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  • Why Every Business Man Should Engage A Luxury Companion

    Why Every Business Man Should Engage A Luxury Companion

    To begin with, I would like to mention that I am coming from a really prejudice and judgmental background. I was born in Russia and raised in Ukraine. Not sure how aware you are of the culture there. In a nutshell: companions (they don’t use any of the alternative words, just “prostitute”or ‘whore”) are referred to as “girls with low social responsibility”, and escorting is called “ugly social phenomenon”.

    I personally never saw sex work this way, but didn’t consider it as my line of work to begin with. Not that while ago, my life circumstances necessitated me to go on the “dark side” and I am so glad they did. Probably, so far it’s the best decision I have made. It started with a need and now it’s a huge part of my life and me as a person and I am not planning to give up on all this great experiences any time soon.

    At the moment I can’t even describe how blessed and thankful I am to be in the community, to have so many supportive ladies, clients, the people who sincerely want all the SW to succeed, with whom I can be my true self, live, love and laugh.

    The stigma and disrespect towards professional companions like myself here is clearly just a prejudice that society has based just on general knowledge. Only ignorant people can see companionship as inferior act. Is it bad when two (or more) people have a great time, can relax and unwind, experience new sensations, explore their bodies, range of emotions learn from each other, travel together, explore new places and adventures without any complication?

    All romantic relationships between men and women involve an exchange of value to improve the lives of both participants. There is no fundamental difference between a relationship with a professional companion like myself and a “normal” one, other than you already know prior to entering the engagement, how long I am your girlfriend for and “break-ups” or “separation”are not heart-breaking.

    Why I’m An Ideal Companion Date

    I would describe myself as a sweet, warm, passionate, sophisticated young lady, who enjoys adventures and loves to try new things. Also, my European blood adds a little spice, so I can be intense, stormy and in a good way a little crazy. As they say, “still waters run deep“. With that being said, it is never a dull moment with me. On Twitter, there are a few videos, where you can here my laughter. I personally think it’s not pretty at all, but everyone finds it super sincere, hilarious and uplifting. (In case you are having a bad day, I suggest you watch it or better hear it in person…)

    One of the greatest finesse this industry has taught me is how to deal with different types of people, handle various situations, adjust to any scenario, make people feel comfortable around me, see what one likes just by a brief chat.

    Despite my young age, I am a well-educated lady. I already hold a Bachelor’s degree in International Business.  Soon looking to start a Masters Program. In addition to my school education, I consider myself to be a street-smart woman. I frequently read books about self-growth, self-development and spirituality. For me, it’s easy to support any conversation. I love a genuine laughter, discussions, doing activities together. It entails that my favourite rendezvous are definitely multiple hour ones, or multi-day. I see this as such, a wonderful opportunity to spend time, to get to know each other, to build long-lasting connections. Needless to say, that sex is a million times better when we become comfortable with each other.

    I only share my time with men of grace and distinction, I don’t pretend to like them – I really do care for every one of them as individuals and I treat them like they deserve to be treated. One of my friends who was trapped in an abusive marriage claims that I literally saved his life by spending my time with him at his most vulnerable moment, so this makes me kind of a man’s emotional first responder – I even have the nurse uniform if we need it.

    Reasons Men Engage Companions

    I do meet a lot of gentleman who come to the city for business – conferences, meetings, projects, trainings, location scouting etc. From what I observed and been told, there are quite a few reasons why they are seeking companionship during such trips.

    Constant flying, tight schedules, not enough sleep are only a few difficulties out of many that those men face while traveling. Hiring a luxury companion is a great way to de-stress, unwind, relax, and get your thoughts together for the next day or before an important meeting. Plus, traveling along can get boring. A courtesan can be everything you seek in one – a friend, conversationalist, arm candy, city guide, and bedroom nymph. She will keep you entertained, energized, and distracted from the pressure.

    Also, a big part of it is definitely the opportunity to fulfil your fantasies. What’s most important is that having a rendezvous with a companion doesn’t require any commitment afterwards. You can have the time of your life, and after, return to your regular routine without any worry or obligations.

    A lot of business trips also require outings, dinners and events. As a successful businessman, you’ll want to be seen with a beautiful, well dressed and well groomed, smart and classy lady. It is important to keep up appearances at social events.

    I do have to mention, that many times gentlemen book me to spend time with their business partners, investors etc. As a sign of appreciation. Such gifts never fails (at least from my experience), but helps to close deals and maintain good business relationships.

    To sum everything up, there are various reasons why gentlemen engage in such type of encounters. With mutual respect, discretion, open-mindedness and always positive attitude such relationships are a win -win situation.

