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  • Why You Should Enjoy Amsterdam With A High Class Independent Escort

    Why You Should Enjoy Amsterdam With A High Class Independent Escort

    I’ve been an independent companion for a couple of years now, and I can honestly say it’s been one of the most amazing experiences of my life!

    When I first started, I for sure had the first time nervousness. But once I got over that hump of meeting someone new, the first time “nervousness” went away and I knew the industry was for me— there were so many other exciting things to think about! Like will we really match, do they have realistic expectations, and so on…

    But you know what? All those things have happened—and they’ve all been just fine. It’s great being able to explore your sensuality with someone who’s just as interested in exploring YOU, and clients don’t feel judged when being in the presence of a companion. And even better when that person is someone you might not encounter this close in your everyday life—someone who takes you out for dinner or dancing or whatever else comes up, and then on top of this also compensates you for your time. I figured out quite quickly that being a companion is not purely about sex, but also intimacy on different levels while building a connection and exploring your sexuality. 

    Not only are my clients great people who provide me with experiences I didn’t imagine were possible before on this scale otherwise, but it gives them an opportunity to also release some of their energy and let go of their everyday things. I’m very happy with being that escape whether that is in a more intimate and sexual fashion, a social aspect and them being heard, or just for some fun (wild) times.

    What Makes Me An Ideal Companion

    I like to think of myself as bubbly, kindhearted, and very sensual. I’ve heard that I tend to light up the room with my presence—and that it’s not just because of the way I look! But because I’m also outgoing and judgment-free, clients never feel judged when they are around me.

    When it comes to intimacy, I’m an adventurous soul who loves a good night in bed (or other areas of the room). I believe life is to be enjoyed and make sure it’s filled with laughter, passion, and connection. That and being the best arm candy in Amsterdam for any occasion…

    With all the above discretion for those who book me is very important. This is why clients often book time and time again and become great regulars. I certainly don’t take those experiences for granted—that’s why being a beauty with brains for sure is such an important part of what makes me a companion so special!

    The Best Duration To Spend Amsterdam Together With Me!

    I know that’s not everyone’s cup of tea, and I do cater to shorter bookings as they can sometimes be more convenient for many reasons. But I’ve also found that longer bookings are more fun for both parties—in fact, they’re my preferred type of dates! There’s just more room for connection and intimacy when you’re spending more time together. And if you’re looking for something really special? Well, then I think it’s worth it to invest in yourself by booking an extra couple of hours of time with me. So I’d say starting out with 3-4 hours (or much longer) and planning something fun makes a great recipe for a nice time together.

    Advantages Of Booking Me, An Independent Escort

    I’m sure there are some good escort agencies out there, but based on what a lot of clients have told me, High Class Independent Escorts are preferred.

    Agencies are probably great because they handle all of the details, and if you are a client you’d most likely would like to go out with someone real and reputable. But if you want to go on a date with someone who is just as excited about going out with you as you are about going out with them, then an independent companion is the way to go. The idea that someone else takes a huge percentage, and then knowing that there is no other form of seeing more of her besides a profile on the agency site, doesn’t always resonate well with clients.

    And that’s not all: when you book a reputable Independent Companion, you can get a feel for her before the actual deal. You’ll get to see her website and social media posts so that you can gauge who she is before booking her. And because she’s not working for an agency, she’ll be more invested in making sure her clientele is happy than if she were just another worker bee in an “office” so to say and the middle (wo)man not being included…

    Ps; Reputable independent companions are just as discreet as agencies if not more!

    How We’ll Spend Our Time Together In Amsterdam

    There are so many fun things to do in Amsterdam. I get requested a lot of times for dinner dates and occasionally get invited on trips as well. To me, this is so flattering, because not only are you choosing me as your companion for the date and to be your arm candy, but you truly value connection outside of the bedroom and love extended time together. The travel dates often happen once an initial connection has been formed of course. There’s never any pressure to book for such a long time and I also appreciate those that prefer shorter dates.

    Now with the longer dates I love exploring new places, and restaurants or just being a fun tour guide. in Amsterdam. I once went with a client to a kind of underground area where there is a lot of street art because he’s also into that like myself. Then other times I’ve suggested hotels where the tasting menu was very elaborate and we had a more posh kind of date.

    As you probably know Amsterdam is famous for many things and particularly our coffee shops. I once surprised a client with a red velvet cake from one of our famous coffee shops, because unlike myself he’s much more experienced with that. The “special” red velvet cake was a cute personal touch of my own, and let’s just say, the 24 hours we spent together were even more hilarious as we tried to go to a museum in the afternoon and couldn’t contain our laughter. After some fun private time in his hotel room, we switched it up and went to an upscale strip club which was the best and a perfect way to close off the night! The munchies were something else though…

    Etiquette Or Rules For A Good Time Together

    There are some guidelines to make sure we have a great time. Being respectful is common sense, as well as hygiene of course. Making sure any agreed-upon finances are out of the way preferably at the beginning of that date. I prefer not having to ask for it and rarely will, but luckily the type of gentlemen that I meet all understand that. Sometimes those things are handled either by them before the date or by their assistant for discretion. Other than the above, communication is key, so making sure that the desires and expectations line up is super important. This is why I’ve taken the time to craft my website, social media, and advertisement platforms so there are no misunderstandings. From then the fun can really begin!

