Category: Sex Ed
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How To Have Fun With A Hitachi
Masturbation is Health Care! It is so essential to the mind body and soul. I can’t go a day without it. I feel it is something that is highly underestimated and shamed, but really needs to be on the forefront of physical and mental health. I believe it will boost confidence AND raise your spirituality.
Advantages Of Using A Hitachi
Hitachi wands are my favorite toys EVER! It is really intense compared to my fingers. Sometimes I can cum almost instantly with a wand. As opposed to my hands, it can take a bit more effort to reach an orgasm.
One Common Mistake When Using A Hitachi
I think since it is so intense, that people may be using too much pressure when playing. Even the wrong angle can take you from pleasure to cringey in just a moment!
Can One Incorporate A Hitachi Into Sex?
It certainly can! Rub it on your asshole while a cock is inside you, or better yet, the best spot possible right on the clit during penetration and you will be there in no time.
Ways To Kink Up Hitachi Play
It is really hot to get the torturous pleasure from a Hitachi wand by edging, as well as giving up a little control. Guide your partner in using it on you…or if you are solo, sit on it without using your hands. I call that taking it to the next level.
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Does Intimacy Often Lead to Love? Why Dating a Companion Might Be Your Answer…
Insecurity. Hurt. Confusion – you might find these emotions splat in the middle of a toxic relationship. Usually, you cannot predict whether or not you and a significant other will end up this way, at least with not 100% accuracy. However, seeking a woman whose interests, perspectives, and opinions are ones that might not likely turn toxic in a relationship can be your best bet.
I see men that have this abundant lifestyle in their work and career, filled with many opportunities for them to grow financially. In contrast, those same men find it difficult to fall in love. The reason being might not be so simple, still, before any relationship should strike, a friendship must be established. I’m not talking about the kind of “friendship” most people perceive. Instead, I will be talking about a special form of it – namely, companionship.
What Is Companionship Anyway?
Companionship is a vital connection that provokes a sense of closeness. It can occur in different ways – platonic, sexual, exclusive. In my experience as a companion, I have travelled, attended events and even just hung out with my male friends – the last one being my most preferred. When you are actively and constantly associating yourself with someone, especially on a sexual level, you see a different side than most would.
It may come in the form of a personalized preference or maybe a fantasy. Through the process of opening up to what might seem like a stranger at first, can lead to a form of intimacy that one might not get through the traditional way of dating.
When you are actively and constantly associating yourself with someone, especially on a sexual level, you see a different side than most would. A friend of mine (we will call her Stacy for the sake of anonymity) who first started dating a boy at her work, soon began finding herself unusually dissatisfied in her long-term relationship. After their breakup, she began in the world of companionship, mainly going on a dating website called Seeking Arrangements. While on a first date with a guy, they eventually ended up in the bedroom. What came up next was an odd surprise that the man was quite shy to speak about. Apparently, in his previous marriage, his wife would laugh at him because he wanted her to take up a dominant role and put a ball gag in his mouth. Stacy, being open to new experiences took up this fantasy. To this day, she still sees this man. In fact, they are happier than ever. I long for this kind of transparency, understanding and familiarity in a dating partner.
No two people have exactly the same ideas on sex. However, sex builds intimacy and intimacy builds sex. Now, we can say that companionship boasts the traits of intimacy – on an emotional, intellectual, and sexual level – as displayed with Stacy. Women already with this adjusted mentality of providing companionship to men also come with attributes such as openness to new experiences, non-traditional ways of thinking, and overall more tolerant to crazy thoughts or ideas.
I mean, wouldn’t you want to be aware of your partner’s dirty little secrets, or know how they like to be touched? Well…
Here’s a reminder that love is always out there, in the air, and maybe closer than you think. So, next time you look to experience a new kind of dating – try to reach out to a companion. You might just get surprised by this special kind of Woman.
Your Lovely Companion,
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How To Introduce Sex Dolls To Your Girlfriend
Getting your girlfriend to like sex dolls can be a bit tricky. Although they have a lot of advantages, this is a subject that one has to bring to the table cautiously. If you follow the right steps, then this will be very easy and smooth.