    To Be Continued…

    Karina Valentina – I am  a young woman  who can be described as an “adventure seeker, soul healer, crazy laugher”. Also simply a lady who (it’s a Russian saying, might translate weird in English) will be a queen when meeting his friends, the most hospitable hostess around the house, and the dirtiest pornstar in bed:)

    My friends also call me a Happy Butterfly by the way;)

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  • How To Give A Great Footjob

    How To Give A Great Footjob

    Footjobs can be super sexy and a new sexual adventure for many. Giving a footjob can be extremely erotic if you or your partner are sexually attracted to feet. For me, foot play is a newer skill I’ve developed and I can’t believe it took me so long to try! The sensations are different than blowjobs or hand jobs.

    Footjobs are so versatile, they can be the whole shebang or just foreplay. I love that most positions for giving a footjob allow me to watch the pleasure my partner gets out of the footjob I’m giving him.

    How Popular Are Footjobs?

    Footjobs are surprisingly popular. Even guys who don’t have a foot fetish like to change things up. Try it, you might find that you and your partner enjoy something different.

    For those who already know they have a foot fetish there is nothing sexier than the curves of feet stoking, grabbing, and wrapping around your cock. I love to look these guys right in the eyes and talk dirty about all the sensations they are receiving from my feet.

    How I Love To Start Things Off

    If my partners are into feet I like to prepare by making sure my pedicure is on point. I like to wear some killer sexy heels or whatever type of footwear I find out my partner finds sexy to get them thinking about what is coming next.

    I whisper in their ear all the naughty things I’m going to do to them with my feet. Instant boner. Partners that love feet might like to kiss, lick, or suck your toes before a footjob. I found out I absolutely love to have this done.

    3 Essentials To Giving A Great Footjob

    The sensations of your feet against him are exciting and a turn on. Vary your pressure and keep communication open to see what he likes. Some partners will be nervous and just enjoy a soft stroke while others literally want you to step on their balls. Ask what feels good, if you should go harder or gentler and watch his facial expressions.

    Get ready to be messy and provide plenty of lubrification. Your feet, unlike your mouth or vagina don’t have any natural lube so you’ll want to use spit, lube, or another wet substance (if you are going to use a condom during or after, stick to a water based lube).

    Eye contact can turn an ordinary footjob into a crazy erotic sex act. Not only do you give off a confidence that is irresistible, you can also easily watch their expressions and body language. You can vary from completely dominant to submissive just by using your eyes.

    Mistakes To Avoid When Giving A Footjob

    Don’t be afraid to try something new. You might think it is odd but your partner could find feet to be the sexiest part of your body. Talk with your partner and find out what they like, what feels good, and what they could be into but aren’t sure yet.

    Don’t forget the lube. A dry foot against a hard penis is not ideal.

    Don’t just put your feet around him and stroke. Get creative. Use your toes, knuckles, and pay attention from the tip to his balls. If he’s into it, even try gently pushing your toes against his perineum (just under his ball sack).

    Preferred Angles Or Positions For Footjobs

    I find it easiest to sit face-to-face in front of him. The muscles in your legs start to burn from the leg raises (bonus- exercise in for the day – check). You can also achieve this by laying with your back on the floor and raising your legs (abs – check) while he stands over you.

    If you are petite like me or he likes it when you sit on him, you can try to sit on his chest. This way he has your butt in view and can only feel the sensation of your feet on his cock. Surprise!

    I recommend some light stretching before your date and if you know your partner is into feet, focus on some weight-bearing exercise on your legs. This can help with stamina and flexibility that is useful when giving a footjob.

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  • My New World Order

    My New World Order

    Am I dreaming?

    God created men from a bone. But he haven’t seen coming. Are we in a wonderful imaginary world where women dictate rules and are uncontested Goddesses? Where men are some devoted servants? Women understood how strong they are. Especially Lady Eve! Goddess Lady Eve.

    Pray for mercy!

    Welcome Femocracy!

    Three weeks have passed since I’ve been found in a trash dunk half-naked, handcuffed and hysterically laughing. The police asked me for details unable to understand why I was, me a financial counsellor, looking like some sort of homeless weirdo smelling of urine a mile around.

    Neither me. But I knew that I survived to Lady Eve’s sexual treatments. In fact, the more I thought about what happened to me, the higher my passion for her Authority grew to a point of unbearable sexual attirance. I needed her more, more and more.

    Every man dreams of being able to serve a Goddess. Is that a fetish? A subconscious anti- human evolution? But this Lady is Goddess.

