Category: Sex Ed

3 Favorite Sex Positions To Try

I think sex is great and I think everyone needs it and that it’s a really healthy way to express someones’ true self. I know some people tend to think that sex is supposed to be strictly between just 2 people or that it’s immoral, but I personally feel that sex is a part of nature and it’s to be had. I think what people confuse about sex is that just having sex because it’s healthy and having sex with a person you love is the same thing…I completely disagree. I think morality, sex and making love are all very different creatures and should never be mixed together in the same boat.

Try Different Positions!

When it comes to different positions with sex I’m always open to trying something new because you never know what you’re going to fall in love with! Besides, who wants to just stick to all the traditional when there are SO many different positions to try out?! I mean, once on vacation for my birthday in Australia, I managed to bend myself over a railing out of a hot tub and basically hung upside down for my spouse at the time. New is FUN!!!

What Turns Me On

I almost always am submissive in my sex life. Because that personally is what turns me on. There have been times though where I can get carried away and take control and do my own thing. But if I have a good dominant man there’s never a lack of action for me to even get the chance to.

Try This Position for Deeper Penetration

There’s a couple of different positions you could try for that. I happen to really enjoy doggy style but you have to spread your legs out as wide as you can and keep your chest to the bed or ground wherever you’re at so your back is arched as much as possible. It makes for deeper penetration and also I think it’s more fun for the guy to admire the curve of your body and grip your hips and ass better.

I also really like going from missionary to my legs up over my head almost bent into a pretzel position, because with the right movement, a guy can hit your g-spot, NO PROBLEM and it feels amazing.

A Great Position To Give Blowjobs

I actually think it’s best when the guy is sitting on the edge of a couch or loveseat leaning back.

I think you can get the most movement out of that position. It gives you access to his entire shaft and balls which is ideal for a great blowjob! What I like most about that position though is that it’s not too hard on your body or joints so you can stay there FOREVER giving your man the best head he’s ever had. I’ve easily given hour long blowjobss that way!

The Most Challenging Sex Position Ever

Hmmm… the most challenging position would have to be doing anything covered in baby oil!!! In theory it looks amazing and it’s great when you’ve got some way to brace yourself. But if you’re on a smooth surface, you get no traction and you’re all over the place! Hahaha. Great workout though!

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January 6, 2016
How To Have Sex In A Car

I love sex and think of it as therapy in preparation for the day ahead or a little bonus (strange as it may sound) for both myself and my partner after a hard day’s work. My opinion of sex changed when I met my present partner. I was brought up in a very conservative home and society where there’s a lot of misconceptions about sex, that sex was for procreation only and not recreation. As I began learning to be confident in my own skin, experimenting with new things, understanding my body, being totally relaxed and finally submitting to the ecstasy of enjoying sex and also being enjoyed, leading to mind blowing orgasms. I was able to shed every notion that enjoying sex was dirty and rather became liberated in my sexuality and femininity.

A Memorable Car Sex Experience

Car sex to me is very exciting and risqué and having enjoyed quite a few frolics in the back seat (and the front) I urge everyone to try it a few times in their lives. My most memorable car sex experience happened when my partner and I were on our way to the airport to begin our European trip. I was driving, he was seated in the front seat next to me. He placed his hand on my upper thigh as is his habit when I’m in the driver’s seat. He then proceeded to sensually massage my thigh moving closer and closer to my crotch. This was very distracting considering we were running late. He finally concentrated his fingers between my legs, lifting up my dress as far as he could to reveal my panties, which by now we’re getting very soaked from him rubbing my clitoris.

I tried to make him stop so I could focus on driving but that’s when he reached over to get something out of one of the luggages on the back seat. When he spun around he was holding my pink studded 7 inch vibrating dildo. He knew it was in there as we’d joked about it when he saw me packing it. I couldn’t understand why he was holding it but the cunning grin he had gave it away. He turned it on and put it between my legs, pressing it gently against my clitoris, I squirmed so much and drifted from side to side on the road. Eventually he moved my panties to the side and began penetrating me with the toy, I wanted to pull over but he insisted that I kept driving. The adrenaline rush of trying to stay on the road while being sexually aroused was intoxicating.

Three explosive orgasms later, we arrived safely at the airport.

