Category: Sex Ed

Tips To Give Her The Best Orgasm Ever

I used to be so repressed when it came to sex. I really craved it all the time, but thought that it was shameful and hid it. Women weren’t supposed to be sex-crazed. Well, I decided that was bullshit. There is nothing wrong with being comfortable with your sexuality. Sex doesn’t have to be romantic (though romantic can be fun!), nor does it have to be serious, nor does it even need to be meaningful. It’s just something most of us enjoy, and there is no shame in that.

Photo: Dolly Leigh

Unsatisfying Sex

I feel like when someone makes it only about themselves, it’s going to be unsatisfying. And yeah, I’ve had that happen. I’ve also had sex where my partner came way too fast–or instantly, in one case. But those experiences weren’t always unsatisfying. There are other ways to satisfy me than simple PIV sex, so even if that ended early, there’s always fingering and oral!

Common Mistakes Guys Make?

Not enough foreplay! Getting hard and just wanting to pop it in without any warm up is just… unpleasant. I mean, it doesn’t always feel bad, but it’s going to be a lot hotter if you grab her, rub her clit, and slide some fingers in beforehand (and maybe some choking, slapping, and dirty talking in her ear).

Fingering is also where guys mess up! If she’s not wet yet when you’re trying to rub her, spit on your fingers (or get her spit on them). Pay attention to how her body reacts. If she’s not feeling it, change what you’re doing, and be gentle with the clit at first! What I think is super hot is not going for her pussy right away. Move your hands lower and lower while you kiss on her. Let your fingers trace her inner thighs. Build up the anticipation! Rub the outside of the panties first (if she has them on). It’s a bit gentler on the skin honestly, and it makes her crave more. See if you can soak her panties this way! Finally, when you’re ready, start exploring under the panties and slip inside her.

Make Me Orgasm Through Oral Sex!

If a guy is going to go down on me, I want to be excited. If there’s been no build up, it just feels uncomfortable (especially when it’s dry). There are a few things that can get me excited (it varies depending on the person, so keep that in mind). Be forceful with me! Grab me from behind, slap my face, choke me, grope me, rub my pussy. Pick me up and throw me on the bed, the couch, or set me atop a counter (my favorite). Push my legs apart, kiss and nibble on the insides of my thighs, and then you can go for it. Build up is everything!

When it comes to the actual oral itself, you want to start off slowly and gently. Don’t go full blast from the beginning. Slow licks encircling the clit, some gentle flicks. A few sucks here and there. You can go heavier when excitement starts to build up. And then insert a finger or two (more later) and make a pulling motion with it, a “come hither” if you will. Alternate between licking/sucking the clit and rubbing it with your thumb. See the reactions, keep doing what feels good but change it up a bit, too. Switch between a few things with good reactions. It might take awhile, so don’t put on pressure to cum.

It’s not gonna happen if you seem to be bored/annoyed at how long it’s taking. If you expect your dick sucked for however long, you can eat pussy that long, too. Also keep in mind, orgasming isn’t always the goal. It can be a great time without an orgasm. Obviously orgasms are great, but if it doesn’t happen, don’t take it as a blow to your ego.

There’s Always Orgasms From Sex…

Orgasms aren’t going to happen if you’re lying there like a limp fish grunting, sorry. How to do cowgirl right: the work isn’t all on her. Grip her hips, bounce her on you. Smack her ass, tell her how hot she looks riding you. When you’re ready, pick her up, put her in whatever position you’re craving.

One I really love is when the guy stands carrying the woman with her legs wrapped around him, his hands on her butt bouncing her on his dick. Honestly it feels amazing, but I know it takes a lot of strength and stamina so don’t feel bad if you can’t manage it! It might be easier if you pin her against the wall while you do this (which is hot in of itself).

Obviously doggy is great if she’s into it, and I think it’s pretty hard to screw up. I think it’s generally a safe bet, but ONLY doing it can be pretty boring, and sometimes it’s hard to look back and I think eye contact makes things a little more intense.

