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  • Why You Should Enjoy London With A Companion

    Why You Should Enjoy London With A Companion

    Well on a personal note, I absolutely love being a companion, what could be better then rocking up to a hotel in sexy lingerie, sipping champagne and having amazing sex with fascinating people?

    On a political note, I find it incredibly liberating for women to be able to make the sort of money often reserved for men only in our society. As a professional contemporary and ballet dancer, it is seriously hard to make money doing meaningful art in London. Often the top companies being unable to pay more than £30,000 a year for highly skilled dancers. These are the TOP companies…. you can only imagine what the smaller ones pay.

    Doing escorting means I have the safety net to allow myself to take on more interesting performance projects and that means the world to me. It has also funded me through my recent masters degree and will fund me for my PhD also.

    The Sex Work Industry In London

    It’s wonderful really. Everything is legal which means it’s totally safe for both the ladies and the clients. Equally, London is so big and so anonymous that you won’t bump into anyone you know while on a date with a lady.

    And the food……my god, the food in London is spectacular. So many amazing places to go no matter what sort of niche you’re into. It’s perfect for a great night out.

    What Makes Me An Ideal Companion

    I’m super light hearted, and an eternal optimist. I love to laugh and smile but am also a great listener and can go deep into any conversation, no holding back if you want to go philosophical. I’m intelligent and educated, making me great to meet your work collegues etc. I know how to be discreet while still looking fabulous on your arm.

    Equally, my body is toned and bendy from my dancing career and willing to please your every desire. Finally….I’m a base line perv and love getting naughty with fun people. I absolutely love this work.

    How To Spend Your Time In London With Me

    Oh wow I guess this is a Covid specific question…it depends what is open. I would say during Covid, an overnight or dinner date is best so we have time to chat and flirt and go a bit deeper and more meaningful in our interactions.

    On a normal day, I would say 24 hours is always super fun….here is a good list of activities and day plan –

    12.00 Meet at the hotel (Perhaps The Corinthia, The Shard, The Exhibitionist).

    13.00 Couples massages at a local spa, or perhaps a matinee show of one of London’s amazing theatres.

    14.30 Lunch and time for a good flirt, perhaps afternoon tea at The Ritz or The Ivy.

    16.00 Now that we know each other well, back to the bedroom for several hours of lust, lots of time to really explore each others bodies and get naughty.

    20.00 Dinner

    21.30 An after dinner cocktail (somewhere with music always a benefit).

    22.00 Back to the hotel for more earthly pleasures….perhaps a sensual bath after and before bed to finish the evening.

    Following morning…

    Lounge around in bed, room service for breakfast, more naughty fun until 12.00. Equally if you have any last minute shopping you need to do I would be happy to escort you.

    What You Should Know Before Our Meeting

    Firstly, be humble and gentleman like in your correspondence. A one line email that says; “Fuck you’re hot, where are you?”, or relentlessly calling and texting when we are unable to answer will stress us out.

    Email or text, introduce yourself properly. Tell us clearly when/where/for how long you would like to meet. If she cannot accommodate those times, you can discuss from there. You can enquire about services you desire (don’t be rude or demanding if the lady does not do something you want and respect her personal boundaries). You can also request certain outfits you like from her website or let her surprise you.

    If you’re nervous or it’s your first time, you can let her know and she can help you be more at ease and enjoy the process (equally if you’re not ready, don’t push yourself to do anything)

    Most importantly, you will need to either give a reference (from another lady you have seen). If it’s your first time and you do not have a reference, we ask for a photo I.D or a linked in page…after which that lady can be your reference for other ladies. This process is for our safety only. We will not research you or give your details to anyone else, our business is about discretion. This screening element of the process is non negotiable for all ladies and must be respected.

    Before you arrive, you’re welcome to grab a bottle of your favourite tipple to enjoy on the meeting and help you loosen up if you need it. Equally, any girl I have ever met has always appreciated a generous client who brings a little gift (flowers, chocolates, perfume, lingerie, shoes….etc.)

    Correct Behaviour Etiquette While Together

    We appreciate you to be on time, be clean, be respectful….I repeat….be clean gentlemen. Those 10 year old boxers with no breathing capacity will not impress us and I would hope you wouldn’t wear them on a ‘normal’ date.

    Other than that, just enjoy and have fun. Tell us about yourself (as much as you’re comfortable with), because we will love getting to know you….we are fundamentally people lovers. Tell us all your silly jokes, tell us all your desires, let us please you in every way we can. That’s what we are here for and we love it boys!

    Margot Alderton – I’m a young and joyful personality with a seriously sexy adventurous side and a curiosity for new experiences. I love meeting new people, going out to shows and partying or just staying in and having a bath and wine. As a professionally trained dancer in ballet and contemporary dance (my real job), I love art, music and all the other great aspects of living in London. If you need any advice on great things to do I know my way around this great city as well as I know my way around the bedroom.

    My petite and sensual figure will grab your attention and my bright blue eyes are sure to keep it. Perfect for anyone who likes a natural girl, I’m graceful and elegant. Having been trained professionally in dance, my body is as flexible as your imagination. However, that doesn’t mean I lack in intellect, Im a wide reader and hold a BA and MA, meaning I can keep up with the best in conversation. Im a great listener and can make you feel at ease, whether its getting to know each other at the beginning or exploring deeper secrets further on.

