Tag: Cuckoldry

  • A Guide to Cuckold Terminology

    A Guide to Cuckold Terminology

    There are many euphemisms and slang used for sex and for those in the cuckold/hot-wife lifestyle is no exception. Here are some terms, not necessarily associated with cuckoldry that reader might encounter:

    Cougar/Puma is a term used to describe a mature or older woman who seeks out young men for partners. Some “cougars” are married women involved with cuckoldry who  will describe themselves as being a “cougar” because they enjoy the age difference they have with young, virile men so much. There are wives who enjoy the age play of this lifestyle so much that they will frequent bars and clubs near military bases so they can help “support the troops”—at least all that they can handle.

    Cream Pie or Cream-pie refers to the state of a woman’s vagina after she has had unprotected sex. This term is usually used as a woman “has a cream pie” that was created by her and her lover. For some women, this is the ultimate way to humiliate her cuckold or make him acknowledge and confront the special lifestyle they share is to make him clean up her cream pie.

    Cuckquean  the female version of a cuckold. Here, a husband has sex with other women all with his wife’s acceptance and support while she remains faithful to him. In these relationships, the man is usually dominant over his cuckquean and sometimes she is bisexual or performs bisexual as directed by the man. In these relationship, the man is sometimes called a “hot-husband”.

    Double Penetration is when a woman is simultaneously penetrated by two men in some combination; vaginal & oral, vaginal & anal, anal & oral.

    Gangbang refers to a gathering where a woman has sex with many different men one after another. This is also called “training” because the men line up to have sex with the woman. Sometimes, this also involves some form of simultaneous penetration; see double or triple penetration.

    Greedy wife/Greedy woman is only used in the UK that I know of and described a women, usually married, who crave sex with many different men. Supposedly these women are “greedy” because they are not satisfied with just one man and want more men than they are supposedly entitled to have.

    On a sidenote, I would be interested from hearing from anyone outside the UK where this term is used the same way.

    Gloryhole/Glory Hole refers to a make shift opening a booth or closet through which a man puts his penis so someone on the other side can perform orally on him. Quite often “gloryholes” can be found in “adult entertainment centers” or “peep shows”. This activity is for women that enjoy truly anonymous sexual activities. Some  involved with a cuckold lifestyle create a gloryhole somewhere in their home.

    Hen Party refers to a gather of women or mostly women to drink and have some fun. while this is not specifically a cuckold-related term some women involved with cuckoldry like to have special hens parties where bring in or go somewhere featuring male strippers. Sometimes a cuckold husband will serve as the designated driver for a girls’ night out.

    QOS/Queen-of-Spades is often used to describe a wife with a white husband who seeks out black men for sex. Some women like this will get a spade-symbol or “QOS” tattooed somewhere on their body’s which in certain social situations serves as a sign to others of their special interest in black men.

    Size Queen refers to a woman who prefers and seeks out sexual partners that are well-endowed. Often a wife involved with a cuckold-lifestyle will refer to herself as a “size queen” and that she got into the lifestyle because her husband is under endowed.

    Snowball  refers to a woman hold a load a ejaculate in her mouth and pass it to to someone else by kissing them. Often a woman will take the ejaculation of a man into her mouth and then she kisses her cuckold thereby giving him a “snowball”. This again, can be one of the ways a woman humiliates her cuckold—by giving him the cum from her lover in a kiss.

    The Look refers to instances where a woman, usualy married, approaches or is engaged in a sexual act with another man and she looks back at her husband to make sure he sees her and what she is doing. This is also called “eye contact”.

    Triple Penetration where a woman is penetrated simultaneously by three men. Some also call this an “air tight” scene.


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  • Why my husband gets excited watching me have sex with other men

    Why my husband gets excited watching me have sex with other men

    I can’t speak for all men or husbands because I honestly don’t know what goes through all men’s minds or if they think the same. I can only speak for my hubby, and for the men who send me messages when they see my pictures online.

    From my hubby’s point-of-view, it’s the fact that he’s married to a woman who other men desire and want to fuck, but who despite having all these other men who she’s had sex with, is still married to her hubby. That actually sounds awful when I read it back, it makes me sound like the local whore … ‘all these other men’, but you know what I mean. It may seem strange to a lot of people reading this, who for one reason or another don’t understand this ‘lifestyle’, or who just think it’s deviant or wrong. But you can’t willingly go into this unless you have a strong marriage to begin with. You seriously can’t.

