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  • Tips For Escort Beginners

    Tips For Escort Beginners

    I am very positive about the topic of escort and sex work and am in favor of a legal and liberal approach to the political and social course. However, I am aware that sex work must be viewed in a very differentiated manner, as unfortunately not everyone involved works under ideal and desirable conditions.

    How I Got Started As An Escort

    I had a key moment when a friend of mine spent a night with a stranger and the next morning he put some banknotes on the table for her. She was beside herself and found it terrible, but I couldn’t understand her reaction and felt inspired by the event.

    A short time later I registered on a portal for sexual services and then had my first paid date. It was great, the man was very sweet, handsome, funny and respectful. It was a lot of luck that my first date ended so positively, as I had no (screening) experience and relied entirely on my gut feeling, which still has the last word when it comes to the question of whether I meet a client or not.

    How The Escorting Industry Works

    There is the option to work with agencies or as an independent escort. Both have advantages and disadvantages, but if escorting is not your main job and you are still relatively early in your business, it can make sense to have an agency represent you. I’ve done both and am the independent type, but it took a few years before I had enough courage to go into business for myself and manage everything on my own. In short: agency means little to no management, but there is a commission for the agency and you actually only have blind dates. Independent means managing everything on your own, but there is no commission and you can get a better impression of the clients in advance and be more selective. I know some escorts who go both ways.

    Highs & Lows I’ve Experienced

    Highs:

    • Get to places and hotels that would otherwise most likely have remained hidden from me
    • Every time a client lets me fly to them in another country (e.g. USA or Canada), it’s a big deal
    • constant personal development and broadening of horizons

    Lows:

    • when there are phases in which there are little to no date requests or only dubious ones
    • If you don’t have a good physical or mental match with a client (luckily, it’s a very good match most of the time)

    Misconceptions About Escorting

    I suspect that even in the 21st century, many people still see escorting as something shady and do not see it as a serious job that someone chooses because he or she enjoys it. But the core problem is that most people don’t really know what it’s really about and what lies behind it.

    For example, many people think of pure companionship without sexual interactions, which does happen from time to time, but very rarely. This is where sugarcoating often occurs. With escorting, you ostensibly pay for the time spent together, but sex is actually always an integral part of it. Society should not close its eyes to this, but rather find a way of acceptance and tolerance. In my opinion, paying for sex should be seen as normal as paying for food in a restaurant. Both are basic needs that are met by others with special dedication and service.

    How I See The Industry Evolving

    I see a very slow change in the industry and wish society was more developed and open in this regard. But what needs to be highlighted is the fact that the agencies are much more modern and aesthetic these days and that means more women are attracted to trying out escorts.

    Tips for newbies: 1. Gut feeling comes first – if you feel uncomfortable with something, don’t force yourself to do it. 2. Make sure your photos are beautiful, expressive and not overly edited. 3. Pay your taxes 😉

    Anna Maré – High-class companion with French aura & warm smile.

    Happy bon vivant with all senses.

    Optimist with heart and mind.

    Explorer with a fine palate.

    Adventurer with humor and charm.

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    Website: https://www.anna-mare.com

    Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/AnnaMare_Escort

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/with_annamare/

    OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/anna_mare

    Upcoming tours:

    PARIS

    December 3 – 6, 2023

    FRANKFURT

    December 7 – 10, 2023

    VIENNA

    December 19 – 23, 2023

    BERLIN

    December 27, 2023 – January 2, 2024

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  • Why You Should Enjoy Amsterdam With A High Class Independent Escort

    Why You Should Enjoy Amsterdam With A High Class Independent Escort

    I’ve been an independent companion for a couple of years now, and I can honestly say it’s been one of the most amazing experiences of my life!

    When I first started, I for sure had the first time nervousness. But once I got over that hump of meeting someone new, the first time “nervousness” went away and I knew the industry was for me— there were so many other exciting things to think about! Like will we really match, do they have realistic expectations, and so on…

    But you know what? All those things have happened—and they’ve all been just fine. It’s great being able to explore your sensuality with someone who’s just as interested in exploring YOU, and clients don’t feel judged when being in the presence of a companion. And even better when that person is someone you might not encounter this close in your everyday life—someone who takes you out for dinner or dancing or whatever else comes up, and then on top of this also compensates you for your time. I figured out quite quickly that being a companion is not purely about sex, but also intimacy on different levels while building a connection and exploring your sexuality. 

    Not only are my clients great people who provide me with experiences I didn’t imagine were possible before on this scale otherwise, but it gives them an opportunity to also release some of their energy and let go of their everyday things. I’m very happy with being that escape whether that is in a more intimate and sexual fashion, a social aspect and them being heard, or just for some fun (wild) times.

    What Makes Me An Ideal Companion

    I like to think of myself as bubbly, kindhearted, and very sensual. I’ve heard that I tend to light up the room with my presence—and that it’s not just because of the way I look! But because I’m also outgoing and judgment-free, clients never feel judged when they are around me.

    When it comes to intimacy, I’m an adventurous soul who loves a good night in bed (or other areas of the room). I believe life is to be enjoyed and make sure it’s filled with laughter, passion, and connection. That and being the best arm candy in Amsterdam for any occasion…

    With all the above discretion for those who book me is very important. This is why clients often book time and time again and become great regulars. I certainly don’t take those experiences for granted—that’s why being a beauty with brains for sure is such an important part of what makes me a companion so special!

