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My Sex Preferences and Favorite Positions

Sex is wonderful. Sex is amazing. Sex is so many things. It can be a kinky, hot, sweaty mess or an amazing opportunity to connect with someone. Our urbanized society puts such a taboo on it that we forget how fun, orgasmic and liberating it can be. Sex is the reason I get to have so much fun doing what I do.

Sex is what brings us together. Look at me, sounding like a hippie. Really though, you build chemistry the moment you meet, connect physically, do what turns you on and have amazing orgasms. It’s so simple!

Some of us get so caught up hiding our porn, our sexual preferences and our deepest sexual desires that we forget to let them loose with the right people. Which really sucks. I get so turned on when a guy comes to me and says “I have something I want to try with you.”

Sex should be liberating. It should be a go to, an escape, an amazing experience, and most of all it should be explosive. Orgasmic. Let’s have more sex, and create more orgasms.

One Major Mistake Men Make During Sex

Worrying. Stop it. I know it’s like saying “calm down” when you’re pissed but it ruins the whole experience. Guys worry so much if they are “doing it right” that they forget to just relax and enjoy the experience.

All you have to do is show up and enjoy yourself. Do what you want and enjoy. If you push the limits I will let you know but I want to see you enjoy. It turns me on.

My Favorite Sex Position

Me on top or doggystyle any day. Something about the way I can really feel a man inside of me during both of those.

When I’m on top I have more control, but something about the way I can feel the man completely inside of me when I am sitting on top of him, really gets me going. I’m wet just thinking about it right now.

Doggystyle allows a man to grab me from behind and have their way with me. I find that such a turn on.

Quickies Or Long-Lasting Sex?

Both. They are so different. Long-lasting sex can lead to multiple orgasms, exploration of each other, different positions and acts, and of course moaning. Long lasting sex can leave you in a daze hours after.

Quickies are like a straight shot, a concentrated dose of pleasure in a short amount of time. They leave you breathless.

How I Love To Kink Sex Up

I like to grab onto a man or at least touch him somewhere like his leg or his shoulder during the act. It’s an extra boost to the pleasure.

Changing the speed of our rhythm during the act. When it’s really heated up, slow down. It gets you to the edge and back, leaving you wanting to come even more.

Brielle Barnes – Real, classy and unique. I have a great smile and an all-natural body. I’m sensual, adventurous, discreet and flirty. I am open-minded so we can build a great connection together. I’m your sweetheart girl next door with a wild side. Our time together is laid back, yet full of passion. Find out more about me on:

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June 15, 2017
A Courtesan’s Advice For Clients

Sex is something that is ever changing from having a deep connection to it just being carnal lust. It can involve multiple partners whether it be another woman, a man, or even both. That’s why I love it so much! It is never the same experience. The creativity of each intimate encounter is always unpredictable but my anticipation and excitement aren’t. Growing up in a conservative European home, sex was considered taboo. We never spoke of it nor was it ever acknowledged. It wasn’t until I reached high school that I first discovered myself and sex. It was empowering as much as it was arousing. It became one of my favorite things to talk, write, and experiment. The intimate moments of ecstasy, the humorous orgasmic expressions, the droplets of lustful sweat, the secretive fantasies and kinks, the erotic whispers and moans, etc. Sex has endless possibilities of exploration bringing out a part of a person that isn’t publicly displayed.

Types Of Clients I See

Clients come in different ages, sizes, races, gender, and backgrounds. However, my preference seems to lean towards older men. It is not that I am not keen on men my age, it is just the majority have a strong attitude of self entitlement and lack mannerisms. Older men are finely aged and have an array of interests. I am quite selective of whom I see and I always favor a person who takes their time to send me a lovely email describing themselves. Discretion and safety is always of concern hence, why a screening process exists. This process is in place to keep both myself and the client safe. There are different methods of screening to accommodate everyone’s comfort. From employment verification, background checks, references, or verification services such as P411. As always discretion is of the utmost importance and verification information submitted is deleted after an initial engagement.

What A Client Is Expected To Know Before Booking

A smooth booking occurs after a proper screening. A mistake that is often made is when a client fills out a screening form incorrectly such as submitting a false name or information. Another common mistake is inquiring about detailed services whether it be with the usage of acronyms or not. Both of these mistakes can easily land someone in the Do Not See list. Filling out the form correctly will assure for a smooth process. Clients should rest assure that their information is handled with discretion and will never be shared. Remember, discretion is a two way street.

Mistakes Clients Make When Meeting

To err is human and mistakes often occur. A lot goes through someone’s mind when they first meet and without realizing they often forget to place down the envelope. I understand for I have also been taken by the moment our eyes met. To avoid interrupting the flow of an engagement it is best to place the envelope down as soon as you meet. If you are in a public setting it is proper to place it in a greeting card or in a gift bag. It is incredibly disrespectful to hand the envelope directly or having me wait until it is awkwardly brought up.

