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Category: Sex Ed
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My Experience As A Sex Worker
I believe that sex work can be the most feminist thing you can do. I own my body and rights completely. I work for myself and have started my own business. Sex workers help the economy. We are the oldest running profession and deserve much more respect than we are getting. We truly make the world go round!
Why I Decided To Go Into Sex Work
I was 21 when I first started as a stripper in Portland Oregon. I was tired of making little money in retail and being treated less than. This girl who would come into my retail place said I would definitely make money as a stripper. I waited to turn 21 because the club she worked at wouldn’t hire under 21. It was the best choice I have ever made. It changed my life in a very powerful way. From stripping, I met my first sugar daddy. Then got into escorting from there.
Does Being In Sex Work Affect Ones’ Non-Sex Work Relationships?
I don’t think being a sex worker should affect any of my relationships but sadly, it can. I just don’t give those people the time of day. I won’t give my energy to people who can’t understand what I do. I mean, I can’t tell my family sadly, but they don’t need to know what I do exactly.
Challenges I Experienced So Far
Well some challenges I have faced are mostly due to my body not being this “certain” type. Plus I am alternative as well. It only has stopped me from working at the “nicer” clubs but still make great money working the clubs I do. Plus, I don’t see it as a challenge any longer!
Weirdest Requests From Clients?
I don’t like to use the word weird but since I am open-minded I get guys wanting things that maybe not all sex workers would be open to doing. I just know I am very non-judgmental. (:
Typical Myths About Sex Work
To the people who think we are all forced into doing this, YOU are very wrong. We are not all forced (and to the people who are, I feel for them and hope to see change in that) we want to do what we do. Which is making others happy and supporting our own dreams. I am privileged to be able to use my looks and my mind to help achieve my goals. I am truly blessed with the life I have, meeting so many wonderful sex workers along the way!
Mila Pixie Rose – Mila is a sex worker from Portland Oregon. A magical and ethereal Goddess to help fantasies come true. She is a writer, director, designer and soon to be tattoo artist. She is a very ambitious and strong willed young woman, follow her on her journey!
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What Is The Kinky GFE?
The kinky GFE is the most sensual and sweet twist of BDSM, it is the quintessential spicing things up in a setting that still has a sweet, vanilla taste undertone; while I’d define sensual domination as a pungent BDSM flavour mixed with classic eroticism.
To me, sex feels like dreaming somehow, like being in a different, freer space, where connections are very strong and raw. Sex is an essential part of my way of expressing myself and exploring connections. It is a side of me that is intimate and different from everyday life, and at the same time is vital.
The GFE & Why It Is Popular
The Girlfriend Experience is the idealised and unearthly girlfriend of your dreams, and why not? It is everything that you ever wanted from an amour, the connection, the hot sex, the fine dining after visiting an exhibition together. And if you are curious about kink, someone who has more expertise but who also enjoys the sensual and erotic moreover than the purely psychological.
Some Ways To Kink Up The GFE?
Tease and denial: look your partner in the eyes, give them so much pleasure that it almost brings them over, but retain control: don’t let them topple over (note: or: “to enjoy” would sound better?) just yet. They are in your hands, and the longer the game lasts, the more you will see them turn into luscious jelly.
Also: foot fetish, a favourite of mine, having your partner kneeling in front of you, pacing it slowly by starting with a massage, then just smelling your beautiful feet, and gently kissing them…
A great classic is to blindfold and gently restrain your partner, heightening their sensations and playing with the senses.
Safe Kinky GFE Play For All
As usual, consent and communication are the keys. Establishing safe words can also be liberating as they give a very quick and unequivocal communication; I really like the light system: where “yellow” means go on, but adjust a bit, and “red” is a clear: stop now.
Another sure way is just to enjoy each others with your hands, whispering your fantasies to one another: playing with words can be so vivid…
Arazatah – Arazatah’s total black, straight from Milan style encases a vintage hourglass figure and a sweet personality that is fulfilled in sensual domination and lovely vanilla GFE. Highly educated, this edgy Italian amour will seduce you to create unforgettable moments.
