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  • How FOSTA & SESTA Has Affected The Sex Work Industry

    How FOSTA & SESTA Has Affected The Sex Work Industry

    I don’t think of sex work as sex work. Sex work is such a limited term that doesn’t begin to touch what I/we provide. I prefer the term Companion/Provider. I have been a Professional Companion since 2010, after leaving my corporate position as an Executive Assistant. That was the best decision I ever made!

    I truly enjoy the experiences that I have been afforded, and the lives that I have been able to touch. We as companions are truly more than “Sex Workers”. We are consummate providers. I am a provider of many things (compassion, entertainment, intellectual stimulation, emotional support, motivation, inspiration, self-esteem, empowerment, knowledge, health, wellness, fantasy, erotica, sensual exploration, companionship, R&R, etc), but I’m still a person, and sometimes that concept gets lost when using the term “Sex Worker”.

    Has SESTA-FOSTA Achieved Its Purpose?

    It is said that SESTA-FOSTA was designed to prevent websites from facilitating sex trafficking. It has shut down a lot of sites that many providers used in order to provide for their families, and some providers even turned to the streets. At the same time, it has also made it harder for LE to track trafficking victims. Once the major sites that were known to corporate in trafficking recovery were shut down, many new sites popped up and it became much harder for the agencies behind the SESTA-FOSTA movement to track down the trafficking victims.

    It appears that the bill wasn’t carefully thought out, and it has made things more difficult for the parties involved and affected. Many blacklist sites, and trusted boards were also affected by this, and it has definitely made the verification process more strenuous, and many providers have been harmed/killed due to inadequate screening options, and advertising platforms. Since SESTA-FOSTA there has been an increase in assaults on providers, missing providers, and hrovider Homicides, and the trafficking victims are still unaccounted for…

    Repercussions On Sex Workers From SESTA-FOSTA

    There have been so many repercussions that providers/trafficking victims have faced since SESTA-FOSTA.

    Everyone was affected differently, but in some form we were all affected…

    By limiting the advertising platforms, some trafficking victims were sent back to work on the streets, where they face higher risk of violence, less compensation, and might never be found.

    A lot of providers that depended on the sites that shut down were left in a position of financial despair, and they turned to the streets and some even turned to pimps to find dates, putting themselves in eminent danger just to survive.

    Several providers dealt with some banks closing accounts, some hosting companies banning websites, some social media sites shadow banning/blocking adult accounts, a lot of ad platforms censoring content, etc.

    There has also been an increase in provider assault/homicide since SESTA-FOSTA. With the disappearance of verification sites, dangerous men have been released back into our community in hopes of committing harm under anonymity. This situation isn’t just limited to the providers on the street. This situation has affected providers of all rates and echelons.

    When providers and trafficking victims are criminalized, they are denied access to the equal protections of the law and they become easy targets for violence, exploitation, and trafficking. Providers/victims shouldn’t have to be in fear of reporting these violent crimes. If there was a better system in place for provider protection that would allow providers to report these assaults without backlash, it would help decrease these senseless attacks.

    Are Clients Affected By The Changes?

    I prefer to refer to them as suitors, because the term client seems a little impersonal for me.

    I have noticed that since FOSTA-SESTA, some potential new suitors have become apprehensive about the screening process. I simply explain to them, that it’s a discreet safety precaution for both of us. Providers have not forgotten the Craig’s List Killer, and the terror he caused in our community. We don’t request your screening information for blackmail, we request your screening information, because you want to be in our personal space and we need to make sure that you’re safe to see, and you don’t have a history of assault/battery. At the end of the day, we have friends and family, just like you, and we want to be safe so we can see them again.

    Potential suitors have also mentioned that they aren’t sure where to go to find reputable providers anymore. There are so many new platforms available to them now. Many have found Twitter to be a great personal insight to a provider’s personality in addition to her website. I always tell potential suitors that it’s important that you read a provider’s website in it’s entirety and that you do your due diligence to verify the provider for your safety prior to arranging a date.

    Will There Be Improvements For A Better Sex Work Environment?