    Because at the end of the day, despite who I’ve been sleeping with, and how big his cock is, or how good the sex is, I still go back home to hubby because the difference is, as I’ve said previously, for me, this lifestyle is purely a physical thing. It’s not about love, it’s just an act of sex. I truly love my hubby and I know he loves me too. I know that at the end of the day, that’s still going to be the case, and that it’s not going to change.

    When i think about it now, i do wonder if maybe what we do is similar in some ways to when you see the extremely rich/powerful older man with the young and beautiful trophy wife on his arm? Maybe this is the ordinary, normal everyday working man’s definition of this?  Or is could just be as simple of a husband getting visually turned on by seeing another man fucking his wife, and seeing her getting used that way?

    Men are visually stimulated after all.

    I could keep guessing and theorizing all day, but at the end of the day still be no nearer the truth.  Would I like it if my hubby was sleeping around with other women? No, no i wouldn’t, not that, that’s something he’s ever shown interest in. So there’s another aspect to this lifestyle to take into consideration.  What I do know is, that I do get a lot of messages and emails from men saying, ‘I wish my wife was like you’ or, ‘You’re such a sexy slut, I wish I was married to you’. So I’m at a loss, am I really to explain it?

    Who knows, maybe the appeal for a man at seeing his wife have sex with another man, is something that’s been written into his genetic makeup. Maybe those scientists who did that genome mapping will one day discover a gene for it, i mean … there appears to be one for just about everything else, doesn’t there. Why not that as well?

    The cuckold gene? lol


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  • How to find out if your husband is a Cuckold

    How to find out if your husband is a Cuckold

    There was one time when I doubted my hubby’s intention regarding the swinger world. He told me “I don’t want to be with anyone else but you … But I want you to be with lots of men and fuck like crazy”. I was hardwired to expect the opposite from men. They’re usually the ones who go and stick their sticks inside as much females as it’s humanly possible. Why was this man that I love asking to reverse roles? Did he have a hidden agenda? Did he want to play it as a future card whenever he felt like fucking a stranger at a party?

    Plenty of ideas went through my mind at the beginning, but then they dissipated on time. I found out he was really into assuming the passive role in the relationship while wanting me to develop an uncanny lust for fuck buddies and keep him posted. The moment of truth for IMG_3450Ame occurred during our first rendezvous with a swinger couple about three years ago. Both of them were really attractive people. The four of us were in a hotel room, dancing to Gossip and touching each other, but when my husband felt the timing was perfect, he just stood away and found himself a nice chair to witness the three of us having sex. Even though he found the lady amazingly sexy, it wasn’t his intention to have his way with her. He just wanted to see me getting tons of pleasure, but mainly from the man. “Fuck my wife”, he whispered at him several times.

    This was obviously a new world to me. I wasn’t ready to cope with such a sexual response, but then I knew his kink was a complement of my sex drive. It was like two parts of a puzzle meant to fit perfectly into each other. I began to notice things I didn’t pay that much attention before. Like when you see Fight Club for the second time and realize it was freaking obvious that Brad Pitt was … Well, you know if you’ve seen the film. There were hints all over my husband’s behavior that made it clear: he is a proud cuckold.

    Below are some of these clues I will disclose for you to find out for yourself if that man who is so attentive and amazing towards you is indeed a potential cucky. Read and enjoy …

    1. He’s really eager to know about your past lovers.

    2. He’s got no problem at all with you hitting the streets in a slutty outfit and even encourages it by shopping for sexy stuff by himself.

    3. He’s told you that sometimes when masturbating, he pictures you with another man.

    4. He loves to set you up with different dance partners at parties or bars. He’s got no problem at all with naughty dancing.

    5. He loves to know if someone’s been flirting on you at the street or the office.

    6. He asks for it. Duh!

    7. He’s confessed to imagining you as a porn actress while watching naughty videos.

    8. He keeps telling you about guys who you might find appealing.

    9. He gets an erection when you tell him you’d like to be with another man, imaginary or real (the penis doesn’t lie).

    10. You find a lot of ‘cheating wife’ searches in his computer.

    11. He talks a lot about how he feels not capable of pleasing you.

    Of course, it’s not mandatory that showing any or some of these attributes actually means your husband wants to be cuckolded, but most men with hotwife fantasies have them. So it’s just a guideline for you to explore. Don’t go and spill the beans on him like it’s nothing. Try to probe him by telling him about a steamy video you saw of a cuckold couple or just bringing the topic to the table because you happened to read it in a magazine.

