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  • Tips For Great Sex If His Penis Is Huge

    Tips For Great Sex If His Penis Is Huge

    Sex is my passion, I love to experiment a lot of things with a lot of people. My spirit is almost limitless. I’m also an exhibitionist, I love to seduce, I love to be nude and I love to hear, touch, smell and taste…

    This can seem boring but my favorite position is missionary. I love to be able to look the guy in the eyes and also touch his body. It’s also the way I come cause it touches my G-point and sometimes I love to touch my clit at the same time with my fingers or a vibrator.

    What Makes Me Horny

    My week point is my lips, so for me, a great french kiss makes me super horny.  I’m also really visual, I love a body of a man in great shape, muscular and a good cut. I also love the touch of hair on the chest and bear.  Finally, I’m personally a big fan of porn! That turns me on a lot, I watch porn every day!

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    Does Size Matter?

    For me, YES size matters. I love a big big penis. My G-spot is deep so I need a long penis to reach it and to have the ultimate orgasm. I really love to suck, and use my hands, and deepthroating…so a bigger penis is a better candidate for me. Ideally, 9 to 12 inches. Large with big veins.

    Don’t Fear The Huge Penis!

    Cause I was a nurse before being in the porn industry, I learn that the vagina is very extensible, and can adapt itself to different calibers. Maybe the first time can be very tight but after multiples times of fucking with the same caliber, the vagina will be good to afford it without pain… just pleasure. Just remember that it’s made to pass a baby’s head!

    Recommend Sex Positions

    First what I do, sometimes when I know I will be fucked by a big penis, I take my glass dildo and dilate myself by doing round, and back and forth in my pussy.  Then I’m ready for something bigger and avoid fissures.

    I will begin by missionary cause I can control the dick with my hands and it’s also more romantic and a fun position to go slowly…After that, ride that dick!

    I love to be dominate in bed, so if a man takes control, attach me, spank me, choke me, it turns me into a wild mood. And sex is very interesting with me when I feel like that!

     

    One year ago I assisted at the AVN awards as a fan of porn. And during that show I had a dream … to become a Porn Star. I was far from that lol. I was a 32 year old nurse in Montréal, who spoke only French and come from a very catholic family lol. But fortunately, I was a model since I was eighteen and that job gave me the opportunity to travel and meet a lot of people. My perverse spirit needed a new challenge. I wanted to be paid for doing what I love the most in life : SEX. Follow me on Twitter @SavanaStyles, on Instagram @SavanaStyles, on Email savanastyles@hotmail.com and I have a new website launching soon SavanaStyles.com

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  • My Partner Fantasizes About My Friends And Colleagues

    My Partner Fantasizes About My Friends And Colleagues

    My partner recently shared his sex fantasy with me, and that he fantasizes of people such as my friends, colleagues and strangers on Facebook. I will have felt less stressed if he fantasized about porn stars or actresses but this freaks me out and I wish I hadn’t asked. Do I need to address this with him or not talk about it again?

    How frustrating it must be to have asked and wish you didn’t! Alas that is the minefield of really getting to know someone you love.

    Fantasy life is as varied as people are different. Some people never fantasize (what’s the point?), some people only reminisce about past experiences in fantasy, some people revisit the same fantasies over and over, and other people thrive on fantasies being novel and numerous.

    That your partner fantasizes about friends and colleagues and Facebook strangers is neither unusual or a cause for concern. My interest is in addressing what makes you feel freaked out. Do you worry that he might act on it? Do you feel repulsed by imagining him having sex with them? If so, take a deep breath and remember that neither of those things are true. (And if they ever happen, you can freak out about it then).

    If the upset you feel is not dissipating, I’d suggest talking to him about it. But be clear that this is about you, not him. Go to him for support, not as an appeal for him to change or feel badly. Which means beginning the conversation like you would if you saw a kid with a puppy and felt sad for the puppy you never had as a kid. Nothing is wrong – not the kid, not the puppy, not even your sadness. You would just like some love for being freaked out, and perhaps some reassurance (that he’s not after your best friend or hooking up on Facebook).