    The Best Duration To Spend Amsterdam Together With Me!

    I know that’s not everyone’s cup of tea, and I do cater to shorter bookings as they can sometimes be more convenient for many reasons. But I’ve also found that longer bookings are more fun for both parties—in fact, they’re my preferred type of dates! There’s just more room for connection and intimacy when you’re spending more time together. And if you’re looking for something really special? Well, then I think it’s worth it to invest in yourself by booking an extra couple of hours of time with me. So I’d say starting out with 3-4 hours (or much longer) and planning something fun makes a great recipe for a nice time together.

    Advantages Of Booking Me, An Independent Escort

    I’m sure there are some good escort agencies out there, but based on what a lot of clients have told me, High Class Independent Escorts are preferred.

    Agencies are probably great because they handle all of the details, and if you are a client you’d most likely would like to go out with someone real and reputable. But if you want to go on a date with someone who is just as excited about going out with you as you are about going out with them, then an independent companion is the way to go. The idea that someone else takes a huge percentage, and then knowing that there is no other form of seeing more of her besides a profile on the agency site, doesn’t always resonate well with clients.

    And that’s not all: when you book a reputable Independent Companion, you can get a feel for her before the actual deal. You’ll get to see her website and social media posts so that you can gauge who she is before booking her. And because she’s not working for an agency, she’ll be more invested in making sure her clientele is happy than if she were just another worker bee in an “office” so to say and the middle (wo)man not being included…

    Ps; Reputable independent companions are just as discreet as agencies if not more!

    How We’ll Spend Our Time Together In Amsterdam

    There are so many fun things to do in Amsterdam. I get requested a lot of times for dinner dates and occasionally get invited on trips as well. To me, this is so flattering, because not only are you choosing me as your companion for the date and to be your arm candy, but you truly value connection outside of the bedroom and love extended time together. The travel dates often happen once an initial connection has been formed of course. There’s never any pressure to book for such a long time and I also appreciate those that prefer shorter dates.

    Now with the longer dates I love exploring new places, and restaurants or just being a fun tour guide. in Amsterdam. I once went with a client to a kind of underground area where there is a lot of street art because he’s also into that like myself. Then other times I’ve suggested hotels where the tasting menu was very elaborate and we had a more posh kind of date.

    As you probably know Amsterdam is famous for many things and particularly our coffee shops. I once surprised a client with a red velvet cake from one of our famous coffee shops, because unlike myself he’s much more experienced with that. The “special” red velvet cake was a cute personal touch of my own, and let’s just say, the 24 hours we spent together were even more hilarious as we tried to go to a museum in the afternoon and couldn’t contain our laughter. After some fun private time in his hotel room, we switched it up and went to an upscale strip club which was the best and a perfect way to close off the night! The munchies were something else though…

    Etiquette Or Rules For A Good Time Together

    There are some guidelines to make sure we have a great time. Being respectful is common sense, as well as hygiene of course. Making sure any agreed-upon finances are out of the way preferably at the beginning of that date. I prefer not having to ask for it and rarely will, but luckily the type of gentlemen that I meet all understand that. Sometimes those things are handled either by them before the date or by their assistant for discretion. Other than the above, communication is key, so making sure that the desires and expectations line up is super important. This is why I’ve taken the time to craft my website, social media, and advertisement platforms so there are no misunderstandings. From then the fun can really begin!

    Tiffany Elease:

    My name is Tiffany Elease., and I’m so excited to be writing again for SimplySxy! I consider myself an ambitious, witty, and sensual exotic high class escort that is based in Amsterdam the Netherlands. Being born and raised in the Netherlands and calling Amsterdam my home has allowed me to explore different parts of Europe, however, there are so many more places to discover or better said explore with the right suitor.

    The discretion of those I meet has always been very important to me. I would describe myself as a genuinely caring person who is very warm and inviting and also have a true passion for what I do. I believe mutual pleasure makes things more intimate while also keeping it lighthearted and fun…

    Follow me on:

    Twitter: @Tiffany_Elease and @TiffanyElease1

    Instagram: @Meet.TiffanyElease

    Telegram: TiffanyElease 1

    Website: www.TiffanyElease.com

    Email: Contact@TiffanyElease.com or TiffanyElease@gmail.com

    Upcoming Works: I’ve been met with so much enthusiasm since my return to the industry, and I’m very much excited about my upcoming “Welcome back” photoshoot as well as my many travels to different parts of Côte d’Azur like Cannes, and Monaco. Perhaps I might also make my way to parts of Switzerland so stay tuned. And since Singapore has been calling my name, there’s a slight chance I’ll be persuaded to hop over in 2024… 

    Photos courtesy of Tiffany Elease

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  • Passionate Ideas For Passionate People

    Passionate Ideas For Passionate People

    Passion is hardly ever under total control. Passionate people like doing what they like, and they despise wasting time. Do you find yourself in these words? Are these statements that you can identify with?

    Well, if that’s the case, it might be a good idea to read through what we have in store for you, and who knows—perhaps you’ll find the job of your dreams.

    Why Male Escort?