    Now, find out for yourself and enjoy it.


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  • How Cuckolding strengthens my relationship

    How Cuckolding strengthens my relationship

    From an outsider’s perspective, we are the quintessential loving couple. We laugh at each other’s jokes—real laughing, not an obliged sympathetic chuckle. We travel together without fighting—even when exhausted and delayed. We throw amazing dinner parties, always have time to kiss and after two years, still look forward to seeing each other. By all accounts, we are pretty damn adorable. Yet, we have a secret. A secret that more often than not ends a relationship. A secret that may lead to years of struggle if a couple even decides to work through it.

    I cheated on my boyfriend. I cheated and he knows it … but it’s okay.

    Contrary to the norm, my acts of indiscretion have actually brought us closer together, and not in the sense that ‘we worked through it and are stronger now.’ Rather, my trysts were planned with the open knowledge of my boyfriend, even performed in his presence. “Cuckolding”, as it is termed, rather than destroying intimacy and trust, has fortified these very qualities within our relationship. The amount of trust and emotional closeness required to even have a conversation about cuckolding is staggeringly beyond what many couples experience in a relationship’s lifetime. Finding the words and courage to say that you want to have sex with someone else (or that you want your partner to) and not destroy the relationship is testimony to the bond shared by cuckolding couples.

    This has been my experience, as I have a deep sense of security within my relationship. I have already committed what some consider to be the ultimate relationship sin, what shatters it beyond repair, more than once. When married or those in a committed relationship discover their partner has shared sexual relations with someone else, the effects can be devastating.

    The terms and euphemisms associated with adultery appropriately describe the negative effects of non-monogamy, i.e. “cheating”, “sneaking around”, “unfaithful”. Notice that these terms amplify the aspect of the deceit that often accompanies adultery. It is noted that most who have been “the cheated on” confess that, more than the knowledge of the sexual acts committed, the lying was more hurtful and damaging to the relationship. This is further proven by the common issue among couples who stay together after adultery, as one partner admits to no longer being able to trust. This is astoundingly, the reason for further problems in the relationship.

    In contrast, our sexual honesty and openness have brought us closer together. I know he loves me because he accepts me. I do not feel the need to conceal part of myself because I am ashamed of my fantasies. I feel free. He trusts me as I have been open about my desires and he knows that even when I have relations with another man, it only intensifies our love and connection. He is a part of the process, it is an act that we share, and that we both find arousing.

    For example, we elevate the act of cuckolding by ritualizing. My boyfriend assists me in getting ready, such as shopping for new lingerie or getting my hair done. He draws my bath, pours my wine, selects my choices of wardrobe. The sensuality is palpable as he straightens my stocking lines and attaches them to my garters. Every step is deliberate, slow, completely lascivious—and shared. It is within the membrane of these before and after moments that intimacy is nurtured. Cuckolding is far more than sex. It encompasses freedom and openness that can ultimately be expressed by sex. When reflecting upon our experiences, I feel powerful and in control, both of my sexuality as a woman and my freedom of life. This freedom and power is the superlative aphrodisiac for both of us, more so than any physical aspect.

    Understanding that arousal of power has led me to incorporate certain facets of cuckolding fantasy into my repertoire as a dominatrix. Some of my clients envy the open relationship my boyfriend and I enjoy, craving our experience yet terrified to broach the subject with their partners. Others have discussed their fantasies only to be rejected or scorned. Indeed, cuckolding is not for everyone. However, it is for us and we are thankful to have found each other.

    Yes, we will continue throwing those parties, laughing and living, all the while a little a flutter inside knowing that we, as a couple, have a sexy and kinky little secret. Now that’s romantic.


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  • Organise your own successful Gangbang!

    Organise your own successful Gangbang!

    I’d like to think we all know the rules: If you’re the only girl and you’re up against three or more guys, that’s considered a gang bang, and it’s one of the wildest scenarios you might find yourself in when leading a cuckold lifestyle.IMG_3483a

    Although being with just one man other than your husband is the best choice for a hotwife —for a lot of reasons I’m not gonna address here—, a gang bang also offers it’s fair share of advantages and it will be fun for you, your cuckold and your male guests.  And there are some reasons sometimes we’d rather do a gang bang than a one-on-one date, or at least it was that way when we first started on the lifestyle.

