Companionship is incredibly empowering to me. I am fortunate enough to be in a position to be very selective with who I see, so the one’s I do meet are more times than not truly amazing and inspiring people. I get my emotional and sexual needs met, which is important to me being someone who loathes dating in my personal life. Have you been on Tinder?! Nightmare. Lol.
As a full-time student, I am able to independently support myself in ways I would otherwise never be able to. I’m able to travel, save up, make some smart investments. It’s definitely not for everyone and like any job it’s not perfect all the time, but it has changed my life for the better. I’ve also gained so many useful skills, building and maintaining a website, writing copy for my ads, drafting professional emails, and just running a small business. I think that aspect of companionship gets lost on many people. I even just hired an assistant and she is an absolute godsend! I am so appreciative and feel so lucky to be where I am right now and it is all thanks to this journey I’ve taken as a companion.
Why Do Men Seek Companionship?
There are many reasons men seek companionship. In my experience, the most common one is they’re seeking out something that is lacking in their life. Sometimes they are very busy with their career, and don’t have time for a romantic life, but don’t want to go through the lengthy (and a lot of times disappointing) process of dating.
Other’s are in marriages where the love is still there, but travel a lot for work, when sex is not commonplace anymore, or may even be in a strained marriages that they don’t want to leave for whatever reason. Sometimes they are just looking to fulfill a longtime fantasy of theirs.
The reason is different for every person, but overall I would say they are craving a physical and emotional connection with someone, both of which are essential for a healthy life.
What Men Can Expect From The Time Together
It depends on what they are looking for. Some men have a very detailed idea of what they are looking for, other’s simply want to meet up and see how it goes. I tailor every experience to each person I meet and adjust accordingly once we’ve met. There’s no cookie cutter experience, as everyone is different.
Every person I meet with should expect to feel special in the time we share together, meaning that they’re needs, emotionally and physically are being heard and respected in a safe place with no judgment. My goal is to provide a revitalizing oasis from the stress of everyday life.
Are There Misconceptions About Companionship?
Of course! Even the new laws SESTA/FOSTA reflect the misconceptions of companionship. Many people think there’s no way a woman would voluntarily subject themselves to this line of work so we must be forced or trafficked into it. Not to say that, that doesn’t happen, and those situations are absolutely heartbreaking, but they are not the norm, the majority of us not only choose to do sex work and enjoy it.
Every sex worker I know wants to be a companion. Companionship allows us to make real money, which puts many of us through school, or provides a comfortable life for our children, allows us to travel, save up, invest or buy a house! It’s really empowering and I think many people think of it as oppressive, which is just not the case.
Meeting My Expectations
I only expect to be respected and for them to have good hygiene. 🙂
Scarlett Jones – I am a full-time student and part-time provocateur, based in San Francisco. When I am able to get away from my studies you can catch me sneaking away to the mountains to ski in the winter and soaking up the sun up the California coastline in the summer. Art and creative expression are both incredibly important to me, taking me to live shows of theatre and music, art galleries or checking out new exhibitions at local museums. I have been bit by the travel bug and try to explore as many places as my schedule permits.
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