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How To Avoid Feeling Nervous Before Sex
Salutations!
My name is Winnie Elle. I’m a full service Sex Worker based in the United States. My job has taken me from the coasts of California to the Her Majesty’s United Kingdom. Sex, much like in the name, is my profession. I am very open with myself and my subsequent views on sex. I view it as a very natural and necessary part of the human experience. I understand that for so many people, it’s taboo and uncomfortable but many of us crave sexual intimacy and that’s okay.
Does Being Nervous Affect Sexual Performance?
It’s very natural to feel nervous in the moments leading up to sex. Am I attracted to them, are they attracted to me? Will it be good? Will I please them? Will they find me desirable once we shed our clothes? There is a lot that can run through our brains that could cause us to feel uneasy before we do the dirty deed. It’s normal. I feel it all the time.
Honestly, once your eyes meet, and your skin becomes acquainted with theirs, the fear falls away. Don’t get me wrong, there are moments where you can be pulled out of your headspace and the anxiety can set back in. But if you and your partner have good chemistry and patience, falling back into each other comes with ease.
Some Reasons Men Feel Nervous Before Sex
One of the biggest reasons men have had reservations with me is the expectations of sexual satisfaction. What are they used to? Have they been with someone more endowed/experienced than me? Will my sexual preferences scare them off? How will they react when I ask for X?
Each body is a different machine. Pressing the same order of buttons may not yield similar results. It’s a nerve wracking and exhilarating experience to be with someone new. It’s best to be as open as you can with your needs and boundaries so that you both can enjoy good sex.
Calming The Nerves Of Your Sexual Partner
When it comes to calming the nerves of a new sexual partner, I like to physically give them space. Some people are not fond of the hollywood experience of ripping each others clothes off and melting into a carnal fantasy. It helps to have relaxing conversations and to share a few laughs. A smile is a powerful thing.
I try and pay close attention to their body language to get a feel for their level of comfort. As they begin to relax, I will sit next to them and begin to caress them. All while carrying a conversation, I would undress them and the rest is magic.
Tips To Enjoy Sex
There is no one way to get into the zone for sex. Some need to be talked to, some need thorough foreplay, some need a stern hand and sharp tongue. What is most important is being sure that this person is someone you want to engage with and vice versa. Being sure you both want each other takes so much of the uncertainty away.
Beyond that, remember that sex is fun. It’s fun! Try not to take yourself so seriously that you forget the joy in getting tangled up in the person in front of you.
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In the Spring of 2020 I will be moving back to my hometown of Los Angeles! For the new year I am offering a 6 hour Fly Me To You promotion for 5k (airfare and lodgings included)
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Why Should Everyone Try Sensual Exploration
At times, sex can be a metaphor for the human condition. There are moments of levity and absurdity but also of hurt and sadness. I seek to find the moments where those overlap. Where sex can at once help you work through hurt and sadness but can also be a source of pure joy through physical and emotional connection. Plus, being naked with someone is almost universally fun!
What Is Sensual Exploration?
To me, sensual exploration is the process of uncovering and exploring those desires that one may have been repressing. We live in a society that tends towards restraint of those desires and I hope to help people to explore that which they may feel they may not be able to.
Misconception Of Sensual Exploration
That it’s therapy. I’m not a licensed therapeutic professional, nor do I want to be. It’s also not just where a client dumps all their shit onto me and expects me to sort through it. It is a conversation where we talk more than we act. It is not boundary less; I hold firm to what my comfort level is and within that space is where the most joy can be found.
How Has Exploring One’s Sexuality Help Their Sex Lives?
I liken it to wearing heavy garments. It’s hard to have sex if you’re wearing a fur coat (though, you could try). Exploring one’s sexuality allows you to be nimble, emotionally flexible and open to possibilities.