Want to know what I think is hot? Fucking her against the counter in the bathroom where the both of you can see your reflections. I’ve only done this once, actually, but it was an experience I will NEVER forget. Seriously, go for it! Just don’t feel like you have to limit yourself to pre-set positions. Try new things out!

Changing up the scenery is really fun, I think. If all you’re ever doing with your girl is fucking her on the bed, sorry, it’s going to get old. Counters, tables, bouncing her on your lap while you sit on the couch, even the floor! Shower sex can be hot if you’re VERY careful. Get one of those shower handles (or two) so you can both grip on and reduce the possibility of falls. If you can find a secluded spot, fuck outside.

Ask her what her fantasies are, tell her what yours are. What one person might be into can be so different from someone else. Talk about it beforehand. Discuss limits, ESPECIALLY if you’re doing anything kinky. Talk about it during sex itself, let her know you love hearing how she likes it and what she wants to do next. Always pay attention to facial reactions. If she doesn’t like something, chances are her face will show it. Whisper filthy things in her ear. Some women won’t like it. Again, pay attention to her facial reactions! Other women will tremble with desire from it. Really, the number one sex tip is communication! And if you cum before her, that’s fine! Ask her if she’d like it if you fingered her or went down on her. I dated a guy who didn’t last all that long, honestly, but he could still get me off and I really appreciated it. If she doesn’t want it, that’s fine, too. If she really can’t cum from penetration, rub her pussy while you fuck her or let her use a vibe. Even if she can cum from penetration, these things still feel nice.

In summary, change it up! Put effort in! And always, ALWAYS, remember that communication is key.

I’m Dolly, and I’m a cam-girl turned porn princess living in Bay Area who’s particularly into power-exchange as a sub-leaning switch exhibitionist (sorry for the mouth-full). In my free time I like to game, read, and eat–both food and women. I frequently model for fetishpros.com.

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February 24, 2016
Period Sex: Are You a Blood Hound?

I like to have sex with my girlfriend during her period, but have yet to let her know about this fantasy of mine. Does it make me weird and is it a fetish?

If you do a search online for “blood hounds” you might stumble upon different articles and forums discussing the experience of receiving sexual pleasure from having sex with a partner who is on their period. There are apparently whole groups of (mostly) men who enjoy this experience or even specifically “seek out” women who are on their periods to have sex with them.

So you ask “does it make me weird?” and I would say “yeah, maybe!” but only because this is not considered in our current society to be a totally generic, “normal” turn-on, which essentially makes it a fetish. That being said, there are apparently many other weirdos out there enjoying this fetish as we speak!

A side note to this conversation is the issue of safety since, when blood is involved, risk for disease transmission increases greatly. So, make sure you have both been tested, are knowledgeable of each other’s health status, and acknowledge the risk of genital, skin, and mouth contact with blood and the possibility of ingesting blood if oral sex is involved.

If you want to talk about this particular fetish with your girlfriend (which I think you should), I would approach it by asking her if she is comfortable having sex while she is menstruating. Find out where her comfort lies first and then tailor your conversation towards acknowledging your interest and your desire.

You can make a judgement about how you want to frame it – telling her you are “turned on” by having sex with her while she is on her period may sound more comfortable then saying you have “a fetish.” Once consent has been established and risks have been acknowledged, enjoy!

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Elizabeth is a Clinical Psychologist and psychotherapist in Washington State. She provides therapy and consultation to individuals and couples and is working to become an AASECT-certified Sex Therapist. Her primary interests are romantic and sexual relationships, sexual empowerment and education, the dynamics of communication, and reducing stigma around issues of sexuality and mental health. Get in touch with Elizabeth via email at drelizabethwatt@gmail.com.

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February 23, 2016
Kink Up Your Sex Life
I’m a bit of a masochist and definitely submissive. But, I’m a strong submissive, so I’m attracted to soft dominant types and they compliment me the best when it comes to a relationship. A soft dominant would be a man (or woman) who enjoys inflicting pain and asserting their dominance in bed, but are generally gentle and kind as people outside of the bedroom. A strong submissive would enjoy enduring a dominant’s desires, but generally has a more assertive personality in all other matters. You get the idea.