People perceive sex dolls differently, so this is not a shocking fact. Some love them, while others find them awkward. This way, you need to be careful when introducing sex dolls to your loved one. The following steps will help you to do it calmly and win her over.
Choose the right time
Choosing the right time to introduce sex dolls is the first thing you should do. There is no fixed time that we can say it’s the right time, but don’t do it on the first few dates with her. Conversely, do not wait for a long time because this is not something that you should be hiding from your girlfriend.
After you get to know her for some time and have had a few sex sessions, then you can bring up the topic. At this level, your girlfriend will have gained trust for you inside and outside the bedroom.
Break the ice
After choosing the best time, then the next step is breaking the ice. The best way to do this is by having some sense of humor around it. Do not go straight to the point right away but wait until when you are having a decent conversation about sex.
If you go straight to the point, you might put her off. Try breaking the ice when you are having a heated discussion about sex. Remember to be so casual by adding some humor, and she will laugh it off. Do not tense if she gets shocked as that is perfectly normal.
After breaking the ice, do not rush to show her your collection unless she asks for it.
Don’t be a freak
It’s not a bad thing to have a sex doll if you are a regular cool guy. The problem comes when you start being creepy and weird. For example, talking about your sex doll all the time, even when your girlfriend doesn’t seem to be interested.
If she asks questions, give her some short replies. Lingering too long on your sex doll is not a right way to get your girlfriend to like it. Also, make sure that your answers make the conversion fun.
Have confidence in yourself, and it won’t be hard for her to like your sex doll. Furthermore, how hard can this be for you if you dated and won her over?
If she has toys, don’t judge her
Don’t judge your girlfriend for having sex toys the same way you wouldn’t want to be judged. Sex toys make sex great, and they are awesome. Furthermore, they open us to better techniques and better experiences.
Some guys will get angry at their girlfriends just because they own sex toys. This is so wrong, and it will make it hard for her to like your sex dolls too. Also, you need to stay open to her collection, and she will easily like yours as well.
Don’t be jealous but instead help her and become a sexually aware person.
Reassure your girlfriend
You need a good reason as to why you have a sex doll. Of course this very straight forward that you want to have sex. But this reason might not be enough reason for your girlfriend.
Reassuring your girlfriend is important because you don’t want to make her feel threatened. You can tell a lie to make her satisfied. For example, it was recommended on a blog, and you got a very good deal. Remember, not to use strange reasons, try to be as realistic as possible.
You can tell her that you are super busy and you needed something better than a regular handjob to give you a quick release. Some girls will take the time to understand.
No pressure
Do not overthink it. Also, do not pressure or force her to like your sex doll. Overthinking about this whole situation too much will not do you any good. Because it may result in an awkward moment when you finally decide to break the ice.
You don’t have to worry about it as a large number of people use sex toys and dolls across the world. When this topic comes up, do your explaining and move on. Being casual is the key to making your girlfriend like your sex doll. Furthermore, everyone has that weird part of them, so you are absolutely normal. Another great way to avoid piling pressure on her is by making fun of your sex dolls because they are just dolls.
Show her your collection
This is not an easy part. Because it will be weird if she hasn’t seen one before. Also, it’s essential to wait until she asks to see the collection. Do not rush before she asks as she may not be interested.
If she hasn’t asked to see your sex doll, give her time. However, if she asks for it, then you have no other option but to show her. Do not have it dressed or connected so that it can look like it has not been used for some time.
Calling your doll by name during the first date can be awkward for her. Remember the first time you saw a sex doll? Put yourself in that same position, and things will be very easy for you when introducing your girlfriend to your sex doll.
Shop for sex dolls together
When she finally meets your doll, you can ask her to help you in customizing or shopping for more dolls. Remember that it’s her own choice whether to accept or disagree. For instance, you can ask her to help you choose clothes and some accessories. You can take an advantage of this situation and note her favorite designs so that you can buy better ones for her. This will make your girlfriend feel involved and appreciated. She will never see it as a threat as long as you keep it simple.