    High-value women who like to spend their time on self-care, careers, sports, education, and other variants of self-improvement aren’t ready to settle down.

    That’s why such women often supplement their love life with a gentleman that will please them no matter the time of the day. If you’re a woman pleaser, this may not shock you, but girls like to be treated like a priority. That’s why they go for a passionate lover in the form of a male escort.

    Many women wouldn’t like to settle down at the moment and have unnecessary companionship filled with too much drama and “romance” in their life. Well, we think that a male escort service isn’t such a bad idea for those types of women.

    What’s In It For The Men?

    Although it may seem redundant to ask “what’s in it for the guys,” it’s not such a silly question at all. First, we’re eager to tell you that this job has much more benefits than an average outside observer might suggest.

    Young men pursuing a career in male escort services are freer to do anything they want.

    “What that might mean?” you must be asking.

    No Strings

    Let’s start with the obvious: there are no strings attached. Even if you have a regular customer, there aren’t any obligations outside of the conducting of your business that you must oblige to.

    Women who enjoy the company of male escorts usually stay as far away as possible from commitments, so there are no strings attached which is a phenomenal perk for young men. You still have the emotional availability to find yourself and fill your sexual and love life how you see fit.

    Free Time

    A 9-to-5 job doesn’t leave you with much maneuvering space regarding your hobbies, outside interests, or affinities.

    While being a male escort provides you with plenty of free time, loads of energy, and enough room to live your life as you please. Want to see a movie? No problems. Desire to go on a trip for a week or two? Alright.

    When a job is as flexible as this one, the passions outside your line of work don’t have to suffer because of your lack of energy or time.

    Fitness

    Keeping your body in good shape is an overall win for all men. A healthy body houses a healthy mind. You have plenty of time to stay fit when you’re as free as people in the male escort business. Whether that means lifting weights or time for long cardio (jogging, running, etc.), you’ll most certainly find the time for that.

    Another beneficial thing in this setup is that you’ll have to keep your body looking and feeling good to have more success in your line of work.

    This doubles as motivation and encouragement for young men in this industry to work on their looks. It’s always important to look and feel good, but when you have enough time to work on that and profit off of it on top of everything else, passionate young men have a winning combo.

    To Sum Up

    If you don’t know what to do, but know that you’d like to have some spare time to do the things you enjoy, here’s an inspirational idea for a passionate man: look into the things we’ve discussed and weigh the benefits against the cons.

    Pretty soon, you’ll know whether you’ve taken an interest in a new lifestyle created for passionate men and women alike. The question is, who’s the customer and who’s the pleaser?

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  • What It’s Like To Be An Over 50s Provider

    What It’s Like To Be An Over 50s Provider

    For me, an escort is providing more than a simple in/out service. There can often be meals shared, events attended, holidays taken together, deeper and more personal conversation, cooking and in many cases the development of genuine relationships with long term clients. All held within the boundaries of the amount of time booked and the envelope.

    I consider escorting to be a branch of Health and Wellness work because intimacy and natural sexual expression is so critical to our wellbeing, far more than our society tends to recognize or feel comfortable acknowledging.  Imagine if it was supported by your healthcare plan! So, that’s my way of saying I am a big fan of it. And may I add, I wish there were more men in Canada offering it for me!

    My Impression Of Sex Work Before I Started

    I of course have always been aware of the providers on the street but until I began this work I actually had no real awareness of escorting, of another dimension of sex work so to speak. During my Social Services education, I did a big paper on pornography as it was such a presence in my childhood through my father and really impacted my body image and sexual identity. That was more on my radar than anything else. I think I was craftily saving myself a sweet surprise for later in my life.

    Is Being A Provider Over 50s Unique?

    If it were not for Twitter I would have next to no awareness of the amount of beautiful, passionate mature women in the field.  I think if you could do a census, you would find the majority of women are younger but I am beginning to think it would not be by as much of a big margin as I would have previously thought.

    What Inspired You To Become An Escort As A Mature Woman?

    After making my way though the dating and hookup sites and becoming exhausted, my last civilian lover suggested I join an agency, just to see if that would be different. I went from researching agencies in my city on a Thursday, to an interview on Friday, a photo shoot on a Saturday and my first client on a Monday. After that encounter I lay back seeing that my access to men could now be unlimited and there was now an envelope to enjoy as well. I went independent within 3 months and have never looked back.

    What Makes Me Ideal?

    You will never meet another Mila. I am insatiably curious, open to experience yet grounded in the wisdom of lessons learned. I am my boundaries now, they are not something I impose or force, I am centered in myself and have nothing to prove to you. I adore the masculine and men! I do not identify as a feminist but rather am an avid promoter of common sense equality. I love exchange, of thoughts, insights, opinions, breath, touch. Eroticism, sensuality, seduction, the slow burn of good foreplay and anticipation all feed my spirit. If I choose you, I am with you totally. The Slavic woman that I am loves to host, to honor and indulge the guest, and the woman in me enjoys opening to male touch. And I am doing it all in a body that won’t quit!