    My dynamic personality means I’m perfect for high profile events and long stays out of town. I love discovering new places and my range of interests and zest for life makes me a perfect travelling companion whose sure to hold your attention.

    Follow Margot on

    Website: www.margotalderton.com

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/margotalderton

    Other Tours: Incall in Marleybone

    Images from Margot Alderton

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  • Why It’s Important To Embrace & Explore Intimacy

    Why It’s Important To Embrace & Explore Intimacy

    Developing a familiarity with someone physically or on a personal level is a deep way of being intimate.  This type of closeness feeds us as humans. It is so necessary and lacking in the lives of many.  It can sometimes be difficult to forge these connections for various reasons. 

    Some of those reasons include: a lack of education around sexuality, living in pleasure-phobic societies, adult responsibilities, lack of time or an inability to prioritize our relationships.  I love learning about the people I come across, especially when I see a willingness to be seen.

    The Importance Of An Embodied Life

    Being in communication with my body is so important. I’ve learned to pick up cues from my body about what it needs or wants.  How do you follow pleasure when you can’t feel into it, inside your body?  Operating from a place of logic can bind people into ideas about pleasure and fantasy, without a nuanced connection to bodily sensations. 

    There’s nothing wrong with fantasy, but I think there’s a lot that is missed if we forget to consider our real experience.  The driving question is: “How much juiciness do you want to experience in your body?”

    Steps Taken Towards This Journey

    Learning mindfulness practices, developing communication skills and re-engaging with fun!  It’s easy to feel overwhelmed and lose touch with the spirit of joy, as the responsibilities of being an adult take over.  It’s been a valuable resource for me to actively practice these skills within a community of likeminded people.  I try to foster playfulness through dancing, singing and humour.  

    How My Life Has Improved

    Having a developed connection with my body has expanded the range within which I can experience pleasure and attraction.  I have also developed a better ability to self-regulate during stressful situations.

    Common Blocks To Embodied Intimacy?

    Embodied intimacy can be a tricky place to get to if someone is stuck in ideas of what intimacy is supposed to look like or if they’re caught in a routine.  To be clear, there is nothing wrong with being in those places.  Just like with anything that requires effort and creativity, you develop a broader capacity for pleasure by stepping outside of that box. 

    Sensations Felt When Not In Touch With One’s Pleasure & Ways To Overcome Disembodiment

    When a person is out of touch with their pleasure, they can exist primarily in their heads or thoughts.  Numbness, disassociation or pain are common experiences.  Pleasure tends to be experienced within a narrower range. 

    A few simple ways to connect into your body include taking some mindful breaths.  Tracking physical sensations such as a tightness, expansion, cool, warmth, tingling, numbness and so forth.  Allowing for spaciousness to take a breath, to notice what’s cooking within your body or to express what it is that you want.  Slowing down is a great approach to this practice.  Most importantly, follow the pleasure.

    Megan O’Conner – A sun-kissed brunette with deep, soulful eyes, a free spirit who enjoys quality connections.  Discreet, part-time companion to men, women and couples in Vancouver, Canada. 

    Follow Megan O’Conner on

    Website: https://www.libertinecompanion.com/

    Twitter: @MeetMeganO

    Article image courtesy of Megan O’Conner, featured image by Edward Eyer from Pexels

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  • My Experiences In Sex Work

    My Experiences In Sex Work

    Since I have become a sex worker, I have come to understand sex as a genuine means of expression. A craft if you will, that improves and expands, and makes everybody unique. It can be used to express emotion: love, happiness… It can even serve as a refuge for sadness.

    My Understanding Of Sex Work Before Going Into It

    I have always been curious about it, because I was aware of the power of female sexuality.

    I was especially enticed after reading the book King Kong Theorie by Virginie Despentes, who used to be a sex worker herself, and who was at the time the partner of Queer philosopher Beatriz Preciado. Thanks to these authors, I began to see sex work as a means of female empowerment, as it was related to sex-positive feminism.

    Why I Love Sex Work

    I got initiated to sex work by sugaring. I like the thrill, the ability to meet people I would otherwise never meet, and of course the financial freedom it provides.

    Misconceptions About Sex Work

    I think a lot of people think sex workers are shallow and materialistic. There are shallow and materialistic people everywhere. But some of the escorts I know are amongst some of the most intelligent, cultivated and creative people I have met.

    What Is The Sex Work Industry Like?

    This is a really broad question. There are many branches of sex work: high end escorting, escorting, camming, sugaring, BDSM… Then inside those categories, there are the individuals that make each business (the business being: the person) unique in it’s own way. It’s an industry where you are allowed and encouraged to use your creativity.

    Advice To Aspiring Sex Workers

    I think it’s important to consume as much material as you can on the subjects. As an escort, I consume books, YouTube videos and podcasts about escorting. This is to know about the craft, but also in order to feel like I belong somewhere and what I do is legitimate work. It’s very easy to feel alone in this business or to feel that you are doing something “wrong”, if you don’t have the right support system.

    Lia Lazuli – An international high-class companion based in Brussels. Lia speaks 5 languages and loves reading, jogging and hiking. Her clients are mostly classy gentlemen, who are also up for a good laugh and of course, a nice conversation. 

