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  • What To Expect When Engaging A Companion

    What To Expect When Engaging A Companion

    I think companionship is something we as social beings all need. There are different types and levels of companionship and as humans we like to spend time with the people that ‘get’ us, that make us feel happy and comfortable with ourselves and that appreciate and support us.

    Personally, I love meeting new people. Sharing with others and learning different personalities and perspectives is one of the reasons that I choose companionship as my work. I enjoy spending time with people, and I am lucky enough to meet people who are well educated, have done well for themselves and have the time to enjoy some of the better things that life has to offer. They have diverse interests and I enjoy hearing about their lives, stories and engaging with them.

    How Popular Are Companion Requests?

    I would say fairly frequent! I love all the experiences that companionship opens up for me – I’ve traveled to places I wouldn’t have visited otherwise, I’ve gone hiking and trekking and fishing, and engaged in fantastic experiences. Frankly, even when back to the tried and true places, it’s the fact that I am with new people that makes those places new to me.

    I think the one thing I would say I love the most is that it allows me to step out of my comfort zone and do things that are not part of other people’s daily average life. I feel honored, humbled and truly excited by my experiences and it keeps me engaged more wholly.

    Advantages Of Engaging A Companion

    I would say if you are looking for an elevated, professional experience when it comes to sharing time with another person, you should engage a companion. Companions are punctual, well groomed, experienced, detail oriented, fun and outgoing people who love to get to know you! The time that you have together is yours and you can shape and curate that in any way you like. They are looking to craft experiences with you and share in your interests.

    I often see sides to my clients that their friends, family and business partners do not see. I can see who they are honestly, and sometimes, who they would like to be! It comes across in their communication and requests. I had one client who wanted to go for a hike with me since they missed doing that with their grown children. It was a teaching moment for them, and since I had never hiked before, it was a bonding experience for the both of us, and a wonderful learning experience for me. I had so much fun on that hike, learning from a professional and appreciating the time spent engaging in something that brings so much joy to another person.

    What You Should Know Before Engaging A Companion

    I think, like with everything else in life, doing your research and seeing who’s out there that matches you is the best way in which to make sure you’re with the right person. Learn about their personalities from Twitter and their website and understand that they have their own boundaries, as do all people. Communication with them is key to make sure you’re both on the same page.

    Do’s & Don’ts To Follow When Engaging A Companion

    I think a number of problem areas are caused when expectations on both sides are not complied with, or there is a lack of professionalism from either party.

    If people thought about engaging a companion like it was looking for a business partner with whom they would like to engage socially, a lot of questions get resolved. Companions are business people, and there is process and streamlining in place in order to ensure our safety, as well as the safety of our clients.

    I think clients also need to think about the reasons that they are reaching out to a companion. It is not just hooking up or ‘hanging out’, there are tons of dating sites for that. You’re looking for someone professional, well maintained, who will have respect for your time and your requests. If this is the case, acting unprofessionally will not get you the response that you seek from a companion.

    My simple tips are

    • Always respect the companions protocol, as they would respect your requests
    • Please be professional with all administrative dealings
    • Please read the website and feel free to ask questions, we will not bite you, (unless you request it!) but asking for anything above and beyond is at the discretion of the companion, much as you would expect from a business partner!

    Indiya Summer – An elite companion based in NYC. She loves travel, warm weather and meeting new people!

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    Indiya Summer is available in NYC, and worldwide for FMTY

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  • Advantages of Seeing A Cougar

    Advantages of Seeing A Cougar

    I think sex is necessary in every intimate relationship and plays a huge part. Everyone wants to feel desired and wanted by their partner or another individual. Sex is that way of showing the person how much you desire and want them. Even if it’s only for that moment in time or longer.

    For some of us, sex is constantly a driver for things we do in our day to day life. It’s something almost everyone thinks about and hopefully wants! I personally have not found a balance yet in dating and being a companion at the same time. I am a man stuck in a woman’s body in that I think about sex every hour of every day.

    Does Age Matter To You?

    Age does matter to me. I personally have had some of the best sex of my life with much younger men as they want to fulfill that hot mom next door fantasy. There is usually role playing involved and that can lead to some incredible and very explosive dates.