    Tiffany Elease:

    My name is Tiffany Elease., and I’m so excited to be writing again for SimplySxy! I consider myself an ambitious, witty, and sensual exotic high class escort that is based in Amsterdam the Netherlands. Being born and raised in the Netherlands and calling Amsterdam my home has allowed me to explore different parts of Europe, however, there are so many more places to discover or better said explore with the right suitor.

    The discretion of those I meet has always been very important to me. I would describe myself as a genuinely caring person who is very warm and inviting and also have a true passion for what I do. I believe mutual pleasure makes things more intimate while also keeping it lighthearted and fun…

    Follow me on:

    Twitter: @Tiffany_Elease and @TiffanyElease1

    Instagram: @Meet.TiffanyElease

    Telegram: TiffanyElease 1

    Website: www.TiffanyElease.com

    Email: Contact@TiffanyElease.com or TiffanyElease@gmail.com

    Upcoming Works: I’ve been met with so much enthusiasm since my return to the industry, and I’m very much excited about my upcoming “Welcome back” photoshoot as well as my many travels to different parts of Côte d’Azur like Cannes, and Monaco. Perhaps I might also make my way to parts of Switzerland so stay tuned. And since Singapore has been calling my name, there’s a slight chance I’ll be persuaded to hop over in 2024… 

    Photos courtesy of Tiffany Elease

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  • How Does Open Communication Lead To Better Sex?

    How Does Open Communication Lead To Better Sex?

    Well apart from loving it, I think sex is a really powerful way to explore different aspects of our identity. I think sex is as varied as music is and it can mean something different every time we choose to participate. Sometimes it is fun and silly, sometimes it is intense and passionate, sometimes it is hot, dark, pounding and sweaty and sometimes, it’s deeply intimate or romantic.

    I wish that sex and sexuality wasn’t as stigmatized and that more people felt comfortable to express and explore their sexuality, fantasies and desires without being burdened by feelings of shame.

    The Importance Of Communication

    Communication is soooo important and hugely underrated! Working towards feeling comfortable enough to express what you want in the bedroom is a huge step to opening up your sexual encounters and experiences. The most important part of communication is learning how to listen and respond! After all is there anything hotter than when you really start listening to the breathing and moans of someone else in bed and responding accordingly?

    As someone who has lots of sex with different people, it has taught me how different everyone’s bodies are! Without open communication, how can we expect our bedfellows to know exactly what feels good! So, create a space where honest dialogue is encouraged but also listen out for those non-verbal cues that come with slowing things down, speeding them up to try to lock into you playmates reactions. I think we can all learn more from the BDSM community and the conversations they engage in before any type of play. To see where each other’s head is at that day and what sorts of things they would like to explore!

    If you are wanting things to get a little bit kinky in your sex life, there are a few things you can do to help move things along. 1) Be brave – If you are brave enough to share your desires with a lover/play pal, it will give them permission to do the same. 2) Timing – Bring things up at a time which is relaxed and intimate but not sexual – this will give them time to think about things and not feel pressured or tricked into something. 3) Be ready to take no for an answer. Sex is only fun when both parties are actively enthusiastically consenting. It is also ok to try things and decide they are not for us! That doesn’t mean we are boring or vanilla.

    Why I’m An Ideal Companion To Be With

    I think it is my natural curiosity about people and my love for learning from varied perspectives of the world. I am a really empathetic and optimistic person so it is really easy for me to find qualities I find attractive in people and am able to form connections quickly.  There is something I can find to admire in almost anyone so my warmth and interest is always genuine. I think *hope* my dates can sense that.

    I am also intelligent and articulate and can seamlessly fit into most environments. Intimacy, friendship, desire and human touch are a hugely important part of the human experience and I feel really thankful that I get to engage in such an important and intimate time with so many people. I spend a lot of time listening and learning about people’s lives.  I also think I know how to keep things light hearted and fun.

    Reasons For Seeking Companionship

    Firstly, I want to clarify that it is not JUST men who seek companionship. But it does form a large majority. As humans, I think at our core we all really just want connection both emotionally and physically. Physical touch can make us feel so alive and cared for. There are so many different reasons someone would seek a companion to spend time with.

    Lot’s of people are too busy to maintain a relationship, are working through different elements of their sexuality, want to lose their virginity in a safe space or haven’t had the opportunity to engage with someone physically in a while.  Also, I think there is something really great about how defined the time spent with a companion is.

    There are clear boundaries I expect to be respected from my dates around emotions, time and physical elements. This brings a real sense of clarity to the time we spend together and creates an environment which I think tends to bring out the best version of most people. They also know that I am not going to judge them for their bodies or desires so it can be a space that is free of any insecurities around their bodies or sexuality that they may be holding.