I don’t consider too many things that I do as kinky, because for me, it’s just normal. I once heard someone say that ‘swallowing’ was a kink, but for me that was always just natural for me do to. I’ve tried anal a couple times. As it is, I’m not a huge fan, though obviously I couldn’t have thought so bad of it or I wouldn’t have tried it more than once. I really like having risky sex such as giving head on the road and doing a quickie outdoors. I have an assortment of fetishes. Some, as mentioned, are related to BDSM and others are not.

What I Like A Guy To Do During Sex

There are times I like it when he is dedicated to trying to get me off first, and others when we both know that he needs to get his rocks off. It depends on the chemistry between us. When the sex is meant to meet my needs first, I like when he dirty talks to me and changes position until he can see (or hear) which one feels the best. The important thing about that is to stay there, unless my climax is purposely being denied. Then that’s hot. I love when he teases me with his hard-on by pressing it against me or slapping me in the face with it, and forcing me to take his length when I go down on him until I gag a bit. Having my clit tended to by him pressing or rubbing it while he pounds me is bomb. But, more than that, I love to start out by flirting and taking intuitive myself. Putting myself on top is also a sure way to make it fun for me when I’m in that sort of mood. That way, I get the best view of his sex faces. Sex faces that arise despite his best intention to control himself. There is something amazing about that.

When it comes to the more primal sex on his part, (the sex where his needs are met first) I love to be bent over spontaneously on some piece of furniture – a counter, a chair arm, a dresser, then let him go at it until he’s done. Sometimes this isn’t the best option, except I can’t help but loving the idea of a guy taking his frustration out on me in that way.

Tips To Kink Up Your Sex Life
1. I would suggest exchanging any fetishes you may have. Think of ways they can be incorporated.
1. Watch some porn for inspiration.
1. Try to push your boundaries in order to make your fantasies real.
1. Remember to bring it up with your partner before you take initiative.
1. Don’t be too disappointed if your attempts don’t work out the way you wanted them to. After all, we all start out awkward in most things.
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February 22, 2016
Get your Sexual desire back

I lost my virginity at a young age and it wasn’t as fun as I thought, and didn’t like the experience. Since then, I’ve had no interest in sex even when in relationships and it has been almost 8 years since my first time. Will I ever feel the want to have sex again?

You certainly can reclaim your desire and erotic joy in the wake of this difficult experience. But you are not likely to just spontaneously feel a desire to have sex again without consciously working on it.

When the nervous system is impacted by trauma, it will often shut down the arousal system to manage distressing effects. The good news is that the nervous system is always growing and changing in response to life experiences, so if you can start to provide your body with some safe, slow, joyful awakening touch, your desire can start to come alive again.

Go slowly, stay attuned to the needs of your body and spirit, and practice with yourself. It is so joyful to welcome erotic energy into our bodies and our lives, and know there is nothing you need to do with it and no one you need to share it with until you choose and you feel ready. If and when you want to explore erotic pleasure with another person, choose a safe and trusted person who will listen to you and guide you to listen to yourself.

Remember you can stop at any time during an erotic encounter. The most important thing is that you feel you can choose, at every step along the way. Your nervous system will only be able to develop a capacity to feel erotically alive again in an environment of safety and ongoing choice.

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February 20, 2016
First Time Masturbation Mistakes Females Make

Masturbation is amazing. Not only is it fun, but it’s therapeutic and healthy for you. It lifts your mood and calms anxiety, not to mention it just feels fucking amazing. I think everyone should masturbate as much as possible (and in front of hundreds of online strangers, if you’re me)

My First Masturbation Experience

I do, actually – like it was yesterday. I was 11 years old. We had this ugly as sin love seat and I used to straddle the arm of the love seat. One day I was swaying back and forth and noticed that something felt really good about it … I kept going and that was the first time I came.

After that, I used my fingers to explore every inch of my lady bits. I holed myself up in my room one day and got off 99 times in about 2 hours. I would jill off before soccer games, big tests (yes, at school). I was addicted.