Giving A Blowjob While Driving?

I think the element of spontaneity and danger are what make giving and getting a blowjob while driving is oh so sexy. The allure of having limited control while doing something possibly illegal that leads to wild eroticism can be maddening and become addictive. Giving your guy a blow job while driving is a great way to demonstrate your adventurous side and sexual prowess. It can be exhilarating foreplay, not to mention an exciting way to keep things fresh – your guy would thank you for it.

Front Or Back Seat?

For me, sex in the back seat of a car is most comfortable making it very enjoyable and intimate. Every now and then however, I like to spice things up a bit by having sex in the front seat. I especially love the thought that we could be seen through the windshield and get caught at any moment.

Ways To Make Car Sex Comfortable

Considering the space constraints in a car, having sex can get tricky. I have three favorite positions I’d recommend to anyone, reverse cowgirl, cowgirl position and doggy style.

Reverse cowgirl: This position is ideal. You both can just sit back and relax or lean forward holding on to the head rest of the front seats and ride your way to ecstasy.

Cowgirl: This is my favorite position when having sex in a car, it truly allows for intense intimacy, allowing you to exchange passionate kisses and become lost in the moment.

Doggy style: Doggy style I’d say would be for the wilder ones at heart. There’s something about doing it doggy style in a car that unleashes your most carnal desires which leads to steamy windows and screaming orgasms.

I’d recommend using a thick blanket to cover leather seats as leather usually feels very cold and not very comfortable against bare or sweaty skin.

A word to those new to car sex, the key to enjoying it is being totally comfortable. Put the seats back if you need to, plant your feet on the doors, find your own style, whichever way you choose just have fun with it.

Good Locales To Have Car Sex

Having sex in public is an offense in many countries so I’d urge anyone wishing to have car sex to do so in a hidden area and especially away from areas where there might be children. I’d say the best time to do so would be at night where the visibility is very low and stay out of heavily lit/ trafficked areas such as car parks. You can try parking near the beach (if you live near one as I do) as there’s little to no one about when it’s dark. Parks may also be a good option after dark, it’s very hard for someone to see into a dark car from outside if the windows are mostly closed.

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January 4, 2016
Quick Tips To Enjoy Anal Sex

I absolutely love Anal sex; it is one of my favorite things sexually. I think many still feel it is taboo and it can get a bad rap.

First Anal Sex Experience

My first anal experience was with my second husband; I was in my late twenties. We had a little bit of tequila and decided to try it. Lol. It was not painful due to the tequila and I was surprised how much I liked it.

An Amazing Feeling

My first time was not painful but a few times after the initial, I needed to ease myself into it. To me anal sex kinda feels like when you are in doggy style vaginally and the guy gets really deep. That is so amazing. It is better than that for anal.

Why Should Every Lady Try It

I think every woman should try it at least twice. You will never know if you don’t like it unless you try it. Life is too short! Experience fun!!

The Preparation

For anal sex, make sure you have lube. Many online adult stores or maybe your local adult shop will have anal toys. Practice with toys on yourself to get use to it. Small toys and you can work yourself up to whatever size you prefer. Start slow and just remember to be comfortable.

Favorite Positions

My favorite anal positions are doggy style, prone, missionary with legs on guys shoulders and anal in a sex swing is very fun FYI.

Make It Hotter

Once you get the swing of anal, the best is to have a guy use a dildo on you in your vagina while he is performing anal. You are getting double penetrated and it is hot!!!

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December 28, 2015
A Pornstar Guide To Facials and Swallowing

Given that my chosen career is a professional sex-haver, my views on sex are very enthusiastic! I view it as a great way to maintain good health and emotional well-being of yourself and your relationship.

My Choice Between Facials And Swallowing

I enjoy the taste of cum, even when it fluctuates I find something enticing and interesting about savoring the flavor of someone’s pleasure. It also doesn’t leave a mess! Although I do really enjoy the slutty feeling of getting a facial and strongly empathize with male pleasure of seeing your semen all over a smiling girl’s face! In off-camera sex I tend to do more swallowing and in on-camera sex there is more of an emphasis on facials when it comes to choosing between the two.