    Best Duration To Spend Time With Me

    For me, 2.5 hrs has become my happy place. It allows enough time for you to arrive and ‘land’, to move naturally out of the entry to conversation and catching up to physical intimacy, if in fact that is what is desired, and then to being able to shower and dress without feeling forced out the door. My 1.5 hr visit is great for someone pressed for time, as that is how we can tend to feel in those 90mins which can contribute to a sense of delicious urgency. But it is best for a gentleman who knows how to help keep time because so often there is the potential to stay over time . And that, dear gentlemen, means you should always tip. 

    What Can A Gentleman Expect Or Prepare When With You?

    First impression, you are going to meet a woman confident and comfortable in her skin, fully present with her attention and interested in you. Be prepared to enjoy  conversation with someone who is eloquent, aware and informed, not just by information but by life. I enjoy sharing the opinions and perspectives I have on a great variety of personal and global topics and I am also always open to hear other perspectives, to be informed in new ways.  A few decades of life, experience and experimenting have brought me to a place personally that is grounded, well cultivated and relaxed and that in turn allows a curiosity and passion that burns in me like a wildfire to express itself freely.

    Plus, I get all the memes, from all the decades!  But really, what is mature except a sense of life lived, with enough time to see how things work out, and that can bring a deeper presence with less to prove and more to give. One of my most treasured quotes in  this regard is this one from Anais Nin: We do not grow absolutely, chronologically. We grow sometimes in one dimension and not in another; unevenly. We are relative. We are mature in one realm, childish in another. The past, present and future mingle and pull us backward, forward or fix us in the present. We are made of layers, cells, constellations.

    Mila Doval – I am a woman who loves being a woman and is deeply wired to indulge and enjoy men. I live on the youthful side of mature.  I am cultured, experienced, travelled and bring a contagious enthusiasm and presence to all my encounters. Why? Because I love the play between the masculine and the feminine. I am wild about men who make an effort and who are enthusiastic about our time together. I will receive you in my private home. I do not entertain more than once per day or more than 4 times per week. When you are with me, I am all yours.

    Website: http://miladoval.com/

    Twitter: @xoMilaDoval

    Tryst: https://tryst.link/escort/miladoval

    Images courtesy of Mila Doval

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  • Why You Should Enjoy Norway With A Companion

    Why You Should Enjoy Norway With A Companion

    I feel that companionship is an extremely important role that is necessary to have in any community. A person who is available to hear your thoughts, experiment with you sexually and be your arm candy without any commitments, who would not want that? Furthermore, companionship is an amazing way for women (I say women because most companions are women) to have an outlet to feel empowered, take control of their own economy and freedom. 

    How The Escorting Industry Is Like In Norway

    There is quite a small community in Norway when it comes to companionship. It’s just not as common here. I think a part of that is just because we are a very small country and the capitol (Oslo) only has 600 000 people, therefore a lot of companions and clients are afraid of being recognized. I think that just adds some extra spice to it!

    What Makes Me An Ideal Companion

    I am a gentle, fun, attentive and kind woman who is also firm with boundaries and know what I want and don’t want. I strive to make a date a safe space for me and my client where we can both express our needs and desires and goof around a bit as well! Therefore, a date with me is a date filled with laughter, compassion, exploration and excitement. I also have a finely tuned eye for details and therefore I make an extraordinary date for events of fine dining experiences which are some of my favorite types of dates.

    Preferred Gentlemen Types

    I always love a gentleman with a spark in the eye and a good joke at hand. But honestly, a gentleman who knows how to treat a woman in terms of making her feel special and lusted for is my type of gentleman. I also love a gentleman who like me to take control, the submissive type, that turns me on a lot!

    Best Duration To Enjoy Norway With Me

    I would recommend at least a 16-hour date for us to be able to explore the city together, enjoy some amazing cuisine and have dessert under the sheets. Of course, longer dates make it possible for us to explore the city even more, as well as each other. There are multiple cultural experiences in and around Oslo for us to check out, and of course several spas I could highly recommend for our own sweet escapade.

    What A Gentlemen Should Prepare Prior To Our Engagement

    For longer dates, it is crucial that the gentleman has planned and made the necessary bookings, so that doesn’t take up any time during the date itself. Other than that, I require a deposit from all new lovers as well as a proper introduction and screening information. And of course, a small gift of appreciation to make a lady feel special is always welcomed but never required!

    Etiquette To Follow

    Be a gentleman, come clean and prepared, provide me with my donation without me having to ask for it and be yourself! I love a man who is confident in who he is and not afraid to show it.

    Hi my name is Hanna Rose, your Norwegian muse with a lust for life, adventure and the tabu. Although I reside in Norway, I spent quite a lot of time traveling both for work and pleasure. I am quite the versatile lady and you can find me at a fine dining restaurant, a mountainside doing sports climbing or at a spa, enjoying a hot oil massage. 

    Follow Hanna on:

    Website: www.xohannarose.com

    Twitter: @XoHannaRose

    Instagram: @XoHannaRose

    Upcoming Works: While I am not planning any major tours at the moment, I am always available for a titillating FMTY date. I am also planing on spending the fall in The Bay Area, so don´t hesitate to reach out if you are in the area. 

