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  • The Strangest Fetishes that can be found on the Web

    The Strangest Fetishes that can be found on the Web

    Welcome to the Internet! Whilst it is one of the greatest archives of human knowledge in assistance, once you go to the Adult Section of this archive, you will find that it cesspool of dirty kinks. These kinks are usually dominated by Rule 34, aka. the idea that if it exists then there will be porn of it. Whilst you may be used to the idea of some of the weirder things out there, like foot fetishes and diaper fetishes, there are other kinks that may have been outside of your knowledge, or maybe things you just did not want to know about. Here are some of the most obscure kinks that can only be understood through research on the internet.

    Agalmatophilia

     Sexual Arousal to Statues

    When it comes admiring art, Agalmatophilia takes this to a whole new level. Whilst you may think that this may just include ogling a number of Greek statues with their curves and breasts fully displayed, it also references naked dolls and mannequins. Whilst some just feel sexual arousal to these sort of body-shaped objects, there are others who indulge in the paralysis fetish and actually feel like they have fallen in love with the statues. This includes one 40-year-old woman who fell in love with a three-foot statue of the Greek God Adonis. She bought the statue for £395 and treats him like a living companion. These actions include reading and talking to him, kissing and caressing him and even eating dinner with him.

    The feelings of arousal and intimacy can come from the idea of seeing human perfection in an inanimate object. They have the perfect body, therefore the owner can envision their own personality and attributes around them.

    Brat Play

    Sexual Arousal to Disobeying the Instructions of the Dominative Partner

    This mostly refers to the idea of Sub/Dom play, where the “brat” (aka. the sub) purposefully disobeys the dom in order to get their “negative attention.” Of Course, this negative attention usually ends with them being sexually punished until the obey the command. Usually, depending on how extreme the sub/dom relationship is, the punishments will also get more sexual/extreme the more that the sub disobeys.

    Daddy Kink

    Sexual Arousal to a Dominative Male Partner

    Now, this is a kink that is relatively straight forward. It is the idea of calling a dominative partner “Daddy” during sex as an act of submission. Usually, it can accompany the submissive partner being spanked or sexually pleasured until they say it.

    Feederism

    Sexual Arousal to either being fed or doing the feeding

    This tends to fall under the idea of Fat Fetishism. Usually, there tend to be two participants in this act. One is the feeder, who cooks the meals and feeds the other, and the feedee, the one who eats the food. The main object is to make the feedee gain weight. Both are interested in either being (or being with) a larger partner. However, the extremity of the feeding relationship tends to depend on the couple. Some are happy with simply gaining a few pounds whilst others take it to the extreme and attempt to gain intimacy from helping their partner become obese. This may even get to the point where the feedee becomes fully dependent on the feeder for daily tasks.

    Katoptronophilia

    Sexual Arousal to Mirrors

    You have heard of the story of Narcissus before, but you probably have not heard of Katoptronophilia! Though both link to the idea of being turned on to an image of yourself, the idea of sexual arousal in front of a mirror also allows for your partner to join in on the fun. Whether it is a long-term boy/girlfriend, a quick hook up or even one of the gorgeous Croydon Escorts, this kink tends to be a little more time, as it entails that you can watch yourself enjoy being pleasured, but it can also be a great ego booster. No longer do you need to watch porn to indulge your kinks, instead, you can be the pornstar in your own personal mirror show!

    Knismolagnia

    Sexual Arousal to Tickling

    If you go on the weird side of DeviantArt, this is a fetish that is normally captured by artists that reside in a fanbase. Whilst it may sound weird that tickling someone could cause sexual arousal, it is a form of sensation play that can bring a couple together. It is also the feeling of domination that can arrive from being at the mercy of someone else, especially if the “ticklee” is tied up and cannot stop the “tickler.” This is something that can also involve tickle machines and play objects, such as feathers (which leads to a different kink, known as “Pteronphilia”) and soft whips.

    Macrophilia

    Sexual Arousal to Giantess Sex

    If a person is a macrophiliac, then you will find that they are extremely attracted to someone who is extremely large in comparison to themselves. They may find themselves extremely turned on by the idea of giants or being stepped on by the giant themselves.

    Psellismophilia

    Sexual Arousal to Stuttering

    When it comes to kinks, this may be a smaller one, but it truly proves that if it exists in the universe then you can create a sexual fetish out of it. But some people really do get excited over the idea of people stuttering. Whilst it can just be the idea of stuttering in general, it can also be a sexy submission tactic which can turn on the dom.

    Stygiophilia

    Sexual Arousal to Damnation and Hell

    Whilst this is a more abstract kink, it is more common than you think, as it is an attraction to the idea of “sinful” sex being able to send them to hell. Whilst the sex does not excite the user, the idea of damnation certainly does. A person with this kink may feel excited about the idea of sex taking place whilst being surrounded by heat and flames. They may also be heavily into Pecattiphilia, which is the idea where sexual arousal can come from the committing of sin and the experience of guilt.

    Ursusagalmatophilia

    Sexual Arousal to Teddy Bears

    When it comes to Teddy Bears, there are some people who want to do a lot more than just cuddling them! Take, for instance, Charles Marshall, an Ohio Resident, who was arrested four times for having intercourse with a teddy bear in a public place. In this case, it is most likely to keep your sexual activities hidden in the bedroom.