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Adult Sex Games for Kinky Couples
Whether you’ve been with your significant other for a month or 10 years, adding a bit of fun to your sex life with some adult games is sure to make for a great evening!
To really make the most of it, we recommend you plan it out in advance. Depending on what you go for you may want to prepare the space and what you’re going to wear (if anything!). If you’re choosing board games, make sure there’s enough room to play and see if you may need any props. If you’re opting for something involving VR porn, make sure you have all the devices you need and that they’re charged. Now, once you’re ready, surprise your partner when they come home from work and let the games begin!
Here are some great ideas for you to try:
Get Hot And Steamy With The Monogamy Board Game
Monogamy is not a board game you would usually find at the back shelf of your local pub. It’s designed for committed couples to get to know each other better and have a bit of fun, so you’ll definitely want to set aside a whole afternoon to play this!
Inside the box, you will find a game board and some cards and while the layout may remind you of Monopoly, the rules of the game are very different! In Monogamy, you move a playing piece around the board and land on different squares which involve kissing, drinking, taking clothes off, or taking a card.
There are 3 card colours, each representing the three different stages of play; intimate, passionate and steamy. The pink ones ask sexy questions and are the less risque out of the bunch – you may wish to start with these. The purple cards take things up a notch with more touching, stroking and saucy conversations entwined with exciting sensuous actions. Finally, the steamy red cards contain actions and scenarios to take you to the brink and leave you longing for the final fantasy.
There are special fantasy cards that you also pick up every time you pass the starting ‘Go’ square. You can also use these cards outside of the game for when you are already in the mood and fancy a little quick and steamy sex – just shuffle the fantasy cards, pick one out and act out the scenario.
Like the idea of board games in the bedroom? There are a few to choose from. Nookii is another variation of Monogamy, though it’s just faster to play and doesn’t have as many details to it. You could also try rolling some sexy dice or why not play Twister with a twist (get it?) – every time you fall down you have to take off an item of clothing. We won’t judge if you start playing in your underwear!
Play With Porn
Porn can be a fun tool to play with and many couples like watching it together, but have you ever tried to re-enact your favourite porn movies? This can be a really fun way to spend your evening and the closer you can get it to the original – the more points you gain!
Get your camera out, plan your outfits and go help your roommate that’s just got stuck in the washing machine (is it just us or is getting stuck in random places really increasing in popularity in porn?). Play the movie back another night to get you both instantly in the mood!
Another way you can play is with VR porn. Pick a movie that you both like, then one of you wears the headset whilst the other tries to reenact what the person in the movie is doing by following your partner’s descriptions. For example, when the pornstar in the movie is getting down on the protagonist of the film (your partner), your partner can ask you to do the same, so they will experience the visual aspect of it in VR and receive the physical sensations in real life too. This can be an incredibly arousing experience for both of you!
See You In Room No. 555
Role-play games can be incredibly arousing, though for some it can be a little awkward at first if you’ve never done it before. Don’t worry, start off with something easy and you’ll get the hang of it in no time!
This game may need a bit of prep, depending on what you go for. You could agree in advance what you want to do or write down a list of fantasies, put them in a jar and pull one out at random.
You could go for the obvious choices like a nurse treating a patient or a naughty schoolgirl that needs to be punished because she’s late for class.
You could also go for the strangers approach and pretend to meet each other in a bar and one of you slides over your room key and a note asking to meet upstairs in 10 minutes.
Or maybe your yoga teacher finally notices you and decides to show you his tantric pussy massage techniques on you first hand in the lavender fields.
Or perhaps you’ve always wanted to be the boss and have an assistant who is willing to perform your every desire…
The possibilities are endless with this one and your imagination is the key here – so go all out!
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My Dating Expectations & Experiences
I absolutely love dating, which is probably why my job as a companion has come so naturally to me. I love the flirting, the laughter, the intimacy and as a result, have made long lasting connections with my amazing suitors. I’m an extrovert at heart, so I also find it really exciting to meet new people.
