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How To Explore My Fetishes With A Companion

I love companionship. For me, it’s one of the most self-indulgent things you can treat yourself to. It’s always a thrill to look forward to a new meet, as there are so many possibilities. When I’m with a client, I truly feel as if they’re treating themselves – between the whisky, cheeseboards, and hum of excitement in the air, it feels like we’re both getting the worlds best present. I love being able to share myself and my passions with another, and feel them reciprocated with the same fervor. I’ve always lived in the moment, and there’s a certain kind of exhilaration in giving yourself entirely to a stranger.

Similarly, I feel my clients shrug off the stresses of the world with me while they step into a fantasy where nothing matters except the next moment together. It really does feel like we’re outside of time, often in a world all of our own – it’s hypnotic, in a way. I’m grateful every day to be able to explore this side of myself with those who place their trust so deeply in me.

How I Got Interested In Fetishes

My interests in fetishes actually started with fandom and fan fiction! I remember huddling under my blankets at night, reading novels about my favourite characters – except all of a sudden, they would be tying each other up, and I was reacting in ways I never thought possible.

I only started exploring the BDSM community when I was 20 when one of my work friends invited me to a night out, and my interest spiralled from there. My first encounter felt like I had stepped into the fantasy world of my dreams! I’m actually still in contact with the first man who ever spanked me, and to this day, he’s constantly teaching me new things.

I ended up offering pro submission work, given that I enjoyed it so much, and as I attended skillshares, my hard skills increased to the level that I began offering pro domme work alongside it. These days, I tend to switch (someone who both submits and dominates people) fairly evenly, with a particular love of spanking, Shibari, needle play, wax play, and fisting. I’ve previously co-presented educational workshops about Shibari at Sexpo in 2019, and was lucky enough to tutor under one of Australia’s best needle play mentors a few years ago.

What Makes Me An Ideal Companion To Explore Your Fetishes With

I think the most important thing for any companion, kink or vanilla, is to keep an open mind about everything! I’ve always approached life with a “try everything once” philosophy, and I carry over that same line of thinking to my kink exploration. There have been plenty of times clients have approached me with fetishes I know nothing about, and I’ve had a ball exploring it with them!

It’s important to have open and honest communication between you both, including disclosing any triggers, past injuries, and level of experience, as well as what you’re hoping to get out of the play; there’s a huge difference between a rhythmic meditative flogging, and a flogging that’s designed to break skin and bruise!

I would also consider myself a very curious person, so when I am approached with a new fetish request, I happily spend hours researching it – including any safety aspects I might need to consider.

Ideal Duration To Explore Fetishes Together

This is so highly dependent on the fetish, and what you’re hoping to achieve during the session. For newbies, I tend to recommend around three hours, to cover important negotiation time, slow introduction, allow plenty of time for feedback and questioning, and plenty of aftercare at the end! I’ve given light spankings in 30 minutes, and I’ve done a needle session for four hours.

I find multi day sessions to be too strenuous when it comes to intense kink, although I know some providers who excel at them, but I simply find staying in the headspace for that long far too taxing on both of us! As a general rule, I suggest between 2-4 hours to explore fetish and kink with me. When we play, we release some really powerful chemicals – adrenaline and endorphins flood our body, so it’s important to factor in time at the end to come back to earth, reassure each other that everything was okay, and reflect on the session at the end.

Some sessions also involve a lot of cleanup too – rope takes time to untie, sploshing means the floors need to be mopped, and needle play means that wounds need to be tended to. It’s certainly not something I would do in a 15 minute lunchtime quickie.

How Do You Calm Someone Who Is Nervous?

I’ve actually never had this problem! Is that bad of me? I think booking any session, there’s always going to be some nerves, but I’ve never found anyone to be overly shy upon meeting me. Usually, they’re full of enthusiasm to finally live out their fantasy!

I tend to write a lot about BDSM on my blog, which probably helps – explaining the fetish beforehand through the lens of personal experience tends to quell any nervous butterflies. I’ve always had quite a big personality, and my genuine excitement to meet new people spills over into any meeting, so I think it’s quite hard for anyone not to be swept up in that and be equally as excited. Enthusiasm is infectious, after all.

Follow These Rules During Our Time Together

There would be no consent without boundaries – your power to say yes only lies in your ability to say no. I pre negotiate each individual session over text, and again at the start of the session, but I have a few ground rules: no hardsports, nothing that impacts on my safety, and nothing illegal.