Ways or Techniques To Help Clients Explore Their Sexuality
My favorite types of clients are men who are exploring their bisexuality. I derive great pleasure from helping those men who have desires that they’re unable to fulfill in their “everyday” sex life. Without giving away all my tricks, I think my favorite way to help men explore is to give “lessons”. That way, they’re safe to explore with me by their side but also with a caring individual handpicked by me to help them on their journey.
Aviva Anders – I like to think of myself as “Albert Brooks were a woman. And sexy”.
I offer traditional companionship as well guided sensual learning experiences for men and couples. My specialties lie in sensual connection and kink exploration experiences, and in helping you with overcoming inhibition. I also provide couples with intimacy instructional consultations.
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Misconceptions About Sex Work
My general views towards sex…Are that women and girls get “morally bullied” into a set of so called guidelines that men are not made to adhere to. I believe (and by the way I am Christian, but liberal), I believe that sex between adults and consensual sex is a matter of choice and should be enjoyed without hangups imposed by others.
I do as a parent still believe in my daughter and sons at least having their first time with someone they love …but I am not overly obsessed with them being married to enjoy it.
Have fun but be responsible.
(sidenote I am also TRULY bisexual, so yes I am very sexually open and liberal.. Hence my occupation haha)
What I Love About Sex Work
I was always pretty sexually open once I lost my virginity. Not so much in the regard to the amount of partners but just different sexual things and experiences. I used to have probably more random sex after my first two serious heartaches between ages of 17-19 than I did my first year of escorting. (being honest). I chilled, had kids, (two before marriage and one during and two more after), then when we split because of my affair with a woman I was working CNA work and realized if and when I needed an attorney, I’d need real money. So I decided to cash in on my sexuality, looks and intelligence.
I began practicing S.T.O.P
State
Tax
On
Pussy
What I enjoy most about sex work is that I get to make my own schedule, have more time for being a Mom (even if at times my kids don’t think so). They were too young to remember the 16 hour nursing shifts and me LITERALLY never being home.
Also just the fact that I don’t have to stand on my back, punishing my body to make per day what I can make per hour. I should note though that after 18 years in the industry and after Fosta/Sesta, I am semi-retired.
My main business these days is the Web Design and Assistant Business that allows me to make a living and to also help other sex workers grow and become the best they can be.
How The Sex Industry Is Like
I think this question is one that is going to vary based on experience. I came in at 31 years old and from a little more than average childhood with no real serious history of abuse, or drugs etc. I was privileged in that regard. But I have at times found myself in hell and struggling. It’s like life, there are ebbs and flows.
I think for me overall (other than two arrests and one sexual assault…just without the beating) I have had a kinder career than most. But I also think that my personality and the way I simply let folks know I will NOT take anyone’s BS has kept me somewhat safe from the real crazies. But I will say this…this industry demands thick skin. A lot of girls come into it and think it’s all fancy lingerie, and fun, and trips. They forget the long hours of admin work, the marketing, the funds to cover ad costs. They don’t consider the dangers of it. While most trafficking stories are propaganda to push political agendas, there are also REAL victims. (That’s another topic, for another time) but yes sex work is dangerous, risky hard work.
I am fortunate that I have been able to live “out” so therefore people cannot out me, but they have tried. But for many, sex work is a lonely life. No matter how great they try to make their lives look on social media. It’s lonely if you don’t have anyone to talk to and who won’t judge you. So many live with the fear of being found out, with being scared to embark on love and life.
I guess to sum it up…Sex work has plenty of PROS but beware of underestimating its cons.
Overall I’d say for me, I don’t regret a moment of it. It helped me grow, become stronger and to a point where I now own two businesses of my own that allows me to help others.
Frustrating Misconceptions About Sex Work
OMG, mainly these two..
We are all trafficked, all of us are victims whether we know it or not they say.
I am not a victim, I made a choice. My choice was to profit off something that’s absolutely natural. Men may not like this point of view…but even your wife, your girlfriend expects you to support her. Even if she has her own money…she expects it. If you don’t do those things, she puts you on the couch! When men take a civvie girl out to dinner and they pay for dinner or buy her an outfit, they do it in hopes of getting laid either that day or in the future. All relationships to some degree are business.