Have you ever been on a date with someone for the first time, and within the first hour felt like you’ve known them forever? I have, and it’s an incredible experience to connect with someone like that. However, I have noticed that this kind of chemistry is less common (really rare, actually!) in traditional dating, than it is in the world of professional companionship. After some reflection as to “why” that is, I realized that in traditional dating, there are so many outside factors that affect the way we date. Are we compatible? Will they like my friends? Is this someone I see a future with?
These are questions that don’t need to be considered when you’re on a date with a companion. It takes so much of the pressure off and allows us to be much more comfortable with one another. It’s crazy to see how much more enjoyable a date can be when we let go of these expectations and just simply live in the moment.
How Women & Men Differ In Dating
We’ve always been told that men are very sex-focused and women are more emotional when it comes to dating, but I really don’t think that is always the case. People date for a wide variety of reasons. Some just want company, some are looking for someone long-term, some want something fun, and of course some people are simply looking for a sexual experience.
In the real dating world, this can cause a lot of confusion. More often than not, people aren’t on the same page and it can often lead to hurt feelings and awkward conversations. This is where professional companionship becomes a great option; there’s no need to explain yourself or to feel confused about where you stand with your date. If you’re looking to connect and build a relationship with a provider, you can do that.
Most of us love having regulars, and we genuinely care about them. But on the other hand, if you’re just looking for a fun one night fling, there’s absolutely no hard feelings if you never reach out again. Whatever it is you’re seeking, it can surely be found in the world of courtesans.
Unrealistic Dating Expectations I Have Encountered
I’ve definitely gotten some unrealistic date requests from clients. Things like overly specific outfit requests, play-by-plays of how they’d like the entire date to go, long lists of services they’d like me to offer…basically a lot of entitlement and a need for control.
Early on in my career I would try and accommodate these requests, as I felt that it was my job to help create the fantasy my client had in mind. But, I quickly realized that those dates were never as enjoyable for me as the ones that unfolded naturally. I consider myself to be a really genuine person, so it’s hard for me to feel like I’m acting out a script.
Companions can definitely cater to a general fantasy or theme, but we’re not circus performers that are going to jump through hoops for you. Besides, one of the funnest parts about going on date is the uncertainty of how it will all unfold. I think a little bit of mystery is sexy.
Do I Have Expectations Of My Date?
Absolutely. There’s the basics: be clean, be respectful, and be on time. Always put the donation out where I can see it at the beginning of the date. If I’m coming to see you, be a good host. Dim the lights a bit, put some music on, and be sure to offer me at least a glass of water.
Don’t expect to pounce on me as soon as I walk through the door, a little bit of flirtation or witty banter is a necessary part of foreplay. Although it is certainly not required, a small gift like a bottle of wine or chocolate is a very sweet gesture. I really do appreciate the little things.
Does Physical Attraction Matter?
A gentleman’s physical appearance does not matter to me at all. I often get emails from clients apologizing for their looks as they’re concerned it will be a deal breaker for me, and it breaks my heart. Aside from very basic hygiene expectations, your appearance is not important.
It’s unfortunate that we live in a society that’s made so many people feel like their ability to be liked is solely dependent on their looks, when in reality we are all so much more than that. I’ve actually noticed a trend that clients who email me boasting about how good looking they are usually end up being the worst dates. Arrogance is such an ugly trait.
Personally, I love a man who is attentive, respectful, kind, and who understands healthy boundaries. When I know a man really cares about me and respects my body and my time, that’s when I feel like I can really let loose with him.
What Turns Me Off On A Date
A few of my date turn offs are: bad hygiene, gossiping, having a negative attitude, and not behaving discreetly when we’re in public together. I’m very privileged to be in a position where I can be selective about who I spend time with, so thankfully these aren’t things I encounter very often.
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How To Explore & Be Confident Of Your Sexuality
To preface, all discussion on sex assumes consent between adults.
Sex: We all get the urge to varying degrees and engage in sexual acts for different reasons. Some, of course, view it as primarily reproductive. Others, as a primal instinct that needs to be tended to when the urge arises. Sex is even an art form, as many sex workers display so well. Although there are elements of these that are undeniably true, I have a more general approach to sex.