    Follow Lia on

    Website: https://www.lialazuli.com/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/lazuli_lia

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  • How To Get Started Into Swinging For Couples

    How To Get Started Into Swinging For Couples

    In the last 20 years, alternative lifestyles and relationships other than  traditional ‘monogamous heterosexual’ marriage has gained acceptance and popularity. Adult porn stars, such as Jemma Jameson, have become household names. Movies such as Eyes Wide Shut was a box office hit, and the 50 Shades of Grey series started an entire movement, where people felt free to openly discuss subjects once thought of as taboo. The internet has a never ending supply of access to free porn, and the content has shifted from big budget productions, with actresses that 90% of the population cannot relate to, and replaced with amateur and reality porn. 

    Sex is no longer such a taboo topic,  and people are now comfortable enough to share their desires without the fear of being judged. We have so many different types of relationship dynamics today, and it would be foolish to think that traditional, monogamous relationships are ideal for everyone.  For some, exploring the options outside what is considered the ‘norm’ can teach you things you never knew about yourself or your partner by opening up the channel for communication,  challenging perceived sexual and personal boundaries, and strengthening the relationship with oneself and your partner. 

    How My Interest In Swinging Began

    Several years ago, I shot about a dozen adult films in LA and Miami. I became good friends with one of the male actors, who happened to live in Dallas, and we quickly became close friends. He was a bartender at several venues, and one was the upscale swingers club in Dallas. I was asked to promote/host one of their events. 

    I was brand new to the industry, and I was met by a packed club of  half naked people, waiting in line for my autograph. I became fast friends with the owner and his wife and several other couples, but there was one couple in particular, that developed into a deep, loving relationship. I was their girlfriend for almost 2 years, and we shared a very special friendship. I am still good friends with them, the club owner, and several of the same couples I Initially met 10+ years ago. 

    Reasons For Couples Who Explore Swinging

    Well, there are the right reasons, and the wrong ones LOL, and I have experienced couples in both situations. 

    The lifestyle is not a bandaid for a failing relationship. If your relationship does not already have a strong foundation of trust, mutual respect, and open, honest communication, you are setting yourself up for failure. Both parties must be willing participants and should never be forced or guilt tripped into this scenario. Ground rules and boundaries MUST be discussed, agreed upon, and upheld, and the line of communication should always maintain open.

    If you are scared or uncomfortable openly communicating with your partner or others your needs, desires, and boundaries, a counseling session with an intimate coach would be a better course of action for self improvement and strengthening your relationship. 

    How Does One Bring Up The Idea Of Swinging To Their Partner?

    Again, honest and open communication is key. One way to bring up the subject to gauge interest is to watch an adult film together, involving a scenario with more than two participants.  Comment to your partner how much the scene turns you on and why…..ask if this is something they would ever be open to trying together to gauge interest. 

    If you need to convince your partner to engage in adding an additional person/persons to your bedroom, then you should not pursue this lifestyle. Both you and your partner must be willing participants.

    3 Tips For New Couples To Try Swinging

    1. Open, honest communication: I’ll say this again, because I can not stress enough that this is KEY to a positive experience 

    2. Set clear rules and boundaries: Have a discussion of your ground rules for what each of you is comfortable with, and what is off limits

    3. Take your time: Many couples new to the lifestyle make the mistake of attending a lifestyle event with the mentality they need to hook up. They create unnecessary pressure on one another,  as well as creating an aggressive vibe that most will find off putting. Relax, really take the time to talk to people and get to know them before thinking about taking your clothes off. There are several lifestyle websites where you can create a profile, and get an opportunity to chat online. For first timers, I highly suggest hiring a professional such as myself, with years of experience meeting with nervous couples.

    Hayden Hightower – A petite blonde playmate based in Dallas TX.  Hayden is a TER Dallas TOP 10 provider available for luxury Companionship and VIP Concierge services for men, women, and couples. She is highly regarded for her Couple’s encounters and her authentic NURU Bodyslide encounters, in addition to her one on one girlfriend experiences. Hayden is an avid fitness enthusiast and works in the health/wellness industry helping others achieve a healthier lifestyle.  In her free time, she enjoys working out, relaxing at home, and spending time with her boxer, Tank. 

    Follow Hayden Hightower on

    Website: http://hayden-hightower.wixsite.com/texas

    Twitter: @hayden_dfw

    Article images courtesy of Hayden Hightower

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  • What It’s Like To Be A Model & Actress

    What It’s Like To Be A Model & Actress

    Lights, fantasy action, a virtual reality, you could make your fantasy come true as a model and actress. I am a New York City transplant and I love Hollywood so much.

    I am an exhibitionist who enjoys letting go and being able to make love to the camera. In acting, I also use the character to play with my senses.  Usually, I do play more colorful parts, but it’s all in the role. I am very open-minded living in Hollywood. It’s incredible the way fantasy turns into reality here. I found the world needs entertainment to relax, enjoy, and unwind. I love that experience in all my work.

    I enjoy all my senses. It’s so important to me being sensual from the feel of silk on my skin, or touching a great piece of furniture, or having the sensation of fizzing champagne on my tongue.

    Moving Up In My Career As A Model & Actress

    I am a published professional model and card-carrying actress. I’m someone who you will find is a chameleon, comfortable in any setting. Currently, I am California-based but travel worldwide, a perfectionist who believes in being the very best; that’s why my name is Tiffany Champagne.