    Benefits Of Seeing A Cougar

    Women are like fine wine and become better in all ways with age if they take care of themselves. Males sexually peak much sooner than females. By the time a female is in her 40’s, she is more confident than she was in her 20’s. She knows her body much better and has discovered her likes and dislikes and what needs to be done to achieve an orgasm. She is usually much more vocal and gives direction about what she wants and how to pleasure her.

    What To Know Before Seeing A Cougar

    I wouldn’t say there are any rules. I would say the male should be prepared for a Cougar to be more confident in her skin and know how to pleasure you as well as herself. She is skilled in a wide variety of techniques and wants her own pleasure just as much as she wants to give pleasure to you.

    Tips To Have A Successful Cougar Experience

    Do your research on the woman you desire to spend time with and don’t be afraid to ask for any special requests. We are not mind readers and the more open you are, the more you will get out of the experience.

    Riley Blonde – I am the epitome of sensual sophistication while being down to earth, playful and fun! I find it truly thrilling and can guarantee that our rendezvous will be as pleasurable for me as it is for you.I consider myself an ideal choice for those who seek and appreciate the finer things in life.

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  • How To Select An Escort For The First Time

    How To Select An Escort For The First Time

    I tend to meet a lot of first-timers. That is, gentlemen who have never been with a companion before. I’m always incredibly honoured not only because they chose me for their first date, but that I have the opportunity to introduce them to this wild, wonderful, and complex world.

    Nerves is almost always an issue, but it’s not always exclusive to first timer gentlemen. It’s relatively often that when I’m meeting my date for the first time, it’s apparent that he has spent a lot of time anticipating, imagining, and sometimes stressing about our encounter.

    Is It Normal For First Timers To Feel Nervous?

    Absolutely, first date jitters is completely normal. Given the nature of our encounter, I understand the source. Not only are you meeting someone that you’ve likely admired from afar for months (which is nerve-racking in itself), the stakes are high!

    There’s a significant investment on the client’s part, which I try not to take for granted. He’s investing his capital, of course, but also a chunk of his time that’s irreplaceable. In addition to both of these things – there’s also the anxiety provoking stereotypes about escorts that first timer’s sometimes have in the back of their mind. Is she enjoying herself? Is she here because she wants to be?

    I encourage my clients to remember that these thoughts are normal and valid. You’re about to enter completely new territory, and your body is reacting, physiologically speaking, in a normal and expected way. It’d be amiss if I didn’t mention that If something feels off, acknowledge that. If there are red flags, take note of them. We should both be doing this in the days leading up to our encounter.

    That being said, don’t underestimate the importance of research, and ultimately, trusting your provider. You’re in good hands.

    Importance Of Choosing A Good Escort For Your First Time

    Researching your provider, and the industry that you’re about to dabble in is important, and comes in various formats.

    Firstly, you can peruse various advertising platforms. It’s not just about photos. I always advise reading numerous provider’s copy – their website, and bios. What resonates with you? Who leaves you curious, and wanting more?

    Does this provider have social media? Do they promote themselves in a way that’s attractive to you? Do you have similar interests – is your intrigue mounting? Furthermore, do you sense a level of professionalism? Does she appear to have a verifiable reputation?

    I think it’s necessary to remember that while physical attractiveness is of course important (and subjective), try not to neglect emotional attractiveness. A name and a photo won’t give you clues about the kind of person you’re meeting, and the experience you’ll have.

    My best clients are the ones that paid attention, and did their homework. They read my website in its entirety, took note of my likes and dislikes, followed me on social media, and eventually got to the point where their gut instinct was: “we’re going to get along.”

    How A Good Escort Can Calm A Clients’ Nerves

    I think a good escort is somebody who has a high level of EQ, and a high sensitivity for empathy. Most of us in this business got into it in the first place because we adore fostering connections. She’s here because she understands people, and all the idiosyncrasies that come along with them, nerves included.

    Chances are, we already know you’re nervous.

    The beauty of this business is that all of us, while similar in some ways, operate in a completely different fashion. My approach when meeting a nerve ridden client is to somewhat ignore the problem. I personally find that hyper focusing and dwelling on nervousness isn’t the most effective.