    Images courtesy of Hanna Rose

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  • What Behavior & Etiquette Is Expected On A Date

    What Behavior & Etiquette Is Expected On A Date

    I don’t know where to start about dating but firstly I would divided it into two: my personal life dating and companionship dating. In a way, both are different but the thing that applies to both is “quality over quantity”. For this reason, I’m a very low volume provider and I click better with gentlemen who think the same. Dating for me is about a personal connection that extends beyond physical chemistry. It’s about enjoying each other’s company at all times, be it indoors or outdoors, sharing experiences, laughs, stories, being each other’s best friend and sharing advice with each other in our fields of knowledge.

    How Has Your Dating Experience Been So Far?

    I can’t complain. I enjoyed more than 95% of my dates but I did have a funny one when I started out in the world of companionship. At that time, I didn’t require much in terms of screening due to lack of experience. A 65 year old man sent me somebody else’s linked profile (of an investment banker), and told me to meet outside his residence. On arrival, he was there and nicely dressed, smiling with yellow teeth and a missing tooth, and as I got out of the taxi and approached him (only to realise he wasn’t the man from the linked profile), he started masturbating and saying, “hi baby, nice to meet you let’s go to my home”.

    There were two other middle aged men seating in a car staring at us and using their phones. Don’t know if there was a connection between these men but I felt scared and wanted to run, which I couldn’t do because I had heels on. I took off my heels, walked into the nearest restaurant and called an Uber. Ever since, I have increased my screening method to avoid anyone stealing other’s people linked profiles, and I try to avoid wearing high heels in case I have to run. I also no longer accept to meet at people’s residences.

    Requirements Of My Date

    The only requirement I have is to respect my boundaries and to understand that “any money paid is for companionship only and whatever happens is a choice between two consenting adults”. You are probably going to see this phrase in every companion’s website and the same applies in my case. I encourage potential clients to read the etiquette information on my website which I kept short and to the point but yeah, good manners, being courteous goes a long way.

    Date Killers That Turn Me Off Immediately

    I’m glad you asked this. Public displays of affection. Don’t get me wrong: I don’t mind the occasional affection here and there but gentlemen can get excited sometimes. Excessive displays of affection in public aren’t only annoying but may also undermine privacy. I’m always very mindful of my privacy and that of my man.

    From my experience, I’m certain that many of my men value privacy as much as I do. Some are married or have a long term partner but like to have excitement from time to time. I never know if someone who knows him is going to spot us hugging in a public place and tell his partner. Or if he has a jealous spouse who hired a private detective to know her husband’s whereabouts.

    This may be very extreme but I could be on a date with a VIP kind of figure and how do I know there isn’t a paparazzi following us and taking photos? I surely wouldn’t want those photos to appear online the next morning, neither would my man. If he wants to show affection in public I would keep it discreet and hand holding at the most.

    In addition, the choice of blurring my face in my “Elvira” photos is a conscious one. I do it to protect my privacy and that of my man. I have a completely different life outside of “Elvira”, and I’m sure he does too when he’s not with me.

    How Can A Gentlemen Secure A Follow Up Date?

    As a low volume provider, repeat dates are encouraged and prioritised over new clients. I’m a very easygoing person. If the gentleman was polite during our first meeting, there was no pushing of boundaries or any other negative behaviour, in other words, if we got along well, then that’s all that’s needed for a second date with me.

    I hope I’m not asking for too much. And I touch wood, I still haven’t met many men that I wouldn’t see again. I would like second dates to be longer though (for example a weekend or a week), since we have already built the necessary trust on the first meeting.

    Elvira – Elegantly sophisticated, soft and delicate. I’m originally from southern European origin, having lived in the US for the past 10 years, I now split my time between US, Asia and Europe due to my private life career that takes me travelling. I do however enjoy meeting gentlemen in my free time. I lead a very exciting life and enjoy fine dinning and landing in a new city or country (I’m always passport ready). When in the US, I’m usually based in NYC but I love FMTY bookings.

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    Website: https://www.elvirapetite.com/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/elvirapetite

    Images courtesy of Elvira

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  • What It’s Like To Be A Student & Escort In Germany

    What It’s Like To Be A Student & Escort In Germany

    I really enjoy being an escort for all occasions. A classy business dinner, travel companion or FMTY: there are so many possibilities to meet each other. Perhaps I can fulfil an unspoken fantasy or make a long-held dream come true. 

    I like that the gentleman doesn’t have to pretend with me. In “real life” there is so much pressure on the shoulders of many men. They have to conform to a certain image or meet high standards. With me, they can let themselves go.

    As an escort I can also live my passion: I love to travel and appreciate the great restaurants and hotels I get to visit. But I am even more fascinated by the unforgettable moments with special gentlemen who plan extraordinary dates.

    I enjoy the anticipation and the tingling before every date and hope that I will find that I leave gentlemen with a positive gut feeling after the date.

    My Initial Impression of Sex Work & Escorting

    I have been fascinated by this world for a long time. Every tv show and every book I found about it I soaked up like a sponge. I’m a very curious person and have always asked myself: “What if I were to live this life?”

    Accordingly, I had a rather soft-washed and romantic idea of it. Often you only got a glimpse of the extremes. 

    What appealed to me was the “empowerment” that the women had. They had completely different opportunities, especially as students. And I notice that now, too: While my fellow students have to turn over every euro twice, I spend my time in luxury hotels and don’t have to worry about my bank balance.   