    Yiffing

    Sexual Arousal within the Furry Community

    If you are a regular visitor to the internet, you must know about Furries. Furries are people who are anthropomorphized animals enthusiasts. The animals have human characteristics and the furries tend to enjoy dressing up as them. They will use their created character online as a “fursona” and even go to conventions in a “pursuit.” This is the same for “Scalies”, except the furry animal personal is replaced with a reptile persona.

    Whilst this is a normal part of the internet, there has been controversy around the idea of “Yiffing”. Yiffing refers to sexual activity that happens amongst fursuiters, the name is created from the sound that foxes make during sex. This can involve furry pornography, cybersexing with other furries and even fully having sex in fursuits.

    Whilst the act of sex itself is not controversial, the fact that some furries were known for their sexual acts in public and in their convention hotels gave them a bad reputation. Although not all furries act in this manner, as some make it extremely clear that they are not interested in the sexual side of the fandom, some furries even go so far as to do cam sessions or sexy photo shoots whilst they are in their costumes.

    Zelophilia

    Sexual Arousal to Jealousy

    Although some couples are happy to indulge in the occasional swinging affair, there are other couples who actually get aroused from feeling jealous. This can be just from their partner flirting with someone else to actually watching them have sex with someone else!

    Get your Freak on!

    As the saying goes, “to each his own”, meaning that when it comes to sexual kinks and fantasies, everyone is an individual and is interested in their own kind of kicks. Whilst some may more extreme than others, we cannot deny that the internet is a dirty place. It brings forth some of the strangest kinks that we have never had previously assumed were even a thing. Try not to judge the kinks too harshly for, who knows, you might end up indulging in one in the future!

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  • What To Know About Domestic Discipline & Spanking

    What To Know About Domestic Discipline & Spanking

    I believe that kink is part of the human condition, maybe even integral to life itself. All the way back to bacteria in the primordial soup. Kink is an expression of life’s longing for variation. Everything being relative, all lifestyles are an alternative to something. Even that nuclear family aesthetic they pushed in the 50’s wasn’t ever “normal” and now I know several couples who live out those so-called traditional gender roles as part of their kinky alternative lifestyle.

    What Does Domestic Discipline Involve?

    Domestic discipline actually ties in very nicely with the 50’s aesthetic; the bread-winner husband comes home to find the home-maker wife burnt dinner and puts her over his knee for a sound spanking, that’s hot!

    Equally as hot would be hubby coming home and admitting that he didn’t get that raise he promised and ending over his wife’s knee. Although I’ve seen role plays of being punished by mom or dad under the heading of domestic discipline, I feel that it is mostly a dynamic of two people who share a domicile where one is the disciplinarian over the other.

    Why Subs Enjoy Being Disciplined

    This is such a complicated question, specifically when it comes to spanking, because it definitely occupies the same part of the brain as sex, but isn’t necessarily sexual for every sub. Some people who are “into” spanking were never spanked as a child and attribute the desire to experiencing something they missed out on, while others were spanked regularly and attribute it to that.

    Also, the word “enjoy” is not exactly right, because I’ve known subs to say that while they are being spanked they aren’t enjoying it but, at the same time, they don’t want it to stop because it’s what they need or deserve. “Why do subs desire being disciplined?” Or, even better, feel a “need” to be disciplined, is the question. As with many activities that fall under the BDSM heading, spanking has an element of power exchange.

    Giving your will over to someone in authority, who has your best interest at heart and is just giving you the direction you need via a good long spanking, is comforting in a way.

    Favorite Forms Of Punishment

    I really like to have a sub over my knees. I like to feel the tension in their body rise and fall as the spanking progresses. I like to feel their bodies shake with the strain of holding themselves in position while enduring their punishment, and then, finally, to feel them relax as they give in, that’s the best.

    Why Is Spanking Appealing To Both Parties?

    The first thing that comes to mind for me is “control”, giving it over and/or having control over someone. I think when being spanked myself, I ultimately want the person spanking me to be in charge. Of course, whenever you’re playing with anyone, consent is king and checking in is very important. But for me, I wouldn’t be over your knee if I didn’t trust you and wasn’t ready to get the spanking I deserve.

    Favorite Spanking Items!

    I always like to start with my hand. I give a very hard hand spanking. I’ve been told that my hand feels like a paddle. Although I have many implements that are designed specifically for spanking, I like to use things that can be found around the house like hair brushes, bath brushes, wooden spoons and belts. As far as being spanked, it’s pretty much the same.

    Ways To Kink Up Spanking Play

    Oh sure! You can add rope play, blind folds, tickling… Enemas are popular in some circles, especially making a sub hold it in during a spanking. Forced orgasm while being spanked is a fun variation.

    Just use your imagination and happy spanking!

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  • A Foodplay Session

    A Foodplay Session

    A Foodplay Session In Hong Kong

    I had exchanged some messages with R., whom I thought was an expatriate, given his name. I was in no hurry to meet him because, after a correspondence of several days, I noticed that he was in high demand, and someone acting with too much haste doesn’t get the same result from me. Also, someone listening to his own impulses at the expense of exchange doesn’t attract me. Nevertheless, I went there out of curiosity, willing to amuse myself. I didn’t show any desire to participate in the outdoor play fantasy he mentioned, a right I reserve to the submissives I already know.

    We had an appointment on a Wednesday of March at teatime in a hotel in Central. On the menu of the session, some practices for which we shared the craze: golden shower, foodplay and possibly shaving. I did not shave him for a good reason: the rest of the session was entertaining enough.