    I feel that our community is resilient. Since the introduction of SESTA-FOSTA, there has been an outpouring of support between providers of all spectrums of the adult industry, and suitors. People seem to be using the available platforms to have the conversations and better inform each other. There’s still a lot of work to be done, but we’re working together towards a better environment, and we’re in a better place than we were months ago. When we put our minds together and support each other, there’s nothing that we can’t accomplish!

    What Sex Workers & Suitors Can Do In The Meantime

    The most important thing potential suitors can do is, read a provider’s website in it’s entirety prior to making contact, respect a provider and their policies, and understand the importance of screening. Being a companion is very rewarding, but there’s an occupational risk involved. Unfortunately, not everyone who wants to meet us is safe to see.

    As a provider, the most important thing that we can do, other than provide unforgettable experiences, is use our platform to help our community and inform others. A person can’t do better, if they don’t know better.

    India Dior – Hello! I’m India, your exclusive model girlfriend and private companion. I enjoy adventure, romance, traveling, and providing unforgettable experiences. I’m Charlotte based, and available worldwide.

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  • Ways To Get Into The Mood For Sex

    Ways To Get Into The Mood For Sex

    I’m naturally a very sensual person so being an escort, I truly get to fully indulge into my sexual cravings. My personal views towards sex have definitely changed over the years. While I enjoy being intimate and also building suspense, I also like a man to take charge. To me, sex that is passionate really leaves a long lasting impression on me as well as the person I’m engaging with.

    Getting Into The Mood For Sex

    It is not that hard for me to get in the mood for sex. I’m a pretty sexual person but that also depends on the person I’m with. Knowing that the person wants to have a full experience and is also a non-selfish lover. Having drink’s flowing (to an extent of course) and maybe even some fruit’s and some other light food beforehand is definitely a way to get in the mood.

    Wearing luxurious sexy lingerie is also very good way to achieve that. If possible, a nice bath, and of course a lot of foreplay. The time’s that I have a hard time getting in the mood is when there is no leading up to being intimate and no build up.

    My Turn Ons

    What really turns me on is kissing and touching. I have very sensitive skin so even stroking my body up and or around my breast and nipples really turn’s me on. Also knowing that a date is enjoying himself is of course a turn on for me.

    Common Mistakes Before Sex

    Being too rushed and too rough as not everyone is into very rough sex. Also, focusing on making her orgasm as fast as possible as if you’re trying for the Guinness book of records. This usually turns in to guys doing all kinds of tricks that don’t really do much. All in all, communication is key and asking the person you’re engaging with sexually if that is something that is a turn on or off is very important.

    Is Sex A Physical & Mental Enjoyment?

    Definitely both, I enjoy having sex and the thought of having that can already arouse me. But it’s also very stimulating when I can connect mentally with a date so it’s just as much mental as it is physical.

    Taking Charge During Sex

    Overall I do like the guy to take charge. There is something very arousing when a man takes charge and pins me to the bed especially when he knows what to do.

    Tiffany Elease – I am an exotic Amsterdam based Escort. Even though I’m based in Amsterdam I am also available through The Netherlands and internationally. As a very sensual companion, I truly enjoy the company of a true gentleman.

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  • How To Keep Escort Liaisons & Affairs Discreet Part II

    How To Keep Escort Liaisons & Affairs Discreet Part II

    Is Engaging An Escort Better Than Having An Affair?

    I hate saying something is better or worse than another option.  Ultimately, it boils down to why they are desiring the affair in the first place.  If the reasons include being disinclined to hurt their spouse, yes, an escort is better and more discreet.

    Escorts have honed and tailored their whole world to provide discretion.  They have had more practice, and done more research, into avoiding prying eyes.  You won’t usually find an escort falling so in love, that they demand you dismantle your life and leave your current spouse.  They are often far more conscious of ramifications, complications, and risks than your average friend or colleague.  From awareness of STDs and safe sexual practices, to employing a lawyer like confidence.

    How To Keep Escort Liaisons A Secret

    There are many ways.  It’s important to pick and choose which ways by knowing your significant other well.  So let’s start with the basics.  Presuming you have already done all of your research and selected a couple of escort candidates, from there you need to start cleaning up the path that brought you here.