Another frequent mistake is lack of consideration towards their hygiene. A lovely English gentleman once visited and greeted me with toothpaste kisses. He later explained that he had just smoked and ate some toothpaste to avoid tasting like cigarettes. If you feel the need to freshen up please feel free to excuse yourself to the restroom. I take my time to be presentable and expect my date to do so as well. From time to time I encounter a gentleman who with good intent brings their own lubricant or toys. While it is a gesture with harmful intent I personally do not utilize it. I only utilize my own products that I know will not effect my body chemistry. As for toys if they are in an unopened package then I will gladly use them after cleaning them.

Is Any Topic Of Conversation Out Of Bounds?

I am lover of conversation and feel like a wide spectrum of topics helps get to know someone. Often, people say not to discuss politics nor religion for it can cause conflict. However, I have yet to have a problem arise from doing so. There is an art and beauty into the attempt to understand someone else’s point of view. One of the topics that makes me cringe in the inside is when they talk about the similarities I share with their daughter. I don’t mind hearing about their children but it is a completely different thing to be compared. Aside from that the time spent together is a time to truly liberate yourself and share anything you desire.

Claire Lamoureux – Originally from Southern France, this wanderlust debutante became a worldwide courtesan. She is an international companion who adores jet setting adventures and collecting books. Although she is only twenty two years old she has an appetite for culture and languages. Claire is a multilingual biochemist with an insatiable lust and true passion for opening others to new experiences.

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June 10, 2017
Sex Work & Feminism

For me, and for all the sex workers I know, sex work is work. That means that it is a job that is just as valid as any other job, with its definite pros and cons, and some people love their job while others hate it, just like in any other field of work. A lot of people who are not familiar with the sex industry tend to confuse sex work and sex exploitation. The former implicates a choice to be in this line of work, while the latter implies coercion. All sex workers are opposed to sex exploitation.

With that being said, my personal way of seeing sex work is one of exchange, connection, and intimacy. We all need to be touched and desired from time to time. What I am selling is not my body, but my time, my companionship, the way someone feels in my presence, and a true connection on a human level – all of which are key elements to intimacy. I like to describe myself as a professional fairy: I create a multi-sensorial bubble in which my partner and I are free to discover one another, and, sometimes, a little bit of ourselves.

Misconceptions About Sex Workers

One of the biggest misconceptions about sex work is, as I already mentioned, the fact that people don’t differentiate work from exploitation. In that line of thinking, there is a widespread theory among some types of feminism that states that any money transaction in a sexual context takes away the person’s ability to consent to said sexual activities. The problem is that kind of thinking denies all agency to sex workers, who are grown women who are otherwise perfectly able to think and decide for themselves. There is just as much violence in denying a person the ability to consent, as there is in not respecting that consent. (As a parenthesis, I just want to add that the vast majority of the sex workers I know are especially intelligent, strong and grounded people, able to stand up, speak, and provide for themselves, usually better so than most people.)

Another misconception that is often encountered, is that sex workers have necessarily suffered abuse, or live with mental health problems. The thing is, some sex workers have had traumas in their lives, while others have not. Some sex workers do live with a mental health condition, but then again a lot of people who are not in the sex industry do too. It is also important to mention that we, as a society, tend to judge more severely women when they make a choice that is considered “risky,” and associate it with emotional instability, instead of bravery as we would naturally do with men.

Why Is Sex Work Stigmatized In Society?

As developed by Gail Pheterson in “The Prostitution Prism” and “The Whore Stigma,” the oldest form of prostitution is marriage. Historically as societies, we have used marriage to keep women in line and we have put on them the whole burden of sexual, domestic, and emotional labor, expecting them to care for everyone in the household without any form of compensation. Nowadays, marriage has been replaced by the traditional monogamous heterosexual relationship, but the expectations towards women have barely changed. That is why, when a woman takes control of her own sexuality, and chooses to sell her sexual and emotional labor, we collectively feel like what she is doing is inherently wrong. We keep sex work as a taboo, we ostracize sex workers and clients (thus making their work even more dangerous), because on top of not offering all that labor to a single man, the women who choose to do sex work get an immediate and direct financial compensation for the work they do – how dare they, right?

What I Love About Being A Sex Worker

I especially love the freedom that sex work gives me. I am an independent courtesan, so I get to make my own schedules and choose the clients that I see. I am also a full time student and a writer, so a job that gives me both free time and a lot of inspiration is the best for me!

