvres (I love french champagne and my favorite is Veuve Clicquot).

First Impressions Count!

First impressions are very important and sets the mood for the entire date.

What I first notice is my dates’ appearance and even his smell. I love a good cologne on a man. I can tell when a gentleman has put effort into the date because he is clean, well-groomed, looks handsome and smells good. You can tell when he puts some some thought into the date because it shows.

Bad Date Experiences

Yes I have had two bad dates so far. One happened last year when I first got started in the escort business and was too trusting and naive.. The guy wrote me a check for my companionship which of course bounced. After we had dinner he went outside to have a cigarette and disappeared and I had to pay the bill! He actually had the nerve to text me later on and wanted to come back to my place and finish the date! I did verify the guy through another provider but sometimes these guys can be good for many dates and then all of a sudden become bad. So now I always pay attention to my gut feeling. I did not have a good feeling about this guy, but I overrode my impression of him and went ahead with the date. I have since learnt my lesson.

The other date was not a scam but the guy showed no class, dressed down and put very little effort into the date. He even let flies and moths into the hotel room lol (I mean it was like a Seinfeld episode and btw I love Seinfeld!). I mean he was not even hungry when it was time for dinner and never even made a reservation. He did not make the date or me feel very special and of course I did not have a good time.

I would say that bad manners and no or little attention to the details are date spoilers for me.

It takes two people to make a date special and memorable and when one party does not care to make a good impression, it can make a huge difference in the overall date experience and connection.

Signs She Is Enjoying Herself

If I am laughing and engaging in lots of conversation with you then you will know I am enjoying myself. I am very expressive and vocal and I will tell you I am having an amazing time with you. I will also be enjoying the food and wine and talking about how delicious it is.

I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve and it is easy to tell if I am having a good time. If I get quiet then that is a bad sign (well anytime a lady gets quiet that is a bad sign lol) I am bored or the date is just not going well and we are not having a good connection. I will also look around more and not really engage much with you if I am not having a good time. I am not hard to figure out.

Stephania Ricci is an Exotic International Courtesan who specializes in luxury dinner dates and travel companionship. She is also a Foodie, wine and fitness enthusiast. Follow her on Twitter @stephaniaricci1 and on her website www.stephaniaricci.com

She is going to be starting a series of podcasts soon and if anyone would like to be informed the minute each one comes out, you may either follow her on twitter or sign up for her email list at her website.

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August 17, 2016
How To Spice Up Your Sex Life

My personal views on sex are vast. I find most people acquaint their sex life to dating type relationships. What most refer to as vanilla. To me sexuality is a huge playing field, from trying out new toys to swinging and fetish. It’s a chance to explore and become more self-confident while satisfying inner most desires. Sex is an important factor of a balanced life whether I’m in a relationship or not. Sex is beneficial for the mind and body. As long as no one is being harmed, there is no right or wrong. It’s all about what’s right for you. I actually categorize sex as a form of self care.

Experiment!

Experimenting is something I find to be really fun with a partner. I’m a visual person. Toys are a lustful interest of mine. I have several luggage bags full of vibrators, dildos and such from my experimental journeys, whether alone or on a group venture. It’s my feeling that experimenting brings couples closer together. My consorts always keep me mentally stimulated with an amazing variety of interests. I adore going along for the ride. Sometimes we have to play a little naughty doctor or maybe dress up. A man isn’t a man until he has strapped on a garter and heels. Other times they like diving into a true release with a little domination or sensual bondage. As long as there is no physical or mental damage taking place. I am all about experimenting. Fear doesn’t belong in the bedroom. You need to push boundaries to discover new areas of enjoyment. You may even learn something about yourself along the way.

Non-Existent Sex Lives

Any relationship is work. To have a great sex life, you have to put effort into it like any other aspect of your relationship. Very often, kids and a busy lifestyle are the main issue for couples trying to stay intimate. It’s really hard after a long day to feel sexy. Unresolved arguments, or lack of communication can also be the culprit. Feeling like you’re never on the same page is an easy way to hinder sex. When you’ve been together for years things are bound to get boring. If your intent is to have a healthy sex life, some efforts in the right direction are easy to spice things up.

Ways To Spice Things Up

The first step to spicing up a couple’s love life is communication. I know this may sound cliche. You would be surprised how often couples are not even on the same page when it comes to sex. Building trust through open communication is the step that launches you into a better sex life. I’d advise setting aside time to have an open honest, non-judgemental conversation about things you’ve been dying to try. This can lead to experimenting with different toys and positions. It can start off simple, perhaps a strategically placed vibrator during oral sex for him or her. Often, role play or a trip into a bit of submission territory with her at the wheel.

I find that many couples who have gotten that far have an amazing sex life. Playtime can then escalate to new adventures. Encounters such as threesomes may come into play. Which for this I always advise hiring a professional escort. It’s just a safer way to go both emotionally and professionally. It alleviates any concerns of affairs or gossip after the fact. Women or men well versed in entertaining couples can help guide the way to a truly intimate, exciting and eye opening experience.

Another suggestion I like to make is separate bedrooms. If you have the space to do, it’s not wrong to have your own space to sleep in. This aids in two ways. One, you always get a good night sleep. Two, when you do come together for sex it can almost be a bit of a date night. It actually takes some effort and thought. There’s something special about it. No one is rolling over for a quickie. Although you may argue over who has to sleep in the wet spot.

The Benefits Are Endless

Adventurous couples are very often best friends, lovers and life partners who live enriched lives through these experiences. The act of experimenting together helps create a deeper level of trust and intimacy. The openness to communicate desires, boundaries and curiosities can only make a relationship stronger when approached as a team effort. Physical benefits also prevail. Sexually active men and women tend to be healthy and carry less stress versus their less active counter parts.