This way, it’s all out in the open. In other words, no matter what TV and news want you to believe, we are not all victims.
The idea that sex workers are full of disease and that no one would be married to us, or in relationships with us..
This is crazy…If you liked it enough to pay for it, you better believe someone will fall in love with us.
We are human beings, with human needs just like anyone else. I have an 11 year life partner, who’s also my co-web designer. I have kids, hell, I have grandkids. I am a real person…We all are.
As for the disease stuff…Look people, our bodies are how we make our money. That means it’s even more important for us to stay clean and to protect our reputations and to not cause harm to anyone else. We don’t want your wife or whoever to get sick. We’re a much safer bet than the random hookup online. We are tested often and most of us, (I cannot speak for everyone) practice safe sex.
Are There Ways To Prevent Such Misconceptions?
I don’t know. I myself have been advocating, blogging and trying to get men and women to view us differently for YEARS. The problem is that people forget there is strength in numbers. More people should be sharing their REAL life stories. The human side of them, not just the character.
They portray. If we want the world to remember we are people just like them, we have to push that narrative. We have to be seen and heard. We need to take away the terms “Prostitute” and make the world acknowledge that sex work is WORK. I know some think using that term or the term “Hoe” gives us some power. I disagree, they are terms made up by men and prudish women. We are workers, we work the sex industry..and we deserve to be called a title that is respectful.
Stop letting men call you things that are derogatory. Stop letting review culture define what and who you are as a companion etc.
Have a voice, share your stories and educate the masses…Let them know what we really do. Let them know it’s not all lingerie, sex and B.J’s.
What To Be Prepared For Prior To Being A Sex Worker
That there will be slow periods. Years ago when I started in 2001…Yes we made boat loads, but the atmosphere was different. We didn’t have to screen hard etc. We kinda just posted, got cute and worked. I always had a site and operated like a real business, but honestly back then…you didn’t have to. NOW you really have to!
Know that both the men and other sex workers can and will be great to you, but they can also be cruel as fuck to you. Be ready for it and learn to shake it off and keep making your coins.
Don’t be paranoid or self sabotage by over thinking things. Scared money doesn’t make money.
Yes, you must screen and operate with CAUTION, but not fear.
When it’s tough work on your marketing, see what you can do better. Don’t throw in the towel instantly. But if you or your family are doing bad and it’s losing your home etc…find a way to have a second gig to make your ends. Lots of sex workers can no longer survive off sex work alone.
Seductive Storm – I am a 49 yr old VIP BBW Escort. I am located in the Atlanta area but do travel as well. I am the perfect date for the man who craves more than the usual bedroom only date.
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I am the creator of TAKEN BY STORM. I provide, SEO, WEB DESIGN, SCREENING AND BOOKING ASSISTANCE , AND PHOTOGRAPHY TO OTHER ESCORTS.
I also am still providing escort services myself as well. I plan on visiting Chicago , DC (I’m from the Baltimore/DC area originally) and other places.
I am always available for Fly Me To you.
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Masturbation With Sex Toys
Masturbation is a wonderful experience! It allows any woman or man to get more familiar with their sexuality. I’ve enjoyed intense sensations and orgasms daily. Masturbation has helped with my overall sexual confidence, and how I view sex as a whole.
Does Using Sex Toys Make The Experience Different?
Honestly, it depends on the person. Each person’s experience depends on their mindset and the anatomy. For some people, their body’s makeup will not allow them to use certain toys, and some cannot psychologically use toys to achieve an orgasm. Now, with using toys, you can obtain some that use vibration, or have special additions to the makeup of the toy. With fingers, you have more mobility.
For me, sex with toys allows me to reach areas comfortably and experience stronger orgasms. When I use my fingers, I am able to squirt. This is because I prefer to play with my G-spot with my fingers.
What I Love To Use
I love to use Hitachi wands and I enjoy using my lush.