Another positive side of sex work to me is the fact that it forces you to set limits for yourself. Surprisingly, I found that having to word out those limits in a professional environment made setting them in my personal life easier, thus making my overall sexual life healthier.

Can Sex Work Be Empowering?

Absolutely! As Virginie Despentes writes in her essay “King Kong Theory,” it is all about the mind state and the consciousness of what one is doing. For example, dressing up in a sexy way and wearing high heels, when done strictly to please men, or when done without thinking about it, can be considered a symbol of female oppression – because society forces that look on women and tells them that it is the only way to be beautiful and desirable, and the subtext of that tells women that being desirable to men should be their main goal in life at all times. But, from another perspective, if a woman is wearing heels and lingerie in order to get a direct benefit from it (such as money from a client) and she is conscious of it, the choice of clothing switches from being oppressive to being subversive. The same goes for body hair removal, makeup, or having phallocentric sex. When you are a woman, the act of consciously complying to a societal sexist imperative in order to make money off of it is in itself an act of rebellion, and should be celebrated as such. 🙂

Léonie Stein – A professional fairy and independent courtesan from Montreal. Free-spirited, curious, and adventurous, as a full time student and writer I thrive on art and literature, as well as on pop and internet cultures. I am both easygoing and sophisticated, and human beings fascinate me. I consider myself a radical feminist and a sex workers’ rights advocate.

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May 31, 2017
My Experiences As An Escort

Honestly, everyone should be having more sex then things would be more at ease with much less stress in our lives. It is a natural wonderful thing. I personally love it.

How I Began Escorting & Why I Love It

Oh boy, here we go….haha.

I inadvertently got started, really did. I went on a sugar baby site and the first person I met, we had an arrangement. We saw each other for 5 months while his start up business started up. Unfortunately, his business never did start up, that was sad for him and me too, I liked him. The next 2 people I met was NOT like what I had initially. I didn’t know any different, and was wondering why are we not having an arrangement and started to question what was going on. Then low and behold I met one other from the sugar site and we did a lot of talking about how when he was younger he was in some very interesting situations and that he got so and so started in the escort biz and she makes blah blah blah. The more he talked the more I listened. I knew about escorts of course, but had NO idea how it actually was right there on the internet, that easy.

So I went home and googled this woman, got the gist of it and put up some ad.

The next day he calls and said “Summer what are you doing!” I said, “You did a lot of talking, I did a lot of listening”. He said, “If you are going to do this, you need to do it right” and told me about screening, website, reviews. I was blown away at how organized it all was. He started my review page, left the first one and I was off to the races. Crazy right? See, inadvertently.

I enjoy how most people treat me, they are very happy to see me and I feel great about that. I learn different things from different people that I would have never learned had I not met them. Some bring gifts as their token of appreciation, so awesome. Some like to treat me like a princess, they go above and beyond. I am always smiling, wouldn’t you be if everyone was in awe of you!

My Specialties

Truth be told…my specialty is myself. I am genuine. I never had a game or an act. I was just me from day one and it has worked wonders. How easy it is just to be yourself! MANY, nearly everyone tells me how nice it is to be with someone who is chill and down to earth and can laugh at herself, they always use the word sexy. Pretentious is not me at all. I would be a very bad actress at this life. Just go with the flow, whatever company you may be in, you naturally go with the vibe

My Off Limits

I will not rim a man. Never, not happening. Weird, well it is a bit weird to be called mommy and tell him he is a good boy. That is indifferent, and he’s older than me. Regardless of who is older, it is weird. Mostly everything else is just people, with a fetish or fantasy. I love accommodating foot fetishes, that’s my absolute favorite. So far so good.

How I Prepare To Meet A Client

Well of course he is already screened and we have a date, time and place set. I always like to keep a tan, so I have a spray tan machine I do at home at least once a week.

I look great with a tan, makes a difference to me. I always do my makeup and my hair is simple, long straight and blonde. Depending on where we are meeting depends on what I wear. If he is coming to me I am wearing something very sexy to open the door with equally sexy lingerie to match, and always the heels, always. If he had made an outfit request in an email I accommodate that. If I am meeting him out or at his location it is a combo of classic yet sexy, and again, always those heels. What happens is a flow of conversation to get to know one another, perhaps a glass of wine. Always Moscato wine, that is my favorite. I used to like vodka on ice but it catches up quick. Then what happens…. well, a lady never kisses and tells. xoxox

Summer The One – Philadelphia’s Top 5 Consistently Rated Companions. Self described Tall Cool One, that oozes sex appeal and intelligence. Easy going, down to earth, sexy with a West Coast vibe…. The One. Lover of the Ocean, intricate artist and seasoned lover.