    Mistress Euryale

    At the door, the young Chinese man might have read the surprise on my face. His face looked much more youthful than 39 years old, half of it spent in Canada, the other half in Hong Kong. During a preliminary discussion, he mentioned his outdoor play fantasy again, and being sensitive to his positive energy, thinking that it could be funny, I accepted to play outside the next time we will meet, after my next trip to Shanghai. It seemed to excite him to the highest degree; however being watched by some potential witnesses also seemed quite scary for him: the conservatism of some Hong-Kong people might be a problem for the two perverse children that we are, and we could get into serious trouble. He seemed to enjoy playing attack and defense in a friendly match between being passionate and reasonable. His rhetoric didn’t convince me to make any decision regarding these activities. Therefore I concluded that we will leave room for improvisation next time, and not try to achieve any goal, any ideal session; this attitude might actually hinder the pleasure of these “forbidden games”. As expected for this foodplay session, R. had brought some small cupcakes for me to eat, or to be exact, to chew and spit on him. A banana, two cakes, and an ice cream were waiting for their conviction.

    Grabbing my leather handcuffs, I tied his hands in his back, threw him on the bed and straddle him. I began to tear his T-shirt apart brutally and to stuff his mouth with the pieces of tissue crushed in my hand. Surprise and fright suddenly appeared on his ephebe face, and I felt the desire to capture the moment. He accepted my request. I still remember this lovely face, even if my phone would disappear in a plane from Shanghai to Hong Kong a few days later, and with it, some photos from different BDSM sessions in Hong Kong.

    Time for some ice cream. Dipping a spoon into the cup, I started melting the cream into my mouth and spat it on his face, conscientiously. Soon, his eyes, nose, and mouth were covered of a thin layer of cream – I had spared his jet-black hair. Then I dropped his pants on his knees with authority, a gesture that I usually perform during a session of discipline, before a corporal punishment. This time I had the feeling that I was on the verge of sexually assaulting a very innocent young ephebe face… BDSM practices enable us to satisfy fantasies in a caring environment or to become aware of some hidden inclinations naturally… Standing on the bed, my feet on either side of his chest, I spat again and spread other ice cream chunks on his plexus. The bed quickly resembled a turbulent child’s room, littered with torn clothes, crushed ice and soon yellow stains. I threw some pieces of lemon cake on the floor, as I would have fed a wild dog, except that this dog had his hands tied behind his back and shreds of clothes miserably hanging on his body. The dog did not seem happy to crawl on the floor, pants down on his ankles.

    I told him to crawl to the shower and lie on his back. I spread my legs above his face. “Open your mouth and swallow!” He told me afterward that it was the first time he had drunk this way. It surprised me because of the ease with which he executed my order. The bathroom became the backdrop of some photography I took from him and parts of his body: his hair, his eyes that stared at me, and his incredible hands, as thin and graceful as most women’s hands.

    The shower tray was full of different mixtures made of cakes, liquid ice cream, and body liquids, to which I added a banana that I started crushing under my feet. Picking up the pieces, my toes dipped in and disappeared into his lips, then his tongue licked and swallowed my foot meticulously – I did not know if I was dealing with a young slave captive of my perverted games, or with a loyal and obedient dog.

    Time out of time, out of everything, as only BDSM plays can set out: we then started sharing about our personal experiences, following the thread of our fantasies, while I was still standing above him, alternating the proximity of my toes in front of his face, which he kept on worshipping with dedication.

    His first experience was in Toronto when a friend of his had scheduled a meeting with him in a BDSM bar. He did not know this last detail. It was, in fact, an ambush: three to four women, probably dominatrixes, had tied him up and tore off his clothes until he was naked in front of them. To my question, he replied that he did not know at that moment if he appreciated the experience of embarrassment. It was once the action was accomplished and processed that he had wished to feel the thrill of disgrace again – and had to acknowledge that he was one of “them,” these BDSM players.

    At the end of the session, I set up one of my favorite little game, which I enjoy declining in diverse variations. In front of a square of toilet paper, in front of his knees, he had to cum while respecting the stopwatch. The dice that I always keep in my bag turned into a stopwatch: he rolled it and found three. Three exact minutes and not a drop out of the square of paper. I tied his frail, slender thumbs together to make this task a little more difficult. After a minute, I could not restrain myself from bursting out laughing: his enjoyment had rudely snubbed the square of paper and lied on the floor, at least thirty centimeters away. He seemed astonished and disappointed that he could not respect my constraints: he really believed that he had reached the right timing.

    We decided to meet again for our outdoor session once I would be back from Shanghai. In the meantime, I will lose my phone on the Shanghai plane, and with it all my data and the photographs of my sessions. However, all my BDSM sessions of these first few months in Hong Kong have been written in my diary, including this one.

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  • Exploring One’s Fetishes & Kinks

    Exploring One’s Fetishes & Kinks

    My personal thoughts on kinks and fetishes is, don’t ever be afraid or ashamed of what turns you on. We all have at least one thing that is not socially acceptable. As long as you are being safe and have a willing partner, the sky is the limit.

    My Interest In Kink

    My interest in kink started very early on and if I had to pinpoint one thing, I would have to say I have always had a thing for older men.

    Top Fetishes Of Mine

    I don’t really have any one fetish I like above anything else. I have been in the lifestyle for many years so have had the pleasure of exploring anything that caught my attention. I love being a dominatrix though. The exhilaration of being in charge of someone else’s pleasure while exerting my natural dominance in whatever I do.