    Also – I treat my dates like any other first date. We’re here to get to know each other, and we’re both a little nervous. I try to be authentic, transparent, and give genuine compliments if they’re due. I’ll ask thoughtful questions and give you my honest opinions.

    As the night progresses, your shoulders might lower, your jaw might unclench, and we might find ourselves laughing and flirting. Usually before the evening’s over, we’ve found a way to connect in a real and sincere way, and all of a sudden, the nerves that we both felt at the beginning are no longer an issue.

    Last Tips For First Timer Clients

    My biggest tip: trust her.

    Nerves are normal, and totally ok. However, that chemistry you’re feeling? It’s very real and palpable.

    Try your best not to let anxiousness, self-doubt, and internal worries override the experience you’re having… because it just might turn into something wonderful.

    Madison Winter – Madison Winter, Canada’s self-proclaimed ‘girl next door’ is a high-end companion who lives and works out of Toronto, ON.

    She’s left a career in finance to become a provider, and now specializes in long engagements and relationship-based dates. In her spare time, she’s usually collecting passport stamps, or at home with her two dogs jamming out to 80’s rock.

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  • An Insight Into The Life Of A Sex Worker

    An Insight Into The Life Of A Sex Worker

    Sex work gave me my life back. Before working as an escort, I was at risk of losing my home and being unable to continue my studies. My depression was at its worst, my confidence was weak and I felt my life had no direction. These are all things that people would associate with somebody doing sex work but for me, it pulled me out of those lows. It was my saviour.

    I think it is very important to make clear distinctions between sex work and trafficking. Trafficking is slavery and is not sex work. That is not what we are talking about here. The narrative must change. I am loved, I am not a drug addict, and I am my own boss.

    Photo: http://www.emirparrotta.com

    What Made Me Decide To Get Into Sex Work

    I started escorting in the beginning for the quick cash when regular working routes failed me. I have two degrees, and studying for my third. I had plenty of experience and am an excellent candidate but the job market can be fickle and I had bills to pay. A friends’ girlfriend was a call girl and he thought I’d do well and could learn from her. She is intelligent and articulate so I met up with her for a coffee, and the rest is history!

    Steve Joliffe @ https://www.progressivephotography.co.uk

    Was Sex Work What You Thought It Was?

    What took me by surprise was how suited I am and in many ways, it’s my perfect career. All my skills fit perfectly and I truly feel satisfied and rewarded as a proud business woman.

    Initially, I worried about the dangers. Unfortunately some workers do get attacked, but I have had more incidents and assaults in my personal dating life than anything at ‘work’.

    I didn’t realise how kind some of my clients would be and how much I would change their lives for the better. At first, I thought selling sex was about sexual gratification but it is so much more than that. It’s about connection and intimacy, to be touched by another. We are selling escapism and release in more ways than one, not just hand jobs.

    Photo: Steve Joliffe @ https://www.progressivephotography.co.uk

    Challenges I Face As A Sex Worker

    The main challenge I face is the stigma around sex work. Some men don’t want to date me personally for their own insecurities but even some feminists feel we are playing against them. Others think we are dirty or virtueless. We are people, we have lovers, families and friends.

    An annoying assumption is that this work is easy or a get rich quick scheme. It is many things but easy is not one of them, and although my business is building, money isn’t the driving force. I continue to do this line of work because I enjoy it. I feel high levels of job satisfaction and maybe one day I’ll be able to buy my own apartment.

    Clients are normal everyday men you see in your life. They aren’t all perverts on the edge of society. Husbands, fathers, sons, businessmen. You probably know some without realising it. Many men have paid for sex, but are also worried about being labelled. Majority of whom value the companionship provided with respect and care.

    How Competitive Is The Sex Work Industry?

    Sex work has given me access to a community of incredible strong supportive women and men whom I now call friends. The industry can be competitive depending on where you work. In every corner of the world, there are various styles and types of sex work, but the community has been incredibly welcoming, uplifting and supportive. We are here together and try to keep each other safe. As much as we are all selling sex, our approach, methods and style are all different giving us our unique selling point. I like to think there is room for all of us.

