I Fantastize About My Wife Having Sex With Other Men

When I have sex with my wife, I fantasize about her with another guy which enables me to reach a orgasm faster. Does this mean there is a cuck possibility in me? 

Clearly you fantasize about being a cuckold husband so you have the potential to be a cuck. The question is are you now or will you ever be ready for the real thing.

It is very easy for a man to become overwhelmed and allow his sexual fantasizes to run wild – it’s a hormonal thing.

If you want to be a real cuckold who is faithful to his wife and supports her sexual freedom and extramarital activities, you need to step back and consider several things.

First and foremost, why do you want to be a cuckold; what is it that excites you about another man having sex with your wife?

There are three themes or motivating factors for a cuckold; bisexuality, voyeurism and submission-humiliation.

Is your desire to be a cuckold a covert way of sabotaging your marriage -or- getting your wife to allow you some extra-marital dalliances?

Is your marriage strong enough to the stresses that involving a third party might cause?

Aside from the sex why would your wife enjoy being a hot-wife?

Have you considered how your marriage might change after telling your wife about your fantasy and further how it might change if she went ahead and acted on it?

How would you feel if your wife began having more sex with another man than she has with you?

How would you feel if your wife rarely or never had sex with you anymore but instead saved herself for her lover?

One thing you might try is doing a thought-experiment. When you are in a public place with your wife, look at the men walking by and silently imagine how you would feel if some of them were having sex with your wife. It is important to do this exercise while you are with your wife when you are not sexually aroused.

In this situation you might find that the idea of some random guy having sex with the woman you married to be quite stressful.

This is a very complex topic and I welcome follow-up questions.

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Steve is a middle-aged husband and father living in the northern US. By day he works as a technical analyst/project manager for a large company by night he explores the depths of alternative sexual lifestyles – mostly involve female-led relations.

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