    I tried to contact her to renew my servile fetish experience. Emails, phones to the office where I was working for three years. Nothing. A Dead-end. Expecting something from Her was not in her plans I guess.

    But…

    Two days ago, she granted me with a meeting in a café downtown.

    This is it! Happy to arrive well in advance for the rendezvous, I sit down at a table waiting. Five minutes, fifteen more. Half-an hour!

    Suddenly, the door opens. I hear the voices of women, but above all I hear the sound of heels that trample the floor with a firm step. I see three wonderful women coming. Two are girls who will be in their twenties, while you are in the middle. You are wonderful.

    A Goddess among the goddesses wearing a black leather coat. Below, you can see a knee-skirt and black high-heeled boots. You take off your sunglasses and look me straight in the eye. You easily spotted your prey. Without you saying anything, I jump to my feet and take you a chair to make you comfortable.

    I can finally hear your wonderful voice, “Well, don’t you offer us anything to drink?”

    I immediately run to the waiter to get three coffees. I am very excited and that’s why I act like an idiot. Saying to myself, “I gave you the honour of meeting me because you owned me a lot of money since you screwed up the negotiations for this big contract with the Russians.”

    What do you think you are up to it, bitch? »

    “I would do anything for you, my Goddess!” I answered.

    Then you look at me smiling, “It is very easy to put it into words! Get on your knees here, in front of everyone. Thanks for the opportunity I gave you and kiss my boots!”

    My man’s nature wouldn’t accept that kind of degradation in public spaces. In a secluded area or room, nice! Here? Fuck no! I resist.

    The girls stand up, taking my head down to the floor. So noisy that people turn around and look at us. Force me to kneel at your feet, begin to kiss your boots, I try to resist. Students, workers, clients in the café look at us intrigued.

    With a glance you draw the attention of your young assistants, who start to trample my hands with the heels of their sandals. I noticed that both wear open sandals, with black nail polish on the toes. Is that time to to have an erection here I thought to myself ? Fuck no! Containing my toes fetish.

    I begin to cry out in pain. You look at me angry and cover my mouth with the tip of the boot. With a Dominatrix look you tell me, “This is the least pain you will feel to pay back your dues.”

    The girls increase the pressure on my hands and I, with a tear of pain running down my face, ask for mercy. I see that you take off your coat, remaining with a beautiful black dress that pays tribute to your wonderful body. So you order me to lick the other boot, from heel to toe.

    To do this, you change the position of your legs, crossing them slowly. Hypnotized by the view, I can’t help looking up slightly to see this gesture of yours. I can’t help looking at your calves, knees, thighs…

    And what I seem to see is Heaven. I haven’t seen very well, but from the bare thigh, I haven’t been able to see your panties. I get lost in this thought.

    You notice it! But I go back to earth when your assistants change their legs and start to crush my hands with their heels harder. As I almost cry in pain, I finally convince myself to tell you that I am willing to do anything to make you happy. I tell you I will do whatever I am ordered by you and your assistants. That I’m lucky for this opportunity and I won’t miss it. That I am willing to lick your feet and sandals whenever you want.

    You say to me, “For now it can be enough.” Whoever followed the whole scene, in the café are smiling. Shame! But the sexual power of this woman is so addictive.

    So you get up, while your assistants help you put your coat back on. My hands hurt, I look at you from the bottom up like the Goddess you are, with admiration and devotion.

    “If I feel like it, they will contact you on my behalf!” So you start walking to the door and leave me there on my knees.

    Instinctively, I ask, “Excuse me, Miss! But are you wearing panties?”

    You stop and your assistants seem stone. I immediately realize my huge mistake! Why did I do it, I wonder? I was just thinking it loud, I mustn’t say it. It was stronger than me. I start to despair, to be so impudent, but I don’t have the courage to say anything. A few seconds passes, but it feels like hours. Or even that time has stopped?

    You turn your head, look at me and take off your glasses. You say, with a grin on my face, “In your opinion?” So after, putting your glasses back on and go.

    «Prenez-le jusqu’à la toilette des femmes. Traitement numéro 9 pour que cette salope comprenne bien les règles».

    Your assistants take me by the arms strongly, push me straight to the back of the café, open the ladies’s room doors, unzipped my fly, start playing my cock, stroking it fast with their leathered-hand gloves.