Why Men Love Facials

If I were to stretch my psychoanalysis muscles, it would probably have something to do with unabashed enjoyment of sex and sexual fluids – wanting to rub your body all over the object of your desire is by far the best method of communicating your enjoyment. Most men that have discussed sex and attraction with me, unequivocally desire to be desired as their primary turn on and what better way of signaling that you love everything relating to penis and orgasms, than giddily covering yourself in its fluids!

One Tip To Prepare For A Facial

I smile, stick out my tongue, and try not to get too much of it in my eye!

Make Facials Kinkier!

I do porn and I already think facials are pretty damn kinky! Ubiquitous but still very naughty and scandalous. To up the kink factor, consider having your partner masturbate in front of you with the explicit and singular purpose of ejaculating on your face.

Swallowing Is Not As Bad As It Seems

Flavor can be a major detractor but often women approach oral sex and swallowing with preconceived notions of disgust and that instantly cuts off any opportunity for discovering enjoyment. In fact, blow jobs and swallowing in particular are the first on the list of “doing you a favor” sex acts and when women set up sex as a business transaction for which they are owed, they reduce their own ability to find pleasure in what is supposed to be a mutually enjoyable activity.

Proper diet heavy in raw fruits and vegetables (at least 24 hours before sex) and genital hygiene does wonders! However none of that will make a difference to a woman who has set herself up as doing for someone else a favor and not seeking her own enjoyment.

A Swallowing Etiquette?

Often women report that the times they have had the best sex and felt most fulfilled is when their partner focuses on their own enjoyment instead of fretting about whether or not he is doing every little thing right.

I would say this depends on the type of relationship. If your female partner is one of the rare few who prefers to have a lot of dialogue around sex boundaries and likes/dislikes then by all means engage in the conversation of discovering what does and doesn’t feel good to both of you. If you just met for the first time two hours ago and now find yourselves in bed together, a “warning” in the form of dirty talk or moaning that you’re about to blow is sufficient to give them time to react accordingly without completely ruining the mood (and therefore the woman’s emotional memory of the entire event).

How To Make Every Swallow An Enjoyable Experience

First, make sex be your “play zone”. The time and place to completely let go and practice unconditional approval towards yourself and your partner.

Get out of your own head and empathize with the pleasure of having a happy, caring woman suck you off and love every last bit of it so much that she doesn’t let a drop escape. Think of sex as an extension of the golden rule, behave towards others how you want to be treated. Be the change you want to see in the world!

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December 27, 2015
Experience An Erotic Massage

Erotic massages are an intimate and sensual alternative to relaxing one’s muscles, in addition to other erogenous body parts, such as the genital area; in males’ this would be the penis and females’ the vagina. However, I find a lot of my male clients also enjoy having their nipples pinched, bitten and even playfully slapped and that would be in a basic massage session. There are so many ways to arouse someone without engaging in full intercourse. I can’t speak for all men because there are differing levels of erotic massage that appeal to a man’s sexual needs and fantasy.

For example, Tantra and Bondassage are a different form of massage, which I am not full trained in as yet. However, what I do offer are sensual intermediate to advanced massage sessions that would appeal to a gentleman who is either new to the world of erotic indulgences and maybe hesitant to ‘jump the sheets’ as I like to call it, or a gentleman who may be seeking a healthy, sexually charged massage session that stimulates him beyond the usual rub and tug method. I find that my clients enjoy my massage sessions because it allows them to completely surrender both mentally and physically for a period of time while their body and emotional state are positively realigned through my sensual, intuitive touch.

Setting The Mood

I am usually booked exclusively as an outcall massage consultant, that would be when I visit the client at his hotel suite or private residence. I find that this arrangement works best for me and my clients because my niche market tends to be traveling professionals who are visiting Toronto on business. However, when I do host at my private, central location in downtown Toronto, Canada, I usually have my massage table set up with the appropriate amount of linens, his and her bath robes, various scented and non-scented oils, a bottle of wine as well as a selection of music which includes: Bossa Nova, and Jazz & Blues. I am always tastefully coordinated in a lovely lingerie ensemble or sometimes I’ll just wear a silk robe with my birthday suit underneath it, this usually happens when I know I will be performing a body-slide during his massage session, but most of the time I am wearing something exceptionally titillating to begin with.