Should Every Woman Try A Toy?
Yes, every woman should at some point try masturbating with a toy. You can never know the true feeling of an orgasm with a toy until you use one. A woman doesn’t necessarily need to own a toy for a long period of time, but she does need the exposure to toys. It widens a woman’s plane of pleasure, or lets a woman know what she likes, and what she doesn’t.
Tips To Buying The Right Toy
She should go to different bedroom toy parties, ask friends for their opinion, go to a sex professional, or go to a safe space with someone she trusts where she can experience the toys first hand before she commits to buying one.
Crystal Cooper – Hello! I am Crystal Cooper. I am new to the sex industry and I have well versed myself in different fields. I am a sex coach, content creator, legal courtesan, dancer and new porn actress. I enjoy sex and helping other exploring new avenues of sexuality.
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For Men! 9 Steps To Give Your Woman A Mind Blowing Full Body Orgasm
You may have heard about the full body Tantric orgasm in the past and you may have even experienced something like it with your woman, but truly learning to master this skill will put you in a league of your own among men.
Tantra is a sexual Buddhist and Hindu practice that focuses on connecting the mind, body and spirit through sex so we can experience much deeper levels of enjoyment.
There are many benefits that Tantra brings to the table but here I will give you a detailed step-by-step guide for you to give your woman the best orgasm of her life.
1. ENCOURAGE HER BREATHE DEEPLY
The practice of breathing deeply from the pit of your stomach is absolutely essential in Tantra as it stimulates the release of endorphins and nutrients within the body. With your woman laying flat on her back, place your hand on her stomach and ask her to close her eyes and slowly breathe through her mouth into that area of her body. Get her to repeat this process until she is deeply relaxed.
2. INHALE HER SCENT
Now move alongside her body and slowly tune in to her rhythm of breathing. She will be able to sense you and feel the warmth as you exhale but avoid her erogenous zones at this stage as we want to build her arousal in layers. Ask her to send her mental focus to where ever she is able to sense you breathing on her body. She is likely to be turned on and distracted so remind her to concentrate and continue breathing through her mouth and into her stomach. Stay close and continue until she yearns for you to touch her.
3. KISS HER ENTIRE BODY
Now it’s time to gently kiss her entire body from head to toe with a feather-light touch. Whilst still avoiding the erogenous zones watch how she responds to different types of kisses. Alternate between kissing and taking in her scent, all the while making sure she continues to breathe with her eyes closed.
4. CARESS HER BODY
With warm hands, gently begin stroking her body with one finger at a time and pay particular attention to the texture of her skin. Watch her every move and see what areas are the most sensitive. You can combine all three elements of breathing, kissing and stroking her entire body. Ask her to focus her mind on wherever you touch, get her to relax and tune in to the sensation. By now your woman will be super turned on and she’ll be aching for you to touch her erogenous zones so now is the time to turn things up.
5. TEASE HER
This type of exploration can easily go on for 20, 30, 40+ minutes without you even touching her most sensitive regions. She’ll be so turned on that she will be dripping wet and begging you to come inside her but it’s important for you to stay focused.
This is when you position yourself between her legs and move in close enough to her erogenous zones for her to pause with bated breath in anticipation of your touch – but you stop just short of them. Work your way up her inner thighs and across her pelvic bone and long her side, back into the centre of her chest up to her neck. At this point, you may even let out a growl as you hover around her throat like a wild animal about to devour her.
Lick, bite, kiss, stroke and scratch her entire body, come in super close to her areola (the dark area that surrounds her nipples) back down to her belly button and on to the area just above her clit. She will definitely need reminding to continue with her deep breathing and make sure she is still focusing her mind on whichever part of her body that you touch.
6. TASTE HER
Whilst resting between her legs, slowly and gently start to lick around her labia majora (the outside of the vagina lips). Come in close but stay on the outside of her vagina working your way down the thighs and all the way back up to her neck. By this point, she’ll be extremely turned on and pleasantly frustrated, and will really want you inside her but stay focused and keep her on track. The reason why you move back and forth, close and then pull out is to build arousal and anticipation in her mind.