    One Important Tip Before Exploring A Fetish

    When starting to explore a new fetish or kink, knowledge is key. I cannot express enough that you must gather enough info to be able to explore safely. There is no stupid question, just stupid people, in my opinion. I very much believe in learning from someone who has more knowledge on something before I explore on my own.

    Misconceptions About Fetishes

    Ignorance on a kink/fetish is the number one reason that people get talked down upon for liking certain things or wanting certain things done to them. The number one thing you hear is that people must be sick in the head for wanting certain things. What people don’t understand is we didn’t know what happened to that person to mould them like that.

    Introducing A Fetish To Your Partner

    The hardest part about introducing a partner to a new fetish is worrying about what they will think of you. I have learned that you have to introduce it slowly and to make any relationship last, you must be open minded yourself. You must be willing to alter or include things your partner wants. You cannot be selfish and just expect to get what you want all the time.

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  • What To Know About Foot Fetishes

    What To Know About Foot Fetishes

    The love for the feet, although it seems strange, is one of the most common and intense fetishes that can exist. The love for the feet is one of those passions that although they are not over exploited and overvalued, by the market, they are present in all the currents and slopes of art: literature, cinema, music, painting and sculpture.

    I remember that assassin for hire of Tarantino, in the saga of Kill Bill played masterfully by the sensual Uma Thurman, who invokes the force of the cosmos to move the toes of his feet, after a paralysis.

    (El amor por los pies, aunque pareciera extraño es de los fetiches más comunes e intensos que puedan existir. El  amor por los pies es una de esas pasiones que aunque no están sobre explotadas y  sobre valoradas, por el mercado, están presentes  en todas las corrientes y vertientes del arte: la literatura, el cine, la música, la pintura y la escultura.

    Recuerdo esa asesina a sueldo de Tarantino, en la saga  de Kill Bill interpretada magistralmente por la sensual Uma Thurman, quien invoca la fuerza del cosmos para mover los dedos de sus pies, después de una parálisis.)

    Photo: Adriana Rodriguez

    I understand that it is delicious and supremely common, it consists of kissing, caressing, touching, licking, smelling and masturbating. I have also discovered that its possibilities are as limitless as the imagination of those who enjoy it.

    (Entiendo que es delicioso y supremamente común, consiste en besar, acariciar, tocar, lamer, oler y masturbar. también he descubierto que sus posibilidades son tan ilimitadas como la imaginación de quien lo disfruta.)

    What I Love About Alternative Lifestyles

    My appreciations are diverse, as a human being in constant construction my sexual tastes vary, they are modified, they intensify and they evolve, as they also weaken at times. I definitely love to explore the foot fetish and all its exquisite possibilities. Sex and everything that surrounds it in the midst of complicity and without affecting the other, I consider that more than valid is strictly necessary. Just as we work the body in a gym, the mind in a University, we must work our sexuality in intimacy. A free and honest sexuality is the principle of true self-recognition and the starting point towards a full life.

    (Mis apreciaciones son diversas, como ser humano en constante  construcción mis gustos sexuales varían, se modifican, se intensifican y evolucionan, como también se debilitan en ocasiones. Definitivamente me encanta explorar el fetiche de pies y todas sus exquisitas posibilidades. El sexo y todo aquello que lo rodea en medio de la complicidad y sin afectar al otro, considero que mas que válido es estrictamente necesario. Así como trabajamos el cuerpo en un gimnasio, la mente en una universidad, debemos trabajar nuestra sexualidad en la intimidad. Una sexualidad libre y honesta es el principio de un verdadero reconocimiento propio y el punto de partida hacia una vida plena.)

    What Does It Mean To Have A Foot Fetish

    “The foot is the phallus of the woman” defends, kicks, outrages, seduces, penetrates, dominates, and submits. I enjoy when my feet are the protagonists of male and female orgasms. I enjoy having a man at my feet and also “being at the feet of a man”. It excites me when I go out into the street and I feel that the eyes follow my footsteps fixing on mobile points seated on my feet.

    (“El pie es el falo de la mujer”  defiende , patea , ultraja, seduce , penetra, domina, se somete. Disfruto cuando mis pies son los protagonistas de orgasmos masculinos y femeninos. Disfruto tener a un hombre a mis pies y también “estar a los pies de un hombre”. Me excita cuando salgo a la calle y siento que las miradas siguen mis pasos fijándose en puntos móviles asentados en mis pies.)

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    Why Are Foot Fetishes Very Popular?

    Since time immemorial, kissing the feet was a gesture of humiliation and submission, footwear and ornaments that have covered the feet are a symbol of power and adoration, always being the first to show and exhibit in dark and obtuse times, which led to all the desire and all the repression of then would find as Eden and oasis for the sexual impulse, the simple insinuation of a foot.

    In addition I must confess that very skilled feet can even overcome the skills of some hands, providing a forbidden and strange element, capable of maximizing desire and satisfaction.

    (Desde tiempos inmemorables, besar los pies era un gesto de humillación y sumisión, el calzado y los adornos que han cubiertos los pies son símbolo de poder y adoración, siendo siempre estos los primeros en mostrarse y exhibirse en tiempos obtusos y oscuros lo que llevó a  que todo el deseo y toda la represión de entonces encontrara como edén y oasis para el impulso sexual la simple insinuación de un pie.