    “My God, if you exist, help me.” I hear the sound of heels outside the room, the door opens, two ladies wishing to go inside. The other assistant blocks them with a smile saying that the room will be ready in less than three minutes. I try to resist, “Do not cum! Do not cum! Do not cum.” The pleasure is so intense, my rock-hard cock is bigger that normal. This woman knows how to play with my balls, the sensitive nerves of my dick are turning blue of excitement, squeezing the head of my cock hard and gently at the same time. An experienced hand jerking the hell out of my manhood. Pre-cum glistening. Try to resist. More pre-cum. resist! Resist control! Control…

    I cum so hard with a noisy growl of unbearable shame of pleasure. The woman is pointing my dick to the clean floor. Strong jets floods it with my sperm. Then, she rubs the head of my dick on the ceramic to make sure every drops of cum is covering it.

    I lasted three minutes. They knew how long I could’ve supported the this guilty treatment. Three minutes. Hell! Not more!

    The other women take a sharpie and write:

    I’m the guy sitting at the table next to the door drinking a Cappuccino. I jerked my dick and came here on the floor. I loved it. Do you like ladies to see my cum covering your public room? Let me know.

    The two women take me out of the room, buy me a Cappuccino and force me to sit at the table.

    “You must stay here. For half an hour! If you go… You don’t want to know the consequences.”

    …and I’m alone again!

    The ladies’ room door open, two women are walking to my table…

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  • BDSM The Poshtotti Way

    BDSM The Poshtotti Way

    BDSM to me is the total control over a human being, both in mind and body. This can be administered in many different ways, the spectrum ranges from the soft to the very severe.

    What Makes Mistress Poshtotti Unique

    The best tool in my box is my seductive techniques, I am not a mistress who screams and shouts, I use mind control to exert my will over my subjects. One look into their eyes, one honeyed whispered command and they drop to their knees in complete subjugation and will do anything to please me.

    However, my unique qualities rely on my ability to be exceptionally severe and controlling when the need arises.

    Kinks I Specialise In

    I cover the full spectrum of BDSM activities. Each of my sessions is bespoke to the individual client.

    It is my style that is specialist rather than any particular activity. All Mistress’s have their own individual style, mine is based on mind control and seduction delivered with a sadistic twist.

    Favorite Accessories I Love To Use

    What a fantastic question, I have a uniquely well equipped chambers. To name just a few.

    Ginger bread man: A device to restrain my subjects, spread eagled and at my complete mercy.

    Vac bed: My subjects are completely cocooned in latex, unable to move or communicate. My subjects tell me they have no concept of time and are transported to sub space which is on a level they have not experienced before.

    Electrics: My electrics are some of my favourite devices. Some deliver sensual tingles, others “shocking” agonising pain. They can be used on any part of the anatomy.

    Not so much a piece of equipment but a whole room, dedicated to feminisation and sissification, this is one of my true passions, and the room is something I am immensely proud of.

    What I Expect Of My Subs

    To relinquish control, to have an open mind towards new exquisite experiences. To trust in me and follow every command and most of all, enjoy themselves in this world of mine.

    Mistress Poshtotti – With my style you will feel the real intensity of being under the seductive control of a beautiful, yet powerful mistress. You will surrender your mind, body and soul to my whim. You will know you are in capable and safe hands.

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    My chambers are in Pembrokeshire but I regularly tour Cardiff and London.

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  • What To Know About Sissy Training

    What To Know About Sissy Training

    I live my life as a Goddess and embrace the lifestyle of kink/BDSM. I think every person is kinky, this can be bedroom slap and tickle for example, the lighter sides seen on social media, or from some well known online sellers to those who are very heavy into kinky play and visit others to live out those kinks.

    BDSM as a general term, is often used as a gateway into the realm of kink and opens up many doors to play. For myself, I have many kinks which are embraced from pet play, impact play, panty selling and feminization/sissy play, which is what we shall be delving into today.

    I first discovered kink in my sexual awakening and have jumped headlong into it since, it has taken many years of exploring and learning to get to where I am now and happy to call myself a Pro Domme – although I still am always learning more and more.

    I love how kink offers closeness in relationships which I have found others cannot. Kink relationships to me are as close as partners (or more so) due to the deep trust and connections which are made in sessions and of course, with friends you meet in the scene or at events. The highs of a wonderful session are what make myself and many come back for more. It’s not to say I am chasing the high, I love what I do and need it to feel myself.

    What Is Sissy Training?

    Sissy training from my point is a male who wants to be put in situations to be feminine, this can be maid training, sluts, princess to name a few aspects. It often involves chastity or small penis humiliation (not always) as well as dressing up. Most of the dressing up involves panties, I do love it when it’s my pre-worn undies so they smell like a female, also which helps create the scene more. A lot of sissies do enjoy strap-on or cock training which can have links into coerced bi or cuckold, but there are equally the same amount who just enjoying a female using a strap-on on them.