The full body orgasm is a result of learning how to build intense arousal through a deep sexual connection. Imagine her as a dial that you can turn up and down based on how much you stimulate her.
But every time you do, turn up the volume a little bit more and then bring her back. Learn the rhythm of her body and practice taking her to the edge where she can feel the thrill of a man who knows exactly how to please her.
7. ORAL PLEASURE
With your woman turned on and swaying back and forth with delight and frustration in equal measure, now is the time to taste her erogenous zones but don’t just dive in. Start at her neck and slowly work your way down, and just when she thinks you’re about to move past her breast area, gently wrap your tongue around her nipple and massage it in your mouth for a short period of time.
Use your tongue and your teeth for different sensations but be gentle as this area is very very sensitive, especially as you would have just spent the last 30-40 minutes or so teasing the life out of her.
Now slowly work your way down towards her vagina but when you get there, pause for a moment, appreciate the gift of her beautiful body and watch as she waits in anticipation of your next move. When you’re ready, gently start to lick and kiss her labia minora (the inside of the vagina lips).
Focus on smooth rhythmic motion and pay attention to how she responds. Lick and kiss other areas of her vagina like her clit and her posterior fourchette (lowest part of the entrance to her vagina). Take time to discover what she responds to most and remember to dial it up and down. The aim is to build her arousal steadily over time so it can intensify.
8. STROKE HER
Your woman will be starting to approach the realm of orgasm but to bring her to this point, you’ll use your fingers. With a single finger, stroke the clitoris in a clockwise and counter-clockwise motion and you can also very gently squeeze it between your thumb and index fingers. The upper left side of the clit is particularly sensitive so pay close attention to how she responds and hold back a bit to build anticipation.
Now slowly insert the tip of your middle finger into her vagina and gently start to explore paying close attention to how she responds. Use a variation of depth, pressure and pace to increase her arousal.
With a finger (or two) facing upwards towards the area of her g-spot at the top of her vagina, slowly stroke your fingers back and forth in a beckoning motion. You can also gently use your tongue to stimulate her clit and place downward pressure with your hand on the top of her vaginal area outside in conjunction with your fingers on the inside stroking her g-spot. Imagine trying to place your fingers on the inside of your palm with her clit in the middle and you’ll get the idea. If she has managed to keep her breathing deep and consistent she’ll be feeling the effects of all the blood stimulating the nerve endings throughout her entire body.
Now is the time to make her orgasm so continue with exactly what you’re doing and encourage her to let go and release whilst she literally breathes orgasmic energy into every part of her body. Don’t speed up or start ramming your finger in like we see in porno movies unless she specifically asks you too. Stay consistent and she should start to feel intense waves of pleasure emanating from her vagina outwards all the way to the tips of her fingers and toes.
As she climaxes keep hitting the same area that gives her the most pleasure. Encourage her to breathe deeper, let go and truly feel the sensation. This is the part where she really shouldn’t give a fuck about the neighbours, tell her to go wild and embrace.
The full body orgasm is just as much about what’s going on in her head, as it is about what’s happening between her legs so remember to communicate with her and stay connected. By this stage, your woman is going to be in her own world and she may very well tell you to shut-the-fuck-up but that’s ok too. It’s her show so do whatever makes her happy.
Note: Many women may take 45 minutes or longer to orgasm so be patient, enjoy pleasuring her and don’t focus on the climax – just let it happen if it happens.
9. AFTERCARE
After a mind-bending orgasm like this, don’t just get up and use the bathroom or check your messages on your phone. Spend some time stroking her entire body with your hands in an outward motion from her vagina. Gently massage certain areas and let her feel the strength of your hands as you slowly start to ground her back into reality. This will feel amazing for her and she’ll probably be wondering what the hell just happened because 95% of men would probably have never done anything even close to this.