    Ways To Engage Someone Who Is Shy

    Finding joy in all aspects of my life is something I really strive for. I try to make my interactions playful and no pressure. Although I am long-legged with a cute butt, I am also really clumsy and an enormous dork. I honestly really just believe that bodies are bodies. Sometimes in sex, things make funny noises, or I fall over when I take off my underwear, or one of us burps. I like to meet my dates as a human first and a fantasy second.

    Which is a relief because it takes the pressure off both of us that we have to “perform” and we can just enjoy each others’ company. Although having said, that I think I give a pretty mean blowjob as well which can’t hurt someone’s nerves.

     I also really try to gauge both in the lead up to meeting and the first part of our date what sort of experience they are after and then focus on that.

    My Ideal Date & Expectations

    My ideal dates are always longer bookings so we really have time to get to know each other. I would love to meet first over a bottle of wine and some delicious food. Somewhere cosy and atmospheric. Increasingly stealing excuses to brush each other’s bodies throughout the meal in a slow lead up to spending some alone time together. I have never been on a holiday for a booking and I hope that someone decides to whisk me away to a tropical island or cosy cabin at some point!

    I would expect my dates to be polite and respectful from the very first message or email interaction until the end of our time together. Because I have a full time civilian job, I only see a handful of people and am very selective about who I will meet. I don’t think people realise how many messages companions can receive and how quickly we will make our judgements around if we want to spend time with someone.

    Also, hygiene. We make the effort to look our best for you and it is always appreciated when people do the same. Also, again, for the people up the back. Hygiene.

    Charlie Grace – My name is Charlie Grace and I am an Australian touring companion. I offer an amazing Girl Friend Experience and pride myself on always being articulate, intelligent with a down-to-earth warmth during my encounters. I’m always excited to hear from prospective dates around Australia and only engage with people who are polite, respectful and treat me like a human from the first time they message me. When I’m not working my civilian job or having exciting encounters I’m either out in nature or at an art gallery. 

    Follow Charlie Grace on

    Twitter: @CharlieGraceXOX

    Scarlet Blue: https://scarletblue.com.au/escort/charlie-grace/charlie-grace-touring?city=Sydney

    Dakota Dice: https://dakotadice.com.au/escort/charlie-grace

    Article images courtesy of Charlie Grace

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  • Why You Should Enjoy A Week in the UK With A Companion

    Why You Should Enjoy A Week in the UK With A Companion

    Luxury and discretion feel very natural to me. A person’s private indulgences should be private. It is only when we feel truly safe and secure in comfortable surroundings that we can really open up to another person, sexually or emotionally, and that’s where the fun and excitement really begin.

    How Popular Is Companionship In UK?

    Friendship with benefits is popular the world over, isn’t it?! Certainly here in the UK it’s very popular. Sex is great, but have you been on holiday with your girl, dining at the finest establishments, seeing her all dressed up for the theatre, meeting her fun, happy friends in cocktail bars and having threesomes with them later, been skydiving and wine-tasting and sunbathing and played golf with her? Sometimes even taking a nap with someone can be as intimate as sex.

    What Makes Me An Ideal Companion

    I am an elegant, affectionate, sensual hedonist and elite, discreet dating companion… a blonde, ultra-feminine and authentically kinky English rose. I have a big, adventurous heart, and look for the same in others. I particularly enjoy sharing ideas, jokes and friendly conversation over dinner and cocktails after we have got to know each other more intimately in private.

    I know that most people like to do dinner first, and then sex, but I’m the other way around! I feel so much more able to chat to someone over a plate of oysters when we have seen each other naked and worked up an appetite.

    Our Ideal Itinerary To Spend UK Together

    I’m the kind of girl who enjoys a lavish getaway in thoughtful company every once in a while. After a few days at a 5* hotel, it starts to feel like home and the staff start to feel like friends. In order to avoid this, you can stay at two different places over the course of a week, maybe in different areas so you have more to explore.

    I’m a real foodie. I like to take the opportunity to visit the best restaurants wherever I’m going; in London of course, the list is practically endless, although I do have a good list that I’ve put together on my website. I like to go to the ballet or opera or to see a really good play, go to any interesting exhibitions that are on – there’s always something at the V&A, and usually at the National Galleries too. The National Gallery also does interesting little arty events and tours that I’ve always enjoyed a lot. I like art but I don’t know much about it so I like to have a knowledgeable person show me round the pieces and explain them to me.

    Nightclubs and parties like Torture Garden can really spice things up and are a fun excuse to get really dolled up in the most scandalous outfits – the sort of thing I would normally only wear in the bedroom!

    The most unique thing I’ve ever done on holiday with a client was a sponsored skydive over Stonehenge for charity. To my own surprise, I actually loved it and would definitely do it again. We both had to go and have a lie-down afterwards, though! Sometimes it’s nice just to grab a coffee and go shopping or for a walk in the park.

    What You Can Expect From My GFE

    They can expect me to always make them jump out of planes. Kidding. I’m always warm and friendly because I love connecting with nice people. It’s romantic. I look for a genuine connection, not lukewarm, robotic hook-ups. A fling can be fun but the chemistry that builds up over a series of dates can’t be beaten. It’s powerful and exciting.