    Steve Joliffe @ https://www.progressivephotography.co.uk

    What Clients Should Know Before Engaging A Sex Worker

    Clients should know to do some research on their provider before choosing one, simply because we all offer different things. They may need to pass screening and/or pay deposits. They must shower and arrive fresh to their appointment. We are not interested in ‘outing’ them to their families or colleagues – that’s bad for business and discretion is a priority, we just want to keep safe and have a good time.

    Kate Bouvier – High-Class Escort offering companionship bookings to distinguished gentlemen in Madrid, Spain. A proud Sex Worker, passionate about ending violence against women and keeping the community safe, Kate speaks openly to end stigma around the profession.

    Whether you are seeking a dinner date or attending a work function, British Kate genuinely adores meeting new people and would love to accompany you for the evening during your trip. Or perhaps you are a companion yourself, Kate would love to hear from you to share stories over a glass of wine.

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  • What Itʼs Like To Be A Courtesan

    What Itʼs Like To Be A Courtesan

    I am a former exotic dancer, burlesque performer and now courtesan. All of these professions are forms of sex work. This umbrella term is used in academia and in our community to push the agenda that sex work is real work. Those in our community should have the same rights and freedoms of any other person in a working profession  in Canada.  My 13 years in this line of work happened organically. Itʼs been fruitful and Iʼve enjoyed it for the most part.

    Unfortunately, the 2015 law regarding sex work in Canada, states that all sex work is exploitation. Under this guise, the government exacerbates the stigma that sex workers have no agency over our bodies or our futures. It conflates sex work with sex trafficking and creates an environment thatʼs harder to make a living.

    What I Love About Being A Courtesan

    I love discovering peopleʼs hidden desires. Often, I know the sensual side of a person that no one else gets to know. I take this privilege seriously. Iʼve known some clients in this business for a decade, and they are my friends and confidantes. As well as lovers. Being a conduit for someoneʼs desires has given me the ability to live my life as an artist. I consider my clients patrons of the arts.

    Misconceptions Often Heard About Courtesans

    Conflating sex work with sex trafficking does not help those who are sex trafficked because it takes resources away from searching for the real  perpetrators of trafficking. Even the name of the new act (The Protection of Communities and Exploited Persons Act) that governs laws around sex work intentionally conflates all sex work with trafficking.

    Often, police conflate migrant sex workers as trafficked. Taking sex work from them does not save them or their families back home. It hinders their ability to make a living. If the government really wanted to “save” sex workers, they would not conflate these two situations.

    Challenges Facing Sex Workers & Courtesans Today

    In 2013, the Supreme Court made a landmark ruling of Bedford vs. Canada. This hard fought case proved laws governing sex work unconstitutional.  This gave us hope that we would have the same rights as all other workers in Canada: the right to keep a place of business, the right to speak openly about how much our services cost, a right to have people working for us for security and safety.

    But the Harper government reversed the rules. Selling sex is now protected under the law. But buying sex is now illegal. This slight of hand decision propagates the stigma that sex work is forced and shameful. Our work now is to undermine this attitude within our society.

    Will The Situation Get Better?

    After the Bedford ruling, I had hope. But itʼs clear that the topic of sex work is something politicians donʼt want to touch with a ten foot pole. Keeping the status quo of sex work being oppression and harmful keeps us underground and in the dark. We keep fighting for our rights, but the political climate in this country is dismal.

    Advice For Aspiring Sex Workers

    Sex work is sometimes a last resort for people who are just surviving and a first choice for others with the privilege to work in safety and comfort. In any case, itʼs important to know the stigma is real, in health care, in social situations, in trying to run your business. Iʼve been banned from crossing into the States because US border patrol is actively seeking out sex workers entering the States, and charging us with “moral turpitude”. My charge is the same as a rapist, a murderer or a child molester trying to enter the country.

    I would suggest anyone with the privilege of choosing this profession to get acquainted with their local community of sex workers and allies. Maggieʼs of Toronto is a good resource centre and Stella in Montreal. There are also online boards such as PERB TERB and CAERF (Canadian Escort Review  Forum) that have sex worker led engagement. Many of us follow each other on social media, although itʼs getting harder to find those in the industry because of censorship of bodies and sexual content online.

    I truly believe that strong community engagement ensures youʼre aware of the mores and practices that are acceptable in your work. It can keep you safe and keep you grounded. In this political climate, we must protect each other. Find like minded people and support them. Building community is paramount.