    I love it for many reasons…I love the change (which can be humiliation or embracing the switch) as well as what I can do to help facilitate the kink. If they are a slutty type it can be putting them in crotchless panties, red lipstick and making them enjoy pleasure in many forms (i.e. self and strap-ons).

    I love sissies being treated like a tart, smearing their lipstick with my strap-on (I have a few sizes and shapes) and often ending with some cum eating, which can be their own or anothers if into cuckolding, for example.

    I am equally exploring hypnosis which works well with sissy bimbos such as Barbie style sissies who think nothing but wanting to look pretty. It equally works well with what I enjoy, which is making a toy of my plaything.

    Reasons Subs Love Sissy Training

    Sissy/feminization play came to me as a humiliation at first but I equally learned it’s not always about humiliation for the ones dressing, it’s a way to be girly, feel sexy, be used as escapism and then those who actually wish to be a girl.

    So the men who come to me want to embrace being treated like a maid, a girl or humiliated by their clothes being taken away. Many of the aspects do have a sexual leading them to be such, but not all, I don’t offer all those who come to mine the chance to relief themselves sexually. For example, pleasure whores can be kept in chastity or be made to cum many times in a session and maids are often in chastity.

    Not all sissies are submissive, most I have come across are as that’s who I like to deal with. I have found most like to be restrained and guided in submissive training.

    What A Typical Sissy Training Involves

    One of my favourite scenes is my damsel, it’s a rope scene play which they dress in lovely undies and I tie them up to which they try to escape…if they do they get punished and we try many different ties as well as timed escapes. But equally, I do love a good maid who turns up dressed in a maids uniform and does my cleaning, no questions or other play.

    I have a personal sissy who is a maid, slut, hypnosis plaything and gives pleasure to gentlemen I desire for them to. This sissy also has a sissy tattoo, and can be found on Twitter as @tweenie_weenie for her training. So a sissy can have many lessons and embrace all aspects of being sissy as well as being submissive.

    What To Expect If You’re A First Timer

    Read up on it as it’s so varied, find out what works for you and explore with someone safely. There are many sites out there which can help you learn, but slowly does it.

    The training can take time and it isn’t something that will click over night, keep working at it and learning more as you go!

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  • What It’s Like Being A Late Sexual Bloomer

    What It’s Like Being A Late Sexual Bloomer

    With my first kiss not happening until I was 18 years old and not having sex until age 23 (after marriage like a proper Christian), I was what you could call a late bloomer. My personal views towards sex have changed over the years – starting as forbidden and mysterious, to now being a fun adventure to deepen the emotional bond between myself and my boyfriend – whether by ourselves or with additional people.

    How Sex Was Viewed During My Early Years

    Growing up in the cult-like Mormon religion, sex was a taboo topic. Sex outside marriage made you a horrible sinner and the topic was generally avoided altogether. Although, as teenagers, we were given a pamphlet to carry with us to serve as a guide through our hormonal years. No kisses beyond a peck, no “heavy petting” (with a vague accompanying definition), no cuddling under a blanket, no dating of any kind until age 16 (we were chastised for the “group dates” that gained popularity around age 14), and the list goes on. I remember an awkward Sunday lesson in which the bishop sat down and taught a lesson on the filth of masturbation to my group of 16-year-old girls. At the time, I didn’t even know what the word masturbation meant.

    It was all for our own protection, of course. We needed to remain clean so we could get married in the temple to that perfect mate who had kept themselves clean as well. And the switch would magically be flipped so we could have sex and enjoy the intimacy of being together – never having even seen each other naked before, much less touched. And because of this philosophy, there are many stories of girls hiding in the bathroom on their honeymoon. Or crying out in pain because neither partner knows anything about foreplay or lube.

    How I Explored My Sexuality

    While I didn’t know the term for masturbation until after age 18, I wasn’t a stranger to touching myself. The earliest memory is around age eight. Waking up but not wanting to leave the comfort of my warm covers to use the bathroom yet, I found a way to squeeze my clit to lessen the urge for a few more minutes. And since it felt strange and interesting, it would become a habit both during sleep and during those early waking hours.

    In junior high, as puberty took its course, I found myself unwittingly looking down at the crotches of all the males – boys and men. Curiosity made it irresistible to wonder what it looked like behind those pants. I shamed myself constantly and tried my absolute hardest to break the sin to no avail. After months, I finally broke down in sobs to my mother, crying that I needed to confess this mortal sin to my bishop. To her credit, she patiently explained that it was a normal part of growing up and I hadn’t done anything wrong. A weight lifted and I soon got over my distraction.