    Por demás debo confesar que unos pies bien habilidosos pueden incluso, superar las habilidades de unas manos, aportando un elemento prohibido y extraño, capaz de elevar al máximo el deseo y la satisfacción.)

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    Misconceptions About Foot Fetishes

    • The foot fetish is more common than most “ordinary” mortals imagine.
    • Pretty women have ugly feet.
    • It is not an exclusive fetish of men, many women love their feet, whether they are male or female.
    • Many underestimate this fetish, a foot fetishist is not a psychopath.
    • Homosexuality

    El fetiche de pies es mas común de lo que la mayoría de los     “comunes”       mortales imaginan.

    las mujeres bonitas tienen pies feos.

    No es un fetiche exclusivo de los hombres, a muchas mujeres nos encanta los pies, indistinto que sean de hombre o mujer

    Muchos subvaloran este fetiche

    un fetichista de pies no es un psicópata

    homosexualidad

    Incoporating Foot Fetishes Into One’s Sex Life

    I think the most accurate way to answer this question is to briefly tell an anecdote about my life as a couple. I want to tell you that my partner, even though he was older, had never determined his feet, and those of his partners in sex, which seemed absurd and not very exciting, and then I asked him to be patient.

    What did they believe? What would I tell you all about? I only tell you that now he is an absolute worshipper of feet.

    I would like to give all of you a piece of advice that not only has it got to do with our fetish, but also with all others, not because they are fetishes. These tastes must be destined for the shadows, so it is essential that there is sincerity, honesty and above all, complicity. To hide your fetishes from your partner is to deceive them and deceive yourself. A good relationship is given in the number of fetishes that you can share.

    (Creo que la manera mas precisa de responder esta pregunta es relatando brevemente una anécdota de mi vida en pareja. Quiero contarles que mi pareja aun siendo mayor jamás había determinado sus pies, y los de sus compañeras en el sexo, pareciéndole algo absurdo y poco excitante , después le pedí que tuviera paciencia.

    Que creyeron? Que les iba a contar todo? solo les digo que ahora es un adorador absoluto de pies.

    A todos les quiero dar un consejo que no solo tiene que ver con nuestro fetiche , sino también con todos los demás, no por ser fetiches estos gustos deben estar destinados a las sombras, por ello es fundamental que haya sinceridad, honestidad y ante todo complicidad , ocultar tus fetiches a tu pareja es engañarla y engañarte a ti mismo. Una buen relación se da en el numero de fetiches que puedas compartir.)

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    Favorite Foot Play Ideas

    • Paint, write and masturbate.
    • Licking your feet with something sweet is supremely fun.
    • Feeling the hot air of the dryer on my feet.
    • Massaging with hot oils for more excitement.
    • Feeling a stone in the shoe while I run.
    • Smoking with the feet.
    • Undressing with the feet.
    • Using my feet as if they were hands.
    • Smelling sweaty and salty feet.

    – pintar ,escribir  y masturbar.

    – lamer los pies con algo dulce es supremamente divertido.

    – sentir el aire caliente del secador en mis pies.

    – masaje con aceites calientes para mas excitación.

    – sentir una piedra en el zapato mientras corro,

    – fumar con los pies

    – desnudar con los pies.

    – usar mis pies como si fueran manos

    – oler los pies sudorosos y salados

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    I make myself known as ScarletBunny: modeo petiff, I am white skinned, thin, of Colombian nationality with European characteristics, without leaving aside the Latin flavor that runs through my blood, I am dominant and submissive, I love dirty words, feet and the role plays. I can also be the character of your best fantasy. I produce, star and edit my own videos, taking care of every detail from beginning to end.

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    Me hago conocer como ScarletBunny: modeo petiff, soy de tez blanca, delgada , de nacionalidad colombiana con características europeas, sin dejar a u lado el sabor latino que corre por mi sangre, soy dominante y sumisa, me encantan las palabras sucias, los pies y los juegos de roles. También puedo ser el personaje de tu mejor fantasía. Produzco , protagonizo y edito mis propios videos ,cuidando cada detalle de principio a fin.)

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  • An Introduction Into Femdom

    An Introduction Into Femdom

    Personally, for me, kink has been an outlet for a part of myself that I have not been comfortable showing to friends/family. I think it’s a great way to understand yourself, your nature, your motives. Kink has definitely been a life changer for me. It has opened me up to so many different ways of thinking and being. It has made me more knowledgeable about people’s behaviors and even my own.

    How My Interest In Femdom Began

    I started in 2015 as a webcam model. I got into Femdom by way of an ex-colleague. She was deeply into Femdom/fetish. When I first heard of Femdom/fetish, I was so uncomfortable because I didn’t understand why someone would want to be humiliated. However, as I started doing more of it, I realized that it was like therapy for me and the submissive.

    As a child, I suffered lots of verbal humiliation from my mother. Femdom allowed me to channel that experience and become the humiliator. It was a powerful experience. Through this I began to understand that it is how people deal with those hidden issues inside. Through kink, they are expressed.

    Characteristics Of A Good Submissive

    The best characteristic a sub can have is know thyself, be financially independent, have mental strength/endurance and do what I say! The rules a sub has to follow to be my bitch is very simple: DO AS I SAY, LISTEN, AND BOW.

    I am a Domme who enjoys control and gifts, so if they cannot pleasure me before themselves, I don’t waste my time. I am not into all the punishing, that’s not my style. You either do as I say, or I banish you.

