What Is The Kinky GFE?

The kinky GFE is the most sensual and sweet twist of BDSM, it is the quintessential spicing things up in a setting that still has a sweet, vanilla taste undertone; while I’d define sensual domination as a pungent BDSM flavour mixed with classic eroticism.

To me, sex feels like dreaming somehow, like being in a different, freer space, where connections are very strong and raw. Sex is an essential part of my way of expressing myself and exploring connections. It is a side of me that is intimate and different from everyday life, and at the same time is vital.

The GFE & Why It Is Popular

The Girlfriend Experience is the idealised and unearthly girlfriend of your dreams, and why not? It is everything that you ever wanted from an amour, the connection, the hot sex, the fine dining after visiting an exhibition together. And if you are curious about kink, someone who has more expertise but who also enjoys the sensual and erotic moreover than the purely psychological.

Some Ways To Kink Up The GFE?

Tease and denial: look your partner in the eyes, give them so much pleasure that it almost brings them over, but retain control: don’t let them topple over (note: or: “to enjoy” would sound better?) just yet. They are in your hands, and the longer the game lasts, the more you will see them turn into luscious jelly.

Also: foot fetish, a favourite of mine, having your partner kneeling in front of you, pacing it slowly by starting with a massage, then just smelling your beautiful feet, and gently kissing them…

A great classic is to blindfold and gently restrain your partner, heightening their sensations and playing with the senses.

Safe Kinky GFE Play For All

As usual, consent and communication are the keys. Establishing safe words can also be liberating as they give a very quick and unequivocal communication; I really like the light system: where “yellow” means go on, but adjust a bit, and “red” is a clear: stop now.

Another sure way is just to enjoy each others with your hands, whispering your fantasies to one another: playing with words can be so vivid…

Arazatah – Arazatah’s total black, straight from Milan style encases a vintage hourglass figure and a sweet personality that is fulfilled in sensual domination and lovely vanilla GFE. Highly educated, this edgy Italian amour will seduce you to create unforgettable moments.

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Usually in London, sometimes in Milan. January in Italy, 29/01-3/02 in Paris, back in London in February

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