Endorphins are believed to help fight depression. Serotonin has a euphoric effect on the brain. This is why humans are often in “in love” after having a sexual encounter. Women can greatly benefit from regular orgasms. These muscle reactions actually help to tighten the vaginal walls, which helps fight off muscular atrophy which occurs as we age. The perks to spicing up your sex life are amazing to the mind, body and relationship in more ways than most people truly recognize.

I’m Arden Moon a career courtesan and industry adviser. When I’m not planning the next erotic adventure. I can be found enjoying my fitness routine, golf or writing. I’ve authored two books relating to the internet escorting industry. Residing in the playground called Las Vegas. Life is a non stop party. You can catch me in a city near you as I tour the US in 2016. Follow me at ArdenMoon.com, Twitter @VipArdenMoon and Instagram @ArdenMoon

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August 4, 2016
Insights In The Life Of Montreal Escort Genevieve Marceau

My views towards sexuality are positively open minded, and I consider this act as an important form of self-expression. The bedroom (or any other room) is where the mask falls. It is during this exhilarating moment that we release the deepest side of our personality, the one that we keep from the general public. We enter a world of fantasy where we can truly be ourselves, without fear of judgement. To me, sex is a connection: an exchange of power and energy with the partners involved, between the mind and the body.

I have been an escort for 4 beautiful years now. I had this comfortable, safe 9 to 5 career in which at some point the free thinker that I am grew incredibly bored out of it. I simply needed more in life. I needed to grow and expand as a human being. I always did the right thing, following the right path as per the society’s standards, and one day, I decided that I could no longer take more of this polished and unchallenged life. I then reached out to my escort friend, and asked her to introduce me to this world of mystery and sensuality that is the companionship profession. To this day, this was one of the best decision that I made in my life.

I am unique, just like everyone else! On a more serious note, I don’t have competitive views on the trade. I see other escorts as my colleagues, a networking community where we exchange tips, ideas and from which friendship may thrive. We all have something different, special and unique to offer, and therefore it is impossible to compare to one another. At the end of the day, it’s only a matter of personal taste and chemistry.

My trademark would be my generous and all-natural hip to waist ratio, which is not so common for Caucasian women. More than my sensual skills and physical attributes, I also consider myself a great listener with a considerable general knowledge, and with an acute intuition for non-verbal cues. I am an INFJ personality type, which only represent approximately 1% of the population.

The requests that I would consider weird are usually received from time wasters who don’t have real intentions of committing to an appointment, therefore they are forgotten as soon as their demand comes in. As I have previously mentioned, I have a non-judgemental approach towards sexuality and for that reason, I would never qualify as “weird” a request coming from a serious client.

I am grateful in life for not putting me in such situation yet to call off a date halfway into it. I did have rare occasions where I refused to see the client for a second appointment. Included in those reasons was a self-entitled attitude, or even a poor hygiene.

My name is Genevieve Marceau (pronounced Mar-sso), a Montreal based courtesan who takes pride in delivering an authentic, reliable and ethical experience of the highest standard. I am also internationally available by private invitation.

Follow and contact her at www.genevieve-elitecourtesan.com , Twitter @MissMarceau and Instagram @GenevieveCourtesan

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July 18, 2016
What Is An Escort And What Does She Do?

Sex is a lot of fun. I don’t see sex as this supreme act where you become connected on a spiritual level nor form a stronger bond as two people in love. The best type of sex is sex with someone on the same level, as two individuals who want each other equally and who are sexually compatible with each other. In my opinion sexual intimacy has nothing to do with romance; sexual intimacy is mind blowing sex in the way that you want it to be and being comfortable enough to do that.

What Makes Me Different And Unique

My interactions with clients are always authentic and genuine, a memorable experience. I only meet a few select patrons. I screen very heavily and if I don’t think we are compatible or I cannot give what the client is seeking (I do very naughty GFE dates) I won’t take the booking. I genuinely love meeting interesting, fascinating people. Words my clients use after meeting me are adorable, delightful, funny, charming, intelligent, gorgeous and great company.

Common Misconceptions About Escorts

I think the most common ones is that escorts do not have any other career options, and that is very much not the case. I have met some of the most intelligent women in this industry, smart as a whip, who escort as a part-time job.

Or that we are badly treated by clients, which could not be further from the truth. My clients are extremely intelligent, kind and generous, and they remember what I like. I love horses so I have been given expensive riding boots and a jumping saddle, and these were very thoughtful gifts. I have been given great business and financial advice too which is very much appreciated by me.

Do You Date?

To be a great private escort you have to be able to give a small piece of yourself to the job. It is very hard to describe what that piece is comprised of to someone who is not a companion. If I have very deep feelings for someone then I don’t want to share that piece of myself with anyone else but my lover. Currently I am involved in competing with my horse as well as completing studies so I don’t have much spare time for a relationship in any case. I am very independent so I’m quite hesitant to start a relationship with someone unless I really, really like them. I do enjoy being in a relationship and especially being in love.

Things To Know Before Dating An Escort

I think a guy needs to be able to fully accept who you are as an individual, your aspirations in life, and that whatever your future may hold, you will always be an ex-escort. It can make them very insecure. If a guy can’t deal with you working while the relationship is still in its very early stages, they will certainly never be able to respect and accept it in the long-term.

Escorting has raised my standards in men, I don’t accept any disrespect, meanness or bad behaviour.

Famke Fonteyn: lithe, elegant blonde high-class GFE escort and luxury companion based in London. Northern European paramour, courtesan, and delightful aficionado. Sassy & Playful | Often passionate, sometimes hilarious, but rarely forgettable. Available worldwide by private arrangement.

Follow and contact her on www.famkelondon.com , Twitter @famkebee and Instagram @famkefonteyn

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July 5, 2016