What Makes Me Horny

Making out. Especially with women, but just making out in general – preferably with little to no tongue. I also love interracial porn and if you run your nails along the inside of my thighs, it’s over.

Embarrassing Masturbation Experiences

I mean, I have had people walk in on me or hear me scream really loud when I orgasm, but I wouldn’t say that I’ve had a bad or embarrassing experience. The closest thing I can think of to a “bad” experience would be a toy that I was SUPER hyped for that ended up being really shitty.

First Time Masturbation Mistakes

I know a couple of mistakes I made at first was masturbating too much, not exactly knowing where I was going down there, how to finger myself, etc. and chafing because of so much friction if you end up dry from fapping too much.

SO! My advice is: you have your clit, your pee hole and your vagina. Stick things in your vagina, not your pee hole (until you’re more experienced because yes, that is a thing).

You can never have too much spit. Keep things nice and wet down there if you’re going to town a lot.

Know when to stop fapping! If you rub your clit too much or use a Hitachi too much or really use anything too often on your clit, it will become desensitized. This leads to orgasms taking longer than the second coming of Christ to achieve, if you achieve it at all.

Go To Masturbation Toy

My Hitachi, dear heavens. I always had Hitachi like toys as I was getting into my career, but I never got the ACTUAL brand name Hitachi until about 2 years ago and it changed my everything. I can cum in just a few minutes and the orgasms are way stronger than when I use my hand.

Multiple Orgasms Through Masturbation

Yes, I can. However, I’m a little odd in the fact that I cannot orgasm by penetration alone. My clit has to be stimulated. If I’m extremely horny and have already cum at least once, I can get pretty close with penetration only, but still need an extra push.

There’s not much to my multiple orgasms. I can have between 1 and 3 from a Hitachi orgasm or I can have 1, wait a couple minutes, then begin again and have more. Remember my 99 orgasm marathon?

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February 18, 2016
How Do I Convince My Wife To Try Anal Rimming

I’d like to try and get my partner to consider anal rimming, but how can I convince her and make it sound less terrifying?

Before you ask your partner to consider anything, there are some things for you to consider. There is still quite a bit of taboo surrounding analingus or anal-oral sex, particularly in the heterosexual community. It’s true that anal sex is increasingly seen as a sexual option by heterosexual couples, and has very much made it’s way into mainstream sexuality – the anus is absolutely a sexual organ for everyone. Much of the ‘ickiness’ we get from butt play is socially and culturally ingrained, and some people find this easier to overcome than others.

There are several things you can do to make rimming more appealing to your partner.

Groom your arse:

This is will make things aesthetically ‘less terrifying’, and help keep you clean. I won’t paint a picture of how bad things could be, but people generally prefer not to fight through a stinky arse-bush with only their tongue just to smooch a dirty pucker-hole. The first step to a potential ass-eating is accessibility, so make sure that arse is waxed or shaved.

Consider your hygiene:

Prior to the potential arseplay, be sure to shower, and clean your arsehole with a mild soap. If you’re only engaging in non-penetrative play you can simply use as finger to gently stretch and rinse around and just inside your hole. If you have ideas for penetration, it’s nice to empty your bowels as much as possible prior to play, as this is when the lower colon is at it’s cleanest. Anal douching (enemas) can also be a great tool for cleansing – they’re relatively inexpensive and absolutely add an air of confidence to the cleanliness.

Protected Sex:

Rimming is sex. Unless you are a fluid-bonded couple (one that shares semen, vaginal fluids or blood) it is always best practice to use protection. For analingus, dental dams are the official recommendation of almost every safe-sex advocate, but unlike condoms, dental dams can be difficult to find; they’re also ridiculously overpriced. In a pinch, you can DIY a dental dam two ways: by cutting a length-wise slit in a condom, and opening it out into a rectangle; or cutting out the palm from a disposable latex glove. Disposable gloves are good to have on hand for any anal play – they aid in protection, fun, and easy clean-up.