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May 3, 2017
Experiences Of A Sex Worker

I love sex! I think sexual urges and fantasies are natural, and ever since fully embracing my own sexuality I’ve received so much more pleasure in life and through all the experiences that I’ve been able to have. I was incredibly shy throughout my teen years, and had the worst social anxiety. This actually led me to being homeschooled during high school. Despite my socializing problems at the time, I grew to really dislike the lack of being in a social atmosphere and/or stimulated by the conversation and thoughts of others. It’s made me appreciate the interactions that I now have with people much more. Homeschooling also gave me the time and opportunity to seek out my own interests and passions, subjects that never even stuck to me when attending public school.

Once turning 18, and having been felt like a caged bird by the end of high school, I was ready to be on my own! I had a sugar daddy starting off when I first moved to D.C. During that, I discovered how much I loved the company of an older gentleman, and I found that I was able to really enjoy my conversations with them. I respected and valued the discretion, but did not like the feeling of it being more like a relationship instead of an open love that could grow and one that did not have to be defined. The sugar baby relationship lasted roughly 7 months, and I honestly just jumped into escorting. I started with an agency, and assumed that I would learn from them and from experience. I was fortunate enough to have a lady who helped and explained everything to me, and was really quite patient me. But by no means am I recommending that anyone jump right in! There are easy mistakes to avoid, and tips to learn; it would be much more beneficial to read and educate yourself beforehand.

What I Love About Escorting

My greatest passions are learning all I can about the world, and making others happy. This lifestyle has given me the amazing opportunity to do both! I’ve met some of the best guys, and made some of the greatest friends. I love the socializing, the intimacy, and the mutual happiness my clients and I bring each other – whether it’s only one encounter, or numerous! I meet the greatest dynamic of people; finding ways to relate to them is something that has not only furthered my social skills, but educated me on topics that my clients share through their own learnings and life experience.

I also love the traveling. I’ve always travelled even through my youth, and I don’t think I could ever call one place home forever. This lifestyle has allowed me to see some of the most beautiful places, all while doing what I love! This has become such an amazing opportunity helping me work towards future goals and dreams. The ability to support myself fully and to take care of any school debt in and of itself has been the most fulfilling feeling, but the people that I have met and the things that I have learned through this lifestyle are priceless.

Screening The Clients

There are various screening sites to further validate a client’s identity, but I would say one of the biggest ways I rely on deciding to see a client or not would be the trust amongst the SW community. I ask that clients provide at least two references (providers that will vouch for them saying that they are real, safe, and respectful). References and a screening handle is not enough to get through screening, however. I also require a photo of their ID prior to meeting along with their work information. All of this information is erased after screening is complete. Clients see enough of my presence online (through social media, my p411, and my booking site) to know that I am who I say I am, so me asking for the same validation in return should not be an issue for them and if it is, I don’t book. I value and respect discretion, and would not have the reputation that I have built if I ever abused a client’s privacy.

Weirdest Client Requests I Have Received

Well, one person’s weird is another person’s kink. But I’ve definitely had some odd requests – some that I agreed to, some I refused, and some I just couldn’t bring myself to do. One time in specific I remember a guy was just absolutely infatuated with my nose. The whole session he was staring at it, he was playing with it, and even in the middle of making out I’d feel two fingers in the shape of scissors slide down the middle of my face and just pinch my nose. The random nose pinches continued even during sex, barely making eye contact with me but instead staring at my nose; occasionally leaning in and putting his whole mouth on it as if he was giving my nose a sloppy kiss or something!

One request I just couldn’t bring myself to do was a roleplay act. I initially should’ve known he had something up his sleeve cause he walked in with a Whole Foods bag. I was the innocent schoolgirl that apparently got caught blowing two guys in the locker room, and I was facing suspension. The only way to avoid suspension was to sleep with my principal..but first, had to “demonstrate what exactly I was doing to the two boy students”. He grabs his bag and pulls out a banana and a condom. He slides this condom so smoothly on the banana, I’m convinced his real job is a sex Ed coach. He then holds the banana out, looking at me. I am looking at him. We are just staring at each other for a solid minute before he again asks me to demonstrate how I gave a blowjob. I lean down, hovering over the banana, and all I am thinking is “I will never forget the time that I seriously gave oral to a fruit”, I licked the tip of the banana, then snapped away apologizing profusely saying “Sorry, I can’t! I just can’t do it, I’m a terrible actor! Can i just…. demonstrate on you?!” Not my sexiest way of denying a request… but looking back on the two stories now, it almost seems like the banana request should’ve been much easier to fulfill LOL.