    If I’m hosting a first date or a tenth date in my hotel room, I like to light scented candles and have the champagne on ice ready for my date’s arrival. It’s a nice way to show you care and create a mysterious and seductive little world to enjoy for a couple of hours.

    We Can Kink Things Up Too!

    I have a “bad girl” side to me, as well as the “good girl” side you see in public. My favourite personal fantasy is the idea of a nice, normal, well-dressed man who seem respectable to the outside world but has a naughty secret or two he keeps private.

    Maybe he likes to wear lingerie, or be tied up and spanked, I don’t know. Anything, really. I just love that it’s something that not everyone knows about. That really gets me going. So if someone wants to share their kinky secret with me over a bottle of Dom, I’m all ears.

    My name is Lilly Watson, and I am a lady of leisure and upscale companion for friendly meetings and adventures in London and beyond. Interests include vintage glamour, cinema, fine dining, the theatre, shopping, history, playing golf (very badly) and socialising with friends in opulent hotels and restaurants. I also have a particular passion for threesomes.

    Follow Lilly Watson on:

    Website: www.misslillywatson.com

    Twitter: @MissLillyWatson

    Blog/newsletter: misslillywatson.blogspot.com

    AdultWork (for DirectChat and DirectIM): https://refer.adultwork.com/?R=3969427&T=3969427

    I will be dating again just as soon as lockdown restrictions are sufficiently eased.

    Images courtesy of Lilly Watson

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  • How To Enjoy The GFE In Warsaw With A Companion

    How To Enjoy The GFE In Warsaw With A Companion

    There’s an undeniable pleasure in a female’s life – and that is being adored. Working as a high class escort, I wouldn’t call my job just a something I do for money.  I feel excited every time I come to meet my client and when from the very first moment, I can see this big “wow” in his eyes. It’s my biggest motivation to do my best to leave him dazzled.

    How Is The Escorting Industry In Warsaw & Poland?

     A huge majority of escorts ads you can find in Warsaw (in fact in the whole Poland) are posted by agencies and just pretend to be private. Obviously, the lower the price is, the smaller is the chance to meet a nice girl, at least similar to the one on photos. But even if you’ve decided to accept a higher price – it may not save you from the agencies tricks, when they simply send to you their first available girl.  So if you’ll hear, “I can be at your place in 30-40 minutes”, you better be  careful.

    Still, not many girls in Poland decide work for themselves and  it’s quite easy to verify – independent escorts should have their own website or Twitter/IG profile.  It also takes more time to make a booking, as a deposit is often required and rates might be higher than average. Anyway – it reflects in the quality, as every escort works for their own reputation and prefers to meet regular clients.

    Reasons Men Seek The Girlfriend Experience

    A typical escort service is all about relieving  a sexual tension. Simple, quick and fair transaction. However, not for those gentlemen who expects some other kind of intimacy – together with affection and sensitivity, and who want to have a meeting with woman, not only for the woman’s body . At the same time, they want to keep things away from making a relationship.

    Choosing a GFE service is a perfectly safe option, as a “controlled date”. In addition, comparing to dating apps,  you don’t need to worry if it’s gonna end in your bedroom.

    What Makes Me An Ideal GFE Companion

    What I find best in the GFE is that it lets you to build a short-time close and sexy relation with the other person in a very natural way. I like people and I love to listen – as a bonus, my clients are usually fascinating people with amazing stories to share!  Conversation also gives enough time to find out more about my partner needs, and to seduce in the way that let him believes, that it’s him who seduced me.

    I called the relations “short-time”, but in fact there’s no need to rush. Personally I think, that one hour GFE meeting wouldn’t make any sense, so I don’t provide it.  My regular clients propositions are usually longer stays, like overnight, weekends somewhere far away from the city, or invitations to be their travel companion during a short holiday. I’ve been told its because I’m that smiling and easy to be with type of women, who can easily adjust to her partner.

    Best Duration To Enjoy Warsaw Together

    Dinner dates and overnight stays – that’s what I enjoy the most. Both time (evening) and place (restaurant or cocktail bar – there’s a really big choice of good places to go in Warsaw) are much more natural scenery for chat and flirt than a hotel room.

    Etiquette Gentlemen Must Follow

    I’m pretty lucky to meet on my way, mostly a 100% gentlemen. I really select my clients from the first message they send. It’s simply because if one’s behaviour will ever start make me feel uncomfortable, I would decide to leave from the date – it’s just not worth wasting my nerves. What I definitely don’t accept is the lack of discretion, being rude, loud or aggressive. Also asking about discounts or possibility to pay after the meeting.

    How To Impress Me

    As much, I want my clients to enjoy our time together, as much I appreciate effort they put into preparing a perfect date. Even the smallest things matters – flowers or following my cuisine preferences while choosing  a restaurant surely, then surely a romantic weekend in SPA or small gift, like piece of jewelry, can make me wanna go extra mile. But here’s the simple truth – if  you want me to be a woman of your dreams, then make me feel like I’m one.

