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Cuckolding Beginners Guide
In the modern world, people are discovering in depth what stimulates and satisfies their sexual desires. This goes without naming the different sex toys available in the market that spice up foreplay. To stretch a little, it’s time to indulge in cuckolding. Cuckolding is the act in which a man or a woman finds pleasure by watching their partner make love to another person. It has several benefits such as:
- You can find pleasure and empowerment when you fulfil cuckold fantasies.
- It can lead to an honest relationship where your partner is open about their sexual desires and needs.
- You can build your relationship with effective communication. Talking about cuckolding takes guts and lack of shame.
- It can result in a positive sexual experience that can lead to feelings of greater intimacy in a relationship.
- A cuckold husband can enjoy watching his partner gain pleasure from another male who satisfies the wife till climax. If your wife enjoys cuckolding, isn’t it a good thing?
Take it to the Next Level

Even with an excellent partner, it will reach a point in life where your sex life becomes boring. There are various reasons this can happen which include health issues, mindset, physical issues and many others. Besides, people have different desires, likes, preferences and fetishes, which if not satisfied, can result in boring sex life.

It would be best to identify reasons as to why you aren’t having super fire sex with your partner. Physical causes include pain during intercourse, low stamina, and erectile dysfunction. Emotional causes can be depression, anxiety and stress which can lead to lack of focus. There are multiple ways you can treat boring sex, but if you want to spice up things, cuckolding is just the ticket.

How to Introduce Your Partner Into This Role-Play Fantasy

Choose a Time to Discuss

Cuckolding is a sensitive topic since it can be described as cheating. This is something huge that needs thorough thinking to ensure you make the right decision. Of course, no one wants to share their partner. However, if you feel that this sexual fantasy is the only way to spice up your sex life, go for it. Ensure your partner is on board and okay with it.

Research and Decide on the Right Person

If you are going to choose a cuckold partner, you should research and choose the right one in advance to familiarize yourselves with him/her. You could research on various platforms that offer cuckold services, or request a close friend who will be okay with the act. Besides, you will have an intimate experience with another person, so it would be best to know what qualities you are looking for.

Prepare Yourselves

Preparation is vital as it can help you avoid future problems. For one, you need to prepare yourselves mentally and know some cuckold outcomes such as jealousy, lack of trust and more. Try not to overindulge in cuckolding, but only do it when need be. Go for STI screening to prevent transmitting infections to your cuckold partner, and ensure they also do it to avoid contracting.

Don’t Be in a Rush

Rushing through sex can be an exciting experience especially if you are having a quickie in a bathroom. The anxiety of getting caught is what makes it spicier and intense that can lead to orgasm within no time. Nonetheless, cuckolding is another different thing. This is a new experience which can take time before you become comfortable so ensure you don’t rush things.

Tips for Making All Parties Enjoy

You can start by setting boundaries for everyone to know their expectations. However, you don’t need to have sex with another person. If your partner can find pleasure in you talking about having sex with someone else, it still counts as cuckolding.

Besides, you can practice cuckolding in a club where your partner flirts sexually with someone else. The best thing to do is to communicate and find out what will work best for your situation.

Safer Sex When Cuckolding

Like any other level of sexual intimacy, you should take precautions to avoid contracting and transmitting sexually transmitted diseases. You can start by selecting various types of birth control options to prevent pregnancy.

To prevent contracting STIs, ensure that you use condoms throughout. It is also advisable to use a new packet for each activity. Additionally, buy PrEP online to prevent contracting HIV from your cuckold bull.

Once you indulge in cuckolding, be keen on emotional risks that may present themselves once you get deep into it. In some cases, the cuck may end up developing feelings or becoming more jealous than your partner. All you ought to do is take extra precautions every step of the way.

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January 5, 2021
My Journey Into Cuckolding

It wasn’t that long ago that I had heard about cuckholding. As a matter of fact, it was three years ago. I had just started dating a Black man who was, shall I say, very adventurous. He would mention the phrase “cuckold”, but I was too embarrassed to ask what he was talking about. So I just sat there quietly smiling. I must have looked as awkward as I felt! Because he pulled up a slew of videos from cuckoldsessions.com and proceeded to show me. “I’ve done that! And that! And that!” He told me over and over again as the videos rolled past the screen of his phone. I was taken aback by it that first time. But, I was open and found myself more curious than disgusted.