Additionally, if you don’t have any boundaries of your own, I’ll feel uneasy playing with you and will likely cancel. My favourite clients are those who listen to my boundaries, honor my space, and openly communicate their own. Nothing is worse than calling a client a name mid session, only to have them burst into tears and end the session.

Kristen Jade – An Australian escort, pro kinkster, and content creator. She has been described as an “unrepentant brat” and refuses to take life too seriously. On her off days, you’ll find her cuddling up with her two cats and getting her ass kicked in video games. She has been a sex worker for six years and a BDSM educator for three, as well as touring the Shibari performance circuit across Australia and being invited to sexuality retreats. You’ll often find her travelling interstate, fuelled by passion and desire to explore the unknown.

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Kristen resides in Sydney, but will be in Melbourne 4-8 May, Canberra 22-27 May, and Hobart 8-12 of June. She has plans to visit Brisbane, Darwin, and Perth later in the year. In the meantime, she regularly releases porn on her ManyVids, as well as writing on her blog at www.kristenjadeaus.com/blog

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May 6, 2021
How Does Open Communication Lead To Better Sex?

Well apart from loving it, I think sex is a really powerful way to explore different aspects of our identity. I think sex is as varied as music is and it can mean something different every time we choose to participate. Sometimes it is fun and silly, sometimes it is intense and passionate, sometimes it is hot, dark, pounding and sweaty and sometimes, it’s deeply intimate or romantic.

I wish that sex and sexuality wasn’t as stigmatized and that more people felt comfortable to express and explore their sexuality, fantasies and desires without being burdened by feelings of shame.

The Importance Of Communication

Communication is soooo important and hugely underrated! Working towards feeling comfortable enough to express what you want in the bedroom is a huge step to opening up your sexual encounters and experiences. The most important part of communication is learning how to listen and respond! After all is there anything hotter than when you really start listening to the breathing and moans of someone else in bed and responding accordingly?

As someone who has lots of sex with different people, it has taught me how different everyone’s bodies are! Without open communication, how can we expect our bedfellows to know exactly what feels good! So, create a space where honest dialogue is encouraged but also listen out for those non-verbal cues that come with slowing things down, speeding them up to try to lock into you playmates reactions. I think we can all learn more from the BDSM community and the conversations they engage in before any type of play. To see where each other’s head is at that day and what sorts of things they would like to explore!

If you are wanting things to get a little bit kinky in your sex life, there are a few things you can do to help move things along. 1) Be brave – If you are brave enough to share your desires with a lover/play pal, it will give them permission to do the same. 2) Timing – Bring things up at a time which is relaxed and intimate but not sexual – this will give them time to think about things and not feel pressured or tricked into something. 3) Be ready to take no for an answer. Sex is only fun when both parties are actively enthusiastically consenting. It is also ok to try things and decide they are not for us! That doesn’t mean we are boring or vanilla.

Why I’m An Ideal Companion To Be With

I think it is my natural curiosity about people and my love for learning from varied perspectives of the world. I am a really empathetic and optimistic person so it is really easy for me to find qualities I find attractive in people and am able to form connections quickly. There is something I can find to admire in almost anyone so my warmth and interest is always genuine. I think *hope* my dates can sense that.

I am also intelligent and articulate and can seamlessly fit into most environments. Intimacy, friendship, desire and human touch are a hugely important part of the human experience and I feel really thankful that I get to engage in such an important and intimate time with so many people. I spend a lot of time listening and learning about people’s lives. I also think I know how to keep things light hearted and fun.

Reasons For Seeking Companionship

Firstly, I want to clarify that it is not JUST men who seek companionship. But it does form a large majority. As humans, I think at our core we all really just want connection both emotionally and physically. Physical touch can make us feel so alive and cared for. There are so many different reasons someone would seek a companion to spend time with.

Lot’s of people are too busy to maintain a relationship, are working through different elements of their sexuality, want to lose their virginity in a safe space or haven’t had the opportunity to engage with someone physically in a while. Also, I think there is something really great about how defined the time spent with a companion is.

There are clear boundaries I expect to be respected from my dates around emotions, time and physical elements. This brings a real sense of clarity to the time we spend together and creates an environment which I think tends to bring out the best version of most people. They also know that I am not going to judge them for their bodies or desires so it can be a space that is free of any insecurities around their bodies or sexuality that they may be holding.

Ways To Engage Someone Who Is Shy

Finding joy in all aspects of my life is something I really strive for. I try to make my interactions playful and no pressure. Although I am long-legged with a cute butt, I am also really clumsy and an enormous dork. I honestly really just believe that bodies are bodies. Sometimes in sex, things make funny noises, or I fall over when I take off my underwear, or one of us burps. I like to meet my dates as a human first and a fantasy second.