    What Made Me Decide To Go Into Escorting

    I thought about taking the plunge for years and then decided not to. But then when I started my dream studies, I had to leave the job I loved. It was the perfect chance to start escorting. Because by studying, I could suddenly be much more flexible with my time and was no longer bound to my working hours. 

    It sounds cheesy, but it’s exactly how I imagined it – and more. I experience exciting things, get to know exciting people and always enjoy the tingling sensation of a first date again. It’s special, it’s wicked and the most important thing: it makes me happy.

    Common Misconceptions About Sex Work

    I am bothered by the assumption that sex work is not real work. Yet as an escort, I am a marketing and social media specialist, stylist and make-up artist, web designer, planner for travel escorts and photo shoots, content creator and SEO agency all rolled into one! And of course I also pay my taxes – just like everyone else. 

    Is It Tough To Be A Student & Escort At The Same Time?

    I have the comparison with my previous professional life, which would not have been compatible with escorting. As a student, I find it easier to schedule dates. But I am not infinitely flexible. A longer travel escort, for example, is only possible during my lecture-free time. I need a bit of advance notice.

    But apart from that, the two worlds can be combined perfectly. Sometimes I go straight from the hotel to the lecture. No one has to know that I wear my Agent Provocateur lingerie under my outfit. And I always have my index cards in my handbag. That way I can study a bit on the way to the date. 

    It is sometimes a challenge to be an escort and a student. But I wouldn’t have it any other way! I enjoy every moment of my life and these two worlds are a big part of me.

    Tips For Students Who Wish To Escort

    If you are attracted to this world, give it a try! But take the time to find out the right timing. Research books and blogs and try to imagine yourself having the experience. 

    Maybe you’ll find a colleague you like and who inspires you. You could write her a friendly email and ask her if she would like to become your mentor.

    It is a lot of work, especially as an independent escort. Find out what you really need at the beginning (good photos and an appealing Advertising presence, for example Twitter or your own website – depending on what appeals to you more) and what can wait a little longer. Expensive underwear and shoes are not the biggest priority. The most important thing is: Be yourself and have fun, then success will come on its own!

    Maya Belfort is an independent escort in Germany and worldwide. A charming companion, kinky playmate and sensitive lover, she loves to explore the most beautiful sides of Germany with a gentleman. GFE and travel companionship on exciting weekend trips are her favourite disciplines. Besides the sensual escort service, she is studying in a big German city and gathers new experiences on her numerous trips.

    Follow Maya Belfort on

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/mayabelfort

    Website: https://en.mayabelfort.com/

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  • What Can Women Expect From Engaging A Male Escort?

    What Can Women Expect From Engaging A Male Escort?

    I see escorting as providing companionship to women, on their terms, and giving women the time and attention that they deserve. Every woman deserves to feel special, and I love that I can help women in this way. I’ve always had the view that I want to make the world a better place – one smile at a time.

    I have found this to be a very important service, as unfortunately there are many women who aren’t completely satisfied with relationships or intimate experiences, that they have had in the past.

    How I Got Started Into Escorting

    I have always liked to think ‘outside the box’ and do things a bit differently. And when I was in high school, I thought about being a male escort, and being able to provide intimacy, companionship, and so much more to women. This was more than twelve years ago, when there weren’t many male escorts for women in Australia at all, so I was venturing into a brand new field.

    I completed a diploma of remedial massage, and then through trial and error, learnt as I went.

    Also, that was back in the day when they still had DVD stores, ( do you remember DVD stores?) – I rented “Deuce Bigalow, Male Gigolo”, and “American Gigolo” – such a cliche, but it was a starting point! Not sure if the guy in the store had any idea that I was about to start embarking on the career of a lifetime!

    What Makes Me An Ideal Escort For Women

    Being a male escort for women definitely isn’t something that any man could do. It takes a lot of determination, courage, confidence, and personality. Many women enjoy the social aspects of engaging a male escort, so this is essential, as I’ve had experiences as varied as overseas trips, hang gliding, opera, theatre and dinner dates.

    I am a really friendly person, with a great sense of humour, and I’m very honest, down to earth, and kind. Also, I spend time with women from their early 20’s right through to their 80’s, so being intimate with and enjoying women from a range of age groups is part of the work.

    I think these are some of the qualities that make women enjoy spending time with me.

    Why Women Engage Male Escorts

    I love learning about women, and any man that thinks he knows every single thing about women is kidding himself. There is always more to learn – and I love every step along the journey!

    Women engage my services for so many different reasons – too many to list, but here are a few.

    A lot of women have unfortunately found that guys can be jerks. They only want one thing – and when they do have sex, most guys just care about themselves, and leave the woman wondering ‘Well, what about me?’ Many men don’t know (or want to learn) how to pleasure a woman and believe that their orgasm is the reason for having sex.

    A lot of my clients just don’t want to date and search for the right man, only to be constantly disappointed. They want to know that they can have a great time, be fully looked after, and have all of their needs met. To be listened to, laugh, have fun, and have a massage and/or mind-blowing sex, or whatever they are looking for, and know that they are going to get it. They go to a professional.

    Whether they’ve had a relationship end, or been single for years – women want someone who is going to listen to them, fulfill their desires, and to make them feel special.

    I also have a lot of clients who find me because they have unfortunately been hurt by men in the past, and feel that they can never trust any man again. Whatever their past may entail, I love to help women be able to heal – both during our time together, and for a long time afterwards.