Preparing For A Date With A Client

I am still a nervous wreck before every date, regardless of how many times I’ve seen someone. The whole time getting ready is me telling myself to not be weird. The nerves are every time, but I’d never want to feel indifferent or bored. The anxiety and build up is what makes the meet so much sweeter. I am typically sitting on my sink counter getting myself pretty..even if there is a vanity, a sink counter always seems to be a girl’s zen place. After the getting ready process, it’s an extensive amount of YouTube video watching that I always end up regretting, a minimum of 30 pictures taken all of which ended up getting erased anyway, and Mariah Carey karaoke. I also make sure everything is in place, and that my date doesn’t go without supplies! Once I meet my date, my nervousness eases and I’m filled with joy and excitement to see them. Every time is a new experience.

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April 27, 2017
Role Play For The Day

I would like to offer a new service or dare I say a twist or two on some of what I already offer.

If you are tired of the hum drum wham bam thank you mam encounter or just want to spice things up, why not try a custom date with one of the role plays below? Or perhaps you have one of your own you would like to share.

Please keep in mind these role plays may require additional fees above and beyond my listed fees. Especially if you require one or more of my friends to participate or additional equipment or locations. Please let me know your needs and we will eagerly please.

1. Incompetence – Dead Line Missed!

Your boss – A beautiful Japanese woman known for being strict and handing out unorthodox punishments especially to her male subordinates, summons you to her hotel suite where you are to answer for missing a shipping dead line with a major client. The oversight has cost millions of yen in fees to the client. Your boss demands an apology and plans to exact her wrath and punishment on you. What ensues next is best described in the illustration below by Eric Stanton. Of course her beautiful assistant will also be present to assist with your punishment session.

2. French Maid

A sexy French maid erotically dressed in a traditional French maid uniform is sent to clean your room. You follow her around to make sure she does a good job. As she bends over. you catch a glimpse of her beautiful bum and French knickers as well. Overcome by sadistic lust, you decide to take advantage of her by telling her she missed some spots and is basically not doing a good job. You tell her that she is lazy and impertinent and needs to be put over your knee for a good spanking. What ensues next is an erotic interlude of master and servant where you decide that she needs a lesson in cleaning more than your room. To your surprise, she has brought a wonderful array of dildos and anal plugs for your pleasure. This is truly French made ☺

3. Sick in Bed

A sexy nurse arrives to take care of her sick patient. Taking his temperature with an oral approach followed by a rectal treatment and medical massage. The only cure she can really prescribe is a good old fashion dose of potion 69 to climax. This nurse is liberal with her medicine and if the illness is too serious, additional nurses can assist with the procedures.

4. Kidnapped

Two femme de fatales of the infamous Tokyo cartel demand your ransom and decide to add torture and humility to the mix. These sexy and hungry femme de fatales know how to bring a man to his knees. As you are bound and gagged, they decide to torture mentally by putting on a very erotic girl on girl show. You are ordered to gratify yourself during the show but may not ejaculate. To get their point across, a large knife sits on the table nearby waiting to castrate you if you fail. After bringing themselves to an incredible climax, they decide to focus all their attention on you. You are ordered not to cum during the efforts, to tease and taunt you erotically, they are ruthless, irresistible and deadly. Can you survive these dangerous femmes?

5. Slave for a Day

You have dialed for the services of Mistress SATO. She arrives at your room decked out in latex and super high thigh boots. You are immediately ordered to the floor like a dog. From there, you are forced to be a slave for the day and must complete a number of humiliating tasks including the punishments when you fail her commanded tasks. She may require time outside the hotel for a very adventurous day in Tokyo which will definitively involve a trip to Tokyo’s notorious dungeon hotel.

This role-play can also allow you to be in the drivers seat if this is your desire.

6. Naked Stranger

You catch a glimpse of beautiful woman at the bar. She is wearing a lovely mink coat and looks absolutely stunning. She smiles at you and you smile back. You decide to send her a drink with a note to please join you at your table. She accepts, you make small talk and learn she has recently broken up with her boyfriend and was hoping to meet a nice guy that evening. She whispers in your ear that she is so happy to meet you. She then tells you she has a favor to ask.

She hands you a small remote control and asks you to turn it on. As you do you can hear the purring of what seems to be some sought of mini vibrator. Your new found friend gives out a soft moan. As she does her coat slightly opens. To your surprise, beneath her coat she’s only wearing her sexy lingerie and a pair of super high heels. She begins to discreetly rub your cock. You now know you are in for an evening of untold pleasure!

7. The Harem

You decide your own personal roman style orgy filled with debauchery and lustful whims. The sky is the limit and how many women that join us is up to you. You may want to ask your friends to join in the fun. What happens behind closed doors stays behind closed doors.