Which is a relief because it takes the pressure off both of us that we have to “perform” and we can just enjoy each others’ company. Although having said, that I think I give a pretty mean blowjob as well which can’t hurt someone’s nerves.

I also really try to gauge both in the lead up to meeting and the first part of our date what sort of experience they are after and then focus on that.

My Ideal Date & Expectations

My ideal dates are always longer bookings so we really have time to get to know each other. I would love to meet first over a bottle of wine and some delicious food. Somewhere cosy and atmospheric. Increasingly stealing excuses to brush each other’s bodies throughout the meal in a slow lead up to spending some alone time together. I have never been on a holiday for a booking and I hope that someone decides to whisk me away to a tropical island or cosy cabin at some point!

I would expect my dates to be polite and respectful from the very first message or email interaction until the end of our time together. Because I have a full time civilian job, I only see a handful of people and am very selective about who I will meet. I don’t think people realise how many messages companions can receive and how quickly we will make our judgements around if we want to spend time with someone.

Also, hygiene. We make the effort to look our best for you and it is always appreciated when people do the same. Also, again, for the people up the back. Hygiene.

Charlie Grace – My name is Charlie Grace and I am an Australian touring companion. I offer an amazing Girl Friend Experience and pride myself on always being articulate, intelligent with a down-to-earth warmth during my encounters. I’m always excited to hear from prospective dates around Australia and only engage with people who are polite, respectful and treat me like a human from the first time they message me. When I’m not working my civilian job or having exciting encounters I’m either out in nature or at an art gallery.

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May 4, 2021
Why You Should Enjoy Tokyo With A Companion

As you know, Tokyo is a large, lively city with many people. However, it’s not always easy to make connections, especially if you’re new to the city. Exploring Tokyo with a companion who knows the local language and culture is like having a perfect partner in crime. Instead of feeling alone in the crowd, you will feel electrified by the city’s energy with me by your side. Exploring together is always more exciting than exploring alone.

For me, companionship is really all about connection. We are often so busy that we forget to stop and appreciate what it is like to connect with each other. There’s something so special about being truly intimate and sharing yourself with another. If you feel like something is missing in your life, connecting with a companion can reignite your desire.

The Japan Escorting Industry

Japan has many escorting agencies, just like many other countries do. However, it seems that Japanese agencies often avoid foreign clients because of the language barrier. For that reason, if you visit Tokyo for the first time, I would recommend booking a private escort who also speaks your language. Tokyo is a large, lively city, so I’m sure you’ll be able to find just what you’re looking for!

What Makes Me A Great Companion

To be honest, I’m a little shy! But this certainly doesn’t stop me from being passionate. I genuinely enjoy getting to know the gentlemen I meet, and I can tell that they feel that. I love hearing their stories and learning what makes them tick.

Ways We Can Enjoy Tokyo Together

I grew in central Tokyo, so perhaps I’m biased, but I feel that there are endless things to enjoy about the city. If you are thinking of visiting, one of the best seasons in Japan is Spring – it’s the perfect time to walk through the park and enjoy the beautiful sakura (cherry blossoms).

In other seasons, there are plenty of good restaurants to enjoy – the food here is amazing! Some locations might not look fancy from the outside, but I guarantee they are worth a try. Whether you’re visiting Tokyo for a few hours or a few weeks, I’ll happily be your guide.

What Gentlemen Should Do Prior To Meeting

As I said, the connection between the two of us is the most important thing to me. For this reason, I ask that you read a little bit about me, and also include a little bit of information about yourself when you send a date request. This helps me figure out if I am the right companion for you – I want to ensure that you have a great time.

It’s also important to know that I am rarely available for same-day dates as I have a busy life and want to ensure I can take the time to properly prepare to meet you. So, if possible, I ask that gentlemen enquire in advance where possible. I request a deposit to cover my transportation costs, but we can speak about this more if you choose to book a date with me.

What’s Important To Me

Overall, the most important things to me are simply manners and genuine care. I can’t deny that I love it when a gentleman meets me with a hug and a smile.

If gentlemen are especially curious, I have a page on my website that covers etiquette (https://www.belbell.com/terms).

Miss Bel – Your exclusive passionate girlfriend and travel guide. Located in beautiful Tokyo. Trilingual book lover and coffee addict.

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April 28, 2021
Why You Should Enjoy A Week in the UK With A Companion

Luxury and discretion feel very natural to me. A person’s private indulgences should be private. It is only when we feel truly safe and secure in comfortable surroundings that we can really open up to another person, sexually or emotionally, and that’s where the fun and excitement really begin.