    Bettie Golden – Polish high class companion, independent GFE expert in Warsaw, open-minded lover of both – gents and ladies. Question, that I hate the most as a SW is “Do you have any job?”. In my retirement I’ll be travelling even more, than I do now.

    Follow Bettie on

    Website: https://www.marvelousbettiegolden.com/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/GoldenBettie

    In 2021 I’m available for meetings only till August 8th.

    Images courtesy of Bettie Golden

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  • Why You Should Enjoy Greece With A Companion

    Why You Should Enjoy Greece With A Companion

    My personal views of companionship is that it’s a real job that is not only about sex as most people have in mind. Most of the companions are independent women who do everything by themselves, and have degrees. Being a companionship is not about just sex but conversation and emotional bonding.

    Meanwhile, you have to take care of and run your website, do advertising, photoshoots and all the PR and marketing of your business by your own. For sure it needs more than just a “nice” body to be successful.

    What My Personality Is Like

    My personality, I would describe it as bubbly, laid back, with me being passionate for all the things I love. And also having a big sense of humor .

    The Best Duration & Time To Enjoy Greece With Me

    Most of the people think that the best duration and time to visit Greece is in summer because of the Greek Islands like Mykonos that you can party or relax in a private villa and visit all the nice beaches and Michelin restaurants.

    Also, Athens is a wonderful destination for both summer and winter, giving so many options for someone that wants to explore it with a sexy companion by his side.

    Common Requests I Receive & My Specialty As A Companion

    Common requests are dinner dates or overnights from men that want to spend quality time. Also FMTY (fly me to you) in their business trips or just for a mini vacation.

    My specialty is the GFE (girlfriend experience) as it can transform effortlessly from the fun girl next door to the dressed-to-kill stunner in your arm with an appreciation for champagne and a Michelin dinner, as the occasion may require.

    Etiquette & Rules To Follow During Our Time Together

    My etiquette is that I require good hygiene, respect my boundaries and never make me uncomfortable or feeling disrespectful. And also, I don’t support reviews as I believe that anything that happens between me and my client is strictly private.

    Leslie Laurent – Your Greek muse. Elegant, luxurious, bright, steadfast, and loving.

    Follow Leslie Laurent on

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/leslielaurentt

    Website: https://www.leslie-laurent.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leslielaurentt/

    Article images courtesy of Leslie Laurent

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  • What It’s Like To Be A Provider

    What It’s Like To Be A Provider

    Companionship is a mutually beneficial opportunity for people to connect in person to do basically whatever floats your boat.  It is good company, lively conversation, cocktails in hand in the company of a sensual young lady wanting to show you a fun time.  Life can be a whirlwind in the city that never sleeps.  How lucky am I to get to be the girl who slows down time, chats about everything or nothing and makes sure you have the time of your life?

    How The Idea Of Being A Provider Came To Me

    I have always been attracted to men older than me.  I was online dating and swiping professionally secure gentlemen.  They were often busy with their careers and children.  That was fine by me as I’m distracted by school and friends right now.  It only made sense to monetize what I am most passionate about.  I’ve always been very sensual.  I enjoy and crave sex.  Frankly I’ve received very positive feedback even before entering the world of escorting. Now I’m able to enjoy the company of true gentlemen and experience a high-end lifestyle while doing what I’m most passionate about.

    To be honest, escorting came very naturally to me.  I was already dating distinguished men.  That along with my sexual nature gave me the confidence to be successful.  I suppose I had the most amount of nervousness with my very first date as I rode the elevator to his hotel room.  Once in the room he began making small talk and starting fussing with the radio and walking around showing me every corner of his space.  I quickly realized he was the nervous one and invited him to the sofa to enjoy a glass of wine with me.  I can always tell when it is someone’s first time and try extra hard to make him or her feel at ease with me.

    Challenges I Face Most Being A Provider

    I want to start by saying I absolutely love and am proud to be part of the sex work industry.  Anything you do in life always comes with it’s own challenges. Mine include a minor but manageable few.  My clients are very busy professionals and I am sensitive to that.  It is tricky however when I am given less than a day notice.  I am completely understanding that the thought to find a date can be sporadic or even last minute.  It does not make our logistics any easier though.  I show up showered, dressed in high-end classy sexy professional attire, makeup, manicure, pedicure, hair done and all items needed.  It takes a lot of time to prepare and longer if I need to travel to you.

    I once had someone give me 13 minutes notice and I was an hour and a half away from his requested location.  I would have loved to meet this person if only I had at very least 24 hours notice.  On the flip side I have gone through all of said steps only for the client(s) not to show.  I do not give those gents a second chance on a date particularly if I found a place to stay unnecessarily.  I often get what I refer to as time wasters. These may consist of folks who never had any intention of seeing me, spend a lot of time texting anything other than logistics, and those who continuously ask for more and more photos.

    I have plenty of very recent professional photos on my website and social media or OnlyFans if you’re even more curious.  😉  The more notice given, the more screening info provided and the more you give the impression you will be kind and safe will likely lead to a fun and relaxed first date.