Start slow:

Rather than asking your partner to actually put her mouth on your arsehole, suggest she use her breath to caress it. Help her out by using your own finger to touch yourself, and show her that YOU’RE not afraid of your own body. Work together on some pleasurable sensations, and let her see your enjoyment. Allow her the time to explore this new experience at her own pace, while enjoying it for what it is.

Let her begin with her lips on your thighs or buttcrack, and try not to be thrusting too eager an arse at her. You will need to be prepared to exercise patience, and even some understanding if things don’t go as you’d like.

Talk:

Listen to her worries and/or fears. Do what you can to address them. Discuss your sensual and sexual desires openly, and find out exactly what she is comfortable with. Ask about her sexual desires, and find out where you mesh. Show her this article.

Do keep in mind everyone has their limits. For some people, analingus will just never be something they want to explore, and finding ways to ‘convince’ them to try it is not advisable. Find opportunities to negotiate – if analingus is a hard limit, perhaps there are other forms of anal play you can both find mutually satisfying.

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February 17, 2016
My First Sexual Experience

The shameless expression of sexuality and the act itself has been, for many places and eras throughout history, deemed as a forbidden fruit. And while admittedly, that can be part of its charm, (like all things that are considered naughty) I truly do love it best when it is an outspoken subject. Even though not everyone can relate to loving sex, or to finding power in it, there’s almost nothing more enlightening to me than “breaking through” the barriers inside myself; the ones that were created by the society in which I grew up in; to find peace and normality in its subject. And with that, to find artistic beauty and euphoria in your own body and in your pleasure, as well as in the body and pleasure of other people. Because after all, not everyone is cut out for reserving their sex life to a shadowy, private bedroom where only one pair of eyes will ever get to see what you have to offer. If that’s your cup of tea, great. But for others, that is like fitting squares into circles.

I would say that I’ve had quite a lot of sex for my age, and have definitely been fortunate with my partners in that department. I look back at my past and present sexual experiences with a vast amount of fascination. The alchemy that I create with my partner is often the marque of the relationship. It’s not the foundation, but it has always been the cherry on top. Sex is awesome. I feel a great deal of empathy for it, especially when it is expressed artistically. It fills your brain with natural chemicals that demand for you to block out the world and concentrate on chasing desire until it surrenders. Or it can just be plain beautiful. You can have a bad relationship, but you can never have bad consensual sex. I – for one – would never want to allow that.

My First Time

It was two months before my sweet sixteen. As the moment ensued, I remember knowing that I was confident and ready. It was not my first opportunity, but it was the one I felt most ready for. It was a relinquishment of sorts, not planned and yet not exactly freely given either. I just knew that I wanted it to happen, very much. Recalling his facial expression upon feeling how narrow my hymen was around him is my favorite part of the whole thing. Yet I almost laugh now thinking about how awkwardly I had performed – in a way that definitely made my inexperience obvious, of course. But I had been looking forward to it, ever since I knew what sex was. One detail in following through with its action I want to mention is that it was intentionally done as a one night stand. I know him somewhat, but there are and never were any strings. The reason for this is because I feared the thought of someone thinking that they owned my heart and my life just because they had popped my cherry. I didn’t want to be thought of as being sexually meek and easily stuck-on, but someone who was confident in themselves. And that if someone wanted a relationship with me, it would be because they wanted me for who I was, not because my sexuality had only belonged to them. That was an important point that I went out of my way to make for myself. It was not a point to be promiscuous all the time, because I never really was. Simply put, it would allow me to seek out something more emotional afterwards without having that fear. It was the right decision for me; not right for everyone.

I remember that it hurt to an extent despite the gentleness, and that it was obvious that I didn’t quite know how to move or please him – at least, no where near pornstar level. My hymen area and inner muscles felt so numb that there were times I wasn’t sure if he was even inside (but don’t get me wrong, his size was considerable). It mostly felt like an enormous amount of pressure which left me breathless and excited. No regrets there, except for one – that I can’t have it happen again!

Then after a parting hug, I immediately experienced a really strange feeling. The anxiety that had been within me was enveloped by a calm atmosphere in the room. I felt powerful and in control. Content. Like there was a giant weight lifted off my shoulders, or a huge amount of knowledge that I had inevitably discovered and was letting settle. It’s difficult to put a finger as to why that happened, but it was mesmerizing.