    Some women may feel that they don’t have the confidence to date, and I help them to boost their confidence, so that they can go after what they want.

    Some women contact me to organise having sex for the first time. Because why not make your first time memorable and enjoyable?

    I have some clients who feel they can’t find a man they’d like to be with because they have a disability, and they’d like to hire a professional to have their needs and desires met.

    And a lot of women engage my services simply because they can. We all have the freedom to choose what we’d like to do, and why not decide to treat yourself to enjoyable company, good conversation and mind-blowing sex?

    My Regular Clientele

    I often get requests from new clients, and I also have many regular clients. I only take one booking per day, so that each of my clients can have all of me and my energy. I am always busy, but make sure to schedule time in my calendar in advance for myself.

    My regular clients are lovely, and I have a different professional relationship with each of them. I see women of all ages, backgrounds, and life circumstances.

    What You Can Expect When Engaging Me

    When engaging me, women can know that they are safe, in experienced hands, can explore and enjoy new experiences, and have a really great time that they will never forget.

    Just relax, and be yourself, and let me share something truly memorable with you!

    Male Escort Melbourne, Leo for women – available across all of Melbourne, Victoria, Australia, and International.

    For the woman who wants more than an average man can give.

    Follow Leo on

    Website: https://male-escort-melbourne.com/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leo.dale.98/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/YourMrLeo

    Images from Leo

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  • What Is The High End Girlfriend Experience?

    What Is The High End Girlfriend Experience?

    I think that the search for companionship is the universal human experience. After our basic needs like food and shelter are taken care of, we all hunger to find the person/people who understand us and want our company in return. I am happiest when I have meaningful relationships with others. 

    What Makes The GFE Very Popular

    In the modern era, we are increasingly disconnected from other people. How often have you been on a date where the other person spents the whole night on their phone? Tried to catch up with friends only to have them be too busy with family and work? Had someone reach out to you, only to be too busy yourself? We have so many demands it’s rare to find time to be totally available for someone and have them reciprocate 100% in return. 

    GFE is all about that connection. It’s a beautiful thing to put the world away for an hour or two and have a companion devote all their attention on you. GFE means different things to different people (after all, no two girlfriends are the same), but I think a common thread that separates it from a more basic full service, is a more personable approach where talking, kissing and making a genuine connection are encouraged. 

    Misconceptions About The GFE

     “We get on so well, we should date in real life.” 

    Seeing an escort for GFE and dating one are two very different experiences. High end escorts are busy, messy, frustrating humans just like everyone else. We put all that aside during our time with you, because you because you pay us to. I enjoy the experience a great deal, but it’s not representative of what I’d be like to date. 

    “GFE is the best, all other services are seedy or cheap.” 

    Everyone has a different approach to sex work and different things work for different people. There can be a tendency to try and put providers and clients into a hierarchy, but what’s the point in that?What works for you is what’s best. 

    “$550 an hour, that’s $4400 a day! You make over a million a year.” 

    I often see logic defying math applied my my earnings. Generally this is an attempt to shame me into a discounted rate, but sometimes it’s genuine confusion based on a few assumptions:

    1. That we see back to back clients all day, every day. I generally see 1-2 clients a week – less work ensures I’m excited to see everyone I meet – you’re paying for exclusivity.
    2. That we don’t have expenses or pay tax. I put aside half of my earnings to cover insurance premiums, tax and compulsory contributions to the government retirement scheme. After that I still have to pay rent for my incall, advertising, transport to and from appointments and for all the hair products, make up, lingerie and clothes I use for work. 
    3. That we earn a salary. My hourly rate is only paid when I’m face to face with a client. All the prep work and administration is unpaid, as are sick leave and holidays. 

    What Makes Me The Perfect Companion

    I love connecting with people: finding things in common, new things to love, listening and learning. I’m confident, but quietly so. I put my clients at ease while letting there be space for their ideas and desires. 

    But I think the most important part of my success in the industry is that I am comfortable with who I am and am good at communicating that. I can’t possibly please everyone, but my advertising and screening ensures that those people are looking elsewhere, while I’m with those I can show the time of their lives. 

    Tips For Clients To Truly Enjoy The GFE

    1. Research your escort. I put a lot of effort into my advertising copy and Twitter to ensure that you can get a good idea of my personality and physical presence before we meet. Doing your research means you have the best chance of meeting someone you click with first try. This is also a good time to check if they are reputable- presence on established advertising sites, social media presence, reviews and length of time in the industry are all good signs. Most high end escorts will require screening information and/or deposits. Make sure you are comfortable with this before you reach out. 
    2. Make the booking process smooth. When you contact your chosen escort make sure you follow any guidelines she gives. Be prepared to provide a deposit and/or screening information. Do not haggle about these requirements or about price. Most escorts will simply stop replying, but some may be pressured into seeing you – they will then be on edge and stressed after your interaction. A smooth and polite booking process puts us at ease and in the best mood to show you a wonderful time. 
    3. Just book! After you’ve done your reading and got the funds together, it’s time to reach out and make a time to meet. Waiting too long can build anxiety that will make it hard to enjoy your time together. It can also lead to disappointment if you build up too many expectations in your head (there’s only so much you can do in one session!). Or, worst of all, while you delay the escort of your choice may leave the industry. So take a deep breath and reach out before it’s too late! 