    Managing My Personal Life As A Provider

    Managing time as a provider is a bit tricky because there is no real set schedule.  My regulars reach out to me when they’re in town and I do my best to see them.  For this reason I am not able to work a traditional 9-5.  I have just enough time to be a successful student, spend time with my gents (sometimes ladies) and any free time I keep balance by visiting friends and family.  If I ever say no to a date it’s simply because I can’t.  Organization is crucial.  I take what I do very seriously.

    From an emotional perspective I think it is very very important that sex workers have a confidant they can talk to.  This work has many benefits and has allowed me to truly be myself. It also comes with a unique set of challenges. Unlike other professions, most of us providers choose not to share the good, the bad and the in-between with friends and family. I can’t imagine it’s healthy to hold all that inside.  Experience has given me the confidence to trust in myself.  I have gotten to a point where I have created equal balance in the amount of work I am doing.

    What Should Gentlemen Who Have Never Engaged A Provider Before Know & Behave?

    Thank you for asking!  First of all, clients should know that it is completely normal to feel nervous especially on our first date.  While I wouldn’t call myself nervous, there is always that initial meet and greet butterflies.  It is very important to me that a gentleman (or lady) does their homework before meeting me.  Proper etiquette and donation amount are clearly written on my website.

    Bonus points to the gents who research even further online or through a friend about how to treat a provider particularly if it’s your first time.  For example, as a provider I want to offer an optimum girlfriend experience.  This is very important to me. During our time I want you to feel cared for, sensual and listened to.  For that reason, it is mandatory your donation for our time together is left in an envelope in the bathroom.  A key ingredient to ensuring a fun and mutually beneficial relationship is to treat your provider with kindness and respect and it will be reciprocated.

    Initial contact with me (texting or email only) should reflect true gentleman behavior just like in the civvy dating world.  If you begin a text with “hey baby” or explicit requests or request we “party” together please understand I cannot / will not respond.  An ideal client will show up with asked for donation without negotiation.  While tipping and gifts are not mandatory I have been grateful for the fair amount of gents who go above and beyond to be generous.  It is always appreciated and likely to ensure future dates. 🙂

    I arrive to our date freshly showered and groomed.  Like all providers, I do expect my gents to arrive with the same attention to hygiene.  You are welcome to use my shower before and after our date within the allotted time.  Speaking of time, we have a reserved time slot for a reason.  It means (like you) I probably have somewhere else to be afterwards … either professional or personal.  Either way please be respectful of time.  I will surely not waste yours. 😉 When I visit Disney World, I would never ask Mickey Mouse to remove his mask.  In the same regard, I kindly ask not to engage in conversation that breaks the fourth wall.  For example, “what is your real name?”  Let’s simply enjoy Disney World!

    Please accept all of the above as means to a great time together as opposed to a list of no’s.  With mutual respect and fairness to one another, a sexy evening will feel fun and organic.

    Something My Clients Should Know About Me

    I truly believe what separates me from most other providers is my open minded, non-judgmental, and adventurous views of sex.  During our date, I can guarantee a true girlfriend experience. I’m an excellent listener and affectionate. Please don’t underestimate my girl next-door appearance or shy demeanor.

    For example, I’ve always enjoyed giving oral to completion.  My gents have been extraordinarily complimentary. 😉 Toys always add a little spice to our fun.  I have experience with girls, couples, and transsexuals.  I love it when my dates feel comfortable enough opening up to me allowing us to explore together.

    Corinne Reilly – Hi!  I am Corinne Reilly from Manhattan. You can often find me in NYC and spend quite a bit of my summers in CT.  When my nose isn’t in school books I love to travel and grab cocktails with my girlfriends.  Let’s be adventurous together!

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    Twitter: www.twitter.com/CorinneReillyNY

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    You can also find me on Slixa, Eros and Tryst!

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    Aug 12-13 NYC
    Aug 19 NYC
    Aug 20 CT casino area.

    August 26-27 NYC

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  • Why Every Men Should Try The Girlfriend Experience

    Why Every Men Should Try The Girlfriend Experience

    Life should be all about exploring and making the most of the sensual pleasures world has to offer. What can be better than that? Sharing it with someone you can connect with.

    What The Girlfriend Experience Means To Me

    I see the Girlfriend Experience as, perhaps, the more specialized sex work service. Our job is to make our clients feel so relaxed, so comfortable, that they forget they’re in a paid service.

    Why I’m The Perfect Companion

    Just as the GFE can be the perfect service for the client, it can be the perfect job for the companion. Through my website and social media, I share a part of who I am. When someone sees it and feels somehow attracted, we can probably share good moments together. However, that’s why finding the perfect Girlfriend Experience for you could take time too. Every GFE companion has her own personality which is intrinsically linked to the way she understands and offers her services. Do your research, it will be well worth it 😉

    Personally, I love to work as a GFE companion simply because it’s so rewarding to make people happy.

    Why Is The GFE Popular?

    The common reasons I hear from men and women who experience the GFE is intimacy, to be able to trust someone and express themselves freely in a safe space in which there’s no judgement and no pressures of any kind.

    Misconceptions About The GFE

    Although it is popular in the media, people often get confused with the meaning of the acronym of Girlfriend Experience, specially when they’re not English speakers.