    Veronica Sway – Adult entertainer to like-minded heathens and savvy deviants. Film performer and libertine concierge. Your connection to the  Toronto underground. And available to meet across Canada.

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    Just finishing editing my latest Veronica Sway short: Second Wave Love. This one is about the sex doll brothel debacle that happened last year in  Toronto. Itʼs funny and a cautionary tale. You can check out my other fun videos at Veronica Sway on Vimeo.

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  • Why It’s Okay For Men To See Sex Workers

    Why It’s Okay For Men To See Sex Workers

    With or without sex work as a job choice, I would say sex is an avenue of self discovery. I learned how to be more assertive, how to appreciate differences and how vulnerable yet liberating it could be to open yourself up to another person. I’m not a touchy feely kind of person – deep emotional interaction is my idea of hell. I’m not good with emotions, I don’t enjoy sharing mine and I don’t seek out ways to connect with others on that level. So, through sex, I’ve learned how to express feelings physically and it is a very healthy outlet for me. 

    Sex can be whatever you make it to be and I don’t know that enough people make use of that. It doesn’t have to be an act of self destruction, or dirtiness or simply for pleasure. If you have a sexual partner who is willing to experiment and teach and learn with you then sex can actually be a very, very powerful and very personal development tool.

    Reasons Men Visit Sex Workers

    I hear all sorts; wife is pregnant/menopausal/absent right through to breakups and exploring fantasies. Some wives and partners know about their male counter parts seeing escorts (some even book in for them) which I’ve always thought was quite nifty. When girls train with me, I like to remind them that they should never judge their clients based on their marital status. We don’t know whats going on in their lives and its not for us to pry.

    As a sensual masseuse, I’ve found that most of my clients with partners use massage as a way to have intimacy again in their lives, to feel validated and wanted or simply just to have a human moment of total self indulgence where the entire world is just focused on them and their needs. 

    Common Misconceptions About Sex Workers

    1. We are going to steal your man.

    I’ve been in this position a few times where friends have suddenly become concerned that I might seduce their partners. Bluntly put, sex workers are not usually after your men. We get paid to have men in our lives, a freebie for the sake of it is not high on our list of priorities. 

    2. Sex workers are riddled with STD’s.

    In New Zealand, sex workers legally have to provide services safely. This means condoms, gloves, dental dams and so on. We are aware of what could go wrong and what having and STD could mean for us, our partners/family and work.
    Compare this to a person in a club, drunk, sleeping around, forgetting condoms thinking the morning after pill will sort out any accidents, sharing drinks, kissing everyone they deem attractive… 

    Why It’s Okay For Men To Visit Sex Workers

    As long as they are not getting emotionally attached I think it’s a very safe and therapeutic indulgence. It’s a period where you are told you can not answer your phone, you aren’t being harassed by kids/family/partners/colleagues, and you can just pretend that the world spins for you and you alone. You can safely explore new fetishes or fantasies without worrying you will harm a relationship or opinion of you because sex workers are completely removed from your ‘real’ life. It’s an avenue for stress relief. It’s a moment of non-threatening human contact. 

    I do have clients who feel guilty for seeing us and I try to get them to understand that it’s ok to look after yourself in whatever way works best for you. I truly understand monogamy and that not all partners are open to it but at the end of the day, if a visit to a sex worker is what is going to keep your mental and emotional health in check then not a single person has any right to tell you it’s wrong. We all have our ways of coping with life and that is something to be respectful of, not something to be controlled. Happiness is not an illicit substance.

    What Men Should Know Before Seeing One

    1. Do your research. Check out forums with reviews, ask other punters for opinions, call said sex worker or her agency to make sure you know what is on offer and the limitations. If you are in anyway uncertain of someone, book elsewhere. 

    2. Please for love all things be hygienic. This is a very up close and personal experience. Brush your teeth (or go to the dentist – we all need our check ups) and gargle with mouth wash. Wash under your foreskin and your bottom. Then wash it again. Aim not to have body stubble – It really hurts. I’m a fan of manscaping. You would be surprised how many men have pubes longer than their penises. Long pubes get in the way of everything.