8. The Audition

You are a powerful Hollywood film producer and you have the pleasure of interviewing a young beautiful but very innocent up and coming starlet. Your desires get the better of you and you force your starlet onto your casting couch where you decide to make an adult film. She is putty in your hands as she wants to further her career. The rest is celluloid history!

9. Sensual Masseurs

Two beautiful masseuse show up to your room to give you the most incredible rub up or rub down. It’s not your usual oil massage.

This is the perfect soft role-play for couples or easy-going gents. This is a massage that comes with a very happy ending. In fact you will have a smile on your face for some time after!

10. Threes Company

You and your wife / girl friend / best friend would like to experience a threesome or maybe foursome. You decide to try your luck at your hotel bar. To your delight, you meet one /two / or three beautiful nymphs more than willing to accommodate your fantasies. It’s a shining example of that rare Tokyo hospitality and you just hit the erotic jack pot!

11. 9 1/2 Weeks No Means Yes

Your very beautiful secretary has been flirting heavily with you. You finally decide to make a move but she is playing hard to get so you decide it’s time to be a caveman and take her by force. You rip off her clothes, bra and panties and have some pure physical passionate 9 1/2 weeks sex style. Ice cubes and strawberries included.

Mickey Rourke has nothing on you.

Misa – You can expect a genuine unrushed girlfriend experience. I pride myself on being the genuine article. I am very down to earth and will make you feel like you are the center of the universe. Find Misa at BeautifulTokyoButterfly.com

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December 19, 2016
Sexy Travel: 5 Great Countries Where Hiring an Escort Is Legal

Many people get really excited when planning a trip. What will the food be like? Which sites should I see? Where can I find an escort to really spice up my trip?

Okay, so the last question certainly isn’t on the mind of every traveler but it is a valid one. Every country around the world has its own unique laws regarding sex workers and while most of those laws are in place to prevent exploitation and human trafficking, other aspects of the laws actually help women (and men in some cases) work safely as an escort if they choose to.

Other aspects of these laws relate to promotion. In most of the countries where it is legal promoting it illegally by outside parties is not, so it’s wise to keep this in mind when you’re on a travel high and looking to hire an escort for the night (or two).

These are five incredible countries where hiring an escort is legal, and they’re also incredible places to explore, even outside the bedroom.

1. Great Britain

With the exception of Northern Ireland, escort services are legal in Great Britain. However, street solicitation is not. One of the most popular and safe ways to hire an escort is through a reputable escort agency. The women who work for these agencies are thoroughly vetted and, as is the norm, the client has his choice of body type, ethnicity, hair color, and even an escort’s specific sexual skill.

Incalls and outcalls are the most popular forms of escort services in England. During an incall, the client goes to the escort’s apartment. During an outcall, the escort comes to the client’s home or hotel. It’s easy, safe, and completely legal.

2. Argentina

Who isn’t captivated by the exotic beauty of Latina women? Who wouldn’t love to take a trip to Argentina and meet one of them? Argentina is famous for its legendary BBQ, salsa dancing, wine, and women. While Argentina is a popular destination for all types of travelers, those who want to hook up while there can do so with ease.

As with Great Britain, the best and safest way to find an escort is through a reputable agency. In larger cities like Buenos Aires and Mendoza these agencies are everywhere and it’s not hard to locate them. Most agencies advertise that their escorts speak a variety of languages such as English, Portuguese, German, and French.

3. Greece

An easy flight from most cities in Europe, Greece has long been a popular holiday destination due to its gorgeous islands, delicious food, and low costs. It’s also one of the European countries where escort services are absolutely legal.

As is the norm, your escort should be hired through an agency and most of these agencies are located in Athens, Mykonos, and other popular tourist sites. The Greek government has taken things a bit further than some other countries: All sex workers must be registered and carry a medical card that is updated bi-monthly.

4. Mexico

Mexico is a little different than the other countries on this list in a few ways. First of all, sex work is legal in Mexico but only 18 of the 32 states officially regulate it, meaning that sex workers in those states are registered and undergo required health checks.

Most of Mexico’s larger cities like Mexico City and Guadalajara have a red light district and escorts are available on the street. Other cities operate legal brothels. Of course, most of the brothels are located in the more touristy areas like Cancun and Playa del Carmen. These brothels offer both incall and outcall services.

5. Spain

Spain is one of the most beautiful and most visited countries in Europe, but it’s not always for the wine and tapas. Spain’s sex business is booming as people from all over the world come to meet with some of the country’s most beautiful women.

The legality of sex work in Spain is somewhat muddled, but the escorts or their clients are rarely bothered by law enforcement, who instead focus on those that illegally promote these services. Escort agencies aren’t as popular here, but there are several that provide high-quality incall and outcall services, especially in Barcelona.