    Lena Cristina – I am the cutie redhead you saw that day. I am your charming, beautiful, girlfriend experience waiting for you in the sunny Barcelona.

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    Twitter: https://twitter.com/LenaCristinaBcn

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    Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/lenacristina

    These days I’m working on finishing my first book, a poetry book, which will be available first for my Patreon followers.

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  • What Is The Kinky GFE?

    What Is The Kinky GFE?

    The kinky GFE is the most sensual and sweet twist of BDSM, it is the quintessential spicing things up in a setting that still has a sweet, vanilla taste undertone; while I’d define sensual domination as a pungent BDSM flavour mixed with classic eroticism.

    To me, sex feels like dreaming somehow, like being in a different, freer space, where connections are very strong and raw. Sex is an essential part of my way of expressing myself and exploring connections. It is a side of me that is intimate and different from everyday life, and at the same time is vital.

    The GFE & Why It Is Popular

    The Girlfriend Experience is the idealised and unearthly girlfriend of your dreams, and why not? It is everything that you ever wanted from an amour, the connection, the hot sex, the fine dining after visiting an exhibition together. And if you are curious about kink, someone who has more expertise but who also enjoys the sensual and erotic moreover than the purely psychological.

    Some Ways To Kink Up The GFE?

    Tease and denial: look your partner in the eyes, give them so much pleasure that it almost brings them over, but retain control: don’t let them topple over (note: or: “to enjoy” would sound better?) just yet. They are in your hands, and the longer the game lasts, the more you will see them turn into luscious jelly.

    Also: foot fetish, a favourite of mine, having your partner kneeling in front of you, pacing it slowly by starting with a massage, then just smelling your beautiful feet, and gently kissing them…

    A great classic is to blindfold and gently restrain your partner, heightening their sensations and playing with the senses.

    Safe Kinky GFE Play For All

    As usual, consent and communication are the keys. Establishing safe words can also be liberating as they give a very quick and unequivocal communication; I really like the light system: where “yellow” means go on, but adjust a bit, and “red” is a clear: stop now.

    Another sure way is just to enjoy each others with your hands, whispering your fantasies to one another: playing with words can be so vivid…

    Arazatah – Arazatah’s total black, straight from Milan style encases a vintage hourglass figure and a sweet personality that is fulfilled in sensual domination and lovely vanilla GFE. Highly educated, this edgy Italian amour will seduce you to create unforgettable moments.

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    Instagram: https://instagram.com/arazatah_

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/arazatah

    Usually in London, sometimes in Milan. January in Italy, 29/01-3/02 in Paris, back in London in February

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  • How To Have A Successful GFE

    How To Have A Successful GFE

    Sex as we know it, is a highly physical interaction between two or more people who share the common interest in the act of it. Although sometimes given a very vague definition by society, sex plays an important role in our lives as social beings.

    I personally enjoy sex and I love to indulge in its various forms. I believe in having the freedom to express your sexual desires without inhibitions. Sometimes I wish that we speak about sex more openly. Once everyone realizes that it’s not something we should be ashamed of, I believe that we will have a wider and more extensive understanding of the need for physical human connection. This will then help us break differential barriers and the stigma that surrounds sexuality, gender identity, and even the world of sex work.

    If we keep a more open mind as to how we achieve pleasure through connection, we’ll have a greater understanding of one another. It will help expand our horizons and help us understand our constant need to express affection— which if you ask me, is the most complex yet most beautiful part of our life.

    Why Do Clients Want The GFE

    GFE means Girlfriend Experience and just from its definition we can already see why it’s popular in the world of companionship. I can’t speak for other providers but from my knowledge of the industry, GFE is the most popular request and it’s because of the dynamics involved during the session. When a client requests for it, it’s my job to make sure that the whole experience is as comfortable and as welcoming as it can possibly be. It involves assuming the “girlfriend” role and playing the part as organically as I can. The fantasy offers the client a chance to feel the special bond that two people share in a relationship. The main key to this experience is to be as real as you can. Sometimes this means that you get to know your clients on a more personal level therefore deepening your mutual understanding with them.

    Clients often desire this experience because it offers the most important part of every interaction. Connection. Often, clients will tell me that the sex is just the cherry on top of the sundae because connection is more important to them. Without it, the whole session is pointless. It has no substance, no meaning.

    Personally, I enjoy the GFE because I get the chance to connect with my clients on a more intimate level, therefore elevating our sexual experiences. There’s no better feeling for me as a provider than instantly finding a commonality between me and my client and the GFE is the best way to achieve it.

    What Is Considered A Successful GFE?

    Every encounter will be different because every client expects different things but a successful GFE session is definitely achievable. To me this means that I was able to cater to my client from the first point of contact  until  we give each other a kiss goodbye.

    Every encounter starts from the moment the client reaches out to book a date. I make sure to reply to their inquiry as soon as I can and make sure to answer any questions they may have. This also gives me a chance to speak to my potential clients about my services and the restrictions I have in place. This ensures that there will be no conflict during our date and it it gives us a great understanding of what we both expect during our time together. Once this is done, you can almost always expect that the session will go well.