    • Create a discreet email account (ideally encrypted) with a password you don’t usually use. This is now your ‘fun’ email. It should ONLY be used for your liaisons.  Remember to always log out of it when you are done using it.  A good example is protonmail.
    • *Computer cleanup. Erase your cookies first. (See diagrams) Your phone, computer, and tablet all of these functions.  This is primarily done in the browser(s) you have used in your research.  Next you are going to want to erase your history.  Finally, empty your computer/smart phones trash bin.  This is not a one time deal.  Do this EVERY SINGLE TIME you visit an escort site, your ‘fun’ email, or anything that directly relates.  Remember, even if you erase this often, the lack of evidence can sometimes be evidence itself.  So avoid using communal household computers if possible.*
    • Which leads me to my next point. Alternate phones.  This one is difficult because you have to either hide the phone, or have a good reason for having it.  I strongly suggest a nice burner phone.  One you can get at Walmart.  This phone can be kept at work, in your car, or other good hiding place.  *picture provided* Remember to still utilize the two steps above.  There is no such thing as being too cautious.  DO NOT buy the phone online.  Buy it at the store and in person.  This goes for your refill cards as well.

    • Discreet funds. Don’t pull the money out for your entertainment all at once, or have a good reason for doing so.  Try to avoid lying.  Both because you love this person, and the lie will hurt than more than the activity (usually) and because lying is difficult to keep up with.  The closer you stay to the truth, the better.  You can utilize several discreet debit like cards as well.  I personally favor the bluebird card.  It’s a good way to tuck away rainy day funds, send money discreetly, and for those that like to buy their companions gifts.  DON’T keep receipts.  Try to book your hotels using the alternate banking/prepaid cards.  It may take awhile to find out which ones take those cards, so ask your providers if they know of any in your area.

    Examples:

    • Take money out for gambling. Go and gamble a little bit, tuck away your winnings or a portion of the money you were playing with.
    • Take money out to buy your partner a gift, buy them a gift, tuck away the extra into your private play fund.
    • Surprise bonuses, tips, or unexpected income is good to tuck away as well.
    • The further in advance you plan ahead for your liaison, the better. Steps to planning ahead…
      • Create a cover story. This is best done by staying as close to the truth as possible (as I mentioned above).
      • Start absently dropping mentions about your cover story. If it falls under “business trip”  Start mentioning the possibility that your job may be sending you someplace and you don’t really want to go.  It’s very important that you avoid shoving your excuse at your partner.  Be subtle, do research to back up your story.
    • Tie as little to your name as possible. Your companion (or affair partner) should already have your information.  So there is no harm in reducing the paper trail as much as you can.
    • Back up clothing. A clean button up, and pair of slacks left in the car or at the office can prevent you from tracking perfume and makeup home.
    • Request little to no makeup and/or little to no perfume in advance. Most ladies understand this is a request for discretion, and are amicable.  Provided you are not aggressive, demanding or rude about your request.
    • Tucked away travel bag. This bag should host your usual shampoo and soap.  You come home smelling just like you left.  Make sure to tuck this away in advance.
    • Don’t tempt fate. “Don’t shit where you eat”.  Both statements mean the same thing and yet this is the biggest mistake I see most make.  If you can avoid playing within a 50 mile radius of home, you should.  NEVER invite a companion to your personal home if you believe your partner will return within the next 24 hours.  Unless you plan for your own death by marital suicide or intend to make it a three way.
    • Finally, if you intend to repeat with different companions. Make sure to make a good impression. Having a solid reference (or three) on hand can make all the difference in your ability to access company in new and exotic locations.  It reduces the paper trail and cuts back on your risk of hiring the wrong partner.    You also get the added bonus of a connection network.