To me, sex is a culminating experience that occurs when mutual attraction and connection grows so strong that the natural way to express it is to take each other’s body and mind on a pleasureful journey that showcases the special bond you have together. This can be expressed in a myriad of ways depending on each unique relationship: sub loyally serving their Dom(me), a mutually tantric couple edging each other with an array of touches, or even a group of three or more lustfully sharing each other.
For me, each relationship carries with it a unique sexual expression shared between that person and I. That’s what makes it amazing.
Is Exploring One’s Sexuality Key To A Good Sex Life?
It seems to me that without knowing or understanding your own sexuality, it will inhibit the full potential of a good sex life. Many are forced to grow up in communities and households where multiple partners, same-sex, fetish, BDSM, and other desires are taboo or discouraged. This makes someone with a sexuality with those traits to feel shame throughout their life for having those desires and preferences. It also builds a pile of pre-conceived notions about sex that can inhibit an exploration and knowledge of our own sexuality.
Once you begin to open up and allow yourself to explore your own sexuality in a way that is comfortable for you, you begin to see the preferences you didn’t know you had: Wow this person of the same-sex really turned me on in a way I never felt before, or OMG, this Domme makes me want to get down and suck her toes, or any other desire. When you are able to know all the ways your sex drive is triggered, the more complete your own sex life will be.
Of course, the last ingredient is essential for a good sex life. A partner with which your sexuality is compatible. The lack of opening up with one’s partner(s) about your own sexuality or simply not find a sexually compatible partner, can also inhibit a good sex life. This is one major reason sex work exists.
Ways To Explore One’s Sexuality By Yourself
There are many ways you can explore sexuality by yourself. One natural way is through self-pleasure and masturbation. You can watch porn, interact with someone virtually, or just lay there letting your mind dive into a fantasy and your toys, hands, or fingers explore your body. This is typically how someone starts exploring before adding in partners.
I still remember the first time I started exploring my body. For the longest time that was all I did sexually. Just explored on my own until I was 18. I met people online and would have phone and cyber sex exploring fetishes, fantasies, and learning that I liked same-sex partners too. At first, I actually didn’t mentally go there on my own. I only began thinking about it through online play that sparked my interest. I began exploring myself in new ways including experimenting with fingering and toying. I knew my sexuality was much more complex than I had thought and loved exploring and coming up with fantasies in my head. My own sexual exploration laid the groundwork to my current work 🙂
In the end though, you do need real life interaction and touch to fully explore outside of oneself.
Common Concerns Men Have When Exploring Their Sexuality
The most common concern in exploring your sexuality as a man is, of course, others not accepting you for who you are. But another angle many forget is the issue of not accepting yourself for who you are either. Since some types of sexuality are more marginalized than others, it goes without saying that folks will find outlets for their desires. Whether it is watching porn, scrolling through Tinder, or hiring a sex worker, folks will find an outlet to express themselves discreetly if they are aware of their sexuality. However, many times I receive messages saying, “wow, I am not normally attracted to men, but there is something about you!” I always respond with sensitivity and understanding because many stigmatize their own thoughts. It is totally okay to be attracted to someone! We never really know why. It just is 🙂
Many need confirmation, acceptance, safety, and comfort to explore their sexuality. They just don’t know how to find it, or how to come to terms with themselves.
Male ego or machismo can get in the way from allowing oneself to dive deeper into their own sexuality. But of course, being bi, gay, a sub, having a panty fetish, or just liking dicks or butts and not other parts of a man yet or anything else, doesn’t make you any less manly. If anything, it is probably more of the norm, it’s just typically kept to oneself due to stigmas 😉
One Last Piece Of Advice
My own advice would be to remain open minded and honest with yourself. Allow yourself to explore your sexuality. Step out of your comfort zones and experiment by yourself or safely with others. You will probably be surprised to find out you are attracted to more than you think. This will allow you to have a more comprehensive and fulfilling sex life.