    Location plays a big part in making sure that you get a successful GFE session. I personally host from a more comfortable incall like an airbnb or short term rental condo unit because I believe that it helps ease the client into a more homely vibe. It also provides a bit of privacy compared to hotels. Clients value the extra step you take to make sure that they are in a safe environment. Plus, he’s supposed to be visiting his girlfriend after all. Having fun in her place, in her room, and on her bed feels a lot more real than a hotel suite.

    When the time comes for us to finally meet, I make sure to open the door in my best lingerie. This shows the client that you put an effort into making sure you look your best for him. A good welcome hug helps nervous clients calm down and more excited  ones to get a chance to express their enthusiasm to meet you.

    I often ask my client to have a seat with in my living room for a little chat before we start. Getting to know each other in person helps us establish connection before we have some fun. Once we proceed to the bedroom, I choose to be a more passionate lover. I take things slow and take my time with my client. I get to know their body and what turns them on. For me, making out is essential. Teasing and foreplay is a must. I like to build the anticipation for a greater orgasmic reward later on. After sex, I like to chat while cuddling. Often, I talk to my client about how our intimate session was. I ask questions on things I can improve or moments that drove him crazy during our time that he would love to repeat for next time. This helps you formulate a more personal interaction with your client for when he comes back.

    Once the date has come to an end, I make sure to send my clients with a warm farewell hug and kiss, leaving a lasting impression. Then, just to make sure he knows I’m still thinking about him, I send him a message to let him know how much I enjoyed our session and that I would love to see him again. Your client will love you for that and that’s because you showed him that you have him in your mind. That’s sexy.

    Again, it’s different for everyone but this is my basic definition of a successful GFE.

    How To Experience A Successful GFE

    It’s hard to ensure anything during a session but with communication it’s possible to set yourself up for success. I personally developed a way to read clients through our conversations prior the appointment. This proves quite difficult if you’re new to the industry because it takes some time to familiarize yourself on how to read people. I take note of certain requests and how my client is coming across through his messages.

    It helps me see a little bit of his personality and I use that little bit of information to help me prepare for our date. If I encounter some trouble trying to read him, I often just ask questions. It’s better to know what they like than to guess during the session. Different clients, different needs but they often look for one common thing which is connection. If I can provide that for them, I’m sure everything else will fall into place.

    How Does The GFE Evolve?

    There is no perfect formula for this but I find it helps me when I piece together their story. The more you see your client regularly, the more you get to know him. This usually means that you both will share his life experiences during conversations and perhaps even a little bit of yours. This can only be achieved if your client finds that he can trust you. Yes. Trust. It has a very big role in your relationship with your client.

    As a companion, I value trust more than anything. It will bring you a long way. Although very important, trust doesn’t always just mean respect for privacy. If your client trusts you, he will be willing to explore new things with you. You can both be adventurous with your encounters. You can bring them to the edge of their sexual desires if they know you’re putting their best interest at heart. This then will ensure that things will be kept interesting and that no encounter is ever the same. It keeps them guessing and wanting more. Personally, I enjoy this dance with my client’s mind. I find satisfaction in helping him discover new things about himself that he never knew before. Quite honestly, this works both ways as I find myself getting surprised by my personal sexual discoveries as well. It’s a perfect way for both of you to explore each other. This can take some work from your end because you have to constantly learn new ways to bring forth pleasure.

    One thing I can say is that I find most clients enjoy the orgasms you cause in their mind than the ones you cause in their pants. A simple way to try this out is by surprising them with your looks and outfits. Be unpredictable with your hair, make up, and even your sexual personas. One day be a girl next door, the next be a sexy secretary, then be total goddess. An unpredictable girl is very sexy.

    Asia Mendez – I live a positive life, possess a positive mind, and create positive vibes. I am fearless to say that I am in pursuit of what sets your soul on fire. I want to be the first thing you touch in the morning and the last taste of ecstasy that you have at night. I present a highly sensual, supremely confident, and alluring experience — offering endless pleasures and a chance for adventures.

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    Current tour: Vancouver March 1st -10th.

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  • What Is The Girlfriend Experience Like

    What Is The Girlfriend Experience Like

    To me, the girlfriend experience is the connection and rapport you have with someone. To have fun, talk and connect sexually and physically. It’s a great experience for me because it adds another level to our time together.

    GFE Misconceptions

    I think the biggest misconception about the GFE is it stands for kissing and OWO. It’s a much bigger experience than just that.

    Appeal Of The GFE

    My clients choose a GFE because they want total relaxation and enjoyment. Our time together should flow naturally and enjoyably, without the feeling you’re paying a lady to be with you.

    What Is Important For A Successful GFE

    For a lady to make the GFE successful, you are naturally warm, attentive and personable. To take real enjoyment out of what you’re doing and experiencing.

    Lauren Banks – Experienced high end Escort Companion. I am naturally a very warm and attentive person, my touch is soft and gentle; making the most of every moment and taking exquisite care in giving and receiving pleasures!

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