Why Do I Love Giving Blowjobs So Much?

I love giving blowjobs because I love to feel in control. It turns me on to have a person’s pleasure at my mercy. I am a switch and love being a top and bottom but there is nothing like taking control and giving it. I have a love for getting face fucked and messy, and I love pleasing my partners and finding new ways to get them off.

What Is Defined As A Good Blowjob?

A good blowjob is one that is obviously enjoyable for both parties. If a person doesn’t enjoy giving one, it’s obvious and not sexy. For a good one, you need to be really into it. And I think men love the surprise factor. They never really know what to expect, each person has their own technique and style, and I feel they find it exciting.

How It Was Like Giving My First Blowjob

Oh jeez. My first blowjob was when I was 15 – 16? And honestly, I wouldn’t even call it one. I grew up very religious and shy so my first time with a penis was horrifying! He pulled his pants down, I looked at it; looked at him and was like, “Well what do I do now” and then he just shoved it in my mouth balls deep.

I waited five seconds and then ran to the bathroom to wash my mouth out immediately. Needless to say I was not ready for it at the time. And it was extremely embarrassing.

Reaction I Look For During A Blowjob

The reaction I always look for is when they sigh. If a guy sighs with his mouth open and his eyes rolled back, I know I have him. And if they curse and grab my hair as I go, it’s an obvious indicator. And the more they love it, the more I love it too.

Getting Turned On While Blowing

Giving a blowjob makes me automatically horny. I am a very sexual person, and If I even suck on someone’s finger, my body is ready! I love to get really down and dirty with my blowjobs and the nastier I get, the more turned on I am.

Advice For Ladies Who Don’t Enjoy Giving

For ladies who don’t like it, don’t feel bad or ashamed. It’s okay, not everyone is into everything and that is fine. Also, do not do it with someone you don’t even like. Cause if you don’t care about them, you won’t care about their pleasure, and vice versa.

And make it fun, add food! Chocolate syrup and sprinkles are my favorite!

Hadi Hart – I’m 23 and just graduated with my Bachelors. I have been in sex work since I was 19, and fell in love with the body positivity and acceptance movement of it all. I’m from Miami and am a BBW content creator.

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