    I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that it’s possible, your partner won’t mind you seeing a companion.  If you think they would be open to letting you explore in a safe and professional way, just open a dialog.  Don’t let it push into argument territory but express your interests.  Be prepared, asking for permission can put you under a microscope for some time

    Advice For First Time Clients

    This is a tough one.  In the current climate, many escorts are hesitant to accept a new face.  I would strongly urge you to do your research first and foremost.  Collect a small handful of potential candidates.  Look for the profiles that say “newbie friendly”  It’s important to know what you want to get out of hiring a companion.  It will help narrow down your results.   Next, read up on each escort.  Normally, you would find instructions on how to contact her and what should be included in that first correspondence.  If there are no instructions, treat that first contact almost professionally.  Be clear and concise on what you want, when you are interested in meeting, and a small paragraph about yourself.  Avoid being crude, rude, or even asking out any form of sex.  Above all, be respectful and polite.

    I would like to tie this article up with one simple all encompassing piece of advice.  Research.  There are many people that have written about ways to keep your dalliances from coming to light.  There is so much more information about the industry just beyond the veil of preconceived notions and social/political propaganda.  If you seek it, you will find it.

    Jaycee Rivers – Just another passionate geek feeding my insatiable appetites.  There is nothing more interesting in the world besides fascinating people, and a good book.

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  • How To Keep Escort Liaisons & Affairs Discreet Part I

    How To Keep Escort Liaisons & Affairs Discreet Part I

    The sex industry is a fascinating subject.  Why?  Because it is in a constant state of winding in and out of everyone’s lives daily. From the porn industry, to the happy ending message parlor.   The sex industry doesn’t just exist quietly.  It is millions of shadows pacing down the street unnoticed.  Defiantly tucked in the corner of your eyes.

    I don’t just view sex work as work.  It’s therapy, liberation, and a fantasy escape.  For both client and SWer.   Much like any job you might endeavor, it can be amazing, or daunting.  Some, will find their ‘best life’ in SW, others will hate it but remain just for the financial freedom it provides.  Contrary to what the world will have you believe, that is common for any job, occupation, or career, out there.  The negatives touted about the industry are the same negatives you will find elsewhere in other occupations.  Unlike most others occupations,  You can pick and choose the jobs that are comfortable for you.  You have the liberty to take the occupational role and tweet it to fit your own needs and comfort levels.  Essentially, it feels as if someone has handed you the wheel to drive your own life.

    Just beneath the surface of your everyday life, lives another world.  When the rest of the world hears “sex worker” they immediately imagine, short skirts, and disease riddled street walkers.  Only, this second world is vast and filled with so very much more.  Web performers, dancers, porn actresses/actors, and even professional cuddlers.  It is it’s own fully diverse society.

    I love SW.  I enjoy it from both perspectives, inside and out.  In sex work, I found the control and freedom I desperately needed.  A balm to a past life I barely remember anymore.

    Diversity Of Clients

    Clients stem from all walks of life.  Rich, poor, charismatic, socially impaired, the clients are as diverse as the escorts themselves.  It’s not just men that employ escorts, either.  You will find women and couples enjoying the luxury of an escort.  Lawyers, doctors, politicians, truck drivers, accountants, and even teachers.  The type of people that employ escorts essentially boils down to two types.  The thrill seekers, and those that are missing something.   Companionship, intimacy, and even safe sexual exploration.

    Reasons Men Engage Escorts

    Most are looking for something beyond sex.  Don’t get me wrong, they want sex too, but it’s not the primary hole they are trying to fill.  Pun absolutely intended.  It’s the intimacy, being close to another human being.  Some don’t even know why they find themselves on the path looking for an escort.

    • They are lonely. Sometimes, the spouse passes, there is a big breakup, or the client simply has a difficult time attracting a long term mate.
    • They fear rejection. With an escort, they can practice courting, intimacy, and socializing, without fear of direct rejection.
    • Lost passion. They love their spouses, but the passion has turned to more of a best friend situation.  Their spouses have long since stopped the rampant intimacy that had been there at the beginning.  So instead of an affair, they find a professional.
    • Unique or judged sexual preferences. Sometimes the client wants to explore something that they fear their spouse, or partner, will reject.  I have several clients that enjoy dressing up as women, for example.  Others that want to explore their fantasies without hurting or upsetting their partners.
    • Human beings commit to monogamy because they feel obliged to do so. There is a insurmountable amount of evidence that theorizes and proves human beings are not meant to be monogamous sexually.  A trip to the psychology section of your local library or book store will happily delve deeper into this subject.