Pre-Massage Preparation

Well, once he has passed my screening and all of his information checks out, I usually like to schedule a time to speak via phone to get a sense of his personality and also to find out if he has any particular request of me. Usually he may have something specific he would like me to wear, for example I get a lot of request for stockings and the highest heels I can reasonably balance myself in! Those requests are always on standby in my lingerie wardrobe. Other requests may be a selection of music I would have to download onto my iPod the night before or ensuring I have the type of massage oil on hand for his session. I myself usually workout at least 3-4 times a week because performing the perfect body-slide takes a lot of energy physically, especially if his physique is considerably larger than the average male.

Body Parts Of His To Concentrate On

Everything. My massage session usually begins with a basic soft tissue massage, which slowly builds to a sensually charged body to body treatment that incorporates me using my hands, elbows, breast, and lips (and sometimes my feet if my client is leaning towards a more fetish type of massage experience). I’ve been told that I’ve touched places on my client’s body that he has never had stimulated before. Other tools I may utilize other than massage oils include: feathers, hot candle wax and textured massage gloves. I am very much a naturalist and do not usually experiment with sex toys, unless my client has requested I bring a few at the time of his booking. I have also recently introduced a post massage body scrub that involves me and my client completing his session in the shower while I give him a deep body scrub using therapeutic bath minerals to further enhance his experience. I’ve literally had clients fall asleep shortly after we have finished his body scrub, it really is a nice treat to indulge in once you have completed the initial massage portion.

Experience It Now!

I’ve designed three signature massage sessions for novice and experienced clients to choose from: Exploring Sensual Massage – This package is best utilized as a tranquil introduction to sensual massage treatments. Your body is worked on by me from head to toe as you relax and allow my responsive hands to release any tension and stress you may have.

Reciprocal Sensual Massage – A slightly more advanced session, we are mutually exploring each other respectfully in response to our guided chemistry. You are encouraged to explore my physique simultaneously as I explore yours.

Executive Massage Treatment – Indulge deeper with me as we both explore each other in a more intimate session. Reciprocal massage included + full body contact (body-slide) on you (only). This package includes my post massage body scrub.

Overall, I’ve been told that my massage sessions are a relaxing, sensual experience. More info can be found on my site and also my personal blog where I’ve written a few articles further discussing the pros of sensual massage with me.

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December 25, 2015
A Camgirls’ Take on Masturbation and Orgasms

I personally feel like masturbating is a very spiritual thing. We learn our bodies, we feel a sense of passion and self-love. Masturbation has this sort of, taboo on it. Like bringing yourself to orgasm is something to be ashamed of and it’s not. If you know how your body works, figure out what you like, teach yourself how to make your own fireworks and you will be more comfortable with another person in the mix. Less wondering, more knowing when it comes to getting you off.

My First Masturbation Experience

I don’t remember the exact first time I ever masturbated, but it was around 11 or 12 years old when things started up. There was some curiosity from a jet bathtub, a little hand-over-the-panties action with the doors locked. Lots of fear of being caught with my hands down my pants, as my family grew up under the whole ‘masturbation taboo’.

There is one time that sticks out at me from back in the day. I guess I was ‘practicing’ my riding skills on an oversized teddy bear and my mom’s friend walked in. I froze, he froze. We never spoke of it again. I’m pretty sure he never said anything to my mom, because that was over 10 years ago and it has never been mentioned.

My Favorite Sex Toys

My toy box currently consists of a few toys, my favorite being the classic vibrator. It was the first toy I ever bought myself, purple plastic with five god sent speeds. I still use it to this day, he’s my handy dandy travel buddy, and I can always count on a good orgasm. Masturbating with sex toys can be fun, sometimes more intense.

However, at the end of a long day I just need a quick go to before I crash into bed. I also play with a glass mushroom tip dildo that can be warmed or chilled for different sensations. And I own a set of metal jewel tip plugs, but currently only the smallest one gets used (;

What Turns Me On

I used to joke that I was pretty much a light switch stuck in the ‘on’ position. Well I’ve noticed lately that it isn’t much of a joke. I’m very easily turned on, but just as easy to turn off if I’m not feeling it.