How Popular Is Companionship In UK?

Friendship with benefits is popular the world over, isn’t it?! Certainly here in the UK it’s very popular. Sex is great, but have you been on holiday with your girl, dining at the finest establishments, seeing her all dressed up for the theatre, meeting her fun, happy friends in cocktail bars and having threesomes with them later, been skydiving and wine-tasting and sunbathing and played golf with her? Sometimes even taking a nap with someone can be as intimate as sex.

What Makes Me An Ideal Companion

I am an elegant, affectionate, sensual hedonist and elite, discreet dating companion… a blonde, ultra-feminine and authentically kinky English rose. I have a big, adventurous heart, and look for the same in others. I particularly enjoy sharing ideas, jokes and friendly conversation over dinner and cocktails after we have got to know each other more intimately in private.

I know that most people like to do dinner first, and then sex, but I’m the other way around! I feel so much more able to chat to someone over a plate of oysters when we have seen each other naked and worked up an appetite.

Our Ideal Itinerary To Spend UK Together

I’m the kind of girl who enjoys a lavish getaway in thoughtful company every once in a while. After a few days at a 5* hotel, it starts to feel like home and the staff start to feel like friends. In order to avoid this, you can stay at two different places over the course of a week, maybe in different areas so you have more to explore.

I’m a real foodie. I like to take the opportunity to visit the best restaurants wherever I’m going; in London of course, the list is practically endless, although I do have a good list that I’ve put together on my website. I like to go to the ballet or opera or to see a really good play, go to any interesting exhibitions that are on – there’s always something at the V&A, and usually at the National Galleries too. The National Gallery also does interesting little arty events and tours that I’ve always enjoyed a lot. I like art but I don’t know much about it so I like to have a knowledgeable person show me round the pieces and explain them to me.

Nightclubs and parties like Torture Garden can really spice things up and are a fun excuse to get really dolled up in the most scandalous outfits – the sort of thing I would normally only wear in the bedroom!

The most unique thing I’ve ever done on holiday with a client was a sponsored skydive over Stonehenge for charity. To my own surprise, I actually loved it and would definitely do it again. We both had to go and have a lie-down afterwards, though! Sometimes it’s nice just to grab a coffee and go shopping or for a walk in the park.

What You Can Expect From My GFE

They can expect me to always make them jump out of planes. Kidding. I’m always warm and friendly because I love connecting with nice people. It’s romantic. I look for a genuine connection, not lukewarm, robotic hook-ups. A fling can be fun but the chemistry that builds up over a series of dates can’t be beaten. It’s powerful and exciting.

If I’m hosting a first date or a tenth date in my hotel room, I like to light scented candles and have the champagne on ice ready for my date’s arrival. It’s a nice way to show you care and create a mysterious and seductive little world to enjoy for a couple of hours.

We Can Kink Things Up Too!

I have a “bad girl” side to me, as well as the “good girl” side you see in public. My favourite personal fantasy is the idea of a nice, normal, well-dressed man who seem respectable to the outside world but has a naughty secret or two he keeps private.

Maybe he likes to wear lingerie, or be tied up and spanked, I don’t know. Anything, really. I just love that it’s something that not everyone knows about. That really gets me going. So if someone wants to share their kinky secret with me over a bottle of Dom, I’m all ears.

My name is Lilly Watson, and I am a lady of leisure and upscale companion for friendly meetings and adventures in London and beyond. Interests include vintage glamour, cinema, fine dining, the theatre, shopping, history, playing golf (very badly) and socialising with friends in opulent hotels and restaurants. I also have a particular passion for threesomes.

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April 12, 2021
How To Enjoy The GFE In Warsaw With A Companion

There’s an undeniable pleasure in a female’s life – and that is being adored. Working as a high class escort, I wouldn’t call my job just a something I do for money. I feel excited every time I come to meet my client and when from the very first moment, I can see this big “wow” in his eyes. It’s my biggest motivation to do my best to leave him dazzled.

How Is The Escorting Industry In Warsaw & Poland?

A huge majority of escorts ads you can find in Warsaw (in fact in the whole Poland) are posted by agencies and just pretend to be private. Obviously, the lower the price is, the smaller is the chance to meet a nice girl, at least similar to the one on photos. But even if you’ve decided to accept a higher price – it may not save you from the agencies tricks, when they simply send to you their first available girl. So if you’ll hear, “I can be at your place in 30-40 minutes”, you better be careful.