    For a cuckold husband, the sole idea of watching her wife fucked by many men is simply one of the biggest turn-ons on Earth.  It’s just too exciting a scene and he can arm himself with a nice camera and just tape the whole thing from different angles to feed his personal collection of wifey porn. What’s not to like?  For the hotwife it’s the chance to be the center of the Universe, or at least the focus of a group of horny males.  Just like in porn, but close and personal.

    We first started gangbanging because we were on the prowl for well–hung, mature and educated men. But we didn’t want to set a date and end up disappointed by him.  I mean, we only made contact through swinger sites that depended on reputation via validations. That means there are other couples that have been with your candidate and if their experience was bad they will register that on the guy’s profile. If the encounter was good… Well, they will praise him and whatnot.  But if some guy works for a certain couple there’s no guarantee it will hit the spot for you, so anyway you’re kinda in a blind spot when seeking a ‘perfect guy’ to fit your criteria.

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  • What is a Hotwife?

    What is a Hotwife?

    I get asked all the time what a Hotwife is? Let me start by putting it very simply, Freedom. Freedom is readily available for the Hotwife who is in stable relationship with a Cuckold husband. I have complete control in deciding whom I wish to have sex with and when I have sex with them. My Cuckold husband has no control in whom I fuck or when I fuck other men. He actually wears the panties in the family! That’s the way our Hotwife Cuckold relationship is.

    I was always a nasty girl who liked to fuck and wanted to be with numerous men (boredom with same cock comes quickly for me) but society looks at this as wrong way. Our current culture says I am a slut or whore because I love to fuck lots of men.

    I always knew I had deep sexual desires to fuck as many men as possible. Again, society says I am a dirty little slut for feeling and acting this way. Guess what now I am proud to say “I am a dirty little Slut” and I love it.

    When my husband first told me he wanted to share me with other men, it confused me and scared me and I thought this must be wrong even though deep down, I loved the idea. Society says having what you want sexually is wrong. Who makes these rules anyway? For a Hotwife, you are allowed and encouraged to fuck other men, how liberating. Why should we listen to what society says about how we are supposed to live our lives. Isn’t it your life to live? As long as both husband and wife are in agreement with the situation and it heightens the relationship, I say go for it!

    In the beginning we would go to regular bars and clubs to find other men.

    It was very hard in the beginning to find other men to fuck; I think I scared them with my aggressiveness and the whole situation. We were still figuring out our boundaries.

    We started going to swingers clubs and it became much easier to find lots of guys to fuck! The men at swingers clubs understand what is happening and are not frightened that my husband is right there.

    My cuckold does not take other women but he is allowed to fuck me almost daily. He loves watching me get fucked and it is the highlight of his week when he gets to clean a fresh creampie out of my pussy. We talk about what turns us on and what our boundaries are, since this does change as you progress in the Hotwife Cuckold relationship. At first, I wanted him in the same room while I fucked another man and did not feel completely comfortable being alone with another man. This stemmed from wondering what my little cuckold was doing while I was not with him. This was my own insecurity and ignorance of our situation. As timed passed, I understood that my cuckold husband was just sitting like a little schoolboy waiting to eat my fucked pussy like it was an afterschool snack!

    The highlights of this relationship for me are the feeling of being like a princess. Who wouldn’t feel like a princess when you have more than one man wanting to please you as many times as you will allow. I love the freedom to choose who I want to fuck. Variety is the spice of life and how true that is, I can have a man who is short, tall, well built, young or from any ethnic background I choose. I get a new sexy Hotwife outfit to go out in every weekend.

    It is an awesome feeling when your husband points out a man that he thinks you might be attracted to or wants to see you in bed with. It is the type of love where you know that there is nothing that will separate the two of you and no matter what, you always go home or come home to your Cuckold husband.