When a man smells good, brushes his fingers on my throat, tattoos, muscles, things that pop up on my twitter feed, a sexy voice, lumberjack beards, coils of rope, zip ties, safe words, thinking about the last time I was choked, watching threesome porn, my friend sending me random messages telling me he wants to fuck my brains out or smack my ass so hard its red, spankings, cooking for me, knowing that a man wants me, this list could go on forever because honestly, something new turns me on every day.

That being said, I only masturbate once or twice a week. I don’t want to burn myself out or get carpal tunnel haha. Not to mention, for stress relief! Let it build up and then go pet your kitty. It feels twice as good if it’s been a few days!

Various Techniques I Use

How do I masturbate? Like a checklist through all the tips? I’m not sure anyone can give one of those. For me, it all depends on where the horny hits me! Sometimes I can’t exactly run off to the restroom and rub one out, but I have brought myself to the brink during a psychology lecture. Sexy professor, dim lights, and the seam on my jeans was rubbing just the right way if I rocked back and forth.

Let’s just say I didn’t learn much in Psych 101. When it comes to home though, I usually search a little porn, get myself worked up, pull out my vibrator and take care of my needs. If it’s taking a little longer than expected, I sit up and grind. You really just need to lock the door, take an hour or so and learn your body. What feels good to you? What makes you quiver? How far can you bring yourself?

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December 19, 2015
“The Future of Sex” – Closing Insights from Sarah Calleja

The future of sex has arrived

Have you explored virtual sex toys that promise ‘interactive sex’ with another person over the Internet? Would you consider sex with a robot? What about ‘Smart insertables’ which help women train their pelvic floor muscles with games? Have you heard US regulators have just approved the release of “female Viagra”, a drug known as Addyi?

Welcome to the future that’s customizing individual sexual options.

The New York Toy Collective believe that consenting adults should be able to have whatever kind of sex they want, with whoever they want, regardless of the body they or their partner were born with. They specialize in self-affirming products for all forms of sexual expression and are the first and only company to use 3D scanning technology to allow consumers to create sex toys modelled after their own bodies.

For those who own a 3-D printer, the site MakerLove offers all types of free sex toy designs for downloading for people who want the freedom to privately own their own pleasure.

For those wanting more than the standard sex robot, at between $US6,000 to $US60,000 Hermaphrodite-doll enthusiasts can order removable genitals so they can go back and forth between genders. A Pew Research Centre report claims that by 2025 robot sex will be “commonplace.”

HappyPlayTime’s Mascot!

Apps like SexPositive, developed by the University of Oregon, teach safe sex practices though a fun, nonjudgmental interface. The cartoonish app HappyPlayTime tries to take the stigma out of female masturbation by guiding women through the process.

Dating apps can provoke anxiety with users when people are unsure how to best manage protocols like writing their bios; including photos; being honest about age; exaggerating positives or considering outright lying.

Some people worry about being shamed when on various dating sites or exposed by hackers on sites like Ashley Madison. It would be interesting to have a discussion why up to 31 million on Ashley Madison alone are not so concerned about internet privacy and will pay for the opportunity to explore sexual fantasy with a random stranger and not their partner.

Technology can also be used to enable healthy sexual expression. Safe sex apps are readily available to facilitate a healthier sex life.

Award winning educational apps like Parents, tweens and sex app enable and empower parents and their tweens to improve communication and advocacy when discussing confronting sexual issues.

Explore Women’s sex allows users to appreciate the clitoral anatomy and how they are involved in sexual arousal.

Dating IRL (In Real Life) anymore?

In the recent past, lengthy surveys designed to figure out who you are made predictions for compatibility. Now, intuitive technology learns your preferences based on your actions. Online dating trends reveal almost a quarter of online daters find a spouse or long-term partner through online dating but, women get a ton more attention than men.

While in the past we met prospective partners through work, family or a shared interest, the new wave of ‘meet ups’ which are independently-run and based on single people’s quirks and interests are responding to people’s desire to meet IRL.

When people meet IRL, they can read facial and body cues when interacting with other people. Grooming, hygiene, socio-economic status and capacity to communicate are also considerations for people when assessing a prospective partner.

IRL separates digital fiction from reality.

Does technology help relationship sex – you know the type between live, consenting adults across the sexual spectrum? Or, is technology the new ‘secret affair’ that demands our attention and disrupts, corrupts and interrupts love?