    When I Started To Be Sexually Active…

    My first sexual activity with another person started after I began dating my would-be husband a week prior to starting college. He was a churchgoer, yet enough of a rebel to pique my interest in ways I couldn’t explain. He kissed me on the first date and continued to pay me more attention than I’d ever had.

    He slowly “corrupted” me enough to watch rated-R movies and dry hump to techno under a black light. Nine months later, I let him finger me for the first time. I was hesitant every time we went further, but then I never wanted to go back. I should have felt guilty, but how could I when it felt so good?

    And still, after dating for over four years, we never had sex. Pretty much everything up to, but not including that final act. We were still enthralled with that all-mysterious secret temple ceremony and still held by the deeply-set principles of marriage before sex. And so we waited. Fibbed just a little to get past the qualifying interview. Was it worth it? No. But that’s a different story.

    Being Sexually Open Now

    Over the years, I’ve let myself out of my shell and realized I’m really very open sexually. Letting myself be comfortable (even being nude for fun and not sexually) has taken time and I’m sure I’ll still make more progress. But it’s been extremely freeing to be with my friends and get naked to soak in a hot tub or watch TV without pants on in a big cuddle puddle.

    Exploring the swing lifestyle with a secure partner (my boyfriend after the mismatched marriage ended) has been incredible. I’m now super open with other couples who share a similar mindset – making friendships more meaningful and making for extra fun times in the bedroom. I’ve explored (and enjoyed) some kinky fetishes and always look forward to the next adventure! Selling my used panties is the latest endeavor that has proven to be a fun, empowering venture that allows me to be sexual anonymously to a wider audience.

    Advice For Late Sexual Bloomers

    Don’t be hard on yourself if you’re shyer than you want to be. You’ll be surprised how quickly you blossom when you’re with the right people – supportive friends, partners, etc. Do make an effort to come out of that shell. I promise it’s worth it. Your life will be richer and more fulfilled when you find your power.

    Ellie Allred – Ellie may have been a late bloomer sexually, but she fully enjoys adventures with friends now, in and out of the bedroom. She enjoys traveling to explore new places and cuddling up for a good movie. She sells used panties and other items online along with pictures and videos.

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  • What To Know About Human Pet Training

    What To Know About Human Pet Training

    Human Pet Training is being able to bring the fantasy to life and give the “pet” the experience they crave to portray their inner desire of being the pet they relate to.

    Are Only Subs Interested In Human Pet Training?

    I know quite a few Tops, Doms and Masters into animal/pet identity and play. Some subs are only submissive in this method of role-playing and submission. So it is just another method of submission for some, but not always others.

    Favorite Forms of Training

    I enjoy the protocol training of dogs and pups play. I have experience as a pet trainer and handler so I incorporate all the same protocols, methods and gear that is used in English, American and Domestic dog training/care. I feel, if an individual feels they connect or wants to portray the life and style of a “pet”, then they are to have all the experiences that are humanly possible.

    Must Have Tools For Pet Training

    This depends on the levels that the pet wants to go. Some enjoy the casual role-play aspects and only enjoy certain aspects of the “pet/ animal play role”. So I like adapting to more realistic interactions. My clicker, dog whistle, training leash, and squeakers/ pet toys of choice are mandatory in my bag.

    Things Subs Must Know Before Engaging In Pet Training

    • Know your limitations physically, emotionally and mentally. The way one speaks to a “human portraying a pet role” is different than a human who is role-playing a position, not an animal or objectification role.
    • Research your kink, know what your fetish and role as a pet/ animal figure. Know what you are partaking in and know what you enjoy to communicate these desires to negotiate properly for this learning experience or dynamic.

    Mina De Sade Fatale – Mix race Leather Master & Professional Fetish Domina. They are an educator for the BDSM, KINK, Fetish, Leather, and Sex-positive communities. They reside in California and Provides their expertise in Las Vegas & Los Angeles as well as abroad.

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  • What To Keep In Mind During Your First Nuru Massage

    What To Keep In Mind During Your First Nuru Massage

    You may decide to try out an erotic massage because you want to relax, for pleasure, or simply because you’re curious. But whatever your reason is, there are a few things worth keeping in mind before you book your very first Nuru massage in London. And learning more about the whole process beforehand will help you prepare for this experience to get as much satisfaction out of it as possible.

    What Is A Nuru Massage?