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How To Enjoy Solo Anal Play With Toys
Masturbation is one of the most important aspects of life for both our health and sanity. I do not know about other people, but sometimes I cannot focus on things until I masturbate. If I don’t cum, I will get nothing done! Not only does it provide us with great self pleasure, but it relieves stress and helps us sleep as well.
I also think masturbation is wicked important because you need to discover what works for you sexually. If you don’t masturbate, you will not know what turns you on or makes you orgasm. I began masturbating probably when I was about nine years old, so I have always been aware of what my body enjoys. This awareness allows us to guide our partners during sex. I also think masturbation makes us more sexually confident as well. Masturbation should never be shamed.
Why I Love Solo Anal Play
Solo anal play is extremely enjoyable because of all the nerve endings that are in your asshole…it creates enormous amounts of sensations. The sliding in, and the full feeling of my asshole being stuffed with a toy brings me to another level – a Heavenly level.
Also, I think the “taboo” nature of anal play makes it extra hot. It is like the “forbidden” zone. My pussy gets wet just thinking about anal play or anal sex. Another thing I love is the challenge. I get off on the challenge of fitting different toys and different size objects in my ass.
Best Toys For Anal Play
I have a couple toy boxes and they contain lots of anal toys! I mostly use plugs, so I can start smaller, stretch it out, and move onto bigger plugs and toys. I love the base at the end of plugs. They stay in your butthole so you can be hands free! Being handsfree is awesome for when I DP myself. I love to have both holes filled at once. That feeling of being double-stuffed is so off the charts that I don’t even have words to describe it! Sometimes I even wear a plug when I am just going about my day – cleaning, doing errands, etc. It’s like a naughty secret that makes my pussy wet all day long.
I also love my weighted Ben Wa balls. My favorite ones are attached to each other with a string, so there is no risk of losing them inside you. The weight puts pressure in my hole that feels so erotic to me. I also like that I can see them move around when I tug on the string. Plugs and balls are my favorite because when I push them out, I squirt fountains!
Anal beads are great too. They add extra pleasure when you pull them out as you are cumming.
Tips For Beginners
I would highly suggest starting small and working your way up to bigger toys. There are starter anal kits that come with three different sized plugs so you can work your way up.
Get yourself super horny first. I like to watch porn before I play with my ass and run a vibrator on my clit.
Lots of lube is important. I suggest water based so you do not end up with any infections (it always seems to make its way to your pussy). If it is difficult or painful, add more lube!
Starting out with just your fingers is a nice way to begin stretching out as well. You can keep adding in fingers and work your way up to a toy.
Ways To Kink Up Anal Play
Sexy lingerie and slutty outfits definitely make anal play hotter for me. I love dressing up, and the sexier I feel, the hornier I am! I also like to challenge myself to take on different size toys, and even food and objects. I’m really into pushing toys, objects, and food out of my asshole.
I mentioned before that it makes me squirt, plus I love the way it looks and feels. Watching myself or other girls push things out of their ass makes me go gaga. I’ve always found anal play with food to be super-hot! Strawberries, gummy bears, whip cream; you name it and I will shove it in my hole and push it out! Random objects are fun too. I put an entire remote control in my asshole and pushed it out once!
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Why Do I Love Giving Blowjobs So Much?
I love giving blowjobs because I love to feel in control. It turns me on to have a person’s pleasure at my mercy. I am a switch and love being a top and bottom but there is nothing like taking control and giving it. I have a love for getting face fucked and messy, and I love pleasing my partners and finding new ways to get them off.
What Is Defined As A Good Blowjob?
A good blowjob is one that is obviously enjoyable for both parties. If a person doesn’t enjoy giving one, it’s obvious and not sexy. For a good one, you need to be really into it. And I think men love the surprise factor. They never really know what to expect, each person has their own technique and style, and I feel they find it exciting.
How It Was Like Giving My First Blowjob
Oh jeez. My first blowjob was when I was 15 – 16? And honestly, I wouldn’t even call it one. I grew up very religious and shy so my first time with a penis was horrifying! He pulled his pants down, I looked at it; looked at him and was like, “Well what do I do now” and then he just shoved it in my mouth balls deep.