    And, since this is about you and not about him, you can also get support from friends. If you don’t want to put them or your partner on the spot, you can just start by talking about your curiosity about sexual fantasies in general. If you have friends who can be very honest with you, I think you might feel soothed by hearing how common it is to fantasize about all kinds of people.

    And certainly, you can put this all behind you and not mention it again. But the bonus of talking to any loved one about this is that you let them know you – about the quirky ways you are stressed out, about your worries and your vulnerabilities. It’s a chance to deepen your relationships, and an opportunity to ease sexual anxieties (which everyone has).

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    Karen B. K. Chan is a sex educator, emotional literacy trainer, and speaker in Toronto, Canada. Above all, she’s dedicated to widening the definitions of what’s erotic, cultivating ease and acceptance, and proving that emotional literacy, play, and honesty are sexy. Read the rest of her profile below!

     

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  • Best Sex Position For Clitoral Stimulation

    Best Sex Position For Clitoral Stimulation

    My wife loves me to rub her clit during vaginal sex, but the angle is quite awkward for my hand and it is difficult to coordinate all the movements simultaneously. Are there are suggestions or best sex positions to do this?

    Rear entry sexual intercourse can provide excellent access to the clitoris for both of you. Both partners can easily access the clitoris in this position so I encourage you and your wife to take turns stimulating her clitoris. And to take your sexual pleasure to another whole level, consider investing in the Eva sex toy which allows hands-free stimulation of the clitoris. Here is the description of this state of the art gadget:

    “Pioneering hands-free, USB powered stimulation, Eva is a strap-free couple’s vibrator designed to be worn during intercourse to add sweet external sensations. Eva’s wings sit under either side of the labia for non-intrusive yet secure positioning.”

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    Veronica Monet, ACS, CAM is a Relationship Coach, Certified Sexologist and Anger Management Specialist. You can schedule your session via Skype or telephone by emailing her at Veronica@TheShameFreeZone.com. Visit her website at www.TheShameFreeZone.com.

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  • Tips to Prolong Orgasms

    Tips to Prolong Orgasms

    Do you have tips or ways for me to prolong or delay my orgasm during sex?

    Sure, prolonging and delaying orgasm is easy and it’s such a shame that so many men struggle with the problem of unintentional ejaculation.

    Begin by learning to explore and savour low levels of arousal. Imagine a number scale of zero to eleven, zero representing no arousal and eleven representing ejaculation. How familiar are you with the joys of each number along the way?

    Explore the lower levels of arousal when self-pleasuring first, then with a partner. Learn the joys of soft-penis pleasure, before and after ejaculation. You will have more fun and feel more relaxed in sexual encounters, and also you will sensitize yourself to the whole trajectory of arousal and gain orgasmic mastery.

    You can use your breath and imagination to circulate erotic energy through your whole body. Breathe slowly, relax your muscles and imagine the circulation of energy from your groin through your torso, neck, head, arms and limbs.

    Do this when your sexual energy is cool, in the 1-4 range, and then practice when its medium and hot.

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    Caffyn Jesse is a widely-respected teacher of sexuality. She teaches the Canadian Professional Somatic Sex Educator Training with Dr. Liam Snowdon. She offers a Certificate in Intimacy Education training to advanced students. Read her profile below!

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  • Spice Up Masturbation With Toys

    Spice Up Masturbation With Toys

    If I could summarize my personal belief on sex and masturbation in one word, it would be – healthy. It’s healthy to practice self love and spoiling your own body with pleasure. It’s a way of connecting to ones’ self, and it feels damn good! Sex is a bit trickier. As humans, we ruin a lot of things with irrelevant emotions (not all emotion), and/or ego. Sex is a beautiful celebration of two bodies connecting. Whether it be for eternity, or just for the night. Enjoy sex, but BE SAFE!!