To be the best lover, you must be ‘present’ and ‘in the moment’ with your partner, to activate all your senses, smell, touch, sight, sound and hearing. This allows you to be fully present, in thought, word and deed. It isn’t about sex toys; it’s about connecting, being curious, reaching out, experimenting, tuning in and responding in kind. It’s about being desired and validating your capacity to be pleasured and to do the pleasuring. It’s about getting off on the chemistry.

Or, we could choose to have sex with (compliant) robots and a future where sex devices interact with a movie or a computer avatar.

Or both….

My personal and professional experience has been that we all value physical and emotional intimacy too much to give that up. It seems like the future trend is IRL, because a virtual relationship isn’t sustainable. Playing with technology helps us to engage our curiosity, play and experiment with our casual or long term partners in ways that were never possible in the past, but –

If a time came when a robot could give us more pleasure than a human, then we humans should be trying harder!

Sarah Calleja is a Counselling Psychologist and Clinical Sexologist, media consultant, author, and app developer.

When Sarah isn’t hard at work as a counselling psychologist and clinical sexologist, or consulting for the media, she loves being a trendsetter in the field of sexology. Sarah regularly presents at international conferences and creates training sessions for health professionals. She writes opinion-editorials for a variety of media and personal blogs can be viewed on her website.

Sarah’s new app, ‘Parents, Tweens and Sex’, a first of its kind app for the iPad designed in collaboration with Swinburne University and featured as a finalist in the digital design category of the 2013 Premier’s Design Awards. This interactive app empowers parents and tweens with the necessary resources to make informed choices to be mindful, comfortable, respectful and responsive when they choose to engage in sexual relationships.

Sarah is also a wife, mother, mentor, friend and the proud owner of laugh lines!

This article has been republished with permission by Sarah Calleja. To view the original post, read it here

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December 18, 2015
Be A Tease And Turn Him On

Sex is awesome, to put it simply. I never really got into my sexuality until just recently, and I thought to myself “I’ve been missing so much this whole time!” I mean, what’s not to love? Between the different positions, outfits and places you can experience this pleasure, there is literally nothing not awesome about anything sexual.

Why I Love Being A Tease

I’ve been known as the tease for as long as I can remember. There’s just something about being flirtatious and sensual that really turns me on, because it’s so hot knowing I have the upper hand.

Teasing turns men on because men are naturally drawn to something they feel like they can’t have. So, when you tease it’s like showing the man that maybe they can have you but maybe they can’t. They’re drawn to this chase.

What I Wear

Honestly, I don’t usually get too dressed up in elaborate lingerie when I striptease for a man. Sometimes I’ll wear a short skirt without underwear and a short crop top that shows underboob, and there are other times where I’ll wear little boyshorts and a loose fitting cami that I can play around with. It’s all about the tease. It’s about playing the game.

Also, I’ve come to find that most guys prefer the “All American Girl” look.

Strip To The Music

Usually, I like to play certain music when I strip. Something that’s fun to dance to, but also sexual.

For example, I love to move to The Weeknd because they produce music that everyone wants to have sex to. I bite my lip a lot and make lots of eye contact, but in the actual strip tease itself, there’s not a lot of dirty talk that actually goes on. Before and after, sure! You know, I make sure I call the guys’ baby or babe before I start dancing though for sure.

Even saying their name if they tell you their name. That’s hot.

Flaunt Your Body!

There’s not really a way you can move that won’t keep a guy interested, as long as you at least know what you’re doing a little bit. I’m personally known for having a great butt, so I flaunt that aspect. I move it, shake it, and slap it.

Guys LOVE a girls’ behind… It’s like kryptonite.

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December 18, 2015
How To Give An Amazing Footjob
My name is Molly Squirts and my whole lifestyle revolves around the “Kink Lifestyle”. My job and my relationship all have kink involved almost every day. I get to live and play and involve different fetishes in our day to day life. Foot fetish is one of the best fetishes that I have in my lifestyle. I am very supportive of anyone who wants to explore with these fun kinks. and I made these fun role playing kinks into a career.