    Being an elite private lingerie model with a zest for life, I celebrate every chance I get.  What a time I’ve been having. I love to explore your innermost thoughts and secrets. Not only those that come to fruition on specific anniversaries and birthdays but ones for just the celebrating when needed.

    I was privileged to be able to pose for some of the most famous photographers globally and having a mainstream resume with credits includes the following:

    The covers of LAVISHLY Style Magazine, S&G Magazine, Stare Magazine.

    Cover Girl: Body Rocking Magazine, Theeroticarts Magazine, Dreamvixens Magazine, Body Rocking Magazine, Fievre, Plus Morgan Taylor Jewelry, Fredericks of Hollywood Lingerie, Secret’s in Lace, Travel to Catalina (film), General Hospital (television), Bobbie Brooks Swimwear, Boudoir Photography (film and fashion), In Search of Marilyn (Japanese movie), Everything Goes (television), Young and Restless (television), Acupressure Technique (film), Arco Magazine and many more.

    For acting, I studied the Meisner technique and Stanislavski. I find one has to combine them. My acting coach said: “It’s best not to be boring; people enjoy watching a character, either a bitch or a dumb blonde“. I learn from doing and making it fun. However, my acting career was interrupted by personal issues. My then boyfriend was very demanding of my time and lifestyle.

    Unfortunately, under stress, I took his advice. But in life, one has to live with the idea of what one tries to do and experience. I feel knowing your utmost wants and desires is the key to more happiness and a sense of accomplishment.    

    How I Got Started Into Modeling & Acting

    I started in New York City, where I grew up. My girlfriends were beautiful, very sophisticated and they were models. We all grew up very fast in New York. It is a city that doesn’t sleep. My girlfriends were from upper-class families.  Some went to become big names in the modeling world, which I can’t mention.

    They had very wealthy parents. I was a teen, but I was soaking all this in. It was my dream life. I was hanging out with beautiful models, going ice-skating in Rockefeller Center, shopping with them in Bloomingdales. Then it was suggested I visited their agency. I was accepted. I discovered a fascinating and creative world. I fell in love with art of Andy Warhol, Picasso, Henri de Toulouse-Lautrec and Henri Matisse. What a classy and exciting life to see at a young age, and I experienced it.  It makes one very polished but I didn’t dare tell my parents. They weren’t hip on me modeling with a big agency.

    But in New York, a fashion capital, the kids grow up fast. We went to clubs with phony IDs, and my girlfriends were part of the jet set life. It was a fascinating and spoiled life.

    I loved doing photoshoots wearing heavy eye makeup and those fashionable clothes when I was size one, very thin.  My makeup ruined my mother’s towels, and she’d yell at me. 

    My mom was very shocked and said she felt the blonde hair and make-up was too much glamour for a young girl. But that’s advertising. It needs to stand out and make a statement; it’s called fashion. But I remember it was such a thrill.

    My family moved to Los Angeles. My dad, a consulting engineer, was needed for a new project here. That’s when I went into the glamour, modeling, and acting.         

    My figure is more curvaceous and sexy. I began to model for glamour in lingerie and bikini.  The attention I get and the flirtatious attitude of men turns me on. It’s great knowing I am desired and admired.

    As I said, I studied the Miesner technique for acting.  I am a very liberal thinker. During that time, I started to model for Playboy Models and they gave me a lot of assignments. They took me for print and video.

    Going to the Playboy Manson was a lot of fun, and the Parties were incredible like the Mid Summer Dream and New Years’ Eve Celebrations. And the Easter Egg Hunt where all the beautiful models were looking for Prize Eggs.

    I met a well-known ladies man at the Mansion and he was a famous film star, and he changed my name to Tiffany Champagne as I drank a lot of Champagne in the Playboy Mansion and wore a lot of Tiffany jewelry. One day he said, let me show you around. My girlfriend was with me, and we both went to some of the beautiful grounds at the Mansion.

    This charismatic actor took me into the monkey’s cage, and we started kissing, and I must admit now I know why he was so popular with the ladies, what incredible skills! My girlfriend was watching and just stood there in disbelief. It was a lot of fun, wild monkeys just flying around, in the cage, how fun!

    Another well-known blonde celebrity with whom I was in love introduced me to a famous dominatrix. I soon found out all about fetish studies and human sexuality and started to know about BDSM. 

    I was very impressed by the Dom’s fantastic figure and her beautiful outfits of leather corsets. He wanted me to do Fetish Play and learn. I soon found myself joining in the fun. She came out in an extraordinary leather corset outlining her cures of her figure. She modeled her leather and vinyl outfits and fantastic shoes. We did some very erotic experiences. Such as roleplay and different fetishes. It’s a totally different world of kink.

    She had items like handcuffs, feather dusters, and exfoliating mittens in her suitcase. She soon blindfolded this blonde handsome man and started rubbing these items on his back with a massage. I was totally into it. And at the end, we put ice cream on him with me licking it off (wink).

    It was quite the BDSM educational experience. There is something always new and exciting to learn.

    What An Ideal Date Is To Me


    I adore nice people, including shy men. But I do have a big spirit of adventure and very big love to travel. I love traveling by request for            dates.

    Well, I’m totally spoiled by a movie star life. My dates take me to the best restaurants and shopping. It’s hard to beat that. Since I am romantic, I do love all those things and I specialize in longer engagements and have been invited to different events at times as someone’s girlfriend or secretary. Since I do acting, I blend into many situations in life and companionship.