    3. Come prepared and communicate. Sex workers are awesome and some of us are pretty intuitive, but we aren’t mind readers. If you are fast to the finish line, occasionally cant even make it to the finish line, are in a weird headspace or want something in particular, tell us. It’s better when we are both on the same page. Bring some extra cash to tip or use for additional services if you think its something you want to explore.

    4. Respect our boundaries. Just because you have opted to tell us your life story, it does not mean we are obligated to tell you ours. If a woman says no, she means no. Irrespective of location, level of undress or profession – consent is sexy! Don’t be that guy who thinks that a grope is acceptable because she’s a sex worker. Unwanted physical contact is still sexual assault. 

    5. Go in with an open mind. Don’t over think it. It may be very different to what you expected and 9 time out of 10 thats a really, really good thing.

    Lacey – A multi-award winning sensual masseuse residing in Auckland, New Zealand. Care-taker/operator of Debonairs.

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  • Why Do Men Engage Companions?

    Why Do Men Engage Companions?

    Companionship is incredibly empowering to me. I am fortunate enough to be in a position to be very selective with who I see, so the one’s I do meet are more times than not truly amazing and inspiring people. I get my emotional and sexual needs met, which is important to me being someone who loathes dating in my personal life. Have you been on Tinder?! Nightmare. Lol.

    As a full-time student, I am able to independently support myself in ways I would otherwise never be able to. I’m able to travel, save up, make some smart investments. It’s definitely not for everyone and like any job it’s not perfect all the time, but it has changed my life for the better. I’ve also gained so many useful skills, building and maintaining a website, writing copy for my ads, drafting professional emails, and just running a small business. I think that aspect of companionship gets lost on many people. I even just hired an assistant and she is an absolute godsend! I am so appreciative and feel so lucky to be where I am right now and it is all thanks to this journey I’ve taken as a companion.

    Why Do Men Seek Companionship?

    There are many reasons men seek companionship. In my experience, the most common one is they’re seeking out something that is lacking in their life. Sometimes they are very busy with their career, and don’t have time for a romantic life, but don’t want to go through the lengthy (and a lot of times disappointing) process of dating.

    Other’s are in marriages where the love is still there, but travel a lot for work, when sex is not commonplace anymore, or may even be in a strained marriages that they don’t want to leave for whatever reason. Sometimes they are just looking to fulfill a longtime fantasy of theirs.

    The reason is different for every person, but overall I would say they are craving a physical and emotional connection with someone, both of which are essential for a healthy life.

    What Men Can Expect From The Time Together

    It depends on what they are looking for. Some men have a very detailed idea of what they are looking for, other’s simply want to meet up and see how it goes. I tailor every experience to each person I meet and adjust accordingly once we’ve met. There’s no cookie cutter experience, as everyone is different.

    Every person I meet with should expect to feel special in the time we share together, meaning that they’re needs, emotionally and physically are being heard and respected in a safe place with no judgment. My goal is to provide a revitalizing oasis from the stress of everyday life.

    Are There Misconceptions About Companionship?

    Of course! Even the new laws SESTA/FOSTA reflect the misconceptions of companionship. Many people think there’s no way a woman would voluntarily subject themselves to this line of work so we must be forced or trafficked into it. Not to say that, that doesn’t happen, and those situations are absolutely heartbreaking, but they are not the norm, the majority of us not only choose to do sex work and enjoy it.

    Every sex worker I know wants to be a companion. Companionship allows us to make real money, which puts many of us through school, or provides a comfortable life for our children, allows us to travel, save up, invest or buy a house! It’s really empowering and I think many people think of it as oppressive, which is just not the case.

    Meeting My Expectations

    I only expect to be respected and for them to have good hygiene. 🙂

    Scarlett Jones – I am a full-time student and part-time provocateur, based in San Francisco. When I am able to get away from my studies you can catch me sneaking away to the mountains to ski in the winter and soaking up the sun up the California coastline in the summer. Art and creative expression are both incredibly important to me, taking me to live shows of theatre and music, art galleries or checking out new exhibitions at local museums. I have been bit by the travel bug and try to explore as many places as my schedule permits.

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  • Why Do Men Hire Escorts?

    Why Do Men Hire Escorts?