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  • Swingers Lifestyle Revealed: Our Unusual Relationship

    Swingers Lifestyle Revealed: Our Unusual Relationship

    Our relationship is a strange one. When people ask us what we like to do, we often need to take more thought than a “normal” couple would and censor the answer just a bit. We do enjoy things like drinking, dancing, going to movies, etc. But in the whole scheme of things, we are often bored by those normal activities. We found a lifestyle that better suits us. A lifestyle that allows us me meet fun, like-minded people, and to explore limitations within ourselves. We have an open relationship, or as some call us: swingers.

    My wife and I met when I was deployed to Germany for Operation Enduring Freedom. I am 12 years older than she is, and when we met she was only 18. She had only had one sexual experience to that point and it was not a good one. She had written off sex as something that people do, but that she would never enjoy. Once our relationship developed to that point, she realized that there was a lot of fun to be had that she had never tapped into, and I realized that I had awakened a side of her that she had never seen. I decided that I wanted her to be able to explore this new sexual fondness, so then began the conversations about whether to make this fantasy into a reality.

    Our first experience was with a single male. As awkward as it was, it made both of us realize that this is a lifestyle that we can both really enjoy. From that first experience, it has grown into an open relationship in which we both are able to play with couples or singles, alone or together. And even as most people do not understand it, after being in this lifestyle for over 8 years, we are closer than ever with one another. We love the new opportunities and adventures that this has given to us, but even more than that we cherish the new friendships that we have been able to make.

    Probably the most common question that we are asked is “how do you two make such an alternative lifestyle work?”. Our answer is actually the most obvious: honesty. We always tell each other what we are going, and make sure that the other is good with it. We help each other fulfill fantasies, and always share our experiences with one another. Rules have to be in place, always followed, and understanding that different situations can bring about different rules at any time. We have had a few bumps in the road, but overall we have had great experiences and wouldn’t want to live our lives any other way.

    Scott and Rachael

    Rachael is 27 and bi. Scott is 39 and straight. We have been married for a little over 6 years. We are on SLS at ohiocpl23 and Rachael has her Twitter https://twitter.com/sharedwife23

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  • Cuckoldry and Emotions

    Cuckoldry and Emotions

    Let us consider the emotions in cuckold relationships which are usually complex, conflicting and intense. In order to prevent problems from arising, both parties—the man and woman need to learn to first carefully consider their emotions and discuss things on a regular basis. The woman must reconcile her societal conditioning. Most women have been raised to be “good girls”, which often meant they were expected to suppress their sexuality and enjoyment of sexual pleasures. The cuckold should make it clear to the woman that he accepts and supports the sensual and sexual pleasure she enjoys outside their relationship while he remains faithful to her.

    This is important for most women so they do not feel guilt associated with what they would normally perceive as infidelity and so they can fully enjoy their sexual freedom. In some cases, special consideration must be given to help the woman overcome her good-girl conditioning.

    Virtually all cuckold men experience a varied set of emotions that often leaves them feeling conflicted about their situation. Many men bounce between several different emotional states as they ponder their situation: arousal, fear, guilt, humiliation, jealousy, regret, shame, submissiveness. This is one reason that couples should not rush into doing anything. The novice cuckold needs time to adjust emotionally to his conflicted feelings. Similarly, the woman may need time to “process” what she wants or has done.

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    This rich set of emotions the man experiences is known as “cuckold angst” which some men actually learn to appreciate. For other men, special consideration is needed to help them overcome the negative emotions they experience. The best way to avoid bad feelings for a prospective cuckold or someone contemplating this lifestyle is to carefully consider why they want or became involved in this lifestyle. This introspection can include the following:

    – Writing down one’s feelings. This can be done as a solo exercise or something that is shared with their partner.
    – A direct discussion with their partner or possibly a trusted third party about their feelings and concerns.
    – The recitation of a mantra as previously mentioned.
    – Both the man and women should try and expose themselves and each other to modern cuckold lifestyles in a gradual way. Before engaging in any activity, it is generally advisable for the couple to describe to each other various cuckold fantasy scenarios that they have and discuss them.

    Some couples may find that they prefer for their participation in cuckoldry to stay at the fantasy stage while others build on the path of fantasy to actual participation in this lifestyle.

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  • Cuckoldry & Pornography

    Cuckoldry & Pornography

    In keeping with this month’s topic I will review the ways in which “porn” or erotica is depicted and can be used by those involved with or interested in a cuckold lifestyle.