    I am a chameleon. I love the excitement and that’s my adventurous side. … “Wink”

    Challenges In This Industry

    I would say keep being the best I could be and knowing the latest trends in fashion and sexuality. I’m constantly keeping updated on different situations and styles coming into fashion. I also read plenty of self-help books and about sexual curiosity such as: The Art of Zen, The Best Sacred Society, The Art of Tantra, Positions for Kama Sutra, Fifty Shades of Grey, I am Curious, The Book-Bondassage, Art and Healing, Finding Your Artistic Voice, etc.

    Life is short, and we need to make it as exciting as possible. I live each day and make it as exciting as possible within the safe limits.

    Is Society Becoming More Open Minded?

    Yes, people are becoming very open-minded; and society is changing. It’s definite.

    Yes, most people want change and equality, like the different movements, we are seeing. Los Angeles is a big cannabis state and there are lines for its use now that it’s perfectly legal. Of course, years ago it wasn’t. Society changes as there is a great deal of need for stress relief. We, as people, can go through a lot of that stress in our daily lives. The health care workers, doctors and nurses are on the front lines currently, as are food delivery people. It reminds me of the film “The Gladiator”, we are all gladiators in this time of stress.

    We all need to have hope for a brighter day. Like the saying goes, there is always light at the end of the tunnel, and maybe a rainbow.

    Advice For Aspiring Models

    I would suggest getting the correct agent for the look you represent. Also, pose with as many accomplished photographers, even if they are just starting. You’ll still get the practice for your craft.

    Get enrolled in acting an established acting school where you identify with the technique.

    I do hope this Covid-19 situation passes soon. And everyone gets life back to normal. In the meantime, please enjoy my website: https://www.tiffanychampagne.com and check out my modeling photos on my site.

    Tiffany Champagne – I am a Playboy Model/Actress; you may have seen me in Print Ads, Mainstream Films, and even Music Videos. I focus on exactly what you are seeking. There are diamonds, and there are polished diamonds. If you want the latter, then you have come to the right place. I am an exclusive model. Although my I am based in Los Angeles, I travel with arrangements in advance.  If you are seeking the Ultimate Luxury Private Model to join you on your Business Trip, Social Engagement or Vacation……you have found her.

    Learn more about me on:

    Website: www.tiffanychampagne.com

    Twitter: @tiffanychamp7

    Instagram: @tiffany_champagne

    Tumblr: https://tiffanychampagne.tumblr.com/

    Article images courtesy of Tiffany Champagne

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  • Why You Should Enjoy Seattle With A Companion

    Why You Should Enjoy Seattle With A Companion

    I have been a companion in Seattle for almost five years. One of the things I have learned about companionship is that it provides an escape for those who are going through changes in their lives. This can be because they came into more money, their relationship has taken a different route, or other reasons that may not be evident. Everyone needs someone to turn to when change happens, and companions are the best people who can walk you through these changes.

    How The Escorting Industry Is Like In Seattle

    Personally, I think the industry here is changing because it is being forced to change due to FOSTA/SESTA. But our market is over saturated by one review site. This doesn’t help things when there are many clients who are not wanting things to change or prices to go up. With the use of Instagram and Twitter and other new sites popping up, clients are now understanding the need to follow our rules, screening, and everything else that you can think of. Views don’t change overnight especially when one advertising site has held the spotlight for our city for years.

    Another thing is that new escorts constantly think this business is easy, but it’s not. It’s even harder to make money right away since Backpage went down. Now, it takes effort. Social media accounts, accounts on different ad sites, and websites are now the way to make money. This helps clients find you and learn more about you.

    What Makes Me An Ideal Companion

    I am a book nerd but an absolute southern belle (without the accent). I don’t have an accent anymore because of moving a lot as a child. I love to have fun and I love to laugh. I laugh at almost everything. My world revolves around my Pembroke Welsh Corgi, Manchester, and school as I am less than a year away from completing my bachelor’s degree.

    What makes me an ideal companion is my love to satisfy my clients mentally, emotionally, and physically. I love to make my clients feel like we are the only people in the room and that they have my undivided attention.

    The Best Duration To Enjoy Seattle With Me!

    I would say the best duration would be two full days or more, which you can book via email with me. There is so much to do in Seattle that you can’t get it all in in one day. But two gets more activities in. The best places to shop are in Pike Place Market, which is where we can get a bottle of wine and enjoy the year-round farmers marker there. The Seattle Art Museum is another must see and near the Pike Place Market.

    Another must see is the Space Needle, especially since its renovation with the only rotating glass floor. Enjoying dinner there is an amazing feature. And every romantic trip needs a right on Seattle’s Great Wheel, with it’s beautiful port views. And last but not least, enjoying the Seattle Symphony is one of my favorite things about the city.

    How A Gentlemen Should Prepare Prior To Our Engagement

    All gentlemen who want to visit me needs to read what I expect from them on my website. He must be willing to provide his real-world information, and be prepared to make a deposit, if asked for. Or, if he must cancel, he must have his cancelation fee ready.

    And he should totally listen to all the episodes of client etiquette on The Sexy Escort Guide podcast (which I am working on a blog post with all of my favorite episodes for my clients to listen to).