Sex tourism is big business but it’s always wise to be well aware of the laws regarding escort services before you visit a country. So keep yourself safe by using a reputable escort agency when you travel and be prepared for one of the best vacations of your life.

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September 25, 2016
Insights Into An Escorts’ Life With Hope Morgan

Sex to me is a natural thing, a thing we cannot control. Each person has a different libido, and I have to say my libido is extremely high.

For all of us, it’s important to recognise that we are all different, and the things that are right for us are different to the things that are right for someone else. We should be respectful and positive about people’s sexuality or sexual relationships, and support their right to explore their sexuality in a safe, consensual and responsible way.

How I Began Escorting

I have worked in the adult industry for many years now; I started working as a stripper and this had led me to explore the industry more by becoming an escort. I have been escorting now for around 12 months and love it. It really has changed my life and opened my eyes to a whole new world.

What Makes Me Unique

I am easy going, well educated and get along easily with all kinds of people. I am your companion with good looks and without attitude.

Common Misconceptions About Escorts

So many people have a negative view of escorts and the men that see them. We need to remember, it is the oldest profession.

A misconception is that escorts are unhygienic and diseased. Escorts who have sex for money will rarely, if ever in most cases, have sex without protection.

Another is that there is something immoral about women who get paid to have sex, women who escort or get paid for sex are usually very strong willed women who know what they want and are not afraid to get it.

One Tip To Dating An Escort

Since working as an escort I have not dated anyone as it’s not an easy thing for a partner to accept.

I think I would like being open and honest within the relationship and talking about issues as they arise.

Hope Morgan – Elegance and Charm without the Attitude. I can walk into a room full of strangers and before long will be laughing like old friends. Follow Hope Morgan at her website www.hope-morgan.com and on Twitter @miss_hopemorgan

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September 14, 2016
Client Etiquette Tips And Advice When Booking An Escort

Most of what occurs during sex is in the mind, the anticipation of meeting a client can heighten the experience. I think open mindedness is a common attribute of many providers, more importantly, is living in the moment. Ticking off a list of sex tricks and positions is not nearly as sexy as connecting with a sexual partner. Having tried a range of sexual practices, the affairs I recall most are always those that are more natural, personal, intense and therefore erotically charged.

Photo: Louise

Expectations Of A Client

The laws are different in the UK but the screening process is vital, it’s impossible to feel sexy if I am nervous about the meeting. To lessen these nerves, the client should offer details of his essential personal information such as his name, full details of the location, with booking references. Many times, clients have naively asked to meet in a public space but for me this sets alarm bells ringing for many reasons. I have no guarantee he will arrive and there’s always the potential for mistaken identity. A client should always allow enough time and privacy to make a call to learn more about the provider. Regarding more intimate questions, if providers are being vague, it could be because they are concerned about falling foul of US laws. Be considerate and don’t push too much, you’ll get a clearer view of a provider’s service by reading reviews. I don’t add all my services in order to be tasteful.

Photo: Louise

Mistakes Clients Shouldn’t Make

The worst is saying hello and not introducing themselves. Or better yet, failing to take a note of the provider’s name, age, look details and donation. Asking these obvious questions again makes you look like a time waster. Once it is clear to me that a prospective client does not have the essential details correct, I tell them to go back to the site and read it again. Aside from that, I don’t want to talk about finances unless negotiating a longer date and time that could be better spent learning about each other.

Photo: Louise

Is Prior Experience Important?

I think the main difference is in how apprehensive the two sets of clients might behave. The screening process can seem invasive for new clients. The idea is not to cause offense but to first and foremost ensure my safety, only then can I unwind and be at my best.

On the other hand, newer clients do try to make more of an impression with the arrangements such as the restaurant and the choice of hotel. For that reason, a date with a more experienced client tends to get off to a smoother start, the focus being on the date proper rather than all the arrangements.

However, we all have to start somewhere, my favourite clients are in fact those who are not especially experienced, and actually very nervous during the first date. Over time, the nerves subside and I appreciate the attention.

Photo: Louise

Do’s & Don’ts During The Date

Just be yourself. If you don’t normally wear a suit and eat at five star restaurants, then don’t do it. You’ll come across as uptight and this can be sensed, possibly leading the provider to feel uncomfortable. Naturally it is important to make the right first impression and treat each other well. If you are arranging a longer date, find an activity that is unique rather than one that makes you uncomfortable. Some of the wonderful activities I have enjoyed with clients includes walking, horse riding and reflexology.

My name is Louise, I am a British provider based in London and available for international affairs with advanced notice. I am an English rose with rosy cheeks and a view on life to match. I continue to work in my professional career because I believe it helps to maintain an appealing balance between sex and brains. This also means I am selective about who I choose to date so you can rest assured I have a joyful attitude to the opposite of sex.