    They always return.

    Why Subs Enjoy Being Humiliated

    Well as I have said before, humiliation during playtime is like therapy. They want to be humiliated partially because an experience or experiences in life have made them feel a way. It could be reinforcement of those negative beliefs. However, when channeled into something positive, by a Goddess who not only enjoys humiliating you, but also cares about you enough to bring you back down and remind you that you are not weak, is a powerful thing.

    I simply just love humiliating. It doesn’t matter what form it is. It makes me feel powerful and I have to say, I am very good at humiliating losers.

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  • What To Expect From Session Wrestling

    What To Expect From Session Wrestling

    I think kink is whatever you make it to be. I have had relationships that wouldn’t function or last without kink, but I’ve also had perfectly vanilla relationships. Kink can be a wonderful supplement to relationships, and I find that I definitely prefer kink to be a big part of it.

    What Is Session Wrestling?

    Session wrestling is when men pay strong women to wrestle them for an hour at a time. I love it because I’m a very physical person, and I love the adrenaline rush of a hard wrestling session, and I love the satisfaction of dominating someone who is supposed to be stronger than me.

    Reasons Subs/Men Love Session Wrestling

    Sometimes they’re submissive, sometimes they’re not. For submissive men, it’s clear why they enjoy it. They have a very Dominant woman that can overpower them in a very physical way. They are literally forced to be submissive.

    As for the non-submissive men, I’m not sure why they enjoy it. I ask them almost every time, and I’ve gotten a lot of different answers. Some just love wrestling. Some wrestle both men and women. Some like to have a girl sit on their face, or being smothered by breasts. Why not?

    Misconceptions About Session Wrestling

    I think people have all sorts of ideas about session wrestling. Some probably think it’s a sexual thing, or it actually is another label for escorting (it isn’t).

    Others likely think it’s pro-style, like you see on TV (it can be, but I’ve never done that). It can be just grappling, like what you did as a child.

    What A Typical Session Involves

    Typically the client tells me what kind of session he wants via email. He might request a particular outfit (like a bikini, or pantyhose), and tell me he wants either submission wrestling, fantasy wrestling, semi-competitive, etc. Sometimes he has a specific fantasy he wants to enact, and sometimes he’ll specifically request a certain type of smother or scissorhold.

    He’ll send me the deposit (usually about $100) to confirm the session, and I’ll give him my address, if we’re meeting in Chicago. I have wrestling mats in my basement, and he’ll come over and usually strip down to his boxers. I’ll be in whatever outfit we discussed. We’ll start on our knees facing each other, and then, I take him down, in whatever way we discussed. Again, and again. There’s usually lots of breaks, laughing, and talking.

    Tips For First Timers

    Remember that neither of us are out to hurt each other. This is supposed to be fun. Sometimes people can get hurt, especially if we’re doing submission wrestling, which is the reason that’s not my preference. Stretch a little before starting, and just making sure to be gentle.

    Bettie Brickhouse – Bettie Brickhouse is a session wrestler, Dominatrix, and adult performer based in Chicago. She’s been wrestling for 7 years, and constantly on the go for longer than that. She’s a constant world traveler, splitting her time sword fighting and meeting interesting people in the sex work industry.

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  • What Hardcore Bondage Involves

    What Hardcore Bondage Involves

    I’ve always been kinky. Also my parents, as it turned out later. And today, also my adult daughter. When I had my first boyfriend and he wanted to cuddle after sex, I thought he was not normal. I soon found out that I was a little bit different from him.

    What Does Hardcore Bondage Involve

    Hardcore bondage is for me really tight and brutal ropes, cable ties, belts, tape etc. Very uncomfortable and painful positions. Long and painful endurance in such situations.

    I love the tightness and I love not having a chance. To be completely delivered. Also applies with my life. It makes me suffer and no longer be able to move in the slightest.

    Misunderstandings About Hardcore Bondage

    1. That it only occurs in western bondage. Also, with the Shibari technique, hardcore bondage is quite realizable.

    2. That we are crazy and accept health damages.

    Favorite Hardcore Bondage Experiences

    That’s difficult because there are so many of them. I love to captivate and play in front of an audience, that makes me bear even more than alone with my partner. I like being on stage etc less, rather than in the small circle of spectators. I love to go beyond my limits. To dive away, to fly, to totally lose reality. To cry, tremble and then arrive again sometime later.

    Getting Your Body Ready For Hardcore Bondage

    You have to love the pain and the absolute narrowness. You should know your body exactly and you should also have basic anatomical knowledge.

    Have a lot of practice as a bunny and know what can lead to damage and what can not. To be able to give the Rigger feedback, even if you are so far away. The same applies to the Rigger and it needs a very pronounced empathy for the often also brutally gagged opponent.

    In this scenario, there is no safe word to pronounce or display.

    Safety Precautions To Adopt

    A lot of experience on both sides, good basic medical knowledge, knowing your counterpart very well and being able to react correctly in an emergency and never panicking.

    We are a couple that have lived together for several years and have tried and learned many things. Minuit is rope horny, dirty and extraordinarily masochistic. Sasori is absolutely fixated on bondage and BDSM in the old INSEX style. We live polygam on the stable base of a rock. From time to time we also switch. We are both extreme, but we know what we are doing.