    My First Masturbation

    The first time I really remember the sensation of an orgasm or “edging”, I was 7 years old. I have earlier recollections of touching myself, but cannot recall the feeling vividly. It felt sweet. That’s how I describe it to this day. It was the sweetest tasting sensation.

    What Makes Me Horny

    I get turned on by different things, some of which aren’t even sexual. Take food play in sex for instance: licking whipped cream off of your partners body, trailing chocolate sauce over them just so your tongue can slowly follow the contours. You’re involving other senses. So anything that stimulates me in a way that feels more intense, I can become sexually aroused. I hope this made sense.

    First Sex Toy Experience

    I was 20 years old when I bought my first sexy toy. I went to Spencer’s Gifts with my boyfriend [at the time] and purchased a neon pink bullet vibrator to make our play time more intense. I couldn’t wait to get home to try it out, so once we were in the car, I slid my panties off and teased myself in the passenger seat the entire way home. Suffice it to say, my boyfriend was fighting the urge to ravage me right then and there. This changed my sex life forever. I don’t always use toys during sex or masturbation, but it’s always a nice option to really enhance the sexual experience.

    Toys Are Amazing

    Fingers are nice, but sometimes you want more. That’s why toys are such an amazing addition. Sometimes I want to be mildly stimulated just to tease myself, so I’ll go with my fingers and a bullet vibrator. Other times, I crave penetration and I’ll reach for a dildo. My favorite is the Icicles No.2 Hand Blown Glass Massager.

    How To Get That Orgasm!

    There are times I find it difficult to achieve orgasm during masturbation and sex. Honestly as women, a lot of our ability to orgasm is mental. We have to be clear minded and really in the moment. I masturbate when I feel most comfortable and calm. I take my time to explore and tease myself. It’s also important to share a bit of foreplay with your partner before diving into bed.

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  • What I Want In A Penis

    What I Want In A Penis

    Sex is great. Sex is amazing. In my opinion sex is where two people come together as equals to enjoy and please each other, teach each other how to love each others bodies. Sex is just one of the many things that is essential for the survival of the human race.

    Men That Turn Me On

    A man that is confident, has nice arms, and tattoos are a plus if I may be completely honest, and dominant men are a plus too. I like a man who can put me in my place and that’s really hard to find being a Dom myself. I’m into rugged men who also have their shit together, a badboy if you will, but without all that immature bullshit.

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    My Ideal Penis

    I’d prefer at least 6″ inches, nice and girthy. I like a nice thick dick preferably curved. Hits the G spot every damn time!

    Circumcised or Uncircumcised?

    I have experienced both and I gotta say I don’t mind either, but I do prefer him circumcised because its cleaner; less bacteria if you’ve done your research.

    Should He Shave?

    Not too hairy. I like it trimmed, but not completely shaved cause then it just looks like a shaved cat haha.

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    My Favorite Sex Position

    Doggy style. Hits the spot every time, and the position itself is a huge turn on for me cause I feel so helpless and I’m into that sort of thing.

    I’m Mistress Jackie Virus, former cam girl, current Freelance Dominatrix. Born and raised in San Diego, CA. My hometown by the sea is Imperial Beach, CA. I’m just a small town girl that likes to whip men for a living!

    I do offer RT sessions at the expense of the sub/slave. Usually they travel to me, get a hotel, and we hold our sessions in the hotel room. Depending of the session request is how I calculate the sessions worth.

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  • 3 Ways To Sex Things Up!

    3 Ways To Sex Things Up!

    My personal thoughts about sex is that sex is and should always be a pleasurable experience and should always be an open-minded experience.

    Sex On And Off Camera

    Sex on camera is very excitable, there is a rush of energy knowing others are watching through pure pleasure. Off camera sex is more private, like a slow passionate romance.