With Experience And Practice…

This is obvious, but it becomes more and more fun as my skills are honed. Different partners liked different positions, among other things, so with experience I was able to offer a few surprise moves that were pleasantly received. I became more able to make suggestions that my partner might not have ever tried if not for my involvement, such as anal. That is the number one thing that distinguishes myself from how I was then to now. The versatility of the performance, made possible by the knowledge collected from previous experiences.

When it comes to more intimate situations, one would think that I would have it all down and be completely fearless. Sometimes I am, but truth be told with each new partner a bashfulness is reborn – until that person becomes my boyfriend. Or not. I guess it comes with the territory of being more physically inclined than emotionally inclined. My current partner, however, has been able to work some kind of magic on me and has made me much more of an emotional person. This has allowed for a more affectionate kind of sex, with small but powerful bursts of the roughness that I’m used to. So while I have been softened up around the edges, he still makes sure that the sex remains raw and exciting. So even though I thought that I was the one who was going to rock his world and bring him something he never experienced before, maybe the tables got turned on me – and now I am the one who is learning something new.

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February 15, 2016
10 Valentine’s Day Toys To Make Your Heart Race

Whether you’re buying these toys for yourself or for a significant other, these are 15 sexy Valentines’ themed toys for your special night.

1. Edible Body Chocolate

Ok, number one on the list is edible chocolate. Use a separate feather brush to make it more fun. Love notes, hearts, secrets, and hopes on the skin of your significant other. Who knows what possibilities you could get into with this. This is definitely something you can appreciate with someone you want to share chocolate kisses with. How could you say no? Yummm.

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2. His and her play time Massage fun

This is probably more of a female spoiler toy, but no one said that it was meant to be enjoyed by one. Surround yourself in candles, oil, and dice. See where the night will take you with a little bit of chance

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3. Bed Restraints

Take control or be tied and bound to the bed. Give yourself a challenge and surprise yourself. What do you think you would do if the rest of the night were tied up in your hands, or wrapped around your finger…

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4. Heart Shaped Sex Pillow

Probably the most comfortable item on the list. This pillow can become your best friend when and if your normal routine isn’t fitting where it should, if you know what I mean. It helps with trying new things and being propped up at the right spot. This one is really one that you have to own in order to appreciate.

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5. Red hot heart dildo

This one is kind of a given. As long as you’re close and comfortable enough with someone, this is a perfectly awesome gift.

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6. Oral Sex Games

Hot, Hot, Hot. Perfect for valentines. This toy will have anyone excited. Almost like a really naughty version of truth or dare. But fuck it, let’s skip the truth and go straight to the good stuff.

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7. Kama Sutra Weekend Kit

Super sensual and sexy. For everyone and anyone. For the tame nights. For the naughty nights. For rubbing hard or rubbing soft.

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8. Penis shaped pasta

What’s better than pasta dinner made by your significant other? I’ll tell you… Penise pasta made by your significant other! Yummy, funny, awww, and a hint of “OMG you’re so silly”.

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9. Chocolate covered Desserts

Covered candy strawberries. It’s a basic, but it’s the oldest for a reason. It’s cute, delicious, and sweet way to let the other person know that you’re thinking of them. No sex here. Just Valentines sweets.

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10. Sexy Indoor Lights

Last, but not to be considered the least. Listen up! Sex in the dark is a big NO. You don’t have to have all the lights on like you’re getting ready to make a homemade sex tape. Use soft, small, or dark colored lights to give your setting a more romantic and inviting atmosphere. It’s also very subtle. You would be surprised at how many people never take the time to notice what one light can do to a room.

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February 14, 2016
Ball Sucking Tips And Tricks

Well, first things first, I love sex. I love the intimacy, I love the connection you can have with your partner, and most of all I just love the act. Sex is a very powerful thing, and I believe if it is used right, it can help create a wonderful atmosphere and friendship. I do not believe in using sex to get what I want, however. While I love sharing my body with others whether it be on cam or in person, I believe everyone should be some-what selective on their partners and where they have sex to maintain their sexual health, and their mental health.