Follow Louise on Twitter @ModelBelleLulu and on her website http://bellelulu.com/

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September 5, 2016
Things To Know Before Becoming An Escort

My personal thoughts about sex have grown since being raised to believe that sex should be between a man and woman, and should not be done until marriage. Since working in the sex industry and becoming sexually active two years ago when I was 16, I believe that sex can be whatever you want it to be. Our society has grown from the stigma around sex, and the “logic” that sex is not sex without penetration is fading makes me more open to talking about sex, and not keeping it a secret that sex work is my career choice. To me, sex in the industry is currency, and sex in my personal life is emotion.

Starting Out Into Sex Work

Stepping into the sex work industry began with my aspirations to become a porn star at a very young age (probably too young) and I found a decent looking producer who had worked with a couple of big names. After shooting a few scenes, the producer introduced me to the escorting agency that he owned, and offered me a job. My perceptions of sex work before becoming part of the industry was based on everything I have seen in the movies, on TV or reading articles on “How to become a porn star”. I thought that the industry would be easy to deal with mentally, and it was at first, but after only 6 months being a sex worker, I learned otherwise.

Not What I Expected

After being a sex worker for 6 months, I started to realize that although movies and TV shows may document sex work, they either showed the horrific and traumatic side, or the luxurious glamour side, there was no in-between. I started noticing that I was conditioning myself to be able to mentally deal with going into work every day, and my patience with clients was decreasing every day.

When I decided that I did not like escorting anymore, the dollar signs that blinded me made me realize what I was missing, girls being manipulated to work on their periods, or seeing agency owners try and take advantage of the girls started to disgust me. My reality check didn’t really hit me until I found some forms at an agency’s location. The form listed services, and choices to select, one being “dislike but will do”. It confused and repulsed me to think of how somebody left an option to check that lets girls perform services like “fantasy rape” “rimming” and “slapping” even though they do not like to.

The saddest part about these forms, was that the girl who had filled it out, selected “dislike but will do” on way more than one service. I expected there to be negative parts of the industry, I just didn’t expect for me to work for and be associated with those types of agencies.

Be Independent Or Join An Agency?

Being an independent escort means booking your own clients, posting your own ads, and exposing yourself to a higher danger risk. Almost all of these agencies are not owned by your average John Doe, and even if they are, I am almost certain that they are associated with the type of people who can provide a high degree of “security”. The only benefits of being an independent escort, include not having to pay your boss a cut of what you make, and not having to be pushed or persuaded into doing services you don’t feel comfortable doing or working more than you want, and even then, there will ALWAYS be at least one client that insists on not using protection, paying the full price, or being aggressive with what they want. Ultimately, the pro’s and con’s of escorting with an agency vs. independent balance out. Neither are safe.

One Important Tip

Many of my friends, and even strangers, male and female call, text, email or message me through my social media accounts asking for advice on becoming an escort; my advice always stays the same. You need to be at peace with the fact that at any given moment your family or friends could and most likely will find out that you are a sex worker. Anybody who has second thughts about going into the industry, should not pursue becoming an escort.

I don’t waste my time explaining the dangers of escorting to people to ask me about it, because it’s common sense, that being a prostitute (and yes, I used the P word) is dangerous. I thought being an escort would be my career, and that I could last as an escort. Ultimately I changed paths, while still a sex worker I now work at a spa, where I am free to do whatever service I am comfortable with or no service and just a massage if I please.

I recommend finding an agency that is women owned and operated; it may not make a huge difference for other girls, but it sure did for me. At the end of the day it is a person’s decision whether or not they will be sucked into the sex work industry and it will not take long at all for anyone to realize if sex work is for them or not.

Cece Richwood (formerly known as Cici Stiff) is an 18 year old rising porn star and former escort from Canada. Cece dropped out of high school after 2 years leaving her passion for playing American football behind. Knowing she would enter the sex work industry and some day make it big, Cece kept her stage name true to what she is known by in her personal life (Cece/Cecilia); her family and friends are all aware of her choice to be a sex worker and supports her. Currently Cece works at a health center as a day job and is striving to shine in the porn industry while taking her experiences as an escort to guide her through the sex work industry. Cece has an upcoming episode airing on MTV called “MTV True Life: I need Danger Sex” documenting her life as a sex worker, and discovering the category of “Dangerous Sex” porn.

Follow Cece on Twitter @CeceRichwood, Clips4Sale http://clips4sale.com/list/en/search/Cici%20stiff/category/0/storesPage/1/clipsPage/1 and bookings at CeceRichwood@gmail.com

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August 31, 2016