Still, not many girls in Poland decide work for themselves and it’s quite easy to verify – independent escorts should have their own website or Twitter/IG profile. It also takes more time to make a booking, as a deposit is often required and rates might be higher than average. Anyway – it reflects in the quality, as every escort works for their own reputation and prefers to meet regular clients.

Reasons Men Seek The Girlfriend Experience

A typical escort service is all about relieving a sexual tension. Simple, quick and fair transaction. However, not for those gentlemen who expects some other kind of intimacy – together with affection and sensitivity, and who want to have a meeting with woman, not only for the woman’s body . At the same time, they want to keep things away from making a relationship.

Choosing a GFE service is a perfectly safe option, as a “controlled date”. In addition, comparing to dating apps, you don’t need to worry if it’s gonna end in your bedroom.

What Makes Me An Ideal GFE Companion

What I find best in the GFE is that it lets you to build a short-time close and sexy relation with the other person in a very natural way. I like people and I love to listen – as a bonus, my clients are usually fascinating people with amazing stories to share! Conversation also gives enough time to find out more about my partner needs, and to seduce in the way that let him believes, that it’s him who seduced me.

I called the relations “short-time”, but in fact there’s no need to rush. Personally I think, that one hour GFE meeting wouldn’t make any sense, so I don’t provide it. My regular clients propositions are usually longer stays, like overnight, weekends somewhere far away from the city, or invitations to be their travel companion during a short holiday. I’ve been told its because I’m that smiling and easy to be with type of women, who can easily adjust to her partner.

Best Duration To Enjoy Warsaw Together

Dinner dates and overnight stays – that’s what I enjoy the most. Both time (evening) and place (restaurant or cocktail bar – there’s a really big choice of good places to go in Warsaw) are much more natural scenery for chat and flirt than a hotel room.

Etiquette Gentlemen Must Follow

I’m pretty lucky to meet on my way, mostly a 100% gentlemen. I really select my clients from the first message they send. It’s simply because if one’s behaviour will ever start make me feel uncomfortable, I would decide to leave from the date – it’s just not worth wasting my nerves. What I definitely don’t accept is the lack of discretion, being rude, loud or aggressive. Also asking about discounts or possibility to pay after the meeting.

How To Impress Me

As much, I want my clients to enjoy our time together, as much I appreciate effort they put into preparing a perfect date. Even the smallest things matters – flowers or following my cuisine preferences while choosing a restaurant surely, then surely a romantic weekend in SPA or small gift, like piece of jewelry, can make me wanna go extra mile. But here’s the simple truth – if you want me to be a woman of your dreams, then make me feel like I’m one.

Bettie Golden – Polish high class companion, independent GFE expert in Warsaw, open-minded lover of both – gents and ladies. Question, that I hate the most as a SW is “Do you have any job?”. In my retirement I’ll be travelling even more, than I do now.

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In 2021 I’m available for meetings only till August 8th.

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April 2, 2021
A Good Way To Get To Know Paris At Night Is To Contact An Escort Girl

There’s no better way to get to know a city like Paris than by visiting it with someone who lives there. That’s why anyone’s best bet is always going to be hiring a Parisian escort to show them around. These women have been in every club and walked down every street. They’ve tasted the finest cuisine that the city has to offer and visited every attraction. In fact, any escort that you can find on a site like Panamescorte.com will know the ins and out better than any travel agency ever could.

Escorts get preferential treatment

On top of knowing the best places to visit, these women are almost certainly regulars of the best places in the city. That means they know the people who work there and have relationships with them. Having an escort who knows the doorman at an exclusive club is almost always the best way to make sure you get into it. She’s been there many times before and get you through the security on her personality alone. She’s practically a pass to all of the excitement you’ve always wanted to experience.

They know which places are overrated

There’s nothing worse than visiting a place that you’ve heard great things about only to find out that it doesn’t meet your expectations. You’ve been looking forward to a place for a very long time and, once you get there, you’re simply let down. That’s where your escort comes into play. She’s already been to these places. That means that she’s going to know which ones are actually good and which ones are a waste of your time. If you ask her for advice on where to visit, you can be certain to get an educated recommendation from her.

She’s happy to have real fun in public

Of course, what you have to realize is that you’re enjoying the city with a paid sex worker. That opens up a whole new realm of opportunities to you. You don’t have to limit yourself to what the location has to offer you. You can sneak away at any time that you want for an adult experience in the middle of the fun. Just imagine being at the finest club the city has to offer, only to duck away into a private room for an oral sex session that leaves you smiling for the rest of the night.