    The girls at Bad Bunny have over 5 years in the sex and adult entertainment industry within Australia! That’s why we are here to give you insight as to why men like to hire out escorts and strippers (besides for the amazing sex), enjoy the article.

    Prostitution is one of the oldest jobs that has been popular at all times, as demand generates supply. Even many centuries ago, when people knew nothing about contraception, but the information about sexually transmitted diseases was widely available, many men were not afraid to hire the call girls to spend a couple of unforgettable hours, without thinking about the consequences and dangers. However, what else can trigger a man to choose a call girl beside lust? What desires and motives prompt men to pay money for love from Melbourne strippers or escorts?

    1. For their first experience

    There are men who are self-confident and who get their first sexual experience in high school. And there are good ole guys who cannot start a normal relationship with a girl for different reasons, and it isn’t even about sex. Perhaps, the root cause is an internal barrier, appearance, or the wrong self-presentation. However, the fact remains that the mark “virgin” does not disappear anywhere. In this case, many guys turn to call girls because they believe that they should start having sex, even for money.

    2. Drama-free sex

    As a rule, this idea is suitable for experienced gentlemen who also want to get sexual pleasures but do not want to waste time and effort on finding the right lady and further accompanying social games. Usually, this category includes men who want to have fun, putting minimal effort into it. In this case, the majority is guided by the principle, “Why should I waste time and energy on restaurants, cinema, theatres with a girl who is not my soulmate and who can refuse to have sex with me if I can spend the same amount of money and just satisfy my sexual desire?” Perhaps, the answer is obvious.

    3. The best way to hide cheating

    Married men often use the services of call girls. The ring on a finger imposes some duties, but it does not kill the instincts that require having sex with the most women. Naturally, their wives do not share this position, and cheating, most likely, will lead to a divorce. It is risky to go on a date with a colleague or a girl who you accidentally met in a parking lot because you can be seen in a cafe for a cup of coffee. In addition, no man is insured from nightly messages with confessions. This is the main reason why many husbands choose a relatively safe way to have sex with other women.

    4. Dealing with complexes

    Sometimes, the problem is much deeper. Some men have complexes and fears, which they try to overcome with the help of women who provide intimate services. Imagine an insecure guy who has never been popular with girls and who can only dream about sex with a hot and experienced girl. The female body has become something unattainable and fantastic for him, so the guy is not even sure whether he will be able to do everything right at the most crucial moment. So, in this case, to have sex with a call girl is, perhaps, a reasonable step. These ladies know their job and will help relax. Besides, the guys do not need to think about many things that they have to take care of during sex with an ordinary girl. These thoughts allow them to come out of the shell and enjoy their first sex to the fullest. In addition, afterwards, they will radically change their attitude towards sex and girls. They will not perceive sex as something from science fiction and the domain of niche player.

    5. Communication

    Many men are looking not only for sex but also for communication. Call girls become real psychologists who can listen to and, according to their life experience, give advice (such as you can find in Ukrainian girls’ profiles). Sometimes, men don’t have a friend to talk to and share their problems. It often happens that people just talk instead of having sex.

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  • What It’s Like Being An Asian Escort In Australia

    What It’s Like Being An Asian Escort In Australia

    This is an opinion questionnaire from my own experience to what I have gone through or seen or heard myself. It is in no way finger pointing at anyone in particular. I apologise if any fellow sex-worker or ex-worker is offended by these opinions.

    Escorting personally should be treated like a business. I run a business model that entails branding and marketing and customer management. Nothing short of any other business you set up.  The misconception that escorting is NOT a business and Asian girls are small, quiet, desperate and horny is so wrong!

    The Australian  Sex Work Environment

    Sex work in Australia personally is working in a competitive environment. It really comes down to how you market your brand and maintain your customer base, very similar to any other business.  As an oriental or minority-background and bigger than your average size 4-6 escort, we do face hardships more than other workers. If you can see it with other industries, you can surely see it in THIS industry as well!

    Challenges Faced As An Asian Escort

    I started this brand (Summer Choi) after being under a different brand. I needed to be some-what unique to the other Asian escorts who were prevalent on advertisement directories. My old clients used to always assume that Asian girls are small, petite and quiet on the outside, yet seeking a man to unleash their horny side. They were quick to realise I’m definitely not that average “Asian Girl”.