    Rules A Gentlemen Should Follow To Be My Favorite Client

    Always take personal pride in your hygiene. We take pride in keep our incalls ready for clients as well as our personal appearance.

    Also, if you really want to get on my good side, bringing cash tips, flowers, wine, and/or gift cards will only add to you becoming my favorite.

    Shelby Forbes – An astute young woman full of adventure. She loves her corgi, wine, and traveling. She is a current undergraduate, almost finished with her bachelors. She dreams of going to graduate school, working in policy, and meeting so many wonderful gentlemen.

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    Twitter: https://twitter.com/msshelbyforbes

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  • The Stigma Of Sex Work Part II – How It Compromises Sex Workers

    The Stigma Of Sex Work Part II – How It Compromises Sex Workers

    The vast number of people I see and speak to are very respectful and they appreciate the time I give them. There are people that feel they have a right to waste our time, maybe because they don’t feel sex workers should be respected; they will ask for you to send free pictures or videos, as if it is our job to encourage their business by giving them free services. I usually ask them, “would you go to work if your boss wasn’t going to pay you? So why should I?” There can also be complete disrespect for your work/life balance as they feel you must work 24/7.

    I have a very strict boundary around my work and my personal life and my work does not happen at my home. If I had £1 for every time someone asked if I could do a video call in the bathroom whilst I’m at home with my family, I’d be a millionaire!!

    There is also the nastier side to the stigma around sex workers, that make some people feel like they have paid for us so our body are theirs to use as they wish, regardless of our own personal boundaries and limits. I am very fortunate that I have never seen anyone like this and I truly feel that organisations like Client Eye and National Ugly Mugs help identify these individuals and ensure escorts have a better understanding of the people they will potentially meet, but I am aware that not all sex workers have been as lucky as me.

    It is not just clients we have to be cautious of. The police are also a cause for concern. These are the people who are supposed to protect every citizen, the people I pay my taxes to ensure they are defending our streets. There should not be bias or prejudice and yet some of them are.

    In 2013, 25 premises in Soho, London were raided by the Police. The police invited members of the media to take pictures and document the raids. It was stated that the raids were to look for stolen goods, drug dealing and to tackle trafficking but sex workers were removed from their flats, some dragged out half naked into the street and arrested. Their money and possessions were confiscated by the police. This was all done to ‘save’ the sex workers from this life but the way they were treated was disgusting. Any migrant sex worker was turned over to the UK Border Agency under the assumption that they were victims of trafficking.

    Many of the sex workers stated that they were not being forced to work, but were handed over regardless. The officers during this raid did not care about the safety of these women or the effect it would have on their personal lives. The media and the general public who posted pictures of these women online didn’t care for their safety or the effect it would have on their personal lives. Sex work is legal in the UK. There are elements that aren’t, such as no more than one sex worker in the same property. There was no evidence that any of the women from the raids were in that situation yet they were all treated as criminals.

    When the people that are in the position of holding up the law, treats sex workers like vermin and allow the press to be part of it, how can we possibly break down the walls of stigma and prejudice.

    Is This Situation Due To A Lack Of Education Or Ignorance?

    I think it’s both. Generations have looked down on sex workers. Families have educated and continued to embed these same false stereotypes to their children but thankfully, the current young generation are questioning all they are being taught and as a result have become more open, liberal and accepting, to the groups of people that for generations, have been tarnished with these stigmas and stereotypes. The young are starting to make change possible.

    Mainstream media does not help at all. Just a few months ago, there was a show broadcast in the UK that had me screaming at my TV because they portrayed the sex workers in the show in a very negative light. I believe they wanted the nation to think all sex workers are ‘broken’ but that isn’t the case. Sex work empowers both men and women to take control of their sexuality. This work has empowered me and so many others; so many sex workers choose this profession over regular jobs. I have never been as enthusiastic and passionate about any other job than I am about my work right now.

    How Can These Stigma Be Removed Or Reduced?

    Why do newspapers, TV, media feel that showing sex workers in a negative light is the right way to portray us? I am sure they think that they will encourage a whole generation to become sex workers but that would not be the case. The same way that I could not be a carer in a nursing home wiping faeces from pensioners arseholes, is the same way not every person could be a sex worker. It takes a special kind of person and it’s not for everyone.

    I know there are many men and women in the sex industry that have had horrific experiences and I don’t wish to disregard what has happened to them and I don’t wish the media to overlook them either but until the media starts showing sex workers from every angle, the good, the bad and including male sex workers, who never seem to get a mention, then people won’t be able to see the full spectrum of sex workers, from street sex workers to high class escorts and everything in between. Every one of us has stories to tell about our experiences, whether positive or negative but we need a non-judgmental, non-biased format to do it. Not a TV company knowing how they want the end production to look like, but an open-minded production that allows the stories of everyone to naturally progress rather than twisting them.

    We live in a world that makes it very difficult to change people’s opinions. Even though society has progressed massively with regards to sex, sexual orientation, gender identity, race and religion, those changes have not been quick and are still nowhere near eradicated. The stigma and stereotyping around sex workers will not disappear over night.

    In all of the cases, to quote the late Whitney Houston, “I believe the children are our future”. They are the ones who will question the bigots and the uneducated. They are the ones who will demolish those walls, but there are many things we can do in the meantime.