She’ll always look great on your arm

Aside from being able to show you the most fun that you can have in Paris, your escort is always going to look beautiful on your arm. You’ll be able to hold your head high knowing that you’re with the most gorgeous woman in the area and everyone wants to be in your shoes at that moment. You’ll want to spend as much time as you possibly can out in public with her just so everyone can see how amazing she looks with you.

Find an escort now

You can find an escort any time that you want to. Whenever you want to head out for a night in Paris, you can find an escort to guide you through it and make sure that you find the very best places to visit with her. She’ll know all of the hottest locations and let you experience the city in the very best way possible. Find an escort today and you’ll be able enjoy more of Paris than you ever thought possible. One night is all it takes to fall in love with it.

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March 16, 2021
Disability & Sex Work

I love sex! LOL. The weirder the better, I love roleplays and kinks, and people being fully themselves during sex. But in general, I think sexuality is an opportunity for joy.

My Companionship Style

I don’t think I’m necessarily the ideal companion for everyone. I’m a fat and curvy redhead who is pushing 40, and I like seeing people who appreciate that about me and see all of those things as positives. I also love seeing people who are disabled and/or kinky and/or marginalized who are looking for an authentic connection based on mutual respect and fun!

I see all respectful clients 21+ and love vanilla sessions too, but I particularly specialize in clients with disabilities, Milf/mommy, and catering to non-impact kinks and fantasies. I have my own disabilities which limit things like hiking or going to the beach so an ideal match are clients who are comfortable with spending more indoor time. (smiling devil emoji LOL).

Misconceptions About The Sex Lives Of People With Disabilities

How much time do you have? I think it’s generally that disabled people aren’t sexual and aren’t currently having a ton of great sex. A lot of sex workers and clients are disabled but we don’t really talk about it that much, which is a mistake. It can give us an opportunity to connect and help me really be able to meet clients’ intimacy needs which includes their access needs.

Exploring One’s Sexual Needs With A Disability

I think the thing that is important is to know it’s okay to be disabled during sex. It’s okay to not want to do certain positions or not be able to do certain things, in fact – it’s normal. Everyone has sexual things that we like and don’t like, and this may or may not be related to our disabilities.

We should all be thinking about the way our minds affect our sexuality, and disability is just one aspect. I also really encourage people to reach out to disabled sex workers if they have the ability. The relationship between an escort and a client is unique and can be a great way to help you learn about what you like and don’t like with someone who has no other agenda than your (and mutual) pleasure and joy.

Recommended Sexual Activities Together

I recommend people work on seeing whatever makes them unique as a strength sexually, rather than a negative. While they also affect my ability to work as much as I’d like, my chronic and mental illnesses have helped me be able to connect to clients better, even non-disabled ones. I know so much more about bodies now than I did before I was disabled.

Don”t Be Afraid To Explore Your Sexual Needs!

I think a lot of times, stigma is the hardest part of all. I recommend that you talk openly about disabilities and the way they affect or don’t your sex life. Of course this is AFTER you are in a sexual relationship with a disabled person. It is rude to ask disabled people about their sexuality or what they are able to do unless you are in a sexual relationship with us.

But just like most things, I recommend having as much fun as possible and exploring whatever sounds the most pleasurable! Sometimes that may not be sex but may be a back rub or something else! There are a lot of ways that we can be intimate with each other and disabilities only increase those opportunities!

Kitty Milford is a Syracuse, NY based sex worker with big tits, a big, ass, and a big personality. She’s a BBW Milf redhead specializing in Milf/Mommy, non-impact kink/roleplay, gfe, and clients with disabilities. She is also a writer and used to be a lawyer and loves books, seltzer, and lingerie. Since the pandemic she’s been focusing on virtual services. See more at kittymilford.com or email her at kittymilford@gmail.com.

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December 31, 2020
What People Don’t See About Sex Work

I love sex work. I have gone through a rollercoaster of feelings regarding the industry. There’s a lot of shame due to the stigma society has placed on it. In my first year in the industry, I was outed by a companion who did not even know me. She found out my personal information from a photographer. I am very active in non-profit volunteer work, and this woman contacted them. Shortly after that, I retired then eventually rebranded. Because of this, it made me not trust any other women in the industry until these two beautiful women, Ava and Miranda, took me under their wings and showed me how beautiful relationships in the industry could and should be.

I have met the most amazing people in this line of work. These deep connections are something that I will always hold very close to my heart. A month ago, I released my face and showed all my tattoos, it was a scary decision, but I decided to do this because I love what I do, and I am tired of pretending that I don’t. I am even more tired of hiding.