    Tips For Deeper Penetration

    Reverse cowgirl: The reason why this is so enjoyable is because I love when a woman can switch up a slow grind while I hold her from behind and she moans with passion.

    Make Standing Sex Kinky

    Role play. Improve a scenario and just go into it. Kiss her slowly, undress her and take her imagination to a place she never expected. Let it be an unexpected experience.

    Make Missionary wilder

    Reverse flipping and roleplay. Be open minded and try new pleasures to keep it exciting. Experience each others fetishes and let every experience be a memory.

    Love Her On Top

    One takes charge with an optimistic mind. Grinding, moaning, squirting all over till I’m covered in her love. I can feel her passion and desire.

    My name is Todd Jones and I have been in the adult industry for 7 years. In my experience, I have enjoyed every aspect of the industry and would love to hear back from my fans and answer any questions you have. Follow me on Twitter @toddjonesxxx

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  • Kinky Ways To Masturbate

    Kinky Ways To Masturbate

    I’ve always been a free love type personality. I feel it’s healthy and natural to want to be with many people even at the same time. I also feel masturbation is necessary to know what you like. I don’t think other people can make you orgasm if you don’t know how to make yourself orgasm.

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    My First Time Masturbating

    I started masturbating stupid young. I was in middle school. I think it was the 8th grade. At first I wasn’t sure what I was doing. I remember laying down in bed and having a tightening sensation and feeling tingly. I remember putting my hand in my panties and exploring. At first just out of boredom, not knowing I was masturbating. When I first touched my clit with my finger I was shocked at the vibration it made my pussy feel. My body jumped, I felt my toes go numb instantly.

    I was so confused, I didn’t think i was doing anything wrong cause it made me feel so good. I was so fascinated with one tap to my clip… that I tapped again. Then I started tapping faster, and faster. I don’t think I made myself cum, because I was so young and inexperienced. After that I couldn’t keep my hands out of my panties and I found many interesting ways to touch myself, or use something I could find in the house.

    With Or Without Sex Toys?

    I like this question, very much. I feel like toys or hands call for different occasions. Touching yourself is intimate within yourself. Toys are more of a busting feeling. Kinda like when someone else touches you. The hands are soft and sensitive. There has to be a want… a need. When you use your hands, you’re using the only tools you have. Take your time and have a yearning for your fantasy, want it so badly that you’re fingers take over control.

    Sex toys are for busting. When you’re just feeling dirty and want something foreign to do all the work. I’ve masturbated with many household items and with store bought sex toys. When you use a vibrator or dildo you want to fuck yourself and you want to cum hard and cum now. If I have to choose I would say sex toys , though the mind is powerful.

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    Places At Home To Masturbate

    This one is easy, the shower! I love masturbating in the shower. There’s always two things I do in the shower. One, that’s Snapchat, or two is to use the water to help myself cum. I like using shower heads, I put it on low. Sometimes I lay down, I sit, or stand. The sounds of the water helps me block out any other sounds. The water makes me clean and dirty at the same time.

    Recommended Outdoor Locations

    The first place that comes to mind is the jacuzzi. If those water pumps are in the right position it makes your pussy feel amazing. You can pull back to give yourself more of a massage feeling and push in harder when you want to come. When you want to push forward to hit your clit harder you can feel the water pumps push you away, so you have to work. At the same time it’s so calming and relaxing because you’re in the jacuzzi. Definitely a masturbation act that would put you to sleep.

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    Why Every Lady Should Masturbate!

    Loving yourself can be very therapeutic and beneficial. Learning to let go inside can improve your physical life. If there is a day when you don’t feel loved, you feel lonely, or you’re having a problem and can’t self indulge I would stop for a second. You could try and grab a fantasy novel, read an erotic short story on the internet, or lay on the couch and just fantasize about something you want or someone you need. Let yourself dream. If you can, try and take yourself to a different world and indulge in a fantasy. After you try that, then rest will come naturally.

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  • Satisfy Her And Kink Up Your Sex Life!