    Amelia Appleby – Amelia is a high end, independent escort in Wellington, New Zealand. Her approach to sex work is based on the idea of genuine human connection being an essential part of a healthy life. With over 10 years in the industry, Amelia prides herself on bringing passion and calm confidence to every meeting. 

    Follow Amelia Appleby on

    Twitter: @AmeliaWLG

    Advertising on: 

    https://nzpleasures.co.nz/advertisers/amelia-appleby/

    https://tryst.link/escort/amelia-celeste

    Amelia is available in Wellington city and the rest of NZ by appointment!

    Images from Amelia Appleby

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  • Why Every Man Should Engage A Companion At Least Once

    Why Every Man Should Engage A Companion At Least Once

    My views towards companionship have changed over the years with every new life experience. When I was younger and had never experienced this world myself, first-hand, I could only go by what mainstream media painted this industry as: a dirty one, something someone engages in out of desperation. I thought only people with trauma or a poor upbringing would be involved in any type of adult work, but then, after graduating college and having some debt I found myself immersed in it.

    I thought I would get in, pay-off my student loans, and get out. But then, once I slowly discovered all the different layers to this fascinating industry, I realized it makes a lot of sense, as a woman, to be involved. I highly enjoy my companionship job. I have met men and women of all walks of life all around the world, and I’ve been treated better by my clients than any “normal” boyfriend ever treated me. There are never any mind-games involved. People think everyone is coerced into this industry, and although that may certainly be true for some, it’s very far from the truth for many others.

    I know many educated ladies who come from “good” families who do this job. We are service providers like any other. Men have the need for intimacy, I don’t mean just sex, I mean intimacy. They come to us because with us, they can be themselves without the pressure of always having to portray themselves as masculine and having all the answers. With us, they get to be vulnerable. They get to enjoy a fun, relaxing time, get a stress-free release, that every human-being needs, and then go back to their world, without the drama and expectations of a traditional relationship. I view companionship as a necessity for the successful functioning of society.

    Popular Reasons For Men To Engage A Companion

    In my particular case, men come to me for intimacy. I’m a low volume provider, or companion, which means I don’t see a lot of people every day. I accompany gentlemen to dinner, a theater show, an event, a vacation, or a staycation… Men engage a companion because they seek a judgement-free person to spend time with.

    I know a lot of personal details of my regular clients, and this stems from the trust built over the years. It has become a friendship. They feel the need to talk about the realities of their job, or the pressures they face at home, because society, unfortunately, views men as weak if they show emotions and vulnerabilities. They engage a companion because they get to be vulnerable for once.

    What Makes Me An Ideal Companion

    In my personal life, I keep to myself. I only have a few close friends and I spend a lot of time with my family when I’m on time off. My work persona is a kind, nurturing, understanding lady. I am very laid back, relaxed, and I do not judge the gentlemen or couples that seek me out.

    When I feel totally comfortable with someone, I’m quirky and funny. I believe I’m very confident, and I try to see the world from multiple different lenses and not just my own. I feel the only way to be a successful companion is to put yourself in other people’s shoes.

    Do First Timers Feel Nervous When Meeting You?

    When I realize someone is nervous because they are new to this world, I always tell them to relax, to view me as their friend. They don’t have to put on an act to impress me. I always ask them what their fantasies are, what they want to talk about, how their day was, and I try to get them to open up.

    I’m kind of like a naked psychologist. But they correlate their “appointment with their naked psychologist”  as a fun, nurturing time. They correlate me to positivity.

    Mistakes To Avoid When Engaging You

    Yes. One should be respectful of my time. I am not on-call. I am appointment-based. This is a service I am providing. A service YOU need. So it’s important to respectfully approach me and make an appointment in advance, so I can also schedule my life. I do not only do this job. I do other things in my life too, hence why I am so well-rounded, and can offer you such a good service.

    I value good hygiene, good manners, and also it’s important to read the “etiquette” portion on my website. It’s in poor taste to make your companion ask for the monetary gift. It should be given on your own, at the beginning of our meeting, and always the correct amount. It’s also uncomfortable for me to count it in front of you, so it’s important for you to use the restroom to freshen-up, so I can then count the gift in private.

    Those formalities must be out of the way from the very beginning so we can enjoy our quality time together. Such simple little steps go a very long way when making the appointment super positive and memorable for both of us.

    Giuliana Rose is one of the most exclusive and unique models based in NYC. Giuliana is whip-smart and wickedly sexy; yet there is a palpable immediate sense of her class, exclusivity and discretion. This gives you the freedom to explore, relax, and decompress. Giuliana’s sense of humor and generosity of spirit will change your perspective and your priorities, creating a sense of exhilaration and joy that allows you to leave your day-to-day worries behind. With Giuliana’s modeling & companionship service you can meet a real life model, build a long-term friendship and perhaps chase a dream you forgot you ever had.

    Follow Giuliana on

    Twitter: @meetgiuliana

    Website: https://meetgiulianarose.wixsite.com/

    I’m currently touring London all of May, then will be heading to Toronto, then back home to NYC.

    Images courtesy of Giuliana Rose

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