I never imagined myself participating in a cuckold session. As a teen in the midwest, I dated white boys. But, by the time I was twenty-two, my wishes turned into realty and I found myself dating Black men. With that new found attraction to the dark side came an entirely new and exciting world of sex and sexual awareness. I knew at that time that I was done with white boys for good. I even vowed that I would never let myself be seen undressed by a white boy ever again! So, how did I manage to get talked into cuckolding a white boy for my Black lover? To me the idea alone was gross!

Enter: Timothy. “Who’s Timothy?” I screeched to my best friend, Rene. She laughed and told me not to get too excited, “He’s a white boy”. The confusion I felt seemed to last forever, but it was soon offered some explanation. Rene and I have both been enjoying the same Black man, Micheal, for months now. Threesomes have certainly become common practice between us, needless to say. So when she said that Micheal was bringing over a white boy named Timothy, I was dumbfounded. “He’s going to be our little white boy cuck!”, she finished. I had mixed feelings right from the start. I didn’t want a white boy in the same room with me while I was having sex. However, the thought of showing a white boy what he couldn’t have -me- while Rene and I had wild sex with a big Black man was arousing to say the least! Nevertheless, my thoughts were racing back and forth.

It wasn’t more than an hour later that Micheal brought Timothy over to the apartment. There was the expected awkward introduction and the mild exchange of small talk. The tension was still pretty thick though. Within the first few minutes, we set up some guidelines (and if you are interested in having a cuck of your own, quickly laying down guidelines is a must!): Timothy would no longer be called by his name, but instead he would be addressed to as “cuck”, “cuckboy”, “white boy”, “white loser”, even “pathetic little white boy”. Anything in fact, as long as it was insulting and belittling. At the same time, Micheal was to be referred to as “Master”, “King”, or “Black King”. The goal of cucking was to humiliate the cuck and praise the Black King. And believe me, we did just that!

At first, the mood was pretty routine. We had forced Timothy to a chair before Rene, Micheal, and myself engaged in some strong foreplay on the couch. Micheal’s pants soon came down and we sucked him. So far so good. Somewhere during the time, Rene and I were sucking and stroking on Micheal, I turned to see our faithful cuck boy sitting naked on the edge of his chair, tiny pasty pee pee in hand. To say that a shiver of disgust ran up my spine would be an understatement. “He’s so gross!” I cried.

We decided that some real humiliation was in order. First order of business was to force Timothy to put some super tight rubber bands around his little dick. Then it was comparison time! It seems that a size comparison between the cuck and the King is common formality during a cuck session. And yup, you guessed it, Black is bigger! Tie the little white boy to the chair and it’s back to having real fun on the other side of the room.

I must admit that having a cuck changed the way that I feel about having a white boy in the same room while I’m having sex. I don’t mind it as much, so long as he’s tied up and slapped periodically. It’s a form of justice perhaps. Revenge. Or, just plain fun! Find your own niche and be creative! I think what I love most about having a cuck is that we can agree that anything goes. The Black King has total control and can do what he wants to the cuck at anytime. This may include anything from slapping and belittling to as much as pissing on him! The cuck is at his mercy. Use benches for multiple cucks and cages for their pee pees. Explore cuckoldsessions.com or search “interracial cuckolding” for more ideas. Any way that you dice it, having a cuck is exciting and a little kinky. I highly recommend!

Andrea Dillinger – 26 year old Scorpio. Interracial for over four years and counting!

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December 9, 2020
What Makes Cuckoldry & Interracial Sex Exciting

My views regarding sex are simple. I do believe… sex is a beautiful action that I feel should not be shamed. Every person alive is here because of it and I would like to see more people be open about wants, needs and any fantasies. The power exchange is the purest form of intimacy!

How My Interest In Cuckoldry Started

I’ve always had an interest to a degree without even knowing it was a fetish. The sph aspect that often accompanies cuckoldry comes natural because I’ve always known the Black New World Order was the right way of life!

Exploring Cuckoldry & Interracial Sex

I lost my virginity at 13 and experienced the best high of my life, a BBC, one I’ll still chase to this day 🤦🏼‍♀️

I was never attracted to my own race and once it was made known who I fucked over the weekend, I was labeled a race traitor. If Tyree knew then the BBC slut he created, then I wonder if he still would’ve popped my cherry, maybe a question I’ll ask him one day.

Why I Love Interracial Sex

What is there not to love? The contrast between my own pale skin and their dark skin excites me. The natural dominance wakes up something exciting in me I can’t close off until I’ve satisfied that craving. I can’t fairly compare because I’ve NEVER had sex with any other race other then Black.