    I could go on and on and on.  The reasons people see escorts is as varied as the reasons people enjoy art or music.

    Jaycee Rivers – Just another passionate geek feeding my insatiable appetites.  There is nothing more interesting in the world besides fascinating people, and a good book.

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  • How To Have A Great Date Night

    How To Have A Great Date Night

    A great date to me is one that is full of smiles, laughter and good chemistry. A little creativity can also go a long way when it comes to planning a memorable date. Some of my best dates were when the guy went the extra mile to plan an outing based on our shared interests.

    Preparation For A Date Night

    To prepare for a date night out, I like to take my time to primp and prime to make sure I look and feel my absolute best. A long shower followed by oils and perfume, hair and makeup and picking out the perfect outfit to accentuate my curves.

    How Important Are First Impressions?

    First impressions do matter! You only get one chance to make a great one.  My only expectation is that my date is a gentleman. I’m a little traditional in the sense that I believe a man should always open the door, pull out chairs, etc. It’s romantic and makes me feel taken care of 🙂

    Biggest Turn Offs

    One of my biggest turnoffs on a date is when someone doesn’t talk much. It’s hard to get to know someone who doesn’t tell you much about themselves.  I’m naturally extroverted and can talk to anyone about anything so it’s no reason to be shy with me. I’m an open book who will encourage you to open yours as well.

    Signs I’m Having A Good Time

    To show that I’m having a good time, I smile a lot and will initiate some physical contact by touching my date’s arm or knee. Physical contact says that I’m comfortable being in your personal space.

    Sierra Sinclair – Hi, I’m Sierra Sinclair! I’m a VIP Companion based in Dallas, Texas and available Worldwide. I am a friendly, passionate and sensual woman who possesses a mixture of incredible sex appeal combined with a charismatic personality. I love being a companion because I get to meet amazing people, travel and plan “great date nights” all the time 🙂

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    Twitter: twitter.com/SweetSierraLive

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  • Sharing My Escorting Experiences

    Sharing My Escorting Experiences

    I love my job! I get to meet some amazing people. Giving pleasure either physically or emotionally inspires me. I love to make people happy so this was the right work choice for me.

    How I Got Started Into Escorting

    Someone had suggested it to me. I did a little research and then found an ad in the newspaper looking for “models”. I decided why not, to try this out.. I wasn’t exactly sure what it was. I called and a couple of dudes showed up to interview me. I was shocked at first when they told me what the job entailed. Lol but then I thought, why not try it… I love meeting new people, love men, and sex.   I was lucky with my first appointment as it was his first time with an escort., so we just jumped into the action as if we were long lost, lovers.

    They thought I was too old at first (I was 35) but I fooled them and I turned out to be the most popular. When I realized this, I quit the agency and went indie.  Life hasn’t been the same since.

    Highs & Lows Of Escorting

    Traveling around the world. Meeting wonderful people is definitely a high. Being able to pay for my children’s education. Seeing the smiles on the men’s faces when they meet you. Getting gifts and thank you letters. As much as I aim to please men..they please me in so many ways. A simple thank you goes a long way.

    Lows…Having people not reading your website and asking stupid questions. Guys not showing up for appointments. The new Fosta-Sesta law in the States isn’t helping much either.

    Why are we fighting for our rights as women? I thought this was 2018, not the middle ages. I feel as if a part of me is missing. Why can’t we as women do what we want? Our bodies our minds are our choice.

    You’ll probably not find anyone more against sex trafficking then us independent sex workers.  We decide who we see and when. I say independent because what we make is all ours. We see who we want, when we want.

    So now there are more lows…ladies having to move to the streets, losing their income. Their independence. Especially in the USA but it has affected the whole industry all over the world.

    Misconceptions About Escorting

    We don’t all have pimps or work for someone. We don’t work 24/7.  We don’t see just anyone. Just because you contacted me doesn’t mean I’m going to see you. We are not all on drugs. I don’t do drugs at all and rarely do I have a drink.