Misconceptions About Sex Workers

A lot of people view sex workers as not being smart people. I am educated, and I am currently working on another degree. Most of the women that I work with are also educated. I know from when I have shared my secret with people in my “civvie” life that think it’s dirty or gross. I am a very clean person.

When I hear sexual stories from my civvie friends, I am like, woah; I would never do that. I do a lot of research and background check the people I see. And the people I see I truly do connect with – If I sense that anything is off in the screening, I will not book. My safety is of the utmost importance to me.

All sex workers are different. We are human, and just like in any industry, all the people involved are different. Yes, I like money. Most people from normal society view us as gold diggers or money-hungry. With the money I make in the industry, I have created impressive businesses, events, volunteer opportunities, and non-profits.

How Competitive Is The Sex Work Industry?

I recently moved to Tampa from Michigan. And have spent a significant time in NYC. My favorite city hands down is NYC. I’m still new to Tampa, so I am still feeling out the industry. I think my price point for this area is much higher than the average rate.

I haven’t met with a lot of people since my move here. I have heard from other ladies in the area that it’s not a super busy place, but I am close to the airport so it is working for me! 🙂 I have amazing people who book Fly Me To You’s, which is my preference anyway.

Challenges & Difficulties Facing Sex Workers

How we connect to people is on a deep level. I can’t speak for all sex workers, but for myself, I’ve had challenges when I see the same person every week, then all of a sudden I don’t hear from them again. This is part of the work and part of the transaction piece, so I get it, but I am still human and have a very big heart.

My main duo partner retired amidst a tour we were supposed to do together. She was one of my closest friends. When she retired, it felt like a breakup. I am still pretty sad about it all.

But another huge challenge is keeping the lies straight if you’re hiding your secret life. Many people will ask me where I am and what I’m doing. I can’t tell them that I’m flying here or there because that will get more questions. People in my personal life who do not know all of me assume I sit at home with my cats all the time.

Will The Situation Change For Sex Workers In Future?

To be successful in this career, you have to keep a strong balance. Open your heart enough to connect fully. Connection is the main piece of fully healing. But also, keep up a boundary so that you don’t become too attached and hurt. The tools that I use in sex work are the same tools I use with therapy clients.

For me, a good self-care routine is essential: Meditation, yoga, rituals, journaling, reading, and being out in nature. It is also vital that you feel yourself coming out of balance to take a step back, deep breath, and process it all. To me, sex-work is healing work, and if you, the healer, aren’t healed, that energy will transfer over to your client.

Advice For Aspiring Sex Workers

Sex work can be a very beautiful experience. If you are not mentally aligned though, it can chew you up and spit you out. Good friends in the industry help, having support, community, and advice has changed my life. Be careful who you allow yourself to connect with, though, not everyone is nice.

Brooklyn Monroe – Sacred Confidant, sexual healer, partner in crime.

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2020 has been an incredible year. I sold my business in Michigan. I am currently working on a brand new holistic/witchy online store where I will be giving special discounts for sex workers. I am in a training program to facilitate plant medicines. And once planes start flying, I plan to open a center in Central America. I want to create large retreats for sex workers where they can process everything and heal. If the retreat is only for sex-workers, I feel like no one will have to hide, and that is where true healing will come. I am working on a degree in Behavioral Sciences that I will be finishing in August. My goal is to become a therapist for sex workers. Good Mental health is critical to me. When people know that I am a sex worker, they will feel comfortable talking to me about everything. Some ups and downs come with sex work, and I want to help when the downs are there. Additionally, I’m working on a clothing line where all profits will go to a non-profit in Detroit, Answer Detroit.

My home base is currently Tampa; I would love to meet more friends in the area.

My upcoming tours are:

12.11: My Birthday 🙂

1.18-1.19 Detroit, Troy MI w/ Zara Brooks

1.19-1.22: Michigan w/ Zara

2.5.21-2.8.21: Tucson

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December 7, 2020
Ways To Enjoy London With The Ideal Companion

Companionship fulfils a multitude of social and intimate needs. It can be a way to find a missing spark or passion that is missing in someone’s day to day life. To explore desires and sexual fantasies. Sometimes, it is simply to reach out and spend time with someone who is understands a need for human connection, seduction and intimacy.

I entered this world as a university student and quickly discovered there are many misconceptions about companionships and there is no ‘one size fits all’ companion or client. That’s what makes it so exciting.