What Being A Queen Of Spades Means

For me being a Queen of Spades means that it is my duty to share the knowledge I have of the Black New World Order. We protect our families, especially our Kings and their culture, to give them children blending our heritages and cultures. We too are dominant to our cucks, sissies, slaves/subs but always give Daddy everything and anything he wants.

Tips To Be A Queen Of Spades

The best tip I have is to serve with a pure heart, truly believe and know that Black IS better and being committed to serving the Black race by spreading knowledge! I have faith that once she feels her first real and full body orgasm, she’ll never question her choice to go Black only!

Princess Kay Babi – Genuine Queen of Spades who enjoys converting and educating snowbunnies everywhere! Locking up little beta white boys is my second favorite hobby!

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May 17, 2019
How To Have A Successful Cuckold Marriage

Cuckold stag/vixen relationships can be an exciting stimulating experience for the right couple. It takes a lot of discussion, trust in your marriage and each other to be successful. Sharing your spouse with others should be sexually rewarding for all involved.

How I Became A Cuckold Wife

My husband and I have been together for six years, and we had two experiences before we got married. My husband knew I had been in a swinger relationship before we met that had been exciting but the trust was not there and ruined it.

My husband told me he just wanted to watch me being pleasured by another man. I was insecure at first, we were still dating and I was afraid that it might change what we had. It did but for the better. It made our sex life more exciting.

How My Husband Supports Me

My husband is a wonderful man that loves and trusts me. He gets so turned on watching me being pleasured. Our experiences makes me feel sexy and powerful which makes us so hot for each other. We don’t get into the belittling and being constantly locked in a cock cage like some couples. We are more stag/vixen but depending on the mood, the bull, and the situation, we do play that way also.

What Couples Should Know Before Going Into Cuckoldry

There should be lots and lots of discussion. Rules need to be set and agreed upon beforehand. This is supposed to be fun and exciting for both and not hurtful. It can take your marriage to a new level but can ruin things if the trust is broken.

It is not something to jump into lightly. I don’t let feelings develop with a bull, they are there for fun and casual sex only. We have had good friendships with a few of them but that is all. We do not need or want any drama, just fun and hot sex. You will need to find the right bull that fits what you both are looking for. Be honest with your expectations and your fantasies upfront.

Be very clear about what you want and do not want to happen.

One of the most asked questions we get on our personal Twitter accounts is how to get their spouse to get into this lifestyle. We always tell them to be honest, have a discussion, watch some cuckold porn together or try going to a sex club to watch. See if it excites you both. Don’t pressure your spouse into anything, as that only brings negative emotions.

Tips To Make A Cuckold Marriage Work

Honesty and transparency are key to making this type of relationships work. I don’t do anything that he doesn’t know about. This works for us because of the love, respect and trust we share. If he or I decided tomorrow that we wanted to stop or take a break from the lifestyle, we would respect their decision.

Until then, we will enjoy the carnal world of cuckolding. We share our experiences and lifestyle on Twitter. It’s exciting and liberating to share with others like us or who are curious about the lifestyle.

Cuckold Wife – I was in a bisexual swinger relationship before meeting my husband. We enjoy sharing our adventures with like minded people on our personal Twitter accounts. Come join us in our naughty adventures

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January 29, 2019
What It Takes To Be A Cuckoldress

When it comes to sex, I believe I can have my cake and eat it too. I want a loving committed husband and also the freedom to do what I want (sexually) with whomever I want and whatever I want. I believe that despite what society tells women, they can ask for exactly what they want and get exactly that – no matter how unfair or selfish it might seem to others.

All women should have the opportunity at least once in their life to explore their sexuality in a safe and non-judgmental place and that both women and men need to challenge and redefine the term ‘slut’ to reflect the beauty and power of the sexually empowered woman.

I also believe that sex and love can be and should be very separate things when it comes to ‘outside of the box’ kinds of relationship dynamics that involve non-monogamy, including cuckolding. Love (and sometimes sex) is for the cuckold boyfriend or husband, and sex which is just two bodies coming together for pleasure is for the bull (or bulls).

How I Became A Cuckoldress

10 years ago I began reading Dan Savage’s column “Savage Love” and that just blew my mind to learn that there were other types of relationships out there. I realized that there were so many more options other that the standard monogamy relationship and I was so curious to learn more.