    How The Escorting Industry Works

    To be an escort, You need to be good at what you do.. You need to understand men and know what they are looking for. It’s not always sex. You should have confidence in yourself. Once you are ready to proceed then you have to advertise.  Once you start getting calls, emails, you should screen your potential clients before making a date with them. We screen for our safety. Screening is usually pretty easy. The gentlemen gives us a name of another escort he’s met and we contact her to see if she indeed met him and if he is safe. Once all this is out of the way, you make your plans with him and enjoy your time together.

    Emma Alexandra – I’m Emma Alexandra your mature passionate companion. I stand 5’4” with a voluptuous body. Everything is real… wink!

    My personality, warmth and affection are genuine and seriously contagious. I’m a sparkle of sunshine In your day. I love to love!

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  • Ways To Enjoy A First Date

    Ways To Enjoy A First Date

    A good date experience is when we both leave the date feeling uplifted and excited. It always helps set a good tone for the date when I can tell that the other person has put some time/thought into the outing. If it’s not a blind date and you have a bit of an idea about your partners interests (from social media or mutual friends), you can really impress them by playing into that! It doesn’t have to meet any certain stipulations or criteria per say, as long as we both leave with smiles on our faces wanting to reconnect again.

    First Date Faves

    Going out for a meal is always a traditional nice way to get to know someone through conversation. But a good meal paired with a shared experience like going to an event, a class, or a museum, concert, hike, anything really — gives you something to talk about over dinner and an introductory way to explore likes, dislikes and each other’s interests.

    One of my favorite dates in San Francisco started as a walk through Golden Gate Park to a free event, Opera in the Park. We sat around on a picnic blanket and enjoyed the music for a bit (I think this gave us both time to get comfortable around each other and let the first date jitters subside), then walked over into a nice neighborhood nearby for a drink, then eventually to dinner and dessert.

    It ended up being a long date that was only expected to be the meet and greet and walk around the park but ended up being an all day affair because we were enjoying each others’ company.

    Preparing For The First Date

    Well I personally have a pre-date ritual to prepare for a date that involves a long shower and bath with a glass of wine, followed by body oil, face mask, and general grooming and primping. I follow this up with a meditation session so I feel relaxed and centered before meeting. On the date itself, I try to be myself for the most part, perhaps a little reserved in some areas until I get a good feel for the other person and our compatibility, but generally try to be as normal and like me as possible. How else will you know you’re a good fit if you aren’t being yourself?

    Expectations Of My Date

    I am generally not a high maintenance girl so all I expect from a date is courtesy, kindness, and respect. Also, I do think it’s appropriate for the man to at least ASK to pay the bill at the end of the night.

    Tips To Remove The Nerves

    Don’t be nervous! But of course that is easier said than done so I would say just take a few deep breaths, don’t be afraid to be yourself or talk about things that truly interest you (you’re probably more interesting than you let yourself believe) and in the event nerves are taking over anyway – don’t drink too much! I’ve seen this happen more than once and trust me, you’d rather be a bit nervous in the beginning and let that round out as the date goes on, than add fuel to the fire and end up being a hot mess!

    Jeniveve Delacroix – I am a 28 year old sensual blonde sweetheart living in San Francisco. I just graduated with my undergrad degree in the social sciences (I love to study all things people) and am enjoying my time off before I head back to grad school. In my free time I love to do yoga, hike, pet all the animals and travel and love to share these interests with like minded people.

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    Regularly available in the SF Bay Area with a tour to Denver in July, and NYC in September. TBD dates.

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  • Why Men Engage Escorts

    Why Men Engage Escorts

    I’ve been an escort for five years. My personal view on sex work and escorting has changed since I started when I was 24 years old. At first, I saw it as a means to an end – a good living so I can work on “what I really wanted to do,” which, at 24, had no idea what it was.  As time went on, I started seeing the profession as more of a career – and a fulfilling one at that. I am the way my clients de-stress in a judgment free zone. I am a way for couples to bond and come closer together – a concept I think couples would only understand if they’ve have experience with an escort. I am a way for individuals to experience intimacy if they find themselves lacking comfort from someone.

    While I think anyone can get into any career for the wrong reasons, I believe escorting to be a way where women can play amongst men that a glass ceiling might have prevented them to be around. And I get to hang around with those men in the best way – not to work for them, but to play with them.