    They call me an independent woman, a listener, switched-on and comfortable in my own personality and image.  I changed my services from the “horny Asian girl next door” to “luxe oriental companion”. From then on, I have met many genuine clients who appreciate this difference. I may not have as many bookings as before but my business sees quality over quantity.  I have more longer bookings than short bookings.

    Misconceptions About Asian Escorts

    “All Asian girls are easy, desperate, quiet and petite” is the general premise I hear from everyday inquiries. I have also been called ‘fat, overweight and too hard to deal with’, even through the first contact. For my business, I market to what my personal image and experience all in consideration of legal and safety requirements.

    Many clients, when they see me at the booking, they are surprised I am not as other Asian girls are. They see me as a professional escort who does not see multiple clients a day, making quick easy bucks to pay rent, doesn’t have an Asian accent or hard to speak to due to language barriers, nor am I a matured old lady who steals from other girls’ advertisements. Now, this is another debate for another day.

    Difference Between Being Independent & Working In A Brothel

    I have heard many stories that brothels mistreat their workers to the extreme; however, I cannot say I’ve been in that situation as I have not worked in a brothel myself.

    Being independent does give you the flexibility to make your own working hours and conditions. Independence also gives you the ability to create your own rules and branding that suits your own business. Yes, it is harder but think of it as creating any brand a new business. It takes your own time, experimentation and skills to maintain a business.

    Advice For Aspiring Asian Escorts

    Keep in mind you are in a market pool of escorts. Don’t be discouraged by these “other brands” (escorts). Just work on your own brand. Brand, rebrand, and rebrand to what you are comfortable with and maybe you will find your own twist that you can market.

    I wished someone had shown me the ropes before I started however. If I had not followed other wonderful sex workers on Twitter and supported sex work groups while I was “just starting out”, I would not have developed the skills and courage to become “Summer Choi”.

    Note: This article is in no relation to the Sydney tragedy or towards any individuals or groups.

    Summer Choi is an independent oriental luxe escort business that isn’t run by your average Asian escort.

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    Website: www.mssummerchoi.com

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/msmssummerchoi

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mssummerchoi/

    Upcoming Tours:

    Singapore: 30-31 October

    Seoul: Novemeber TBA

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  • What Can One Expect From The GFE

    What Can One Expect From The GFE

    Normally in dates with clients, what’s best for both parties… is to feel, act and think as if it was a real loving relationship.

    Make the other person feel what I would like to feel on a romantic date. Make them feel as special as I want to feel.

    I think that a person who is dedicated to being an escort should be complacent, loving, and patient. Try to improve yourself day by day in being a better lover and be innovating…with new fantasies to please the client and ourselves.

    What Exactly Is The GFE?

    It is a form of professional date where I provide a form of love, pleasure, and submission in certain cases, similar to a geisha. Being a rental girlfriend.

    Why The GFE Is Popular

    The attraction is to identify yourself as a date, girlfriend, or loving relationship for a certain amount of time, without the stress or problems of a real everyday relationship. Take care of the needs of the client and let them take care of you.

    It’s popular because being a professional, it does not feel like it’s work. It feels real. And that is what men need. A real person who cares about their needs and their times, who has patience and shows them affection, passion and who listens to what they have to say.

    One Common GFE Misconception

    The use of protection. Protection should always be used. Even in personal relationships. Many people think that providing a GFE means not using protection and that is not real. You always have to be safe and use protection.

    What Is Important To Make The GFE Work?

    It is important to put yourself on the other person’s shoes and try to understand their needs. Give them love, seduction, passion. Make them feel as if they are someone important in your life. Even if just for a moment.

    In my case, I have been doing it for many years and it really is a way of life that I did not have a hard time adapting to. I have fallen in love and I have married people from this environment and I liked it. I try to be better every day in what I do and I give everything of me so that people feel comfortable and safe.

    Valerie – Hi sweetheart! I’m Valerie from Argentina. I’m very open minded only want to meet with gentlemen over 50 years old! I’m so sweet and nice… I’m looking for new friends like me!!

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    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sweetvalerie34/

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