    We all need to do our bit to start removing the bricks from those walls. Portray the image that we want for sex workers, demanding the respect we deserve, call-out the media when they are negatively portraying us. We can make a difference, even if it’s only small because if we aren’t willing to fight for the equality we deserve, who else will.

    “Be the change that you wish to see in the world.” – Mahatma Gandhi

    Sadie – I am a sexy, sensual British SSBBW, UK size 32. I’m an escort, a Webcam model and a Content Creator. I am very down to earth and my clients say I’m very easy to talk to and to open up to. My main escort service is GFE (Girlfriend Experience) as I love kissing, touching and caressing and my clients really enjoy that with me. I am also part of the Rose Talks Sex debate team, which you can follow on Twitter @rosetalkssex .

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    With COVID, all escorting is on hold but I am working very hard to create more content for online and give my subscribers and buyers what they want. I’m looking into setting up my own website although that will take a while. I am also making contact with other sex workers so that we can collaborate on some work once it is safe to meet up after COVID. So watch this space!!

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  • The Stigma Of Sex Work Part I

    The Stigma Of Sex Work Part I

    I am an Escort, a Webcam model and a Content Creator and I love my job. I’ve been escorting for nine years now (on and off) and web-camming for almost two years but it’s the last year that I have really been expanding my business and my ‘brand’.

    I love meeting new people, whether that is in person or via webcam and helping them explore their fantasies. I love interacting with people on webcam and the phone. But more than anything, I love helping those people that need the special interaction that only sex and a sex worker can give them. For those people, it isn’t just about sex; it’s about being intimate and close to someone, which is something they don’t get in their personal lives.

    During the COVID pandemic and lockdown, I have not been able to meet clients, so I have turned my focus to online services; webcam sites and uploading videos and pictures onto selling and subscription sites. I have been very aware that so many people need someone to talk to, especially if they are isolating at home alone and I always greet people who come into my chatrooms on the webcam sites as I want everyone to feel welcome, whether they have money to spend or not; it’s a difficult time for everyone at the moment. So many people have thanked me for talking to them. Those who cannot afford to pay for private shows today, might be able to another day.

    With any job, there are parts of it you don’t enjoy; time wasters are a nuisance and some people feel you are there just to talk to them any time of the day or night without any mention of paying for services. I get phone calls from private numbers a lot which can get very annoying; it’s very disrespectful but over time, you develop ways to handle them.

    There’s more admin than most people realise. We don’t have a team of administrators (I wish I did) so every phone call, text message and email can only be replied to by me, and every promotional poster and social media post is created and uploaded by me. I also have my accounts to produce for my tax returns. I wouldn’t want to do any other job though.

    Stigma That Surrounds Sex Work Today

    There are many people that are completely fine with sex work and find it all really interesting. There are other people that are fine with the online work but isn’t comfortable about the escorting. Unfortunately, the vast majority of people see it as a negative. They think it’s dirty and seedy and can’t understand why someone would sell themselves. They also believe, all people that seek services from sex workers are grubby, middle-aged men that have no regard for you as a person. In my experience, this has not been the case and these assumptions and stereotypes are incorrect.

    Dehumanising sex workers happens too often. Sex workers are made to feel like they don’t matter or that their lives aren’t important due to narrow-mindedness and people’s morals. The media doesn’t help this by only reporting on the very tragic or the very glamourous sex workers. It feels very apparent that the media doesn’t want to normalise the sex industry.

    Simple things, like opening a business bank account has been very difficult for me. I am registered as self employed with HMRC (Her Majesty’s Revenue and Customs) as an Escort. Escorting in the UK is legal. I had four bank account applications turned down. My credit history is very good. I was not asking for an overdraft or a bank loan; just a bank account in my business name so my clients did not know my real name and keeps me and my family safe. Three bank accounts would not explain why my application was declined. The fourth one was honest enough to tell me that “we cannot support someone in your line of work”. In the end, I seeked advice to ensure I couldn’t get in trouble and applied for a bank account as a beautician. My application was accepted within a few days. Since then, I have moved bank accounts and it is stated on their terms and conditions that you cannot receive any money for sex related work. It is a worry but I need a business account.

    Adult content and web-camming sites have shocked me, as the vast majority of them are very anti-escorting. It is fine for you to sell pornographic material or sell private webcam shows but if they find out you are an escort they can delete your page without warning and in most cases, keep the money you have earned. I didn’t realise how split the adult industry was; some aspects of it is okay yet other aspects aren’t.

    Even in my personal life, stigma is everywhere. My parents don’t want anyone to know what I do because they are embarrassed. They support me the best they can but they would rather I had a “normal” job. My family lie to my grandparents, uncle’s and auntie’s, and in turn, so do I.

    It is the negative connotations and stigma surrounding the job I love, that stops me from shouting from the rooftops that “I’m a sex worker and proud of it”!! This is a career I have chosen but I know my children would have a difficult time through bullying or name calling if locals knew and I don’t want that for them.

    The media love to portray the extreme cases, either the tragedy or the glamorous but there are people like me that sit nicely in the middle that are just as important in this industry. It is only by showing the full spectrum, can people start to understand what our work is like, and hopefully walls can start to be broken down. I can’t help but feel like the media doesn’t want to ‘normalise’ sex work.