    Misconceptions About Escorting

    The most common misconceptions are two: that there’s no way someone could have *chosen* this life and that the people that book us are “losers.”

    Not only have I chosen this career and chose to stay in this career because of the opportunities it has afforded me and how much fulfillment I find in my day-to-day interactions with my clients, but every other escort I’ve ever met has chosen this life for the same reasons. It’s easy to think that someone else pushes us into this, as popular opinion would have you believe, but many of my contemporaries are intelligent, entrepreneurial ladies who can’t imagine themselves ever doing anything else! While all careers have their tough day, there’s a lot of fun and adventure that’s hard to find in any other profession – at least in the way I like to engage in fun and adventure!

    The majority of my clients are men, and these men are the furthest from “lame” that could exist. My clients are professional, respectful men that are simply looking for a drama-free, easy way to let their hair down and relax.  I’m a professional adult entertainer with an uninhibited sense of adventure. For a professional man with the disposable income, what better way to let loose then with a sexy lady that knows exactly how to look, what to wear, how to carry herself, and that will look offer you a good time with no drama or strings attached?!

    Advantages Of Engaging An Escort

    The biggest advantage to booking an escort is for a drama-free, good time without the risks and uncertainty attached with engaging a complete stranger with unknown intentions at a bar or wherever you may find yourself.  My intention is for my client to have the time of their life, because it’s my profession to entertain. What can you say about the intentions of a random stranger? You know exactly what you’re getting when you book an escort, and there’s A TON of value in a sure thing!

    Main Reason Main Engage Escorts

    I’d say the main reason men engage an escort is to have fun and de-stress. It’s the experience and value that comes with having someone who they can say absolutely anything to so they feel heard, validated, and not judged.

    Do’s & Don’ts To Follow

    One important DO, is to treat the profession like any other profession and approach the escort with respect. Read her website and get to know her. Not only will he/she appreciate it, but you will be able to make a better decision.

    A major DON’T is not mentioning anything illegal. You are paying for time and companionship 😉

    I wrote a book on this subject because I know this secret world with secret decorum is hard to navigate for a first timer. It’ s an easy, 10 minute read and can help give the new client confidence in taking the first step – and doing it right!

    Lana Blanc – I’m Lana! A curvy model, escort and travel companion available in Philadelphia, NYC, DC, Houston, and San Francisco and for domestic and international travel. I have five years of experience and absolutely love meeting new people and making connections.

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  • Ways To Incorporate Toys During Sex

    Ways To Incorporate Toys During Sex

    My views towards sex are positive; I love sex, I love giving and receiving in all aspects. I am adventurous and love trying new things, new toys, new positions and new experiences. I became a sex worker just under four years ago and from then on my eyes have been opened even wider to new things I would like to try and things I have tried and never thought I would like, but did. I view sex as almost an artform, a creative outlet to be yourself and enjoy every aspect of yourself.

    I discovered masturbation at a young age and never looked back after that; after getting my first sex toy when I was 16 years old, I explored myself even deeper, realizing I needed to know what I like before I can show anyone else what I liked. Since then, I have always loved to give pleasure; the pure moan of a man or women is my biggest turn on.

    Why I Love Using Toys During Sex

    I love that you can always explore new things about yourself and partners; trying new sensations can be so erotic. I love that I can have multiple sensations on my nipples, clit and g-spot or on my partners’ testicles and penis. I love that you can explore any type of kink to any level; whether you would like to try handcuffs for the first time all the way up to using butt plugs to see if you would enjoy butt play, or nipple clamps to see if you enjoy the pressure on your nipples. The possibilities are endless!

    Misconceptions About Sex Toys

    A common misconception is it’s only for the woman. There are plenty of partners I’ve had who enjoy using toys, not only on me, but for themselves as well. There are so many things on the market for men and women that can be tried out.

    A disadvantage I would say is if you don’t communicate how you’d like the toy used or even show your partner; that can really turn you off from using them together.

