Corporal Punishment Part II | Are You Ready For Pain?

“What is corporal punishment? Read Part I here if you haven’t done (http://simplysxy.com/articles/2014/12/18/corporal-punishment-are-you-ready-for-pain/) The majority of my discipline and CP sessions are punishments for real life misdemeanours from men who feel they need to be disciplined or punished for bad behaviour (past or present). They genuinely do not like being punished but feel they need
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Corporal Punishment Part I | Are You Ready For Pain?

“What is corporal punishment? In short, it’s a physical punishment typically involving spanking by hand or with various implements including caning and whipping. But what is it really all about? Want to know more? Then carry on reading! CP (corporal punishment) and BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism) is quite a talking point in the media at the
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Humiliation by Mistress Violet

Humiliation is a word used in the fetish scene and has 100 meanings. For some, humiliation is being forced to shag a blow up doll because they are not worthy of real women. Others find it humiliating to be used as a human toilet (My personal opinion of the toughest form of humiliation) either for
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SEX WORK BURNOUT: PART II

Eventually, I heard the word ‘burnout’ by other sex workers and it suddenly made perfect sense. I couldn’t cope with the intensity that came with being a sex worker, a student and a full-time worker in another job. It was strange because I was so used to overworking. My whole life I committed myself to
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SEX WORK BURNOUT: PART I

​It can be difficult, as a sex worker, to talk about my bad experiences because it feeds platitudes so often attached to sex work. I almost feel like it’s unnecessary, when I do speak people respond unhelpfully, even the well-intentioned ones. Then I run the risk of my story being stolen, remodelled and used to
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The Art of Sex – Tantra

Today, the only common ground in the world of Tantra, is the belief that it is highly misunderstood.  We live in a time where relationships are broke and our sexual bodies are weak. Sexual dysfunctions and surgical modifications leave a generation with no where to turn and the need for Tantra is greater than ever.
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10 Ways to Make Him Feel Special

Lisa Pearl, a sexy and sensual NYC based courtesan shares 10 ways to make a guy feel special. Dear sisters, Only do the following when he is 100% committed to you and treats you like a dream girl: Don’t make him feel miserable, don’t be like his grandmother and nag on him Don’t compare him with
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What do most men do after sex

I am one of those men who believe that – The sex act can be divided into three components: foreplay, intercourse, and afterplay. Foreplay, about which volumes have been written, is the traditional lead-in to intercourse itself. Foreplay can last from minutes to hours, is limited primarily by imagination and creativity, and includes all activities that
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The Prospect of Beauty

The Prospect of Beauty was the theme for Singapore Writers Festival 2014. The ten day event was filled with a showcase of amazing international and local writers. Hidden among the varied panel events were gems of stories of established writers dealing with sex and sexuality in their works. One such gem was conversions that revolved
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