SUMMARY
Now here’s where it really gets interesting because once you learn how to nurture this type of arousal in a woman, you’ll be able to trigger it at will. There’ll come a point when all that’s required to make her wet with heart palpitations is the memory of you whispering in her ear and it won’t make a difference where you are or who’s watching.
Women are fantastically complex and finely tuned creatures of vivid imagination and keen perception. As men, if we take the time to learn how to unlock these secrets of arousal, we’ll be able to teach them how to embrace the sensations buried deep within, and both be able to enjoy the fruits of passion.
Peace and Love,
Madison
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Travelling On Extended Dates With Your Favorite Companion
I believe traveling and going on extended dates is gaining in popularity. In my opinion, it seemed as though it was previously restricted to mistresses and sugar babies. However, it appears that the idea of travelling with, or spending long durations with your escort is growing in popularity.
I’m always reminding clients and civilians that while of course there’s the boundaries within the framework of the client/companion relationship – there’s ultimately no rules in terms of how you can spend your time together. It is in fact, a relationship, albeit an unconventional one.
When I originally began in this industry, it seemed as if extended duration dates weren’t exactly in demand (or maybe they weren’t for me!)
Many of my clients didn’t realize that I’d even be open to the idea of spending longer with them, let alone feel ecstatic. I know many providers also feel the same way.
I think people are beginning to understand that the friendship you can create with your favourite provider is both of yours to design. We can see each other as often, or as infrequent as you want, and for as long as we’re both comfortable.
Reasons Clients Engage A Travelling Companion
Travelling can be such an amazing experience. Being a big backpacker myself, I’m often finding myself in serene moments, wishing I had someone to share it with.
I think that as the relationship between a companion and her client develops, it can turn into this wonderfully fulfilling, mutually enjoyable experience. It truly is a friendship, and often times, at the end of our dates, my clients and I both wish we had longer together.
Sneaking away for a long weekend, or few days away, allows us to fully let our hair down and unwind from the daily stressors of life. You can be absent from office politics, deadlines, family conflict, and truly be in the moment with her. Think of it as an oasis. There’s something extraordinarily healing when you’re only thought is the way her skin feels under your fingertips.
Preparation Required For The Client Before The Date
This depends on whether you’re meeting her for the first time, or she’s already an established friend.
Some of my best experiences came from a leap of faith, where I flew across the country to spend a few days with a new gentleman. Travelling together on a first date isn’t common, but it does take a lot more preparation on both ends.
For the gentleman, I’d hope that you’ve done your research, and chosen to reach out to someone who really vibes with you. Does her personality seem introverted or extroverted? Do you like the same hobbies? Spending several days together can be either be the most rewarding, or painful experience – make sure you’re spending time with someone you’ll really get along with.
Regardless whether it’s a new friend, or someone you’ve known for a while, there’s still quite a bit of communication required before either of you get on a plane.
How long have you agreed to spend together? When does the time begin? Will you be travelling separately, or together? What is the exact compensation, and how will she receive it? I know it can seem transactional to go over the finer details, however, assumptions and important information left to chance can spoil even the most romantic getaway. Make sure you’re both on the same page.
Last but not least, consider your companion’s preferences, and work out a system that works for you both. As I mentioned, it is a relationship after all. Is she an early bird, or a night owl? Does she need caffeine before functioning? Is there anything you can prepare ahead of time to make her time with you more comfortable? Gentlemanliness goes a long way.
Are There Rules?
Often times, yes! However, every companion is vastly different, as is every client.
When spending extended time together, I encourage both parties to be upfront about their needs. Does he need to fit in a workout first thing? Does she have a daily yoga practice she’s hoping not to neglect? An hour at night for both to catch up on business?
Don’t be afraid to design an environment and relationship that makes you both comfortable. I know of several companions who require a little “alone time” here and there to recharge, while I’m generally okay without it.
Personally, I absolutely must sleep 8+ hours a night, and have tea in the a.m.
My only rule: “Don’t wake me up!”
