A hotwife is a woman who engages in sexual relations with other men outside of her marriage or relationship with her husbands approval. This hotwife-cuckold husband phenomenon has been steadily increasing over the past few decades and it is no surprise that having a hotwife ranks as one of the top fantasies among males. How does the husband feel when his wife is having sex with someone else? Whose idea was it? SimplySxy finds out from a husband of a hotwife, on how hotwifing came into his marriage and what is it about being a husband of a hotwife that turns him on.
When did the subject of hotwifing first come up in your relationship?
The subject first came up around 6-7 years ago. I had mentioned that I was interested in her being with other men in the past and then I started to learn more about the hotwife lifestyle (prior to that, I didn’t realize it was a “thing”). The more I read and learned about it the more intrigued I got. For context, we had been together for about 12 years (between dating and marriage) at the time.
Is this a fantasy that one of you always wanted before the subject was brought up?
Yes, it was a fantasy of mine.
What made the other party agree? (If one required some form of persuasion)
I was pretty persistent on it, but at the same time gave her time (I’m not the type to be forceful and really only have fun when my wife is having fun too). I would bring it up, and then let it go, and then bring it up and let it go. I always gave her time to think it over and was never pushy about it. We had explored with others a few times here and there over the years (never really considered ourselves as swingers though), so that bit of openness may have helped.
Ultimately it was just after we got back from a vacation and I emailed her with something short that was effectively “What would it take for you to have a boyfriend?”, that got her to start her search for a man to explore with.
How did the preparation for the first experience of your wife with another man go?
Her very first date was a just drinks date. She had met a man online, talked with him over email for a bit before arranging for a night to meet for a drink. I can still remember a few days before the date when she told me “I met someone online and am going out for a drink with him.” So in terms of preparations there weren’t many other than some coordination on when she should text me to let me know things were going ok.
What is it about this lifestyle that turns you on the most?
I LOVE a woman who is strong, confident and sexy and there is something about a hotwife that hits on all those points for me. It’s about her having her fun (not me telling/asking her to do things) that I love. I also love to see her with another man and I also love a slut 🙂
I’m a married and professional guy, I truly love women and sex and have found the hotwife lifestyle an amazing journey so far, full of ups and downs but never boring 🙂 Visit my blog to read my stories www.husbandofahotwife.blogspot.com
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