Being A Companion In London

Before the pandemic, which has altered life for many people, London was a vibrant and exciting place in which to be a companion. It has an array of nightlife, restaurants, modern and classical art galleries and museums, beautiful parks and historic hotels that have been the basis of many wonderful dates.

Many of my clients are familiar with London from previous business trips and so sometimes, playing the tourist was a wonderful experience that I sorely miss.

What Makes Me An Ideal Companion

I would say I’m quite warm, lighthearted, non-judgmental and curious about people. My degree is quite heavy so it’s nice to change tack and just enjoy listening to people’s stories and life experiences without labelling them. This world attracts fascinating people and I adore finding out what makes people tick and why they studied the discipline they did, chose the career path they did…all useful research for me!

Regarding intimacy, I consider experiencing pleasure, sexual exploration and having an open mind as vital to our happiness. I revel in relaxed, intimate GFE private encounters, though consider myself vanilla with a hint of spice. ‘Never say never’ is a wonderful mantra to live by. Mutual respect, courtesy and communication allow this to happen. I make my clients, feel relaxed and be able to express how they feel and how they would like our time together to unfold.

My Ideal Date & Dating Turn Offs

An ideal date would be spending time with someone interesting, courteous and respectful. Someone who has taken the time to discover me and my interests, (we all leave breadcrumbs!) and brings a small gift, even just chocolates or a book or a card, makes me feel special! Unlike a relationship, and knowing that our encounter is temporary, I always feel it’s best to make it as wonderful and romantic as possible.

I don’t have many turn offs and to be honest I haven’t had any terrible dates yet, (knock on wood) but I imagine someone who has bad manners, is rude to waiting staff or unhygienic would definitely turn me off.

Best Things To Enjoy London Together

I love art and also dining out so, if I were being greedy, a perfect date would involve visiting the National Portrait Gallery in Westminster which is a favourite of mine, Lunch at J Sheekey, a wonderful classic British restaurant, and to end with private time in a beautiful luxury hotel.

What Should A Gentlemen Do Prior To The Appointment?

A gentleman should approach me as he should all companions, by reading our website in full to get an idea of who we are and whether we’d be compatible. We have particular contact and screening methods detailed on our site and prospective clients must ensure they are comfortable with and can provide them.

A perfect introductory email to me would contain a little introduction, something that tells me who you are and why you’d like to meet, your screening information and a range of dates and times we can meet. A compliment at the end never hurts!

Etiquette Rules To Follow

Just to be respectful, clean and courteous. Time is a precious commodity in life and when you have the chance to spend it with a beautiful woman in beautiful surroundings, treat it as a ‘real’ date and as such, talking about other providers is off limits. It is, after all, a wonderful chance to escape for a while.

Kio Jones – Your London lover. An exotic au naturel siren who is adventurous, open minded, and authentic. I’m adept at drawing out your most secret desires and fulfilling them completely.

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I’d like to announce that I’m taking selected multi hour dates in London from December 5th 2020

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December 3, 2020
How Important Is Attraction On A Date?

To me, real intimacy means an authentic connection and a sense of comfort. It’s rooted in feeling safe enough to be vulnerable but also aware and conscious enough to hold space for the other person. I feel there is nothing more intimate than focused attention.

My Ideal Date

My ideal date would begin with drinks somewhere beautiful like The Beekman Hotel bar or Bemelman’s Bar at The Carlyle Hotel and catch up over bubbles. Then we’d go to Sushi Nakazawa – my favorite restaurant in NYC – for their incredible Omakase. If time isn’t a factor, a trip to the top of the Empire State Building makes for a lovely nightcap before dessert…

What Makes Me An Ideal Companion

I’ve been described as fun, lighthearted and easy going. I love getting to know people, especially from walks of life other than my own. I consider myself a lifelong learner so I’m always reading and researching subjects that pique my interest, quite a few inspired by my dates.

My variety of interests means I have just as much fun snowboarding and racing supercars at the track as I do shopping at Saint Laurent and sipping champagne at the beach. One thing is for certain – I’m a sucker for a good time!

How Important Is Attraction On A Date?

I think it’s a myth that attraction must be instantaneous – in my experience, the most authentic attraction may start with a spark but grows in intensity as you get to know each other. I have been fortunate enough to experience relationships and attraction that grows even more extraordinary over years of seeing each other and creating lasting memories.

My Dating Turn Offs

My biggest turn-offs include suboptimal hygiene, stinginess, and a negative attitude.

I like to be around people with open hearts and minds.

Brooke Nichols – All-American Bon Vivant & Champagne Bubble About Town

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November 23, 2020