    For Uninitiated or Novice Couples

    First, there are a lot of website that feature videos of hot-wives, soccer moms, sluts, horny housewives, size-queens, MILF, GILF … etc.  Most of these are staged professionals or semi-amateur productions.  Some are good, others unrealistic compared with the way most couples/women practice their own form of the lifestyle.  At least some of the semi-amateur videos provide a depiction of how a cuckold relationship might work at times.

    Aside from the videos that have an overtly cuckold-related themes, just about any might be useful for a shy husband or sexually bored wife to get their partner to reveal more about their feelings about certain sexual activities—as a prelude to actually mentioning a cuckold fantasy either has.

    A husband might show his middle-aged wife a video showing an older woman having hot sex with a young virile man to get her thinking about her own “cougar” fantasy.

    It is usually a good idea to prepare some quiet time to watch these videos together when everyone is in the mood to watch something and maybe play afterward.  While watching the video, the husband or wife should try and arouse their partner just a little.  Doing this can help the partner open up to ideas that they have suppressed or denied.

    For some women, just watching a sexual explicit video can help them overcome their “good girl” conditioning.  Getting to see a woman freely enjoying her sexuality in an real amateur or well acted production can be very liberating.

    For Experienced Couples

    For couples already involved with a cuckold lifestyle, adult videos or erotica can serve a different purpose.  They can be used to help the couple further explore the variations and extremes of the lifestyle. After viewing videos on things like double-penetration, gang bangs, D&S play, glory hole … etc. the couple can make a more informed decision if they want to explore these sexual “avenues”.

    Apart from videos, there are web sites and forums that carry captioned images with cuckold-related themes.  For example: a photo of a woman in the throes of sexual pleasure as she couples with a lover is captioned “Oh, You are so much bigger and more satisfying than my husband”.

    These types of images can be used by a perspective cuckold to prepare himself for the real thing. I know one husband who refers to these images as “visual mantras”.

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  • Cuckold Relationships

    Cuckold Relationships

    As a couple gets comfortable with a cuckold lifestyle their sexual attitudes and activities often change.

    For the woman there is often a sense that sexual pleasure is something she has a right to enjoy.  The woman’s sense of sexual entitlement sometimes leads into her increasingly dominating her cuckold.  In contrast, the cuckold may feel sexual pleasure for him is secondary or something he has to earn.  The ways and type of sexual pleasures a cuckold earns is generally left to the woman.

    Some women may enjoy limiting the frequency or type of sexual pleasure that their cuckold has – some examples of this might be;

    • The cuckold must wear a condom when he is allowed to have sex with the woman even though she doesn’t use one with her other partner.
    • The cuckold is not allowed to ejaculate inside the woman as this privilege is reserved for her boyfriend/lover.  This rule is sometimes combined with the condom one so that the cuckold must stop having coitus before he ejaculates, withdraw and finish by masturbating while wearing the condom.
    • The woman no longer gives the cuckold oral sex even though she gives it freely to her lover and the cuckold must provide it to her whenever she wants.
    • The cuckold is restricted from having any regular sex with the woman.

    Many men find that their feelings of sexual arousal become heightened after becoming a cuckold.  Similarly their interest in sex becomes much more focused on their partner’s activities and pleasure.

    Over time the woman might find a regular boyfriend/lover whom they share a bond with.  At the same time, the cuckold may find ways of pleasing his lady apart from regular, penetrative sex.  For example, some cuckolds learn to give their lady a great massage or pedicure.  While the cuckolds have less traditional sex they sometimes learn to derive emotional pleasure from doing other sexual or non-sexual things for their wives/girlfriends.

    Some women may find that they enjoy having several boyfriend or lovers while others only want one extra partner at a time.

    One issue some women experience is that their boyfriend/lover wants to them leave or divorce themselves from their cuckold.  In these cases, the women often end the relationship.  To avoid this problem, it is best for the woman to make her status and intentions clear at the outset.  Some women actually seek out boyfriends/lovers who are married since they are much less likely to become demanding because they need to keep their activities secret.

    Other changes in the couples relationship might include:

    • The woman taking trips and vacations with her lover.  These might be trips where the lover accompanies the woman and cuckold.  For others, it usually means the woman goes off with her lover leaving her cuckold at home – usually to do chores.
    • At times, the cuckold might be required to seek out new potential boyfriends or lovers for the woman.
    • The cuckold sometimes chauffeurs the woman and her lover on a special date.

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