I delved into the swingers community and was just in awe at how so many of the couples were able to have loving and successful relationships where jealousy and sexual possessiveness were off the table. I knew I wanted something like that but I knew that I didn’t want someone dictating rules, boundaries and limits to me – and that’s where I felt a bit hopeless because to me it seemed like I would never be able to find someone who would allow me to have total sexual freedom and yet not put any rules on me. It seemed so selfish and so unfair to him.

Then I happened to meet a guy on Tinder. He liked that I mentioned on my profile that I didn’t want monogamy. He was a cuck and I guess he thought I might be open-minded to it. Not long after we started talking he slowly brought up cuckolding to me. At first I was a bit puzzled about it – I didn’t believe that what he was saying was true but shortly afterwards I totally and completely jumped on board. I couldn’t believe that he was encouraging me to fuck other guys and that he loved me for it despite him being totally faithful to me. And because I loved him deeply, the experiences we shared were…this is where I struggle to articulate how incredible it was….absolutely magical. From that point on I was completely addicted to this kind of relationship.

Convincing My Partner To Be A Cuckold

I’m not married! But with my first cuck boyfriend he didn’t have to convince me much at all. I knew immediately that this was exactly the right kind of relationship for me.

Misconceptions About Cuckoldry

Cuckolding is widely misunderstood and I think cuckold porn is much to blame. Cuckold porn is garbage. It doesn’t reflect what this kind of relationship is about at all. In fact it portrays it mainly as femdom mixed with harsh humiliation and degradation. I think a lot of what’s online portrays cuckolding inaccurately and that’s unfortunate because I want more women to consider it as a legitimate kind of relationship. And that’s exactly what cuckolding is – a loving and committed relationship where the wife gets to be the centre of attention and the husband adores her and puts her on a pedestal. With cuckolding, it’s all about her. She is in control and she loves it.

There is a wide spectrum of practices within cuckolding and it’s just a matter of figuring out your comfort zone but regardless it really only works when it’s a loving relationship.

Unlike hotwifing, cuckolding always involves some degree of sexual denial (mild to harsh) and humiliation (subtle to overt). It doesn’t mean that cuckoldresses are mean spirited or hold contempt for men, it just means that both people involved get some enjoyment out of it and that makes it more of a loving gesture.

Within cuckolding, the husband gives his wife the gift of sexual freedom and in turn she gives him the gift of being involved in some way – it’s a two way compersion street. This could be him watching, listening, helping her get ready, hearing about it when she gets home etc. He gets turned on by her sexual adventures and she gets turned on by his reactions to her.

Another thing people don’t realize is that this is in many ways just a normal relationship with regular everyday things like work, time with friends, family functions, and time spent together watching movies, going out for dinner or going for walks. It’s not cuckolding all of the time.

What To Know Before Being A Cuckoldress

First of all I just wish more women would learn that cuckolding is even an option. For some reason there are very few women who are even aware that it exists. I do my best to reach women with my blog but so far it’s been a challenge. I would just like women to know that cuckolding is not weird or scary or some sort of fetish. It’s a real relationship that has the potential to be incredibly exhilarating and it brings with it immense connection, trust, and love. And it never gets boring – ever!

If a woman is considering becoming a cuckoldress, I feel like she should already have an above average sexual appetite and confidence and she should be able to clearly make the separation between sex and love. She has to understand that her bulls are simply for sex – not relationships – and her husband (if she has one) is who she loves and wants to spend her life with.

If a woman is curious to try it out or she is unsure of it, I would suggest she start slowly. Unless she is like me and figures out right away that it’s for her then I’d say dive in head first! You’ll love it!

Venus – A cuckoldress living and working in Vancouver, BC Canada who enjoys writing in her blog and contributing to the Keys and Anklets podcast. She hopes that by sharing her thoughts and experiences it will bring more awareness to women everywhere about cuckolding relationships.

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December 20, 2018
I Fantastize About My Wife Having Sex With Other Men

When I have sex with my wife, I fantasize about her with another guy which enables me to reach a orgasm faster. Does this mean there is a cuck possibility in me?

Clearly you fantasize about being a cuckold husband so you have the potential to be a cuck. The question is are you now or will you ever be ready for the real thing.

It is very easy for a man to become overwhelmed and allow his sexual fantasizes to run wild – it’s a hormonal thing.

If you want to be a real cuckold who is faithful to his wife and supports her sexual freedom and extramarital activities, you need to step back and consider several things.

