Since I have become a sex worker, I have come to understand sex as a genuine means of expression. A craft if you will, that improves and expands, and makes everybody unique. It can be used to express emotion: love, happiness… It can even serve as a refuge for sadness.
My Understanding Of Sex Work Before Going Into It
I have always been curious about it, because I was aware of the power of female sexuality.
I was especially enticed after reading the book King Kong Theorie by Virginie Despentes, who used to be a sex worker herself, and who was at the time the partner of Queer philosopher Beatriz Preciado. Thanks to these authors, I began to see sex work as a means of female empowerment, as it was related to sex-positive feminism.
Why I Love Sex Work
I got initiated to sex work by sugaring. I like the thrill, the ability to meet people I would otherwise never meet, and of course the financial freedom it provides.
Misconceptions About Sex Work
I think a lot of people think sex workers are shallow and materialistic. There are shallow and materialistic people everywhere. But some of the escorts I know are amongst some of the most intelligent, cultivated and creative people I have met.
What Is The Sex Work Industry Like?
This is a really broad question. There are many branches of sex work: high end escorting, escorting, camming, sugaring, BDSM… Then inside those categories, there are the individuals that make each business (the business being: the person) unique in it’s own way. It’s an industry where you are allowed and encouraged to use your creativity.
Advice To Aspiring Sex Workers
I think it’s important to consume as much material as you can on the subjects. As an escort, I consume books, YouTube videos and podcasts about escorting. This is to know about the craft, but also in order to feel like I belong somewhere and what I do is legitimate work. It’s very easy to feel alone in this business or to feel that you are doing something “wrong”, if you don’t have the right support system.
Lia Lazuli – An international high-class companion based in Brussels. Lia speaks 5 languages and loves reading, jogging and hiking. Her clients are mostly classy gentlemen, who are also up for a good laugh and of course, a nice conversation.
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