Men Love To Get Their Balls Sucked

I like comparing that to why women love having their nipples sucked on and their breasts played with – It just feels awesome! It’s a nice addition to what is already happening whether receiving a hand or blowjob. I have noticed some men have extra sensitive balls and love the sensation of a tongue on them. Like for instance if I am getting my nipples sucked on while having sex, I tend to achieve orgasm quicker.

Why I Love Ball Sucking

I freaking love it because balls are a fetish of mine. I find myself searching for ball sucking compilations a lot when I am masturbating. I love sucking on balls because, in all honesty, sometimes it gives my mouth a quick rest from the blowjob I am giving, but I love watching guys squirm when I suck one into my mouth and swirl my tongue all over it. It also helps that I have my tongue pierced I’m sure. 😉 It’s just, nothing feels or looks sexier than balls getting sucked on, period.

What If They Are Too Big?

Well, I have been told repeatedly by my dentist that I have a big mouth, and that’s not in the talking sense. I generally don’t have a problem with getting two big juicy balls into my mouth. But when it does feel like it’s going to be a challenge, I’ll get his sack nice and wet with my saliva, slide one in, and gently, using the saliva as lube, pop the other one into my mouth with my finger. The last thing I want to do is hurt my partner, however, so if it appears I will run into that, I simply just suck on one, then the other.

Favorite Ball Sucking Positions

Either when my partner is laying down and I am on my hands and knees in front of him, or when he’s standing and I am beneath him. I think my personal favorite is when he’s standing, that way his balls are just dangling right over my face waiting for me to take them into my mouth.

Ball Sucking Tips

If you’re not afraid of piercings, get a tongue ring. If you’re not afraid of things vibrating in your mouth, get a vibrating tongue ring. If both of those things scare you, you can still blow him away by doing exactly that. Start with making sure you get him nice and aroused with your mouth, letting the run off spit coat his balls, that way when you go to start rubbing them, there’s already a nice layer of wet wonderfulness there for you to work with. Most men like using some sort of lube when stroking, and I’d like to believe it would be the same with ball play. Going in dry might not be the best idea. Make sure to pay attention to both, equally, and if you can get both in your mouth, perfect. The best results, always play with his cock when you’re sucking on his balls. The more pleasurable sensations you can give him, the better!

Bringing Him To Orgasm

I swallow, every time, unless a guy specifically tells me he loves blowing a load all over a lady’s face. I am a pleaser, I love giving a man his entire fantasy. But out of preference, I choose to swallow only because it creates minimal clean-up of my face, especially if I am wearing make-up and I still have things I gotta do during the day. Plus I feel like that shows the man I am with I appreciate and want what he is giving me. I feel like the girls that close their mouths during the cumshot aren’t as into it as those who open wide with those “you better give me that cum” eyes. And that wide open mouth and intent eyes are just sexier to me, personally.

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February 13, 2016
Make Anal Masturbation Enjoyable

The honest truth about anal is that it is unsanitary and pretty gross even if you prepare beforehand, and it can end up just feeling like you need to go to the bathroom while you’re trying to get a sexy groove going. To be the one taking the anal sex, you have to be more prepared than the one giving it, so you have to be ready and REALLY want to do it.

Start With Anal Masturbation

I would definitely start off with anal masturbation first to get more comfortable with it before doing something so intimate with another person. It’s good to already have an idea with what feels good and what doesn’t so you can better communicate with your partner.

Tips For Anal Solo

I would suggest doing whatever you need to do get aroused first because it will strengthen the desire and urge to try anal masturbation. The best way to try anal is to want to do it and enjoy it when you do!

Move On To Bigger Toys!

To accept bigger toys over time I’d recommend getting a butt plug starter kit and working your way up whenever you feel ready. Being relaxed as possible when inserting a toy is really important. Anal lube is also really important since it will keep you lubricated longer than regular water-based lube.

Watching anal porn while you masturbate can really make anal solo even hotter!

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February 12, 2016