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  • Addressing Your Kinks: What Sort Of Things Turn you on

    Addressing Your Kinks: What Sort Of Things Turn you on

    When it comes to the spectrum of human sexuality, one thing that is undeniable is how vast it truly is. Whilst it would be easy to say that there are only a few categories that sexual interest falls into, this is just not the case. There is a whole range of kinks and sexual activities that can heighten the intrigue of any hot-blooded individual. Whilst some of the activities may make you feel a little uneasy, there are others that may suit you and your sexual partners perfectly. Instead of feeling embarrassed about your sexual interests., which honestly would be a complete waste of time, why not just embrace it?

    Your sexuality and fetishes are something that is personal to everything individual. They are completely natural and should be celebrated instead of hidden away. You will always be able to find a like-minded individual out there who is ready to accept you for who you are. You just need to find them! Take your time in getting to know your kinks and your own body. With a little self-love and a little respect from others, you will find yourself feeling more and more confident about yourself and what genuinely can make you feel excited.

    Why Are Kinks Actually A Bad Thing?

    It is strange that in a world full of different tastes in romantic preference, that there is still an overriding feeling of negativity when it comes to discussing different sexual kinks out in the open. People feel too embarrassed to discuss their interests due to an overriding sense of shame. They feel like the world will judge them for their interests. Although this is something that you may hear in everyday conversation, whether it is an insulting jest about someone’s porn preference or perhaps a negative reference that is made in a classic book, it is something that should not be tolerated.

    As long as you are not hurting anyone through your kinks, and it is entirely consensual between you and another person, then what you enjoy doing in your privacy should not be the concern of anyone else. The reason why people tend to classify kinks as inappropriate or negative is due to their hidden stigmas attached to the idea of being dirty or rude. That is why appropriate conversation just is not fit for handling such a sensitive topic. Because of this, even if you are approaching a sexual situation or are merely discussing the ideas of what you like, for instance with a beautiful London escort with Foxy Babes Escorts, you may still feel embarrassed about the situation as a whole. What matters is that you should judge the conversation based on how well you know the person, rather than sexuality being an impossible subject to include in a normal conversation.

    Although you cannot bring up the idea of kinks and sexuality in all conversations, they should certainly not have the stigma attached to them that they do right now. So dispel the stigma, for it is time to consider what sort of kink would best fit you and your own passionate interests.

    The Kink Catalogue

    Domination/Submission

    One of the most common forms of sexual conduct between partners is in relation to the domination and submission. Whilst you may think this is a more gentle kink, it certainly can fire up the loins if it is experienced in a more intense form of BDSM or humiliation/pain play.

    The dominant partner will enjoy taking control of the submissive partner through different sexual activities. It can either be in forms of physical activity, such as through handcuffs and bondage or through mental requests, such as through obeying commands, humiliating nicknames or even through disobedience training (such as slapping or spanking.) The submissive will accept this behaviour (as long as they are comfortable with it) and feel sexual liberation through the idea of being dominated. This is why they will consent to the humiliation play because it provides them with a sense of freedom. They allow someone else to take control, and thus, this provides both parties with the power play that allows them sexual release they both desperately crave.

    Domination and submission can suit all sorts of relationships. Whether you enjoy vanilla dom/sub play through just a blindfold and handcuffs or want something more intense with straps and humiliation, there is always something that will be able to allow each partner to release themselves. What is most important about this sort of kink/relationship is the communication needed to maintain it. As long as you discuss what sort of sexual activities you want through this place, and come to a consensus on what you want, as well as to who will be the dom/sub in the play (as you can also have a switch relationship), then you will always have a happy outcome in the bedroom.

    Roleplay & Costumes

    Another kink that you may find commonly in the bedroom is roleplay and costume play. After all, vanilla sex can only get a couple so far without them getting bored. Sex is about erotic fantasies and bringing them to light. For Joshua Klapow, PhD clinical psychologist,

    “Role-play is simply an opportunity to escape our own reality. By labelling it in a formal way we are giving permission to act, speak, feel, and think in a … way that may be dramatically different from our true selves.”

    For couples trying to lose themselves in fantasy, whether that is something to do with superheroes, fairy tales or perhaps even a more in-depth plot, there is nothing wrong with this indulgence. This sort of roleplay can truly allow of an intimacy that you may not experience with your partner. After all, you are playing someone completely different to who you usually are. roleplay can allow you to experience a whole variety of partners that you may not have thought you would meet in your life.

    With costumes added to the mix, then this can allow you truly get into the character that you want to experience intimacy with. Costumed roles usually include people with power and those who are more sexually innocent. This means that if you are looking to indulge in being a naughty policeman for the night, you can get a costume that suits you, especially if your submissive partner has the costume of a naughty criminal. Costumes and role play can truly bring us out of our comfort zones and show our partner the sort of things we truly like. This means that it is far easier to become intimate with your partner.

    Non-Monogamy & Swinging

    For some people, it just isn’t enough to have one partner. The monotony of a daily sexual schedule just is not enough to satisfy a sexual palette. After all, for some people, it is just not a reasonable expectation to remain completely loyal to one partner. Whether this is due to their attitudes towards sex and fidelity, or whether they just are not ready for a relationship, an “open relationship”, or practising sexual intercourse in “threesomes” or in group sex activities is the perfect thing to ignite a flame.

    Having more than one partner is something that can actually help a relationship keep its passion alive. We all want to indulge in a little sexual variety, whether that is on our own or in a pair, thus if you and your partner are ready to experience intimate attention from others, then you may want to consider either swinging or inviting other people into a “polyamorous relationship.”