First and foremost, why do you want to be a cuckold; what is it that excites you about another man having sex with your wife?

There are three themes or motivating factors for a cuckold; bisexuality, voyeurism and submission-humiliation.

Is your desire to be a cuckold a covert way of sabotaging your marriage -or- getting your wife to allow you some extra-marital dalliances?

Is your marriage strong enough to the stresses that involving a third party might cause?

Aside from the sex why would your wife enjoy being a hot-wife?

Have you considered how your marriage might change after telling your wife about your fantasy and further how it might change if she went ahead and acted on it?

How would you feel if your wife began having more sex with another man than she has with you?

How would you feel if your wife rarely or never had sex with you anymore but instead saved herself for her lover?

One thing you might try is doing a thought-experiment. When you are in a public place with your wife, look at the men walking by and silently imagine how you would feel if some of them were having sex with your wife. It is important to do this exercise while you are with your wife when you are not sexually aroused.

In this situation you might find that the idea of some random guy having sex with the woman you married to be quite stressful.

This is a very complex topic and I welcome follow-up questions.

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Steve is a middle-aged husband and father living in the northern US. By day he works as a technical analyst/project manager for a large company by night he explores the depths of alternative sexual lifestyles – mostly involve female-led relations.

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May 4, 2016
How to spot a Cuckoldress

Is it possible to tell if a lady is a cuckoldress, as in are there any signs or vibes she gives? If so, how do I seduce one?

In some circles a hot-wife or cuckoldress is supposed to wear an ankle bracelet to denote the sexual liberties she enjoys. Other women will wear a wedding band or other ring on a non-traditional finger like the thumb.

The thing to realize is that any symbol can be removed and only worn at certain times or the wearing of some special jewelry might just be a fashion choice.

There are many niches with modern cuckold lifestyles so unless the woman has a necklace on with the words “Hot Wife” it can be very difficult and embarrassing to assume anything.

Seducing someone you suspect of being a hot-wife is no different than a single, unattached woman. Be charming, polite and engaging. It is advisable not to ask her if she is married but let her tell – when she is ready.

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May 1, 2016
Is there no turning back from a cuckold lifestyle?

My husband and I have been discussing about introducing cuckoldry into our relationship. However, if we do, is there no turning back once we start?

No question that introducing cuckoldry in any relationship is not something to be done lightly; you are justifiably concerned about acting on this.

On an emotional level there is indeed “no turning back” once the wife has exercised her rights as a cuckoldress. This is why communication is vital before anything is done and after.

First it is important for both the husband and wife to talk through all of their desires, fantasies, and fears. It sometimes helps to write things down and even draw up a cuckold-contract. This would be a semi-formal agreement that lists boundaries, expectations, rules and requirements for each party.

This type of document also documents the husband’s willingness to be his wife’s cuckold.

Before the wife does anything, the couple should do various “exercises” together to prepare them both for the real thing. One exercise involves using a dildo or other sex toy together, but do so in a way that will be more psychologically challenging for the husband.

To do this, the wife would purchase or pick-out a dildo she likes and give it the name of a man she knows that she find attractive – “Bill”. Then when she is in the mood she should tell her husband that she needs “Bill” to fuck her one evening. After some foreplay with her husband she should take out “Bill” and use it on herself while saying things like “Oh Bill you make me feel like a real woman”. Over the course of days, weeks or months this exercise should be repeated many times and each time, the wife should say things as she enjoys “Bill” that are more intense and/or humiliating for her husband to hear. Eventually the wife should have her husband use the dildo on her while giving her oral sex.

The wife’s first extra-marital experience is an important one and finding the right man for this can be difficult. For the first-time it is often advisable that the husband not be present as the situation might be too intense for him and his presence would inhibit or spoil things for the wife.

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February 29, 2016
Cuckold Vaccinations

Most men are naturally cuckold-averse or resistant due to the values instilled in them by society and their biological urges to propagate their own genes.

Some, not all, of the men that end up overcoming their instinctual and societal conditioning and become accepting and supportive cuckolds for their wives do so because they received what I call a “cuckold-vaccination”.

I propose that a man’s involvement with an adulterous woman contributes to and some men into becoming interested in a cuckold lifestyle later in life.

A man can become psychologically “vaccinated” to a cuckold lifestyle later in life based on an experience he had in his teens or 20’s where a girlfriend or wife cheated on him. When these men find out about the infidelity, they are very upset and often end their relationship with the woman.