    Opting for a traditional massage is a conventional way to relieve stress that accumulates in your body during the everyday struggle to keep up with your busy schedule and balance your private and professional lives. Unfortunately, its effects are quite limited because such a massage focuses only on certain parts of your body.

    But if you’re looking for something more, it’s worth taking an interest in erotic massages. There are various types to choose from, so every interested person can find an offer perfectly suited to their needs. One of the types that deserve to be mentioned among the more popular ones is definitely a Nuru massage. It’s a technique that involves using Nuru gel. In fact, during the massage, the bodies of both the masseuse and the client are entirely covered with this gel. It’s a natural substance made of Nori seaweed that lacks both taste and odour, but can be used to enhance the sensations and help you relax. Its use can explain the name as well – “nuru” means “slippery” in Japanese.

    What To Prepare For Your First Nuru Massage

    If you want such a massage to help you spice up your relationship and you plan on giving it to your partner, you’re the one responsible for the preparations and setting up the scene. You need to remember about preparing the gel and other things that will be necessary, for example, towels. But it’s a different matter altogether if you decide to use professional services and book an appointment with an experienced masseuse at a massage parlour. Contrary to common belief, such services are offered not only to men but also to women and couples, so if you’re looking for a way to make your love life more exciting, it’s definitely something to consider.

    How To Prepare Yourself

    Before you go to the scheduled appointment and get your first massage, you need to prepare yourself. And while the choice on whether you want to remove your body hair before the massage is entirely up to you, basic hygiene is expected of every client. It’s important because a body to body massage is a very intimate experience, and something as simple as taking a shower before heading off to the meeting with the masseuse will make it more comfortable for both parties. Another thing to consider is your own approach towards this whole encounter. There’s nothing unusual about feeling a bit uncertain, especially if it’s your first Nuru massage, but you won’t be able to get much satisfaction out of it if you’re not comfortable with everything that’s happening.

    What Are The Benefits?

    Since it’s an erotic massage, sexual satisfaction is one of the things it offers. But the Nuru massage has a lot more to offer than just that. During the massage, the masseuse pays attention to your entire body and carefully stimulates every part of it to get you to the point when you feel completely relaxed. Prolonged stress can have a negative impact on your physical and mental health, so finding effective ways of relieving it is, without a doubt, very beneficial.

    By keeping such things in mind, you can make sure that your first Nuru massage is as pleasurable as possible. Remember that even though it may be your first experience of getting an erotic massage, your masseuse is a professional and will use her expertise to make you feel comfortable. So don’t let your worries stop you from enjoying yourself.

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  • Escort Services: Useful or Harmful?

    Escort Services: Useful or Harmful?

    Present-day life can provide a person with anything he/she may want. Are you hungry at midnight? A 24/7 catering company will deliver food. Do you need to make reservations on a vacation? In a couple of clicks, everything is booked. Do you need a companion for an event? No problem, you can find a date for a party thanks to special escort services.

    The latter seems to be a great solution to busy people who sometimes need someone to go out with. Indeed, this is quite easy: you open the website of rougeboulevard — UK escorts, choose a girl you like, get in touch, and that’s it. However, is everything so easy? Let’s take a deeper look at the matter.

    Any Possible Flaws?

    Every person who has decided to use the services of the escort has no appropriate candidate among acquaintances to accompany for an event or simply to spend some good time together. Hence, this person has got certain expectations. Though, there can be still some disadvantages to this choice:

    • The decision is made mostly based on the outer looks. Thus, it is impossible to predict the behavior, voice, and habits of a girl who will attend an event with you. It means that for an important official venue, especially the one related to work, it is better to choose a companion who you already know.
    • This solution cannot substitute real relationships if a person has got such intentions. It is essential to remember that a woman with you is working, thus, there is no room for feelings.

    Undeniable Benefits of the Service

    Even though the solution to invite an escort is not perfect, everything initially depends on intentions. Thus, a person should at first decide which relationships he is interested in. If you are willing to build a family, no need to use the service. However, if a companion is needed for a venue, that is a great possibility to spend time with an attractive hot girl that will join you. Among the other advantages, it is possible to mention:

    1. Convenient and quick alternative: it is feasible to find a woman, request if she is available, set the date and time, and that’s it.
    2. Pleasant and captivating conversations: these women do know how to behave and interact. One will undoubtedly like the time spent with such a woman.
    3. Sexy and hot model with you: it is not so easy to meet such an attractive woman somewhere in a cafe. With such services, one may opt for a woman who he likes most of all and enjoy the most pleasant experience with her.