    My Favorite Toys

    I love using my WeVibe Tango bullet; it’s powerful and I can use it if I’m being come at from behind or missionary. I also enjoy the WeVibe itself because it vibrates on your g-spot and your clitoris while something can be inserted into you; so many sensations can be very pleasurable for myself.

    Make It Entertaining For Men

    I think showing them (who doesn’t love to watch once in a while!) about how you play with yourself and how you like this to make yourself cum. You can definitely bring it up also in a way explaining how much it will enhance your pleasure in your whole sexual encounter; and when you’re more into it, he’s more into it!

    Do’s & Don’ts When Using Toys

    Definitely COMMUNICATE: that doesn’t just go for toys but for all sexual acts. You really have to discuss with your partner what you want to get out of it and why you want to try certain things and make sure their open to it. But, it does go both ways and really discuss your fantasies when using toys. Communicate during using them as well, what feels good; a little to the left, any directions that can increase anyones’ pleasure is key.

    Crystal Cain – My name is Crystal Cain; I am a young, blonde, bubbly companion currently hosting in Toronto, Ontario. I have been a sex worker for almost four years and have loved every day of it; I am a pansexual, sexual deviant and proud of it!

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  • Advantages of Having An Escort For Your Threesome

    Advantages of Having An Escort For Your Threesome

    I’m actually bi-sexual so I enjoy threesomes and believe they can be fun and sexually gratifying. However there are several elements that need to be ‘just so’, otherwise one can go from a threesome fantasy to an absolute disaster.

    Frequency Of Threesome Bookings

    I probably get about 2-4 per year from hetero couples and about 1-2 every month from single men wanting me to bring a girlfriend. They are certainly desired by practically most men, however, in “hetero couple” situations, you might have a spouse/girlfriend that isn’t thrilled about it.

    Advantages For A Couple To Choose An Escort

    It’s simple; if you need something done right, you hire a professional. Just like you would go to a doctor if you feel sick instead of trying to treat yourself. You would hire a handyman to fix things around your house instead of attempting to do it yourself and risking creating a much bigger problem. A couple is better off hiring a professional if they want a guaranteed wonderful experience. I can’t tell you how many couples have called me after trying to facilitate a threesome on their own with abysmal results!

    They think they can pick up a stripper (who just takes their money and promises to meet them after work but never shows) or a random girl at the bar (who might not be emotionally stable to handle a threesome, or has never been in one before), but they never succeed and end up wasting so much money, when they could have hired a companion like myself in the first place. We are open-minded, easy going, and loads of fun. Not to mention that our business is to make people feel special, so you can expect to have a more intimate experience because that is our job.

    Rules Every Couple Must First Set

    Most definitely! First and foremost, both parties should be completely honest with each other. Ladies, do not agree to a threesome if you feel uncomfortable about it in anyway. There is nothing wrong with you if you don’t want a threesome and are not attracted to women. Doing it to please your partner is going to show and it makes for a very uncomfortable experience. I’ve been in situations like this before and it was very awkward. I actually talk about it on my podcast – The Sexy Escort Guide (www.thesexyescortguide.com).

    If both parties are absolutely certain that they want to experience a threesome together, then you should talk about it openly and set ground rules on how you want your partner to interact with the person you are bringing into your relationship. Gentlemen, let your lady pick the third (be open to the fact that she might want a man instead of a woman). Communication is very important here; the more open with each other about your feelings during the entire process, the more likely you will have a wonderful experience.

    Tips For A Successful Threesome Experience

    1. Hire a professional

    2. Be respectful of your companion and follow her rules for booking. Be prepared to be screened and vetted, as no companion will agree to meet you until you have given her your details and she feels comfortable meeting you. Once the screening is out of the way, prepare to have a wonderful time.

    3. Plan for a dinner date with the three of you, this helps break the ice and build rapport. Foreplay is extremely important in creating chemistry

    4. Let go and have fun! Life is short; so once you’ve decided to experience a threesome, make sure you do it to the fullest!

    Vivian – Vivian is a luxury companion based in Miami Beach, FL. She also hosts a popular podcast, The Sexy Escort Guide, which is available on SoundCloud and iTunes. Vivian enjoys jet setting around the world and she believes in being present in every moment, especially with her clients.

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