Madison Winter – Madison Winter, Canada’s self-proclaimed ‘girl next door’ is a high-end companion who lives and works out of Toronto, ON.
She’s left a career in finance to become a provider, and now specializes in long engagements and relationship-based dates. In her spare time, she’s usually collecting passport stamps, or at home with her two dogs jamming out to 80’s rock.Follow Madison Winter on
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Things That Shouldn’t Be Done On A First Date
Humans are social animals. We need meaningful connections with other humans on a regular basis in order to be healthy, happy, and productive. It’s an unfortunate truth that life can get in the way of staying close with friends from adolescence and it can be really tough, especially for men, to make deep friendships as adults. The result? Loneliness is becoming a real public health problem.
Dating can help combat that. On a date, you can enjoy great conversation and laughter with someone you wouldn’t have met otherwise. There’s no anxiety over whether the person wants to be there with you, or if they’re judging you. You can see a show, share a meal at a nice restaurant, and just open up to someone who’s happy to listen.
Physical affection is also necessary for optimal health and happiness, whether that’s a warm hug, movie cuddles, or something steamier. Dating is a great way to find a consenting, enthusiastic partner, so everyone can win and we can all feel great.
For partnered people in relationships with a libido imbalance, it can be a good way to take the pressure off of the lower libido partner and help keep both partners happy and satisfied in their stable relationship. I like nutrition – healthy eating is important, but nutritional supplements can help make up any gaps. Extramarital dating can do the same for long term relationships, so that an otherwise great couple doesn’t have to breakup just because of differences in sexual appetite.
Aside from all the health and happiness benefits, dating is also just a great way to destress, meet cool people you wouldn’t have otherwise, and have a good time!
How Do Women & Men View First Dates?
I’ve heard a lot of guy friends say that first dates can feel like interviews. From the moment the date starts, they’re just trying to ‘win her over’ and make a good impression, so that they can secure a second date and, from there, the relationship or intimacy that they desire.
Girlfriends confirm that – they often say that they’re not really there to have fun on a first date, they’re there to assess the guy. Is he interesting, intelligent, funny, successful, well put together, generous, attractive, in line with their vision for what their boyfriend should be? Does he seem like he’s looking for something serious or just playing the field?
Instead of playing together as teammates, with the same goal of enjoying each other’s company in mind, men and women are often positioning themselves as opponents – awful as it sounds, sometimes it really seems like they’re painting it as a game of predator-and-prey, rather than a meeting of equals.
I think that’s such an unfortunate take! It makes the whole thing more stressful than it needs to be, instead of just fun. I love dating as a companion because it gets rid of all of those unnecessary strings, expectations, and barriers that stand in the way of two people just really connecting and having a great time together.
Have You Been On A Bad Date?
I’ve been lucky not to have had any bad dates, but I’ve heard other women say that they’ve encountered rudeness and men who were after only one thing, and as much of it as they could possibly pack into their shared time. Everything has its place and I think that, especially on first dates, people should always expect to spend a little time getting to know their date through conversation before beginning a nonverbal conversation.
Expectations I Have Of My Date
I expect my date to be freshly showered, always respectful, mindful of good sense safety practices, communicative of both their desires and anything that makes them uncomfortable, and more focused on the comprehensive experience than accomplishing a checklist of tasks. This is true whether my date is a man, a woman, nonbinary, or a couple.
In return, I am fully present and engaged, enthusiastic, focused on my date, and genuinely committed for the duration of our time together to providing the experience for them that they’re seeking.
First Date Turn Offs Men Should Never Make
Hygiene is so important, please always show up freshly showered and with fresh breath. If your date is at 3pm in the afternoon, having brushed your teeth that morning isn’t enough!
It’s also always really important to be respectful and not pushy. When you’re respectful, kind, and generous, you make your date want to show you a great time. That’s so much better than demanding it, for everyone involved.
Natalie Hepburn – Multiracial, multilingual, misbehaving Ivy grad. Wanderlusting cutie, sashimi fiend, and cuddly luxury companion in NYC and worldwide.
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