    In general, escort services are intended to help a person quickly find a companion. The disadvantages of this solution are linked to possible confusion in intentions. Thus, if a person is sure what he wants, that is a great opportunity to spend an unforgettable time with an attractive woman.

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  • Common Misconceptions About Sex Work

    Common Misconceptions About Sex Work

    I truly have an undying respect, as well as a great deal of admiration for all types of sex workers. There are those of us who are privileged enough to be able to share what we do with our loved ones, but for many, our job, and lifestyle is our greatest secret. There is always the threat of being doxed or outed, which comes with having the possibility of our worlds turned totally upside down. This can come with a loss in employment from our “civilian jobs”, as well as a potential loss in relationships with our loved ones.

    For some of us who are out, we deal with pressure from our friends and family to find a “real job”. We’re told by society that our jobs and lifestyles are not valid, and we have to fight for people to understand the validity and importance of what we do, as well as fight the stigma that says that we all must be victims of circumstance, but the truth is more often in several shades of grey, and rarely so black and white.

    The truth, at least from my point of view, is that we live in a world and time where the simple pleasures of life are so few and far between, that those who can offer a gentle touch, a kind word, or a sensual romp should be admired as care-givers all the same, and not as criminals or social pariahs.

    My Perception Of The Sex Work Industry Prior To Joining

    I’m not proud to admit this, but before I joined the industry, I had some fairly negative views, and used some unkind language when I spoke of sex workers. I was young, and my opinions never came from a place of malice, but from a place of complete, and utter ignorance. Everything that I thought I knew about sex work, and sex workers was from what I saw on television, and in movies.

    These movies never included disabled workers, authors, those in highly regarded positions in government, trans workers, and/or students who managed to put themselves through school with little to no debt. I assumed that all escorts had pimps, and were all victims of broken families. No escort WANTS to escort, no stripper WANTS to strip. They do it because they have to – is what I believed. I didn’t realize that there are those who are prideful, and rightfully so, and choose these professions above other, “more respected” endeavors, because they find fulfillment in it. I didn’t realize that for some, this industry was a means to an end, and towards something different, but for others, it’s the long-term career they chose!

    This industry is not one-size-fits-all. Many of us are running our dealings either how we have to, how we see fit, and how it works for us and our separate business models. For better or for worse, we are all uniquely ourselves, and it is so important that society sees us as distinct individuals, instead of victims, and only that.

    How My Perception Has Changed Since

    I commonly hear from those who I tell about my job, a few common misconceptions. The most common that I hear is that all clients visiting full-service workers are married. In my experience, it’s true that a lot of my clients are married men, though an even larger portion are of a completely different variety. It’s not uncommon to see those who are newly single, and unable to emotionally commit to a new partner, and aren’t looking for a one-night-stand.

    I have seen those who are looking to practice emotional, and physical intimacy – and those visitors are not always looking to have any sex at all. I have had the opportunity to visit those who have physical disabilities that can make dating, and intimacy more difficult. Lastly, I have met men who are new to all forms of sex and romanticism, are ready to lose their virginity, and haven’t met anyone to lose it to. For myself, what I like to think we can offer all of our suitors is an uncomplicated, drama-free, intimate experience, that lets them know that their needs are well taken care of.

    What Should Aspiring Sex Workers Be Prepared For?

    If I were to share what knowledge I have of the industry, I would say that there are ways to mitigate risk, and that safety is so important. I’ll note my privilege here, but will say that screening has been the best way that I’ve managed to stay safe. You’ll find many forums that host different types of screening. Find what works for you.

    There is also safety, and importance in community, and keeping a select few of your peers close, as friends, will help you stay safe, and sane. My friends and family know about what I do, but they aren’t able to understand the less glamorous parts of the industry, and to have those who can empathize is imperative.

    Saving your money is key. This industry ebbs and flows in how busy it is. Saving your money, and knowing that you’ll make it through the lulls will stop you from taking risks to see clients who might not have your best interests in mind.

    Taking time to disconnect from your work is important, whether that be putting away your work phone, or turning off your work Twitter. I think any small business owner will tell you the same thing. Our business becomes an extension of ourselves, and disconnecting will allow you to keep the distinction in your mind, that you are NOT your work – not all the time.

    My name is Brea Fawn – a late-twenties, Edmonton based full-service escort. I have been working independently as a companion for less than a year, but also spent time as a cam girl for a brief period of time. I am passionate about this industry, and it’s many offshoots. Working as a sex worker has given me a great deal of intimate fulfillment, and gratification as I have seen my small, personal business grow and evolve over time.

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