A foot fetish is –

The pure admiration or sexual attraction of barefeet. Usually pertaining to men who can become sexually aroused from the sight of any part of women’s feet including, toes, arches and soles. There are 100 plus fetishes related to foot fetish… such as foot domination, toe wiggling, footjobs and more. I practice every form of foot fetish weekly.

Every person likes something different… some people like big feet…some like them petite. Other people only like when your feet are dirty and sweaty while others like clean painted and oiled up toes. I change the look of my toes once a week and perform different stories and fetish scripts to change the look and theme of my clips to try and reach to every form of foot fetish. So yes, the type of foot matters. But no matter what type of feet you have… someone out there has a fetish for them.

Ideal Position For A Footjob

The best position for me is sitting towards the penis you are trying to give the “job” to, and to put my legs out forward and to use my abs to pull my legs and feet up and down to stroke and grip the penis evenly. I have had to practice with different positions to find the one most comfortable for me as well as my partner, who needs the foot job to feel good (of course) and if you don’t have the right position, it can make for a bad clip and an unsatisfied man.

Techniques For Footjobs

It is all about your leg and ab muscles. If you are in good shape, lifting and using your abs and legs to grip and stroke the cock with your feet will be much easier. To keep the guy and his penis horny and hard. If you get the stroking motion down, the next thing to focus on are your toes. Playing and using your toes to tease and wiggle on different parts of the penis will make for a great experience for the man as well as a great clip. Finally the two most important things in foot job technique is – baby oil and having fun

Make The Footjob Kinkier

So let me first say I have never given a foot job without lube (you can try) but dry cock and dry feet = no fun. Making a foot job even kinkier is so much fun. You can wear tube socks (nylon foot jobs are a personal favorite) with different color toes and different themes.

*Taboo footjobs are a favorite for me.

*An aggressive footjob.

*A ball teasing foot job.

*Having fake tattoos and jewelry.

Tips To Try Out!

Some tips you can try for your first time are:
- Make sure your partner has a foot fetish.
- Start with the basic (just feet, lube and cock).
- Slow motions until you get the rhythm down.
- Try different positions.
- Stretch and get your body ready.
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December 16, 2015
Why Should Every Lady Masturbate And Own A Dildo?

My personal views on sex and masturbation are pretty positive, I may still be a little new to everything. Up until a little over a year ago, I hardly ever masturbated but I’ve been having sex since I was almost 18 and since then I’ve been a bit of a nympho.

The First Time I Masturbated

I actually do remember, I was playing around in the tub when I was in my mid teens and learned that the shower head actually felt amazing. At that time I didn’t really know I was masturbating but eventually I caught on and only masturbated that way whenever I wanted too.

What Makes Me Horny

A lot of simple things can make me horny. For starters, an erotic story as long as it’s nicely detailed and not some humdrum “he humped her so good that she eventually was a hot mess on the bed”. Another thing that can turn me on is a nice romantic movie that borders porn. Surprisingly enough, teasing turns me on more than anything, porn don’t even do it for me, they just make me think of new positions I wanna try at some point.

Just fingers or with Dildos?

It’s all a matter of mood on which I prefer, more times than not though, I enjoy dildos over my fingers. The main reason would have to be that I like to actually feel myself being filled with something larger than just my fingers.

Why Every Lady Should Own A Dildo

As mentioned, a dildo fills you up to how you like depending on what size you’ve gotten. If you order vibrating ones, it’ll help more with stimulation and turn you on even more than fingers could. Squirting ones are great for those ladies that love cream pies but aren’t on birth control or are just in general afraid of getting pregnant.

The biggest reason for every lady to have one, in my opinion, would have to be that you know how to please yourself better than anyone, if your man’s not around or you don’t have someone available for some fun (even if you’re just not in the mood for a man) then you can always turn to your dildo for that fulfillment.

Tips For Dildo Play

Some great ways that I’ve come to enjoy dildos (mainly) would have to be riding them, or even sticking them on a wall or something of the like to do a simulated doggy style. Rock your hips, grind, shake your ass, anything to make it feel even better as you get yourself closer to your own climax.

Laying on your side, knees folded up as you take it from behind would have to be another way to enjoy it more thoroughly. Have a hitachi or vibrator? It’ll make for a greater climax if you hold it against your clit.

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December 14, 2015