I waited five seconds and then ran to the bathroom to wash my mouth out immediately. Needless to say I was not ready for it at the time. And it was extremely embarrassing.
Reaction I Look For During A Blowjob
The reaction I always look for is when they sigh. If a guy sighs with his mouth open and his eyes rolled back, I know I have him. And if they curse and grab my hair as I go, it’s an obvious indicator. And the more they love it, the more I love it too.
Getting Turned On While Blowing
Giving a blowjob makes me automatically horny. I am a very sexual person, and If I even suck on someone’s finger, my body is ready! I love to get really down and dirty with my blowjobs and the nastier I get, the more turned on I am.
Advice For Ladies Who Don’t Enjoy Giving
For ladies who don’t like it, don’t feel bad or ashamed. It’s okay, not everyone is into everything and that is fine. Also, do not do it with someone you don’t even like. Cause if you don’t care about them, you won’t care about their pleasure, and vice versa.
And make it fun, add food! Chocolate syrup and sprinkles are my favorite!
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Simple Yet Affective Ways To Spice Up The Bedroom
Just because you’re staying in the same room for virtually your entire life, there’s no reason for you to let the boredom get to you.
When you’re creative (or kinky) enough, there are many ways for you to spice up your bedroom. When you do so, your entire mood also gets better. Then, love will just be steaming in the air. Who knows, you and your partner may even have that renewed sense of love.
Especially when you now live in the same house, it can be straightforward to slip into a routine. The bedroom feels nothing more than a place to sleep and have sex. Then, it may be the same mood over and over again. If things have been going that way, you’re in the right place. This article is here to help you make that bedroom feel hot and steamy all over again.
Whatever the reason why you want to spice up your bedroom, these are some tips that’ll lead you to that goal. Read through to learn more.
- Play Some Games In Your Bedroom
Who says the bedroom is only for sleeping, sex, relaxing, or watching a movie? If you haven’t tried it already, then you may want to play games in your bedroom.
When it’s just you and your significant other left awake in the house, playing games in the bedroom spices up not only the mood of the room itself but even your relationship. From time to time, it pays to be competitive and to challenge each other. Then, see what your reward (or punishment) will be.
To help you get started, here are some bedroom games ideas that add an element of fun:
- Play a “Yes/No/Maybe” game
- Make-believe or play pretend
- Have a sex fantasy jar. Then, take turns rewarding each other by picking from the jar
- Board games
- Blind poker
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- Make Eye Contact
Even when you’ve consistently been in bed with the love of your life, you can still spice things up with one simple change, that is, by making eye contact.
If you notice that you haven’t been making eye contact lately, try it out. It’s one of the easiest ways to spark that connection again. When you’re making eye contact, it can give you that added boost of confidence. Then, this positive energy also gets passed on to your partner.
Here’s how making eye contact can help spice up your chemistry, even when you’re in the same old bedroom over and over again:
- It’s a bold move that helps keep you and your partner aroused
- It makes you more comfortable with each other
- It intensifies the effects of oxytocin
- Add A Mirror To Your Bedroom
If you’ve got a blank wall in your bedroom, then now’s a good time for you to invest in a new mirror – the bigger the mirror, the better. First, this would have many purposes in your bedroom, and mirrors are quite cheap. So, it’s an investment that you might want to look into.
Aesthetically wise, it makes your bedroom look more elegant. Ever notice how a lot of hotel rooms also have mirrored walls? In addition to that, it’ll also make your space look bigger. When you’re dressing up, you can see your outfit from top to bottom.
Then, when you’re undressed and in bed, it also has many benefits to help bring so much spice to your bedroom.
Thus, give yourself a new point of view. Rather than staring at the same blank wall or portrait over and over again, try looking at each other while doing the deed. Watching yourselves do it, right in the comforts of your bedroom, in front of the mirror, gives you that comfort to be yourselves.
That said, here are other reasons for you to try out having sex in front of the mirror:
- It’s a very hot way to connect more with your partner when you can see each other from different angles
- Since you don’t just see yourself, but you see each other, it’ll bring you and your partner closer to each other.