    Satisfy Her And Kink Up Your Sex Life!

    I think sex is great – surprise! I’ve always been interested in sex, and most of what I know about sex I taught myself. I was raised in a Christian home, so kinks and sex were mostly undiscussed other than me being told to stay away from both. My parents are also doctors, so sex has always been approached as very medical and sterile, as opposed to messy and exploratory. Once I became confident with who I am, generally and sexually, I’ve been able to explore and find out what I like. Sex is normal to me now, be it kinky or vanilla. It’s part of life, full of experiences to be had.

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    My First Sex Experience

    It was about two months before my fifteenth birthday: I snuck my boyfriend of a year or so into my room for the third time or something. We were naked and I was curious as hell, so I suggested having sex, because why not? We fumbled through multiple positions for a little while and he pulled out since we didn’t have a condom. The only thing I regret was not using a condom. That was a dumb young thing to do, even though nothing bad happened.

    How My Sex Life Has Changed

    I’ve become a lot more confident because I’ve learned so much. With enough lube, determination, and confidence, you can handle basically anything you encounter in your sex life. I’ve made a fair share of mistakes, and I’m young so I know I have a lot more to make. The most important thing I found out is that you learn from experience and communication with sex. Every partner is different, and hands-on is going to be a lot different than reading sex tips or watching porn.

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    What I Love A Guy To Do During Sex

    Take his time. A sensation’s usefulness is doubled if you build up anticipation. That way, my brain can get all dizzy and excited for a spanking, and the spanking is amplified because it was built up so much mentally. I’m bi, so this goes for women as well! I also love when my partner takes his time to touch across my whole body, not just where you’d expect. Involving your whole body in sex is super satisfying. A nice balance of touch, rough and soft, across my body is my favorite (sex) indulgence.

    Kinky Sex?

    Hell yeah! I recently met @sugarhixcup and they introduced me to a few things I wanted to try, specifically gags. When they left, I bought myself a gag! I like rough sex, choking, spitting, bondage, slapping, force-play, dirty talking, drooling, spanking, some rare DD/lg, and I just bought myself a collar that I love. And then of course there are things I still want to try like waterboarding, an MMF threesome, a gangbang. There’s always something new!

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    Tips To Kink It Up!

    I think the best advice is to try as much as you can, slowly and safely. Always be sure you have enthusiastic consent from all participants! A safe word is a great way to make sure everyone’s comfortable with the situation (mine is “red”). Personally, I think buttplugs, handcuffs, and blindfolds are great places to start. They all provide a new sensation without overwhelming the senses. Start small, and when you find something you like, dive into it. I can’t stress the importance of research here enough.

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  • Quick Tips To Give Her Great Oral Sex

    Quick Tips To Give Her Great Oral Sex

    I used to think that sex is definitely an act to be done with attractive people. But my new fantasy is having sex with several people, both females and males and enjoy the pleasure and shout together instead of focusing on beauty. I want to experience it in a dark room with a red sofa and a bed covered with red silk sheets. The color red turns me on a lot. So do heels, jewelry and men in suits. The contradiction in elegant wear and a kinky action is what makes it so attractive to me. And a dark setting covered with red furniture is making it feel like a dream in Wonderland. Darkness makes me forget about everything and live the moment, while red reminds me of pleasure. I’m a total fantasy person.

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    My First Time Receiving Oral

    It was tickling. Sticky saliva didn’t feel as pleasurable at that moment because I was thinking of how weird the feeling was.

    My Favorite Position

    69. In this way I can give him one, too. It’s nice to have both of us moaning of pleasure.

    Is Experience Crucial?

    I always liked older men so I’m into wisdom in all meanings. That’s what it takes to be a man.

    Worst Oral Sex Experience

    Using teeth or hurting me with his beard.

    Tips For Guys To Follow

    Stretch the skin upwards, then move his head up and down fast on my clit smoothly. The tongue must not be inside, but touching it slightly.

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