These same men years later find themselves aroused by the intense memories of the infidelity that happened years earlier. Their first exposure to being a cuckold was unpleasant but it helps prepare them to be supportive cuckolds later in life.

Clearly I have no proof that anything like a psychological vaccination exists or how effective it is.

Many men who have a cheating girlfriend or wife in their life is a very negative experience but some of these jilted men later then desire to be a cuckold and others do not.

My theory is that there are two ways in which a cuckold experience can “vaccinate” and lead a man to develop an interest in being a cuckold or involved with it in some way.

The first is a man who finds out about his girlfriend’s or wife’s infidelity. Often he ends the relationship or marriage but repeatedly thinks about what happened. Over time this women becomes the star of the erotic fantasies he plays in his mind. All men are voyeurs to some extend and for some men imagining a former girlfriend or wife having sex with other men becomes, at first, their kinky fantasy and later something more.

The second is when a man discovers or is told that his girlfriend or wife has been cheating on him and he becomes upset and feels betrayed. Often he breaks up with or divorces the cheating woman. He then goes through a period of anger where he recounts in his mind the things he did with the woman. He tries to think of reasons why she cheated on him.

Was it something he did?

Is he sexually inadequate?

Why didn’t he recognize the signs of her infidelity?

Who knew about her cheating but didn’t tell him about it?

Did anyone enjoy seeing this woman make a fool of him?

Perhaps the man becomes addicted to the intense emotions he felt when he learned about the infidelity and overtime these emotions become mixed up with his sexual arousal.

At first he is disgusted at the thought of having sex with her after she might have sex with another guy but he also begins to wonder. This is when the man begins to imagine his ex-girlfriend/wife having sex with another man and it arouses him. He then is ashamed of his arousal and slowly the memories of the relationship and her cheating becomes a kinky fantasy he occasionally thinks about. He accepts his “perversion” and some of these men eventually approach their current girlfriend or wife on this taboo subject.

Are there any readers who have experienced this for themselves?

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January 31, 2016
How I Became the Husband of a Hotwife

A hotwife is a woman who engages in sexual relations with other men outside of her marriage or relationship with her husbands approval. This hotwife-cuckold husband phenomenon has been steadily increasing over the past few decades and it is no surprise that having a hotwife ranks as one of the top fantasies among males. How does the husband feel when his wife is having sex with someone else? Whose idea was it? SimplySxy finds out from a husband of a hotwife, on how hotwifing came into his marriage and what is it about being a husband of a hotwife that turns him on.

When did the subject of hotwifing first come up in your relationship?

The subject first came up around 6-7 years ago. I had mentioned that I was interested in her being with other men in the past and then I started to learn more about the hotwife lifestyle (prior to that, I didn’t realize it was a “thing”). The more I read and learned about it the more intrigued I got. For context, we had been together for about 12 years (between dating and marriage) at the time.

Is this a fantasy that one of you always wanted before the subject was brought up?

Yes, it was a fantasy of mine.

What made the other party agree? (If one required some form of persuasion)

I was pretty persistent on it, but at the same time gave her time (I’m not the type to be forceful and really only have fun when my wife is having fun too). I would bring it up, and then let it go, and then bring it up and let it go. I always gave her time to think it over and was never pushy about it. We had explored with others a few times here and there over the years (never really considered ourselves as swingers though), so that bit of openness may have helped.

Ultimately it was just after we got back from a vacation and I emailed her with something short that was effectively “What would it take for you to have a boyfriend?”, that got her to start her search for a man to explore with.

How did the preparation for the first experience of your wife with another man go?

Her very first date was a just drinks date. She had met a man online, talked with him over email for a bit before arranging for a night to meet for a drink. I can still remember a few days before the date when she told me “I met someone online and am going out for a drink with him.” So in terms of preparations there weren’t many other than some coordination on when she should text me to let me know things were going ok.

What is it about this lifestyle that turns you on the most?

I LOVE a woman who is strong, confident and sexy and there is something about a hotwife that hits on all those points for me. It’s about her having her fun (not me telling/asking her to do things) that I love. I also love to see her with another man and I also love a slut 🙂

I’m a married and professional guy, I truly love women and sex and have found the hotwife lifestyle an amazing journey so far, full of ups and downs but never boring 🙂 Visit my blog to read my stories www.husbandofahotwife.blogspot.com

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May 31, 2015