    It does not matter whether you want to experience sex with only one person or in a group of swingers. What matters is that you do not base your sexual interests on someone else’s expectations of what you should want. If you feel like you can only become satisfied with more than one person’s attention on you, then why not try looking into Swinging Parties? They are parties that invite swinging couples or singles into a social event where intimacy is the focal point. The experience involves getting to know other couples through talking and dinner, as well as pairing off to experience intimacy altogether. As long as you are comfortable with this, then there is no harm in trying it out!

    Fetishism

    When it comes to Fetishism, this is one of the most common forms of sexual arousal. It focuses on the obsession of an object, this object being in relation to the desired person. This can range from their lingerie to a masturbatory aid or even to a specific form of material (such as spandex, rubber or balloons).

    What matters to the kink owner is the sight, touch, taste, sound or even the interactions that the user can have with the object. These objects can allow the user to indulge in fantasies, to the point where the sensations actually allow them to entertain an erotic scenario. For instance, if turned on by the sensation of rubber, this may be due to the costume providing a “second skin.” It allows the sexual indulger to become someone else, someone who has a different personality in comparison to how they usually act in society. It is a release of pressure and allows them to act in any manner that allows them sexual release.

    Fetishism of objects is one of the most common sexual kinks. One look at the internet and you will see millions of drawings and videos dedicated to this sort of kink. Some of them are even in relation to the fetishism of sounds, such as ASMR, also known as “The Whisper Fetish.” For Aurora Snow, writer for the Daily Beast.

    “Certain audio triggers a sensory response that users describe as orgasmic in a cerebral sense. This is not physical. ASMR artists use words and sounds to create a soothing image. Most users claim the videos help ease anxiety and reduce insomnia. They call it a brain massage.”

    If we take this sort of reasoning and apply it to fetishism as a whole, certain materials and objects can provide this “brain massage” to the kink holder. It allows them to relax and ultimately let go of any inhabitations. This is why this sort of kink should be allowed to blossom in the company of like minded-individuals.

    Lesser Known Kinks & their Ordinary Occurrences

    Although a kink may not be always out in the open does not mean that it something that love-making couples do not encounter during their moments of passion. These kinks are usually things that are encountered during the bedroom but they never really have a name put to them.

    These include:

    Katoptronophilia: Having sex in front of a mirror

    Trichophilia: Being attracted to the touch or appearance of someone’s hair.

    Knismolagnia: Sexual Arousement from tickle-play

    Pictophilia: Sexual Arousement from watching Pornographic Imagery or Videos

    Podophilia: Sexual Arousement from Feet

    Urophilia: Sexual Arousement from Urine. This is also known as “Watersports”

    Agalmatophilia: Sexual Arousement from Mannequins or Sexual Dolls

    Accept Yourself!

    We all have fetishes and they deserve to be celebrated. What you may fear to appear to be weird or sexually may actually be a commonly indulged practised. When you meet a new partner or are becoming sexually intimate with them, never be afraid to share your fetishes with them. Sharing your sexual interests is a sign of trust, and your partner will be appreciative if you are honest with them and it will surely strengthen your relationship.

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  • What To Know About Cum Eating Instruction (CEI)

    What To Know About Cum Eating Instruction (CEI)

    Really, kink and fetishes are just a release, it’s what we like and what we find pleasure in. It gives us excitement and pleasure in different ways. Its Disney Land in a cage for some. A lot of people spend all day being trapped by clothes or an attitude and this is their true freedom.

    What Constitutes Cum Eating Instruction?

    So Cum Eating Instruction is a bit fun for me and I try to get creative with each sub. Essentially, it’s a release of cum that the sub is forced to consume. Normally the sub will masturbate under my instruction and they will be instructed and prepped on how and where they must cum and can only eat it while I watch.

    It may be in a shot glass, frozen in ice cubes, in a bowl of strawberries, on twinkies, or a public bathroom wall. It all depends on my mood. I enjoy CEI simply for the control aspect and the majority of subs like doing it so it’s really not looked at as a punishment.

    Reasons Subs Love CEI

    I have a few who want to humiliate themselves by lapping it up like a dog because they enjoy hearing me laugh at them. Others like for me to be forceful again, almost like a punishment they enjoy. They cum, lick it up, and thank me. It has to make them feel dirty.

    What A CEI Sessions Involves

    My sessions are wild and none are like the other. I’ve made subs cum on balloons and lick it off. Beg with their knees in rice after edging for an hour to lap their cum from the floor like a dog.

    I have a sub who simply likes to eat desserts, smothered in cum of course, but we have tried sushi once. Legs over head is probably my favorite because these men look like complete idiots trying to align their dicks with their mouth and cum everywhere else instead. You can’t help but to laugh.

    What To Know Before Trying CEI

    Practice makes perfect; if you’ve never done a CEI session, you should try tasting your cum on your own time. I don’t deal with disobedience at all. If you’re told to eat your cum your only response should be “Yes Mistress”. Again we will laugh at you A LOT and I always ask, “how did it taste?”

    Carmen K – I’m really a sweet person just a complete kinkster who loves control. I am originally from California but reside in Florida. Yes I do have a real job for those who are wondering. I am 90% an online Dominatrix and there are very few who have the pleasure of doing real time with me. Relinquish your will power and your wallet subby. Lusting over me and obeying my every command is the only way.

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