    Sadie – I am a sexy, sensual British SSBBW, UK size 32. I’m an escort, a Webcam model and a Content Creator. I am very down to earth and my clients say I’m very easy to talk to and to open up to. My main escort service is GFE (Girlfriend Experience) as I love kissing, touching and caressing and my clients really enjoy that with me. I am also part of the Rose Talks Sex debate team, which you can follow on Twitter @rosetalkssex .

    Follow Sadie on

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    Fan Baits: fanbaits.com/u/sadiessbbw

    Only Fans: onlyfans.com/sadie-ssbbw

    Everything else can be found on All My Links: allmylinks.com/sadiessbbw

    With COVID, all escorting is on hold but I am working very hard to create more content for online and give my subscribers and buyers what they want. I’m looking into setting up my own website although that will take a while. I am also making contact with other sex workers so that we can collaborate on some work once it is safe to meet up after COVID. So watch this space!!

    Images courtesy of Sadie

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  • Why You Should Enjoy Greece With A Companion

    Why You Should Enjoy Greece With A Companion

    My personal views of companionship is that it’s a real job that is not only about sex as most people have in mind. Most of the companions are independent women who do everything by themselves, and have degrees. Being a companionship is not about just sex but conversation and emotional bonding.

    Meanwhile, you have to take care of and run your website, do advertising, photoshoots and all the PR and marketing of your business by your own. For sure it needs more than just a “nice” body to be successful.

    What My Personality Is Like

    My personality, I would describe it as bubbly, laid back, with me being passionate for all the things I love. And also having a big sense of humor .

    The Best Duration & Time To Enjoy Greece With Me

    Most of the people think that the best duration and time to visit Greece is in summer because of the Greek Islands like Mykonos that you can party or relax in a private villa and visit all the nice beaches and Michelin restaurants.

    Also, Athens is a wonderful destination for both summer and winter, giving so many options for someone that wants to explore it with a sexy companion by his side.

    Common Requests I Receive & My Specialty As A Companion

    Common requests are dinner dates or overnights from men that want to spend quality time. Also FMTY (fly me to you) in their business trips or just for a mini vacation.

    My specialty is the GFE (girlfriend experience) as it can transform effortlessly from the fun girl next door to the dressed-to-kill stunner in your arm with an appreciation for champagne and a Michelin dinner, as the occasion may require.

    Etiquette & Rules To Follow During Our Time Together

    My etiquette is that I require good hygiene, respect my boundaries and never make me uncomfortable or feeling disrespectful. And also, I don’t support reviews as I believe that anything that happens between me and my client is strictly private.

    Leslie Laurent – Your Greek muse. Elegant, luxurious, bright, steadfast, and loving.

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  • How Should Men Behave On Dates?

    How Should Men Behave On Dates?

    Dating is my favorite activity if I’m being honest. I say this because a date can be anything; something as mundane as dinner and a movie, or as exciting as jet skis and Mai Tais. But in my professional life, it’s part of the gig, and my clients usually choose to get to know me over dinner first. I believe the creativity that can be put into a date is what makes them so exciting.

    Is It A Misconception That Women Have Higher Expectations Of Dates Than Men?

    I absolutely think it’s a misconception! Everyone wants a date to turn out well. Good conversation, a fun activity and a nice story to tell your friends after is something all genders look forward to. I sometimes believe *civilian men expect sex with as little effort as possible, that seems to me the only expectation that many women don’t share in my experience.

    Dating Turn Offs For Me

    I love the opportunity to show out, get dressed up, and put my best foot forward. In return, I expect the same. Often, civilian men fall short of this. Like the idea that men can throw on a t-shirt and jeans for a date while a woman gets plucked, primmed and prettied. NOT ON MY WATCH.

    That’s why I love my clients, they always show up and show out. Effort is sexy, you don’t need a $900 suit on. I just need to know you care about how good we look standing next to each other. I once was taken to an expensive restaurant in a beautiful dress while my civilian date had on cargo shorts, a jersey and knee high socks. I was so embarrassed!

    Do First Impressions Matter?

    Yes! But I think a second impression matters more. I get first impressions in 30 seconds. But I think second impressions come later after actually listening to the person, getting past any misconceptions or assumptions I made from the first 30 seconds. For instance, a man can be a great date and polite to me. That’s a wonderful first impression, but if he’s disrespectful to wait-staff, that leaves a bad taste in my mouth. Second impressions matter more.

    Signs I’m Enjoying Myself On A Date

    I’m engaged when I’m enjoying myself, I’m nodding emphatically, I’m smiling, and I’m complimenting him. There will be small hand touches or rubbing my foot up the side of his leg if I’m really enjoying myself. I’m a polite woman so I don’t often show when I’m bored but typically, I avoid making eye contact and focus on my drink more than my date.

    Don’t judge me, but I’ve taken my phone out before, usually to text my friend to save me. A date would have to be terrible for that to happen though, and not just boring.

    Who Should Set Up A Second Date?

    The man should do it, no questions asked. If you enjoyed yourself, there’s nothing wrong with saying so once you both arrived home. A second date should be set up within three days.

    Angelique Graye is a courtesan, activist, and Outreach Coodinator for SWOP Behind Bars. She is based in Tampa, FL but travels frequently to Orlando. She’s currently fighting for decrim and to repeal bath law ordinances in her city. She loves good drinks, exciting experiences, and spending her time in the ocean; it is why she is frequently referred to as a siren.

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