- It makes you more confident
- Bring Out The Massage Oil
Rather than going out regularly to have a massage, why not take turns in giving each other a massage instead? This way, you’ve got another use for your bedroom also.
In providing a massage, it’s not only to spice things up in the form of sexual activity. Sex doesn’t even necessarily have to happen after the massage. It just adds that new, steamy, element of love in your bedroom. In fact, massaging your loved one also shows that you care and love them enough to take care of them.
If you’ve got extra candles, bring them out, too. This helps set the mood in your bedroom by bringing down the shades or the block-out curtain. Then, light some candles – scented if you have any. As simple a change as that, you’re creating that brand new mood and experience in the same bedroom.
Here are other great reasons to set up that massage parlor mood in your very own bedroom:
- It helps relieve whatever anxiety your significant other is feeling.
- It takes away the stress of having to drive to and from your massage parlor.
- It enables you both to sleep more soundly.
- It prolongs the relaxation benefits that a massage can bring.
- It helps to fight fatigue.
- Play A Love Song Playlist
Whatever the mood you’re feeling, don’t under-estimate the power of music. If you’re feeling wild, why not play loud music. If you’re feeling in love, play love songs. If you’re feeling kinky, then perhaps a sex playlist will do the trick. Thus, if you’ve been having the same mood over and over again, the power of music can change things up.
To help you get started, here’s a sample list of songs that you can incorporate in your love song playlist:
- “You See The Trouble With Me” by Barry White
- “She’s Like The Wind” by Patric Swayze
- “Take My Breath Away” by Berlin
- “Sexual Healing” by Marvin Gaye
- Wear Heels When Going Around The Bedroom
If you’ve long gotten used to wearing house clothes and pajamas whenever you’re in your bedroom, then change things up a bit tonight. If you’ve got those trusty heels that you haven’t worn in quite some time, bring it out.
As explained above, the bedroom isn’t only meant for sleeping. So, give your significant other that new image of yourself. Perhaps, even after a party or a night out, you may want to keep your heels on for a while. This can help set the mood for some sexual love, even when you’re still in the same old bedroom as you’re used to.
Here are some reasons why men, in particular, love to see high heels around the bedroom:
- It creates a new sense of attention and fantasy for your man
- It enhances your overall body shape
- It adds that added boost of confidence that women may need
- It makes women look just a tad bit sluttier in the bedroom
- Turn It Into Your “Red Room”
Take note that this shouldn’t go beyond the limits that you’ll end up hurting each other. What it means here is that there are so many ways to turn your bedroom into your very own red room.
For instance, you can dim the lights or turn them off – make sure light is completely blocked. Then, be ready with a few toys here and there that you can bring out. This can help create a new and playful mood, even when you’re in the same room.
You may even want to bring it one step further by changing your sheets to black or red for this purpose. If you haven’t tried bondage, then bring out the handcuffs. Now’s the perfect time for you to play with each other’s fantasies.
Here are some DIY bondage or BDSM ideas that you can incorporate in your bedroom:
- Tease your partner around the room
- Always be safe
- Be dominating
- Change Your Pillow Position
Another very effective change that you can incorporate in your room can is simply changing the position of your pillows.
Thus, if you’ve gotten used to having your pillow behind your head the whole time, why not try something new. For instance, you may want to put a pillow below your hips. Doing different changes or positions with pillows that you already have is an effortless way to spice things up in your bedroom.
As a bonus, you may also want to change your pillowcases to silk! There’s just that sexy and delicate feel that silk brings.
Conclusion
Now that you have these tips and tricks on how to spice up your bedroom, it’s now more effortless to break whatever routine it is that you’ve made or have gotten used to. Even when you’ve got to stay in the same bedroom for a while, it doesn’t mean that you’re going to breed and cultivate boredom. Rather, it’s even a fun way for you to be creative and think of new ways from time to time to spice up your room.
These tips will show you that spicing things up in your bedroom can help improve the love, the bond, and the connection. Now your room will start feeling brand new again.
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